To hear him say he was just tolerated really broke my heart! He still has a child-like innocence about him… I hope his father and paternal family really step in and give him the love he deserves!
He has the sweetest spirit. Brought me to tears because we as the children question our worth and why our parents didn't want us. He deserves the best ❤❤❤
Dalvin is lovely young man. You can tell he has been through a lot, but still managed to maintain a kind heart. I loved meeting every bit of him through the tv screen.
I read a few comments about the father not looking happy after hearing the results. I believe he already knew the answer. Besides, he strikes me as a kind of man that don't openly show emotions. If he didn't want any part of his son, he would have stayed home.
They are speculating. They look just alike. The father is a man who spent years in prison. I have faith he will step up and do right by his son. He also probably feels guilty. He is feeling that his presence would have made many differences in his son’s life
@@SunShine-vo8kjjust because mothers are there physically doesn't necessarily make a difference they can physically be there but shows not affection or anything which is a form of neglect
It’s a blessing his dad wants to be there for him. I’m 30 and when I met my 45 year old father for the first time last year we just had one conversation then he went ghost. It’s always better to have a dad there. Especially for black males.
It's crazy how a lot of us were not shown affection as children. My mother passed after she had my brother, I was 2. I believe she showed me affection because how well other family spoke of her; I just can't remember much at that age. Granma stepped in, but she had issues because that was her only child so she would drink a lot and act mean, cursing us out, calling us names. When she wasn't, she could be sort of nice but there was still no affection. When I had each one of my daughters, I always showed them affection. 💯
That poor baby, just know that you have a great purpose for being here, God doesn't make mistakes and he knows that you were strong enough to go through this immensely hard journey for a reason ❣️ One of them being to show the world your life experience, so that we can all appreciate who we have in our lives and also to learn how to treat people better and change their ways love. So, thank you very much for sharing your amazing journey with us all, it truly is a privilege young Man❣️ Keep your handsome head up, never give up, & keep marching forward ahead son ❣️👍 You're Loved & Prayed for, by many that you don't even know❣️
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Karamo gave such great advice & his tone helps to reassure both of them. I'm praying for the young man and his father in that they can both feel comfortable enough to be family to each other.
So strong ... last I saw my dad I was 3 yrs old than he popped back up when I was in 8th grade and said he'll come back and never did here I am 32yrs old and still haven't seen him BUT GOD .. I'm smart and have my own very independent and don't depend on no man 💯 God bless him wherever he is
Its something else going on with the son too thats not being said. I hope he can get the help he needs and the genuine love from his dad and new family.
That soft-spoken mannerism of this kid is gene-deep. I pray for his sake, his father is able to step up, and I am so relieved he got this level of closure. I wish them the very best.
Whenever the bond isn’t made from the start, it’s so hard to create. I met my dad when I was 10, and meeting him at age 10 wasn’t enough to build a bond like he had with my siblings that he had with his wife, who he raised from the start. I was always the odd man out. Still to this day we don’t speak. He doesn’t reach out and I don’t reach out either because I don’t know how. There’s so much discomfort that we never faced. I hope these two can over come the obstacles that my dad and I never did.
I’m so happy he found at least half of himself in his dad. I hope they build n dad shows him all the love he was missing growing up! We need an update! Sending lots of hugs to this young man
I'm glad karamo pressed his father a little more, l have a feeling it's going to take a little more than just being there for his son. Communicating, reaching out often and regularly, empathy and understanding will all be needed
That poor baby, I really crossed my fingers hopping that was his father b/c the “I’d feel lost” really got to me. I hope he’s more at peace & finds security within himself.
I felt very sad and teary when he said he never been told, "I love you" or even given a hug. He was tolerated rather than been trained... 😢😢This is too much for a child to go through. 😢😢😢
I love how the power of The Most High came through with positive answers for this sweet guy after him and the lady in the audience took a moment to pray. 🙏🏾 I prayed too and The Elohim delivered! Amen HalleluYah! I’m so happy for him 🥹
Karamo- Please educate the public on Adoption Trauma. It disgusts me that the general puplic seems to always dismiss and invalidate the trauma of adoption and how it actually effects the Adoptee. There are more community supports for the Adoptee parents -not even the parents that relinquished the child OR the actual Adoptee! Unacceptable.
"The reason i couldn't take care of you is because i was out der n da streets, and i couldn't have you out der wit me. You had a roof ova your head, i had different roofs." -The dad My God be with them both.
All of this young man’s formative years have passed him. The only thing his father can teach him is how to navigate the prison system and abandon his responsibilities. He didn’t come back because he didn’t want to be bothered with him. He is old now and wants to mooch off him. I can see him now “let let me hooold m$20.00 right quick…” 😢
You can tell he’s trying his eyes tell a story sorry it’s kids that have to deal with absent parents and the trauma they put on their innocent kids 😢🥺💔
Karamo, you are a kind soul. Out of all the shows, this one touched my heart. Dalvin is a respectable, scared and kind young man. I pray that God bring him and his dad closer.
I really enjoyed this episode, this was beautiful. Both well calm and reserved this was peaceful, I’m glad he got to know the truth. God bless them both 🙏❣️
Glad a 26 year mystery was discovered today. I KNOW I couldn't even imagine going though THAT. But then again, maybe, I could. I NEVER seen my biological father EVER, not one day in my life and I'll be 44 dis coming Saturday the 11th ( God willing ) 🤞🏾
When he smiled after getting those results broke me down 😭 I’m so happy for him. He just wants to be loved and safe. I pray him and his dad become close and build an unbreakable bond.
'I wasn't raised, I was tolerated' that was so very sad.
Hell yeah I AGREE 💯
Exactly 😢
So sad
That broke my heart 😢
Awwwww
He looks so scared and frightened
He needs a hug.😢
@wadilotus gthoh with that nonsense. What will a gd hug do.DA
He does and it is heartbreaking for me
He really does. Like he's afraid to make a sound
They both do tbh. There’s a lot of loneliness & hurt between them both.
To hear him say he was just tolerated really broke my heart! He still has a child-like innocence about him… I hope his father and paternal family really step in and give him the love he deserves!
Sigh...I feel so broken for him
I wish I could hug Dalvin and let him release his pain.
True
You Are Absolutely Awesome
That's exactly what he needs...he needs to cry it out!
I do too!😢
Me toooo 😢 let’s hug him here🥹💜💜💜
Dalvin we’re so proud of you, you’re so well spoken and grateful for who you are regardless of anything ❤️
He has the sweetest spirit. Brought me to tears because we as the children question our worth and why our parents didn't want us. He deserves the best ❤❤❤
Well said!❤🙏❤
I Didn't Question My Worth! My Parents Let Me Know My Whole Life They Loved Me And Valued Me.
Hugs 🤗 @@masalamouth
Thank You Awesome Person
@@maryharris8723many kids do not have such parents unfortunately.
I am so happy he is the father. The lady in the black jacket was praying so hard I thought she was a relative of the son
I thought so too!🤗
Just another FoS person.
I tho't the exact same thing !
I thought so too
Dalvin is lovely young man. You can tell he has been through a lot, but still managed to maintain a kind heart.
I loved meeting every bit of him through the tv screen.
What he told his dad after the result touched me
He’s such a respectful kid🥹 who wouldn’t want to be in his life
This young man seems so polite and respectful. The best guest I have seen on Karamo.
i LOVE his smile when his nerves stopped bothering him, after he got the results 7:42! Super happy for him
He has the sweetest spirit🥰Ohh Man when he said he wasn’t loved, he was tolerated😭😭😭so humble, and mild mannered
That statement send a chill through me, I just want to love on him & give him the Biggest hug!
Yes !!❤ omg i wish i could give him a big old hug’ . I can’t say ive ever been in the system, but i agree when he said he was tolerated and not loved
“I want to give you a hug too” that is so sweet omg 😣
The father look like someone who has been through a lot. God bless you man
My heart goes out to this intelligent and brave young man.
Karamo looking fly in that suit
Yessss that suit is FLY!!!
It’s so sad because you can see the minimal amount of emotion and pain on his face because he wasn’t modelled to feel the way he deserves to 😢
They both seemed extremely vulnerable! They will be okay! Absolutely love the positive outcome!
I know he pulled at all of our heartstrings. 😢l wish him all the best 😊
Yes.❤
I read a few comments about the father not looking happy after hearing the results. I believe he already knew the answer. Besides, he strikes me as a kind of man that don't openly show emotions. If he didn't want any part of his son, he would have stayed home.
Facts! I can see in his face he was overwhelmed but accepting everything ❤
They are speculating. They look just alike. The father is a man who spent years in prison. I have faith he will step up and do right by his son. He also probably feels guilty. He is feeling that his presence would have made many differences in his son’s life
@@divahjedon5381 right on point...that guilt is a mf
Not excusing him by any means but i think he’s also fighting shame
HE should have stayed home
Yall I held my breath on this one. It made me bawl! I was like the lady in the audience praying 🙏
I want to give him a hug and be there for him. His spirit is so forgiving and humble.
He has the prettiest smile! I’m so happy he smiled and gave Karamo a hug
I want to hug him. I hope he gets all the love and support he needs moving forward
You can tell that’s his son, they speak just alike 😂
@@Brandibandz40 and they look alike as well
@@MellowSoFocusedno they don’t.
This young man got me praying over a RUclips video! That man had to be his father, because that is what they both needed. God bless them.
He has this entire comment of strangers in tears! We all have fallen in love with Dalvin!
I'm crying, I am happy for him. I hope they can stay together. He needs his dad, even at his age.
It’s always sad seeing men not stepping up and being there for their potential kids. At least be kind, it costs nothing.
and mothers
@@sansanaikait’s mostly men
@sansanaika it's majority men. There are way more single mothers than single fathers. 🤦🏾♀️
@@SunShine-vo8kjjust because mothers are there physically doesn't necessarily make a difference they can physically be there but shows not affection or anything which is a form of neglect
I am sad from seeing these broken men and younger blk men losing their identity
It’s a blessing his dad wants to be there for him. I’m 30 and when I met my 45 year old father for the first time last year we just had one conversation then he went ghost. It’s always better to have a dad there. Especially for black males.
Your dad is the same age as me. I've always wanted a son, but unfortunately, that never happened.
It’s His loss…Keep Being the Strong, Amazing Black King That you Are And God will Continue to Bless You and Strengthen You ❤❤🙏🏽!!
It's crazy how a lot of us were not shown affection as children. My mother passed after she had my brother, I was 2. I believe she showed me affection because how well other family spoke of her; I just can't remember much at that age. Granma stepped in, but she had issues because that was her only child so she would drink a lot and act mean, cursing us out, calling us names. When she wasn't, she could be sort of nice but there was still no affection. When I had each one of my daughters, I always showed them affection. 💯
aww he is so shy 🥰🙏🏾
the amount of love and cheers the crowd lets out when they hear the results makes me tear up 🥹🥹 that’s what i’m talking abt!!
The camera man so messy soon as the Dad said “it’s hard to get these eyebrows” he recording peoples eyebrows in the audience 😂
@@Moetdoll 😂😂😂
😭
That poor baby, just know that you have a great purpose for being here, God doesn't make mistakes and he knows that you were strong enough to go through this immensely hard journey for a reason ❣️ One of them being to show the world your life experience, so that we can all appreciate who we have in our lives and also to learn how to treat people better and change their ways love. So, thank you very much for sharing your amazing journey with us all, it truly is a privilege young Man❣️ Keep your handsome head up, never give up, & keep marching forward ahead son ❣️👍 You're Loved & Prayed for, by many that you don't even know❣️
Dalvin is a sweetheart I wanna be his friend 😌❤️
Me too!!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Karamo gave such great advice & his tone helps to reassure both of them. I'm praying for the young man and his father in that they can both feel comfortable enough to be family to each other.
The father has an intruiging face, eyebrows and eyes. Handsome man.
So strong ... last I saw my dad I was 3 yrs old than he popped back up when I was in 8th grade and said he'll come back and never did here I am 32yrs old and still haven't seen him BUT GOD .. I'm smart and have my own very independent and don't depend on no man 💯 God bless him wherever he is
It’s Definitely his loss❤❤❤ KEEP BEING GREAT HUN 💪🏾🙏🏽!!
Its something else going on with the son too thats not being said. I hope he can get the help he needs and the genuine love from his dad and new family.
Here is a 🤗 Dalvin, I'm sorry your pain. ♥️
He gat a smooth soul ..he is a great gentleman ❤
Man I clicked on this & after watching for 60 seconds I knew that was his father because they look just alike!
poor guy! my childhood was much the same,so I totally understand how he feels!😓💔💔💔
So many children who missed out with their parents. SMDH!
Dalvin is so calm and collected. I'm here in SA. I wish I could adopt him.
‘Not raised, but tolerated’ wow
I want to hug him and make him my forever nephew 💙
That soft-spoken mannerism of this kid is gene-deep. I pray for his sake, his father is able to step up, and I am so relieved he got this level of closure. I wish them the very best.
Agreed!
@ashleyw.e 🫡 ma'am!
10:08 ❤I need updates❤
Whenever the bond isn’t made from the start, it’s so hard to create. I met my dad when I was 10, and meeting him at age 10 wasn’t enough to build a bond like he had with my siblings that he had with his wife, who he raised from the start. I was always the odd man out. Still to this day we don’t speak. He doesn’t reach out and I don’t reach out either because I don’t know how. There’s so much discomfort that we never faced. I hope these two can over come the obstacles that my dad and I never did.
A premiere was set for this episode, this must be really good! Let’s see.
Ugh this broke my heart , that little boy never grew up 😢
We want updates and a follow up video. Hope he meets his siblings
He is like the sweetest dude ❤
I actually cried because he been through so much. I wish I could hug him and tell him it's going to be okay
When the maybe father said they have the same eyebrows and the camera panned to the women in the audience with identically slain brows 🙌🏽
What a sweetheart, I was so happy to see him smile when he found out. I hope they are as tight as they can be from now on. ♥️
When he told K for a hug the tears fellllllll!!! That baby needs more hugs
I’m so happy he found at least half of himself in his dad. I hope they build n dad shows him all the love he was missing growing up! We need an update! Sending lots of hugs to this young man
I'm glad karamo pressed his father a little more, l have a feeling it's going to take a little more than just being there for his son. Communicating, reaching out often and regularly, empathy and understanding will all be needed
This was a tear jerker 😢 I'm so happy for them!
That poor baby, I really crossed my fingers hopping that was his father b/c the “I’d feel lost” really got to me. I hope he’s more at peace & finds security within himself.
So glad this young brotha got some answers. Regardless if their relationship works out at least he knows👍🏾
I felt very sad and teary when he said he never been told, "I love you" or even given a hug. He was tolerated rather than been trained... 😢😢This is too much for a child to go through. 😢😢😢
Love the Happy Ending ❤
I love how the power of The Most High came through with positive answers for this sweet guy after him and the lady in the audience took a moment to pray. 🙏🏾 I prayed too and The Elohim delivered! Amen HalleluYah! I’m so happy for him 🥹
Never promise a child and never fulfill it.. that's the worse thing you could do.
yes!! my mom broke so many promises growing up and it really left a mark. for her it was just another tuesday 😂
If you didn’t man up after all these years you did neglect him. You will be surprise how small things can affect a broken child.
Karamo- Please educate the public on Adoption Trauma. It disgusts me that the general puplic seems to always dismiss and invalidate the trauma of adoption and how it actually effects the Adoptee. There are more community supports for the Adoptee parents -not even the parents that relinquished the child OR the actual Adoptee! Unacceptable.
"The reason i couldn't take care of you is because i was out der n da streets, and i couldn't have you out der wit me. You had a roof ova your head, i had different roofs." -The dad
My God be with them both.
I AM SO HAPPY FOR THEM BOTH...AND, I WISH THEM THE BEST IN LIFE....💯🙏🏿🙏🏿
Tear jerking episode for sure! I hope they can rekindle ❤
Couldn’t here get quick enough to watch Karamo to solve this dysfunction.
All of this young man’s formative years have passed him. The only thing his father can teach him is how to navigate the prison system and abandon his responsibilities. He didn’t come back because he didn’t want to be bothered with him. He is old now and wants to mooch off him. I can see him now “let let me hooold m$20.00 right quick…” 😢
You’re right. I’ve seen how they come back and want to be treated like they raised their kids. You been running the streets ain’t did nothing
father is running out of time
He such sweet young man
You can tell he’s trying his eyes tell a story sorry it’s kids that have to deal with absent parents and the trauma they put on their innocent kids 😢🥺💔
I pray that this young man gets all of the love and support that he needs, and deserves! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I feel for you Dalvin and I wish you the very best. You deserve so much in life and I believe if you keep pushing, you will get it!
Awwww!!!🫂 That young man is so genuine.✨️ I pray that build a healthy relationship.🙌🏿
Karamo, you are a kind soul. Out of all the shows, this one touched my heart. Dalvin is a respectable, scared and kind young man. I pray that God bring him and his dad closer.
I'm bawling within the 2 minutes. Such a gentle spirit
I feel like he looks at Karamo and wishes he was his dad😢
yeah 😢
Hey cousins❤
Hey boo❤
@@JessicaChapman-hx3oslet’s get into the mess sis
🎉 Hey cousin!
I'd love to receive help from your show
Please
Hey!!!
i want to hug him so bad 😩 i pray God heals his heart !
I wish I could give Dalvin a hug to show him a little love ❤
yessss karamo!! tell him again he deserves to be celebrated and not tolerated ❤️🙏🏾
Congrats on finding the answers you've been seeking Dalvin.
Why bring innocent kids to this world to suffer, may God bless you and all innocent kids out there
this is the first time i’ve ever cried from karamos videos 🥲🥲🥲
dallin is such a sweetheart
Karamo out here solving mysteries!!
He looks just like him and oh my 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏽‼️ I pray that this young man heals from his pain and brokenness. I wanted to give him a hug. 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😭
Why is dna after birth not yet mandatory?
That is very good question
@@nwannaben560 It is not necessary
Momma Was Putting out to the whole neighborhood! 😮
I really enjoyed this episode, this was beautiful. Both well calm and reserved this was peaceful, I’m glad he got to know the truth. God bless them both 🙏❣️
You’re a 👑, brother I’m praying for you . 🙏🏾
Glad a 26 year mystery was discovered today. I KNOW I couldn't even imagine going though THAT. But then again, maybe, I could. I NEVER seen my biological father EVER, not one day in my life and I'll be 44 dis coming Saturday the 11th ( God willing ) 🤞🏾
When he smiled after getting those results broke me down 😭 I’m so happy for him. He just wants to be loved and safe. I pray him and his dad become close and build an unbreakable bond.
This episode made me cry 😢😢😢