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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024

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  • @Chaos936
    @Chaos936 6 месяцев назад +1544

    I can't die like this,and neither can you..we got this

    • @Iwillwin88
      @Iwillwin88 6 месяцев назад +7

      Facts 💯‼️

    • @hunterbrandon8391
      @hunterbrandon8391 5 месяцев назад +16

      Get up brother 🤝 Greatness is calling

    • @trevlonify
      @trevlonify 5 месяцев назад +10

      I’m honestly tired of this. Literally got nothing else to do but keep forging ahead now.

    • @rickgrim9521
      @rickgrim9521 5 месяцев назад +5

      Train on Brothers, we are all going to make it 💪 zyzz

    • @emotionalsoulz
      @emotionalsoulz 4 месяца назад +2

      this might be the quote that pushes me

  • @samb6416
    @samb6416 6 месяцев назад +2340

    I was depressed for 7 years, the only way I managed to get out of the hole was my saviour Jesus Christ and the father God. Pray, pray and pray again. Ask for forgiveness, ask for mercy and seek guidance. God will clear your path.

    • @KOTJJosh
      @KOTJJosh 6 месяцев назад +152

      You can pray all you want but if you dont do the work gods telling you to do it wont even matter

    • @murderyogafin
      @murderyogafin 6 месяцев назад

      Wtf is this jesus shit in these videos! There is no god and adults with imaginary friends are stupid

    • @adrianmikulski6845
      @adrianmikulski6845 6 месяцев назад +50

      You get out with your own strength alone.

    • @crushfather9304
      @crushfather9304 6 месяцев назад +16

      @@KOTJJoshJehovahs witness detected opinion rejected Jesus tells us that we are saved not by our works but by our faith in him

    • @MeestahMineCrofta
      @MeestahMineCrofta 6 месяцев назад

      @@adrianmikulski6845not alone

  • @TheOnlyMonologue
    @TheOnlyMonologue 6 месяцев назад +586

    This was a great reminder, I went to my dream school for music and I had scholarship all paid for. I got kicked out my first day there. My girlfriend broke up with me the day before and I was in the darkest moment of my life. My Ma passed away due to cancer then a few weeks later so did my little brother. I was homeless in the middle of Boston and I felt like I ruined my life and I had no control over what was happening and that was scary. I picked myself up and although I felt like I was alone I pushed myself forward. Now I have the biggest opportunity of a life time boutta make 6 figures in my early 20s doing what I love the most. Yall will see me on top one day and I promise that to myself and everyone I lost.

    • @KOMODO_7
      @KOMODO_7 6 месяцев назад +17

      Amen ❤

    • @antwondo
      @antwondo 5 месяцев назад +8

      Amen shoutout from boston to

    • @EntityZ3.264
      @EntityZ3.264 5 месяцев назад +9

      all the power to you, my friend

    • @r.aj2312
      @r.aj2312 5 месяцев назад +8

      What a story man,you're an inspiration❤

    • @christophera.3143
      @christophera.3143 5 месяцев назад +2

      That's beautiful to hear man ❤️

  • @SupremeSensei98
    @SupremeSensei98 4 месяца назад +1188

    25 pushups for every like(with video proof)

    • @Haramblade
      @Haramblade 4 месяца назад +31

      You actually do them. Good job man keep it up

    • @arcadiajoinus
      @arcadiajoinus 4 месяца назад +7

      Keeep it uppppp 😂😂😂, all love bro ❤❤

    • @Seamen_Shuckmeso
      @Seamen_Shuckmeso 4 месяца назад +8

      Damnnnnn this kid actually does it!

    • @rob8473
      @rob8473 4 месяца назад +6

      Do it for you brother, not for the likes. You are that guy.. you are that guy!💪🏻

    • @senseibean1663
      @senseibean1663 4 месяца назад +1

      Best of luck brother

  • @chadbroskey6204
    @chadbroskey6204 2 месяца назад +73

    Worst advice in this video is that you shouldn't sleep 8 hours a day, for me sleep was crucial to the grindset

    • @monigee3925
      @monigee3925 Месяц назад

      ❤❤

    • @300thNPC
      @300thNPC 29 дней назад +1

      LeBron James sleeps 10-11 hours a day

    • @810haki
      @810haki 8 дней назад

      Depends on what your goal is. If it’s fitness related, then 100% you need good sleep

  • @gam940
    @gam940 5 месяцев назад +172

    " Mountain tops are for views and inspiration , but fruit is grown in the valley" - Billy Graham

  • @Scuzzy10
    @Scuzzy10 6 месяцев назад +312

    I needed this. I had such a rough weekend, trying to study after not having been in school for like 20 years. Standing on the bus this morning on my way to gym. I have to own my adversity and struggle so my 8 year old son has a hero that paved his own way

    • @ritchysamossa5474
      @ritchysamossa5474 6 месяцев назад +3

      Im about to lose my relationship and i have a child 1 fckng year old and my two week was very hard and i m lost and i dont know what to do i feel like. A looser who does everything wrong and it my fault

    • @Leo-ew6wi
      @Leo-ew6wi 6 месяцев назад +1

      go get it

    • @hermaintufail3849
      @hermaintufail3849 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@ritchysamossa5474 You can do it !! Don't give up I beg u don't give up you can do it ! 😭💞💞

    • @ritchysamossa5474
      @ritchysamossa5474 6 месяцев назад

      @@hermaintufail3849 thank u i trie my best its all i can do

    • @YourNewStepdad38
      @YourNewStepdad38 6 месяцев назад +1

      keep grinding man it takes courage to go back into a learning environment after so long, but don't think you can't do it with practice, and technique you can learn anything at any time in any point in life! I'm proud of you for finding some light in the dark

  • @Omenxiiii
    @Omenxiiii 4 месяца назад +81

    Abused as a child. Parents left. Never felt love. Screwed up in school. Expelled over and over. Got into drugs. Business partners stabbed me in the back. Failed businesses. Failed relationships. Drug addiction. Got a felony. Done time. Complete isolation. I’ve had periods of success and money but the inhibition to create real relationships has messed me up. I have suffered. When does it get better

    • @nelson-fz4ny
      @nelson-fz4ny 4 месяца назад +20

      Your question shouldn’t be when it gets better. Your question should be how to make it better; when you decide to start and keep working towards a better position then you’ll get there naturally

    • @zk7108
      @zk7108 3 месяца назад +4

      It gets better when you encounter the truth. Jesus is the love you’re looking for, seek first his kingdom and then his righteousness and all of these things will be given unto you as well. We were never meant to find it outside of him, he is the way the truth and the life. Goodluck and godbless, I pray you find him.

    • @AJMan-fk4ge
      @AJMan-fk4ge 3 месяца назад

      Amen 🙏
      ​@@zk7108

    • @LeonExile05
      @LeonExile05 3 месяца назад

      Get away from the people you are drawn to. You’re there in the trenches to learn something about yourself, to realize that your soul is worth more than those treacherous people you keep finding. Remember, they aren’t finding you. You are finding them and letting them in. You know what to look for now, you know how to keep yourself safe. You have to find your reasons to be and find a different way to obtain them. Different from what you are doing now. I had to leave the ghetto, leave the toxic people to find peace. You can learn a lot from suffering, your brain will find a way to evolve if you let it. When you get tired of suffering you will adapt and create a new path to escape that. Those people who screwed you over mean nothing, they will continue to do the same until life stops them and then it will be their turn to be lost. The sooner you can pull yourself back up the sooner you can get to finding solutions and your own path. Stay strong, learn from what makes you feel weak. You can do it brother, this is the life you’ve been given. If it feels like a curse, turn it into a blessing or it will sweep you away into the depths. Good luck!

    • @ozzyx3485
      @ozzyx3485 3 месяца назад +3

      It gets better once you make the changes. Seems like a lot of complaining and counting failures look at the blessings. Look how many fuck ups you got listed and your still alive and breathing getting more opportunities to learn from your mistakes. Keep at it brother I don’t want to be soft on you cuz life isn’t soft, but it will get better I promise but review your downfalls and see where you failed and grow from it.

  • @Whydoyoucare_1
    @Whydoyoucare_1 4 месяца назад +33

    I lost my home, lost my dog who was my best friend..living in a car with my wife still going to work with a smile on my face still being optimistic. Some days I wanna give up..but when I look at my wife making the most outta what we got. It gives me that edge to keep pushing. Been a rough start this year. Getting denied every application for apartment one after an another but meanwhile I’m getting promoted so quickly at my job. I just know that this suffer will be worth it. Things happen in life. It will kick you when you’re down..never give up and never doubt yourself. If k can have hope so can you

    • @Strawcrack
      @Strawcrack 3 месяца назад

      Thats what we are talking about man!! 💯

  • @Jmisafk
    @Jmisafk 6 месяцев назад +69

    I was fat back when I was 14 addicted to corn and decided to start doing push secretly in my room cuz I always hated myself now I'm 16 turning 17 next year I stayed consistent and I got fit. It gets easy everyday but the hard part is u need to do it everyday. Good luck kings

    • @fronk9547
      @fronk9547 6 месяцев назад +1

      did you start going to the gym? I do the same where i secretly workout in my room and want to know if its possible to get fit just within my room.

    • @Jmisafk
      @Jmisafk 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@fronk9547 believe it or not I was probably 70kg+ I'm small like 5'6 (Filipino genetics) I went from 70kg+ - 53kg yes it is possible by just doing push ups and squats + clean diet cut out all junk foods ice cream, chocolates. Yes i got a big chest , shoulder and bicep
      I was 14 yo back when I started now I'm 16 now. Good luck man :)

    • @Jmisafk
      @Jmisafk 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@fronk9547 now I go to the gym in Saturdays and Sundays cuz I have school ( I started going to the gym last January 2024 )

    • @fronk9547
      @fronk9547 6 месяцев назад

      Wow thats sick.. Ty for the tip, for me its the opposite where im quite skinny (i had anorexia before) so i wanna build muscle. Thank you for the info tho and Good luck on your grind too!@@Jmisafk

    • @aaronnoori6633
      @aaronnoori6633 6 месяцев назад +4

      Being addicted to corn is wild

  • @AndyIsLazy18
    @AndyIsLazy18 5 месяцев назад +66

    Stop fantasizing you better make it a reality

    • @PermisoMMG
      @PermisoMMG 3 месяца назад +5

      YEEEESSSSIRRRRRR

  • @vanilla_gunpowder7275
    @vanilla_gunpowder7275 6 месяцев назад +103

    3:49 This statement is really dangerous. You can sleep 5 hours a day and spend the rest like a zombie or 8 hours and feel fresh and focused. By being sleep deprived you increase the probability of making bad decisions. Prioritizing your health is always better in the long run. The hours you spent working instead of sleeping will be later taken from you as your health.

    • @fabiochristiaan1128
      @fabiochristiaan1128 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah, good sleeps makes you better. It increases your testosterone and thus makes you more of a man

    • @cfdaboss882
      @cfdaboss882 6 месяцев назад +14

      Yeah, i pretty much agreed with everything other than this, 8 hours is scientifically proven to be the amount of sleep we need to function correctly. I do see what he's trying to say, but I don't think he realizes that if I go to sleep at a good time, I can still get up early and also get a good amount of sleep lol.

    • @Josiah_Vidzro
      @Josiah_Vidzro 6 месяцев назад +1

      100% agree you make that “1/3” of your life shorter

    • @jevonmccrary6663
      @jevonmccrary6663 6 месяцев назад +2

      You also gotta think.. that mindset is what got Steve where he is now, what set him apart frfr.

    • @jra.ine777
      @jra.ine777 5 месяцев назад +5

      Steve Harvey is a clown and has no business giving anyone life advice frankly.

  • @itzmealan2121
    @itzmealan2121 6 месяцев назад +453

    I’m going through a break up. I’m so sad. It hurts. I feel empty. I still love her. I wanna cry I wanna scream I get mad. Everything I do feels weird, gym isn’t my comfort zone anymore. I feel so weak. Everything is hard. I fucked up. I still want her and I want her to want me. But yet here I am parked outside the gym mentally preparing myself to go in. Fuck this is hard. But imma do or die. Imma either improve myself or die trying. 🫡 Hopefully I’ll come back to this comment with good news.

    • @DMM9619
      @DMM9619 6 месяцев назад +97

      Man, I was in the same place a year ago. My girl of 10 years cheated on me, left me with nothing. The gym was my only sanctuary, the only place I could push myself beyond my limits. One year later, I can’t say it’s all better, but being shredded and making my money is much more important than feeling sorry for yourself. Don’t do it to prove that she was wrong, do it to prove to yourself that you were always enough. Stay strong brother you ain’t alone out here 🔥🫡

    • @motivationmindset101
      @motivationmindset101  6 месяцев назад +49

      Just improve every day

    • @aceliu5997
      @aceliu5997 6 месяцев назад +30

      My ex wife had an affair(twice), we have two kids together. I left her after the 2nd guy.
      But I'm still around for the kids. Stay strong brother.

    • @HeribertoRoman-y1e
      @HeribertoRoman-y1e 6 месяцев назад +13

      In Jesus Christ you will find comfort and the greatest possible pursuit of exellence, so all who hear i say, you wanna be better be a True follower of Christ along side all he tells you to do

    • @Brando8654
      @Brando8654 6 месяцев назад +7

      Hang in there, I remember the pain you are feeling right now and I know it isn’t easy and whatever we say won’t help right away, but you gotta stay strong pain is temporary

  • @VicenteLimaBr
    @VicenteLimaBr 5 месяцев назад +13

    The discipline I developed in the gym saved my life from depression. 8 years in the battle, I no longer have depression but I enjoyed this battle so much that I want to be in the gym until my last day on earth. The pain trying to get that last rep, that's what makes me feel alive.

  • @sporter81
    @sporter81 6 месяцев назад +79

    Single parent of 6 children, came out of a serious criminal life doin 4 year jail sentence, got out took on the kids and there was many times a day that thoughts of quitting and suicide where invading my mind and trying to action it.... sooooo close sooooo close many times a day many many days yet here i am, out of jail years lata and never gave up. Now im studying , building a business, working part time and all my kids are doing amazing! Got our own car rent our own double story house not far from the water and the grind doesnt stop. Usually i dont spent time replying but this is similar to the motivation stuff that i found in those quitting moments that sparked something.
    It seemed the hardship would never end and after 2 years of beasting it just "next move" next move work on ya next move and your next move making will project the thinking spectrum out to find clarity....
    NOBODY EVER BELEAVED I COULD PULL ALL THIS OFF AND HERE I AM! HAPPY GROWING AND LOVING LIFE.
    Next move next move next move.....thats the focal point and everything eventually comes good especially when your a talented focused move maker... always ya next move that counts!

    • @andi8025
      @andi8025 6 месяцев назад

      Who asked?

    • @sporter81
      @sporter81 6 месяцев назад

      @@andi8025 obviously not you andi.... your six pack short of a carton mate 🤣🤣

    • @sporter81
      @sporter81 6 месяцев назад

      @@andi8025 maybe you should ask mummy 🤣🤣.

    • @Eyezick-l5z
      @Eyezick-l5z 6 месяцев назад +9

      Hell yeah man! Love that "next move" thing, gonna keep that in my mental toolkit
      Wish you all the best

    • @sporter81
      @sporter81 6 месяцев назад

      @@Eyezick-l5z saved me brother it really did. Bless you man and wish it helps

  • @Yoshoggutha
    @Yoshoggutha 6 месяцев назад +77

    I spent 2 months straight getting into a routine and started feeling better, and then I had a big setback. I spent the past month feeling like shit struggling, and I know that it's because I was avoiding getting back into the routine. It can be really difficult to find motivation, but I have to do it if I want to see things change.

    • @motivationmindset101
      @motivationmindset101  6 месяцев назад +4

      Take control

    • @luisgalvan1384
      @luisgalvan1384 6 месяцев назад +3

      You got it! Setback was just temporary. Back to it today. And in a week you’ll be 8 days in

    • @Yoshoggutha
      @Yoshoggutha 6 месяцев назад

      @@motivationmindset101 I'm learning how to. I'm coming out of a very codependent stage of my life and learning how to be myself again.

    • @Yoshoggutha
      @Yoshoggutha 6 месяцев назад

      @luisgalvan1384 Thanks! I'll get there. I have to get my priorities straight again and stop falling back on old coping mechanisms. I need to learn how to be independent again.

    • @chupavi2235
      @chupavi2235 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@YoshogguthaDon't only have routines, build frameworks. Routines are not malleable, that's their strength and their weakness.

  • @cevothy
    @cevothy 4 месяца назад +14

    Randomnly got this recommended. I am a twenty year old woman that is just plain behind in life. I am done letting depression take a hold of me. Stay strong everyone, change at least one tiny habit right now and start being the person you dream of.
    1 Month update for the ones who believe they are a lost cause (because i was one of them): sure some days i still feel weak and rot in bed but not like before! I reconnected with some old hobbies, picked up a language I wanted to learn for ages, achieved a better social life and changed my diet a little bit for the better. If I can do it you can too! Dont change everything at once (you will fail) just change up your routine little by little and you can achieve what you can put your mind into!

    • @soranriver6923
      @soranriver6923 4 месяца назад +2

      21 and feeling the same. Big things aren’t built by big things, they’re made of all the little things put together. Small changes create Big results. Keep going and you’ll make it.

    • @onyamecoleman9959
      @onyamecoleman9959 3 месяца назад +1

      20 years old you’ve barely started life fr. But I am proud of what you’ve been doing to make sure you DON’T get behind. Congratulations! ❤

  • @eurekayankee6690
    @eurekayankee6690 6 месяцев назад +46

    i think perhaps most genius comes through joy, working out can feel really good.

  • @ToothpasteNorangejuice
    @ToothpasteNorangejuice 4 месяца назад +5

    I’ve been Majorly depressed for the last 5 years. It was hard getting back but I’ll tell you rn to anyone who’s depressed. Ik the pain will never go away but trust me you can make it feel better by trying. Plz to those who want to let go remember that the grass is GREENER in the other side TRUST me. I’ve been through fucking he’ll but god dammit I’m here and you guys will SURVIVE.

  • @Johnembraceall
    @Johnembraceall 3 месяца назад +3

    Currently homeless right now, but I am not going to give up on my dreams and goals, I will keep fighting for those who feels like giving up just know that god is with you no matter what you been through just keep going and going

  • @ShadowCollector420
    @ShadowCollector420 6 месяцев назад +12

    Working 2 jobs I still don’t feel I’m going anywhere in life this video allowed me to think about different options

  • @sub.sa.3058
    @sub.sa.3058 2 месяца назад +1

    When you come home depressed, and everybody laughing at you, and calling you pathetic and worse, because something that's easy for them, for you is extremely hard, these videos *_HIT DIFFERENT_*

  • @jmartinezsmn
    @jmartinezsmn 4 месяца назад +4

    Pushed and lost a soulmate because i didn’t know how to be vulnerable and not fear rejection, then for some reason God/devil ripped the hope of us getting back together away from me on my birthday (the last thing I was clinging on too, truly trying to better myself in hopes of us rekindling one day) and I tried to take my life that night by hanging myself. Fortunately the cables I used snapped on me twice while I was hanging, the second time I was unconscious for while before it snapped. I’m looking at life differently now and truly am blessed to be fighting for another day

    • @bethkirky
      @bethkirky 4 месяца назад +1

      I'm glad you're still here ❤ keep fighting, the world needs you, that has to be fate ❤

    • @jmartinezsmn
      @jmartinezsmn 4 месяца назад

      @@bethkirky Thank you ❤️, we’re all needed

  • @Iliketobeeducated
    @Iliketobeeducated 6 месяцев назад +9

    Not gonna lie, I feel like I have suffered enough but jobs not done yet. I’m glad I’m comfortable being alone, trying to better than I was yesterday, cooking, saving, working out, studying. Everyday is an opportunity to be better than me from yesterday.

  • @Nakedmolerat3552
    @Nakedmolerat3552 5 месяцев назад +3

    7:30 "Everything worth doing is hard, and the more worth doing it is the harder it is. The greater the payoff the greater the hardship."

    • @Darrentime
      @Darrentime 3 месяца назад

      I loved this part as well

  • @NatesNest
    @NatesNest 2 месяца назад +1

    Was never enrolled in school until sophomore year of highschool. Obviously I had to drop out; I was never taught basic multiplication. In 2022 got a GED study guide and got my Ged within a month- spent 2023 saving to go to community college debt free-went to school in 2024 and am now an EMT. It’s taken time but I will not let my past define my future- neither will you brother, keep fighting! You will make it.

  • @Ahrysa
    @Ahrysa 5 месяцев назад +4

    Struggle builds character but can build in the wrong direction if it goes on for too long. Poor sleep sleep also leads to depression/heart disease so find a middle ground and balance for things. No perpetual all nighters for the grind. You got this, just do one thing at a time.

  • @thebigx9166
    @thebigx9166 6 месяцев назад +4

    Romans 5:3 but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance.

  • @orlandomorales5423
    @orlandomorales5423 4 месяца назад +2

    I was watching motivational videos while on the treadmill today. When this one came up I turned the speed and incline up. Gotta suffer to grow and that’s what I did!

  • @Melvin-rd3rr
    @Melvin-rd3rr 6 месяцев назад +8

    Ngl I needed this. I’m just about done with my first in person term of college and I’ve procrastinated through the whole thing. I was pretty gifted as a kid academically so I never had to try much in class growing up. But god damn college is different. I actually have to be present and commit time to my studies to succeed. Again I’ve been procrastinating many assignments this term, including an essay that’s due tomorrow. I didn’t start on my final draft until about an hour ago because I became paralyzed by the overwhelming sense of dread that came with multiple missing assignments. Not sure if I’m going to pass this god forsaken class, but this video got me to recollect myself and ask “will you lie down?” “Are you done?” “Are you really ok with giving up?” Fuck no. Sure I may fail this class, but I’m not going to give up just because of that. Yes I’ve made mistakes and yes it’s unbelievably likely that my last minute efforts won’t amount to anything, but why should that be my reason to wait to try. In fact, this feels like the best opportunity to try. I get to build discipline and drive even if I don’t get rewarded. For this term, my effort is likely pointless, but that isn’t entirely a bad thing. I get to feel the repercussions of my paralysis and passiveness, while also building passion, drive, and endurance. It’s a weird dynamic and honestly I’m now proud of it by any means, but I guess I have to learn “the hard way” right? Here’s hoping I get a passing grade tomorrow.

    • @brads8350
      @brads8350 6 месяцев назад

      That's a great analysis of how you should move forward in situations like that. I think those kinds of experiences are very relatable to most people, including myself, but this is something to think about.

  • @trevorlewis1007
    @trevorlewis1007 4 месяца назад +2

    Hebrews 5:8- Though he were a Son, yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered;
    Hebrews 11:25- Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;
    D&C 121:6- Remember thy suffering saints, O our God; and thy servants will rejoice in thy name forever.

  • @natewold987
    @natewold987 5 месяцев назад +3

    My father has failed me in alot of ways. It has never deterred me from wanting to prove to him that he made somthing special. Time is against me but, I will make it. He will see. And we will prosper.

  • @kingashwood
    @kingashwood 5 месяцев назад +3

    Man, all I can say is thank you. GOD Bless

  • @GageGrimm96
    @GageGrimm96 2 месяца назад +1

    im in that middle chapter, none of my friends know or understand why I am secluded, working 24/7, waking up early, cutting out alcohol as much as I can, eating home cooked meals every day, missing my own birthday parties and my own celebrations for work and for clients. this shit is the hardest i've ever dealt with. because noone gets it. noone understands why I'm not with them, they think theyre losing me im sure, but I will be back, and I will be better, but I have to suffer through this

  • @malana8386
    @malana8386 4 месяца назад +7

    To grow you must flow, this teaching of suffering is a mental prison. I excel with no effort. Do what you love. Reprogram the metaphysical

  • @Invincible_Insights
    @Invincible_Insights 6 месяцев назад +10

    "It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are."

  • @therevenant8533
    @therevenant8533 Месяц назад

    For a little over a decade, it feels like my life just stopped moving. That was the day my mom was diagnosed with cancer. In 2016 i know my life stopped. The depression grew worse. I lost my grandfather, a childhood friend, and my mother. There isn't a day I don't miss them. Last year j thought life was giving me a break when i found someone but it only made it worse when we split up. She was my rock but now i am just pushing through because the pain is not going to go away but it will mold me to how i can be.

  • @servicecaptive
    @servicecaptive 4 месяца назад +1

    suffering is an opportunity in disguise. you should not be comfortable and if u are u should be putting yourself in undesirable situation with all your mind force. once you adapt try to look forward to more, and even more after that.

  • @Kheira-gu2bz
    @Kheira-gu2bz 5 месяцев назад +2

    I took my bac exam with a really bad mark and now again I'm repeating the bac exam for the second time and I'm struggling everyday sometimes I don't want even to study sometimes I think it's the bad choice to repeating the bac exam but I always remember the main goal which is the flame that always wakes me from my weakness zone is to be a med student I'll study to the last seconds of my life just to be a doctor please FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS if you couldn't do it nobody will do it for you !

  • @rhileyherring6972
    @rhileyherring6972 Месяц назад

    I remember the exact point in my life that I decided to make a change. And I did well for years. Now I'm 23, I have 3 kids, a job, a functional car, but I feel 45 years old with no chance of success. But I got this and so do you. We can make a comeback and change the course of our lives and our children

  • @marcoreus1897
    @marcoreus1897 4 месяца назад +2

    I work in health care, throughout my youth,i have had severe hairfall/baldness and I've encountered countless times people of the opposite gender suddenly change their demeanor as soon as they see me walking towards them and this feeling always sinks my heart to the very base. I work 12 hours a day to make ends meet and to save some money to get my dream job/degree and the hope that Sun will shine on my one day is the only thing keeping me sane and working. I just wanted to share my story with y'all and i guess some of us always play this game of life at a HARD mode.

  • @TopMotivation5499
    @TopMotivation5499 Месяц назад

    I am at the lowest point in my life. Got a degree with my parents hard earned money and now I can’t find a job to pay them back. Can’t seem to find any way to make their life better.
    These videos always helped me feel motivated to keep on going no matter how hard life knocks me out.
    Started this motivational channel 15 days back and I will post until I make it I DONT CARE. My parents need me my family needs me to make it AND I WILL.
    I will MOTIVATE others AND myself until our dreams come true.
    THIS HAS TO WORK OUT FOR ME MAN.

  • @not_your_typical_guy
    @not_your_typical_guy 6 месяцев назад +4

    "you must learn to get comfortable for being uncomfortable"

  • @nadegraphy
    @nadegraphy 4 месяца назад +1

    10:06 - This is a very interesting view that I didn't know someone else would think about. I thought I was the only one feeling this specific thing - those moments in which you feel that sadness of giving up the things that once made you ''happy'' for your own career or your own peace of mind AND IN THE SAME TIME not succeeding in your path yet. That ''middle feeling'' is one of the most complex I've ever lived. It teaches you a lot of things and it can tear you apart if you don't decide to stay solid.

  • @JWSU
    @JWSU 5 месяцев назад +2

    This resonates with me on a profound level.

  • @I_Love_KPoP_Yujin
    @I_Love_KPoP_Yujin 6 месяцев назад +11

    I failed an interview on Monday. Really wanted the job and was excited at the thought of starting it. Basically wasn’t given the time or day. The guy who interviewed me had the demeanor that I’m wasting his time. What dis I do? I sent him an email and thanked for his time and said I will come back stronger.
    I could quit right now and just go back to a job I hate, but pays good. Instead I’m continuing to work and will go back in 3 months stronger than before.
    Good luck everyone, I wish you the best!

  • @bukiamanda
    @bukiamanda 2 месяца назад

    Thank you - suffered reoccurring depression but I’m trying to get back up

  • @Shahmir.6
    @Shahmir.6 5 месяцев назад +3

    Im a 15 year old boy from the united kingdom and since i was 9 years old all ive thought about is basketball. My ambition is to reach the NBA as well as lose body fat so i can have maximum endurance on a basketball court. As of today im 68kgs and my aim is to be down to 64kg and be muscular, have the girl of my dreams which i chat to regularly on snapchat and accomplish the NBA. I will one day play for the NBA..

  • @Baha-Italia-GoddessBMW
    @Baha-Italia-GoddessBMW Месяц назад

    If you’re reading this, you are loved so much more than you know. We are rooting for you so much more than you know. LIVE 🔥 please live.
    - you wouldn’t see this if this message wasn’t for you. The law of attraction assures that.-
    Don’t you dare give up on yourself. Even if u have to walk instead of run. It’s about longevity, not a sprint. & even if you have to start with only doing 5 minutes.
    “If it’s hard. Good. That means no one else will do it. Good for you”

  • @beebskywalkin
    @beebskywalkin Месяц назад

    Needed to hear this, it feels like I’ve been putting my body through hell this past week and I’m sore and feel nauseous. Too bad though I need to suffer and get through this, I need to hit my goals.

  • @HorrorsLeast
    @HorrorsLeast 6 месяцев назад +2

    Went through my first ulcerative colitis flare up and felt like shit for 2 months and finally started getting normal, this all happened over Christmas and new years. Then 2 weeks later i was broken up with. I couldn't stop thinking about it and cried for 2 nights but then i realized that i needed to learn from my mistake. Grow from the suffering. I feel great and have nade improvements mentally and physically. Its just part of life

    • @300thNPC
      @300thNPC 28 дней назад +1

      I have UC as well. Similar story as yours. I think the passing of my mother 2 months before my first flare was probably what made me develop the disease. People like you and me have experienced intense levels of suffering which just makes us better built for it.

  • @SerdarMehmet-f2x
    @SerdarMehmet-f2x Месяц назад

    Having Aaron Finch at 4ra events brings a spark of trust and high-caliber sportsmanship

  • @HM-ng6vj
    @HM-ng6vj 3 месяца назад +1

    Best channel; thank you. Music a lot with words match perfectly. Wishing you all the best success ❤️

  • @slayerzzzzs
    @slayerzzzzs 5 месяцев назад +3

    Hey you. Stand up. Sit up. Dont be a run up. But you have to one up. Work. Only way to see growth is through work. Im not perfect, but im writing this so you and i can be perfect together. So lets go. Prove yourself anf many others wrong. REACH GREATER HEIGHTS

  • @DapperPup
    @DapperPup 2 месяца назад

    I’m in mid 20s.
    Although I’ve been achieved some important goals like graduating college, and getting into shape, I still feel like I have a long way to go to become who I want to be. I’m not where I want to be.
    I’m afraid of making the next step. I wanna have a good enough job to live comfortably but I’m afraid of interviews (it’s been some time since the last). I wanna be a safe and competent driver but being behind the wheel frightens me since I’m a newbie with my new car. I wanna be a skilled artist and one day hopefully make a living out of it sbut the amount of things one must learn is intimidating. I know what I must do, but I don’t know if I have the strength to do it. It’s like that one movie quote y’know?
    Watching this made me understand that one, I, MUST go through suffering if they ever want to improve. Yeah, I’ll likely cry and complain about how difficult it is. I’ll have to do things I’m not used to, things that make me uncomfortable, things I hate even. I’ll have days where I’ll barely have a chance to breath, let alone rest. I’ll go through many unpleasant, difficult things on the road to improvement. But if it means becoming, truly changing into my ideal self, then I’ll do my best to move forward. Even if it’s inch by inch.
    Of course, I’ll try to have some leisure time in between my efforts so as to not go crazy (All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy lol). But if, like I’ve alluded before, don’t have a chance, I’ll try my best to keep my composure with deep breathing or talk to trusted ones about how I feel. Something along those lines.
    I’ll do my best to be better, do things one by one and gradually adding more as time goes by and get used to the hustle. I’ll come back to this video every now and then for inspiration too.
    If you read all the way through here, thank you. Thank you for your time and consideration for reading this long comment/mini essay.

  • @wizard8437
    @wizard8437 6 месяцев назад +7

    The beat got me in that fucking mode 😤

  • @bonnielynn6662
    @bonnielynn6662 5 месяцев назад +2

    So much truth.

  • @arijitpatnayak2265
    @arijitpatnayak2265 6 месяцев назад +3

    Rethink when you need motivation just to work for yourself.. tired? Drink water and start again..

  • @vincentsilva5663
    @vincentsilva5663 2 месяца назад

    Reminder to always keep moving forward

  • @ultimateesports865
    @ultimateesports865 Месяц назад

    Radhe radhe❤

  • @SedaBaris-w2v
    @SedaBaris-w2v Месяц назад

    4ra having Finch as an ambassador adds a layer of trust and class to their events pure quality

  • @indymaximus1566
    @indymaximus1566 3 месяца назад

    I have everything i need in life, a decent education, decent job and loving family, but i have no friends or anyone who loves me, and i havent looked after myself for many years. I will soon be 28 and im currently on vacation in japan, alone. Having this time by myself has made me realise how bad things are for me back in my country, and i need to start making something with my life and taking care of myself

  • @RicardoReyes-d3d
    @RicardoReyes-d3d 29 дней назад

    My wife separated from me today. I fucked up, it was my fault I didn’t tell her the horrible things I’ve done in the past and she understandably furious and staying in my comfort zone for too long should have told her sooner but it was too late. I will miss her, I love her, I don’t want to hurt her. I need to let her go and move on and learn from what this experience and better myself. I’m 36, I know I fucked up but I will not give up, I need keep moving no matter how much it hurts

  • @tiaahnien3567
    @tiaahnien3567 6 месяцев назад +7

    I was underperforming every game, and I didn’t know why. But one day even without knowing I gave 110% to my game and the results surprised me

  • @dailyrepsofficial
    @dailyrepsofficial Месяц назад

    Growth often requires embracing discomfort.
    Research shows that pushing through challenges rewires the brain, making us stronger and more resilient. 🌱💪
    Let’s see setbacks as stepping stones and trust the process.
    Every struggle shapes a stronger version of ourselves! 🔥

  • @UnsolicitatedWisdom
    @UnsolicitatedWisdom 5 месяцев назад +2

    I hear all this and i get it I really do. I think we need to be careful to put suffering on a pedestal like this. Ive struggled a lot with the question is the suffering worth it and if it is why does it have to be like this? So yeah I agree this is where we are right now as a society but I’m not sure if I agree this is where we should be.

  • @london713
    @london713 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @BotanaManTVOfficial
    @BotanaManTVOfficial 6 месяцев назад +1

    Push through the pain - that’s the secret - in every way - muscles stretching, business, working out, cardio, relationships, drug withdrawal. Push through that part that you think is too much and learn why it is worth it.

  • @dariusrye483
    @dariusrye483 3 месяца назад

    My favorite coach from middle school would tell us. “Growing hurts! That’s why babies cry!”

  • @Deseik
    @Deseik 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am motivated, I am ready to act for the benefit of myself and the world

  • @mycomputer1476
    @mycomputer1476 4 месяца назад +1

    Jesus christ is great ❤❤ proud to be Christian

  • @Placergg
    @Placergg 2 месяца назад

    "Every thing you lost, is every step you take"

  • @SerhatAhmet-p6p
    @SerhatAhmet-p6p Месяц назад

    I'm mostly into roulette; the vibe feels just like a real casino. Got any favorites when it comes to table games

  • @TalesOfDylan
    @TalesOfDylan Месяц назад

    Thought this was gonna be a video exploring the suffering of anime mcs and equating it to real life with like actual talking points from someone severely disappointed

  • @sidsaxena7835
    @sidsaxena7835 14 дней назад

    Jai Shree Ram

  • @cotijepotomhajzle4385
    @cotijepotomhajzle4385 3 месяца назад +1

    Imagine our ancestors being the strongest,fastest,biggest animals around that were fine naked in cold or warm temperature...thus having no shortage of food or water no danger from anything except their own kind and no need for shelter from temperature either.
    Would that kind of ancestor have need to invent anything at all??

  • @Abs0luteZer0872
    @Abs0luteZer0872 2 месяца назад

    That's it. I'm done being a quitter. I'm done being a loser. I'm gonna start to live. Live to hurt and hurt to live. It'll be worth it.

  • @cfjlkfsjf
    @cfjlkfsjf 6 месяцев назад +6

    08:33 - 09:07
    Love that part.

  • @Peace-c5w
    @Peace-c5w Месяц назад

    Last night my mother cryed I do not know why but I will surpass everyone in my bloodline before she dies. I swore that to myself last night.

  • @Goldy109
    @Goldy109 5 месяцев назад +1

    You have an amazing channel. Thank you for your content!!

  • @ethanhauge8209
    @ethanhauge8209 3 месяца назад

    I'm gonna listen to these videos during my workout today instead of music holy shit

  • @duonglai5198
    @duonglai5198 3 месяца назад +1

    rich people don't sleep 8h/day is such a dump ass line

  • @tehpolk8291
    @tehpolk8291 6 месяцев назад +1

    These things make me emotional

  • @TubaFatma-w6p
    @TubaFatma-w6p Месяц назад

    Aaron Finch with 4rabet showcases their commitment to excellence in sports and more

  • @demented_visions3644
    @demented_visions3644 2 месяца назад

    truly i dont wanna type this by any means. like at all. but you cant give up. even when youre down in the dirt, asking god why me? youll then realize oh shit. thats why its me. you can be sad, depressed. whatever the case may be. what matters is that youre alive, kicking an still pushing forwards no matter what it is. i been through the ringer. still am going through the ringer. was r***d when i was 12. molested from a toddler till i was about 8 or 9. both parents have drug problems, i dont have family really. i feel like a failure bc i let ppl down, hurt the ones i love but yet some tiny voice in my head tells me that im strong. amazing an can achieve anything i want an to not be afraid bc itll all be worth it one day. everything in fact will be okay. i promise you. shit i was even bullied. im ginger as hell an was probably one of the only few gingers in this world left lol i always felt outcasted. ive been told im different or unpredictable an unapproachable. ive been told ill fail. i wont be anything in life but yet im here, alive an kicking. 26 years old an still pushing through. i promise yinz got this. god is by your side as well. ask god for guidence, wisdom an strength. it may seem like he wouldnt answer or will ever answer but he truly does. im typing this bc i know what its like to feel hopeless. stuck in one spot wondering when your break will come. just gotta be patient. gotta earn that break. once you prove you dont need breaks, youll start getting them so much to where youll stop asking for breaks lol jus gotta be strong big dawgies. everything will be okay an theres absolutely nothing to fear. zero.

  • @arthurcalik
    @arthurcalik 5 месяцев назад +1

    A dor te molda, mas isso não significa que a dor seja algo bom para você. Tudo depende de como você enxerga e usa as coisas e situações ao seu favor. A grande questão, não é sobre a dor em si, e sim, sobre sua zona de conforto. Enquanto você está na sua zona de conforto você não vai evoluir como pessoa, então se coloque em situações de ´´dor`` para crescer e evoluir. E isso é, fazer atividade fisica, ler, estudar, acordar cedo, cardio, etc...

    • @arthurcalik
      @arthurcalik 5 месяцев назад

      Se não, se eu usasse o a dor para moldar meus filhos, isso seria péssimos para eles, se essa dor fosse algo ruim (como bater neles, fisicamente ou mentalmente). Ao invés disso, tire seus filhos da zona de conforto, coloque ele para fazer esporte, ler, estudar, e ao invés de apenas tirar seu filho da zona de conforto, seja uma exemplo para ele, e ele então usará você como inspiração.

  • @Scott-nw2yy
    @Scott-nw2yy Месяц назад +1

    2:56 ... if he were talking about the great white hope...

  • @BlueOrca29
    @BlueOrca29 3 месяца назад

    I think I have suffered a lot but if I have to suffer more for my dream to become reality than fine so be it, I am ready for it all cause this is the path I have chosen and I won't stop until I reach the end of it.

  • @joshuakamau-qt5ik
    @joshuakamau-qt5ik 6 месяцев назад +2

    Absolutely the other side of suffering is victory trust the process

  • @brianogle8936
    @brianogle8936 6 месяцев назад +7

    Define suffer. You can suffer through uncomfortable times and pain that's gonna make you grow. Or you can suffer through mental agony that's gonna tear you down and lead you through rabbit holes you have no business going through

    • @Andmaj
      @Andmaj 6 месяцев назад +3

      both are the same. its what you let the suffering do to you. do you let it win? or do you overcome it?

    • @jgoldian47
      @jgoldian47 6 месяцев назад +1

      Its what you let the suffering do in the end, if you let it consume you you still have a lot to go and grow. If you use the suffering mental and physical, you'll come out a fucking superhero
      You'll grow so much

  • @AlexLifts777
    @AlexLifts777 6 месяцев назад +2

    Watching on my rest day feeling like shit lol

  • @naesenh.2162
    @naesenh.2162 Месяц назад +1

    Also don’t fall into the trap of chasing the cookie cutter success cliche: big house, family, money, career. I chased that down and felt absolutely miserable even with all the boxes checked. I almost unalived myself. Yes you need that stuff but you’ll come to realize the real journey and test of character begins when the thing you fear most is consciously revealed to you to overcome once and for all that challenge that will appear is tailored to your own greatest subconcious fear finally reaching the surface and is unique to you many people won’t even get it or support it and that’s when all the success you think you’ve accumulated will mean absolutely nothing to your wellbeing. That is when your true test of strength will come and it won’t be tied to hiding behind this bravado of masculinity or alpha male mindset only tied to your own human spirit to not lose the fight

    • @300thNPC
      @300thNPC 28 дней назад

      I have forsaken making lots of money and owning a big house and fancy car. I have never felt so free in my life. I can do what I actually want to do with my life

    • @naesenh.2162
      @naesenh.2162 28 дней назад

      @@300thNPC honestly you eventually realize it’s all just junk or gross excess sure a splurge here and there is fine but every new shiny thing you add to your collections just dulls the rest of the “nice” things more and more before you know it your things own you instead of you owning them.

  • @waldogangbang1894
    @waldogangbang1894 6 месяцев назад +10

    I suffer everyday (doing the dishes)

  • @motivacao-fire
    @motivacao-fire 6 месяцев назад +2

    Damn bro, nice channel.
    Greetings from Brazil.

  • @YunusCaglar-t4u
    @YunusCaglar-t4u Месяц назад

    Finch at 4rabet events is like a stamp of excellence always a sign that things are gonna be awesome

  • @ThoughtsEqualLife
    @ThoughtsEqualLife 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love Goggins

  • @GOJOistheBESTuRAT
    @GOJOistheBESTuRAT 4 месяца назад +1

    IM SORRY BUT I SEE ITADORI. I CLICK also self improving..!🙏

  • @Motivalley
    @Motivalley 2 месяца назад

    I feared pain until I learned that it's necessary for growth.

  • @askey316
    @askey316 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great compilation. Feedback - Put your message at the bottom of the screen. Spoils the video in the centre. Keep up the great work!!

  • @Luve2be
    @Luve2be 29 дней назад

    C'mon guys we got this!! We're all some strong shit