After One | Short Film
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- #AfterOne | #IWM2021
The birth of a child is not all that it's cracked out to be and Jane, a new mom, struggles with her new life while dealing with the pressure of societal insensitivity and unhealthy traditions.
CREDITS
Directed by: Ayobola Eniola
Written by: Lydia Emmanuel
Executive Producers: Fiyinfolu C.P Okedare; Ololade Okedare; Ayobola Eniola
Produced by: Ololade Okedare; Fiyinfolu C.P Okedare
Cast
Jane - Lakunmi Salako
John - Fiyinfolu C.P Okedare
Joelle - Caleb Okedare
Mother-in-law - Sade Aina
Jide - Adedamola Salako
Bode - Seun Adejumobi
Mrs Fatomi - Ololade Okedare
Tutu - Adewunmi Onofomi
Tutu’s daughter - Zoe Okedare
Anita - Jennifer Ugboh
Preacher - Pastor Segun Oke
Crew
Director of Photography I - Angel Alake
Director of Photography II - Onu Chukwuemeka
Editor - Boss Babe Promotions
Music - Michael ‘Truth’ Ogunlade
Sound - Yomi Odusina
Sound Mixing - Michael ‘Truth’ Ogunlade
Gaffer - Joseph Michael Oluwadamilare
Make up - Adebayo Yusuf
Camera Assistant - Samuel Bodunrin
Additional Editing - Morenikeji
Colorist - Morenikeji
Production Assistant - Adebowale Adebanjo
Behind-the-Scenes Photography - Jean-fidèle Ananou
SPECIAL THANKS
Pastors Segun and Denrele Oke
MUSIC CREDIT
Artist: Chief Commander Ebenezer Obey And His Inter-Reformers Band
Track: Ebun Pataki Lomo Bibi (Precious Gift)
Label: Obey - WAPS-558
Format: Vinyl, LP, Album
Country: Nigeria
Released: 1982
I cried watching this movie. It brought back memories. Nobody ever remembers to get the mother a gift. From now on, I will always get a new mom a gift, not just the baby. Thank you so much for this.
Thank you for getting it!!!
U are so right
Especially Food. Gift them great food!
@@becomingtheayodeles Yes to good food! 😂
I had so much depression, but I bless God for God's word and my adorable daughter who gave me more strength to push on, I had my baby via C.S and my mother in-law called me lazy everyday.. When ever she is doing something for me mostly in the kitchen, she comes out and tells me next time born by yourself don't be lazy, I just smile and say yes ma. So that she can end the talk and when she leaves the room, I cry my eyes out and my daughter cried so much that I begin to cry too but I bless God for his grace that was indeed sufficient.
But when my mother came and I had so much relief and joy, and speaking with my elder sister gave me so much strength,.
I bless God its all in the past but the memories are always there.... And I also bless God for recovery my husband was helpful too.
At lastly God really helped me.. Because I don't even look like one who has given birth... When am out with my daughter people think am her aunty not until she calls me mum......
God bless all the women........
God will see you through
When I had my kids my husband was so helpful, he Cook's, wash, and clean the house, I thank GOD for the husband he gave me.
Really me too I don't complain I'm really thankful to God after giving birth to my second child he said I don't want you away from me. He goes to work and when he comes back he does everything for me it's been 3 months now and I never heard him complaining. It's only now that I started doing things because it's now easy with the baby no longer fussy 2 babies under the age of 2years
Awesome!
@@madamck5336 Wow. Kudos to him
Thank God for such men. Mine did all d vigils for my 1st. D 2nd I had during lockdowns dat friends can't even be der for d 1st bath. Hubby did it all and I dont cook or clean for d 1st 3 months cos my babies re CS babies. May God continue to bless dem for us.
The love seem to have reduced, cos she has given you a child and her shape is no longer how it's used to be. The love between married couples should be Unconditional and Genuine. Thanks for the movie
God, this was scary. I determine to help my wife all through by God's grace, amen
Amen
God help you
Have learnt how to preserve my future wife after our first child🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love the way the husband's friend- Bro Seun Adejumobi told him, his home comes first and it's also the duty of the father to help in nursing the baby
Now I understand why new mothers talk about post partum depression. If extra care isn't taken, it would definitely become overwhelming. New mothers need all the help they can get,especially from their spouses
Beautiful and timely message... Young father's don't realize what a great influence they have on their babies. Many crying babies calm down just at the sound of their father's voice!! It's lovely to watch... Also please talk to your babies rather than just dancing with them or sing to them. They are human beings and love to interact, ask them questions like "Ahhh, my sunshine, what can I do to make you more comfortable?? Do you know Jesus loves you?? There is nothing to cry about...." Bless them😘😘
Love this. Thanks for sharing ma
@@FaithAdegboye UWC 🤗
Thank you
@@priscillaoseifosu409 UWC🤗
Fantastic! Very inspiring!
This is the reality of every woman, infact this movie is just a quarter of what every mother go through... Women are gift from God...
Story of my life.....the way I get late to work ehn the body shaming part in all I'm thankful to God.
God bless my hubby he has been more than helpful
I love and admire her turn around when her husband changed and became understanding and supportive. Her joy and cheer was second to none. She came alive.
I watched this on Pastor Laju's recommendation. Omo! To think I was sooo ignorant. I'm glad I watched it as a single lady though.
I pray who ever read this become successful this new month of May 🙏
This is a beautiful message! Especially for those who sit from their convenience judging new mothers.
Seriously
That's a good one👍 Reminds me of my own baby blues. 4 times. Yep! The second time, I left home. My intention was never to return 😂 No one knows about it. The 4th time, I got identical twins. I used to bath 1 twice and fed 1 more than the other 🤣🤣 🤣
Such an experience...mothers are heroes
So detailed. Every woman deserves a caring husband.
This lady i give her 100% she played this mother part so well. The casting was superb
Short but insightful film...really being a woman is hard enough and this movie just showed that being a mother is no child’s play either. The act of motherhood has been downplayed to the sole responsibility of the mother in society excusing the role fathers have to play and even third party individuals. 34mins well spent 🙌🏾
I cried all through because this is me 90%...
Stay strong sis in the Lord you will get over it. I assure you
Me too 8 years ago
💕💞😘
Mine was worst but I thank God the little girl is almost 10years now. Sis stay strong for you and the baby and please don’t forget to reach out to people who cares about you during this period. Love you loads.
God will see you through !!!
They should do a short video for people that lost their baby, and recovery
Thank God for the inspiration of this movie. Kudos to the cast. God bless you all.
The part she broke down in tears got Mee😭😭😭... And when jewel fell off her hands 😭😭...
To all the mums out there we can't thank you enough ❤️
Me too
Awwn....Very educative and funny I must say... I was smiling all through...because it brought back memories..especially the hot water torture....Thank you so much for putting out this masterpiece. This should be a movie all intending couple should watch. Like all Marriage committee of churches should make it compulsory for the intending couples to watch...Kudus to the actors especially the female lead...
Yes oooo
It is torture and it is wrong too
What is the hot water torture please ?
Thank God I am watching before marriage
It's imperative to get married to the right person. Timely movie and educative! Great production 👌💪👌
❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really think mothers deserve an applaud
A must watch for all... husbands, wives, grannies, gramps...💯
Thumbs up 👍 for kinsman media and team
Beautiful movie. New moms go through a lot of struggles and I love that you're addressing these issues realistically here, as well as proferring solutions. Thank you so much for this. God bless the cast and crew!
The acting here is top-notch. She was so real doing it. Well done Madam Lakunmi
The pastor said, but you are the one that do the do🤣🤣🤣🤣
On Monday’s day this pops up on my recommendation. RUclips got it right for the first time
😁😁😁😁
This is a wonderful movie...so real.
I don't have a kid yet but I've seen my sis go through all these. It's really overwhelming.
Great job!
To our men: pls always be there for your wife as your presence and availability really helps us recover during this period.
I can relate to everything here😢😢😢 too accurate 😢😢😢 it has not been an easy journey but we thank God...
This is one of the best movies I have watched since after watching GAMES by PVO.
I have learnt a whole lot already even as an unmarried woman.
With this, I am persuaded to start preparing seriously for marriage afresh again.
Thanks to the cast and the crew. You guys did an excellent job.
Please is Games by PVO on RUclips?
I am so grateful and glad this was done. Eish! I am so glad that they are raising awareness about this issues around child birth and what comes after. This should also educate those who shame new mums and call them "weak" and "untrained." God bless you. I am so happy too about the message clip by the Man of God in the movie, admonishing men to be more caring and do their share of the work. It is not "your baby" but "our baby."
Gather here if you shouted 'Jesus' when the baby fell from her hands.... Respect to all Mothers, and husband should always learn how to give 100% help to there wife at all time. God bless
We are here ooooo. 😆
@@ololadeokedare3564 thank God 🙏
I remember when my nephew felt from my hands like that and also from my sister
Nursing babies can be a lot
I shouted Jesus didn't even know I started crying..
I did ooo...i even had to cover my face
There is nothing more amazing than havin a very supportive husband to help u in d journey. It also makes things easier n free d woman of unnecessary house chores. Movie well portrayed. African men needs to wake up n be more support n of help to their wives. Baby blues n postnatal depression is real. Well done guys for such an educational movie.
This is relatable on so many levels... glad to finally see a truer representation of the actual birthing experience, God bless the entire team
Story of my life right now...gave birth through Cs last month and my tummy has refused to come down....nasoso aunty this your tummy is this is that.... strangers sees me as iya ibeji, but I'm happy my bundle of joy gives me joy.....men and laptops in the name of work, though my hubby helps and I have my junior brother around which reduces the stress
It will take time but you will be fine soon hun💞💞
Remember to give yourself grace and praise, your body went through a lot, be kind to yourself. I had to learn that too, it's hard being a new mom. You're amazing, you're special, leave the tummy alone and give yourself time to heal, everything needs time. Everybody's body reacts to pregnancy and childbirth differently. Put your feet up, love yourself, appreciate yourself, spoil yourself and enjoy yourself.
Congratulations, please don't worry about your tummy for now.It took your tummy 9 months to grow,it will also take time to get back into its pre pregnant state.Just concentrate on your baby and yourself.
Thank you all for your words of encouragement, much appreciated
My dear don't kill yourself o.
It took your body nine months to undergo these changes and they want it to reverse in a day? Don't mind them. Most important thing is that you're healthy.
This is a movie every couple should watch. God bless the entire crew
God bless you for uploading this video. This painted a vivid picture of what most women pass through during pregnancy and after delivery....people usually think pregnancy is the height of it and that you'll rest once you put to bed not knowing that, that's when the real work just started...phew. We women are legends...this movie brought back memories😢😁,just did I scale through if not for grace and good support system 🙌. I hail all mothers, especially those with 3 and above kids, na real work una dey do🙌🙌😂...All mothers need lots of support from friends, family and especially their spouses not neglect and body shaming...
More anointing, thanks again for sharing this with us.
Wow
This is such a powerful masterpiece.
I cried watching that hot water torture, it brought back memories
God bless the director and writer...every single brothers must watch dis
I didn't allow it beyond two days for my body bath and didn't allow it at all for sitz bath. I only regularly used warm water make yummy mummy no go faint.
One is sore everywhere, low milk supply wahala, lack of appetite, poor baby latching... someone now want to add hot water to the whole thing.... I protest straight! No time...
My LORD! Precious MOMs with 10 or more children, no house help, financial ....../ government don't pay on time HUSBAND can be a great challenge ooooo. Praise god for His DIVINE intervention. My LORD!!!!!
I'm glad I saw this movie as a single lady. There are so many things they don't tell us about being a mum.
God help us! I'm so scared
Very true. But the thing is scary sha
Me too
Don't be scared dear, you just need supportive people around you. You will enjoy it.
Just marry the right spouse, you will find it easy.
Amazing movie.
Can I also add that during naming ceremonies, EVERY, and I mean EVERY gift should be given to the mom.
Secondly, let's pray our husbands avoid bad peer influences. Cos I noticed it was after his discussion with his friends, his attitude became even worse. God help us.
The is an amazing story. Kudos
Where did you guys get my story from? The couple are our namesakes kuma 🤣🤣🤣
Hubby expected me to cook for MIL 72hours post-partum and barely 30hours after being released from hospital. But Holy Spirit borrowed me sense. Me sef, I'm somebory's daughter ☺☺
Midway into the movie, I had to pause the movie just to share it. God bless this ministry 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Pls how can I share
Hmmmm....very timely 👌...one of the angle in marriage that's been overlooked....my wife keep saying "God bless you" till the end of the 🎥
Wow! Wow! Wow!
"I was blessed" is an understatement. This is mind blowing. My expectation was not cut short.
God bless the entire production crew.
This has to fly! As in....
Pls this film needs to go viral... it's so correct ... God bless you all..
I so agree. Its so correct
Wow, very insightful and funny. I thank God for my mummy, and I really feel bad for all the troubles I put her through
I can totally relate! This brought a flood of memories!
Wow! It took me and my wife down the memory lane to our journey of parenthood...
This work captured motherhood curriculum in brief.
Am First time mum, now I know what to expect... Forwarding this movie to hubby immediately...
This educating him deserves an award. Never seen it this way. 🔥🔥
I can't believe some people actually dislike this piece.. This very educating video!
This movie hit the nail on the head. Thank you for this. Most people don’t talk about how we tend to sweat more postpartum
This is very educative,thanks for making this great movie .its a blessing. More men should watch it. Please share to every man you know.
Amazing story. Acting perfection. This is just so real and so on point💯
This is such a lovely film. The kind of films I love. 💯💯👏👏
I can't imagine anyone having to go through this. I am grateful for the full support I got. I didn't need to do a single thing other than breastfeed the baby, eat and rest. New mums need all the support that there is no matter how quickly she seems to have recovered after delivery. I hope everyone can be that support system to a mother in need of such. Start within your own families at least. I am glad the husband realised, learnt and changed for better.
#beasupportsystem
So emotional!
God bless my Mama.
very well put together....Jane portrayed her character aptly...this took me down memory lane..God bless mothers
This is an aspect people rarely talk about. Thanks
Oh I love this movie. It create awareness concerning challenges of motherhood. It's so educating and spirit filled
Beautiful content
Every single should watch before you say I do.
Men should learn to be supportive it makes her feel relieved.God bless the cast and crew.
I recognized every single stage of this film. Every single one. Even though my husband is very present and my mothers were and are still so helpful, it was still so overwhelming.
Thank you for bringing this to the fore. It’s an important story.
Kudos to the team for this awareness ...Many people and husbands just do not understand why a bundle of joy should be overwhelming or lead to depression. May God continually strengthen every family going through this!!
AMEN!
This is a story that should be seen by all intending couples(newly weds, parents). It teaches a lot. The strength of a woman can't be compared to anything.
I can so relate to this story. Very true. God bless the entire production crew
You did the do, so embrace your responsibility. 🥰 Supportive men, Lord!
This is so helpful! I'm yet to be married but this taught me the essence of preparation. I pray that every mother out there receives strength for this process, and the fathers play an active role in the upbringing of their child. Amen.
This is the most beautiful thing I've seen today. A very thoughtful idea. Kudos to the team.
I relived every moment, paused and left the video to cry and came back to smile. I wish this video would have a wide reach and that we start to do better. Because it truly begins with "you & I".
My God!!! Who else freaked out when she dropped the baby? Literally jumped out of bed.kudos to the crew! Thee are things that needs to be talked about in courtship too.How do we share responsibilities when we have a child or children?
We freaked out too 🤯😂
I'm not done watching this but I'm impressed. Wow!
Am not married yet
Still single
But I truly learn a lesson
God bless
This is a timeless production. Beautiful and straight-to-the-point. Well done to everyone on the team.
Wow.....this is just mind blowing, very informative & educative. 30 million gbosas to all mothers. May we eat the fruits of our labor.
Wow!
This is so apt👌 Parenting is tough, Working as a team makes it easier🥰
Very educating and instructive movie, helpful for fresh couples preparing to be mums and dads.
I must say this is a must see even for singles to understand and arm themselves for married life and the responsibilities that come with it.
Great acting!
Very funny, scary (cuz I'm trying to imagine) and insightful too. Weldone guys
I really learn a lot from this movie God bless the producer
Wow...❤❤❤ This movie is just so educational! Thank you so much for sharing this with some of us who knew very little about what this movie is about.
So educative and brilliant acting 👏
Nnnnooo way!🥺🥺🥺🥺hot water + salt?🥺🥺im scarrreedddd🥺
Like 😭😭😭😫
Realism at its peak..... God help all mothers and all future mothers!
I can't stop crying
Please we need more of these movies
Wowww!!! This is so educational. It prepares single people like us on what to expect and avoid. Thank you so much for this!
So real and educative! Well done! God's blessings.
Wow
I loved every single scene, It was very educative and it's a must watch for everyone, intending couple, expecting mom's and married couple.... So much to learn from this. Thank you to the entire team
I went through all this and more,at a point I cried to God for help,and I had an encounter where my mother in the Lord,Dr Mrs Becky Paul Eneche,appeared and took care of me and my baby,God always using her to teach me things I needed to know and do as a new mum,my baby is 7 years 3 days ago,all thanks to God
Woow!
Awesome!
Awwh. It is well
Very educative and practical... A lot to learn, the picture painted so vividly...
Educative, well done...more Grace ijn Amen
Wow though am not yet mum I have really learnt a lot lot here.Wow thanks to you all.
God bless all the mothers it not easy to be pregnant and taking care of of d children me being a mother of 4 countless of sleepness night but seeing them grow to give me joy
Short , lovely and simple story line. This is a timeless production.
Timely movie
Jewel!!!! The baby bears my name!!!
😬. I'm blessed, challenged. Shed a tear too. Thank you for this blessing. 💖
I absolutely loved it! The message is crystal clear! Well done!
Wow! I'm glad you deemed it fit to make a short movie on this issue, and the actors did a great job interpreting their roles. Thank you
Oh my God!
I am sooo short of words