I’m so scared Tony. A lot of men have been scary in my life since childhood. People always say I’m kind, smart, and beautiful and ask why I’m single. The truth is I’m scared. Going to work, church, and enjoying my artistic hobbies feels so safe. With all that’s going on today - it’s seems so dangerous and scary… God help us all 🙏🏾
God will Guide you in the right direction if you ask him. Discernment is very necessary for us though as women. You Got it. Fear isn’t of God. It’s of the enemy. If you’re scared to date then don’t date. Trust how u feel. When you’re ready you won’t be scared. 🩷
We normally see the red flags and ignore them. But out there is really scary because a lot of people never healed from their past hurt and insecurities
Men are scary your feelings are completely normal and rational. I have learned if a man doesn't make you feel calm and safe from the jump there is something off and you should be looking at him with a side eye.
Women are NOT required to submit to their boyfriend or date - You submit to your husband. Too many women are giving wifey benefits that are not deserved - Have some dignity and grace ladies! P.S. Please do not leave your child alone with any man except his papa.
You shouldn't submit to no living person. You aren't a child or a pet. The word "submissive" means to hand over one's own will to another. How was you living before you were in a relationship? I think a lot of women never had a father so they go into a relationship looking for one.
@@livethatlife1830submitting is what we do when we work a 9 to 5. It isn't volunteering to be a slave. It is just cooperation with the employer or provider's vision and goals.
You still have to be careful with that, and I thank God I did not have a father like that, and Thanked him before he passed away this March 2023 before he passed away for not being that type of man or father.....Thank you Dad, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DAILY😞!!!!!
@@livethatlife1830if a Man is submitted to God and to You then why not submit to that Man? You can't cherry pick the Word. You should be already submitted to God and then able to submit to that Man in return. Marriage is an act of service. If You're not ready to serve, You are not ready for marriage. That goes for Male or Female.
Tony, you said what every one of these men try to ignore: a woman is submissive to a man who is submissive to GOD. That’s the hierarchy. The man is not at the top. The husband is simply a manager. He is not the CEO.
I love this message, a man is not supposed to control a woman. Yes the man is supposed to be the head, but that doesn’t give him the right to control the woman. These red pill guys are miserable.
One of THEE nicest guys I went to law school with r*ped one of our classmates. Another of our very charismatic classmates - who was top of the class (and beloved by professors) - was accused of r*pe. Both are lawyers today and graduated from a DC HBCU. Do not be impressed (or moved) by title or personality. As Tony ALWAYS emphasizes, look at the character of the man.
They may have gotten away with it by man law, but I promise God's law is 100x worse! God's vengeance can never compare to jail time! If their payback hasn't happened in some form, their time is coming soon!
I believe it. I had someone sexually aggressive towards me. He was nerdy media personality and an HBCU graduate as well. The last person I would have ever expected to behave like that towards me
@@chasg8183 It can be the first person you think, the last, and everybody in between. Sadly, I'm not surprised by your experience. I'm glad you are ok. 🙏🏾
A collaboration we need is with you and R.C. Blakes. These grown boys will be hot like fire for sure. And we know that both of y'all get the ladies for being foolish. As I heard said and it applies to you both...you're protecting womanhood and promoting manhood. Love to see it😊
Yes I feel R.C. Blake's is a great man and holds women accountable as well as the men . I don't listen to many male creators when it comes to relationships but I always tune into Tony and R.C. Blakes .
This was timely. I took social media off of my phone because for 3 weeks now, men have been responding negatively to a comment I made I an IG post. I spoke to the point that men have begun to emasculate themselves, yet they can’t even see it. I don’t even know how many men, particularly black men, I’ve blocked. Not to mention that out of over a thousand replies to my comment, only 1 man understood the context of where I was coming from. It’s sad out here… I feel like men are not safe at all right now.
Don't bother explaining things like this to men and save yourself the stress. Most of them won't get it and have no desire to change. Only the very evolved men will understand which is literally 1% of men or less as proven by the fact that only 1 man understood your point.
My nail tech is 22 and I asked does she have a man she said nope theyre childish even the ones in their 30s. I felt so sad makes me scared for my niece when she comes of age.
Oh, you're talking about the Pickmeshas! The "Pick Me" women; those who pander to men; always take a man's side even though he may be wrongs while putting women down in the process. I think that's the name for it.
My eyes opened when I started listening to him , i had to remove social media because all I see is half naked women and I would read the comments and most of it is men who are married with daughters , i am not in a relationship but that is a non-negotiable for me, i will not date a man who validates women on the internet , i walked away from a man earlier this year because of it. Anyway there are men who thinks AI models are real commenting on a fake women profile. Vet men and stay off your back , i listen to tony in the damn car , when im cooking just everywhere. Thank you sir be blessed
What you mentioned around 37:00 about men that don't listen to their wives because of ego will lead the family into a ditch is SO true. Both my parents are educated but my father NEVER listened to my mother's advice. She urged him to invest money, buy home and to do so much that would've set three generations in wealth (he had the opportunity in his hands) but he shot down every idea. Now, he lives alone in an apartment divorced and all of us are struggling financially because we're paying for both our parents separate bills. No one's married despite being grown adults. It's sad.. but if only he put his ego aside and listened to her ALL of our lives would've turned out differently.
Women need to handle their own finances. You are not required to pour your money down the drain bc your husband says so. Let him pour his down the drain…
Mr Tony, I swear I wish there were more MEN like you, that would open their mouths and tell the WHOLE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you’re saying is the truth. It IS sad that there are thousand of GOOD women that know their worth, and CANNOT meet a decent man for a relationship. You are a God send Mr Tony. Gods speed, minister, Gods speed.
You right. Most fathers lift up their daughters bc they know alot of men are not good men. Cuz when a guy broke up with me my daddy said "dont worry about that mf 🤣you good you can do bad all by yoself"
Tony has the wisdom. It's funny how society doesn't want to submit to God, but then talk about submission. If you don't submit to God, you don't have a foundation for your woman to submit. Those people don't know the Lord, but talking about some kind of submission 😂 Tony speaking wisdom
He is telling the absolute truth I'm a better woman since following Tony been 3yrs of growth I thank God for using this man to give the world the naked truth💯
@@jeanetteswain1760 My guess is the algorithm. More men will tune in. Make comments praising the content creator. Women will catch wind of it. Videos will go viral. Then both get to arguing in the comments equal more views. Then the reactions vidoes pop-up. !!!Voila!!! the cycle continues. And there you have it. The secret sauce to a successful RUclips channel. Be outrageous, be obnoxious and in today's market it may work.
@@jeanetteswain1760 The definition of pandering is " the act of expressing one's views in accordance with the likes of a group to which one is attempting to appeal." Melanie King, Pearl...etc profits by producing content to bash women to a predominate male audience.
@@guinealove3744 No. Don’t know where you got that definition. Pandering has more than one definition. Please look them up to enlighten yourself. Peace.
@@deja14not evil just naturally aggressive takers. I think it's like fire; good servant, bad master. That's why we need be queens of fire. We gotta know how to make manly fire serve us.
Come on!! Whew!! Lord! They need it! They need it ..ain’t nobody chastening these fools! God speaks through you..thank you man of GOD!! I am waiting for my husband..I’m waiting
This is the message I needed to hear this week! I get down on myself about dating. I’m 46 and newly divorced… this message encouraged me to slow down and really analyze the man’s true intentions for me and my son. Thank you Tony and thank God for giving you the strength and courage to go against the grain and bring these powerful, life changing messages
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. I myself was in that situation, and when I found out, I vacated the unlawful relationship. ==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry)
Hey Tony, I know you're booked and busy, but I thank you for continuing to making these videos. Your videos helps me get through my day at work. I listen to you going to work, during work, coming home from work, and at home.😂😂😂 Might sound crazy, but it has helped me become a better woman. Thank you for being you and teaching things we wish our fathers and family taught us. If I knew about you years ago it would saved me a lot of heartache and pain, but I'm grateful now because my life is beautiful. My relationship is beautiful, my body coming along the way I want and I'm working on my brand and business. You're truly a blessing.
Tony this actually made me cry because this is exactly what I tried to do with my husband and it backfired. You can’t be submissive to a grown boy. Because they will abuse their power and drag you into a ditch. My soon to be ex husband never valued my opinion and wanted to have complete dominion and dictatorship over our family. Thank God my family didn’t give up on me and they didn’t let me fall for the gaslighting spell that my narc had me under. Thank you for taking the time to speak the truth to us women because no one else will.
This was a great message! One thing I’ve observed is these type of people on both sides usually lack emotional intelligence tbh. It’s like talking to a brick wall. It’s no point in wasting energy on these type of people!! Just keep going ladies and listen to Tony!!
Appreciative for this video. It just reaffirmed to me to remain single and keep working on myself. While I’d like to be in a relationship working towards marriage again, I’m cool on these guys these days. I’m literally not missing out on anything. I’m still observing myself and how I respond to the guys who do approach me.
TG ....you are very wise....Ive learned a lot the hard way....per I didn't have a father in my life or a male figure.....u must be ready whn u out here....these men today will eat u alive if u are NOT equipped with the armor.
Tony is so on point! Yasss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are men that will ask you those personal questions because they’re trying to see what they can get away with doing to you. They try to lower your value as a woman.
I wish I had found him years ago it would save me from lots of headaches and emotional damage from men this is exactly what I been through thanks tony I hope this reach to millions of women
Spot on Mentor Tony, am praying for young men and women. The people that have the mic on social media are doing serious mental damage with what they say.
You’re so Right Tony!!, Let’s all go over and report Red Head page, we all should know who he’s talking about. This need to End. She selling shirts that say(Women should not be allowed to Vote)
Omg this was a word! Glory to God. I get so disappointed at black women constantly defending these men against paying child support, cheating allegations, competing against women with this sissy behavior! It is very deplorable!! But thank God for men like you uncle Tony. May God continue to use you
What a powerful message! Women who want to be controlled are obviously troubled and need therapy. Why would a level headed woman want to put her fate in the hands of man? Makes no sense. I pray women wake up and seek wisdom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Also, I have chosen not to date for the last 6 years because most men are not impressive to me
I literally love you in the most honorable way! God is truly using you & this message helped me so much!! Pls never delete so I can show this to my 7 year old son when he’s older lol
I’ve been watching you for years and always just laughed and found it enjoyable but for the first time I felt your words in my soul! So powerful it made me emotional. I wish lost men can find your platform. Wish you and your family always the best!
You spoke a word today. I don't care what the masses say, I appreciate your videos. Of course you had to make me chuckle today. "Reverse pigmentation."
My friend is working 12+ a day while her Baby daddy not married not working & calling all the shots I’m literally forcing myself to leave cause a situation happen & by her words that let me know that she sees he do no wrong & holding on to what she did in the past & don’t love her self & turned against her family & friends
You’re a good husband. My hubby does these things and the acts of service really demonstrate how much yall value us as wives. This is why we go hard for yall. People who don’t have the bandwidth will never understand. It’s not simping….it’s loving! It’s how our parents and grandparents lasted so long. You HAVE to he selfLESS in marriage in order for it to work. Unfortunately, social media and folks not seeing their mother being loved properly while growing up has caused toxic relationships and viewpoints in our community. P.S. Good girls never tell whether they’re a virgin or have a had partners. Lessons my father taught me. It’s something you keep to yourself as a lady.
@@shawnchrystafurNo, sir... men still make the majority of rules and decisions we live by daily... and THOSE MEN are not going to budge to just "give" BM a spot... so there is a failure of BM to get the work done to become respected patriarchs in the system. My father is a highly respected family patriarch; he got the work done! My grandfather: still respected, got his work done!
You are on point with this. Especially the narcissist part. My ex husband manipulated our daughter into hating me so bad that she was willing to kill me and her brothers just because her dad hated me so much. It’s sad but it’s happening.
This is very true and practical info. The older women that I personally have known when I was growing up had the mentality of "treat the man like the king". They were all in abusive relationships. I recently saw a woman on YT who had videos of her abusive husband and how she started living in her car to get away from him. She had the audacity to take down all those videos of her being homeless because she had to flee her abusive husband as she said, in an attempt to revamp her channel. Now she has the audacity to start putting up new videos on "Christian dating, femininity and, being a Godly wife". Meanwhile, she left her abusive husband and she is leading innocent women who don't know any better astray. She had all these videos asking for donations for over 5 years and was struggling. She is looking for a way to make money at other people's expense. Be vigilant to the times we're living in. Know the word of God for yourself and don't trust these random people giving any kind of "relationship advice" 💯 Thanks for this video!
Tony you have given me a 65 year old woman the best advice on men!! Praise God, I will never forget your lessons on the nature of women and men. When you said lions are snacking on giselles. I never online date, but this brings so much clarity that the “hunted game” does not hunt the lion! Solid instruction, we would be foolish not to pay attention. We must KNOW that we are queens & NEVER settle! 🎉🎉💕
Tony Gaskin Won 🥇 this message! *New Subscriber/ Pray & Say no to pandering: to please other people by doing or saying what you think they want you to do or say😢 dang near seems slavish, ?☝️not good to control a women or a lady, (substance) got men over their head’s with bad habits… 🤔 lord. Gottem Coach/🫡 Tony Gaskin
I don’t know weather to laugh or cry.. this message is powerful. While there’s some humor to it. And my emotions are all over the place because the truth that is spoken in this video.
I feel the spirit is evoked when he speaks because trust me, it’s not easy facilitating this type of content without losing train of thought. I appreciate this brother God has sent to us. Not to praise him but to give gratification and in prayer that the lord brings more people to this awareness and allowing you to provide these messages. Thank you, because it’s been a few years listening and I’ve come across if not all most of the situations you’ve spoken about and I appreciate you, im finally able to Phathom the message. It used to go way over my head.
God bless you Tony. The stability part at the end of this video almost had me in tears. Every woman wants it. The fact that you understand this is sooooo valuable. A woman does not necessarily need a bigger house, she needs a stable "home." Imaginary can catch us all up and have us chasing... but God, gratitude and stability can keep us grounded AND growing. I send blessings to you and your family. Your work is making a positive IMPACT in my life and in the lives of many.
Hi Tony, I am on older woman who truly appreciate you and the work God has called you to. I’m am planning on sharing this video with my 16 year old granddaughter and wish I knew this when I was her age. Anyhow, may God continue to keep and bless you abundantly for the millions of women you are saving from manipulating men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
You’re right about Ms Locs. The minute I saw her speak I was repulsed in my spirit by her. Something about her is so cold and aggressive. Just looking at her gives me chills fr. She is poisoning women with some of her information.
This was the most real thing ever 😊 ty for speaking the truth to us women. We need to hear it especially if we’ve been abused by men before bcs we are pretty and naturally nice and trusting
TONY, TONY, TONY, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.....l PRAY THAT EVERYONE THAT WATCHES THIS THAT HAS AN EAR, WILL HEAR, LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. YOU BETTER KEEP TEACHING, PREACHING, AND SPEAKING GOD'S WORD....THIS IS THE CALLING ON YOUR LIFE AND DON'T YOU EVER, EVER, NEVER, LET THEM (male or females) STOP YOU FROM YOUR CALLING AND THE TEACHING THAT WAS PUT ON YOUR HEART....THIS WAS SIME GREAT TEACHING SIR!!!!!!
Toni you're definitely correct in your assessment. Unfortunately, that particular women who made such toxic erroneous replies obviously experienced major trauma. Just listening to it was truly concerning because obviously she's been compromised, gaslighted, & mishandled because her reaction is a tell-tale of her being brainwashed.
I’m so scared Tony. A lot of men have been scary in my life since childhood. People always say I’m kind, smart, and beautiful and ask why I’m single. The truth is I’m scared. Going to work, church, and enjoying my artistic hobbies feels so safe. With all that’s going on today - it’s seems so dangerous and scary… God help us all 🙏🏾
God will Guide you in the right direction if you ask him. Discernment is very necessary for us though as women. You Got it. Fear isn’t of God. It’s of the enemy. If you’re scared to date then don’t date. Trust how u feel. When you’re ready you won’t be scared. 🩷
We normally see the red flags and ignore them. But out there is really scary because a lot of people never healed from their past hurt and insecurities
I have made the decision not to date at this time because of this. God is in control.
Men are scary your feelings are completely normal and rational. I have learned if a man doesn't make you feel calm and safe from the jump there is something off and you should be looking at him with a side eye.
Thank you for this video! You are definitely allowing God to use you! I love to listen to your messages! God bless!
Women are NOT required to submit to their boyfriend or date - You submit to your husband. Too many women are giving wifey benefits that are not deserved - Have some dignity and grace ladies! P.S. Please do not leave your child alone with any man except his papa.
you even have to be careful of some papas too
You shouldn't submit to no living person. You aren't a child or a pet. The word "submissive" means to hand over one's own will to another. How was you living before you were in a relationship? I think a lot of women never had a father so they go into a relationship looking for one.
@@livethatlife1830submitting is what we do when we work a 9 to 5. It isn't volunteering to be a slave. It is just cooperation with the employer or provider's vision and goals.
You still have to be careful with that, and I thank God I did not have a father like that, and Thanked him before he passed away this March 2023 before he passed away for not being that type of man or father.....Thank you Dad, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DAILY😞!!!!!
@@livethatlife1830if a Man is submitted to God and to You then why not submit to that Man? You can't cherry pick the Word. You should be already submitted to God and then able to submit to that Man in return. Marriage is an act of service. If You're not ready to serve, You are not ready for marriage. That goes for Male or Female.
Tony, you said what every one of these men try to ignore: a woman is submissive to a man who is submissive to GOD. That’s the hierarchy. The man is not at the top. The husband is simply a manager. He is not the CEO.
I love this message, a man is not supposed to control a woman. Yes the man is supposed to be the head, but that doesn’t give him the right to control the woman. These red pill guys are miserable.
One of THEE nicest guys I went to law school with r*ped one of our classmates. Another of our very charismatic classmates - who was top of the class (and beloved by professors) - was accused of r*pe.
Both are lawyers today and graduated from a DC HBCU. Do not be impressed (or moved) by title or personality. As Tony ALWAYS emphasizes, look at the character of the man.
They may have gotten away with it by man law, but I promise God's law is 100x worse!
God's vengeance can never compare to jail time! If their payback hasn't happened in some form, their time is coming soon!
😢😢😢😢 I can believe it.
Wow smh
I believe it. I had someone sexually aggressive towards me. He was nerdy media personality and an HBCU graduate as well. The last person I would have ever expected to behave like that towards me
@@chasg8183 It can be the first person you think, the last, and everybody in between. Sadly, I'm not surprised by your experience. I'm glad you are ok. 🙏🏾
A collaboration we need is with you and R.C. Blakes. These grown boys will be hot like fire for sure. And we know that both of y'all get the ladies for being foolish. As I heard said and it applies to you both...you're protecting womanhood and promoting manhood. Love to see it😊
I totally agree! That would be so awesome!
Bishop R.C is the truth :)
Yes I feel R.C. Blake's is a great man and holds women accountable as well as the men . I don't listen to many male creators when it comes to relationships but I always tune into Tony and R.C. Blakes .
My 2 favorite relationship coaches on RUclips, the only men I really trust on here!
Agree!!!
This was timely. I took social media off of my phone because for 3 weeks now, men have been responding negatively to a comment I made I an IG post. I spoke to the point that men have begun to emasculate themselves, yet they can’t even see it. I don’t even know how many men, particularly black men, I’ve blocked. Not to mention that out of over a thousand replies to my comment, only 1 man understood the context of where I was coming from. It’s sad out here… I feel like men are not safe at all right now.
Don't bother explaining things like this to men and save yourself the stress. Most of them won't get it and have no desire to change. Only the very evolved men will understand which is literally 1% of men or less as proven by the fact that only 1 man understood your point.
Some men are unsafe. The wrong types. Not all men. Be at Peace and know that Yahweh is God
What did you say in the comment on IG?
@@Arguewityamama does it even really matter????
OH MY!!! @Tony Gaskins this is so real & raw! 🙌🏾 Please speak the truth to these women’s and men!!! 🙌🏾
Facts, some men just don't get it sexually, mentally, or emotionally.
And for most they never will. Pretty sad!
Sadly, they really don’t 🙄
Reads “Not for sensitive ears.” Clicks immediately. Lol, this one is going to be goodT!!!
My nail tech is 22 and I asked does she have a man she said nope theyre childish even the ones in their 30s. I felt so sad makes me scared for my niece when she comes of age.
Even the ones in their 50s😒
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Oh, you're talking about the Pickmeshas! The "Pick Me" women; those who pander to men; always take a man's side even though he may be wrongs while putting women down in the process. I think that's the name for it.
Exactly you said it!
Yep! Sounds about right to me.
My eyes opened when I started listening to him , i had to remove social media because all I see is half naked women and I would read the comments and most of it is men who are married with daughters , i am not in a relationship but that is a non-negotiable for me, i will not date a man who validates women on the internet , i walked away from a man earlier this year because of it. Anyway there are men who thinks AI models are real commenting on a fake women profile. Vet men and stay off your back , i listen to tony in the damn car , when im cooking just everywhere. Thank you sir be blessed
It’s the wild wild west out here. One thing ladies must keep reminding themselves of is slow and steady be very vigilant
Been single since 2011 and I don’t regret one moment of it. These men out here can be something else.
Single ad in you haven’t dated at all or don’t engage men at all ?
@@LaNeaheartz Single and haven’t dated because of the lack of quality options.
I been saying stop babying men. A woman needs to respect and have boundaries and hold the man accountable
Wow I was surprised when u said u didn’t deserve your wife based on sexual history. Great conversation. ❤
“Everybody talking about ‘get a team, get a community’, but then want to get in a marriage and tell a woman to shut up” - Uncle Tony Gaskins! 🎉
What you mentioned around 37:00 about men that don't listen to their wives because of ego will lead the family into a ditch is SO true. Both my parents are educated but my father NEVER listened to my mother's advice. She urged him to invest money, buy home and to do so much that would've set three generations in wealth (he had the opportunity in his hands) but he shot down every idea. Now, he lives alone in an apartment divorced and all of us are struggling financially because we're paying for both our parents separate bills. No one's married despite being grown adults. It's sad.. but if only he put his ego aside and listened to her ALL of our lives would've turned out differently.
This is real talk. Similar family situation due to pride & ego. “A ditch”. There are consequences for your actions.
Why I had to check to see if I wrote this myself. Literally my parent to the T
It is so not nice to see. My dad has so, so , so much pride. He would have been richer and bette roff if he listened to her.
Women need to handle their own finances. You are not required to pour your money down the drain bc your husband says so. Let him pour his down the drain…
Awesome message!! 26 years married, a women's influence is real. Most major,productive moves in our marriage came from me. He'll admit that. ❤
Thank you Tony. We cannot be reminded enough of this. There's no need for women to give their bodies to grown boys.
AMEN IN JESUS NAME
Mr Tony, I swear I wish there were more MEN like you, that would open their mouths and tell the WHOLE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you’re saying is the truth. It IS sad that there are thousand of GOOD women that know their worth, and CANNOT meet a decent man for a relationship. You are a God send Mr Tony. Gods speed, minister, Gods speed.
You right. Most fathers lift up their daughters bc they know alot of men are not good men. Cuz when a guy broke up with me my daddy said "dont worry about that mf 🤣you good you can do bad all by yoself"
@PCF quite the contrary, most fathers do Not is ehy there are extremely father wounds! 😭
Tony has the wisdom. It's funny how society doesn't want to submit to God, but then talk about submission. If you don't submit to God, you don't have a foundation for your woman to submit. Those people don't know the Lord, but talking about some kind of submission 😂 Tony speaking wisdom
THE REALEST VIDEO OUT THERE, WOW!!!!!
He is telling the absolute truth I'm a better woman since following Tony been 3yrs of growth I thank God for using this man to give the world the naked truth💯
You absolutely snapped with this one.
Pandering to men is very profitable for women, it’s an uptick in so many doing it.
What do you mean. How is pandering profitable for women? What does it get them?
@@jeanetteswain1760 My guess is the algorithm. More men will tune in. Make comments praising the content creator. Women will catch wind of it. Videos will go viral. Then both get to arguing in the comments equal more views. Then the reactions vidoes pop-up. !!!Voila!!! the cycle continues. And there you have it. The secret sauce to a successful RUclips channel. Be outrageous, be obnoxious and in today's market it may work.
@Atlantaangel pandering? What is that, never heard it before lol.
@@jeanetteswain1760 The definition of pandering is " the act of expressing one's views in accordance with the likes of a group to which one is attempting to appeal." Melanie King, Pearl...etc profits by producing content to bash women to a predominate male audience.
@@guinealove3744 No. Don’t know where you got that definition. Pandering has more than one definition. Please look them up to enlighten yourself. Peace.
You were BIG MAD AND I LOOOOOOVED IT❤ This was amazing.
Men are extremely violent. They scare the f... out of me.
Agreed. They truly are evil.
@@deja14not evil just naturally aggressive takers. I think it's like fire; good servant, bad master. That's why we need be queens of fire. We gotta know how to make manly fire serve us.
@nzingahoney not evil just aggressive takers? 🙄
@@Kashmir-lt4cx yeah. Exactly. Aggression doesn't always mean malevolence.
@@nzingahoneyEXACTLY bc My Autistic Son is extremely aggressive out of frustration but not an OUNCE of Him is malevolent.
Father, bless and keep this man and his family. Protect and preserve him as he continues to speak truth that sets people free. God bless you, Tony.
Nothing but respect for this dude, he keeps it real. Much respect brutha ❤💯
You said "fishin for booty." Im SCREAMING!😂
Come on!! Whew!! Lord! They need it! They need it ..ain’t nobody chastening these fools! God speaks through you..thank you man of GOD!! I am waiting for my husband..I’m waiting
This is the message I needed to hear this week! I get down on myself about dating. I’m 46 and newly divorced… this message encouraged me to slow down and really analyze the man’s true intentions for me and my son. Thank you Tony and thank God for giving you the strength and courage to go against the grain and bring these powerful, life changing messages
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. I myself was in that situation, and when I found out, I vacated the unlawful relationship.
==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry)
Hey Tony, I know you're booked and busy, but I thank you for continuing to making these videos. Your videos helps me get through my day at work. I listen to you going to work, during work, coming home from work, and at home.😂😂😂 Might sound crazy, but it has helped me become a better woman. Thank you for being you and teaching things we wish our fathers and family taught us. If I knew about you years ago it would saved me a lot of heartache and pain, but I'm grateful now because my life is beautiful. My relationship is beautiful, my body coming along the way I want and I'm working on my brand and business. You're truly a blessing.
I cried when Tony talked about massaging his wife’s feet as she fell asleep.
It's the simple things that matter the most❤
That’s true love right there, Godly love
God bless!
What we wouldn't give for that, right?
Some things money just can't buy!
Tony this actually made me cry because this is exactly what I tried to do with my husband and it backfired. You can’t be submissive to a grown boy. Because they will abuse their power and drag you into a ditch. My soon to be ex husband never valued my opinion and wanted to have complete dominion and dictatorship over our family. Thank God my family didn’t give up on me and they didn’t let me fall for the gaslighting spell that my narc had me under. Thank you for taking the time to speak the truth to us women because no one else will.
Uncle T put the nail on the head regarding these fathers being narcissist.
"Yo dang-a-lang raw " 😂😂😂😂 Im dead....TG is so comedic!
To these type of Women PLEASE wake up…PLEASE❤🙏🏽
This was a great message! One thing I’ve observed is these type of people on both sides usually lack emotional intelligence tbh. It’s like talking to a brick wall. It’s no point in wasting energy on these type of people!! Just keep going ladies and listen to Tony!!
Appreciative for this video. It just reaffirmed to me to remain single and keep working on myself. While I’d like to be in a relationship working towards marriage again, I’m cool on these guys these days. I’m literally not missing out on anything. I’m still observing myself and how I respond to the guys who do approach me.
We’ll said and I totally agree.
Superb Video❤
TG ....you are very wise....Ive learned a lot the hard way....per I didn't have a father in my life or a male figure.....u must be ready whn u out here....these men today will eat u alive if u are NOT equipped with the armor.
Iktr
They call them pickmes & it’s sickening
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Tony is so on point! Yasss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are men that will ask you those personal questions because they’re trying to see what they can get away with doing to you. They try to lower your value as a woman.
I wish I had found him years ago it would save me from lots of headaches and emotional damage from men this is exactly what I been through thanks tony I hope this reach to millions of women
AMEN BROTHER TONY!! FATHER GOD BRING CONVICTION TO EVERY MAN THATS USING AND ABUSING WOMEN!!! WE APPRECIATE YOU TONY, KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH!!!!
Spot on Mentor Tony, am praying for young men and women. The people that have the mic on social media are doing serious mental damage with what they say.
You’re so Right Tony!!, Let’s all go over and report Red Head page, we all should know who he’s talking about. This need to End. She selling shirts that say(Women should not be allowed to Vote)
Meanwhile, this is the same chick who openly said that you wanted to run for office. 😑😑😑
@@TrueMystiqueSmh she needs to be stop
Um. Voting? Nah man she need to go
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen all 2023 😢 this spoke to me on so many levels. I feel like everyone really should listen in. God bless tony!
Omg this was a word! Glory to God. I get so disappointed at black women constantly defending these men against paying child support, cheating allegations, competing against women with this sissy behavior! It is very deplorable!! But thank God for men like you uncle Tony. May God continue to use you
What a powerful message! Women who want to be controlled are obviously troubled and need therapy. Why would a level headed woman want to put her fate in the hands of man? Makes no sense. I pray women wake up and seek wisdom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Also, I have chosen not to date for the last 6 years because most men are not impressive to me
I literally love you in the most honorable way! God is truly using you & this message helped me so much!! Pls never delete so I can show this to my 7 year old son when he’s older lol
This was really a blessing Mr. Gaskins.
Lord have Mercy you snapped and I appreciate it!!!
Speak Truth 😊
Lol😅 right! Got real deep.
This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard from a man! I appreciate your honesty ❤
I’ll definitely be listening to this more than once
I’ve been watching you for years and always just laughed and found it enjoyable but for the first time I felt your words in my soul! So powerful it made me emotional. I wish lost men can find your platform. Wish you and your family always the best!
You spoke a word today. I don't care what the masses say, I appreciate your videos. Of course you had to make me chuckle today. "Reverse pigmentation."
Reverse pigmentation?
Tony is “Gangsta!” with it 😅 when he gets a message across! 💯👏🏽
My friend is working 12+ a day while her Baby daddy not married not working & calling all the shots I’m literally forcing myself to leave cause a situation happen & by her words that let me know that she sees he do no wrong & holding on to what she did in the past & don’t love her self & turned against her family & friends
All we can do is pray for her🙏🏾🙏🏾
You’re a good husband. My hubby does these things and the acts of service really demonstrate how much yall value us as wives. This is why we go hard for yall.
People who don’t have the bandwidth will never understand. It’s not simping….it’s loving! It’s how our parents and grandparents lasted so long.
You HAVE to he selfLESS in marriage in order for it to work. Unfortunately, social media and folks not seeing their mother being loved properly while growing up has caused toxic relationships and viewpoints in our community.
P.S. Good girls never tell whether they’re a virgin or have a had partners. Lessons my father taught me. It’s something you keep to yourself as a lady.
Yes, Patriarchy has been in place for thousands of years. Men don’t need no help to keep the system going.
The system today is a Matriarchy tho.
@@shawnchrystafurNo, sir... men still make the majority of rules and decisions we live by daily... and THOSE MEN are not going to budge to just "give" BM a spot... so there is a failure of BM to get the work done to become respected patriarchs in the system. My father is a highly respected family patriarch; he got the work done! My grandfather: still respected, got his work done!
Thank you for being the brother I never had.
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You are on point with this. Especially the narcissist part. My ex husband manipulated our daughter into hating me so bad that she was willing to kill me and her brothers just because her dad hated me so much. It’s sad but it’s happening.
Come on now Tony! You preaching today!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Amen!
He got time today!!!!
This is very true and practical info. The older women that I personally have known when I was growing up had the mentality of "treat the man like the king". They were all in abusive relationships. I recently saw a woman on YT who had videos of her abusive husband and how she started living in her car to get away from him. She had the audacity to take down all those videos of her being homeless because she had to flee her abusive husband as she said, in an attempt to revamp her channel. Now she has the audacity to start putting up new videos on "Christian dating, femininity and, being a Godly wife". Meanwhile, she left her abusive husband and she is leading innocent women who don't know any better astray. She had all these videos asking for donations for over 5 years and was struggling. She is looking for a way to make money at other people's expense. Be vigilant to the times we're living in. Know the word of God for yourself and don't trust these random people giving any kind of "relationship advice" 💯 Thanks for this video!
“I say no, that ain’t my goal. My goal is to give women the truth.” TG
Tony you have given me a 65 year old woman the best advice on men!! Praise God, I will never forget your lessons on the nature of women and men. When you said lions are snacking on giselles. I never online date, but this brings so much clarity that the “hunted game” does not hunt the lion! Solid instruction, we would be foolish not to pay attention. We must KNOW that we are queens & NEVER settle! 🎉🎉💕
Tony Gaskin Won 🥇 this message!
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Pray & Say no to pandering: to please other people by doing or saying what you think they want you to do or say😢 dang near seems slavish, ?☝️not good to control a women or a lady, (substance) got men over their head’s with bad habits… 🤔 lord.
Gottem Coach/🫡 Tony Gaskin
I don’t know weather to laugh or cry.. this message is powerful. While there’s some humor to it. And my emotions are all over the place because the truth that is spoken in this video.
"I'm gonna start reporting yalls pages for terrorism" 😂😂😂love it
‼️💯. This message going out whether people like it or not! God's will
Yep, men are takers. Thanks for the wisdom.
My counsel doesn’t come from the unGodly nor the seat of the scornful. ❤
amen
I feel the spirit is evoked when he speaks because trust me, it’s not easy facilitating this type of content without losing train of thought. I appreciate this brother God has sent to us. Not to praise him but to give gratification and in prayer that the lord brings more people to this awareness and allowing you to provide these messages. Thank you, because it’s been a few years listening and I’ve come across if not all most of the situations you’ve spoken about and I appreciate you, im finally able to Phathom the message. It used to go way over my head.
The red head he is talking about is Pearl. I don’t agree with her point of view at all!
She's the biggest panderer of them all and it's so obvious
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God bless you Tony. The stability part at the end of this video almost had me in tears. Every woman wants it. The fact that you understand this is sooooo valuable. A woman does not necessarily need a bigger house, she needs a stable "home." Imaginary can catch us all up and have us chasing... but God, gratitude and stability can keep us grounded AND growing. I send blessings to you and your family. Your work is making a positive IMPACT in my life and in the lives of many.
Tony said “Dread-Locs” 😂😂😂
I have made a conscious decision not to deal with men who have not come to me with a civilized offer to date.
Hi Tony, I am on older woman who truly appreciate you and the work God has called you to. I’m am planning on sharing this video with my 16 year old granddaughter and wish I knew this when I was her age. Anyhow, may God continue to keep and bless you abundantly for the millions of women you are saving from manipulating men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
You’re right about Ms Locs. The minute I saw her speak I was repulsed in my spirit by her. Something about her is so cold and aggressive. Just looking at her gives me chills fr. She is poisoning women with some of her information.
I know the red hair woman is, who Ms. Locs?
Who are these women? I need to see this content they’re trying to push to other women.
Nvm, at least found the redhead lady. I saw her content before and was instantly turned off, I pay her dust.
Who’s ms locs??
I think the pale women is Pearl, but I’m not sure about the locs
It's so hard knowing who to trust these days cause people are so messed up 😭💔
“Not a looker in the least” 😭😂😂😂🤣
Brother Tony I appreciate you so much. You have no idea. You’re doing the Lord’s work. Thank you so much!
🔥🔥🔥🔥Alright Now! It Shonuff ain't nothing but the Truth❣️ 💐🙏🦋
Thanks!
I can't believe it took me 40 minutes to realize which woman you were talking about lol
👩🏫 That is a great aid for abstinent believers. Glory to God.
There it is… truth with no chaser. The nature of men.. 101. Thanks Brother Tony for the reminder.
This is great for both men and women to listen to. Thank you, Tony, for keeping it real and being direct.
Lord have mercy this was a word!!!😮💨🙌🏾
This was the most real thing ever 😊 ty for speaking the truth to us women. We need to hear it especially if we’ve been abused by men before bcs we are pretty and naturally nice and trusting
Your openness and honesty is greatly appreciated
I must admit he is preaching today preach brother❤
TONY is PREACHING TODAY!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Keep teaching! Your breaking chains!Were grateful for Raw teaching like this💪🏾
TONY, TONY, TONY, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.....l PRAY THAT EVERYONE THAT WATCHES THIS THAT HAS AN EAR, WILL HEAR, LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. YOU BETTER KEEP TEACHING, PREACHING, AND SPEAKING GOD'S WORD....THIS IS THE CALLING ON YOUR LIFE AND DON'T YOU EVER, EVER, NEVER, LET THEM (male or females) STOP YOU FROM YOUR CALLING AND THE TEACHING THAT WAS PUT ON YOUR HEART....THIS WAS SIME GREAT TEACHING SIR!!!!!!
THIS IS PURE GOLD!! Alhamdulilah for my religion and the standards it has taught me!!! ❤❤❤❤
Toni you're definitely correct in your assessment. Unfortunately, that particular women who made such toxic erroneous replies obviously experienced major trauma. Just listening to it was truly concerning because obviously she's been compromised, gaslighted, & mishandled because her reaction is a tell-tale of her being brainwashed.