John Cena to Nikki Bella: "I Will Give You a Child" | Total Bellas | E!
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
- The WWE Superstar drops a bombshell on Nikki when he agrees to become a father, so as not to lose the love of his life. See the big moment on "Total Bellas".
#TotalBellas #EEntertainment #BellaTwins
SUBSCRIBE: bit.ly/Eentsub
About Total Bellas:
“Total Bellas” gives viewers an exclusive, intimate look into the VIP lives of WWE stars Nikki and Brie Bella beyond the ring.
Connect with the Total Bellas:
Visit the Total Bellas WEBSITE: www.eonline.com...
Like Total Bellas on FACEBOOK: / totalbellas
Follow Total Bellas on TWITTER: / total_bellas
Follow Total Bellas on Instagram: www.instagram....
About E! Entertainment:
E! is on the Pulse of Pop Culture, bringing fans the very best original content including reality series, topical programming, exclusive specials, breaking entertainment news, and more. Passionate viewers can’t get enough of our Pop Culture hits including "Keeping Up with the Kardashians," "Total Divas,” and “Very Cavallari.” And with new original programming on the way, fans have even more to love.
Watch Total Bellas only on E!
Watch Full Episodes: e.app.link/XG6...
Connect with E! Entertainment:
Visit the E! WEBSITE: eonli.ne/1iX6d8n
Like E! on FACEBOOK: eonli.ne/facebook
Check out E! on INSTAGRAM: / eentertainment
Follow E! on TWITTER: / eentertainment
Follow E! on Spotify: eonli.ne/spotify
John Cena to Nikki Bella: "I Will Give You a Child" | Total Bellas | E!
/ eentertainment
They both wanted this relationship to work, SO BADLY, but this is just proof that Love alone isn't enough. You HAVE to want the same things out of life.
Maria Arreola 💯
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Say it again for the people in the back!!
I understand Nikki wanting kids but at least John is thinking about a hypothetical kid. With him being so busy working in his career, he doesn't want the kid to have an absentee parent.
Jenny Pierre L
Exodus 3:14 a 5 to 6 year relationship isn’t desperation my dear.
This dude has the military mentality when it comes to relationship
Khoa Do true
Man has never been to the army but is as stiff as a stick xD
He did go to military school tho
I'm military and I've seen a lot of dudes screw someone in a fan room and then go kiss their wives on the pier. Not a good comparison, but I know what you mean
@@jmosworld332 nah
Awwwww and she said “to teach HIM” and she is having a boy 😩♥️♥️♥️♥️
Omg 😭♥️♥️
I know 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Yea❤️❤️❤️😫😫😢😢😢😢I'm just sad all over again
Awe she predicted the future 😭
They eventually had a son?
It is not right for them to be together. John does not want a child. It's awful to hear 'I will make that sacrifice for you'. Imagine that child hearing that years later. I'm glad they are both with other people.
If her baby is a girl she could use this video to teach her what type of man to not date.
@HOW DARE YOU that's a first.
You are mad the man have come to a conclusion the he will have a child
@@pbjunior6955 that is very true you know. Thank you .
HOW DARE YOU yeah but she thought she could make the sacrifice. And after so many years, she realized she can’t and they both don’t want to leave each other because they love each other so much. Sadly things change
As a father or a mother you must be 100% committed to having and loving a child. It’s not fair on the child.
The Creepiest Of Pasta Agreed. Nikki and John gotta committ 100% on this if they WANT to have a baby. Things won't work between them if there is a broken family if they decide to divorce later in life and the child is in the middle of it.
Who says they are not committed?
asian dude John when he says it’s a sacrifice.
The Creepiest Of Pasta what he means is a sacrifice for his career. He wants to be able to be there for his child. So that means hes definitely gonna retire soon. Remember hes been at this longer than Daniel Bryan, who left Birdie and Bri at home to go back and wrestle cause hes selfish
Trucker Adam C. No he means he doesn’t want to be a father but he is sacrificing his desire to not be a father
She said 'him' and now her first child with Artem is a boy! The way things work out in the end. So happy for Nikki :)
Thats a blessing with God. He heard her cry and now she is having a baby boy
@@samariahamilton9507 you're on crack
@@nospoontobend2656 nah he’s just speaking facts
@@aaronroberts7661 i assure you Nikki aint talking to God
@@nospoontobend2656 mhm okay bud
Why is he acting like he's the one giving birth lol.
usher luck dude you seriously think Nikki Bella needs John cena financially wtf😂 “poorer of the two” bwahaha
Thing that everyone over looks is they think Cena is just directly talking about having a child being the sacrifice that he would've made but what is over looked is the Sacrifice he more so is talking about is the surgery he would've had to get in order to have a child because he got a vasectomy and would have to get that undone to have kids
@@forgotmyname2462 she kinda does
usher luck there both rich lmao wwe stars make good money and she had a lot of money because of wwe and the two shows she’s on total Bella’s and she was on total divas too
Welll tbh cena would pay that hefty child support smart man
having children is a blessing not a sacrifice
tine143 444 it’s kind of both tbh especially in the crazy industry they r in
Nah, not for everyone.
It's both. Do you know how much you have to sacrifice to have a kid in your life? A lot. But it also changes you in ways that you learn to appreciate.
tine143 444 EXACTLY!!! it’s a blessing
asian dude that’s why it’s a blessing!!!
Who is here now after hearing Nikki Bella's pregenency
Rabeka Fahmida ME
Honestly she’s so fucken stupid to end up preggo by a nobody! And also her status she could’ve found someone better it’s like he fucked up her ego and now she’s probably preggo by a gay man dancer
Rabeka Fahmida me lol 😂
Jenny what is wrong with you? her fiancé isn’t gay. Who tf cares if he’s a nobody ,which he isn’t he’s an amazing dancer and a good guy to nikki and she’s super happy and excited to finally be a mom.
Jenny That’s not true she is way more happy with her fiancé know then she was ever with when she was with John let the woman be happy she is going to have child which she has wanted for so long and he is not gay if a boy dances does. Not mean he is gay so think before you comment
It should not be seen as a *sacrifice.* The fact he STILL sees it as something he is sacrificing, is a major red flag to me.
Shiv Andrews Same. Like I don't want a child with someone who is seeing it as a loss or unhappy thing like that's what a sacrifice is and it should be looked at as a gain and a joy.
jasmine fields what u ona bwt, she was gunna sacrifice John if she didnt get a baby 😂
Shiv Andrews exactly
exactly it's so selfish he only wants a child to keep her around ???? she deserves better
Well put. Personally i wouldnt want to have a child with someone who wants to have one just to keep me sweet, it has to be something both parties want. When she is stuck around being the loving domesticated wife taking care of the home and kids and hes away all the time working and living his own life wondering why hes not being more of an active father she will eventually grow to resent him.
He speaks like such a lawyer! “So what you just said across the table “ 😂😂😂😂
The suit as well adds to it lol
It’s so hard. That relationship was so sad. I can honestly see the love, but they were too different and wanted different things in life. Sometimes you lose yourself trying not to lose the one you love. They could have worked it out, but love shouldn’t be that hard. I think Nikki saw that. It’s just truly heartbreaking.
Hahaha! What?!?! 😂
"I'll give you a child"
He sounds like a Terminator trying to calculate human reproduction 😂
honestly he needs to be the terminator if they bring that movie back he should take that role
😭😭😭😂😂😂
Introverted Oreo I died on this comment, y’all hilarious!🤣
Introverted Oreo 😂🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂 wel said
Is anyone else here after she found out she is going to be having a son?! You said, him....ahh, she knew even back then!
Oh my Gosh!!! She said "him" wow!! This is unreal 🙌🏽😭
Lol. It's a coincidence. She had a 50/50 shot.
WHEN MOST PEOPLE TALK THEY SAY HIM BUT YEAH I GEUSS SHE KNOW
I feel like us girls already know what gender we want it to be wayyyy before it’s born ofc only the ones who want to become moms
@@dems5874 At least you didn't just assume every woman wants children because not all of us do.
This is what’s called a Toxic Relationship
Xem câu hỏi
Ok
That isn’t a toxic relationship
John is controlling! When Nikki said she has to be on eggshells around him, it broke my heart for her. You have to be yourself around the man you love! I’m so glad Brie set her straight on that. It’s not love if you are afraid of the person you are supposed to marry! Marriage is 50/50 not 80/20. I don’t care how many bags he buys you, the cars you drive, and the fancy home! It’s team work with both sacrificing. I’m glad this relationship tanked! It’s was one sided! John won all the time and he would buy her expensive gifts as a consolation prize.
@@JuiceJ443 i don't know if this i legit but john cena is an odc freak
Juilian and Janita Snead marriage is not 50/50 what world you living in it’s 80/20 for the man the man is head of the house hold he leads the wife
So robotic and no feeling ,"I will give you a child."
He is great actor
javier Gonzales He said he didn't want kids becuz if they do get married and have a child he afraid that they are gonna divorce and Nikki is just left out as a single parent
he’s on tv taking about a serious topic of course he’s all robotic
He talks to Nikki like she is a child
javier Gonzales yes it’s like, he/she ain’t going to be his child too, what does she like bout this man though, he looks so cold and boring
And 10 years from now she's gonna look back and say I'm so glad at me and John when our separate ways because I found my true love and the father my kids and I'm made the best decision by walking away
Kori Garbison you spoke this into existence
10 Years from now she and her new husband are prolly gonna get divorce
@MALVINDINHO and cena would be a Hollywood star
@@cuhkilla2103 exactly, she found her true Beta
Know she is having problems with Artem.
John Cena behaved very rude he thought that he's the only guy who getting Nikki pregnant but now Nikki is pregnant with Artem's child
He just communicates differently. I don’t think he was trying to be rude. He was just trying to express himself and understand where she is coming from as well. I like that he’s straight and to the point, no bs.
Rabeka Fahmida stfu
Ruth Ortiz stfu
I'm pretty sure he doesn't care.😂
Ruth Ortiz John upgraded from Nikki, He has been honest with Nikki since DAY 1
Did he he just say that? Why should having a child be a sacrifice. I'm worried that John will resent the child I pray that he loves it.
Edit:thanks for the likes!
He is sacrificing his will for hers. He is not ready to be a father but she has pressured him into it. She knows he wants to be with her but is giving him an ultimatum which is having a child. She's the one being selfish and manipulative. She was ready to leave the relationship based off of this. John Cena is the who is bending to her will, so yes he is sacrificing because he knows he isn't ready to be a father but she is giving him no options. She would move on from him just to be a mom on her own timing.
Ari, you are an idiot. She is not selfish for leaving the relationship when their lives are going in separate directions. She was being honest with him about how she felt and what was too much for her. He's the one being selfish because he wants to bring a baby into the world in order to not lose his fiance, which means he's going to destroy that child's life. It's honestly BETTER for the two of them if they separate. They aren't compatible. Part of compatibility is wanting the same things out of life and going in the same direction.
Ari Raphiel she was sacrificing everything in the relationship for over 5 years for him. The least he could do is give her kids.
she literally said she wants to have kids to spice things up. his response about boredom was spot on.
Shekinah Davis I feel that when they actually have the child he will have unconditional love for the baby.
Why is everyone taking it personally!? It’s not even your relationship 😂😂
ItsNathan CORRECT!!!
Because they have many young fans that will think that this is ok. "I'll give you a baby even though I don't want to be a parent just so that you won't leave me."
Somebody gets it. This is starting to sound like some kind of soap opera.
ItsNathan Because they're Drama Queens and they have to try and control everything and everyone 😂😂😂😂
ItsNathan so true people are so judgemental about others relationships 🤦♀️. The world we live in man😞😪
Terminator : I will be back
John cena : I will give you a child
lol😂😂😂😂
💔
Terminator: Hasta la vista Baby
John Cena: I do not wanta Baby
lmao 😂
"I will give you a child."
"We will have a baby, Nicole, I just don't feel ready to be a father yet."
Much more understandable.
Shatakshi Sinha No, that would be him manipulating her again. That’s what John does.
Usman Azam No he doesn’t . Justify your view point , Explan
I know I spelled explain wrong before
Shatakshi Sinha but doesn't he already have two sons???!?!!?!🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Shatakshi Sinha He is already a father! He already has children with someone else!
Gosh John makes everything so serious. He’s so intense.
Edit: I fully understand that talking about the future weather the conversation is about kids or your career is serious and sometimes tense. However some of you missed my point. My point was that he speaks to her like she’s a clueless delinquent and makes me feel like I’m watching a daughter and her dad decide about having babies.
Don’t comment if you don’t respect my opinion. I respect everyone else’s. Some of you are disgusting.
Naomi Evans-Wright true
Naomi Evans-Wright i know just make her happy
Naomi Evans-Wright i think he's just scared he won't be able to get the old hose workn cause all of the rrrrrrrrroids he's used
He’s so serious because he really does want a child now. He said he’s changed.
He is an odd person
After seeing series 4 and 5 of Total Bellas, I’m convinced that Nikki had already realised that John wasn’t the man she wanted to marry and that she already had feelings for Artem but waited, respectfully, for a period of time after splitting with John to officially start seeing Artem. The way John said ‘I’ll make the sacrifice and give you a child’, so cold. I’m so happy Nikki’s with Artem, you can feel the love 💕
Nikki literally predicted in this video that she was going to eventually one day have a son
I noticed that too! God already knew!
lmao she had a 50/50 either boy or girl, guess she guessed right LMAO
@@Jamezy316 right like it’s not that crazy
Why is he making it sound like a punishment??? This is what I hate. If you love someone, you know that TRULY loving them is by letting them be happy even if that means without you
Leticia Brown to him its probably was at the time like he lost a bit of himself. Hes giving in on every single point. I hope he comes to realize the joy of being a parent can be but it's not for everyone.
Johnaka Jaydensdad for him to say he will give her a child. I feel like he don’t want to. So how will that translate with that child. To see a child you didn’t want, but had just for this woman. And if Nikki did have a child, she will start choosing that child over John because that’s what a mother does
Leticia Brown of both of them are on the same page there wouldn't be ask this glum emotionless talk. It's like Ok I'll have a baby but I'm doing it under protest. Man isn't father material
Leticia Brown imagine hearing your dad only wanted to have you to make your mum happy and it wasnt really what he wanted :/
Do u not understand how hard it is to be a parent in that crazy industry especially in wrestling when they r on the road 24/7 he said In one interview he would rather have a kid when he’s retired so he can be an active father.
It’s clear he only wants her when it’s convenient for HIM. He’s realizing how suddenly he’s not in control and that’s driving him crazy.
@MALVINDINHO doubt it she makes her own money
@MALVINDINHO you are so dumb. She has so much money. She owns a business with brie
cena`s house rules say he is in control and he could easily replace nikki with a much younger version,,,,hes got it all
Classic narcissist
Typical Taurus man. Disgusting.
So he’s going to give her a child because he doesn’t want to lose her......not because he wants to become a father? That’s not fair for the child. “I will give you a child” what the fu...
Lizette Rosa I think he will love it so much once it’s there and they begin the process I’ve seen my brother get someone pregnant and he wasn’t ready to be a father but he stepped up to the plate and now he really loves her being a father he just loves it and maybe John will be the same
@@Amournyahhh yeah no lmao
Anybody else felt like some Christian Grey type of vibes when John said “I will give you a child”
Ana Castaneda 😂😂😂 creepy af
Now that you say that....
Yes. He's such a controlling narcissist.
Yes! You hit the nail on the head!
Oh My God. YES!!!!
Wait a minute. 🤔 Of all the people to say that. It’s a person who’s name is ana... as in Anastasia 😱
Lol 😋😆
I cannot believe it took her 6 years to accept that this man was serious when he said ‘I don’t want kids’ and that she needed the opposite. Ladies, when a man tells you what he does or does not want, BELIEVE HIM! Love yourself enough to cut your losses and move on to find someone who is truly for you. This relationship lasted 4 years past it’s expiration date Nikki.
But John was truly for her. He made it clear to her that he did not want to have kids but yet she still dated him anyways. John was a good man to her and he did almost everything right for her except for the kid part. I wish John the best.
But he agreed in the end and I think at that point. She had no fight left. Moral of the story....dont be a stiff prat with a one sided view in a relationship
Yeah kids is alot of work. I don’t blame Cena. I don’t want kids
@@forgottenmma3694 i thought he did but just not around the time his career on top
@@forgottenmma3694 people who are young and stupid say this a lot once you meet someone you love you definitely might change your mind.
and not as hard to raise a human being as you think with 2 people thier to help plus your family it will be much easier just use your resources responsible it literally isn't that hard especially if your rich I ain't telling you.
In johns defense I would not want to have this emotional convo in front of cameras
that what i thought to we know he is a very private person when it comes to his personal life
Alexandra LoBasso
They did sign up for this though🤷🏾♀️
They also regretted doing some of it
And dude is like on the road all the time , he’s extremely busy . Doing movies , wwe , talk shows. He really has a lot on his plate , and I think he just doesn’t want to sacrifice his career
Look everyone is different, you dont know how he grew up or what he actually went through as a kid. There's more to being a parent than providing financially. I for one love that John takes it as serious as he does and knows how life altering it is to have a child. He is right to be cautious. If more people thought like he does we would have a lot less horrible parents in the world.
lolfuxyah thats so true
Amen! No money in the world can make anyone worthy of being a parent, being a parent to a child is bigger than money.
When he said its gonna "be a him?" and grinned ever so slightly. I think for a moment he liked the sound of that, before his logic and principle came back to the forefront.
I think he was jealous of a mini him getting more attention than him.
I want to see her happy but all this sacrificing talk is exhausting. Why would u not want a family with the person ur saying u wanna marry... Are u THAT dedicated to ur work?? That u can't see pass that when ur entertainment career is over all u have is family. There are plenty of successful ppl having kids. I don't like his phrasing at all... Take ur time Nikki. Oh and we having more then just one kid John.. Don't be limiting to 'give u a child' no b!! We having a clan!!
Nicole D it just sounds like a recipe for disaster they both want different things and both them and the child will suffer as a result. They will get married have a kid then possiblt divorce due to 'irreconcilable differences' and end up co parenting because they both settled and tried to salvage something which clearly has no happy ending.
He said in TMZ that he’s letting work take over to what really matters and that is family. So if he was able to change his mind about marriage than he will def be happy once he has a child. Talk is cheap once they c that baby their whole world is gunna change and also this industry is crazy it would be hard for him to be an active father because he does so much work. And he even said in one interview that if he were to become a father he would want to retire so he can be there for his family
he wants a family of dogs
You idiots he dealt with 2 divorces . 1 with his parents divorced and his first marriage . He's afraid that he will go all in and one day get a divorced while the child is 5 or 6 . He wants to make sure the relationship is rock solid before he gets a baby .
Not everyone wants a child I don't and I'm married
This is just painful to observe.
Hes not bad cuz he doesn't want a child. Chill people
Your right.People are calling him out because he claims he wants nikki to be happy but he regrets to start a family with her.I dont think he is considering nikkis feelings in the situation.And now after he got dumped he decides to agree to having a baby with nikki.I mean it just sounds like he is trying to win nikki back by agreeing to give her a baby,the dude even called a baby a sacrifice,like WHAT.John Cena is playing around with Nikki's emotions and it is not cool.Nikki deserves way better than him and she should move on.John is obviously not fond of being a dad.The relationship wont work out if they are not on the same page.
alana harrell but listen to every word he says he knows her well and he said are you sure you want a kid with me or you have just fallen out of love and honestly she did fall out of love because she fell for Artem. She was not expecting him to say he would give her a child her reaction would of been different when he said those words. Yes he is making a sacrifice for the person he loves because it’s not what he wanted but he wants her to be happy he has been dedicated to his job and it’s understandable because he started off in his car to a mansion. He changed his ways for her little things like putting pictures around the house cooking at home but no one sees that
@@alanaharrell7255 😂 kinda seems like nikki was just a distraction to him now hes making big money with these movies he making
@@alanaharrell7255 sounds like what nikki wants but not what john wants
Its responsible
Make that sacrifice? Sounds like "I'll give you a kid, you take care of it, nurture it, and leave me out of it." I'm a fan of them as much as anyone else, but having a kid because your partner wants one and you dont want them to go is a bad idea.
He doesn't want his child to go through a divorce like how john went through one with his parents
Chaundra1030 he made it very clear that he doesn't want to be a dad, he said that because a her, because thats what she wants, so i understand perfectly if he doesn't want to take care of the baby
Valu Cv that's why it's a terrible idea for him to say fine I'll do it. A baby isn't a compromise; he could really screw that kid up depending on how their relationship goes. It's better to just break up and let her get a kid from a man who wants one.
"I will make that sacrifice for you." "I will give you a child." Just as I thought he DOES NOT want kids. You don't go from saying something like that to saying you want a kid for yourself and no one else just a few months later. Now he's saying he wants children because he wants her back. Not because he wants children. He may love her but they're not a good match. Each needs to find a partner with the same ideals, wants and needs. There's are the complete opposite from each other. When it comes to a child it shouldn't have to be something you concede to. It should be something you want as well, for you, not for someone else. Say they did have a child. Yes he would love the child but he would grow to resent her because in his heart it's not what he wanted. Just like people were saying Nikki shouldn't give up coming a mom because that's what John wants. Well John shouldn't have become a father because that's what Nikki wants. It's a double standard. It's like when a woman gets pregnant on purpose to try and fix a relationship that's all ready in trouble. It doesn't work and neither will this if it happens.
Ughhh!😥😪
They both need to go to therapy to put everything on the table and make the right choice
Saoirse Formidiblum I don't know about recently but they've been in therapy before. It obviously didn't help.
Nubaiza Feroz Yes?
Mya Gaines i agree
He told her from the very beginning that children were not in his plan. She continued the relationship thinking she would change him.
Most women do that.
Tbh she did, but it was too late and they broke up
I think she thought that he would change his mind and enjoyed the chase but once she got it she just saw that everything wasn’t right for her and I’m glad b/c the way she deserves to be treated is the way artem treats her
@@lesleycastro4562 no one cares man let’s be honest she was desperate for a child literally begged
Tbh when you become so in love with someone , sometimes you feel that you can change them.... in which John had mentioned that Nikki has changed him for the better but not his views on certain things . And I guess it was too late as when finally he wanted to give her what she always wanted , her ship has sailed far
What if they have twins ? 😂
London Mackenzie JAJAJAJAJAJA imagine
London Mackenzie ikr
What if they are twin boys and their called the Cena twins
London Mackenzie lol
London Mackenzie I hope they have triplets
John was equating Nikki wanting a child to "falling out of love with him" or "getting bored with him" he was completely trying to manipulate Nikki's reasoning. This is definitely a toxic relationship and I'm glad they both separated. I'm not saying John is a bad guy he's just obviously not the one for Nikki. He needs to find a childless woman who does not want kids and will be 100% okay with that
He wasn’t trying to manipulate her, those were her words, and once she clarified that, that wasn’t what she meant then he got on board with having a child. He was just trying to understand where she was coming from in wanting a child which is completely understandable.
Unfortunately you’re right though they don’t belong together.
John is very happy with his girlfriend.
hyperASHitive this was after dancing with the stars. I really believe she already had her eyes on Artem at this point
hyperASHitive meaning she had fallen out of love with him
aww she said him and now she’s pregnant with a boy ❤️
I know I love that part!
I love them together. I know from interviews that they call off the wedding after this so it was more then just having kids. I hope they work it all out.
Ok. Pause. John having kids is something he should want to do. It’s not something he’s sacrificing and giving up, it’s something that he should be sooo happy to do with her because he loves her!!!
But just because a man loves a woman that doesn't translate or mean we should have kids. Its a Sacrifice because of the responsibilities and financial ly it's all of that..
Demetrius Shuler I get that, but this wasn’t said in a loving way... again it was very selfish!!! Like I guess I’ll give you a kid if it means not loosing you... like...??? Ugh no.... She just needs to let him go!!!
Loved By You I think that man is just scared he comes off like he doesn’t want kids because he doesn’t want to be responsible for another persons life he most likely is scared that he will fail as a parent taurus people are very cautious of making long life commitments and yes I brought zodiac in this because he a Taurus and all taurus men act just like him lol
Loved By You it wasn't supposed to be said in a loving way and yes I agree..
It is a sacrifice hes a wrestler not a reality tv star hes always gonna be gone.
Wtf....sacrifice. So glad she’s not with him anymore
usher luck you don’t have to be rude and call me names. If that is your choice, then good for you but to have someone say...I will make that sacrifice and give you a child is cold . Who the hell would want to raise a child with someone who really doesn’t want them. Sacrifice....SMFH
You are so rude
Hoes mad
Me to. He has better now..
I think it depends on the situation. I was 17 when I met my husband who is 10 years older than me and didn't want kids but I got pregnant. I love my child and don't regret it, just had postpartum depression which worsened being a new mom. Now 4 years later I am a registered nurse and working on getting my masters. My husband wants one more kid and I do not. I told him I will carry it, but it is his to take care of. Both of us agree to it and are okay with the situation. You just have to find balance and be genuinely happy in whatever you choose to do.
The way he said it...my god..it sounded like he said: "ok, i will get you a pet"
It did not sound like he truly changed his mind and that he wants to be a father...it sounded like: ok i want you in my life, and if i have to give you this THING (child) to keep you i will, and now i demand you to take me back and marry me...ugh
it is wwe tv so i don't doubt acting for the camera
Exactly. Scripted or not, most of their fans will think that that is ok when it's not bc it's controlling and borderline emotionally abusive.
Like honestly, wtf! He will make that sacrifice for her, to give her a child - imagine how that makes her feel, the man she adores tells her he will "make that child" to make her happy and that would be it. NO desire to be a father, to experience that new life and so on. Awful, i understand where Nikki is coming from right now, when she said that she wants him to want that and not only to agree to certain things so that she does not leave.
Lilia Popova You took the words right from my mouth😊
I agree but when john cena will see how precious it is ur gonna see a change
Yea but he just said that becuz if they are gonna get married, have a child and they might divorce that's why he didn't want the child
Lilia Popova then why she still with him?? You woman are dumb you can't change a man and you guys wonder why we don't take you guys seriously, him saying he's making a sacrifice is clearly him saying he doesn't want a child she needs to move on
Lilia Popova why do all of you try and portray nikki as the victim is it because she's a female cena told her he didn't want kids and marriage since the beginning but she wanted to change who he is and the reason why she stayed with him was not because she loves him
He talks down to her a lot.
I cant believe he said he'll give you a child!?...Omg!!!😮😀👶
Jenny Martinez he said he gone make a sacrifice and give her s child😂 I'm excited tho
S.I.A.H TM sounds like a ritual tbh lol
Hold up Jenny , I don’t think he’s doing it because he wants to, which will later manifest into STRONG resentment, so he needs to figure that out!!! Let’s not celebrate just yet!!’
Loved By You how do you know he will resent it? Maybe the idea will grow on him. I used to hate unsweet tea but I forced myself to drink it and now I like it. On too of that he really wants to marry her and he had said a while back that he wanted no kids or marriage. All he will have to do is give it a chance and I think he will.
He’s a joke. Both need to move on.
I was cringing so much while watching this, especially when he said "Relationships are about sacrifice" in my head I was like nope, yes you have to compromise sometimes, but not on your values and principles, and when he said "I will give you a child" my heart broke for her.
they are on we tv
john cena- “i will make that sacrifice, and give u a child.”
tbh that broke me. not many people can have kids or are struggling like crazy to get pregnant. i’m sorry but i’m sad..
and not everyone wants kids either so what is your point? stop acting like people who don't want kids are evil. not everyone wants to give up 18 years of their life.
MALVINDINHO well given that she’s pregnant with someone else’s child lol DOUBTFUL
I am disabled and I am not having kids cause my child being disabled is a good possibility. He is just being selfish. He can have a career and he a dad if he wanted to. So many wrestlers make it work
@MALVINDINHO do not put words in my mouth. I think it is selfish that he would not give Nikki a baby cause of his career but many make it work. Why don't you go find a woman instead of trashing one you do not know?
A lot of people can have kids but a lot can I definitely understand what your saying
“ I will give you a child” you are not God John.
Obree Carey the man is scared to death that he will lose someone that he loves. He doesn't want a divorce and he doesn't want to lose people. I get it. How much do this guy have to bend to show he wants this women
Obree Carey b sbsbsj
Obree Carey exactly
He’s going to resent her at one point because he never wanted kids and the minute he looks back he’s gonna sit there and be like why did I give her this when I never wanted children. Plus how is it going to be for their child in the future to look back and be like Dad never wanted to have kids.
I literally burst into laughter 😂😂
The fact that she said "him" when talking about having a child and then years later having Matteo, it's so cute to think about
I truly believe she fell in love with Artem when they did DWTS together, John even said she behavior the last couple months has been off, I love Nikki and I’m so happy the place she’s in now ;-)
The behavior been off because she became engaged and things became too permanent. Promising to be with him for life is promising no kids for life
Fiona I agree!!!
Heatjourney nahh. Even after he agreed to kids she was still off and blamed it on “needing to find herself” that’s not why. She fell in love w artem and she needed to get away
Kiara Velasquez exactly xx
@@kiaravelasquez1705 yes I agree with you
I already love Nikki but dang she just keeps making me love her even more. The fact that she's willing to lose the one she loves just to have kids is so much respect to her!
she’s an idiot and will regret this 😂
Omg Nikki just move on from John and find someone that genuinely wants children
maybe he do now but just don't know how to express his emotions
Keywords were I will GIVE YOU a child. Stevie Wonder can see that was BS. She really needs to move on. Over 6 years together and he only gives her what she wants when she's just about ready to walk away.
Erin Acosta dolph
Vegas_Born oh please he gave her a lot things hell he even made her revelant in wwe
Erin Acosta the same applies to cena as well
Girl you got so lucky with Artem and I believe even if you do not have a child with Artem you with be happy rather that acting like you are at a meeting 24/7
Love you Nikki ❤️❤️
He's gonna buy a kid and give it to her haha
Ahahaha
These two just need to call it quits like Jennie Mai from the Real and her husband. Find someone who wants what you want. Let John be with someone who doesnt want kids and Nikki needs to be free to be with someone who truly wants children and to be a father.
😍
Artem Chingvinstev : *Hold my beer*
John needs to be with someone like Jennie Mai who does not want children like himself and Nikki needs to get out of this stiff painful and self sacrificing relationship and make room for someone who you can truly enjoy, be happy with and are happy to have a family with you and be a great father and husband and not this stiff robot. Only when she experiences true love and happiness that she would realise what a shitty “sacrificing” relationship this was 🤦🏽♀️
Diamond Teff I love Jennie Mai😍
JEANNIE IS MY LIFE
Diamond Teff YES I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING! Nikki and John are trying to fix something unfixable unless one person fully and willingly submits!
Diamond Teff I think she does love and enjoy being with cena. I just think it's a differing of desires that's getting between them. This should be a wake up call for both of them.
Does she really want to make John have to make a sacrifice to have a kid? Should she be saying I don't want you to make a sacrifice, I want you to want to have kids with me because you really want to have a kid and be a dad.
He should be saying that he is willing to have a kid with her because he loves her, doesn't want to loose her but more importantly because he wants to. Not because it's the only way to keep there relationship, not because he is willing to make that sacrifice so that he keeps the woman of his dreams.
I, for example never ever want kids. There is not a woman on the face of the earth that would change my mind on that. And I would not be selfish enough to try and keep them by saying I'll make that sacrifice to keep that relationship. Because 1 of 2 things will happen. Either you go onto resent the child because you never wanted kids which is unfair on the kid and not his fault, or the relationship over time will likely become toxic resentful and full of arguing and ultimately will likely end with the person that didn't want kids saying I made this sacrifice for you and using it as a weapon against them in arguments.
I really do hope cena and nikki can find a way to make there relationship work because the do genuinely and deeply love eachother. Time will tell if these two can work it out or if its better they split
Ben Fuller Perfectly said Ben 💯💯💯 I love the way you spoke, wish I could snatch you up, but we might run into a couple problems because I want a bunch of kids 😹😹😹 Wish someone with your same ideals could speak some sense into these two so they make the right decision. 🤞
Trust me guys, you’ll understand Johns side in the end. Too many ppl siding Nikki, but you have to see everytime John says a true point, Nikki either just says “John” or just goes silent
John has always said that he doesn’t want kids, his insanely busy schedule often being a reason why not because he’s never home and he knows that raising a child takes a lot of work and he doesn’t want to be an absentee father, which is commendable.
But if you tell your ex-fiancée that you’ll “give her a child” as part of a self-fulfilled sacrifice, then you’re not taking it as seriously as you should and both are better off without one another. I just hate that the producers and whoever else is in charge of editing this show turned the show into this. It’s really not why I watched Total Bellas, but it is why I’ve stopped.
Honestly, when Dolph Ziggler told Nikki that he'd give her kids and be her husband on that one episode of Total Divas, it sounded WAY more sincere than how John just put it. Love you Nikki 😊 , but girl, you need to search your heart. What do you REALLY want? 🤔
Astro Awesomeness Dolph would not be good for her tho.. I can tell. There is a reason she left him and it seem to me the only reason he wanted her back was because she moved on..
Tracey Remarais you may be right, but he sounded way more sincere, like he realized what he'd lost. Maybe she made the right choice leaving him but he totally realized his mistake in letting her leave. John could at least show his emotions a bit more to express his love for her.
maybe but I don't like how he reached and tried to kiss her knowing well John was around....He has no respect. I don't like that level of aggressiveness from a man especially if I am NOT feeling you. ..
Tracey Remarais Totally agree with you! It wasn't respectful at all, I won't justify his actions. I just believe Nikki deserves someone who'll poor their heart out to her. John should genuinely show her love instead of keeping his firm attitude up at all times. It's okay to live a little! 😊
Astro Awesomeness I see what you're saying but maybe he will grow and change for the better. I do think he is a good man.
I feel like now he’s only saying he wants a child because he knows that is what will keep nikki around , I feel like it’s not what he truly wants 🤔 I think he’s only doing it because nikki wants to do it
Lit Compilations Yes, I think so and it's not good for them in the future.
yes but once he sees mini him, he will melt like butter
Wanting to have a child with someone you love is such a compliment because it's an extension of that person another version you can create... and having a child down the road is something we can always be so grateful for!!!
children ruins lives and drive a wedge into your relationship
I am glad that she is finally putting her foot down and telling him how she feels but she can have a great life and family with someone else. I would consider him talking about sacfifice his view on marriage by "giving" her a child she should leave him, continue to work on her, and then find someone who wants to have a child and not just to keep her around and protect what is left of his image.
This CANT be love..
Jay Trel it’s not
Jay Trel Why do you say it's not love?
“I’ll give you a child” GET THE HECK OUTTA HERE!!!! so now because he doesn’t want to lose her, he’ll just sacrifice his happiness just to keep her happy because apparently she wants a child and he doesn’t. How stupid is this relationship. NEXT
Nikki knew John didn’t want kids in the beginning. You can’t force this man. They might as well move on bro
BeautyBy Jai she didn’t force him to do anything she was honest and said that she just can’t do it cause she wants to be a mother and he don’t want kids so what’s the point of even being together
maybe he will be happier with nikki and child over no nikki at all
not stupid at all if you understand love.
they been together for like 6 years it's not that easy to be like well move on bro. If he didn't want kids i dont know why he was made when she froze her eggs before
BeautyBy Jai true 👏🏼❤️
RED FLAG...Becoming a parent is not a sacrifice, it's a gift. You will make sacrifices AS a parent, but becoming a parent is not a sacrifice. I know she loves him, but until he truly wants children she needs to step back. When the baby comes and his lifestyle is forced to change, he will resent the baby bc he never really wanted it
People commenting without kids need to understand something, I guarantee that not all of your parents just started out their lives wanting you. Not every person starts a serious relationship by saying ‘yes, I am 100% committed to having children’. I never wanted kids for myself. I never wanted to have the responsibility, but you know what changed my mind? Getting pregnant. Now I have 2 sons that I love more than anything with my husband that I love deeply. And my husband still married me knowing full well he might not ever be a dad because he knew I didn’t want them but he loved me anyway. John can change. Just because he didn’t want them before doesn’t mean he can’t change his mind for someone he loves because keep in mind he’s a fully functional adult who can make his own decisions.
And people bitching because he called it a sacrifice? People don’t normally say it out loud like he did, but it is a sacrifice having kids. You no longer come first and you’re responsible for someone other than yourself and it’s hard and it takes all of your time and you might even lose a little of yourself. So don’t criticize someone about having kids when you have none because you seriously have no idea.
Jam Jam Well said💯
Panther Nation apparently you missed my entire point
Jam Jam I am a parent and totally disagree with you. Most people want kids but have them before they planned to. John has said he doesn't want kids and you're not supposed to pressure somebody and wait around for them to possibly change their mind like Nikki did. She should've moved on when he said he didn't want kids or marriage. Men who give in based on pressure resent their wives. Some people do change their mind but they come to the conclusion on their own. Nikki however begged and nagged this man for six years. She is the dishonest one and I don't trust her or any one who agrees with her tactics.
Preach 🔥
DeniseN I started writing a big long paragraph to counter your comment but I’m just going to agree to disagree because obviously I’m not going to change anyone’s mind if they don’t agree with what I already said... I will just say I don’t think John is that weak minded that he can be manipulated so easily
John Cena in 2018 - I will give you a child!
John Cena In 2019 - I got fast and the furious 9 to shoot, let's break up!
the child will be so thrilled when they see this
person a LMFAO
y'all don't understand this man is famous and he has many other things he want to do in his life, so yes having a kid is a sacrifice to him because he won't be able to do certain stuff. john cena has plenty of kids that love him but having one of his own will just effect his life that's all he is saying
GamingWithCR ' well said, bro
Plenty of far busier and more wealthy people have children together
whtnymchll well they ain't John Cena 🤷
Plenty of rich people just have the nanny raise them anyway.
And that's perfectly understandable, but why did he get married if he didn't want that either.
Who here after seeing this pop up when we watched Nikki and Artem’s gender reveal party
Having a child is a sacrifice? 😯
Bok Jo A woman can die of birth so it's a sacrifice.. no brainer...
brandon chan You're the no brainer here. You knew exactly what this other person meant, but instead you decided to write something else.
brandon chan not at all the chances of that happening is rare and taking care of it and being committed to it is a lot of sacrifices for parents
Soo you're telling me giving up your money,time,home,and etc for 18 straight years or sometimes longer to take care of another human being isn't a sacrifice? I swear to god some of you are slow and act like y'all don't have a brain bro how did you not understand what he meant?
A sacrifise and at the same time a mistake to same people.
Being a parent is a sacrifice but it's one you're willing to make. You gotta give your all and plus some more, to make sure your children have more than you did. But he sounds kinda robotic 😨 he looks scared and under pressure so idk, just gotta see how things work out....🙃
people get on john but why did she say she wants kids to keep the relationship exciting
Martavious Chambers yeah that was weird too.. idk 😯
Martavious Chambers yeah that was weird I kinda laughed at that like🙈
Oh TV showing us the reality of relationship woes 😅 hopefully they find a solution cause I really love them as a couple 🤣
Ciera Brown John is scared and she is under pressure because he doesn't want them at all.. Nikki said she wants kids to make the relationship exciting because she's bored of John period.. And if that's the case.. They should each other alone period..
He is a narcissist, iam so glad that she is not with him anymore!
@usher luck exactly
He's the narcissist?are you serious
usher luck she stuck with him for 6 years......
usher luck I never said he didn’t you said she ditched him because she “couldn’t get her way”. When she knew about his stance on marriage/kids and still stayed with him for 6 long years. She left him as he was “ready” to give her both of those things so clearly she didn’t leave because she couldn’t get her way.
usher luck that’s a misconception though she never really complained after the first season of total divas. She did something even more stupid. Spent years saying she was fine with not being married and not having kids when she clearly wanted both.
He was right, she was falling out of love with him, so no matter what he did she would’ve left him sooner or later
She EMOTIONALLY outgrew him. She realised she wanted a man she didn't need a father! Artem is the opposite if John and I think it opened up her eyes to everything she wanted but wasn't getting from John.
@MALVINDINHO good luck
Marilu Vazquez yup. I believe him not being present for the wedding planning was it too
@MALVINDINHO I am not talking about money at all. In fact money never crossed my mind. I am very curious what I said that made you think I was talking about money. I would love to know so that way I can learn how to make my points clearer. I would really appreciate it .
@MALVINDINHO She didn't want his money she wanted to spent time with him. Otherwise she wouldn't have been so upset when they got injured at the same time and thought that now they could have time together instead John was gone all the time. John's priority was John. Do I think he loved her in the way John can love someone yes. A healthy relationship is a partnership. I stand by the fact that she grew up, she emotionally outgrew him and after being let down so many times eventually she was just done. He said OK I'll give you a child. A little late John not to mention she wanted him to want that. She didn't want to force him to be a dad just as much as he said he didn't want to keep her from being a mom." People are in your life for a season, a reason or a lifetime. " They were in each other's lives for a reason.
Guys stop saying "why is it a sacrifice" don't blame john. He has a career and when he has a kid he's going to be traveling everywhere so he won't be able to see his child. It's a sacrifice bc babies are a lot of work.
Brandy Fuentes his career is almost over anyways
This man is already a part timer in WWE, his career coming to an end anyway and not only that, there are PLENTY of wrestlers who have children on the road. Take that excuse somewhere else.
Watching them is so hurtful. Love each other so much, and literally insecurities got in the way. Bless them. I’m so glad to have experienced their love.
I have to say that they both did all that they could for their relationship. I was truly heartbroken when they ended things, but out of the ashes, new life has begun.
#WeWantNenaBack ❤️🙏🏻
The tears won't stop!!! 😭❤️❤️
What if she wants more than one child?
then it will be at that moment he knew he fucked up
John Cena would shake his head and stay the hell away from her.
Then. Repeat the same process
@@shirwahassan1346 LMFAO OMG THATS WHAT I SAID IN MY MIND LOL!!!
*I just want to be a mom*
John is just making it so difficult and he’s taking to a place where it doesn’t need to be.
This relationship is giving me a headache and that’s really why I don’t watch this show anymore
fab4fan5 because she's forcing him to want kids
Jake Styles just like he forced her to think she didn’t want kids🤨
fab4fan5 he didn't force her he told her since the beginning he didn't want kids and marriage she was that decided to stay because she thought she could change who he was which is wrong
Jake Styles again ,she just wants to be a mom .She’s been staying cordial and quite while he is going on the Today Show telling the whole world that now he wants kids.That is just playing mind games.They both just need to move on from this relationship
As harsh as "I'll give you a child" sounds, I like how honest John is. This is what relationships are about; the ability to be honest with each other and dealing with what each person wants out of that relationship.
Awwwwwwwww John and Nikki are cute together ❤️💙💑💏👸👨👫
Everything happened the way it supposed to happen Nicole is so much happier now.
I think he meant what he said..He did really love her..He changed for the better over the yrs..She was just at the point where she was to exhausted..And that..That alone will make you step back real quick
Their child (because it is certain that they are going to get back together and have one) is going to be very pleased to see this #sarcasm
He said from the beginning 100 years ago that he didn’t want to remarry OR have children. Now, he’s said okay I do want to marry you but 💯% no children. And she knew that from the get. So now he is “sacrificing” and later will resent her. If they go through with it, they will surely divorce.
Ugh he is such a manipulator!! Always tried to talk her out of being a mom. Glad she left him.
He said that before I would never pressure you to not be a mom, it was Nikki who keeps saying to John that she wants a kid and then John finally said yes she said no because she felt he is being pressured
you're not very smart, are you?
Cold😂😭💀💀
I love them so Much,being a fan of John Cena since the beginning, but i do love them together 😢😢😢
You can compromise with the remote, what were having for dinner, when is date night, how much attention you give the other person but you cant comprise a whole life, your whole life. Your cant change your whole life plan for a temperary relationship by making permanent decisions. This is both an arrangement for resentment and being unhappy later down in life. what happens of you “give” nikki a child as if youre doing her a favour then down the road she wants two or four? What happens if he doesnt want to GIVE HER MORE THAN one child, then she would have to compromise her want maore children and having to settle for one. These two would never be happy, the foundation is weak to begin with.
Their relationship was not built on love and the foundation of it is very weak. Marriage and kids will be the beginning of the end with them.
Agreed!!!
Some of those comments are killing me alive 😂🤣😂 ..... I’m speechless 😶😅
God it would suck 10 years from now for their kid to see this video... if I was their kid and saw this I’d be devastated
When John said I Will give you a child that just Broke my heart 💔
It pisseed me off. Its a line he is just telling her what she wants to hear because he knows she is half out of the door. It's a cycle. It went on for years and from experience it's hell. I'm so happy for her that she was able to get out of the cycle for good. I wish he would get some therapy, self reflect and learn to love himself. John is very insecure. It's sad he deserves to be happy but he need to do some work on himself. Nikki Emotionally outgrew him. She realised she wanted and MAN she didn't need a father.
Watching this back, John is a master manipulator. The way he twisted Nicole’s words from “I want to have a child to keep the relationship fresh”, to “you’ll get bored and sick of me and soon resent me”. And the way he compromised giving her a baby, “I’ll sacrifice” lol. What you sacrificing? A baby is a blessing, should never be compromised. I’m glad Nicole realised and left him.
usher luck You’re the doofus loool. What is he actually sacrificing? His life style? Give me a break!
usher luck Well then he shouldn’t have committed himself to a woman who really wanted kids you idiot. You sound so stupid lol.
Nikki knew he didn't want kids from the beginning. He had a vasectomy for gods sake. It's her fault she stayed so long.
Cenaforever1028 And he also manipulated her into staying.
usher luck He was a toxic human, thank GOD she left him.
He probably is going to have a kid with someone else just to mess with her
He still has his vasectomy.
What if he's lying
@@GOTTGAME09 He's not. Trust me. If John didn't have it Nikki would've sabotaged the birth control and "accidentally" gotten pregnant years ago. Plus I really don't see him changing his mind. He's about to be 43.
Or even adopt a newborn he has the money
@@GOTTGAME09 He doesn't want children with anyone, ever. I don't get why people can't grasp that concept.