Tony Gaskins, pandering to women? Yeah, anybody that say that is hating or new to his content because it’s been times where I had to take a break from Tony because he be too real with us women (I come back doe 😂) but he really step on our toes and help women to stretch and be better out of love- I think the people who say Tony is pandering is because they aren’t use to men speaking to women with respect, or able to get their point across without degrading the woman in the process. But great message TG! Keep standing on business lol
Glad you said this. My kids dad refuses to pay child support. Each time I ask for support he says just sell yourself or teach our daughter how too. She's only 4. I cut off all contact. I rather suffer in silence. Than to be encouraged to be a prostitute. No thanks.
What the?!?! SMH!! You are doing right, move on mama…protect your peace, your children’s peace. TRUST me because I’ve been where you are but more importantly, TRUST in your Heavenly Father! EVERY provision will be fulfilled! 💛
Please go to court and get a CS order. He may not pay it now, but it will eventually catch up with him. By dealing with the court directly, you'll never have to deal with that level of disrespect ever again. Also, your BD will be held accountable--even if it's a matter of snatching his Social Security.
The lack of men responding in the comment section is truly self evident. The lack of likes are self prevalent. God Bless you even more for speaking on this!
As a Gen X woman, I couldn't believe when I noticed how so many men deferred to women when someone spoke to them about being responsible and accountable for their behavior. I think this mindset correlates with the inception of the red pill community. It is extremely alarming what is going on with men and only men can check their behavior so thank you for this. Now for the ladies, you see he said his own friend has some behavioral problems that probably wouldn't make him a viable candidate for a relationship. That being said, many men are having issues and most of us are aware of these issues in this day and time. We have to heal our trauma, increase our emotional intelligence, and be patient enough to wait for the right man. Because gone are the days when we can continue to say we were ignorant of how men behave and how they should behave because of the vast information we have access to online.
Woo Chile! This convicted me and I’m a woman. This tells me men know what they’re doing and I don’t have to correct them as a woman, I just have to be a lady and walk away from that conversation.
they got brother Tony out here about to pop a blood vessel!! 😩🤣 I’m a woman thats walking the walk and standing on bidness and even I felt conviction 🤣🤣 we appreciate everything you do Tony! If I have to go through this life single just because I’ve gotten the lesson, that’s the path I’m willing to go on. Many blessings to you and your family 🤍
@mareelovely I don't think he knew men were really this bad, I could tell from some past videos. Now he is seeing what we have been saying, it's pissing him off😂
“Walking the walk and standing on bidniss” 🤣🤣 SAME, sis, SAME! I just got re-baptized yesterday-(I’m 30yrs old w 3 kids from my long-term 10yr relationship, separated 2021). I REFUSE to live outside of God’s will & I am so content if that means I’m single still because no … I don’t want anything that God didn’t put His hands on!
Real talk 💯 i agree am 29 it’s time for me to evolve into the man i know and want to be and not only that most importantly what GOD set me out to be. Just hit your page up and signed up for you to be my mentor i pray GOD place it on your heart and mind so we can possibly meet and talk one day GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BROTHER.
Tony is the only man who teaches the exact same things my daddy taught me. Before my daddy passed in 2019 he was disgusted with men just like this. He started talking about an ex I had who was Australian. Told me the love that man gave me was the right way. Basically he told me to leave a certain group of men alone if I needed to. My daddy loved my mama like Tony loves his wife and he taught us everything Tony is teaching y’all. Listen to him. ((He was also a minister)) but not a typical minister he was an OG lol! He also said everything going on now is spiritual.
Tony!! You been going off lately and I absolutely love it 🥰!! Keep going! This video is amazing and I wish it could reach black young men who don’t have a father figures in their life.
This was a powerful message….God is truly using you Tony! It moved my spirit and put tears in my eyes to hear this man of God tell the truth & speak with such conviction! Every man needs to see this! It’s my prayer that this video reaches grown boys all over the world and that they are compelled to change their old thoughts & ways and man up in the name of Jesus!
Y'all have pissed tony off lol but this is so true. Men of this generation are so effeminate. No accountability, always going back & forth with women. It's actually a turn off. I'm fine with being single 🤷🏾♀️
I will be the first to say "Men are NOT the same anymore." I am glad A Man is calling other Men out to rise above. I have not given up on Men but I will continue to stand my ground when it comes to dating. I have standards that won't allow me to back down, understanding that it will draw the people moved by the enemy to try to shake me. I called the immaturity out on another man chanel because I am tired of seeing it. Funny how you spoke on Pac (one I used to love back in the days) when the scales were over my eyes. Lord God I thank you that I have eyes to see and ears to hear. God Bless All🙏🏼
Preach Tony!!! Not a one lie told!!!!!!! I had a guy to start talking about sex in our third conversation so I had to let him know that if that was his goal, I may not be the one for him. I didnt want him to keep talking about sex so I wouldn't be in a precarious situation if we met up again. He said he understood and that wouldn't be a reason to "exclude" me (his words). I said but if you change your mind, I'm good because I have made a promise to God that I will not give my body to a man that is not my husband. I just asked that he communicates with me that he changed his mind. He contacted me a couple more times after that conversation and then went silent. HAHA! This man was also 45 years old. I told God thank you for giving me the courage to state my standards early because it weeded him out early before any attachments began. Nice guy ,just obviously not for me, oh well his lost. He still leading with his lower head which is awful for a 45 year old man.
God bless you, Sis ❤ this is scary to think about, when we as women want to have real relationship and intimacy, men only want to talk about bed activity 😢
Stumbled onto what is undeniably what todays men need to hear. Years ago a male friend shared some personal dysfunction he receives under his mom’s parenting or lack there of…and it helped me see where most of the female badgering and disdain comes from. Boys are left to raise themselves with no male figure for positive guidelines and this is the outcome. So it’s a blessing that Tony has the gift of a positive dad who saved him from the same weak minded nature. The same weak minds that take their pain about women and turn against women without addressing the absent father they wish they knew.
Tony this message is truly needed! At the age of 25, I have given up on bm far as relationship and marriage material. I know it’s not “all of them” but it’s a huge collective that’s running around here with negative and feminine energy no matter the socioeconomic status. I think it’s only going to get worst, but for the ones who do want help and direction I think there is hope with men like you around❤️
That’s the part I can’t understand how some gay men hate women and want to be like a woman. And some act like they better than us. Make it make sense. I can respect a person more if you just be upfront.
Left behind, the problem with men is GOD, your relationship with the Creator of all things is suffering. Pick up the best book in the World the Holy Bible, KJV and READ it! Eat it with your mind and absorb it! Time is short, Rebuke, Repent, Restore your life with God Jesus Christ who gave his life for your sins and who is without sin. Wants you to heal. Leave the women alone until you fix your mind. I pray that you hear and receive this message. Sin is death, wages of sin is death. Get your mind right because the time is short!
👀 Wow! I have not heard a man speak with this much conviction besides my late grandfather!👴🏾 Tears are running down my face right now.😭He was the epitome of a real man. Thank you for this! A boot camp for men/boys would be great! Most Gracious🌷
My God!🔥. Bless these grown boys to hear what the Spirit of the Living God is saying unto thee. May their ears hear and heart change by the power of God!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’m not even gonna lie, I appreciate another man going off on the behaviors and actions of men today. I tried to tell a man that it’s the role of a man to lead his woman. So if the women of today seem out of order, it’s probably because the men are not leading. Of course he had a lot of opposition because it was coming from a woman. I wish I had this video to send because I don’t like to argue 😅
Toni has obviously ALREADY been ordained..... by God.....he is ALREADY preaching .......where God has led him to preach. Just saying......God's ways are NOT man's way.
Tony’s tiger done been loosed! He ain’t playin with us no mo. And you know what, I’m here for all of it. Because this is precisely what the community needs. ❤
This was amazing. I felt a bit of validation as a woman. I think we as women have our things we need to be accountable for and take responsibility for.... But deep down inside I have always felt that men carry a greater responsibility and if they could just do as Tony said ... Be accountable and take responsibility, we would have a healed world. As a woman my heart aches to see men stand up, man up and be accountable and responsible and Godly. I get so discouraged daily with what I see. But I keep my eyes on God and pray.
Mr.Gaskin, I respect and appreciate you telling the truth about the grown boys. I am totally disappointed and discussed by the behavior. Keep putting these grown boys on blast. It's ridiculous.
I've been saying this for YEARS!!!! And I have offended plenty of man boys by voicing my opinion in this manner! It's so refreshing and uplifting to see and hear these words coming out of a REAL MANS mouth! Teach them Tony!!!
We are Thankful for Mr. Gaskins. This world really needed A MAN to encourage these men to be honest and hold themselves accountable. It is Sad to hear so many black womwn say that they have given up on Love.
Tony I was watching The Little Rascals movie (1994 version) the other day with my kids and when they started reciting the bylaws of the He-man Woman Hater’s Club they were exactly everything that the manosphere is talking about today via RUclips and podcasting. Talk about a good laugh! 😂 I felt like I was in the twilight zone to see that come full circle like it has 😅. Lord help us!
I was married for many years to a man who is homosexual but he hid it. All of his close friends are married to very successful women and they are also gay. His porn addiction was unreal. My divorce from him was like divorcing a woman. He is petty, manipulative and HATES women. The tit-for-tat Tony mentions is off the charts with closeted gay men. I am so grateful to be out of that “marriage” because I didn’t know who I was dealing with. I am thriving but unfortunately I share a child with this man who is full of envy, self hate, jealousy, and is under demonic possession. Tony is speaking the truth and as more women wake up to what these men are filled with so many of us will choose to be single. Great video.
I have two adult children. I’ve worked a job for 30 years …(retired from government)…I put them through college with the help of my family. My children turned out to be great human beings, good citizens and successful in life in their jobs. Their father never took care of them,spent time with them, but guess what happened …..he got older and he was penniless and he died alone but…………. He didn’t have any cats… (sarcasm)😊
GOOO OOOFF on 'em Tony👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽...yall done got Tony bringin out the big guns w/the Father voice...but somebody had to...we just want our strong LEADING men back😢
Oooooooweeeee! Protect this man at all cost! One of the last real ones standing! Thank you Tony for saying what so many men are too afraid to admit out loud! God Bless Ya! 🤗
THIS IS THE MOST POWERFUL VIDEOS I’VE BEEN BLESSED TO SEE/HEAR! Thank you Tony for speaking the TRUTH. God knows everyone needs to hear this message. God bless this man in ways he never expected!
Exactly men who are walking the walk for REAL. You don’t need to go back n forth with a woman. Leave her! I mean it, there is a woman who will respect and submit to you. We are sometimes just simply with a person not for us. Men get heart broken and think we all do the same. NOT true. ex. Not all men are abusers because one abused you. FACTS WOMEN we MUST SUBMIT when we get married. If you don’t please stay single so you don’t send a damaged out into the world after he finally leaves you. Thank you 🙏
Nothing but Expansion and Elevation for you. Souls by the thousands will be saved through your Life and Ministry. The ones who are ready are listening to you right now. I’m so thankful for your Life, Ministry and Family. Continue with your Purpose and Assignment. All Is Well for you. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
This right here was the one I’m currently separated getting ready to divorce and this message spoke volumes to me about myself and my estranged husband you are the truth Tony 🙌🏾
Tony Gaskins let me tell you something… this video is oily!!! I’m not a man, but have raised a son, and THIS thing has an anointing on it!! I’m so thankful for you allowing God to use you in this way( cry loud and spare not), because it is my hearts desire for my son to understand God’s standard and expectation of him as a man, and not the culture. Thank you!!
Hey Tony, I have never commented in any of your videos before and this is the first time I felt compelled to do so. Thank you so much for speaking the heart-felt honest truth that every man needs to hear. I was so touched and moved that I was actually in tears at the end of the video. What triggered my emotions is because I am blessed to be married to such a man. Sadly, I lost him to cancer in 2021. He is the one who taught me to be selfless in our marriage and I'm eternally grateful for that. You won't know what a real man is like until you meet one. Kudos for all the wonderful work that you've done and we are blessed to have you. From Australia with love❤
Thank you mr gaskin. You are 1000000% correct 👍🏿 being faithful and being a husband has been the most wonderful experience that I ever adored when I found the right woman I’m blessed I love what you speaking about brother keep up the good work.
Your genuine disgust in these soft men nearly put me to tears. This is a reality I’ve been feeling for the past 2 years I can see and feel the shift in most of these men!! It’s so sickening!!! Thank you for speaking up on this terrible reality.
I 💯 agree. LORD, I was raised by a "REAL"man. Married a "REAL" man. And my husband and I raised our son to be a "REAL" man. All praise and glory to GOD ALMIGHTY.✝️💯🤔
This was one of the most realist videos I've ever seen Tony Gaskin do!!! I pray for more videos to come out!! I truly felt the passion and frustration coming from this and thank you so much Tony for speaking what men don't want to hear!❤❤❤❤❤
God bless your ministry and message. Yes I’m a woman but I approve this message a plead the blood of Jesus our men wake up, man up and take back control of our community - we need you
Mr. Gaskins if only there were MORE men like you even in our churches! Thank you a thousand times for saying the TRUTH and the way you said it. We who know Jesus have unity of the Spirit do we not?! I am very CERTAIN somewhere sometime this video is going Bless a man who NEEDS to hear it. Much respect and HONOR to you.... God's man. Praise The Lord Brother!! Yeah.👋👋🙏🏼😊
Love your passion TG! It starts with the father! A little girl’s first broken heart! And reason why so many people (men & women) have a difficult time accepting our Heavenly Father and His love 💖😭 I struggle with it but keep pressing for it because life hasn’t turned out in my ways I chose. So now I choose to see what God has for me with His ways.
Thank you for this video, it is very much needed. Walked away from a man after a few months. He realized I was looking for a real relationship and committment. He said just that, he was emotionally unavailable and "I'm too old for a relationship", that he was not happy with himself. He does not want to take accountability or responsibility for anything. He doesn't understand that that's the core of his unhappiness.
Man!! 🤚💯 Im married 8 years together 12 and when my husband doesnt do what he is supposed to do and ve who he is supposed to be our marriage isnt where its supposed to be argumentative and blaming not taking accountability. Its starts with the man and how he treats his wife, how he loves his wife, hiw he communicates with his wife. Women have needs and when you have a man stuck in their ways unwilling to meet your needs and them blame you for not responding sexually emotionally bc he has to start and set the pace and be a covering and eveything. Men please provide your women's needs and there is not a thing she will not do for you. Every thing will fall into line.
So correct...I watched you on the HI program then watched the HI episode with Yada. To your point, the male caller proudly called in saying his dad died and now his mother and wife work for him. Imagine being proud your dad left your mom without resources so you are wealthy but put her to work for you.
Amen Tony!! It really is at an epidemic level, the amount of downlow Black Men particular. It’s to the point I’m afraid of Black Men, I’m not sure what I’m getting, especially after my ex.
I wish I could like this video 100 times over. It’s not that woman are perfect but I’ve noticed our society has stopped seeing the impact men have on families and women.
Thank you for being brave and honest about what a man is supposed to look like. Unfortunately a lot of us women did not see what a real man is growing up and we choose and allow certain behaviors of these men that should have been checked when there boys-so I am grateful that you live what you preach and allowing God to use you. Some of these men probably didn’t have a man to teach them how to be a man growing up- so thank you for using your voice!!! Hope God continues to use your voice for his glory!
MIC Drop! Tony, thank you for keeping it real as it pertains to Men and Women. We ALL need to be accountable for our brokenness! That’s the first step to healing.
MY GOD!!! You spoke for everyone in the back, up the block, AND 'round the corner!!! I love a straight no chaser individual....I thoroughly enjoyed this lol
That's Right. A Man accept responsibilities for all of his choices and not point the finger like a child. Remind me of Mr T how he correcting those little boys/"punks" 😆 You told the Truth from the beginning until the end of this video. As usual. 👏
Tony Gaskins, pandering to women? Yeah, anybody that say that is hating or new to his content because it’s been times where I had to take a break from Tony because he be too real with us women (I come back doe 😂) but he really step on our toes and help women to stretch and be better out of love- I think the people who say Tony is pandering is because they aren’t use to men speaking to women with respect, or able to get their point across without degrading the woman in the process.
But great message TG! Keep standing on business lol
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A man of God will agree 100%.
You look related to Joshua Giles
Glad you said this. My kids dad refuses to pay child support. Each time I ask for support he says just sell yourself or teach our daughter how too. She's only 4. I cut off all contact. I rather suffer in silence. Than to be encouraged to be a prostitute. No thanks.
What the?!?! SMH!! You are doing right, move on mama…protect your peace, your children’s peace. TRUST me because I’ve been where you are but more importantly, TRUST in your Heavenly Father! EVERY provision will be fulfilled! 💛
That’s so sad😢. You deserve better!! Move on with your life.
Please go to court and get a CS order. He may not pay it now, but it will eventually catch up with him. By dealing with the court directly, you'll never have to deal with that level of disrespect ever again. Also, your BD will be held accountable--even if it's a matter of snatching his Social Security.
@@DavisMultimediaLLCFacts!! 💯🙌🏾
Wow !! You better off than to have him help trust me people like that would literally curse you if they ever help you
Call it the adam complex! Refusing to take accountability for their part in the demise.
Every black male in the whole wide world needs to hear this message. Nothing but truth, well said. Powerful!
This applies to black men, specifically. Other groups of men are not acting like this as a COLLECTIVE. He is speaking about black men.
@@proudblackwoman4824 I understand
and I mean the whole wiiiiide world :)
@@mack7854 Exactly
Yes!
This is why women are purposely choosing to just stay single, because Tony it’s getting WORSE.
The lack of men responding in the comment section is truly self evident. The lack of likes are self prevalent. God Bless you even more for speaking on this!
Great points! I see women becoming more “broken” and men don’t see the need or have desire to try and show their best side.
Right sis
Tears in my eyes because all of that Tony says is true. Women be accountable to God. Men be accountable to God.
As a Gen X woman, I couldn't believe when I noticed how so many men deferred to women when someone spoke to them about being responsible and accountable for their behavior. I think this mindset correlates with the inception of the red pill community. It is extremely alarming what is going on with men and only men can check their behavior so thank you for this. Now for the ladies, you see he said his own friend has some behavioral problems that probably wouldn't make him a viable candidate for a relationship. That being said, many men are having issues and most of us are aware of these issues in this day and time. We have to heal our trauma, increase our emotional intelligence, and be patient enough to wait for the right man. Because gone are the days when we can continue to say we were ignorant of how men behave and how they should behave because of the vast information we have access to online.
Amen 👏🏼🙌🏼
Amen sis❤️
Absolutely 💯!👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾
Accountable is on “mankind”
You said a word! ❤
It starts with the man. Heal the man heal a nation.
Woo Chile! This convicted me and I’m a woman. This tells me men know what they’re doing and I don’t have to correct them as a woman, I just have to be a lady and walk away from that conversation.
May men who need to hear this be led to watch this video in its entirety with an open and soft heart!
they got brother Tony out here about to pop a blood vessel!! 😩🤣 I’m a woman thats walking the walk and standing on bidness and even I felt conviction 🤣🤣 we appreciate everything you do Tony! If I have to go through this life single just because I’ve gotten the lesson, that’s the path I’m willing to go on. Many blessings to you and your family 🤍
I’m on the same path Sis! May God continue to give us the strength to press on!
They must have been really cutting up in those reels comments. I have NEVER seen Tony this lit up.
@mareelovely I don't think he knew men were really this bad, I could tell from some past videos. Now he is seeing what we have been saying, it's pissing him off😂
“Walking the walk and standing on bidniss” 🤣🤣 SAME, sis, SAME! I just got re-baptized yesterday-(I’m 30yrs old w 3 kids from my long-term 10yr relationship, separated 2021). I REFUSE to live outside of God’s will & I am so content if that means I’m single still because no … I don’t want anything that God didn’t put His hands on!
Real talk 💯 i agree am 29 it’s time for me to evolve into the man i know and want to be and not only that most importantly what GOD set me out to be. Just hit your page up and signed up for you to be my mentor i pray GOD place it on your heart and mind so we can possibly meet and talk one day GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BROTHER.
Tony is the only man who teaches the exact same things my daddy taught me. Before my daddy passed in 2019 he was disgusted with men just like this. He started talking about an ex I had who was Australian. Told me the love that man gave me was the right way. Basically he told me to leave a certain group of men alone if I needed to. My daddy loved my mama like Tony loves his wife and he taught us everything Tony is teaching y’all. Listen to him. ((He was also a minister)) but not a typical minister he was an OG lol! He also said everything going on now is spiritual.
This made me cry. You can feel the love coming out of his pores. He means what he says. Much respect.
Right, very genuine and authentic.
Tony!! You been going off lately and I absolutely love it 🥰!! Keep going! This video is amazing and I wish it could reach black young men who don’t have a father figures in their life.
This was a powerful message….God is truly using you Tony! It moved my spirit and put tears in my eyes to hear this man of God tell the truth & speak with such conviction! Every man needs to see this! It’s my prayer that this video reaches grown boys all over the world and that they are compelled to change their old thoughts & ways and man up in the name of Jesus!
Amen!
Y'all have pissed tony off lol but this is so true. Men of this generation are so effeminate. No accountability, always going back & forth with women. It's actually a turn off. I'm fine with being single 🤷🏾♀️
I Am sick 🤢 and tired of punks as well Tony Grown boys bullying and always complaining about Women .Lord we need you to heal the Land 🙏🏾
I will be the first to say "Men are NOT the same anymore." I am glad A Man is calling other Men out to rise above.
I have not given up on Men but I will continue to stand my ground when it comes to dating.
I have standards that won't allow me to back down, understanding that it will draw the people moved by the enemy to try to shake me.
I called the immaturity out on another man chanel because I am tired of seeing it.
Funny how you spoke on Pac (one I used to love back in the days) when the scales were over my eyes.
Lord God I thank you that I have eyes to see and ears to hear. God Bless All🙏🏼
Preach Tony!!! Not a one lie told!!!!!!! I had a guy to start talking about sex in our third conversation so I had to let him know that if that was his goal, I may not be the one for him. I didnt want him to keep talking about sex so I wouldn't be in a precarious situation if we met up again. He said he understood and that wouldn't be a reason to "exclude" me (his words). I said but if you change your mind, I'm good because I have made a promise to God that I will not give my body to a man that is not my husband. I just asked that he communicates with me that he changed his mind. He contacted me a couple more times after that conversation and then went silent. HAHA! This man was also 45 years old. I told God thank you for giving me the courage to state my standards early because it weeded him out early before any attachments began. Nice guy ,just obviously not for me, oh well his lost. He still leading with his lower head which is awful for a 45 year old man.
God bless you, Sis ❤ this is scary to think about, when we as women want to have real relationship and intimacy, men only want to talk about bed activity 😢
You're such a great example for men; good to your wife, your children, taking care of yourself while walking the walk, literally...
Stumbled onto what is undeniably what todays men need to hear. Years ago a male friend shared some personal dysfunction he receives under his mom’s parenting or lack there of…and it helped me see where most of the female badgering and disdain comes from. Boys are left to raise themselves with no male figure for positive guidelines and this is the outcome. So it’s a blessing that Tony has the gift of a positive dad who saved him from the same weak minded nature. The same weak minds that take their pain about women and turn against women without addressing the absent father they wish they knew.
Tony this message is truly needed! At the age of 25, I have given up on bm far as relationship and marriage material. I know it’s not “all of them” but it’s a huge collective that’s running around here with negative and feminine energy no matter the socioeconomic status. I think it’s only going to get worst, but for the ones who do want help and direction I think there is hope with men like you around❤️
That’s the part I can’t understand how some gay men hate women and want to be like a woman. And some act like they better than us. Make it make sense. I can respect a person more if you just be upfront.
It doesn’t even make sense to them! This madness is from the adversary; the father of lies!
This is world of sinner, so sad about this reality tbh
I always say- After the truth ain’t nothing left…..Thank you for the message.
Left behind, the problem with men is GOD, your relationship with the Creator of all things is suffering. Pick up the best book in the World the Holy Bible, KJV and READ it! Eat it with your mind and absorb it! Time is short, Rebuke, Repent, Restore your life with God Jesus Christ who gave his life for your sins and who is without sin. Wants you to heal. Leave the women alone until you fix your mind. I pray that you hear and receive this message. Sin is death, wages of sin is death. Get your mind right because the time is short!
Whoo! Tony smacked the taste out they mouth with this video!!
👀 Wow! I have not heard a man speak with this much conviction
besides my late grandfather!👴🏾 Tears are running down my face right now.😭He was the epitome of a real man. Thank you for this! A boot camp for men/boys would be great! Most Gracious🌷
My God!🔥. Bless these grown boys to hear what the Spirit of the Living God is saying unto thee. May their ears hear and heart change by the power of God!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
If they ask for the Holy Spirit to come. he will..But they have to ask.
💡"I'm in the healing factory!"
Golden...
Great message! The older I get and the more I read my Bible, I understand why Paul remained unmarried. I must seek only to serve and please God
I’m not even gonna lie, I appreciate another man going off on the behaviors and actions of men today. I tried to tell a man that it’s the role of a man to lead his woman. So if the women of today seem out of order, it’s probably because the men are not leading. Of course he had a lot of opposition because it was coming from a woman. I wish I had this video to send because I don’t like to argue 😅
Powerful… I wish men would start listening to other men and started working on themselves… I’ve never seen anything like what is going on right now…
OH MY Word😮 (pun intended)! Tony, just go ahead and accept your calling to preach and get ordained; because you my brother are preachin!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Toni has obviously ALREADY been ordained..... by God.....he is ALREADY preaching .......where God has led him to preach. Just saying......God's ways are NOT man's way.
@@milliewilkins2823 Okay. My comment was meant to be light hearted ( but also commenting about his gift). Blessings to you!
Tony’s tiger done been loosed! He ain’t playin with us no mo. And you know what, I’m here for all of it. Because this is precisely what the community needs. ❤
"If that don't set you on fire 🔥, your wood's 🪵 wet". - Kenneth M. Copeland
This was amazing. I felt a bit of validation as a woman. I think we as women have our things we need to be accountable for and take responsibility for.... But deep down inside I have always felt that men carry a greater responsibility and if they could just do as Tony said ... Be accountable and take responsibility, we would have a healed world. As a woman my heart aches to see men stand up, man up and be accountable and responsible and Godly. I get so discouraged daily with what I see. But I keep my eyes on God and pray.
Mr.Gaskin, I respect and appreciate you telling the truth about the grown boys. I am totally disappointed and discussed by the behavior. Keep putting these grown boys on blast. It's ridiculous.
I've been saying this for YEARS!!!! And I have offended plenty of man boys by voicing my opinion in this manner! It's so refreshing and uplifting to see and hear these words coming out of a REAL MANS mouth! Teach them Tony!!!
Yes, 2 TIMOTHY 3:1-7. KJV
That is why I CHOOSE to be SINGLE. CELIBATE and VERY MUCH AT PEACE
🙏🏽ATL
that's that righteous indignation!!! Continue to let the Lord use you!!! it's needed in this end time generation!!!!
We are Thankful for Mr. Gaskins. This world really needed A MAN to encourage these men to be honest and hold themselves accountable. It is Sad to hear so many black womwn say that they have given up on Love.
TG UP IN HERE HOLL-ING!!! We can always use a reminder about the call on men to be accountable and focused on being the change we want to see! 💯🙌🙏🙏
Accountability must start with you...Thank you Tony for always being Brave and keeping it 💯 God bless you and your beautiful family..
Tony I was watching The Little Rascals movie (1994 version) the other day with my kids and when they started reciting the bylaws of the He-man Woman Hater’s Club they were exactly everything that the manosphere is talking about today via RUclips and podcasting. Talk about a good laugh! 😂 I felt like I was in the twilight zone to see that come full circle like it has 😅. Lord help us!
Ok Uncle Tony, u better preach! None of those so called relationship coaches could step in your shoes. Continue telling it like it is
😂 I love how you don't miss a single opportunity to record a video!! and you're preaching
I was married for many years to a man who is homosexual but he hid it. All of his close friends are married to very successful women and they are also gay. His porn addiction was unreal. My divorce from him was like divorcing a woman. He is petty, manipulative and HATES women. The tit-for-tat Tony mentions is off the charts with closeted gay men. I am so grateful to be out of that “marriage” because I didn’t know who I was dealing with. I am thriving but unfortunately I share a child with this man who is full of envy, self hate, jealousy, and is under demonic possession. Tony is speaking the truth and as more women wake up to what these men are filled with so many of us will choose to be single. Great video.
This was the real thang. Every guy needs to hear this message. Thank you so much Mr. Gaskins. Love it, Glory to God 🙌🏽
I have two adult children. I’ve worked a job for 30 years …(retired from government)…I put them through college with the help of my family. My children turned out to be great human beings, good citizens and successful in life in their jobs. Their father never took care of them,spent time with them, but guess what happened …..he got older and he was penniless and he died alone but…………. He didn’t have any cats… (sarcasm)😊
GOOO OOOFF on 'em Tony👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽...yall done got Tony bringin out the big guns w/the Father voice...but somebody had to...we just want our strong LEADING men back😢
Oooooooweeeee! Protect this man at all cost! One of the last real ones standing! Thank you Tony for saying what so many men are too afraid to admit out loud! God Bless Ya! 🤗
THIS IS THE MOST POWERFUL VIDEOS I’VE BEEN BLESSED TO SEE/HEAR! Thank you Tony for speaking the TRUTH. God knows everyone needs to hear this message. God bless this man in ways he never expected!
You got me crying. I don't know why.
I cried because I felt the 🔥 of the Holy Spirit in his message. 🙌🏾
Yep. Me aswell
Exactly men who are walking the walk for REAL. You don’t need to go back n forth with a woman. Leave her! I mean it, there is a woman who will respect and submit to you. We are sometimes just simply with a person not for us. Men get heart broken and think we all do the same. NOT true. ex. Not all men are abusers because one abused you. FACTS
WOMEN we MUST SUBMIT when we get married. If you don’t please stay single so you don’t send a damaged out into the world after he finally leaves you. Thank you 🙏
Nothing but Expansion and Elevation for you. Souls by the thousands will be saved through your Life and Ministry. The ones who are ready are listening to you right now. I’m so thankful for your Life, Ministry and Family. Continue with your Purpose and Assignment. All Is Well for you. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
Hit us right where we needed it! Thank you TG!
"You need to have that punk come up outcha." That's a 2024 forever mantra!!! Lol!!!
Thank you for preaching this sermon. We all need to hear this especially men.
This right here was the one I’m currently separated getting ready to divorce and this message spoke volumes to me about myself and my estranged husband you are the truth Tony 🙌🏾
Tony Gaskins let me tell you something… this video is oily!!! I’m not a man, but have raised a son, and THIS thing has an anointing on it!! I’m so thankful for you allowing God to use you in this way( cry loud and spare not), because it is my hearts desire for my son to understand God’s standard and expectation of him as a man, and not the culture. Thank you!!
Hey Tony, I have never commented in any of your videos before and this is the first time I felt compelled to do so.
Thank you so much for speaking the heart-felt honest truth that every man needs to hear.
I was so touched and moved that I was actually in tears at the end of the video.
What triggered my emotions is because I am blessed to be married to such a man. Sadly, I lost him to cancer in 2021.
He is the one who taught me to be selfless in our marriage and I'm eternally grateful for that. You won't know what a real man is like until you meet one.
Kudos for all the wonderful work that you've done and we are blessed to have you.
From Australia with love❤
Omg if all our black men could watch and listen to this video in its entirety 🙏🏾
Thank you mr gaskin. You are 1000000% correct 👍🏿 being faithful and being a husband has been the most wonderful experience that I ever adored when I found the right woman I’m blessed I love what you speaking about brother keep up the good work.
Your genuine disgust in these soft men nearly put me to tears. This is a reality I’ve been feeling for the past 2 years I can see and feel the shift in most of these men!! It’s so sickening!!! Thank you for speaking up on this terrible reality.
I 💯 agree. LORD, I was raised by a "REAL"man. Married a "REAL" man. And my husband and I raised our son to be a "REAL" man. All praise and glory to GOD ALMIGHTY.✝️💯🤔
This was one of the most realist videos I've ever seen Tony Gaskin do!!! I pray for more videos to come out!! I truly felt the passion and frustration coming from this and thank you so much Tony for speaking what men don't want to hear!❤❤❤❤❤
You should watch his video on disrespecting black women. Mad respect🙏🏾
My Lord!! I can't "like" this video enough. Nothing but pure, unadulterated, big ole FACTS spoken here!!!
God bless your ministry and message. Yes I’m a woman but I approve this message a plead the blood of Jesus our men wake up, man up and take back control of our community - we need you
Amen
Yes amen..🙏🏾😩
Mr. Gaskins if only there were MORE men like you even in our churches! Thank you a thousand times for saying the TRUTH and the way you said it. We who know Jesus have unity of the Spirit do we not?! I am very CERTAIN somewhere sometime this video is going Bless a man who NEEDS to hear it. Much respect and HONOR to you.... God's man. Praise The Lord Brother!! Yeah.👋👋🙏🏼😊
Love your passion TG! It starts with the father! A little girl’s first broken heart! And reason why so many people (men & women) have a difficult time accepting our Heavenly Father and His love 💖😭 I struggle with it but keep pressing for it because life hasn’t turned out in my ways I chose. So now I choose to see what God has for me with His ways.
It's about damn time someone is standing up and saying something.
A powerful much needed message!! Men need to man up!!! Women need to women up for the family. Great example in JESUS Almighty NAME 🔥
One thing about Tony... he keeps a level playing field. He talks about the women folk as well. But this one is for men.
Amen 🙌 you preaching! Thank you for this good word ❤ They don't want to hear this because it requires accountability but keep preaching the word ❤
Thank you for this video, it is very much needed. Walked away from a man after a few months. He realized I was looking for a real relationship and committment. He said just that, he was emotionally unavailable and "I'm too old for a relationship", that he was not happy with himself. He does not want to take accountability or responsibility for anything. He doesn't understand that that's the core of his unhappiness.
Man!! 🤚💯 Im married 8 years together 12 and when my husband doesnt do what he is supposed to do and ve who he is supposed to be our marriage isnt where its supposed to be argumentative and blaming not taking accountability. Its starts with the man and how he treats his wife, how he loves his wife, hiw he communicates with his wife. Women have needs and when you have a man stuck in their ways unwilling to meet your needs and them blame you for not responding sexually emotionally bc he has to start and set the pace and be a covering and eveything. Men please provide your women's needs and there is not a thing she will not do for you. Every thing will fall into line.
This my home boy he speaks nothing but the truth God bless this man!
YOU’VE BEEN MY MENTOR FOR OVER 5 YEARS AND YOU HAVE NOT CHANGED NOR LIED YET!!!!!!!
THIS VIDEO IS WORD FOR WORD FACTS!!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Oooh..preach Tony! They need to hear it from a man of God like you! When we try to tell them..they say "We bitter"..💯👏🏿👏🏿
Bless this man for telling the hard and lovely truth❤️. Flow in your purpose Mr. Gaskins
Amen Tony!!! Speak the true message. I felt this message I felt your conviction. What a way to start the week
So correct...I watched you on the HI program then watched the HI episode with Yada. To your point, the male caller proudly called in saying his dad died and now his mother and wife work for him.
Imagine being proud your dad left your mom without resources so you are wealthy but put her to work for you.
Thank you Tony for staying real and centered in your faith.
Thank you. I wish more men would speak up and live with integrity.
Amen Tony!! It really is at an epidemic level, the amount of downlow Black Men particular. It’s to the point I’m afraid of Black Men, I’m not sure what I’m getting, especially after my ex.
I wish I could like this video 100 times over. It’s not that woman are perfect but I’ve noticed our society has stopped seeing the impact men have on families and women.
Thank you for being brave and honest about what a man is supposed to look like. Unfortunately a lot of us women did not see what a real man is growing up and we choose and allow certain behaviors of these men that should have been checked when there boys-so I am grateful that you live what you preach and allowing God to use you. Some of these men probably didn’t have a man to teach them how to be a man growing up- so thank you for using your voice!!! Hope God continues to use your voice for his glory!
It's so sad and depressing at the same time in this day and age!
This word was very very much needed. I’m not even a man and I felt every word….you spoke the truth Tony and I commend you
MIC Drop! Tony, thank you for keeping it real as it pertains to Men and Women. We ALL need to be accountable for our brokenness! That’s the first step to healing.
This word is fire and definitely from the lord. Keep being the man the lord called you to be. God bless you.
I understand your wife because I'm like that about my dishes lol. Leave them to me because nobody wash dishes like I do 😂😂😂
This video is a blessing from God for us all! How can it not be if we all do what God has told us all to do. God Bless us all!
MY GOD!!! You spoke for everyone in the back, up the block, AND 'round the corner!!! I love a straight no chaser individual....I thoroughly enjoyed this lol
Once you are accountable for your part you can begin to align with better.. all lessons repeated until learned..
That's Right. A Man accept responsibilities for all of his choices and not point the finger like a child. Remind me of Mr T how he correcting those little boys/"punks" 😆 You told the Truth from the beginning until the end of this video. As usual. 👏