I’m so scared Tony. A lot of men have been scary in my life since childhood. People always say I’m kind, smart, and beautiful and ask why I’m single. The truth is I’m scared. Going to work, church, and enjoying my artistic hobbies feels so safe. With all that’s going on today - it’s seems so dangerous and scary… God help us all 🙏🏾
God will Guide you in the right direction if you ask him. Discernment is very necessary for us though as women. You Got it. Fear isn’t of God. It’s of the enemy. If you’re scared to date then don’t date. Trust how u feel. When you’re ready you won’t be scared. 🩷
We normally see the red flags and ignore them. But out there is really scary because a lot of people never healed from their past hurt and insecurities
Tony is doing the Lord’s work.🙏🏾 He’s passionate about his calling. How can you not respect this man?? Women need to hear this. Some were giving up on men, but Tony shows there’s hope. 🙏🏾
Men are scary your feelings are completely normal and rational. I have learned if a man doesn't make you feel calm and safe from the jump there is something off and you should be looking at him with a side eye.
Women are NOT required to submit to their boyfriend or date - You submit to your husband. Too many women are giving wifey benefits that are not deserved - Have some dignity and grace ladies! P.S. Please do not leave your child alone with any man except his papa.
You shouldn't submit to no living person. You aren't a child or a pet. The word "submissive" means to hand over one's own will to another. How was you living before you were in a relationship? I think a lot of women never had a father so they go into a relationship looking for one.
@@livethatlife1830submitting is what we do when we work a 9 to 5. It isn't volunteering to be a slave. It is just cooperation with the employer or provider's vision and goals.
You still have to be careful with that, and I thank God I did not have a father like that, and Thanked him before he passed away this March 2023 before he passed away for not being that type of man or father.....Thank you Dad, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DAILY😞!!!!!
@@livethatlife1830if a Man is submitted to God and to You then why not submit to that Man? You can't cherry pick the Word. You should be already submitted to God and then able to submit to that Man in return. Marriage is an act of service. If You're not ready to serve, You are not ready for marriage. That goes for Male or Female.
Oh, you're talking about the Pickmeshas! The "Pick Me" women; those who pander to men; always take a man's side even though he may be wrongs while putting women down in the process. I think that's the name for it.
Tony, you said what every one of these men try to ignore: a woman is submissive to a man who is submissive to GOD. That’s the hierarchy. The man is not at the top. The husband is simply a manager. He is not the CEO.
He said, I'm about to start reporting y'all pages for terrorizm 😂😂😂😂😂 I can't ......spelled that wrong intentionally. Lol I got my laugh for the day😂😂😂😂
I love this message, a man is not supposed to control a woman. Yes the man is supposed to be the head, but that doesn’t give him the right to control the woman. These red pill guys are miserable.
My nail tech is 22 and I asked does she have a man she said nope theyre childish even the ones in their 30s. I felt so sad makes me scared for my niece when she comes of age.
One of THEE nicest guys I went to law school with r*ped one of our classmates. Another of our very charismatic classmates - who was top of the class (and beloved by professors) - was accused of r*pe. Both are lawyers today and graduated from a DC HBCU. Do not be impressed (or moved) by title or personality. As Tony ALWAYS emphasizes, look at the character of the man.
They may have gotten away with it by man law, but I promise God's law is 100x worse! God's vengeance can never compare to jail time! If their payback hasn't happened in some form, their time is coming soon!
I believe it. I had someone sexually aggressive towards me. He was nerdy media personality and an HBCU graduate as well. The last person I would have ever expected to behave like that towards me
@@chasg8183 It can be the first person you think, the last, and everybody in between. Sadly, I'm not surprised by your experience. I'm glad you are ok. 🙏🏾
My eyes opened when I started listening to him , i had to remove social media because all I see is half naked women and I would read the comments and most of it is men who are married with daughters , i am not in a relationship but that is a non-negotiable for me, i will not date a man who validates women on the internet , i walked away from a man earlier this year because of it. Anyway there are men who thinks AI models are real commenting on a fake women profile. Vet men and stay off your back , i listen to tony in the damn car , when im cooking just everywhere. Thank you sir be blessed
A collaboration we need is with you and R.C. Blakes. These grown boys will be hot like fire for sure. And we know that both of y'all get the ladies for being foolish. As I heard said and it applies to you both...you're protecting womanhood and promoting manhood. Love to see it😊
Yes I feel R.C. Blake's is a great man and holds women accountable as well as the men . I don't listen to many male creators when it comes to relationships but I always tune into Tony and R.C. Blakes .
Tony has the wisdom. It's funny how society doesn't want to submit to God, but then talk about submission. If you don't submit to God, you don't have a foundation for your woman to submit. Those people don't know the Lord, but talking about some kind of submission 😂 Tony speaking wisdom
You right. Most fathers lift up their daughters bc they know alot of men are not good men. Cuz when a guy broke up with me my daddy said "dont worry about that mf 🤣you good you can do bad all by yoself"
This was timely. I took social media off of my phone because for 3 weeks now, men have been responding negatively to a comment I made I an IG post. I spoke to the point that men have begun to emasculate themselves, yet they can’t even see it. I don’t even know how many men, particularly black men, I’ve blocked. Not to mention that out of over a thousand replies to my comment, only 1 man understood the context of where I was coming from. It’s sad out here… I feel like men are not safe at all right now.
Don't bother explaining things like this to men and save yourself the stress. Most of them won't get it and have no desire to change. Only the very evolved men will understand which is literally 1% of men or less as proven by the fact that only 1 man understood your point.
Mr Tony, I swear I wish there were more MEN like you, that would open their mouths and tell the WHOLE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you’re saying is the truth. It IS sad that there are thousand of GOOD women that know their worth, and CANNOT meet a decent man for a relationship. You are a God send Mr Tony. Gods speed, minister, Gods speed.
He is telling the absolute truth I'm a better woman since following Tony been 3yrs of growth I thank God for using this man to give the world the naked truth💯
What you mentioned around 37:00 about men that don't listen to their wives because of ego will lead the family into a ditch is SO true. Both my parents are educated but my father NEVER listened to my mother's advice. She urged him to invest money, buy home and to do so much that would've set three generations in wealth (he had the opportunity in his hands) but he shot down every idea. Now, he lives alone in an apartment divorced and all of us are struggling financially because we're paying for both our parents separate bills. No one's married despite being grown adults. It's sad.. but if only he put his ego aside and listened to her ALL of our lives would've turned out differently.
Women need to handle their own finances. You are not required to pour your money down the drain bc your husband says so. Let him pour his down the drain…
@@shawnchrystafurNo, sir... men still make the majority of rules and decisions we live by daily... and THOSE MEN are not going to budge to just "give" BM a spot... so there is a failure of BM to get the work done to become respected patriarchs in the system. My father is a highly respected family patriarch; he got the work done! My grandfather: still respected, got his work done!
Come on!! Whew!! Lord! They need it! They need it ..ain’t nobody chastening these fools! God speaks through you..thank you man of GOD!! I am waiting for my husband..I’m waiting
This is the message I needed to hear this week! I get down on myself about dating. I’m 46 and newly divorced… this message encouraged me to slow down and really analyze the man’s true intentions for me and my son. Thank you Tony and thank God for giving you the strength and courage to go against the grain and bring these powerful, life changing messages
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. I myself was in that situation, and when I found out, I vacated the unlawful relationship. ==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry)
Hey Tony, I know you're booked and busy, but I thank you for continuing to making these videos. Your videos helps me get through my day at work. I listen to you going to work, during work, coming home from work, and at home.😂😂😂 Might sound crazy, but it has helped me become a better woman. Thank you for being you and teaching things we wish our fathers and family taught us. If I knew about you years ago it would saved me a lot of heartache and pain, but I'm grateful now because my life is beautiful. My relationship is beautiful, my body coming along the way I want and I'm working on my brand and business. You're truly a blessing.
@@jeanetteswain1760 My guess is the algorithm. More men will tune in. Make comments praising the content creator. Women will catch wind of it. Videos will go viral. Then both get to arguing in the comments equal more views. Then the reactions vidoes pop-up. !!!Voila!!! the cycle continues. And there you have it. The secret sauce to a successful RUclips channel. Be outrageous, be obnoxious and in today's market it may work.
@@jeanetteswain1760 The definition of pandering is " the act of expressing one's views in accordance with the likes of a group to which one is attempting to appeal." Melanie King, Pearl...etc profits by producing content to bash women to a predominate male audience.
@@guinealove3744 No. Don’t know where you got that definition. Pandering has more than one definition. Please look them up to enlighten yourself. Peace.
@@deja14not evil just naturally aggressive takers. I think it's like fire; good servant, bad master. That's why we need be queens of fire. We gotta know how to make manly fire serve us.
Tony is so on point! Yasss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are men that will ask you those personal questions because they’re trying to see what they can get away with doing to you. They try to lower your value as a woman.
My friend is working 12+ a day while her Baby daddy not married not working & calling all the shots I’m literally forcing myself to leave cause a situation happen & by her words that let me know that she sees he do no wrong & holding on to what she did in the past & don’t love her self & turned against her family & friends
I wish I had found him years ago it would save me from lots of headaches and emotional damage from men this is exactly what I been through thanks tony I hope this reach to millions of women
Mr. Gaskins i really thank God for you but im sooo happy for myself because before listening to you i was already ahead of the games men play. I checked out over 10 years ago i mean literally i gave Jesus christ my whole life and he tells me how to maneuver and detour around the foolishness. I been literally and honestly single for over 10 years and my heart is healed. I been stretched from man to man but now im closed up meaning im a virgin all over again. I feel so good. I am doing great financially, mentally and physically. If i would never have listened to God i would be dead. There are many many many male deceivers out in the world. All kinds of evil spirits in these dudes and theyre itching to tear me to pieces but My God protection has given me back what was stolen from me. And that cant be stolen from me again... obedience is better than sacrifice
TG ....you are very wise....Ive learned a lot the hard way....per I didn't have a father in my life or a male figure.....u must be ready whn u out here....these men today will eat u alive if u are NOT equipped with the armor.
Tony this actually made me cry because this is exactly what I tried to do with my husband and it backfired. You can’t be submissive to a grown boy. Because they will abuse their power and drag you into a ditch. My soon to be ex husband never valued my opinion and wanted to have complete dominion and dictatorship over our family. Thank God my family didn’t give up on me and they didn’t let me fall for the gaslighting spell that my narc had me under. Thank you for taking the time to speak the truth to us women because no one else will.
Appreciative for this video. It just reaffirmed to me to remain single and keep working on myself. While I’d like to be in a relationship working towards marriage again, I’m cool on these guys these days. I’m literally not missing out on anything. I’m still observing myself and how I respond to the guys who do approach me.
Omg this was a word! Glory to God. I get so disappointed at black women constantly defending these men against paying child support, cheating allegations, competing against women with this sissy behavior! It is very deplorable!! But thank God for men like you uncle Tony. May God continue to use you
Spot on Mentor Tony, am praying for young men and women. The people that have the mic on social media are doing serious mental damage with what they say.
This was a great message! One thing I’ve observed is these type of people on both sides usually lack emotional intelligence tbh. It’s like talking to a brick wall. It’s no point in wasting energy on these type of people!! Just keep going ladies and listen to Tony!!
What a powerful message! Women who want to be controlled are obviously troubled and need therapy. Why would a level headed woman want to put her fate in the hands of man? Makes no sense. I pray women wake up and seek wisdom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Also, I have chosen not to date for the last 6 years because most men are not impressive to me
You are on point with this. Especially the narcissist part. My ex husband manipulated our daughter into hating me so bad that she was willing to kill me and her brothers just because her dad hated me so much. It’s sad but it’s happening.
You’re so Right Tony!!, Let’s all go over and report Red Head page, we all should know who he’s talking about. This need to End. She selling shirts that say(Women should not be allowed to Vote)
You spoke a word today. I don't care what the masses say, I appreciate your videos. Of course you had to make me chuckle today. "Reverse pigmentation."
I literally love you in the most honorable way! God is truly using you & this message helped me so much!! Pls never delete so I can show this to my 7 year old son when he’s older lol
I don’t know weather to laugh or cry.. this message is powerful. While there’s some humor to it. And my emotions are all over the place because the truth that is spoken in this video.
This is very true and practical info. The older women that I personally have known when I was growing up had the mentality of "treat the man like the king". They were all in abusive relationships. I recently saw a woman on YT who had videos of her abusive husband and how she started living in her car to get away from him. She had the audacity to take down all those videos of her being homeless because she had to flee her abusive husband as she said, in an attempt to revamp her channel. Now she has the audacity to start putting up new videos on "Christian dating, femininity and, being a Godly wife". Meanwhile, she left her abusive husband and she is leading innocent women who don't know any better astray. She had all these videos asking for donations for over 5 years and was struggling. She is looking for a way to make money at other people's expense. Be vigilant to the times we're living in. Know the word of God for yourself and don't trust these random people giving any kind of "relationship advice" 💯 Thanks for this video!
I’ve been watching you for years and always just laughed and found it enjoyable but for the first time I felt your words in my soul! So powerful it made me emotional. I wish lost men can find your platform. Wish you and your family always the best!
You’re a good husband. My hubby does these things and the acts of service really demonstrate how much yall value us as wives. This is why we go hard for yall. People who don’t have the bandwidth will never understand. It’s not simping….it’s loving! It’s how our parents and grandparents lasted so long. You HAVE to he selfLESS in marriage in order for it to work. Unfortunately, social media and folks not seeing their mother being loved properly while growing up has caused toxic relationships and viewpoints in our community. P.S. Good girls never tell whether they’re a virgin or have a had partners. Lessons my father taught me. It’s something you keep to yourself as a lady.
TONY aint playing today! My brudda from anotha mutha! this was right in time. Our Abba has been protecting me via rejection and the lies of the enemy were starting to break me down. My patience has been renewed and peace will now remain! Thank you once again for letting Abba Yah use you to live out your purpose and be of service! May God continue to bless you and your family.
Tony Gaskin Won 🥇 this message! *New Subscriber/ Pray & Say no to pandering: to please other people by doing or saying what you think they want you to do or say😢 dang near seems slavish, ?☝️not good to control a women or a lady, (substance) got men over their head’s with bad habits… 🤔 lord. Gottem Coach/🫡 Tony Gaskin
Hi Tony, I am on older woman who truly appreciate you and the work God has called you to. I’m am planning on sharing this video with my 16 year old granddaughter and wish I knew this when I was her age. Anyhow, may God continue to keep and bless you abundantly for the millions of women you are saving from manipulating men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel the spirit is evoked when he speaks because trust me, it’s not easy facilitating this type of content without losing train of thought. I appreciate this brother God has sent to us. Not to praise him but to give gratification and in prayer that the lord brings more people to this awareness and allowing you to provide these messages. Thank you, because it’s been a few years listening and I’ve come across if not all most of the situations you’ve spoken about and I appreciate you, im finally able to Phathom the message. It used to go way over my head.
Tony you have given me a 65 year old woman the best advice on men!! Praise God, I will never forget your lessons on the nature of women and men. When you said lions are snacking on giselles. I never online date, but this brings so much clarity that the “hunted game” does not hunt the lion! Solid instruction, we would be foolish not to pay attention. We must KNOW that we are queens & NEVER settle! 🎉🎉💕
This was the most real thing ever 😊 ty for speaking the truth to us women. We need to hear it especially if we’ve been abused by men before bcs we are pretty and naturally nice and trusting
You’re right about Ms Locs. The minute I saw her speak I was repulsed in my spirit by her. Something about her is so cold and aggressive. Just looking at her gives me chills fr. She is poisoning women with some of her information.
@16:57 ❗❗ Thats EXACTLY WHY you should *_NEVER_* treat a man "special." 🤷🏾♀️ He will NEVER believe that it was JUST HIM anyway & WILL ALL WAYS hold it against you. 👍🏿💯
Wow that's is a lot to unpack . 1. 💯 take care of your wife and keep speaking the truth . 2. People will do anything for money, i feel sorry for the red head chick , she is a fool and trying to go back 100s of years before women had rights . I am afraid other silly women will be led astray and be hurt or even killed behind this foolishness all to make money. Women today we cant afford to this foolishness ontop of all the other issues we have to deal with . Praying for everyone. ❤
God bless you Tony. The stability part at the end of this video almost had me in tears. Every woman wants it. The fact that you understand this is sooooo valuable. A woman does not necessarily need a bigger house, she needs a stable "home." Imaginary can catch us all up and have us chasing... but God, gratitude and stability can keep us grounded AND growing. I send blessings to you and your family. Your work is making a positive IMPACT in my life and in the lives of many.
Toni you're definitely correct in your assessment. Unfortunately, that particular women who made such toxic erroneous replies obviously experienced major trauma. Just listening to it was truly concerning because obviously she's been compromised, gaslighted, & mishandled because her reaction is a tell-tale of her being brainwashed.
I’m so scared Tony. A lot of men have been scary in my life since childhood. People always say I’m kind, smart, and beautiful and ask why I’m single. The truth is I’m scared. Going to work, church, and enjoying my artistic hobbies feels so safe. With all that’s going on today - it’s seems so dangerous and scary… God help us all 🙏🏾
God will Guide you in the right direction if you ask him. Discernment is very necessary for us though as women. You Got it. Fear isn’t of God. It’s of the enemy. If you’re scared to date then don’t date. Trust how u feel. When you’re ready you won’t be scared. 🩷
We normally see the red flags and ignore them. But out there is really scary because a lot of people never healed from their past hurt and insecurities
Tony is doing the Lord’s work.🙏🏾 He’s passionate about his calling. How can you not respect this man?? Women need to hear this. Some were giving up on men, but Tony shows there’s hope. 🙏🏾
I have made the decision not to date at this time because of this. God is in control.
Men are scary your feelings are completely normal and rational. I have learned if a man doesn't make you feel calm and safe from the jump there is something off and you should be looking at him with a side eye.
Women are NOT required to submit to their boyfriend or date - You submit to your husband. Too many women are giving wifey benefits that are not deserved - Have some dignity and grace ladies! P.S. Please do not leave your child alone with any man except his papa.
you even have to be careful of some papas too
You shouldn't submit to no living person. You aren't a child or a pet. The word "submissive" means to hand over one's own will to another. How was you living before you were in a relationship? I think a lot of women never had a father so they go into a relationship looking for one.
@@livethatlife1830submitting is what we do when we work a 9 to 5. It isn't volunteering to be a slave. It is just cooperation with the employer or provider's vision and goals.
You still have to be careful with that, and I thank God I did not have a father like that, and Thanked him before he passed away this March 2023 before he passed away for not being that type of man or father.....Thank you Dad, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DAILY😞!!!!!
@@livethatlife1830if a Man is submitted to God and to You then why not submit to that Man? You can't cherry pick the Word. You should be already submitted to God and then able to submit to that Man in return. Marriage is an act of service. If You're not ready to serve, You are not ready for marriage. That goes for Male or Female.
Oh, you're talking about the Pickmeshas! The "Pick Me" women; those who pander to men; always take a man's side even though he may be wrongs while putting women down in the process. I think that's the name for it.
Exactly you said it!
Yep! Sounds about right to me.
Tony, you said what every one of these men try to ignore: a woman is submissive to a man who is submissive to GOD. That’s the hierarchy. The man is not at the top. The husband is simply a manager. He is not the CEO.
He said, I'm about to start reporting y'all pages for terrorizm 😂😂😂😂😂 I can't ......spelled that wrong intentionally. Lol I got my laugh for the day😂😂😂😂
He right too though. It is a type of hate speech
I love this message, a man is not supposed to control a woman. Yes the man is supposed to be the head, but that doesn’t give him the right to control the woman. These red pill guys are miserable.
Reads “Not for sensitive ears.” Clicks immediately. Lol, this one is going to be goodT!!!
My nail tech is 22 and I asked does she have a man she said nope theyre childish even the ones in their 30s. I felt so sad makes me scared for my niece when she comes of age.
Even the ones in their 50s😒
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“Everybody talking about ‘get a team, get a community’, but then want to get in a marriage and tell a woman to shut up” - Uncle Tony Gaskins! 🎉
One of THEE nicest guys I went to law school with r*ped one of our classmates. Another of our very charismatic classmates - who was top of the class (and beloved by professors) - was accused of r*pe.
Both are lawyers today and graduated from a DC HBCU. Do not be impressed (or moved) by title or personality. As Tony ALWAYS emphasizes, look at the character of the man.
They may have gotten away with it by man law, but I promise God's law is 100x worse!
God's vengeance can never compare to jail time! If their payback hasn't happened in some form, their time is coming soon!
😢😢😢😢 I can believe it.
Wow smh
I believe it. I had someone sexually aggressive towards me. He was nerdy media personality and an HBCU graduate as well. The last person I would have ever expected to behave like that towards me
@@chasg8183 It can be the first person you think, the last, and everybody in between. Sadly, I'm not surprised by your experience. I'm glad you are ok. 🙏🏾
Facts, some men just don't get it sexually, mentally, or emotionally.
And for most they never will. Pretty sad!
Sadly, they really don’t 🙄
My eyes opened when I started listening to him , i had to remove social media because all I see is half naked women and I would read the comments and most of it is men who are married with daughters , i am not in a relationship but that is a non-negotiable for me, i will not date a man who validates women on the internet , i walked away from a man earlier this year because of it. Anyway there are men who thinks AI models are real commenting on a fake women profile. Vet men and stay off your back , i listen to tony in the damn car , when im cooking just everywhere. Thank you sir be blessed
A collaboration we need is with you and R.C. Blakes. These grown boys will be hot like fire for sure. And we know that both of y'all get the ladies for being foolish. As I heard said and it applies to you both...you're protecting womanhood and promoting manhood. Love to see it😊
I totally agree! That would be so awesome!
Bishop R.C is the truth :)
Yes I feel R.C. Blake's is a great man and holds women accountable as well as the men . I don't listen to many male creators when it comes to relationships but I always tune into Tony and R.C. Blakes .
My 2 favorite relationship coaches on RUclips, the only men I really trust on here!
Agree!!!
I cried when Tony talked about massaging his wife’s feet as she fell asleep.
It's the simple things that matter the most❤
That’s true love right there, Godly love
God bless!
What we wouldn't give for that, right?
Some things money just can't buy!
Tony has the wisdom. It's funny how society doesn't want to submit to God, but then talk about submission. If you don't submit to God, you don't have a foundation for your woman to submit. Those people don't know the Lord, but talking about some kind of submission 😂 Tony speaking wisdom
I been saying stop babying men. A woman needs to respect and have boundaries and hold the man accountable
Been single since 2011 and I don’t regret one moment of it. These men out here can be something else.
Single ad in you haven’t dated at all or don’t engage men at all ?
@@LaNeaheartz Single and haven’t dated because of the lack of quality options.
You right. Most fathers lift up their daughters bc they know alot of men are not good men. Cuz when a guy broke up with me my daddy said "dont worry about that mf 🤣you good you can do bad all by yoself"
@PCF quite the contrary, most fathers do Not is ehy there are extremely father wounds! 😭
Awesome message!! 26 years married, a women's influence is real. Most major,productive moves in our marriage came from me. He'll admit that. ❤
This was timely. I took social media off of my phone because for 3 weeks now, men have been responding negatively to a comment I made I an IG post. I spoke to the point that men have begun to emasculate themselves, yet they can’t even see it. I don’t even know how many men, particularly black men, I’ve blocked. Not to mention that out of over a thousand replies to my comment, only 1 man understood the context of where I was coming from. It’s sad out here… I feel like men are not safe at all right now.
Don't bother explaining things like this to men and save yourself the stress. Most of them won't get it and have no desire to change. Only the very evolved men will understand which is literally 1% of men or less as proven by the fact that only 1 man understood your point.
Some men are unsafe. The wrong types. Not all men. Be at Peace and know that Yahweh is God
What did you say in the comment on IG?
@@Arguewityamama does it even really matter????
It’s the wild wild west out here. One thing ladies must keep reminding themselves of is slow and steady be very vigilant
Wow I was surprised when u said u didn’t deserve your wife based on sexual history. Great conversation. ❤
Thank you Tony. We cannot be reminded enough of this. There's no need for women to give their bodies to grown boys.
AMEN IN JESUS NAME
You said "fishin for booty." Im SCREAMING!😂
Mr Tony, I swear I wish there were more MEN like you, that would open their mouths and tell the WHOLE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you’re saying is the truth. It IS sad that there are thousand of GOOD women that know their worth, and CANNOT meet a decent man for a relationship. You are a God send Mr Tony. Gods speed, minister, Gods speed.
The red head he is talking about is Pearl. I don’t agree with her point of view at all!
She's the biggest panderer of them all and it's so obvious
Sad
He is telling the absolute truth I'm a better woman since following Tony been 3yrs of growth I thank God for using this man to give the world the naked truth💯
What you mentioned around 37:00 about men that don't listen to their wives because of ego will lead the family into a ditch is SO true. Both my parents are educated but my father NEVER listened to my mother's advice. She urged him to invest money, buy home and to do so much that would've set three generations in wealth (he had the opportunity in his hands) but he shot down every idea. Now, he lives alone in an apartment divorced and all of us are struggling financially because we're paying for both our parents separate bills. No one's married despite being grown adults. It's sad.. but if only he put his ego aside and listened to her ALL of our lives would've turned out differently.
This is real talk. Similar family situation due to pride & ego. “A ditch”. There are consequences for your actions.
Why I had to check to see if I wrote this myself. Literally my parent to the T
It is so not nice to see. My dad has so, so , so much pride. He would have been richer and bette roff if he listened to her.
Women need to handle their own finances. You are not required to pour your money down the drain bc your husband says so. Let him pour his down the drain…
They call them pickmes & it’s sickening
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Yes, Patriarchy has been in place for thousands of years. Men don’t need no help to keep the system going.
The system today is a Matriarchy tho.
@@shawnchrystafurNo, sir... men still make the majority of rules and decisions we live by daily... and THOSE MEN are not going to budge to just "give" BM a spot... so there is a failure of BM to get the work done to become respected patriarchs in the system. My father is a highly respected family patriarch; he got the work done! My grandfather: still respected, got his work done!
Come on!! Whew!! Lord! They need it! They need it ..ain’t nobody chastening these fools! God speaks through you..thank you man of GOD!! I am waiting for my husband..I’m waiting
"Yo dang-a-lang raw " 😂😂😂😂 Im dead....TG is so comedic!
I have made a conscious decision not to deal with men who have not come to me with a civilized offer to date.
It sound like that women from under a rock somewhere , the foolishness needs to stop. Grateful for the clarity you keep bringing
Nothing but respect for this dude, he keeps it real. Much respect brutha ❤💯
This is the message I needed to hear this week! I get down on myself about dating. I’m 46 and newly divorced… this message encouraged me to slow down and really analyze the man’s true intentions for me and my son. Thank you Tony and thank God for giving you the strength and courage to go against the grain and bring these powerful, life changing messages
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. I myself was in that situation, and when I found out, I vacated the unlawful relationship.
==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry)
Hey Tony, I know you're booked and busy, but I thank you for continuing to making these videos. Your videos helps me get through my day at work. I listen to you going to work, during work, coming home from work, and at home.😂😂😂 Might sound crazy, but it has helped me become a better woman. Thank you for being you and teaching things we wish our fathers and family taught us. If I knew about you years ago it would saved me a lot of heartache and pain, but I'm grateful now because my life is beautiful. My relationship is beautiful, my body coming along the way I want and I'm working on my brand and business. You're truly a blessing.
Pandering to men is very profitable for women, it’s an uptick in so many doing it.
What do you mean. How is pandering profitable for women? What does it get them?
@@jeanetteswain1760 My guess is the algorithm. More men will tune in. Make comments praising the content creator. Women will catch wind of it. Videos will go viral. Then both get to arguing in the comments equal more views. Then the reactions vidoes pop-up. !!!Voila!!! the cycle continues. And there you have it. The secret sauce to a successful RUclips channel. Be outrageous, be obnoxious and in today's market it may work.
@Atlantaangel pandering? What is that, never heard it before lol.
@@jeanetteswain1760 The definition of pandering is " the act of expressing one's views in accordance with the likes of a group to which one is attempting to appeal." Melanie King, Pearl...etc profits by producing content to bash women to a predominate male audience.
@@guinealove3744 No. Don’t know where you got that definition. Pandering has more than one definition. Please look them up to enlighten yourself. Peace.
You absolutely snapped with this one.
Uncle T put the nail on the head regarding these fathers being narcissist.
You were BIG MAD AND I LOOOOOOVED IT❤ This was amazing.
Men are extremely violent. They scare the f... out of me.
Agreed. They truly are evil.
@@deja14not evil just naturally aggressive takers. I think it's like fire; good servant, bad master. That's why we need be queens of fire. We gotta know how to make manly fire serve us.
@nzingahoney not evil just aggressive takers? 🙄
@@Kashmir-lt4cx yeah. Exactly. Aggression doesn't always mean malevolence.
@@nzingahoneyEXACTLY bc My Autistic Son is extremely aggressive out of frustration but not an OUNCE of Him is malevolent.
Tony is so on point! Yasss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are men that will ask you those personal questions because they’re trying to see what they can get away with doing to you. They try to lower your value as a woman.
My friend is working 12+ a day while her Baby daddy not married not working & calling all the shots I’m literally forcing myself to leave cause a situation happen & by her words that let me know that she sees he do no wrong & holding on to what she did in the past & don’t love her self & turned against her family & friends
All we can do is pray for her🙏🏾🙏🏾
I wish I had found him years ago it would save me from lots of headaches and emotional damage from men this is exactly what I been through thanks tony I hope this reach to millions of women
Mr. Gaskins i really thank God for you but im sooo happy for myself because before listening to you i was already ahead of the games men play. I checked out over 10 years ago i mean literally i gave Jesus christ my whole life and he tells me how to maneuver and detour around the foolishness. I been literally and honestly single for over 10 years and my heart is healed. I been stretched from man to man but now im closed up meaning im a virgin all over again. I feel so good. I am doing great financially, mentally and physically. If i would never have listened to God i would be dead. There are many many many male deceivers out in the world. All kinds of evil spirits in these dudes and theyre itching to tear me to pieces but My God protection has given me back what was stolen from me. And that cant be stolen from me again... obedience is better than sacrifice
Amen! Same, if people would focus on God and pursue Jesus that alone would change their lives!
TG ....you are very wise....Ive learned a lot the hard way....per I didn't have a father in my life or a male figure.....u must be ready whn u out here....these men today will eat u alive if u are NOT equipped with the armor.
Iktr
Tony this actually made me cry because this is exactly what I tried to do with my husband and it backfired. You can’t be submissive to a grown boy. Because they will abuse their power and drag you into a ditch. My soon to be ex husband never valued my opinion and wanted to have complete dominion and dictatorship over our family. Thank God my family didn’t give up on me and they didn’t let me fall for the gaslighting spell that my narc had me under. Thank you for taking the time to speak the truth to us women because no one else will.
THE REALEST VIDEO OUT THERE, WOW!!!!!
Appreciative for this video. It just reaffirmed to me to remain single and keep working on myself. While I’d like to be in a relationship working towards marriage again, I’m cool on these guys these days. I’m literally not missing out on anything. I’m still observing myself and how I respond to the guys who do approach me.
We’ll said and I totally agree.
Superb Video❤
Omg this was a word! Glory to God. I get so disappointed at black women constantly defending these men against paying child support, cheating allegations, competing against women with this sissy behavior! It is very deplorable!! But thank God for men like you uncle Tony. May God continue to use you
Spot on Mentor Tony, am praying for young men and women. The people that have the mic on social media are doing serious mental damage with what they say.
This was a great message! One thing I’ve observed is these type of people on both sides usually lack emotional intelligence tbh. It’s like talking to a brick wall. It’s no point in wasting energy on these type of people!! Just keep going ladies and listen to Tony!!
AMEN BROTHER TONY!! FATHER GOD BRING CONVICTION TO EVERY MAN THATS USING AND ABUSING WOMEN!!! WE APPRECIATE YOU TONY, KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH!!!!
My counsel doesn’t come from the unGodly nor the seat of the scornful. ❤
amen
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen all 2023 😢 this spoke to me on so many levels. I feel like everyone really should listen in. God bless tony!
“I say no, that ain’t my goal. My goal is to give women the truth.” TG
What a powerful message! Women who want to be controlled are obviously troubled and need therapy. Why would a level headed woman want to put her fate in the hands of man? Makes no sense. I pray women wake up and seek wisdom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Also, I have chosen not to date for the last 6 years because most men are not impressive to me
You are on point with this. Especially the narcissist part. My ex husband manipulated our daughter into hating me so bad that she was willing to kill me and her brothers just because her dad hated me so much. It’s sad but it’s happening.
Yep, men are takers. Thanks for the wisdom.
Tony is “Gangsta!” with it 😅 when he gets a message across! 💯👏🏽
You’re so Right Tony!!, Let’s all go over and report Red Head page, we all should know who he’s talking about. This need to End. She selling shirts that say(Women should not be allowed to Vote)
Meanwhile, this is the same chick who openly said that you wanted to run for office. 😑😑😑
@@TrueMystiqueSmh she needs to be stop
Um. Voting? Nah man she need to go
This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard from a man! I appreciate your honesty ❤
I’ll definitely be listening to this more than once
Come on now Tony! You preaching today!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Amen!
He got time today!!!!
You spoke a word today. I don't care what the masses say, I appreciate your videos. Of course you had to make me chuckle today. "Reverse pigmentation."
Reverse pigmentation?
I literally love you in the most honorable way! God is truly using you & this message helped me so much!! Pls never delete so I can show this to my 7 year old son when he’s older lol
I was thinking the same and my son is still in my womb haha 😂 we need all the help out here we can get!
I don’t know weather to laugh or cry.. this message is powerful. While there’s some humor to it. And my emotions are all over the place because the truth that is spoken in this video.
This is very true and practical info. The older women that I personally have known when I was growing up had the mentality of "treat the man like the king". They were all in abusive relationships. I recently saw a woman on YT who had videos of her abusive husband and how she started living in her car to get away from him. She had the audacity to take down all those videos of her being homeless because she had to flee her abusive husband as she said, in an attempt to revamp her channel. Now she has the audacity to start putting up new videos on "Christian dating, femininity and, being a Godly wife". Meanwhile, she left her abusive husband and she is leading innocent women who don't know any better astray. She had all these videos asking for donations for over 5 years and was struggling. She is looking for a way to make money at other people's expense. Be vigilant to the times we're living in. Know the word of God for yourself and don't trust these random people giving any kind of "relationship advice" 💯 Thanks for this video!
Lord have Mercy you snapped and I appreciate it!!!
Speak Truth 😊
Lol😅 right! Got real deep.
I’ve been watching you for years and always just laughed and found it enjoyable but for the first time I felt your words in my soul! So powerful it made me emotional. I wish lost men can find your platform. Wish you and your family always the best!
This was really a blessing Mr. Gaskins.
Thank you for being the brother I never had.
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You’re a good husband. My hubby does these things and the acts of service really demonstrate how much yall value us as wives. This is why we go hard for yall.
People who don’t have the bandwidth will never understand. It’s not simping….it’s loving! It’s how our parents and grandparents lasted so long.
You HAVE to he selfLESS in marriage in order for it to work. Unfortunately, social media and folks not seeing their mother being loved properly while growing up has caused toxic relationships and viewpoints in our community.
P.S. Good girls never tell whether they’re a virgin or have a had partners. Lessons my father taught me. It’s something you keep to yourself as a lady.
“Not a looker in the least” 😭😂😂😂🤣
TONY aint playing today! My brudda from anotha mutha! this was right in time. Our Abba has been protecting me via rejection and the lies of the enemy were starting to break me down. My patience has been renewed and peace will now remain! Thank you once again for letting Abba Yah use you to live out your purpose and be of service! May God continue to bless you and your family.
Yes Lord come get your men!!!!! Help them Lord. They need you please deliver them in Jesus name amen Be a good example for their family
It’s because they feel like they can’t get a Good man
Tony Gaskin Won 🥇 this message!
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Pray & Say no to pandering: to please other people by doing or saying what you think they want you to do or say😢 dang near seems slavish, ?☝️not good to control a women or a lady, (substance) got men over their head’s with bad habits… 🤔 lord.
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‼️💯. This message going out whether people like it or not! God's will
Tony said “Dread-Locs” 😂😂😂
Her name is pearl! she isn’t even married or in a relationship but she thinks she knows men 😂😂
Hi Tony, I am on older woman who truly appreciate you and the work God has called you to. I’m am planning on sharing this video with my 16 year old granddaughter and wish I knew this when I was her age. Anyhow, may God continue to keep and bless you abundantly for the millions of women you are saving from manipulating men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel the spirit is evoked when he speaks because trust me, it’s not easy facilitating this type of content without losing train of thought. I appreciate this brother God has sent to us. Not to praise him but to give gratification and in prayer that the lord brings more people to this awareness and allowing you to provide these messages. Thank you, because it’s been a few years listening and I’ve come across if not all most of the situations you’ve spoken about and I appreciate you, im finally able to Phathom the message. It used to go way over my head.
Tony you have given me a 65 year old woman the best advice on men!! Praise God, I will never forget your lessons on the nature of women and men. When you said lions are snacking on giselles. I never online date, but this brings so much clarity that the “hunted game” does not hunt the lion! Solid instruction, we would be foolish not to pay attention. We must KNOW that we are queens & NEVER settle! 🎉🎉💕
Not for sensitive ears--- A word!
Amen!
amen @@TheCierra1020
There it is… truth with no chaser. The nature of men.. 101. Thanks Brother Tony for the reminder.
This was the most real thing ever 😊 ty for speaking the truth to us women. We need to hear it especially if we’ve been abused by men before bcs we are pretty and naturally nice and trusting
This is great for both men and women to listen to. Thank you, Tony, for keeping it real and being direct.
You’re right about Ms Locs. The minute I saw her speak I was repulsed in my spirit by her. Something about her is so cold and aggressive. Just looking at her gives me chills fr. She is poisoning women with some of her information.
I know the red hair woman is, who Ms. Locs?
Who are these women? I need to see this content they’re trying to push to other women.
Nvm, at least found the redhead lady. I saw her content before and was instantly turned off, I pay her dust.
Who’s ms locs??
I think the pale women is Pearl, but I’m not sure about the locs
@16:57 ❗❗
Thats EXACTLY WHY you should *_NEVER_* treat a man "special."
🤷🏾♀️ He will NEVER believe that it was JUST HIM anyway & WILL ALL WAYS hold it against you. 👍🏿💯
Wow that's is a lot to unpack .
1. 💯 take care of your wife and keep speaking the truth .
2. People will do anything for money, i feel sorry for the red head chick , she is a fool and trying to go back 100s of years before women had rights . I am afraid other silly women will be led astray and be hurt or even killed behind this foolishness all to make money.
Women today we cant afford to this foolishness ontop of all the other issues we have to deal with . Praying for everyone. ❤
TONY is PREACHING TODAY!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
God bless you Tony. The stability part at the end of this video almost had me in tears. Every woman wants it. The fact that you understand this is sooooo valuable. A woman does not necessarily need a bigger house, she needs a stable "home." Imaginary can catch us all up and have us chasing... but God, gratitude and stability can keep us grounded AND growing. I send blessings to you and your family. Your work is making a positive IMPACT in my life and in the lives of many.
Toni you're definitely correct in your assessment. Unfortunately, that particular women who made such toxic erroneous replies obviously experienced major trauma. Just listening to it was truly concerning because obviously she's been compromised, gaslighted, & mishandled because her reaction is a tell-tale of her being brainwashed.
It's so hard knowing who to trust these days cause people are so messed up 😭💔
Love what you do Tony!Thank You❤
I needed to hear this! Thank you 🙏🏼
Brother Tony I appreciate you so much. You have no idea. You’re doing the Lord’s work. Thank you so much!
Thank you Tony! Thank you! 🙏🏽🤎
This is pure GOLD 🔑