I decided to break the mold. My neighbor is a divorced single father who has custody. He got cancer and had chemo. I started mowing his lawn when I noticed he was unable to do it anymore. Brothers, let's watch out for each other.
For real, men really need to start making friends with other men. We can share our thoughts in real life that way. I don’t know why but it seems like we don’t even want to hang out with each other any more. What’s up with that?
@@binarybob0010 I agree with you and a.good place to meet nice guys to talk with is at mens bible study,dont let that word bible throw you, Do you see how often bible verses come up on utube that make.great sence,in a world that makes no sense. Try it you'll like it,if.you dont just keep on walking
@@parrotshootist3004 exactly. I bring up the husband store joke constantly with modern women. they keep proving it to be 100% true, and not really a joke at all. Turns out, the Husband Store is a Philosophical Paradox (just like the trolley car), disguised as a joke.
This year, that's pretty much been my litmus test for any woman that I'm even around. If their answer is "no", then I guess you don't need me to be around here in any way helping you, do you? The level of toxic that it takes to even say that... I really don't want to even be around anyone that would say that to my face.
Im 75 yr old male and if I learned nothing else in life I learned that IT IS ALWAYS THE MAN'S FAULT! The accountability train rarely stops at the female stations.
I was married 26 years. My sons, three of them, saw what I had to go through and will never get married either. I even bent over backwards to keep the family together, and she ended up committing adultery and divorcing anyway. My boys saw it all. I told them to never accommodate a woman like I did, as they can see the results (I wasn't saying not to get married, by the way).
All young men are seeing around the world what our stepfathers and biological fathers had to go through as men we young men get it now we understand now the best thing for us to do is stay focused keep working out as a men to master your emotions as a men it also helps with keeping your body in shape and it helps the mind stay focused on goals so you don’t fall into trouble in your community stay strong kings 👑
Then chances are your son is a wise guy. They say smart men learn from their own mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others. I'm hoping your son is the latter.
Why? I dated plenty of single mom's over the years. You just have to be honest with them from the start. In my case I told them I was not looking to get married and my life was setup as I wanted it. Some accepted, some did not. Either way that was their decision.
Same goes for not dressing "flashy" or driving a brand new "flashy" car. If they think you are poor, they won't even look your way. Being a "grey man" has some definite advantages.
I've seen an increasing number of women over the last decade or so go from playing hard to get to hard to want. How many nose piercings and tattoos are they thinking is normal? I've begin seeing girls with double pierced noses - one in each nostril. The diamond stud might seem cool with your drunk but no guy has ever asked his girl to get one of those. The unsmiling women who stare and engage in lasting eye contact but will not smile. They really think men want to approach that? They can't be engaging in such lasting eye contact unless they were hoping for something more. Women outside of the West will do the eye contact but also smile. So it isn't a _woman_ thing, it is a Western woman attitude to exhibit that prison scowl look.
Not so long ago, I refused to visit a former F-buddy of mine, who clearly wanted to spend that saturday with me to get her rocks off. Like so many times before. When she asked me for the 10th time "why not"? I said: I dont desire to drive in cross-sections where there are so much heavy traffic". This is not the sharpest of tools, so it took her about 15 secounds to understand that what I meant was that she had been riding the CC so violently recently, that I did not even want to F- her with a condom attached to my Johnson. It was that bad. And off course she was raving mad and told me to vanish. "Im way ahead of you", I said and hang up.
They know that we aren't intimidated. They just instinctively resort to shaming language when they aren't getting their way. What they haven't figured out yet is that the conversation is over when we hear "intimidated" or " insecure".
My ex divorced me and married the state because she felt she could get a better deal from them. They gave her our 'little home' and the judge requested a monthly child support that was less than I was paying her voluntarily. 'If only you had money' she said to my back as I walked out of our house. NOW, I live on a remote island in a home with 150 feet of private shoreline on a private pond and a five foot waterfall next to the house. The island is surrounded by miles and miles of Savannah/jungle. When I leave the place I drive a rare exotic roadster. I own my home and my car. I have no debt. I am statistically wealthier than 82% of my fellow Americans. Also freer, no one owns my future. She now lives in tenement housing. She lost the house.
I hope she is aware of how Karma treated you both! Oh the wailing and gnashing of teeth! Glad to see some justice prevails! Stay healthy and enjoy sir.
The game was never designed for a men to win bottom line brother imagine all of the younger guys who woo have to deal with this in the future without seeing it coming like most older guys don’t see🤦♂️
I don't know your age but once you're in your peak earning years and retirement seems obtainable, you'll at least realize you can make it. No alimony, child support or student loan debt from an ex having eaten away at years of income. Not having children would likely be a regret. No harm in escaping the West.
"Women need to call out other women". That's how it used to be when I was a kid. Women in the community kept other women under control. No single mothers, no sleeping around, no divorces.
@TheRousler: I've felt, for a long time, that we need to bring shame back. Women kept other women in check back in the day, because there was shame in being a promiscuous woman with kids out of wedlock. Now they're proud of it.
Women can be hot at any age just by being sincere, loyal and honest. Dressing up like a street walker just makes them look like the opening to the Paris Olympics.
The internet allowed men to get together and compare notes on their awful experiences with relationships. Prior to the internet most men would suffer in silence assuming that he was the only one in a miserable relationship because men tend not to want to speak ill of their wives to other men. I can't help but think that Al Bundy was the start of our great awakening! 😂
Who can forget the snappy comebacks like: "One, two, three, four, you will all fall thru the floor", "I would, but my car has only half a tank of gas!" Right on Al! Where are you when you're so needed now? Thanks for the laughs.
I once net a Chinese woman about 2 decades ago who had only lived in America for about a year so she was still getting used to the culture and I was surprised at one thing she told me, "Western women are soooooo spoiled!". I thought, well, I guess it stands to reason. We've put them on a pedestal for so long and told them how sooooooo special they are in the world as women that its gone to their heads. We've written songs about them saying how soooooo special they are and hw we can't live without them, and as you mentioned, made special provisions to incorporate them into the workplace for the sake of equality and promoted them for the sake of having more female executives, given them raises, give them special loans to start their own businesses, given them custody of the kids and at least half of all the assets in divorces, buy their drinks for them at bars and clubs, coined the phrase "women are always right" and the list goes on and on. So, yeah, western women are in fact spoiled.
@@avrahamzucker2605 So called "50/50" marriages are never successful and happy because they're contrary to nature. In every species on Earth that even has gender, the male dominates and the female submits to him.
In the Bible Proverbs 31-10 it says a virtuous woman is worth far more than rubies. Why? Because even in those days it was hard to find a virtuous woman. It's even harder today!
They STARTED "DAY TIME TELEVISION" for them after inventing the Washer and dryer, Microwave, dishwasher, What WOMEN DID BUY HAND! SO Men invented These appliances for them. Then they started watching SOAP OPERAS and they started thinking that cheating was okay, and That's where everything went down the drain!
I think the simplest explanation is this: Humanity has stepped away from the standards that God gave to mankind, regarding standards of relationships and sexuality, is why mankind is in the mess that it is in today. If people would wait until marriage before engaging in sexual activity, and would stick to their partner, through the good and the bad, and if both partners would strive to apply the Bible's counsel on what it means to be a good husband and good father, or a good wife and mother, despite their imperfections, I think, I almost guarantee that a lot of the problems mankind is currently experiencing would not exist. I think every single problem for the most part that mankind is facing today is because people think they know better than their creator, and insist on doing things their own way.
@@davidpalmer7175 I'm not as sad as a man that's trapped in a relationship/house/life with someone that hates him and makes him walk on egg shells. I'm happier than I've ever been and don't plan on running the risk of ruining that.
We are absolutely disgusted... because their soul and spirit is SO ADULTERATED that IT CAN NEVER ALIGN WITH US as they CONTINOUSLY go back to the graveyard of many ex's from the past. No saving them now. Let them crash out.
Im 58, a couple of years ago i had to do a college course, a lot of young lads there werent interested in relationships and when i asked why the common response was " i saw what my mum did to my dad in divorce",
For sure.. I see that many women understand what you just said... Not a single reply... That says a lot about them understanding us... Good stuff man, good stuff.. Maybe on day they will.. Greetings bro...
Than you are doing women a favor by not being in a relationship with one. For anyone, regardless of their gender or their partner's gender, you are at the minimum partially responsible for your partner's happiness in a healthy relationship. For those that can't accept that, yes, they shouldn't be in a relationship.
@@WolfLykaiosfunny, I don’t mind helping out my friends, supporting them when they are under the weather, being there for them when they are in need, because my friends are otherwise responsible for themselves and take responsibility for their happiness and general emotional health. That’s not often the case with a girlfriend or wife. That’s what this guy is referring to when he says he doesn’t want to be [fully] responsible for another person’s happiness.
I have never once been physically , mentally ,or intellectually intimidated by any woman . Not one single solitary time . I have been absolutely repulsed by attitude, behavior , and lack of morals in more women than I'm able to count .
@@edheldude first one was highschool sweetheart. Everything good until it wasn't. Second one I was turning 30 and she was 20. Very committed, intelligent and sweet girl. This was before I knew anything about red pill almost 10 years ago. Tried to "do the right thing".
End of the world by 2050 as far as water becoming scarce at that point so yup. Enjoy the 25 years we have on this Earth/REAL LIFE LOGAN'S RUN. INNOVATE TO ZERO.
A young woman wanted me to take her for a ride on my motorcycle! She told me I was going to this, told me I was going to that, how I was going to do it! No kidding I looked at her and shook my head! I told her I’m not buying you a helmet to fit your head, I’m not buying you riding leathers! She’s a waitress, I just shook my head and left! The absolute gall, the absolute disrespect. I was married 42 years to a full blown Narcissist and didn’t know it, or didn’t understand folks were like this were identifiable as personality type! She committed adultery several times, tried to deny it, however I have the proof and am done with the lying, the deceit, the theft, the misrepresentation of me. MGTOW, now, I’m so very happy alone! Peace be with you!
Please understand that in Britain, a female takes everything in a divorce, not 50%. I have nothing of the life I led up to that point. She took and destroyed everything, including photos, childhood possessions, and a lifetime of very hard and dangerous work. Now, she lives in isolation and stews in her own misery. To that, I say Amen, so be it.
@PB22559 Absolutely not! I was told to leave my home, which I struggled to pay for, and that if I didn't, then I'd be arrested and put in prison. Britain is a totalitarian state, and any excuse is used to rob you of everything . A friend of mine even had his business taken away from him and given to his ex-wife . She, of course, got her reward in full, but she is now dead, having departed at the age of 60. The wages of sin is death.
I was married under German marriage law and divorced under Canadian marriage law. The difference cost me 1/2 Million Can. $. At the German law,what each party owed before marriage will stay with you. What was gained during marriage must be split, regardless who earned it.
My woman and I are best friends. Our children are grown adults with lives of their own. She puts me above everyone. Her friends, her family and the children. I put her above everything as well. This is where so many women get things messed up. They expect a man to put her and the children above everything, while she puts him dead last. He should be put above the children unless it comes to the safety of the children and then they both put the children first. But, if it is not a safety issue, the children should not be put first.
My ex put her friends first, preschool, highschool, university, workfriends, constantly meeting other women in evenings. Then kids first and our marriage dead last. You know the end of that story..
@tabletalk33 you are correct, a man needs to have a purpose and that purpose should be something that enables him to take care of his responsibilities. But, his woman should be putting him first. If she does not, he should leave her. A woman is a man's help mate. Her purpose should be helping him succeed. My woman must earn her place at my side. If she doesn't, then I do not want her.
Im 67, divorced. I own my own home now, and my 2 motorcycles, and my truck and 9 guitars, and several amps. I have dawgs that love me unconditionally. I play music with my buddies, and go to Church on Sundays alone but have many frinds when I get there. My X is miserable in her next marriage. A Godless liberal. LMAO!! Thank you, God!! Forever yours.
I promise you this woman is single. The people pleasers are not even interesting to men for long. Men want women to fight with which is why they focus on feminists instead and not agreeable people pleasing women. 😂
Start telling women. I don't believe in love... anymore... at least real love for men. Cuz they got none. Most won't even care if you say it anyway cuz they're not "humane" like ya think... if you see the matrix for what it is...
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for someone else. But I've come to understand that there's always a solution to problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were close to divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was tough, but we survived.
I truly want to find happiness as well. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to make things right.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I turn 44 this month, can confirm that the juice is not worth the squeeze - keep your own place and keep women for recreational use only - DO NOT cohabitate, Kings.
I realized the women I was interested in are either unattainable or do not exist, and that was one reason of many why after my divorce I stopped looking.
Women like tall dark, handsome, and successful. Always been a small percentage of men. Men like feminine, fit and friendly. A small percentage of women today.
There is no such thing as a perfect man to women. That famous soccer player had his wife leave him because he was 'too perfect'...imagine that? Tom Brady's wife left him. Women are see 'situations', not consequences. A woman is a man who is devoid of reason and accountability, they should NEVER be put in charge of anything. As it is written, a woman should NEVER be in any position of authority over a man.
Remember my brothers ( I’ve said this many times ). A parasite needs a host, the host doesn’t need a parasite. This can be applied to everything in life. Women included.
I have been married for 49 years to the same woman and knew her for 1 years & 8 months before getting married at 20 years old. She has accepted accountability exactly 5 times in our lifetime together. 3 of those times were when we were dating so please define rarely to me please. We haven’t even had sex for over two decades. I analyzed the cost benefit and decided it was indeed “cheaper to keep her”. As it turns out it was a good decision because since I retired at age 65 I have been sick with AML. Now in a wheelchair she has taken care of me quite well over the past 4 years and has become a good wife.
I'm 79 and have been single since 1991, and I've become very protective of my MGTOW lifestyle. When I get up in the morning I can belch, fart, and scratch without a chick bitching at me. Life is good.
The funniest part about boss babes is that they think that men are actually afraid of them . Nobody is afraid of them , we are laughing at them , they don't realize how much they are screwing themselves over in a long run . They are basing their whole personality based off of a single fact that them being rude , unbearable and obnoxious is giving them professional results that they want , then that type of behavior is also going to give them the romantic/marriage results that they want . Let me tell you , you bring that behavior to the house , and you'll be living in one empty house .
THE FACT IS THAT IF YOU SAW YOUR DAD OR YOUR UNCLE OR YOUR BROTHER RAN THROUGH THE COURTS AND HALF HIS LIFE TAKEN FROM HIM YOU ARENT SIGNING UP FOR THAT.
I live in Colorado and Me and my Wife didn't get married because WE didn't want the Government involved. But they DID, COMMON LAW MARRIAGE, So we were together for 9.5 years " Common Law" Until she died and it was tax season, She had a Couple Thousand dollars coming back, but I couldn't get the money for her because We Were Not Married??? But for 10 years any bill's, Mortgage, lights, etc. We were Husband and Wife.
If I was going to get married my ideal would be a church wedding and the signing of a church registry of marriage with no gov't marriage license and nuptial signing. Gov't involvement in marriage is a relatively recent occurrence.
in TX you have only 3 conditions to be common law married, check your state laws and see if you meet them, if you do, see a lawyer, you might still get that money
Funny how that works. Had you 2 wanted to separate, I'm sure daddy government would've made you get a divorce and send some money their way. Sorry for your loss!!
Only rooster can crow and fight for his flock; all hens may cackle and raise chicks. Each complements the other= good family/flock. All else = Woke B.S. Laws! If there is no other way left: decline to kow-tow to their game. Tchau, MGTOW
In ancient times in Rome, for example, the father had absolute power and authority over his family. NO IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS. If you saw the mini-series "Rome," (which was really great!) one of the characters (an ex soldier) finds out that his current wife had murdered and replaced his ex-wife. The moment he found out, he strangled her, carried her outside and down the road to a muddy ditch, and threw her in it and walked away. Nobody questioned it, nobody dared to interfere. It was NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS. That was the Roman custom, and that was that.
I took care of my girlfriend from high school for 45 years and she found somebody who made more money on Facebook. I then married another woman thinking she was a Christian for 10 years and she just wanted to pay all the bills for her and their entire family of three kids and a grandkids. I’m done being used.
I am mid fifties, twice divorced. Modern hook up culture and anti man culture has put most women in the recreation category sadly and I am not interested in sleeping with low value women. I’m currently staying single and not dating. Own everything, no debt, peace and solitude. 🤷♂️
I agree completely and have said for a long time now. If a woman insists on getting married and is willing to end the relationship over it, she's more interested in his money than him. If a woman really loves a guy, she wouldn't want him to enter into a situation that's famous for strongly favoring her while destroying him. That's not love, it's exploitation.
For modern western women marriage is a get rich quick scheme and an accessory. They're more interested in flaunting the wedding than being actually married
I stopped hating on this modern feminism, last year, when I realised how much social freedom it has given me, how the expected gender role I was indoctrinated to serve was no longer required and even "outlawed" as toxic. When feminism decreed that being gallant was a form of coercive action, that social etiquette was patriarchal privilege and any man being nice was trojan horse to get in their draws..., I took the que and threw of the shackles of social servitude, I was a free man. No requirement nor obligation to arrange and pay for dates, no social requirement nor obligation to arrange nor provide transport for any dates that may "happen", no social requirement nor obligation to pay for dates as this would offend a woman's autonomy, would seek to perceive them as incapable of having the financial means to pay for themselves. After all, it was modern feminism which was built on the removal of social and financial reliance on a man, for women to have their own, and be reliant on no man. Far be it for me to be the "White Knight to her rescue" when they made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that they don't need a man. Why would I go against their wisdom. Their wish, is my command. Like so many of the 80 - 85% of men who are invisible, I am but a ghost, a shadow on the wall, keeping my money, my mental health and my time to do with, as I please. YAY!! FEMINISM!!!
Understand the attitude entirely. I have had discussions with my husband of 27 happy years, that I choose anti-feminism, cause they're ruining things for all of us. I'm no submissive little pushover, and I have worked and ran my own household. That being said, I'm now a part of a partnership, where both of us absolutely HAVE to feel loved, valid, and heard. His happiness, is my happiness.
@@kathyandjeffdailey3455 This 4th wave feminism has opened a Pandora's Box they want to close, like trying to get the Genie back in the bottle AND blaming the Genie for refusing.
Thanks for this, you've flipped this feminism on its head to our advantage. I feel light hearted reading this idea. We can now thank feminism for our own emancipation from a life time of drudgery serving women's needs. I'm 55 and can only see this now. Appreciate your thoughts its a game changer for me, thank you brother
I'm in Australia. Do they still do 50/50 property settlements in the US? It's nominally the same here but the expectation of most women has become 60-80% in their favour and they are getting it. Theoretically the settlement should be 50/50 but there are now all-female legal firms that specialise in divorce cases and some even publicly claim to get 80% for the female clients. These divorce lawyers are mistresses of dirty tricks. The women boast about how much money they made from their divorce but can't understand why no man will date them (!!!!). It's a giant train wreck of their own making.
The public stupidity is astounding. Female divorce lawyers and judges, look at "Break-Dancing Dad"! Whilst in court, diverted to prison, for not having enough funds to pay extra costs incurred (he volutarily gave the wife 90%, so she could continue her lifestyle), the the man-hating judge pounced.
@@tabletalk33 Hard to say at the moment. I did look this up. Marriage rates have risen back to normal levels post COVID but if you take into account the catch-up from COVID then they really haven't. Recent figures (2023/2024) don't appear to be available but anecdotally people are talking about a massive downturn across the whole wedding industry - perhaps 20-30% and growing. Before marriage comes dating and there's little of that going on. Can you build a long-term relationship on Netflix? Perhaps. We'll see.
The divorce rate is 43% in the US. Would you get on an airplane if there was a 43% chance it was going to crash? I want to get married and have a family, but that is a huge risk.
Im 30 years old. I have never been able to afford a vacation that friends and other families go on. I've never gone on a cruise and never left my country. Was married for 8 years and divorced for 3. All this crap with modern women is depressing.
Live your own life, to your own values, forget about "Keeping up with the Jones's"! That is the modern consumerist shallowness that leads to this disaster we are all facing.
Brother, a man will lose money chasing women, but he will never lose women chasing money. Best advice ever for a MAN thinking of getting married or shacking up: DON'T GET INVOLVED. If you don't have something important in your life (purpose) that diverts your time from your woman, be ready for your woman to leave you.
Same here. Every girl I dated stayed around and treated me with respect when I spent less time with them and when I limited how much affection I gave them. All of them. I have never met a woman that respected me when I smothered them with affection. Not. Once. Even right now, I asked a gal out at work to coffee about a year ago. She flaked me twice before I kindly told her that I am no longer interested. She hated me for a year and now she's trying to get into my life. 2 words: Hell naw. I ain't going to play no push-pull game. You get ONE chance to jump onboard this express train. If you say no it's moving on. It ain't going to come back for you. You get one time to say yes. That's all. No more. I'd much rather prefer a woman that is humble and loves when I smother them and they reward that. But no woman respects that. Treat 'em like options and they'll love it.
Let me come back around and pretend like your willing to go along with it, about long enough to pound that cake then bounce. Then when they're asking what happened you can inform them the relationship train left last year, your recreational fun only at this point 🤷
I did the stay at home dad for a while. Compared to my job as a senior exec it was an ABSOLUTE vacation. TONS of spare time after kids, dishes, cleaning, cooking, etc.
My sister was a nurse for 6 years before having her first kid. She has since had 2 more kids and says being a stay at home mom/wife is the easiest thing she's ever done. I live alone i cook, clean, laundry, mow, have a full time job, and for a while even took classes. Never once was it "too hard" like modern women claim it to be.
@@frantheman1287 exactly. My mother had 7 kids she cared for. Plus our horses and pets. AND she baby sat for others for extra $. She told me it was a breeze compared to my fathers work and schedule. But she grew up during the depression & WW 2.
My grandmother raised 8 children, kept the house in order and worked on family farm. She never called herself a boss babe, or complained. The media has ruined society for both genders.
I 100% agree with you about the constant vacations. My issue is that love doesn’t seem to matter that much to women these days. I’ve had multiple good relationships end because I can’t travel. It doesn’t matter if our sex life & relationship is wonderful (their words), if I can’t get on a plane constantly it always ends. They just can’t sit still and have to be constantly entertained by shiny things it seems.
I’m 64. Today, a woman’s smile is like being invited to a party that ended 20 years ago. A party I wasn’t invited to in the past. Now the food is stale. The beer is flat, and everybody is gone. How can I be there and not be angry?
I came across this recently. TGI Friday's was the first "singles bar" opened in 1965. Meeting a woman in a public social/alcohol place is not yet 60 years old "Betty Friedan's book The Feminine Mystique: I don't think there was anything else like it at the time. Before TGI Fridays, four single twenty-five-year-old girls were not going out on Friday nights, in public and with each other, to have a good time. They went to people's apartments for cocktail parties or they might go to a real restaurant for a date or for somebody's birthday, but they weren't going out with each other to a bar for a casual dinner and drinks because there was no such place for them to go"
My grandparents born in 1904 met at a street dance, my grandfather met his first wife the same way. (She died in childbirth at 28 with their 4th). So yes they did meet at public/social places. I’d agree on the alcohol premise though.
We are so numb to years and years of shaming language & language that it doesn't matter what they say. Men are not going to change their minds on this anytime soon
My ex took 8 years of my life. Stop everything for her, friend, family, work. Paid everything, place to live, car. Cheating behind my back. I can clean my own house. I don't need that mess again. Solo and i do what i want when i want. Life's good.
snap your experience was exactly like mine I am scottish and married a foreign lady ..they are all the same so its not just america that has this problem its all of western culture
The real issue is child support and alimony can last 20 yrs, so choose wisely. A bad choice means you live in an apartment while she lives in your house for years.
Im a man in his 40s and I endorse this perogative. Never had a relationship and will never get one i suspect . No woman check all my boxes, and im ok with that. Good supportive men exist , they just aren't interested in what modern women they meet bring to the table. It's too one sided.
Ive been in 2 long term relationships in my life. 1st was 13 years, 2nd was 14 years. All i wanted was a kind, caring and supportive partner. I work my ass off and just wanted to find peace and happiness. It doesnt exist, im 41 years old, and im done.
I disagree Erin. What I learned through my divorce that she initiated; 1) Do not move her in with you. 2) Do not marry her. 3) Do not get her pregnant. If you don't marry, but you have children with her common law marriage laws vary between states, but child support, with all it's trappings, is universal. Per nups and contracts are useless. Many courts are rejecting them because woman have successfully argued that they did not fully understand the gravity of them when she signed it. With more and more activist judges sitting on the bench the cards are definitely stacked against men.
Re: Pre-Nuptials: Both parties much each pay for their own lawyer to advise them about the prenup . The prenup must be some time before the marriage date to avoid the "excuse of undue pressure/duress. Consult a reputable lawyer in this regard to avoid the prenup being "thrown out" during divorce procedure. Save your money in other ways as well! Do not succumb to tears/tantrums; these are RED FLAGS! Success; luck has nothing to do with it! Better yet: MGTOW
@@user-td9pg2vg8p Looking back it would have been prudent to skim some of the wages off the top before going into the joint account and keeping it in an unnamed private investment or in gold in the 50% likelihood of a divorce.
The top 4 reasons prenups get tossed out in court are all easily avoidable by hiring yourself a lawyer and your fiance her own lawyer. That being said marriage with the way laws currently are still sint worth it for men, we gain nothing but stand to lose everything
Lived on my own from 17-33 had a fantastic life, got married at 33, 4 years later divorced or on the way there, ended up homeless, then I did it 2 more times " fool me" Ended up homeless each time and the last time I was 60. I'm now 69 and luckily still have my health. My advice to young men is be single enjoy your life, buy one every now and then. Make sure your finances are kept in a relative's name who you trust. Believe me you will have no regrets.
I don’t know if thinking, wishing, or dreaming about them is even in the picture. 😢 All out avoidance,,,yeah. At least this way no drama, quarreling, etc. is guaranteed .
What absolutely no one is paying attention to, is the beginnings of an epidemic of suicide among men over the age of 60. They’ve been broken so many times, that they will either fall into some sort of addiction, become clinically depressed for the rest of their lives, or attempt suicide. It’s happening……
@@edheldude On the contrary - leftists/feminists in The West constantly get triggered by anime, call it sx-ist, want to censor it.. Why? Femnists want to normalize bad behavior from women. Anime presents an idealized standard of behavior for women. They don't want men getting any ideas and demanding those same standards in real life. It's the same thing as those "body-positivity" activists who made a big fuss about the "beach body ready" ad a few years ago. They don't want fit models held up as a standard of beauty because they'd have to compete with it.
Turn that anime addiction (not a negative btw) into you learning some Japanese and getting you a real 3D Japanese gf. Women overseas are still traditional. Sure there are some that are pretty feminist but I'd wager it's a 90/10 split.
marriage was an agreement between men and other men "i will not touch your wife if you do not touch my wife" it was based on honor between men. Men used to un alive each other over their wives.
Those 1950's housewives... how do you think American daytime television became an institution...? Soap operas and gossiping on the phone between 10 am and 3 pm. Says a lot about the downhill spiral over the last 60 years. The woman I ended up with took almost everything I had, once the mask came off it was like a horror movie.
Our friends are not like a girl's friend! We don't talk behind each other's backs, We Really wish them success, if we have a problem with each other we talk, You don't see men 😭 on social media about their issues. Girls are the exact opposite.
My ex divorced me and took everything, kids, home half my money and had no explanation. I was committed for life. Women have become an alien species we don't want. Someone poisoned the well.
I have been married 4 times now. My last wife left 12 months ago. I don't want her back. In all this time I have never had a wife who was committed to the marriage as much as I was. I always have worked and supported my wife and family, to the best of my ability, only to be abandoned, because it was never enough, they were bored, or wanted to be somewhere else, a case of "the grass is greener" excuses. I have never committed any act of DV, and always have simply done the best I could in a selfless way, always putting them first. I turned 65 last week, and I am alone, but Im tired and Im done with women, just living in peace, doing what I want and when. I wish I had of know about the traits of women many years ago.
The woman you marry will be a totally different woman when she divorces you .
I would phrase it like this "You go home from the wedding with someone you dont know"
The woman you marry is a fake version of herself, like the makeup is her fake version of what she looks like. The woman you divorce is the real woman.
Thats a fact!
YES!!!
Preach
We are not intimidated, we are disgusted.
So much this!
im not promiscious so idk why i would be with someone thats been promiscious, its pretty gross to me to be with someone thats been with someone else
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Women don't do word definitions very well. "Intimidated" is one of those words.
@@TheBestPill-no2xp Women: you are 'intimidated' by me.
Men: I don't think it means what you think it means.' (said in a spanish accent)
Women marry for a lifestyle, men marry for love.
No, men marry for their links in the multi-generational family chain.
@@briansorensen5102 Fleetwood Mac: "The Chain".
Not only. My wife also does all the chores. When I met her, I engaged her as my house manager.
I am so glad I don’t live in the USA
Women are beings. Men are doings.
I decided to break the mold. My neighbor is a divorced single father who has custody. He got cancer and had chemo. I started mowing his lawn when I noticed he was unable to do it anymore.
Brothers, let's watch out for each other.
Amen. You are a good neighbor. "Love thy neighbor as thyself". God Bless!
Good man!
For real, men really need to start making friends with other men. We can share our thoughts in real life that way. I don’t know why but it seems like we don’t even want to hang out with each other any more. What’s up with that?
@binarybob0010 very good observation! Be the change, brother!
@@binarybob0010 I agree with you and a.good place to meet nice guys to talk with is at mens bible study,dont let that word bible throw you, Do you see how often bible verses come up on utube that make.great sence,in a world that makes no sense. Try it you'll like it,if.you dont just keep on walking
Her: "Why is dating so hard today?"
Me: "Do you need a man?"
Her: "No."
Me: "Why would I want to invest everything into someone who doesn't need me?"
her post-30: "I need a man!!!"
@@SoloRenegadeI just hear "I proved the husband store joke!"
@@parrotshootist3004 exactly. I bring up the husband store joke constantly with modern women. they keep proving it to be 100% true, and not really a joke at all. Turns out, the Husband Store is a Philosophical Paradox (just like the trolley car), disguised as a joke.
THAT and about a dozen other reasons.
This year, that's pretty much been my litmus test for any woman that I'm even around. If their answer is "no", then I guess you don't need me to be around here in any way helping you, do you? The level of toxic that it takes to even say that... I really don't want to even be around anyone that would say that to my face.
Women wanted men to go away and leave them alone. Men listened.
We understand the assignment 😂
Im 75 yr old male and if I learned nothing else in life I learned that IT IS ALWAYS THE MAN'S FAULT! The accountability train rarely stops at the female stations.
That‘s not really an issue: just never accept any blame shifting, judgement and word gymnastics and leave them where they are
Women these days want the authority of a man but the accountability of a child.
I left my wife of 23 years once my kids moved out. My son will never get married, he said after watching what I went through, he will stay single.
I was married 26 years. My sons, three of them, saw what I had to go through and will never get married either. I even bent over backwards to keep the family together, and she ended up committing adultery and divorcing anyway. My boys saw it all. I told them to never accommodate a woman like I did, as they can see the results (I wasn't saying not to get married, by the way).
All young men are seeing around the world what our stepfathers and biological fathers had to go through as men we young men get it now we understand now the best thing for us to do is stay focused keep working out as a men to master your emotions as a men it also helps with keeping your body in shape and it helps the mind stay focused on goals so you don’t fall into trouble in your community stay strong kings 👑
My dad had 2 wives and several acquaintances. All they did was argue. No thanks.
@@prelude12341exactly I’m behind you brother 💯💪🏽
Then chances are your son is a wise guy. They say smart men learn from their own mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others. I'm hoping your son is the latter.
Getting serious with a single mother is the worst mistake a man can make.
A "friend" tried to fool me into that mistake, her friend had no accountability, simply sponge off another man.
Why?
I dated plenty of single mom's over the years. You just have to be honest with them from the start. In my case I told them I was not looking to get married and my life was setup as I wanted it. Some accepted, some did not. Either way that was their decision.
Women hoe around until they get old and knocked up. Then they want to settle. Let them shack up with a migrant. America has let out standards drop.
Absolutely!
Maybe not being tall is actually an advantage for men these days, if it keeps women away from them and saves them from a lot of grief.
See it as a benefit in the modern world. Tall, handsome blokes will just use them and toss them away like trash anyway. Who wants their trash? Not me!
Same goes for not dressing "flashy" or driving a brand new "flashy" car.
If they think you are poor, they won't even look your way.
Being a "grey man" has some definite advantages.
good point.
Im a physician and 5'9 very good looking ...I get girls hit on me daily....I run away
5'6" short king, been invisible for 74 years . The Peace & Freedom is amazing
There is a difference between being intimidated and being repulsed. Stay strong and independent people.
I've seen an increasing number of women over the last decade or so go from playing hard to get to hard to want. How many nose piercings and tattoos are they thinking is normal? I've begin seeing girls with double pierced noses - one in each nostril. The diamond stud might seem cool with your drunk but no guy has ever asked his girl to get one of those.
The unsmiling women who stare and engage in lasting eye contact but will not smile. They really think men want to approach that? They can't be engaging in such lasting eye contact unless they were hoping for something more. Women outside of the West will do the eye contact but also smile. So it isn't a _woman_ thing, it is a Western woman attitude to exhibit that prison scowl look.
Not so long ago, I refused to visit a former F-buddy of mine, who clearly wanted to spend that saturday with me to get her rocks off. Like so many times before. When she asked me for the 10th time "why not"? I said: I dont desire to drive in cross-sections where there are so much heavy traffic". This is not the sharpest of tools, so it took her about 15 secounds to understand that what I meant was that she had been riding the CC so violently recently, that I did not even want to F- her with a condom attached to my Johnson. It was that bad. And off course she was raving mad and told me to vanish. "Im way ahead of you", I said and hang up.
They know that we aren't intimidated. They just instinctively resort to shaming language when they aren't getting their way. What they haven't figured out yet is that the conversation is over when we hear "intimidated" or " insecure".
My ex divorced me and married the state because she felt she could get a better deal from them. They gave her our 'little home' and the judge requested a monthly child support that was less than I was paying her voluntarily. 'If only you had money' she said to my back as I walked out of our house. NOW, I live on a remote island in a home with 150 feet of private shoreline on a private pond and a five foot waterfall next to the house. The island is surrounded by miles and miles of Savannah/jungle. When I leave the place I drive a rare exotic roadster. I own my home and my car. I have no debt. I am statistically wealthier than 82% of my fellow Americans. Also freer, no one owns my future. She now lives in tenement housing. She lost the house.
Props to you for having a plan that ultimately worked in your favor. 👍
That is the difference between a plan and impulse gratifying.
I hope she is aware of how Karma treated you both! Oh the wailing and gnashing of teeth! Glad to see some justice prevails! Stay healthy and enjoy sir.
Marriage or not the state has ultimate control over what happens to the children.
mexico?
Women are not clueless; they just could not care-less.
I was an average guy for all my life. Average looks, height, income. I was invisible.
If the game is rigged, then it's good that i'm not even playing
The game was never designed for a men to win bottom line brother imagine all of the younger guys who woo have to deal with this in the future without seeing it coming like most older guys don’t see🤦♂️
I don't know your age but once you're in your peak earning years and retirement seems obtainable, you'll at least realize you can make it. No alimony, child support or student loan debt from an ex having eaten away at years of income. Not having children would likely be a regret. No harm in escaping the West.
@@ColonelHoganStalag13 Im 30 and yea I agree. Better find peace in solace than chaos in company.
same here, most women are avg. and they still reject avg. guys, they always want to trade up
"Ordinary Average Guy" (Joe Walsh, 1991)
Weddings are just fancy funerals with cake.
Excellent
More like being sentenced to prison time... without the chance of rape.
White Funeral
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Very true
Lol!😀❤️🎼
"Women need to call out other women".
That's how it used to be when I was a kid. Women in the community kept other women under control. No single mothers, no sleeping around, no divorces.
Well said
@TheRousler: I've felt, for a long time, that we need to bring shame back.
Women kept other women in check back in the day, because there was shame in being a promiscuous woman with kids out of wedlock. Now they're proud of it.
How come women are afraid of accountability now
And a lot of virgins.
When was that ... and on what planet?
Women can be hot at any age just by being sincere, loyal and honest. Dressing up like a street walker just makes them look like the opening to the Paris Olympics.
Excellent 👊
Hahaha! (to the sound of the populaar clip of the black guy laughing his head off).
The internet allowed men to get together and compare notes on their awful experiences with relationships. Prior to the internet most men would suffer in silence assuming that he was the only one in a miserable relationship because men tend not to want to speak ill of their wives to other men. I can't help but think that Al Bundy was the start of our great awakening! 😂
Who can forget the snappy comebacks like: "One, two, three, four, you will all fall thru the floor",
"I would, but my car has only half a tank of gas!"
Right on Al! Where are you when you're so needed now? Thanks for the laughs.
For a second I thought you texted Ted Bundy hahah 😂
@@obersveyourmind Apparently the "Bundy' surname was chosen as a result of Ted. They wanted the family to be awful in every way possible,
NO MA'AM lives again!
Lets.hereit for good old AL BUNDY (married with children)
I once net a Chinese woman about 2 decades ago who had only lived in America for about a year so she was still getting used to the culture and I was surprised at one thing she told me, "Western women are soooooo spoiled!". I thought, well, I guess it stands to reason. We've put them on a pedestal for so long and told them how sooooooo special they are in the world as women that its gone to their heads. We've written songs about them saying how soooooo special they are and hw we can't live without them, and as you mentioned, made special provisions to incorporate them into the workplace for the sake of equality and promoted them for the sake of having more female executives, given them raises, give them special loans to start their own businesses, given them custody of the kids and at least half of all the assets in divorces, buy their drinks for them at bars and clubs, coined the phrase "women are always right" and the list goes on and on. So, yeah, western women are in fact spoiled.
A man wants a partner, not a competitor.
Why can't women figure this out ? Its not hard to understand, its been like that forever.
They can't figure it out because they have been BRAINWASHED. The strange thing is that they seem to ENJOY it.
@eleveneleven572 : " *A man wants a partner, not a competitor.* "
And western women want a servant, not a partner.
I don‘t want my wife to be a partner, she should be a follower
@@avrahamzucker2605 So called "50/50" marriages are never successful and happy because they're contrary to nature. In every species on Earth that even has gender, the male dominates and the female submits to him.
It's even worse. it's not a competitor, it's a boss.
In the Bible Proverbs 31-10 it says a virtuous woman is worth far more than rubies. Why? Because even in those days it was hard to find a virtuous woman. It's even harder today!
The problem is not new, we were warned, time and time again.
Erin reading from The Brothers Grimm "Fairytales" and seeing it with new eyes!
The more things change the more they stay the same, and will always remain.
Who cares about what that monstrous, immoral book says?
They STARTED "DAY TIME TELEVISION" for them after inventing the Washer and dryer, Microwave, dishwasher, What WOMEN DID BUY HAND! SO Men invented These appliances for them. Then they started watching SOAP OPERAS and they started thinking that cheating was okay, and That's where everything went down the drain!
Wrong!
It went off the rails when Wyoming elected the first woman to Congress, AND soon thereafter, they got the vote.
I think the simplest explanation is this: Humanity has stepped away from the standards that God gave to mankind, regarding standards of relationships and sexuality, is why mankind is in the mess that it is in today.
If people would wait until marriage before engaging in sexual activity, and would stick to their partner, through the good and the bad, and if both partners would strive to apply the Bible's counsel on what it means to be a good husband and good father, or a good wife and mother, despite their imperfections, I think, I almost guarantee that a lot of the problems mankind is currently experiencing would not exist.
I think every single problem for the most part that mankind is facing today is because people think they know better than their creator, and insist on doing things their own way.
So many clips of dudes who got a taste of being a stay at home dad for a few days or weeks and them saying it was so easy 😂
Got a good point. Women thrive off drama. Not enough soap in the world will wash that away. :)
and then disco happened and it all was hell bound from that day.
The only way to win is not to play.
No ladies; we're not 'intimidated' 🤣🤣
Sad times for us men, ain't it?
@@davidpalmer7175 I'm not as sad as a man that's trapped in a relationship/house/life with someone that hates him and makes him walk on egg shells.
I'm happier than I've ever been and don't plan on running the risk of ruining that.
We are absolutely disgusted... because their soul and spirit is SO ADULTERATED that IT CAN NEVER ALIGN WITH US as they CONTINOUSLY go back to the graveyard of many ex's from the past. No saving them now. Let them crash out.
@@davidpalmer7175Big balls tough guys never had easy lives use the pain as strength
mgtow: we don't recruit.
True: they just turn up.
Women recruit for us.
Wouldn't want the recruiters to be deprived of a role.
MGTOW is a philosophy and lifestyle. It's like saying vegans are recruiting. What are they being recruited to do?
@@victorvazquez5439 ...Vegans recruit.
Im 58, a couple of years ago i had to do a college course, a lot of young lads there werent interested in relationships and when i asked why the common response was " i saw what my mum did to my dad in divorce",
Wow. That's so sad. But I understand...
Moms destroyed everyone’s daughters
When a man gets married, he is betting his entire financial future that he has picked the right person. And, statistically speaking, he hasn't.
After reading Esther Vilar's; 'The manipulated man', I will never look at women the same again. MGTOW 'til I die!
Amen to that! MGTOW for last 26 years!
I read that book in 1976, it was written in 1971. True then, true now, true always.
Right on, long live the MGTOW MOVEMENT. I am a GEN-X MAN and i fully support this movement.
I don’t want to be responsible for someone’s happiness
For sure.. I see that many women understand what you just said... Not a single reply... That says a lot about them understanding us... Good stuff man, good stuff.. Maybe on day they will.. Greetings bro...
If you don't have something important in your life (purpose) that diverts your time from your woman, be ready for your woman to leave you.
Than you are doing women a favor by not being in a relationship with one.
For anyone, regardless of their gender or their partner's gender, you are at the minimum partially responsible for your partner's happiness in a healthy relationship. For those that can't accept that, yes, they shouldn't be in a relationship.
Anytime I hear a woman say, I'm bored.........I'm out....
@@WolfLykaiosfunny, I don’t mind helping out my friends, supporting them when they are under the weather, being there for them when they are in need, because my friends are otherwise responsible for themselves and take responsibility for their happiness and general emotional health. That’s not often the case with a girlfriend or wife. That’s what this guy is referring to when he says he doesn’t want to be [fully] responsible for another person’s happiness.
No thanks "ladies " I'm good. I hear there's cats looking for a new home.
And in the end: a nice meal.
@@Sydebern Thanks for my literal LOL for today!
No one was offering anything. But go off I guess.
A man will have absolutely nothing, but he'll have audacity.
And bears.
😼
Jack Nicholson. “How do you write women so well?” “I think of a man and take away reason and accountability”
Best quote ever!!
I have never once been physically , mentally ,or intellectually intimidated by any woman . Not one single solitary time . I have been absolutely repulsed by attitude, behavior , and lack of morals in more women than I'm able to count .
Ditto!
FACT!
IDK some of those women trying to be intimidating, if you stop and think about it for too long you might die of laughter.
Jagged teeth is the only thing that intimidates me about woman.
I've had over 20 gfs in my life and 2 fiances. I've got to be honest here, I only really liked being around 4 of them... And it still wasn't worth it
Why'd you commit to them then?? That's on you, my guy.
Why did you even make a girlfriend if you didn't like them? Only for sex imo
@@edheldude first one was highschool sweetheart. Everything good until it wasn't. Second one I was turning 30 and she was 20. Very committed, intelligent and sweet girl. This was before I knew anything about red pill almost 10 years ago. Tried to "do the right thing".
wow
After a 30+ year marriage that ended because she lost the "feels", I'm firmly MGTOW. Maybe the next generation of women will be better than this one.
Pretty sure the next gen are the worse women ever
@@mkwhole absolutely
They're worse !!
End of the world by 2050 as far as water becoming scarce at that point so yup. Enjoy the 25 years we have on this Earth/REAL LIFE LOGAN'S RUN. INNOVATE TO ZERO.
@@fixcpu nah...water is not a problem...and never will be...dessalinization is pretty advanced now and will be even more in the future...and cheaper
A young woman wanted me to take her for a ride on my motorcycle! She told me I was going to this, told me I was going to that, how I was going to do it! No kidding I looked at her and shook my head! I told her I’m not buying you a helmet to fit your head, I’m not buying you riding leathers! She’s a waitress, I just shook my head and left! The absolute gall, the absolute disrespect. I was married 42 years to a full blown Narcissist and didn’t know it, or didn’t understand folks were like this were identifiable as personality type! She committed adultery several times, tried to deny it, however I have the proof and am done with the lying, the deceit, the theft, the misrepresentation of me. MGTOW, now, I’m so very happy alone! Peace be with you!
Please understand that in Britain, a female takes everything in a divorce, not 50%.
I have nothing of the life I led up to that point. She took and destroyed everything, including photos, childhood possessions, and a lifetime of very hard and dangerous work.
Now, she lives in isolation and stews in her own misery. To that, I say Amen, so be it.
How does it work in Britain exactly? Did you not get 50-50 custody?
@PB22559 Absolutely not! I was told to leave my home, which I struggled to pay for, and that if I didn't, then I'd be arrested and put in prison. Britain is a totalitarian state, and any excuse is used to rob you of everything . A friend of mine even had his business taken away from him and given to his ex-wife . She, of course, got her reward in full, but she is now dead, having departed at the age of 60. The wages of sin is death.
Ouch!
Doesn't even have to be a divorce, she might be sectioned, under the Mental Health Act (1983) and treated without their agreement.
I was married under German marriage law and divorced under Canadian marriage law. The difference cost me 1/2 Million Can. $.
At the German law,what each party owed before marriage will stay with you. What was gained during marriage must be split, regardless who earned it.
Yes misery but with Al, your money…
My woman and I are best friends. Our children are grown adults with lives of their own. She puts me above everyone. Her friends, her family and the children. I put her above everything as well. This is where so many women get things messed up. They expect a man to put her and the children above everything, while she puts him dead last. He should be put above the children unless it comes to the safety of the children and then they both put the children first. But, if it is not a safety issue, the children should not be put first.
My ex put her friends first, preschool, highschool, university, workfriends, constantly meeting other women in evenings. Then kids first and our marriage dead last. You know the end of that story..
1 Corinthians 11:3
If you don't have something important in your life (purpose) that diverts your time from your woman, be ready for your woman to leave you.
@tabletalk33 you are correct, a man needs to have a purpose and that purpose should be something that enables him to take care of his responsibilities. But, his woman should be putting him first. If she does not, he should leave her. A woman is a man's help mate. Her purpose should be helping him succeed. My woman must earn her place at my side. If she doesn't, then I do not want her.
You are definitely a shining star in a sea of dim wits. Thank you for sharing your channel.
Truth
simp
she's just acting like a chameleon for clicks (money, attention)! Please see the reality, female nature is unchangeable!
Instagram dim wits that clone themselves
What a simp
Men: "What do you bring to the table?" Women: "I am the table." Men: "Bye"
After two divorces, this Gen X'er chooses me. I had to rebuild twice and the fact I didn't blow my brains out is considered a win...
Did the punk feel lucky?
@@stpfs9281 Well, do ya?
Im 67, divorced. I own my own home now, and my 2 motorcycles, and my truck and 9 guitars, and several amps. I have dawgs that love me unconditionally. I play music with my buddies, and go to Church on Sundays alone but have many frinds when I get there. My X is miserable in her next marriage. A Godless liberal. LMAO!! Thank you, God!! Forever yours.
Bravo Patriot !
Pater Noster 🙏
Or, as I'm fond of saying, "The 'squeeze' isn't worth the juice."
Well, that's dumb. The juice is on the bottom of the dumpster.
I promise you this woman is single. The people pleasers are not even interesting to men for long.
Men want women to fight with which is why they focus on feminists instead and not agreeable people pleasing women. 😂
I had a woman employee come right out and said "He's going to find out exactly who I am once I get that wedding ring on my hand."
Start telling women. I don't believe in love... anymore... at least real love for men. Cuz they got none. Most won't even care if you say it anyway cuz they're not "humane" like ya think... if you see the matrix for what it is...
A MAN'S IRON LAW: NEVER date a woman from your workplace. "Men should be like Kleenex. Soft, strong, and disposable."
-Cher
Hope you told her bf/fiance, if he still went through with it that's on him
??? If I heard someone say that, I'd probably never leave the house again!
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for someone else. But I've come to understand that there's always a solution to problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were close to divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was tough, but we survived.
I truly want to find happiness as well. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to make things right.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
Welcome... You should.
I turn 44 this month, can confirm that the juice is not worth the squeeze - keep your own place and keep women for recreational use only - DO NOT cohabitate, Kings.
I realized the women I was interested in are either unattainable or do not exist, and that was one reason of many why after my divorce I stopped looking.
To win, you must overpay (energy and time wise), so even if you get what you want, you'll feel it's a bad deal.
My mantra: DON'T GET INVOLVED.
Women are allergic to wedding rings, as soon as you put one on them they swell up
wedding ring; swell-up? Yeah, and wedding cake leads to fake female impotency!
That promotes hypergamy as well!
LOL YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!!!!
Women like tall dark, handsome, and successful. Always been a small percentage of men.
Men like feminine, fit and friendly. A small percentage of women today.
Not if you expand your horizons to overseas. Women there are still fit, feminine, friendly, and less likely to be feminists
There is no such thing as a perfect man to women. That famous soccer player had his wife leave him because he was 'too perfect'...imagine that? Tom Brady's wife left him. Women are see 'situations', not consequences. A woman is a man who is devoid of reason and accountability, they should NEVER be put in charge of anything. As it is written, a woman should NEVER be in any position of authority over a man.
Remember my brothers ( I’ve said this many times ). A parasite needs a host, the host doesn’t need a parasite.
This can be applied to everything in life. Women included.
A man will lose money chasing women, but he will never lose women chasing money.
I have rarely heard females take accountability.
I have been married for 49 years to the same woman and knew her for 1 years & 8 months before getting married at 20 years old. She has accepted accountability exactly 5 times in our lifetime together. 3 of those times were when we were dating so please define rarely to me please. We haven’t even had sex for over two decades. I analyzed the cost benefit and decided it was indeed “cheaper to keep her”. As it turns out it was a good decision because since I retired at age 65 I have been sick with AML. Now in a wheelchair she has taken care of me quite well over the past 4 years and has become a good wife.
@@HanktheTank221 That's a lot 5 for a woman.
I think you spelled "never" wrong.
I'm 79 and have been single since 1991, and I've become very protective of my MGTOW lifestyle. When I get up in the morning I can belch, fart, and scratch without a chick bitching at me. Life is good.
Hell yeah it is, nothing better my Baby boomer Bro. All men no matter what the generation need to support this movement. 😁👍
A massage for stubborn women:"A bad day for the ego is a good day for the soul"
The funniest part about boss babes is that they think that men are actually afraid of them . Nobody is afraid of them , we are laughing at them , they don't realize how much they are screwing themselves over in a long run . They are basing their whole personality based off of a single fact that them being rude , unbearable and obnoxious is giving them professional results that they want , then that type of behavior is also going to give them the romantic/marriage results that they want . Let me tell you , you bring that behavior to the house , and you'll be living in one empty house .
Hyperinflation will have them BEGGING... just for a CAN OF BEANS.
Yep. The typical "boss babe" is a sadistic monster.
I will say I am afraid of the power their lies hold. I mean one false r*pe accusation and your life is almost all but over.
You know why men don't say we need to defeat the matriarchy? Because it defeats itself.
THE FACT IS THAT IF YOU SAW YOUR DAD OR YOUR UNCLE OR YOUR BROTHER RAN THROUGH THE COURTS AND HALF HIS LIFE TAKEN FROM HIM YOU ARENT SIGNING UP FOR THAT.
We hear you, no need to shout! :)
I live in Colorado and Me and my Wife didn't get married because WE didn't want the Government involved. But they DID, COMMON LAW MARRIAGE, So we were together for 9.5 years " Common Law" Until she died and it was tax season, She had a Couple Thousand dollars coming back, but I couldn't get the money for her because We Were Not Married??? But for 10 years any bill's, Mortgage, lights, etc. We were Husband and Wife.
It's satan's kingdom- always expect it to be evil and twisted.
If I was going to get married my ideal would be a church wedding and the signing of a church registry of marriage with no gov't marriage license and nuptial signing. Gov't involvement in marriage is a relatively recent occurrence.
@@johnc.8298 it is evil by design. Why? Because it flips the power and authority given to the man and gives it to the woman, Genesis 3 curse
in TX you have only 3 conditions to be common law married, check your state laws and see if you meet them, if you do, see a lawyer, you might still get that money
Funny how that works. Had you 2 wanted to separate, I'm sure daddy government would've made you get a divorce and send some money their way. Sorry for your loss!!
I just need a flux capacitor so I can go to the 1950s and find my ideal woman.
Getting a passport is easier
27:00 To be a man, is to be alone in the world.
Because with God we can do almost anything
Responsibility without Authority is slavery. If a man is expected to take responsibility he needs to have the authority.
Only rooster can crow and fight for his flock; all hens may cackle and raise chicks. Each complements the other= good family/flock.
All else = Woke B.S. Laws!
If there is no other way left: decline to kow-tow to their game. Tchau, MGTOW
That's how it works with military and politics. That's how it works, and women wanna ignore that truth. Grown toddlers with boobs !!
In ancient times in Rome, for example, the father had absolute power and authority over his family. NO IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS. If you saw the mini-series "Rome," (which was really great!) one of the characters (an ex soldier) finds out that his current wife had murdered and replaced his ex-wife. The moment he found out, he strangled her, carried her outside and down the road to a muddy ditch, and threw her in it and walked away. Nobody questioned it, nobody dared to interfere. It was NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS. That was the Roman custom, and that was that.
Amen 🤙
I took care of my girlfriend from high school for 45 years and she found somebody who made more money on Facebook. I then married another woman thinking she was a Christian for 10 years and she just wanted to pay all the bills for her and their entire family of three kids and a grandkids. I’m done being used.
Proverbs 31 implies that a virtuous woman is hard to find
Ecclesiastes 7:28 speaks on it.
So do "The Brothers Grimm".
Taking something that isn’t yours is called theft
And taking it under threat of imprisonment is called taxation
That makes Family Court a theft factory designed to destroy and steal from man.
You can't change a 304 into a housewife.
The call of the streets will always be stronger than any love, security, and loyalty a man can ever offer.
I am mid fifties, twice divorced. Modern hook up culture and anti man culture has put most women in the recreation category sadly and I am not interested in sleeping with low value women. I’m currently staying single and not dating. Own everything, no debt, peace and solitude. 🤷♂️
I agree completely and have said for a long time now. If a woman insists on getting married and is willing to end the relationship over it, she's more interested in his money than him. If a woman really loves a guy, she wouldn't want him to enter into a situation that's famous for strongly favoring her while destroying him. That's not love, it's exploitation.
For modern western women marriage is a get rich quick scheme and an accessory. They're more interested in flaunting the wedding than being actually married
The jig is up. We know the truth.
No more bs or silly games.
C-ya.
Education is a wonderful thing. Something good has come out of "social" media.
A pleasure to listen to an intelligent woman with great heart, so rare today.
I stopped hating on this modern feminism, last year, when I realised how much social freedom it has given me, how the expected gender role I was indoctrinated to serve was no longer required and even "outlawed" as toxic. When feminism decreed that being gallant was a form of coercive action, that social etiquette was patriarchal privilege and any man being nice was trojan horse to get in their draws..., I took the que and threw of the shackles of social servitude, I was a free man. No requirement nor obligation to arrange and pay for dates, no social requirement nor obligation to arrange nor provide transport for any dates that may "happen", no social requirement nor obligation to pay for dates as this would offend a woman's autonomy, would seek to perceive them as incapable of having the financial means to pay for themselves. After all, it was modern feminism which was built on the removal of social and financial reliance on a man, for women to have their own, and be reliant on no man. Far be it for me to be the "White Knight to her rescue" when they made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that they don't need a man. Why would I go against their wisdom. Their wish, is my command. Like so many of the 80 - 85% of men who are invisible, I am but a ghost, a shadow on the wall, keeping my money, my mental health and my time to do with, as I please. YAY!! FEMINISM!!!
They say 'if it Flies or Floats, it is cheaper to rent.' I think they should add another 'F'.
@@MichaelWilliams-ph4riFaints?
Understand the attitude entirely. I have had discussions with my husband of 27 happy years, that I choose anti-feminism, cause they're ruining things for all of us. I'm no submissive little pushover, and I have worked and ran my own household. That being said, I'm now a part of a partnership, where both of us absolutely HAVE to feel loved, valid, and heard. His happiness, is my happiness.
@@kathyandjeffdailey3455 This 4th wave feminism has opened a Pandora's Box they want to close, like trying to get the Genie back in the bottle AND blaming the Genie for refusing.
Thanks for this, you've flipped this feminism on its head to our advantage. I feel light hearted reading this idea. We can now thank feminism for our own emancipation from a life time of drudgery serving women's needs. I'm 55 and can only see this now. Appreciate your thoughts its a game changer for me, thank you brother
I'm in Australia. Do they still do 50/50 property settlements in the US? It's nominally the same here but the expectation of most women has become 60-80% in their favour and they are getting it. Theoretically the settlement should be 50/50 but there are now all-female legal firms that specialise in divorce cases and some even publicly claim to get 80% for the female clients. These divorce lawyers are mistresses of dirty tricks. The women boast about how much money they made from their divorce but can't understand why no man will date them (!!!!). It's a giant train wreck of their own making.
Yea it's 50/ 50 generally.
When the Chinese invade Australia, they will give the women the justice they deserve
The public stupidity is astounding.
Female divorce lawyers and judges, look at "Break-Dancing Dad"! Whilst in court, diverted to prison, for not having enough funds to pay extra costs incurred (he volutarily gave the wife 90%, so she could continue her lifestyle), the the man-hating judge pounced.
Are marriage rates declining in Australia?
@@tabletalk33 Hard to say at the moment. I did look this up. Marriage rates have risen back to normal levels post COVID but if you take into account the catch-up from COVID then they really haven't. Recent figures (2023/2024) don't appear to be available but anecdotally people are talking about a massive downturn across the whole wedding industry - perhaps 20-30% and growing. Before marriage comes dating and there's little of that going on. Can you build a long-term relationship on Netflix? Perhaps. We'll see.
The divorce rate is 43% in the US. Would you get on an airplane if there was a 43% chance it was going to crash? I want to get married and have a family, but that is a huge risk.
Surrogacy?
Good point .
I thought it was higher!
Im 30 years old. I have never been able to afford a vacation that friends and other families go on. I've never gone on a cruise and never left my country. Was married for 8 years and divorced for 3. All this crap with modern women is depressing.
Live your own life, to your own values, forget about "Keeping up with the Jones's"!
That is the modern consumerist shallowness that leads to this disaster we are all facing.
Brother, a man will lose money chasing women, but he will never lose women chasing money. Best advice ever for a MAN thinking of getting married or shacking up: DON'T GET INVOLVED. If you don't have something important in your life (purpose) that diverts your time from your woman, be ready for your woman to leave you.
Same here.
Every girl I dated stayed around and treated me with respect when I spent less time with them and when I limited how much affection I gave them. All of them. I have never met a woman that respected me when I smothered them with affection. Not. Once.
Even right now, I asked a gal out at work to coffee about a year ago. She flaked me twice before I kindly told her that I am no longer interested. She hated me for a year and now she's trying to get into my life.
2 words: Hell naw. I ain't going to play no push-pull game. You get ONE chance to jump onboard this express train. If you say no it's moving on. It ain't going to come back for you. You get one time to say yes. That's all. No more.
I'd much rather prefer a woman that is humble and loves when I smother them and they reward that. But no woman respects that. Treat 'em like options and they'll love it.
💯
Smothering isn't a good thing I wouldn't want a girl that wants my attention 24/7 but I get what you mean
@@city_of_coompton6832 smother was a bad word, I agree. Effort would probably be a better word. The less effort, the more respect.
Let me come back around and pretend like your willing to go along with it, about long enough to pound that cake then bounce. Then when they're asking what happened you can inform them the relationship train left last year, your recreational fun only at this point 🤷
@@rowdybroomstick6394 Ok dude
The last straw was when they started using terms like “emotional labor” and “domestic labor” 😂 we’re like alright this is too much we’re out.
I feel a woman covered in tattoos ls a low-level woman, and tattoos are extremely expensive.
I did the stay at home dad for a while. Compared to my job as a senior exec it was an ABSOLUTE vacation. TONS of spare time after kids, dishes, cleaning, cooking, etc.
My sister was a nurse for 6 years before having her first kid. She has since had 2 more kids and says being a stay at home mom/wife is the easiest thing she's ever done. I live alone i cook, clean, laundry, mow, have a full time job, and for a while even took classes. Never once was it "too hard" like modern women claim it to be.
@@frantheman1287 exactly. My mother had 7 kids she cared for. Plus our horses and pets. AND she baby sat for others for extra $. She told me it was a breeze compared to my fathers work and schedule. But she grew up during the depression & WW 2.
My grandmother raised 8 children, kept the house in order and worked on family farm. She never called herself a boss babe, or complained. The media has ruined society for both genders.
I 100% agree with you about the constant vacations. My issue is that love doesn’t seem to matter that much to women these days. I’ve had multiple good relationships end because I can’t travel. It doesn’t matter if our sex life & relationship is wonderful (their words), if I can’t get on a plane constantly it always ends. They just can’t sit still and have to be constantly entertained by shiny things it seems.
The juice really isn’t worth the squeeze. All women expect the same squeeze because they think they’re all a 10 but most aren’t.
I’m 64. Today, a woman’s smile is like being invited to a party that ended 20 years ago. A party I wasn’t invited to in the past. Now the food is stale. The beer is flat, and everybody is gone. How can I be there and not be angry?
I came across this recently. TGI Friday's was the first "singles bar" opened in 1965. Meeting a woman in a public social/alcohol place is not yet 60 years old
"Betty Friedan's book The Feminine Mystique:
I don't think there was anything else like it at the time. Before TGI Fridays, four single twenty-five-year-old girls were not going out on Friday nights, in public and with each other, to have a good time. They went to people's apartments for cocktail parties or they might go to a real restaurant for a date or for somebody's birthday, but they weren't going out with each other to a bar for a casual dinner and drinks because there was no such place for them to go"
My grandparents born in 1904 met at a street dance, my grandfather met his first wife the same way. (She died in childbirth at 28 with their 4th). So yes they did meet at public/social places. I’d agree on the alcohol premise though.
We are so numb to years and years of shaming language & language that it doesn't matter what they say. Men are not going to change their minds on this anytime soon
Right. MEN are on strike.
My ex took 8 years of my life. Stop everything for her, friend, family, work. Paid everything, place to live, car. Cheating behind my back. I can clean my own house. I don't need that mess again. Solo and i do what i want when i want. Life's good.
snap your experience was exactly like mine I am scottish and married a foreign lady ..they are all the same so its not just america that has this problem its all of western culture
@@josephberrie9550 they want everything, but most time bring nothing. What men want is pretty easy.
The real issue is child support and alimony can last 20 yrs, so choose wisely. A bad choice means you live in an apartment while she lives in your house for years.
It's better to want what you don't have, than have what you don’t want!
Your videos remind me that there are sane, virtuous women. You give me hope. Thank you.
Im a man in his 40s and I endorse this perogative. Never had a relationship and will never get one i suspect . No woman check all my boxes, and im ok with that. Good supportive men exist , they just aren't interested in what modern women they meet bring to the table. It's too one sided.
Ive been in 2 long term relationships in my life. 1st was 13 years, 2nd was 14 years. All i wanted was a kind, caring and supportive partner. I work my ass off and just wanted to find peace and happiness. It doesnt exist, im 41 years old, and im done.
There will be no change until we create new ramification for family laws.
Imagine going through life banking on someone else for a pension plan 😂 wtf bro
In America, about half the population does just that.
Start your own pension early (when it's cheaper to do so).
Women get their nails done (which might last a few weeks).
Possibly similar amounts?
Women who are wives get wifed up by 25 or earlier .*😊🙏🏻*
I disagree Erin.
What I learned through my divorce that she initiated;
1) Do not move her in with you.
2) Do not marry her.
3) Do not get her pregnant.
If you don't marry, but you have children with her common law marriage laws vary between states, but child support, with all it's trappings, is universal.
Per nups and contracts are useless. Many courts are rejecting them because woman have successfully argued that they did not fully understand the gravity of them when she signed it.
With more and more activist judges sitting on the bench the cards are definitely stacked against men.
Re: Pre-Nuptials: Both parties much each pay for their own lawyer to advise them about the prenup . The prenup must be some time before the marriage date to avoid the "excuse of undue pressure/duress. Consult a reputable lawyer in this regard to avoid the prenup being "thrown out" during divorce procedure. Save your money in other ways as well! Do not succumb to tears/tantrums; these are RED FLAGS! Success; luck has nothing to do with it! Better yet: MGTOW
@@user-td9pg2vg8p Looking back it would have been prudent to skim some of the wages off the top before going into the joint account and keeping it in an unnamed private investment or in gold in the 50% likelihood of a divorce.
@@user-td9pg2vg8p "Some time before marriage" is open to debate.
The top 4 reasons prenups get tossed out in court are all easily avoidable by hiring yourself a lawyer and your fiance her own lawyer. That being said marriage with the way laws currently are still sint worth it for men, we gain nothing but stand to lose everything
Lived on my own from 17-33 had a fantastic life, got married at 33, 4 years later divorced or on the way there, ended up homeless, then I did it 2 more times " fool me"
Ended up homeless each time and the last time I was 60.
I'm now 69 and luckily still have my health.
My advice to young men is be single enjoy your life, buy one every now and then.
Make sure your finances are kept in a relative's name who you trust.
Believe me you will have no regrets.
I don’t know if thinking, wishing, or dreaming about them is even in the picture. 😢
All out avoidance,,,yeah. At least this way no drama, quarreling, etc. is guaranteed .
Disregard mode is the optimal option.
What absolutely no one is paying attention to, is the beginnings of an epidemic of suicide among men over the age of 60. They’ve been broken so many times, that they will either fall into some sort of addiction, become clinically depressed for the rest of their lives, or attempt suicide. It’s happening……
I watch a lot of anime then get sad 3D women aren't as modest, compassionate and honorable as anime girls.
Don't consume media and especially don't create expectations based on escapist media.
That's because anime, mostly, is written by men...and men know what other men want women to be like.
@@williamoneil9787 It's exploitative just like men using OF/camgirls to say exactly what men want to hear.
@@edheldude On the contrary - leftists/feminists in The West constantly get triggered by anime, call it sx-ist, want to censor it.. Why? Femnists want to normalize bad behavior from women. Anime presents an idealized standard of behavior for women. They don't want men getting any ideas and demanding those same standards in real life. It's the same thing as those "body-positivity" activists who made a big fuss about the "beach body ready" ad a few years ago. They don't want fit models held up as a standard of beauty because they'd have to compete with it.
Turn that anime addiction (not a negative btw) into you learning some Japanese and getting you a real 3D Japanese gf. Women overseas are still traditional. Sure there are some that are pretty feminist but I'd wager it's a 90/10 split.
marriage was an agreement between men and other men "i will not touch your wife if you do not touch my wife" it was based on honor between men. Men used to un alive each other over their wives.
Those 1950's housewives... how do you think American daytime television became an institution...? Soap operas and gossiping on the phone between 10 am and 3 pm. Says a lot about the downhill spiral over the last 60 years.
The woman I ended up with took almost everything I had, once the mask came off it was like a horror movie.
Our friends are not like a girl's friend! We don't talk behind each other's backs, We Really wish them success, if we have a problem with each other we talk, You don't see men 😭 on social media about their issues. Girls are the exact opposite.
Yes, it's really strange, odd, the opposite.
Men $hit on eachother but never mean it, women complement eachother but never mean it. We're different
My ex divorced me and took everything, kids, home half my money and had no explanation. I was committed for life.
Women have become an alien species we don't want. Someone poisoned the well.
One thing i was told when i was younger, is that, women will NEVER love a man the way a man loves a woman.
30:30 A wise man who wants to have children should get a surrogate and raise the children as a single father.
I'm pretty much at that point, but a surrogate is super expensive.
@@drugmoney4996 Just wait until you find out how expensive weddings, wedding ring, divorce, alimony and child support are.
This. 100%
@@drugmoney4996 If you think surrogate is expensive, you'll love diamond ring, wedding, wife, divorce, child support and alimony.
I have been married 4 times now. My last wife left 12 months ago. I don't want her back. In all this time I have never had a wife who was committed to the marriage as much as I was. I always have worked and supported my wife and family, to the best of my ability, only to be abandoned, because it was never enough, they were bored, or wanted to be somewhere else, a case of "the grass is greener" excuses. I have never committed any act of DV, and always have simply done the best I could in a selfless way, always putting them first.
I turned 65 last week, and I am alone, but Im tired and Im done with women, just living in peace, doing what I want and when. I wish I had of know about the traits of women many years ago.