Im a dude I can't show vulnerability or weakness I must stay strong and never show that I'm sad or tired and always be powerful and always be able to provide. I must not show weakness
That's how shit expectations are. That's the most unrealistic shit I've ever heard. Showing your feelings, crying it out makes you stronger. It shows that you have a heart, and that you're willing to let out your emotions without fearing people will judge you. Being a man is no different to being a woman really. Just be yourself. And let it all out. Trust me.
Hey, I have a boyfriend who’s like this. Luckily I’ve made him feel comfortable with emotions and he’s been so much better. The world’s expectations are brutal, I promise you there is/will be some who can see right through you. It’ll be okay.
I would never may a guy feel like he has to be strong all the time. It would be worried if my bf didn’t show emotions. HUMANS have emotions and that is just the truth. And it it totally ok.
Just a reminder that it’s okay. It’s okay to feel depressed ❤️ It’s okay to have anxiety 🧡 It’s okay to overthink 💛 It’s okay to be suicidal 💚 It’s okay to be missing somebody 💙 It’s okay to cry 💜 It doesn’t matter your gender, you disability, your age, your sexuality or anything. ITS OKAY Blank space for anybody who needs it ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Vent here if you need to ❤️❤️
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is. Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. I am sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words :) Until tomorrow, my friend :)
my bf enced his life 5 days ago, and its js so hard to live without him. And the thing is my parents didnt know I was in a relationship so I cant talk ti them abt it. And I js miss him so much, i miss his smile, his eyes, his freckles, his laugh, his voice, his hair, his smell, his presence in general. I cant go to his funeral bc we were long distanc, and we're both still teens with strict parents in top of that. So js really dont know what to do with my life rn bc if I go back to my old ways I'll lose all my progress, leave the only true friends I've ever had and be a burden to my family. But I can still feel my happiness and will to live slowly disappearing day by day.
@@Charlie-q9i it's going to be ok ml I understand how it feels not entirely no one will ever know how you actually feel but I can relate a tiny bit I've had people kill themselves in my arms it hurts so bad and you will feel lost and lonely for like forever but you will always find a way to get better it's gonna make you go insane or want to hurt yourself but that pain will leave if you just find your crowd and they will start putting back the scattered pieces of your life and your brain and you need to talk to someone about it who can help but i promise you it's ok to have a slip and hurt your if that's what you mean as long as it keeps you alive it's always better it's gonna be ok you just have to trust ok ml? ❤️🔥
Now I feel like everyone's ignoring me. In the words of Olivia Rodrigo, " I'm on the outside of the greatest inside joke" even the fact that no one responded just makes me question my existence. I feel like I am invisible every where I go
@@LoonyLoonyLovegood oh poor baby it's gonna be alright I know if hurts but people do see you, and you will find the right people to be around it might take a while but having 1 or 2 best friends who stay with you and that you can trust is better then a group, it's gonna be ok❤️🔥
I’m venting here bc I know that if I vent anywhere see nobody will respond or even care. I hadn’t called my bestie for ages and we finally did tonight. She apologised for not calling me as much and kinda ignoring me. All this time I blamed her and thought she hated me. Now I know that it wasn’t her fault. I started crying as soon as we hung up. The only way I coped with not calling her is by calling my other friend. The other comfort person. I feel so bad for my bestie. I don’t want to loose her… Also today I was feeling very weird. Like I’d drift in and out of reality. I didn’t speak much to my friends bc I didn’t feel very real.
Yes ik I’m FAT and UGLY and HEVE PIMPLES and HEVE CROOKED TEETH and HAVE DARK DARK DARK DARK BROWN EYES and DARK HAIR COLOR and ik I LOOK UGLY and IK I’m not YOURE FRIEND,and ik THAT I’M NOT THE BEST but YOU DONT HAVE TO PICK ON MY INSECURITIES AND MY BODY AND SA EVERY SINCE I WAS 2AND A HALF TILL I AS 10 YEARS OLD ! I DINT DESERVE SH*T
Im a dude I can't show vulnerability or weakness I must stay strong and never show that I'm sad or tired and always be powerful and always be able to provide. I must not show weakness
That's how shit expectations are. That's the most unrealistic shit I've ever heard. Showing your feelings, crying it out makes you stronger. It shows that you have a heart, and that you're willing to let out your emotions without fearing people will judge you. Being a man is no different to being a woman really. Just be yourself. And let it all out. Trust me.
Cry. Just cry.
It's ok.
We love you (not in a weird way)
We're here to support you
Hey, I have a boyfriend who’s like this. Luckily I’ve made him feel comfortable with emotions and he’s been so much better. The world’s expectations are brutal, I promise you there is/will be some who can see right through you. It’ll be okay.
I would never may a guy feel like he has to be strong all the time. It would be worried if my bf didn’t show emotions. HUMANS have emotions and that is just the truth. And it it totally ok.
Just a reminder that it’s okay.
It’s okay to feel depressed ❤️
It’s okay to have anxiety 🧡
It’s okay to overthink 💛
It’s okay to be suicidal 💚
It’s okay to be missing somebody 💙
It’s okay to cry 💜
It doesn’t matter your gender, you disability, your age, your sexuality or anything. ITS OKAY
Blank space for anybody who needs it ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Vent here if you need to ❤️❤️
Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is.
Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
I am sorry you feel misunderstood.
But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it.
And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you.
I hope you will remember my words :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
This made me cry😭
THANK YOU!
Vent here👇 (it's gonna be ok my loves I know it's hard right now but it's gonna get better I promise ❤️🔥)
my bf enced his life 5 days ago, and its js so hard to live without him. And the thing is my parents didnt know I was in a relationship so I cant talk ti them abt it. And I js miss him so much, i miss his smile, his eyes, his freckles, his laugh, his voice, his hair, his smell, his presence in general. I cant go to his funeral bc we were long distanc, and we're both still teens with strict parents in top of that. So js really dont know what to do with my life rn bc if I go back to my old ways I'll lose all my progress, leave the only true friends I've ever had and be a burden to my family. But I can still feel my happiness and will to live slowly disappearing day by day.
@@Charlie-q9i it's going to be ok ml I understand how it feels not entirely no one will ever know how you actually feel but I can relate a tiny bit I've had people kill themselves in my arms it hurts so bad and you will feel lost and lonely for like forever but you will always find a way to get better it's gonna make you go insane or want to hurt yourself but that pain will leave if you just find your crowd and they will start putting back the scattered pieces of your life and your brain and you need to talk to someone about it who can help but i promise you it's ok to have a slip and hurt your if that's what you mean as long as it keeps you alive it's always better it's gonna be ok you just have to trust ok ml? ❤️🔥
@@AlexAllyn thank you. I really needed to hear that💜
Now I feel like everyone's ignoring me. In the words of Olivia Rodrigo, " I'm on the outside of the greatest inside joke" even the fact that no one responded just makes me question my existence. I feel like I am invisible every where I go
@@LoonyLoonyLovegood oh poor baby it's gonna be alright I know if hurts but people do see you, and you will find the right people to be around it might take a while but having 1 or 2 best friends who stay with you and that you can trust is better then a group, it's gonna be ok❤️🔥
16:41 I wish my mom was like hers😢
It just made me cry for no reason
i physically need people to like me.
How's everyone feeling ?
Sad ? Angry ? Happy ?
Vent here if needed
I’m venting here bc I know that if I vent anywhere see nobody will respond or even care.
I hadn’t called my bestie for ages and we finally did tonight. She apologised for not calling me as much and kinda ignoring me. All this time I blamed her and thought she hated me. Now I know that it wasn’t her fault. I started crying as soon as we hung up. The only way I coped with not calling her is by calling my other friend. The other comfort person. I feel so bad for my bestie. I don’t want to loose her…
Also today I was feeling very weird. Like I’d drift in and out of reality. I didn’t speak much to my friends bc I didn’t feel very real.
@@Maybeobsessedit’ll be okay darling, I can promise you that.
Yes ik I’m FAT and UGLY and HEVE PIMPLES and HEVE CROOKED TEETH and HAVE DARK DARK DARK DARK BROWN EYES and DARK HAIR COLOR and ik I LOOK UGLY and IK I’m not YOURE FRIEND,and ik THAT I’M NOT THE BEST but YOU DONT HAVE TO PICK ON MY INSECURITIES AND MY BODY AND SA EVERY SINCE I WAS 2AND A HALF TILL I AS 10 YEARS OLD ! I DINT DESERVE SH*T
Oml I’m sorry you had to go through that bb just so you know I LOVE YOU!!🫶🏻
@@Koriewoods (: thanks that rlly made my day today (:
@@Aisha-o3b8v you’re welcome and just so you know you can always come to this video and vent to me anytime
@@Koriewoods okay but it’s wont annoy you?
@@Aisha-o3b8v ofc not!🫶🏻