Carrying On With a Married Man

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @bossladiee
    @bossladiee 2 года назад +833

    The fact that this ELDERLY man is catching STI’s and giving them to his Wife of 46yrs is appalling and disgusting!

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 2 года назад +41

      Absolutely disgusting 🤢🤮

    • @josl1345
      @josl1345 2 года назад +44

      Disgusting...as if things weren't embarrassing enough, she brought this to tv for the world to see🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 2 года назад +9

      @@josl1345 fantastic point 👉

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 2 года назад +5

      Exactly.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +39

      But think about this: SHE is still letting him be intimate with her even though she knows he is a serial cheater. She gets no sympathy here. I wouldn't let him ever touch me again after I found out the first time.

  • @kiahhh444
    @kiahhh444 2 года назад +570

    🙄🙄 Lady your HUSBAND is the problem! It’s him! Take him to court!

    • @darkesthours1305
      @darkesthours1305 2 года назад +20

      Alienation of affection is a thing. When mistresses start being outlandish and out there the wife can hold them accountable too, and still get spousal support etc when and if she leaves the husband. She can literally do Both legally lmao the perks of being a wife and not a BM does wonders

    • @0LadyV0
      @0LadyV0 2 года назад +8

      ​@@darkesthours1305 Didn't you hear what the Judge just said? The exact opposite of the nonsense you said.

    • @darkesthours1305
      @darkesthours1305 2 года назад +4

      @@0LadyV0 look at nene leaks situation and get back to me

    • @wontsufferfools9332
      @wontsufferfools9332 2 года назад +10

      @@0LadyV0 you are both right, kind of
      There are 6 states where suing for alienation of affection is still possible.
      Idk why the judge said what she did, but she's not talking about ALL states

    • @TheFelicia364
      @TheFelicia364 2 года назад +1

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 2 года назад +388

    A beautiful woman who spent 50 years of her life with a cheating drug addict. What a shame.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +23

      All for financial benefits. That is the real shame.

    • @memeyesme1839
      @memeyesme1839 2 года назад +26

      This is what happens. Those types of men always secure a “square” stable women to hold things together while they do shenanigans.

    • @JacksQueen.
      @JacksQueen. 2 года назад +5

      @@memeyesme1839 yup!!

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 2 года назад +6

      @@memeyesme1839 you said it!!!!

    • @gongzilla527
      @gongzilla527 2 года назад

      @Marilyn Willett and you most definitely win the "BULLSHIT COMMENT AWARD." Why in the actual phuck would you type something like this? You can't possibly be this disconnected from reality.
      Smfh

  • @Tiramysuu
    @Tiramysuu 2 года назад +100

    Her and her friends were sleeping with that old man for money. She's the one the wife found out about. He was definitely a trick.

    • @MsJustRight
      @MsJustRight 2 года назад +9

      Exactly! He is getting passed around like a “Hot Potato.”

  • @Mm2k11
    @Mm2k11 2 года назад +308

    As someone who was cheated on- I KNEW better than to blame the other woman. She’s channeling her anger at all the wrong person.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +26

      Thank you. When my husband cheated I could care less about the other woman. He did what he wanted to do. Nobody forced him. I was divorced 4 months later.

    • @vanessamcallister4235
      @vanessamcallister4235 2 года назад +4

      True

    • @chriscode6431
      @chriscode6431 2 года назад +17

      No, the woman knows. She's channeling right. She needs to channel it at both people. If you know a person is married, you don't mess with them. Period. She's just as guilty and I don't want to hear about owing loyalty. It's called self respect and morality.

    • @tincredible
      @tincredible 2 года назад +5

      @@chriscode6431 If he's a cheater, he's going to be a cheater whether it's with this woman and or another woman...And if going after the other woman is her M.O., she will forever be witch-hunting woman after woman (because NONE of us believe that this is only potential mistress after an almost-half century of marriage). At the end of the day, it's best to channel your energy toward the ONE person who made the vows to you. Also, if anyone married with the expectation that the world honor their union in the name of "self-respect and morality", then they may be living in a fairytale. People are going to be people. It's irrational to expect the cruel world to change JUST to accommodate your marriage, but it's not unreasonable to expect the two parties who made the vows to keep those vows.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +4

      @@chriscode6431 People only have your mentality when it is MEN/husbands doing the cheating - everybody says blame both because the other women knew he was married. But when a women/wife cheats, it was HER decision so only SHE should be blamed. Not the other man. Hypocrisy and double standards at their finest.

  • @tawandapatterson5845
    @tawandapatterson5845 2 года назад +182

    People need to understand STOP going after the other woman! Your Husband is the only one that owes you anything. I’m not sure if the defendant is messing with her husband or not but go after your spouse.

    • @johiggins661
      @johiggins661 2 года назад +3

      Key word adultery. One of the 10 commandments. We don't hear of this anymore.

    • @queennola3039
      @queennola3039 Год назад +1

      She absolutely was…why on earth would you ask a man who’s waiting outside for your dude to leave “if he have a condom”? She just trying to act like she so innocent.

    • @barbaraness4507
      @barbaraness4507 6 месяцев назад

      In some states if you have been married for over 10-20 years you are entitled to a portion of their retirement/pension.

  • @DavidKen878
    @DavidKen878 2 года назад +352

    The way she kept saying he didn't say anything whenever she would ask him if he's cheating is ridiculous. Instead of suing the defendant, she needs to grow a backbone.

    • @jessetaylor7951
      @jessetaylor7951 2 года назад +25

      Although I semi agree, it's easy for a bystander to say who doesn't have 40+ years of marriage and their entire retirement/life savings on the line 😳

    • @DavidKen878
      @DavidKen878 2 года назад +15

      @@jessetaylor7951 No, it's easy for someone with a backbone to say.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад

      Yeah, he knew what kind of woman to marry. She is weak and has a lot of internalized misogyny. Perfect kind of woman for an immoral man because he knows she will never blame HIM for cheating.

    • @chriscode6431
      @chriscode6431 2 года назад +6

      I have a backbone, trust me. But it's different when it's someone you truly loved for 47 years. That's a hard thing to come to grips worth. That lady probably went through the 5 stages of grief. You've probably not had a live that deep, and that's okay. Hopefully one day you will experience that. Newscaster Yusuf not something you just walk away from. Mentally and emotionally, you can't just walk away. She probably hoped it was a nightmare.

    • @sylviamills737
      @sylviamills737 2 года назад +4

      I can't believe this woman went this far, because her husband was are is a cheater, I would have left his tired
      ass, we need to know that we don't have control over no one, it take enough time and energy to run your own life, just because you marry someone, you don't own them, it's so easy to just leave, because you're not related by blood, I know some will say it's in the eyes of God, but how many more things we suppose to do in the eyes of God,

  • @Childfree334
    @Childfree334 2 года назад +762

    I cannot stand women with this "blame the other woman/women" mentality. Just remember ladies: other women wouldn't be in your relationships/marriages if your men didn't go after them FIRST. Even if she initiated the contact, it is HIS responsibility to reject her, say NO, and stay loyal to your marriage.

    • @darylrichardson8567
      @darylrichardson8567 2 года назад

      MARITAL ALIENATION is actually punishable BY LAW!!!
      Be careful with your one-sided skewed views. Get a man 1st. Next: watch the sluts come for him. Then YOU ARE SUPPOSED to DEFEND THE RELATIONSHIP!!! However, today’s females are SUPER WEAK & this mentality of ‘I’m equal to men’ is stupid & monogamous relationships was started by Catholics. That’s why YOU probably have a baby by a married man. 🥂

    • @sensual2kizz613
      @sensual2kizz613 2 года назад +98

      I hope you have that same sentiment whenever you get married.... I agree she didn't take vows with him, but please don't feel the woman has no responsibility

    • @alyssahamlett
      @alyssahamlett 2 года назад +76

      If a woman doesn't know you and doesn't know you're in a relationship, no she has no responsibility in this bs she didn't owe you loyalty she didn't make vows to you, your man did. Unless that woman happens to be somebody you know that obviously knew you guys were in a relationship and still chose to get involved the woman deserves no blame

    • @lollypop2310
      @lollypop2310 2 года назад +50

      This!! I never understand why society always blames the woman. The last time I checked it takes two to be in a relationship so the man is also at fault ; if not more

    • @jlf7362
      @jlf7362 2 года назад +40

      There is a reason alienation of affection laws are on the books

  • @Genuinelycuri0us
    @Genuinelycuri0us 2 года назад +84

    Awww she seems like such a sweet woman. I just want to hug her and tell her she should’ve left him a looooooong time ago.

  • @c.williams4185
    @c.williams4185 2 года назад +255

    This lady is so beautiful, her hair so graceful and elegant. Sadly, that doesn’t equate to self esteem and self worth. She is angry at the wrong person.

    • @SJ-jd8uh
      @SJ-jd8uh 2 года назад +7

      Most beautiful women are low self esteem

    • @chriscode6431
      @chriscode6431 2 года назад +5

      I know, she looks so graceful for her age.

    • @c.williams4185
      @c.williams4185 2 года назад

      @@chriscode6431 yes but these men don’t want graceful, they want a nasty woman who can do anything they desire

    • @pamelaclary3801
      @pamelaclary3801 2 года назад +2

      What on earth does her hair have to do with this?

    • @c.williams4185
      @c.williams4185 2 года назад +5

      @@pamelaclary3801 read it again, I am sure you will get it.

  • @myamemebell
    @myamemebell 2 года назад +184

    If women could sue for this we would all be rich. Plenty of cheaters and side chicks to sue. I pray she can move on in peace. He needs to be a defendant though!

    • @KrazeeClark
      @KrazeeClark 2 года назад +8

      Here in North Carolina, US, an aggrieved spouse can sue the other man/woman. It's a civil law named "Alienation of Affection." It's probably the only good thing that our state does. 👍

    • @somethingaboutbeaute
      @somethingaboutbeaute 2 года назад +2

      @@KrazeeClark I know in this case the woman knew BUT what happens if the other person didn’t know. Don’t you have to prove they know and STILL proceeds before it’s considered that?

    • @MsTruthhurts007
      @MsTruthhurts007 2 года назад +1

      @@somethingaboutbeaute But the judge explained that even in states where that law exist everything would have to be proven. Im sure that the law would cover that.

    • @somethingaboutbeaute
      @somethingaboutbeaute 2 года назад

      @@MsTruthhurts007 I would hope you’re right because we all know that when it comes to common sense & members of the parliament, what seems like it should be definite common sense doesn’t always end up that way!!! 😆😑🤦🏻‍♀️❤️🥰

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 2 года назад +2

      And then if men could sue for this as well... it would be a very different world..haha

  • @supermarioandfreddyfazbear9577
    @supermarioandfreddyfazbear9577 2 года назад +77

    She's messing with that man. Saying "I have a man" doesn't mean you're incapable of cheating. She is messing with that woman's husband. The husband is nasty and he doesn't deserve a good wife. I'd stay married too until I could get my finances in order. Nobody is trying to be homeless. I hope she's done with him for good though.

    • @shannongrills7455
      @shannongrills7455 2 года назад +4

      Her man couldn't pay the rent i guess...she got a sugar daddy to pay the rent

    • @Misspolite
      @Misspolite Год назад +4

      She definitely messing with him lol

    • @honeythomas2809
      @honeythomas2809 Год назад +1

      The text about the condom and saying he just left referring to her man told the story

  • @blkbutterfly58ify
    @blkbutterfly58ify 2 года назад +104

    This case made me think of the song Woman to Woman “Hello, may I speak to Barbara?
    Barbara, this is Shirley,
    You might not know who I am….”🥴

    • @kelliy8193
      @kelliy8193 2 года назад +4

      I think you understand how much I'll do to keep him.. Lol.. Smh..

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +8

      That is the stupidest song I have ever heard in my life. It should be called "Immature Little Girl to Woman."

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 2 года назад +2

      😆

    • @wizardofahhhhhhz
      @wizardofahhhhhhz 2 года назад +11

      Who woulda thought Barbara had pink braids and was a drug dealer 😂😂😂

    • @shannaholmes833
      @shannaholmes833 2 года назад +2

      😔🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @jb3702
    @jb3702 2 года назад +242

    Getting cheated on sucks!! But let's be clear, the choice to carry on in this stress is her own initial fault. You have to take care of yourself no matter what. Glad she's getting divorced if she feels like that will eliminate stress.

    • @vanillapudding9471
      @vanillapudding9471 2 года назад +4

      Right…

    • @Shugga23
      @Shugga23 2 года назад +5

      NC still has alienation laws. Doesn’t matter for this lady but just thought I could mention it

    • @tjneverdefeated4394
      @tjneverdefeated4394 2 года назад +4

      It’s hard letting go, so many women see letting go as losing. Divorce is expensive and at this point she depends on him for everything. I would only blame her for not maintaining her independence throughout the marriage. Never put yourself in a position where you can’t live without somebody.

    • @tjneverdefeated4394
      @tjneverdefeated4394 2 года назад +12

      @Christopher Moore a lot of men don’t have a need to wander…. but they still do. Ijs the wife isn’t always the blame. That’s not fair. If he ain’t happy he needs to fix it with his wife or leave.

    • @somethingaboutbeaute
      @somethingaboutbeaute 2 года назад

      @Christopher Moore ever hear of something called people who have everything and still cheat?!

  • @deeluu7560
    @deeluu7560 2 года назад +83

    Imagine being with someone for almost 50yrs and he still cheating on you smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @09NaturalBeauty
      @09NaturalBeauty 2 года назад +10

      I'm stressed and bothered just thinking about it 😪

    • @melosidhe779
      @melosidhe779 2 года назад +7

      Once a cheater, always a cheater

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +5

      I Can't imagine 🤷‼️ definitely sad 😭

    • @S_Walk1
      @S_Walk1 2 года назад +5

      The whole 50 years

  • @memeyesme1839
    @memeyesme1839 2 года назад +179

    The plaintiff is going out sad. She publicly humiliated herself. I pray for her healing and freedom from her scumbag husband. Hopefully she will be okay financially.

    • @AnneOhn123
      @AnneOhn123 2 года назад +5

      She wanted her two minutes of fame... I don't feel sorry for her at all...why is this even a court case? Can you imagine if all "cheated on" spouses tried suing an alleged "bit on the side" how busy the court system would be?

    • @nakela2
      @nakela2 2 года назад +3

      @@AnneOhn123 well there's definitely a law in certain states that have court cases that spouses can sue the other woman for alienation of affection lawsuit. Fantasia was sued by her son's wife and the wife won. Now if a woman knows and she continues, then yes sue their asses BOTH of them..

    • @saramichele7366
      @saramichele7366 Год назад +1

      @@nakela2 Fantasia, the singer from American Idol?

    • @nakela2
      @nakela2 Год назад +1

      @Sara Michele yes ma'am... the wife sued her, idk if she won but yes that happened. She cheated w/her husband and she knew he was married. He left his wife and children to be with Fantasia. I believe that the wife was pregnant at the time too.

    • @saramichele7366
      @saramichele7366 Год назад +1

      @@nakela2 Ohh. You said "her son's wife" so I was confused. Lol

  • @Britty0189
    @Britty0189 2 года назад +50

    Sounds like she should sue her Husband for all this “stress”

  • @samanthalee7452
    @samanthalee7452 2 года назад +38

    It’s clear from the texts she was tricking off with that old man, he def was paying that lady smdh

  • @quebochinche7086
    @quebochinche7086 2 года назад +157

    She need to sue her husband not the other woman.

  • @chojnackibaby4014
    @chojnackibaby4014 2 года назад +174

    She needs to sue her husband smh

    • @crystalshaw8744
      @crystalshaw8744 2 года назад +6

      Thank you

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +5

      Thank you

    • @trinidazzling684
      @trinidazzling684 2 года назад +3

      Right…..

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 2 года назад

      She needs to sit her old ass down

    • @SL-rh9og
      @SL-rh9og 2 года назад +2

      She still loves him. If she didn’t she would be at a hotel or living in a car or with family. She has options but she would rather stay with him.

  • @shannoncarlson6960
    @shannoncarlson6960 2 года назад +203

    Man or woman...you should ALAWYS be able to support yourself. That way you make your own rules, your own self worth. You don't have to live with someone just to have medical coverage. A lesson to us all.

    • @vanillapudding9471
      @vanillapudding9471 2 года назад +21

      She’s there because she wants to be there.
      Her cheating ex is still there because she want’s him there!!❗️💯

    • @navigatormother7023
      @navigatormother7023 2 года назад +3

      Exactly. When she grills her husband he gives her an answer every time. He says - "Nothing".
      So clearly it's another woman chasing and pursuing her poor stupid husband, and he needs to be protected from her, the fool. The man is never the problem.. . There's ALWAYS A DAYUM woman preying on his foolish backside.
      So you should be able to sue that hussy for $30,000 plus sti damages, medical bills and what not. Just leave my poor mute husband be!
      Unbelievable.

    • @michele2628
      @michele2628 2 года назад +14

      They've been married for over forty years. Things were different back then. For all we know she was a housewife, which is one of the most underrated jobs.

    • @zoyarajennursingh949
      @zoyarajennursingh949 2 года назад +3

      WTF is this lady THINKING? She is after the "other woman"?So the husband is getting off scot free?

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +4

      @@zoyarajennursingh949 When it comes to cheating men never get any blame even if they are the pursuers.

  • @ayanawright3441
    @ayanawright3441 2 года назад +56

    The fact that her husband has responded to absolutely nothing is ridiculous 😑

    • @annettesharpe7479
      @annettesharpe7479 2 года назад +4

      The fact that she has accepted this is ridiculous.

    • @kourtneyrenee08
      @kourtneyrenee08 6 месяцев назад

      He's done it before I'm sure. Sad

  • @CWYounger10
    @CWYounger10 2 года назад +67

    So her husband is just chillin back and laughing at this mess.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад

      Yep, because he knows he has a stupid wife that buys into that "homewrecker" mentality. He will NEVER stop cheating and she will stay blaming and trying to sue other women.

    • @kandavis53
      @kandavis53 2 года назад +3

      Probably

    • @S_Walk1
      @S_Walk1 2 года назад +2

      Yes!

    • @evonza4858
      @evonza4858 8 месяцев назад

      He won't be laughing when God deals with him😘

  • @sassyrubi5440
    @sassyrubi5440 2 года назад +47

    She's so sweet i feel bad for her.may she heal from the heartbreak.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 2 года назад +7

      She's carrying on like a teenager. She has been married for half a century.

    • @VettGirl66
      @VettGirl66 2 года назад +2

      She needs to get a backbone 🙄

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад

      @Marilyn Willett Please. Her heart isn't hurting. She is just weak and stupid.

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 2 года назад +61

    This is one of the craziest cases that I’ve watched on here in a while. TWO STDs? I would be in prison 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 2 года назад +20

      Some things you keep to yourself or at least off tv

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 2 года назад +14

      They are too old for this

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 2 года назад +4

      @@Nevaeh1 right, especially from your children ,just leave!

    • @MissPamR
      @MissPamR 2 года назад +2

      Why would you sleep with someone who you know is sleeping with a crackhead?!

  • @smsabala6668
    @smsabala6668 2 года назад +45

    Her anger is misdirected, goodness doesn't she remember who made vows to her🙄, she is full of it!

  • @Justshill
    @Justshill 2 года назад +48

    What a classy lady. I wish her well.

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +4

      Classy lady and a DAMM fool for Love 💕

    • @ethor747
      @ethor747 2 года назад

      She’s not classy she’s a fool

  • @CS48293
    @CS48293 2 года назад +30

    why is the defendant getting so defensive? she obviously did give out her nasty kitty to the "old man"

    • @SpontaneousVirgo
      @SpontaneousVirgo Год назад +2

      Yes, I know the plaintiff should be going after her husband, but I also felt like the defendant is so defensive!

  • @SimplyNina1
    @SimplyNina1 2 года назад +55

    As a married woman, I understand where this woman is coming from. Her husband reminds me of mine and that's why I'm divorcing him. I understand the pension system. It's similar to mine in my state. I was told before I add benefits to divorce my husband because as long as I'm married to him regardless of separation, he's entitled to my benefits. I pray she's able to move on. That's a lot of years. Her husband is not worth health issues, pain, heartache and stress in her golden years.

    • @SimplyKimberlyM
      @SimplyKimberlyM 2 года назад +7

      Praying for your peace and happiness, sis 💜💜💜

    • @SimplyNina1
      @SimplyNina1 2 года назад +3

      @@SimplyKimberlyM thank you. I really appreciate that.

    • @SubscribeHer_Jones
      @SubscribeHer_Jones 2 года назад +1

      Right even divorced you still have to go half nd half cause while married it was all brought! Smh saddddd

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +3

      Ok.... Husband is a Loser 🤷‼️

    • @debbiethomas3080
      @debbiethomas3080 2 года назад +3

      I hope you are well and I'm sorry you are going through this.

  • @L.W..
    @L.W.. 2 года назад +74

    This whole case was truly both sad and laughable 💀 I didn’t think I’d see the day where the wife was bringing the mistress to court 😭

    • @JR-yx5io
      @JR-yx5io 2 года назад +5

      Right you need to take your husband to court hes the cheater.

  • @projectionv.accountability1010
    @projectionv.accountability1010 2 года назад +39

    A) Plaintiff's been living with her head in the sand. That guy's been cheating the whole time. The whole time. She's got to treat this like a death and move on immediately. She lost the investment of her heart many years ago, she just didn't want to see it.
    B) Defendant. Why do so many people show up to court like they're cleaning the house or just rolled out of bed... This is the most you could muster to present yourself to the world in a classy way?

    • @ronybabygirl8162
      @ronybabygirl8162 2 года назад +2

      If you seen the defendant on a regular day you would not have said that. She did try to look presentable. She looks worse than that on the regular. 😂😂😂😂

  • @TheQueenrevolution
    @TheQueenrevolution 2 года назад +147

    Interesting enough, in Japan you can absolutely sue the other woman/man and often times you will win. I know one woman who lost her home from such a lawsuit. I wonder how things would change in our society if this was a standard law here... I know that in certain states you can sue the other person but it's hard to win such cases.

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 2 года назад +17

      There is such a law. It’s called “alienation of affection”, where you can sue the person who cheated with your spouse. It’s only allowed in a handful of states in the US.

    • @TheQueenrevolution
      @TheQueenrevolution 2 года назад +9

      @@lionelluva yep. Im aware. It's not in the majority of states and even in the ones where it exist its very difficult to win/prove.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 2 года назад +10

      i think the state of NC has that law on its books.

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +25

      Alienation of Affection laws are absolutely ridiculous. It takes the blame OFF of a cheating spouse and puts it squarely on a third party who made no vows, even if the married person pursued THEM. And let's be honest, we all know these laws were created to punish WOMEN, not men.

    • @googleyt2622
      @googleyt2622 2 года назад +9

      @@Childfree334 The third party would have to be determined to be the PRIMARY cause of the alienation of affection and the relationship would have to be proven to have been based on "genuine love and affection" prior to the alienation. This cause of action does not preempt or exclude other causes of action against a cheating spouse as you suggest.
      This does seem ridiculous to us because our society tends to view fidelity as a personal lifestyle choice. Some other cultures still hold fidelity in marriage as a matter in the common interest of the people and hold everybody accountable for any damage to that fidelity.

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 2 года назад +8

    She still has her natural beautiful gray hair, full of the crown of beauty.. Just beautiful ❤️

  • @102tatertot
    @102tatertot 2 года назад +77

    This plaintiff needs some self worth and self respect. I feel for her, but she’s absolutely not right here. Definitely a lesson in not letting a relationship take precedence over your own happiness

  • @lesaalexander7386
    @lesaalexander7386 2 года назад +16

    As a legal paraprofessional, if YOUR State allows, it Is permissible to sue the side piece. She was correct to do so. Unfortunately, her State does not allow it. In addition, she needs legal counsel to assist with compensation should she decide to divorce. She is operating under different moral standards than someone marrying in 2022. Ma'am, be encouraged and I will pray for your vindication.

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 2 года назад +79

    What that married woman should do is kick her cheating no good husband out of her life! No matter with whom he cheated her with, or for how long, or whatever, the woman he cheated his wife with is not the problem…. it’s him! The mistress didn’t take the idiot by force. I hate when spouses give the passive role to their deadbeat husbands and blame the mistress for the betrayal. It’s very unfair and idiotic. In her case, should blame specifically her husband to have put her into her conditions.

    • @kayekaye08
      @kayekaye08 2 года назад +11

      She will not leave, She needs the benefits..

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings 2 года назад +4

      @@kayekaye08 typical😳🙄! «He cheated on me but he’s a good provider😉🙄…» «How dare she takes a ‘honest‘ man from his family?!» or the doozy «She did everything to catch him in her web and he couldn’t resist!» Those poor men! Victims of harlots🤭😉🙄!

    • @citygirlingraham
      @citygirlingraham 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely right, she is an older woman and her husband cheats, the plaintiff needs to get self sufficient, get some self esteem and get him OUT.

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings 2 года назад +1

      @@citygirlingraham you are preaching to the choir Frida Flower!

    • @kayekaye08
      @kayekaye08 2 года назад

      @@jo-annbastings right, she need to just accept her roommate status & find a new boo

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 2 года назад +43

    The plaintiff really needs to stop it, stop blaming the other woman sue the man he's the one that made the vows to you not her. The whole case makes no sense. To the plaintiff the man does not want you move on.

  • @wesgriffin6081
    @wesgriffin6081 2 года назад +66

    Her HUSBAND is who's at fault. He's the one who made a commitment with her, who betrayed her. If she don't want to lose benefits, stay with him just no intimacy at all. He doesn't love her anymore but still cares for her. He probably getting high and got some freakiness in him he can't get from her. He doesn't seem to want to leave her for another woman - just wants her to accept it - just roll with it. If you stay with him, No kissing -- No intimacy -- Separate bedrooms. Whatever he's doing out there is going to catch up with him sooner or later. In the end, you get what's rightfull yours - pension, home, SS etc. I'd still cook for him and clean, do laundry etc. Instead of stressing -- Rejoice !! Be GLAD the other woman is handling the bedroom stuff. Don't hound and nag him about it - just Appreciate and Enjoy the RIDE !!! 😎 There are other joys in life e.g. the grandkids . ❤️

    • @patricehuggins718
      @patricehuggins718 2 года назад +3

      Exactly so that's what I am doing.Be smart.

    • @wesgriffin6081
      @wesgriffin6081 2 года назад +4

      @@patricehuggins718 Exactly l❤️
      Divorce ? It's too late in life to make that change. Shouda made THAT move 30-40 years ago.

    • @KPbouj
      @KPbouj 2 года назад +2

      Yep because of the crack don’t get em to the grave, these STIs will and she will hopefully inherit his pensions. “It’s cheaper to keep ‘er”

    • @KPbouj
      @KPbouj 2 года назад +3

      But hell she all “skressed” out over him! Girl go eat some kale and get some sunshine on his done while you still have access to it.

    • @wesgriffin6081
      @wesgriffin6081 2 года назад +1

      @@KPbouj that's what I'm talkin' 'bout !!! 💯

  • @lindaburger2695
    @lindaburger2695 2 года назад +8

    Have you got a condom? "I don't know why he be asking me that". I DO!!!

  • @jackievybz1527
    @jackievybz1527 2 года назад +13

    This is an example of what happens when you stay with a man who cheats. Slowly but surely your confidence fades and your self esteem is nonexistent.it’s very heartbreaking to watch

    • @tgrant6518
      @tgrant6518 2 года назад +1

      Girl hello. Very sad to see but it’s the path she chose. This is what “having a piece of a man is better than no man at all” gets you.

  • @Blue_Collar_Colonizer_1776
    @Blue_Collar_Colonizer_1776 2 года назад +35

    What a waste of the legal systems time. I really hope this was just put on for TV. She didn't have 1 friend or family member that told her this was a bad look?

  • @FallnAngel07
    @FallnAngel07 2 года назад +27

    She's one of those women who brags about being married to Joe for 50 years but Joe emotionally and physically cheats on her constantly.

    • @VladmirPoopN
      @VladmirPoopN Год назад

      Well, she wasn't bragging this time.

  • @shanicole2715
    @shanicole2715 2 года назад +21

    Mrs Thorpe is a beautiful woman I hope she find her peace

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 2 года назад +45

    It's funny that she's putting this woman through all these hoops, but she needs more evidence to pinpoint it on her husband. If she holds her husband accountable, that means she actually has to follow through with the divorce.

    • @lawfullucyless6715
      @lawfullucyless6715 2 года назад +5

      your profile pic is so fitting lol

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 2 года назад +1

      can only hope she’s putting the main cheater through these same hoops too!

    • @butyoucancallmesam
      @butyoucancallmesam 2 года назад +1

      @@looknbakatu meaning her husband?

    • @butyoucancallmesam
      @butyoucancallmesam 2 года назад +4

      @@lawfullucyless6715 It's a great representation of how I feel most of the time when I'm watching these videos. Lol

  • @ingesexton811
    @ingesexton811 2 года назад +37

    Lord. I don't even have to watch this to know that man isn't worth it!

    • @imrichbtch1995
      @imrichbtch1995 2 года назад +2

      Who hurt you🤣

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +5

      @@imrichbtch1995 What do you mean "who hurt her?" Nice attempt at gaslighting. That is ALWAYS the go to strategy for men who are being called out for their BS. My ex husband tried that on me. He sees where that got him: straight to divorce court.

    • @imrichbtch1995
      @imrichbtch1995 2 года назад +1

      @@Childfree334 🤣🤣 have fun living alone me and my wife chilling. You were just annoying 🙄 you big mad 🤔

    • @imrichbtch1995
      @imrichbtch1995 2 года назад +1

      @@Childfree334 wino

    • @gailwhite8361
      @gailwhite8361 2 года назад +1

      To have a nervous breakdown over a no good man come on lady! Get rid of that pathetic man what a bum why are you taking it out on her and your weak and probably still with him.

  • @cassiew1734
    @cassiew1734 2 года назад +10

    This is such a sad case and one of the reasons women are catching STD’s at this stage in their lives. YES, the defendant is sleeping with that lady’s drug addict cheating husband. What other reason would she be texting that man. Best wishes to the plaintiff.

  • @redgurl60
    @redgurl60 2 года назад +14

    The defendant's man is going to see this, and she's going to have a problem. Shes definately screwing that old man. And I would take the judge's advise, put him out and keep his benefits. Also, in some states if you can prove your spouse had an affair, your divorce will be granted faster.

  • @myshanamakisi6063
    @myshanamakisi6063 2 года назад +21

    Auntie, out here looking crazy. You too old for this behavior...😒
    If you stay, please stop sleeping with him, Auntie. He's clearly engaging in destructive behavior, so protect yourself...

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 2 года назад +17

    The husband must have some incredibly low standards to cheat with this

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад

      It is the stupid women that have low standards to even entertain that devil because he is no prize. He must have some deep pockets.

  • @quirkya909
    @quirkya909 2 года назад +5

    I love that Judge Milian called this woman on her BS & told Mrs Thorp her suspicions were true! & to leave so she could be happy!
    And sorry the defendants excuse “he was with my friends years ago” says “I’m sleeping with ya man” her nervous smiles is a dead give away!

  • @LawsonPatterson
    @LawsonPatterson 2 года назад +19

    The plaintiff seemed like a very nice person and I hope she’s able to move on. The blame lies with her husband, not his mistresses.
    The judges are cute at the end, “I want romance!” Lol 😂

  • @lloydnewman788
    @lloydnewman788 2 года назад +7

    That woman she said her husband messing with" oh my Goodness. She looks like she would do anybody😅

  • @jesusdied4u743
    @jesusdied4u743 2 года назад +55

    It's like she's giving her husband a "pass" but she wants to direct all her anger toward the woman whom he mayHAVE cheated with. He should be held accountable for his actions. I know it's hard especially when you're not as young as you use to be. But there's no way I would be able to be under the same roof with my husband if he did such a thing.

  • @paulalovett2715
    @paulalovett2715 2 года назад +13

    My momma left my dad (I was19 & my sister 17), she didn’t divorce him because she loved him & I didn’t understand that until I was older. Now @ 56& I’ve lived my OWN life my opinion is:pray, seek WISE counsel, talk with a marriage lawyer, talk with your children. You see your husband probably isn’t going to change. Self care is a wonderful thing. Stay alive for the grandchildren (cuz I see you’re stressed)I understand you still love him and you tried to embarrass him but WHATEVER monkey he has on his back is not allowing him to be embarrassed by this & that’s sad but true. I pray you find peace within yourself and this situation, God bless🙏🏽🙋🏽‍♀️🐕👍🏽

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 2 года назад +18

    I feel sad for the plaintiff, unfortunately, many women were/are raised to focus on their marriage/kids so their entire lives revolve around their family/husband, it becomes their identity, source of income, joy, and social status. So, when that man leaves them after 40+ years it's devastating, she has no pension and must restart at 60+. I am from such cultures and I am made to feel like crap because I want to establish myself before marriage

    • @laceyjaye1262
      @laceyjaye1262 2 года назад +2

      If she files for divorce (at least in my state) she'll be set for the rest of her life.

  • @cypherknot
    @cypherknot 2 года назад +10

    "The woman" hasn't put the plaintiff through anything, the plaintiff husband has.

  • @buffymuffintopz8994
    @buffymuffintopz8994 2 года назад +12

    My sis in law sued her husbands mistress for 30,000 and won .. we live in NC 😂 and when I see him I’m gonna smack him with a wet rag. She saved herself for him what a jerk

  • @sm3296
    @sm3296 2 года назад +13

    Crazy to stay with the man when you’re in physical pain and mental distress. Life’s too short for that.

    • @horsie371
      @horsie371 2 года назад +2

      They're getting a divorce

    • @moniquem3738
      @moniquem3738 7 месяцев назад

      She is saying financially it benefits her.

  • @vanillapudding9471
    @vanillapudding9471 2 года назад +13

    She was searching for her on Facebook.
    She too old to be playing games. If he’s not cheating with the defendant he’ll be cheating with someone else. I don’t like cheating and she need to remove herself from the person that’s causing her the stress 💯🤞🏽

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +2

      Exactly. All these people saying they are BOTH wrong are ridiculous. If a man wants to cheat, it doesn't matter what the third party knows. He made the vows and only HE is responsible. He wants outside P, he will get it. Women expecting other women to police their husbands are in some serious denial.

    • @vanillapudding9471
      @vanillapudding9471 2 года назад +1

      @@Childfree334 he took vows..He know where he should be and with who

  • @rubydavis6627
    @rubydavis6627 2 года назад +8

    Mrs. Thorpe has beautiful hair. I love that shade of gray. I hope she will be ok.❤

  • @lgreene7
    @lgreene7 2 года назад +9

    Ma’am! You are way too “mature” for this mess. A shame

  • @slmel7
    @slmel7 Год назад +2

    For those that have been cheated on, the following states still have laws on the books for alienation of affection -
    Hawaii, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah.
    PS. It SHOULD still be legal to sue both parties responsible for the affair (the spouse and the side piece). It NEVER should have been thrown out. We need to STOP allowing cheaters and STOP normalizing cheating/affairs.

  • @charenehillman2554
    @charenehillman2554 2 года назад +8

    The older women is such a beautiful woman, let him keep paying for everything and find some hobbies or activities to keep you busy. I hope the beautiful older lady has a wonderful life.

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад

      Ok . Hobby and young 🌱 boyfriend 🤷‼️ Everything Goes Both 🚫 ways ‼️

  • @Urbanthick
    @Urbanthick 2 года назад +11

    This is more than sad. Being in this situation is something that should be prevented at all cost.

  • @isaidwhatisaid2750
    @isaidwhatisaid2750 2 года назад +9

    Not the pink braids....THEY got a cat daddy. Ma'am drop that POS and live the rest of your life in PEACE. My Goodness. Wow....as I watch this I'm thinking of NeeNee off of RHOA.🥴

  • @dorisp9127
    @dorisp9127 2 года назад

    I enjoy hearing the questions from the fans and watching both of you answering.

  • @ahelms1990
    @ahelms1990 2 года назад +8

    Sad that this plaintiff is weak and won't stand up and sue her husband for cheating not the other women. Hope she does better and learns more about the law to make her life easier.

  • @tanishasummage3094
    @tanishasummage3094 10 месяцев назад +1

    The defendant is definitely sleeping with that woman’s husband. Please divorce him and move on. That man will Never stop cheating on you.

  • @faliciaford8465
    @faliciaford8465 2 года назад +3

    That women was definitely having a affair with that lady's husband along with many other women..

  • @AP-uo7sp
    @AP-uo7sp 2 года назад +7

    What a ridiculous case. She needs to be suing her husband for half of everything in divorce court🤦

  • @prettyblkgyrl74
    @prettyblkgyrl74 2 года назад +15

    Why didn’t the divorce attorney tell the plaintiff she didn’t have an action case for alienation of affection or emotional distress? 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Ualari
      @Ualari 2 года назад

      The divorce attorney probably told her that so she went to the Peoples court

    • @honestyisadyingvirtue
      @honestyisadyingvirtue 2 года назад

      Because she probably self-filed. Not that hard to figure out to do many cases.

    • @elvickRULES
      @elvickRULES 2 года назад

      She gets money for appearing, but it’s such a mess that I don’t get it. I guess if she is afraid of money the humiliation may have been worth it

  • @scamchan
    @scamchan 2 года назад +6

    Living in the same house together hmmm sounds a lot like many people these days.

  • @navigatormother7023
    @navigatormother7023 2 года назад +7

    Most men who start cheating just want to be left alone to cheat in peace with a younger, sassier partner. But this lady has reached an age where she realises she nèds a partner for life. Of course she knows he's always been a louse... that's why the texts mean so little- except for a timeline of breaking trust. But she's stayed in a genteel era long past, where he was the breadwinner and she keeps herself and the house immaculate... but there's no benefits or insurance in that.
    We take so much for granted in Australia. This is one thing. Free healthcare.
    But I think the comments are right. She doesn't want to sue her husband for divorce and separation. She wants to keep him right there by her side,and sue all his ladies for upsetting her carefully manicured life. And this is her first salvo- her first shot over the bow. She can't control her husband. But she can give his "girlfriends" hell in court, she believes.

  • @ashrene4429
    @ashrene4429 2 года назад +6

    The plaintiff is too old to be so weak and dependent on a man who’s probably been dogging since adolescence. Absolutely ridiculous. If he wants to take out the trash, let him!!! Move on!!!!

  • @dwaynewoullard4435
    @dwaynewoullard4435 2 года назад +8

    🤔🤔Well I BE Damn 🤔 It TOOK 46 YEAR'S NOW She's Suing 🤔 NOPE THE JUDGE Shouldn't Award HER Nothing/ 🤔SHE Should've LEFT HIS SORRY ASS 46 YEAR'S Ago!

  • @tgrant6518
    @tgrant6518 2 года назад +11

    She ain’t leaving her no good husband. She’s in denial and has checked out because he’s been this way for years. Trying to lay blame on everyone but herself for her worthless marriage. Don’t be a doormat for years then finally get some balls and try to show them to the other woman. Especially not in court. Times have changed.

    • @lilo4399
      @lilo4399 2 года назад +1

      She made it clear that she's staying for the pension. She doesn't understand her right to alimony. The pension stops and he is ordered to pay alimony.

    • @tgrant6518
      @tgrant6518 2 года назад

      @@lilo4399 not in the Information Age is that an excuse. One call and she could’ve had that info years ago. She’s staying because she wants to which is fine but don’t be dragging people to court over your trash husband.

    • @lilo4399
      @lilo4399 2 года назад +2

      She said that he's moving out in a couple of months. She's just old school and would rather have a husband who screws around than be divorced.

    • @lilo4399
      @lilo4399 2 года назад

      She's just mad that he's a pothead so she wants to expose his dealer by making false accusations. No pot dealer is going to sleep with her customer (unless she's selling that as well). She has a personal vendetta towards the dealer because her husband is a total loser. She can't accept that she's married to a loser. She doesn't understand that divorce will make her a better person. She thinks that it's all the pot dealer (hooker?)'s fault that her husband is a loser. He's a loser no what who he buys his pot from.....and she's a bigger loser for not divorcing him. They deserve each other. I can see why they are staying married.

  • @34stzoo
    @34stzoo 2 года назад +5

    2:15 I did, confront him but he walked away. I didn't have any evidence outside of the texts. WTF!

  • @Marcedes-oq8kw
    @Marcedes-oq8kw 2 года назад +5

    Not the judge saying that the defendant is going to see the plaintiff man this afternoon 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @0LadyV0
    @0LadyV0 2 года назад +4

    Sue the person, who made the legal commitment. A third party made no such promise.

  • @TammieR-B
    @TammieR-B 2 года назад +7

    Oh this is going to be something 🤣🤣
    As soon as she started talking I knew drugs were somewhere 🤣chick is high

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris 2 года назад +5

    The Plaintiff's hair is gorgeous!!

  • @eshablair4841
    @eshablair4841 2 года назад +7

    That’s her sugar daddy.

  • @juliebowes3977
    @juliebowes3977 6 месяцев назад +2

    Your husband is to blame,not that lady...

  • @kishathompson5024
    @kishathompson5024 2 года назад +36

    People keep saying blame the man blame the man not the woman but I say give it to them both especially when the woman finds out he’s married and she continues with the pursuit … that means she wants these hands too … if u don’t know then that’s one thing but to continue to pursue a married man is another. Men used to lie about being married because most women didn’t want a married man but these thot pockets of today don’t care and will willingly sneak around with someone’s husband … so I’m saying both parties are accountable unless the other woman doesn’t know 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 2 года назад +8

      NOPE. Married men need to stay away from other women point blank period. It is their duty and responsibility once they make those vows.

    • @lindseyyoung9149
      @lindseyyoung9149 2 года назад +5

      @@Childfree334 Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so why do you think it's acceptable to be replying to every comment that goes against yours with nastiness? Calm down 😬

    • @VettGirl66
      @VettGirl66 2 года назад

      Nope! Her issue is with her husband, vows were taken with her husband. Having a conversation with the other woman is not going resolved the issued he cheated.

    • @lindseyyoung9149
      @lindseyyoung9149 2 года назад +1

      @@VettGirl66 You replying nope with an exclamation point isn't going to change minds but go off I guess.

    • @VettGirl66
      @VettGirl66 2 года назад

      @@lindseyyoung9149 I’m not trying to change anyones mind. It’s my opinion.🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @misseazar4250
    @misseazar4250 2 года назад +2

    Hello Barbara this is Shirley🗣🗣🗣 WOMAN 2 WOMAN

  • @gailwhite8361
    @gailwhite8361 2 года назад +7

    The Judge said we all know she's messing with your husband 😂 I knew that from the beginning look at her dam !! And take a look in the mirror you're gorgeous you can do better so many great brothers that would appreciate you.

  • @clementineepps1475
    @clementineepps1475 Год назад +1

    Really, she need to sue the husband. He is the only one that owes her loyalty. Smh

  • @antdogg5041
    @antdogg5041 5 месяцев назад +1

    STOP!!! Blaming the person who didn’t take vows with you they don’t owe you anything!

  • @ann8838
    @ann8838 2 года назад +4

    Not the defendant admitting she sells drugs on tv . How stupid lol

    • @ddinottia39
      @ddinottia39 2 года назад

      She can't get in trouble for selling weed! It's now legal!

  • @msloverluvaPAS
    @msloverluvaPAS 2 года назад +4

    I don't believe the defendant was having a sexual affair with her husband. I'm sure she had ways of getting money from him weather it was buying weed from her or not. He sounds like the type that pushes up on women hoping to wear them down even they they don't want him. The plaintiff states she believes he gave her 2 STI's???? He would never touch me again after the 1st one!

  • @kesharena81
    @kesharena81 2 года назад +9

    Wait... what? I understand for better and worse but why is she suing the other woman? Confront the husband! Ladies, if you feel like your husband or boyfriend is cheating, ask him. I can't believe this...

    • @DavidKen878
      @DavidKen878 2 года назад

      She did confront him. He kept ignoring her. 😂

  • @susantrueman4651
    @susantrueman4651 2 года назад +1

    Lol at that wallpaper 😂 it's a matching wallpaper and it's not even lined up wtf it well stood out🤔🤭🤣

  • @NJgateway
    @NJgateway 2 года назад +10

    She is suing the wrong person. The defendant never made an oath to be faithful to the plaintiff. It was her husband that promised to be faithful, not this other lady. She should be suing her husband, IMHO. She has no reason to be mad at this lady. She should only be mad at her husband. SHEESH!

    • @babiifrshj07
      @babiifrshj07 2 года назад

      She has a pretty good reason to be mad at the defendant, but I agree that she should be addressing the issue with the husband since he is the one who broke their vows. It's a normal and completely natural response to be angry with the cheating spouse and the person they're cheating with. It's what you do with that anger that really matters.

  • @BobBlumenfeld
    @BobBlumenfeld 2 года назад +2

    Defendant: "Who are you gonna believe, me or those lying texts? They obviously don't mean what they obviously mean."

  • @Passion-X
    @Passion-X 2 года назад +8

    What bothered me most is that you don’t own anybody.. he gave her two std’s and she is still there with him.. I understand marriage and being cheated on but pick yourself up… the energy she put into blaming this woman she could have put that same energy into changing her circumstances!!! Geeze

    • @regenacoaxum1510
      @regenacoaxum1510 2 года назад +1

      Stop dogging the defendant blame the stupid wife nothing wrong with the defendant

    • @Passion-X
      @Passion-X 2 года назад +3

      @@regenacoaxum1510
      Please re-read I am talking about the Wife…

  • @deloriswilliams1797
    @deloriswilliams1797 2 года назад +1

    no ma'am!! too old to be going through all that!! TOO OLD SIR! MA'AM

  • @tracykelly7731
    @tracykelly7731 2 года назад +13

    This reminds me of the Nene Leakes situation.
    The plaintiff is going after the wrong person…..base on what was said, if it’s not the defendant it will be someone else. Good luck to her

  • @C3yl0
    @C3yl0 2 года назад +2

    That is correct, better alone than with a bad companionship. JM 🙌

  • @mr.unbothered
    @mr.unbothered 2 года назад +4

    yea no........ sis your husband aint s*** your anger and energy is misdirected.... I could go on but ima leave it there....

  • @kgrimes842
    @kgrimes842 Год назад +1

    Messing with a married man is wrong but the stress from your husband cheating is HIS fault not hers! She has no legal responsibility to you but he does. She's been suspecting him of cheating that long and she stayed with him so it seems she just wants money from the girl.