Guys if she's into you, it'll be very very easy. If you gotta convince her, she ain't that into you simple As that. Anyone whose had high interest girls before knows they make it EASY and actually ask YOU to hang out most of the time.
Being flaked on hurts. Trust me. Especially if you really liked the girl. I made it into an opportunity to hit the heavy bag harder, lift, and find ways to improve myself. Not for the girl, but for myself finally realizing that I don’t need her company to be happy no matter how many times she said sorry. Try smiling and blowing out your birthday candles after being flaked on.
It doesn't hurt at all if you understand the game. Most of the time it's your fault. Identify your mistakes and work on them. Problem is most guys can't identify them at all, and they put the blame on the girl.
@@Chick_NCC it's in the title of the video. Ah you're Mexican. I thought you asked if I was Mexican. Flaking means to ditch someone, to stop responding to someone, to ghost someone, not to come to a meeting and ignore the messages.
Don't get with someone like this woman. She'll lead you on and end up hurting you. Find a woman who actually cares about being happy and enjoying life with someone else.
If you have the status and the money they will have to win you over! But then most of them are going to love you only because your money and status. That's not real love!
Honestly y’all guys make dating sound complicated. It’s really annoying, if she digs you she will go out if she flaked forget her there’s girls that will take the time to get to know you without you having to convince her or making the plans. It takes two people to plan a date not just the guy.
Human relations are complex, just because you don’t have the attention span to understand the different nuances of courting, does not mean they’re “annoying “ lol
@Riley D He said “Y’ALL” make dating “SOUND” complicated. So it would seem that it’s directed to those talking about dating , rather than those playing games
Just forget them lol ,imo if they flake on the first missed date then they're not your problem. You set the place date and time and all they had to do was show up . Do your part and let her do her part .
I'm not mad about being flaked, I don't mind that, but call me and tell me you not coming, that's what I don't like. Call me and let me know your not coming, it takes 60 seconds to do it, don't just leave me on read or ghost me. Sometimes, people look forward to that all week just to get let down. It's about respect.
Been stood up twice, one girl I drove to her town to meet her, then a half hour after I arrived she texts me saying she’s not able to come let’s plan another date, I said let me know when you’re free, then ghosted, and the last girl asked if it was ok if she arrives a little late, I said I’ll call the restaurant and reschedule an hour later, then she told me she was on her way, and then never showed up, nothing from her
Yeah that doesnt work, ive set times, dates, where were going, etc and they still flake. If she flakes once she wont get a second invite..most of the time the excuses are a load of bs.
If y'all are both young teens, this is common and you gotta prove yourself to the parents. If y'all are both adults, be prepared to constantly be dealing with this bs and being stressed over it. You can try to prove yourself but they might still be annoying af to deal with.
The mere fact that she explains it as if she knew what all other girls/women think is laughable. Each situation is different and women are not all the same. When something like this happens just tell yourself "it wasn't meant to be" and/or "I was not what she was looking for" and move on. Don't fall for the trap of believeing that all women out there might like you.
Flake is either when you 1) Don’t show up to a date/event without notifying or 2) Don’t show up to a date/event with last minute notification without a valid reason.
Flake is either when you 1) Don’t show up to a date/event without notifying or 2) Don’t show up to a date/event with last minute notification without a valid reason.
Because men never flake on women ever..🙄 C'mon guys this is a HUMAN THING. It has nothing to do with gender/sexuality. And sometimes people just changed their minds. I've had both men AND women ghost me- and I've changed my mind too. If they were really right for you, then you shouldn't have to chase so hard. Just be yourself and put yourself in situations where you will be around good people. That way you're more likely to meet people who you'll actually like. Also being single is OKAY. It gives you an oppertunity to work on yourself. That way if you DO happen accross the right person you won't be tempted to spout misogynistic tropes like 'wOmEn R fLaKeY' that would scare off a good person. But again- being single is OKAY. Some people do better alone. I think when we make being alone so taboo it gives people the idea that they are ENTITLED to a partner- when that's just not true. Nobody OWES you sex or romantic love. And being super thirsty makes you even less likely to find someone.
Lol you really wrote a whole essay over a RUclips short 💀 1) Girls naturally flake far more than men since on average girls are asked out far more frequently. 2) Nobody said it’s not okay to be single lol, the video is intended for people who are interested in a relationship
"Just gotta level up to be the atractive guy" LOL what a CRAP of advice. There is always gonna be a BETTER looking guy, even if you are top tier. The good advice? Stop looking for woman inside dating apps, with this stupid nonsense game
If you really like someone a lot; female or male (straight scenario, no homo) & that someone rejects you just once, NEVER give them a chance again - even if they truly desire one. I live & will die by this. Truly. Real confidence is the sexiest key you’ll ever own. Period. 🫡
Guys if she's into you, it'll be very very easy. If you gotta convince her, she ain't that into you
simple As that. Anyone whose had high interest girls before knows they make it EASY and actually ask YOU to hang out most of the time.
Honestly. This advice is bullshit
First you get the money
Then you get the power
Then you get the women
~Scarface~
exactly
Then she costs you your life
Being flaked on hurts. Trust me. Especially if you really liked the girl. I made it into an opportunity to hit the heavy bag harder, lift, and find ways to improve myself. Not for the girl, but for myself finally realizing that I don’t need her company to be happy no matter how many times she said sorry.
Try smiling and blowing out your birthday candles after being flaked on.
It doesn't hurt at all if you understand the game. Most of the time it's your fault. Identify your mistakes and work on them. Problem is most guys can't identify them at all, and they put the blame on the girl.
There’s people in this world who lost their whole families and still have to wake up and survive… and your crying over a girl flaking you😂
Dust yourself off keep your head up focused my brothers 💯 💪 God loves you
@@wildcountrycowboy1866 ❤️
Practice to not get hurt when girls do this lmao
Lol if a girl flakes say peace out unless it’s a legit reason and she apologizes and gives you another time when she is free
Exactly this
100 percent
To then flake on you for the third time
@@BrunoNeureiter yo I’m Mexican wtf is flake?? Is it doubt?
@@Chick_NCC it's in the title of the video. Ah you're Mexican. I thought you asked if I was Mexican. Flaking means to ditch someone, to stop responding to someone, to ghost someone, not to come to a meeting and ignore the messages.
Don't get with someone like this woman. She'll lead you on and end up hurting you. Find a woman who actually cares about being happy and enjoying life with someone else.
The best thing you guys can do is cancel all your dating app profiles and get your passport and go find a real woman outside the USA
Big facts these women are getting a big headache
It’s mad annoying that we always have to win them over
If you have the status and the money they will have to win you over! But then most of them are going to love you only because your money and status. That's not real love!
Don’t win them over. Just do what u want and let the chips fall where they may.
If you try too hard to win a girl over, don't date her.
@@toddbr5959 cold truth: there is never real love women only love you under the condition of protecting and providing
Honestly y’all guys make dating sound complicated. It’s really annoying, if she digs you she will go out if she flaked forget her there’s girls that will take the time to get to know you without you having to convince her or making the plans. It takes two people to plan a date not just the guy.
Whoever asked the other out should have a date in mind
Human relations are complex, just because you don’t have the attention span to understand the different nuances of courting, does not mean they’re “annoying “ lol
@Riley D He said “Y’ALL” make dating “SOUND” complicated.
So it would seem that it’s directed to those talking about dating , rather than those playing games
Fax bro, my girl approached me
Just forget them lol ,imo if they flake on the first missed date then they're not your problem. You set the place date and time and all they had to do was show up . Do your part and let her do her part .
Just the smile when he asked is enough of an answer.
She is literally always right.
It took me 5 years to realize these things
it took me 5 seconds by watching this + common sense
Do you have like a podcast because I would listen to it all day
The second reason is the real reason.
I'm not mad about being flaked, I don't mind that, but call me and tell me you not coming, that's what I don't like. Call me and let me know your not coming, it takes 60 seconds to do it, don't just leave me on read or ghost me. Sometimes, people look forward to that all week just to get let down. It's about respect.
Don't get too attached. If she doesn't respond in two days move on. If she really is interested she'll want the date to happen sooner than later.
Been stood up twice, one girl I drove to her town to meet her, then a half hour after I arrived she texts me saying she’s not able to come let’s plan another date, I said let me know when you’re free, then ghosted, and the last girl asked if it was ok if she arrives a little late, I said I’ll call the restaurant and reschedule an hour later, then she told me she was on her way, and then never showed up, nothing from her
I’ve been seeing these clips back to back , is there a full podcast? I’d be down to watch.
Bros gf is 420% harmful to earth💀
Fuck that's brutal...but not surprising
Yeah that doesnt work, ive set times, dates, where were going, etc and they still flake. If she flakes once she wont get a second invite..most of the time the excuses are a load of bs.
honestly, Mac McClung carried all star weekend
Peace be with you 🕊️
Kind of forgot which one of you guys she wants to go with.
If you feel the need to convince her to go out with you she's wasting your time and is looking for a free meal.
I need advice from you me and my girlfriend don’t get to hang out a lot because her parents are a little strict what do I do
If y'all are both young teens, this is common and you gotta prove yourself to the parents. If y'all are both adults, be prepared to constantly be dealing with this bs and being stressed over it. You can try to prove yourself but they might still be annoying af to deal with.
Hearing this breaks my heart
Why?
@@felixxxmeinkraft8207 because instead of a woman just saying she is no longer interested and being up front she gotta be fake and flake
Why bro?
Flakes just leave her save yourself the hurt because the pain feels the same each time especially if you really like her.
"IF" she's talking to other guys on dating as apps, lol.
The mere fact that she explains it as if she knew what all other girls/women think is laughable. Each situation is different and women are not all the same. When something like this happens just tell yourself "it wasn't meant to be" and/or "I was not what she was looking for" and move on. Don't fall for the trap of believeing that all women out there might like you.
... I suppose that makes me fifth.
Gotta level up to become Chad bro
What is the girls channel again?
Number 2 is the real reason probably 99% of the time
Always remember,, it works both ways ladies... There's morefish out there
I was about to type "why do girls exist ?"
This sounds like dealing with a child
That's because it is. Most women are basically children.
What’s ‘flaked’?
Flake is either when you 1) Don’t show up to a date/event without notifying or 2) Don’t show up to a date/event with last minute notification without a valid reason.
I've had too many women do this for it to be a coincidence. I wish they would just say no.
Kinda sucks that i got the answer to my question from this video. Eh whatever life goes on.
what is flakes
Who is she?
Who cares?
If a girl flakes its okay because I'm already talking to 9 others 😉
Will ospreay?
How can I get to know a guy better? Like, we like each other but decided to get to know each other more before getting serious
whtas a flake?
Flake is either when you 1) Don’t show up to a date/event without notifying or 2) Don’t show up to a date/event with last minute notification without a valid reason.
Girls like that i dont even need them
I'm not going improve myself for a lesser species
The girl im talking to wants to take things very slow. Friends into something
just remember shes fucking someone else while you go slow with her dont get too emotionally involved
If thats not your pace then find a new one
Do u think she would wanna take it slow with the other guy that likes her?
lol short answer... dont bother.
You guys over analyze… the psychology you put into these situations is too much… just get the job done, no need to follow a ridiculous algorithm!
I heard once that girls get blow out if you know what I mean
why she complaining about having Corn Flake's all over her¿😂🤣
sigh… fourth.
He needs to know...
He likes dudes!
I can't believe people need such basic advice when it comes to dating. It's not rocket science FFS.
Rude af
Tf??
Well if she flakes for whatever reason in her mind I'll give her 1 more chance if she does it again bye bye
Just don't waste time with any girl
Yes women will monkey branch.
First !! Yesss 😀😀
Dangit second
Third
Horrible.
Because men never flake on women ever..🙄
C'mon guys this is a HUMAN THING. It has nothing to do with gender/sexuality. And sometimes people just changed their minds. I've had both men AND women ghost me- and I've changed my mind too.
If they were really right for you, then you shouldn't have to chase so hard. Just be yourself and put yourself in situations where you will be around good people. That way you're more likely to meet people who you'll actually like.
Also being single is OKAY. It gives you an oppertunity to work on yourself. That way if you DO happen accross the right person you won't be tempted to spout misogynistic tropes like 'wOmEn R fLaKeY' that would scare off a good person.
But again- being single is OKAY. Some people do better alone. I think when we make being alone so taboo it gives people the idea that they are ENTITLED to a partner- when that's just not true. Nobody OWES you sex or romantic love. And being super thirsty makes you even less likely to find someone.
Lol you really wrote a whole essay over a RUclips short 💀
1) Girls naturally flake far more than men since on average girls are asked out far more frequently.
2) Nobody said it’s not okay to be single lol, the video is intended for people who are interested in a relationship
sure but this video asked about why girls do it. maybe in the future they'll do one about guys as well.
"Just gotta level up to be the atractive guy" LOL what a CRAP of advice. There is always gonna be a BETTER looking guy, even if you are top tier.
The good advice? Stop looking for woman inside dating apps, with this stupid nonsense game
If you really like someone a lot; female or male (straight scenario, no homo) & that someone rejects you just once, NEVER give them a chance again - even if they truly desire one. I live & will die by this. Truly. Real confidence is the sexiest key you’ll ever own. Period. 🫡
What I want to know is why does it always have to be the guy to make her certain or whatever why not the girl
Cause there immature so just let them go
Lol
Maybe concentrate on not so much Botox
Ok this is just bullshit now bro she is not into you she is looking for a real men