You can’t blame Ben for not wanting to get dragged into Jenny from the block’s shenanigans especially if they’re being tied to Diddy. Personally I don’t think the woman can be trusted, period!
Ben the serial Groper initiated a reunion with her in 2021 knowing Diddy was trying to involve Jlo in his lies just because they dated. She's not involved in his criminal activity it's just Diddy's friends trying to involve her again.
Ben only has 150 million, JLO 400 million they didn't sign a prenup. Now Ben want a piece of the pie from JLO.... they are making an agreemnt. But it's taking forever....
Do you know her personally? Can you be trusted? Stop talking so much b.s. please. Could be you next. Or one of your family members, friends, or acquaintances. You never, never know. Don't be so judgemental/jerkmental. 😂😂😂
You would think that wouldn't you, Garner has allowed Their daughter Violet spend time with JLo on two occasions apparently without Ben's knowledge, you'd think J Garner could discourage her daughter doing so or telling JLO to stop it....its awkward for Ben to say leave my kids alone, better for their mother to say something especially while her Diddy involvement is all public.
I’m shocked no one else made this connection. Literally, they broke up as soon as news came out that jlo was involved with the shooting. But no one made that connection. So weird
The police has ignored her never approached her once there is no investigation into her only Diddy, they raided his home and there was the tape of him beating Cassie. It's P Diddy's friends who are making up lies about her.
@@druseyfirecaster3675 Don't get triggered by someone trying to defend someone who is being bullied there should be more people like that. It's not about assuming the worst you don't even know her, nor have you watched her over the years alot of people are jumping on the hate train and without even knowing her. So, tell me what do you know, because I can assure you, I know the whole story and you don't first look up the whole story without prejudice then come back. You really don't know do you that's the bottom line you just want to hate.
The FBI would not show a civilian classified information, so their separation is not about Diddy it's about something else the truth will come out when nothing is said.
I am from/live in WV (about 50 miles from Charleston, the home town of Jennifer Garner). I’m not her “bestie” but I’ve met her a few times at 5K’s, clean up events, etc. Point of sharing this is that she & her family are VERY down to earth. IF JLo were involved in the Diddy mess, I would not at all be shocked if she told Ben to keep that mess away from their daughter. That’s simply my opinion, but I could absolutely see that as a reason to motivate Ben to reassess the situation.
Interesting how Diddy is almost the only ex JLo stayed close to, in addition to the father of the twins & Affleck (because she always hoped to get back with him). The rest of the million men she's been with, she completely cheated, ghosted & threw them away like trash. She has a secret shady past with Diddy & they both made sure to keep things tight between them. They have a special bond based on a gross & criminal past.
You are delusional she hasn't talked to Diddy in years they were never close after she dumped him in 1999 when she found out about his illegal activity. The whole truth will come out anyway when police keep ignoring her proving her innocence.
@@alinao1481 JLo stayed with Diddy for more than a year after the shooting. Does that not count as dangerous or potential criminal activity enough? She knows he shot people but got cleared and someone else took the fall. It's impossible that she didn't know or see a lot of things. She even accepted his repeated cheating until she had enough and left him when she had a new guy ready to be with, coming out in public in a short time with that backup dancer. Diddy only "respected" JLo because she was Tommy Mottola's muse. She had higher protection by a more powerful man. And they did talk. She filmed a dance challenge and they were talking like good old pals. Also, info has come out that Ben found out she kept in touch with Diddy and even had some business or payment deals with some lawyers with him. The timing of everything is very telling, to say the least.
@@aalucyaf-zp5ut Even if that were true Cassie also stayed with Diddy a long time knowing his criminality it looks like he threatens people. She left him right after the nightclub incident when you google it says she broke up with him when she was aware of his criminal activity but to me you seem like a hater if she was being cheated on it's not her fault, I guess you don't get that, and she didn't already have Judd she met him a while after but she was a victim and the truth will come out. If she had been involved and there were tapes, do you think the police would be ignoring her? Diddy is the one getting in trouble while the police leave her alone does that not tell you something?
@@alinao1481 Cassie? A victim of abuse, with no money, no power, no protection, will most definitely stay in an endless vicious cycle of never being able to leave her abuser. You can't compare Cassie with JLo. Jeez. JLo was already famous and was under the protection of TOMMY MOTTOLA, who she also dated. He launched her to stardom to screw Mariah Carey. Diddy wouldn't mess with Mottola.
Ben's friends said the beginning of the end was when she became the spokesperson of her own alcoholic drinks when she knows Ben almost lost everything from alcoholism. She tried to tell Ben how to drink socially even though she's said for decades she Never drinks!
That’s how selfish JLo really is! She could’ve at least came out w/ her own line of Snapple juices.🤦🏾♀️ It’s always all about her and what she wants and not even considering her own husband.
It wouldn't surprise me if JLo tried to get Ben drinking again. That would be a great excuse for her to divorce him so she can jump on her next victim and get a new engagement ring for her collection.
I gave up alcohol to support my partner who had a serious drink problem. I know for sure it's made all the difference me giving it up at the same time, 2.5 years sober now.
This is what I thought exactly! For him to abruptly leave like that, had something to do with P Diddy tapes and JLo had to confess to some things such as tapes.
The truth will come out that she's not involved in Diddy's crimes, or nothing will be said showing her innocence. All the delusional ones will be proven wrong.
She was getting ready to take an unbelievably large amount of Ben’s money when she has even more than he does. It was really smart for him to slow down the divorce while he is gathering more evidence.
I definitely believe it there's something to this . There's NO WAY he divorced her just because she ,"likes the spotlight". That's nonsense. He's known her for 25 years! He's always known she likes the spotlight! Has to be something pretty big they dont vwant the public to know.
The truth will come out that she's not involved. Ben is a drama Queen always has been that's why she should have stayed away from him like Leah Remini told her to.
Ben and Jennifer are just not meant to be together Second time around isn’t always want you want it to be People are who they are and it is what it is 🥴🥴
They way Ben seemed so angry and eager to hurt her by spending a lot of time with ex etc. it would make sense for he felt he married a selfish cold heartless person. He just wants out
@@littlet7556 You sure don't work for anybody you unpaid comment police! Get a job! I didn't know I have to ask for your permission to comment on a few posts unpaid comment police!
I don't think they GAVE him the tapes, but I do believe they SHOWED them. When the raid happened at Diddys and ppl started saying JLos name Ben probably asked her "is there anything on those tapes, are we gonna find anything" she probably denied the shit out of everything. Then along comes the FBI to show them BOTH those tapes and create a HUGE fight. Not just about whats on those tapes (you never did that with me), but the fact that she wasn't honest with him (what else have you been lying about).
Friends of friends or maybe they using to get him to be upfront about some things she's said she done, like low-key info for a view of what they believe she done. Hey Ben could even be CIA or have some incriminating evidence on someone special that he leveraged for knowledge. Who knows? It's a mad world that's all I know and anything is possible. Imagine hearing 10 years ago about an island that all the high ups go to and do bad things to kids, prob would have laughed and said no way....
All speculation, but the Diddy tapes could have been involved. I can see a scenario where he asked her about the Diddy situation and then the evidence shown to him reveals that she lied straight to his face when he straight up asked her about it making him feel like he can’t trust her. It’s not about the past, it’s about the present.
If these tapes did exist, they would be questioning her. So far police have raided Diddy's house, and the Cassie tape came out while she was never in touch with the police once that should tell you something.
😂👍🏼lmao yea...like so many others .. but BA knows n is just a hypocrite. And yea ...he fears stuff comes out and dsnt want to have shade .. if so.. . Coz of his kids. ...but they are the typical Hollyweird parents of now .. Pushing Seraphina to transition....👎🏼they get hell for it. ......
I believe Suge! He has nothing to lose.JLo was young, just beginning her massive career, and could of been intimidated, like Cassie, like Kim, used... drugged abused- She loved Diddy, fell hard for him, and said she had never been cheated on and Diddy was stepping out on her- She would have kept all on a tape quiet about all she was made to do, especially to Ben!
Whether this particular story is true or not, I think when her video came out and Ben actually saw the entire thing he was not thrilled with her sharing intimate details of their relationship with the world. He’s been working hard on his sobriety and this type of over the top drama isn’t easy to get through without slipping backwards into drinking. He has some really close friends and family who are obviously supporting him so my hope is they get the divorce over with and each of them can move on to productive life and work
Another smear job attempt and the delusional ones will be proven wrong when nothing is said. If there were supposed tapes, she would have been arrested a long time ago right?
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 8years crash
My theory is Jen was more aware of Diddy’s wicked ways . Ben lost respect for her not speaking up. Look carefully at the timeline of how Ben looked unhappy the more & more the news of Duffy came out. Tapes or not. It could be she just didn’t disclose more to him
Ugghhhh!!!! Tunnels???? Diddy, Diddy dumb. Pockets full of come, come, comedy. That is when she decided to break up. The Dark side of Diddy, Diddy, Dumb, pockets full of crumbs or was it, pockets full of "Rocks" Yeah, the powdered rocks he gave Whitney Houston? Or was it "Kryptonite? Rumor has it, that Fiddy Diddy, the Fiddler provided the Coca Loca that killed Whitney. Wow! Diddy the Fiddly Wee wee Winnie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just guessing, I would think that it's a combination of the awful movie she wasted so much money on and the Diddler situation just put the cherry on top. He wouldn't want his kids exposed to all of that. Talk about wrong timing for a film. She never expected to get the backlash from all of this drama and thought she could keep selling her narcissistic brand but, it has sizzled out. Her kids are almost grown and she is still out there showing her arse instead of being a Mama.
Ben the drama queen is upset at the criticism the movie received while at the same time profiting from it since it was highly streamed. He shouldn't have initiated a reunion or married her if little things get to him, he knows she did not do anything, and the full truth will come out but now he's twice divorced and always finds a problem in his marriages.
@@ingibarr719 You seem very bitter and lonely trying to control the outcome of a life that is not yours no amount of hating will get you what you want because you can't control others like they are your puppets so my suggestion to you is to get your own life and happiness it works wonders!
So crazy. I do remember JLo really separating herself from Diddy back then after that gun incident. I can’t stand her, but I’d be surprised if she was involved with Diddy stuff. It is strange that things with Ben went so south so quickly. I wonder what happened.
Jlo stayed w Diddy a year after the gun incident! She's the reason Shine was innocently locked up ITs not strange at all BEN DOESNT WANT HOOD IN HIS HOME
Not at all. JLo made sure to stay with Diddy to climb the latter, as she did when she was secretly sleeping with Tommy Motola, who launched her to stardom to screw Mariah Carey. You can see each mayor leap JLo achieved based on the man she was sleeping with.
@@christyamar If that was the case Garner and Ben would cut their kids associating with JLO. His oldest daughter Violet is JLO's friend, she is 18 and an adult so they can't stop her...but would her parents explain to her about thug Diddy and JLo being his gun mule whilst dating him?
@@christyamar Nope deluded one she left Diddy right after he got her arrested in 1999 look it up, she did not want to be involved with him after finding out about his criminal activity. Ben the serial groper knew she'd dated Diddy and that his friends were making up lies about her and that she was not involved.
The woman who got shot is on video saying she saw JLo pull a gun from her purse & hand it to Puff, who fired the shot that struck her face. JLo is 100% an accomplice. They paid off that employee to take the fall. Not allegedly, I saw the tape.
I don’t know if she owes us an explanation, BUT hers was the first name that popped up for me at the time of the raids and facts of Cassie. I don’t respect the “no Diddy questions.”
Na, I think she was texting Arod behind Ben’s back and that was it for him. No amount of beauty and sex is worth being controlled. She also didn’t respect his privacy. Jlo only cares about Jlo.
@@CdnCathy Ben got in touch with her Andy said he initiated a reconciliation in 2021. She jumped into it too fast I guess to punish Arod. I think she would be better off with someone out of the spotlight.
Yep, I bet that's why he even did the move out behind her back, while she was in Italy to get heck out of her Space for this same reason..regardless if it was the FBI, or some other source that showed him the tapes! Now that does explain Ben's urgency to keep away from her!!🤨
From what ive learned over the last few months, JLo got her career to keep quiet. She was basically GIVEN her career, not earbed because of talent, because she knew Diddys secrets. As payment for her silence, she got her career. Tommy M. GAVE her music that he took from other artists. There TWO artist that can testify to it. Hence why Mariah never liked her.
What is there to hash out she keeps her stuff he keeps his. Move on. She is a very different person than him. He likes quiet she likes glam and lights. They tired it didn’t work. That’s it
His mother seems not to like her at all, probably because her Getto attitude, and now this situation of her been involved with puff deals, is understandable for close ones and family members to have a conversation of,,for him and his kids well been to stay away from this complicate woman, that she is where she is now, over dishonesty,lies and use people to get what she wants..He looks very unhappy around this woman. For his well been need to stay away from this toxic
Yet he knew her personality when he married her and was the one to initiate a reunion in 2021. He also has issues he's not perfect. She's a narcissist but not a liar or a user the truth will come out that she's not involved in the Diddy scandal.
I believe they are quite different. I had a feeling this might happen. I have never seen so many pictures of Ben in my life. He seemed to have the ideal wife. His ex-wife doesn't seek out attention and seems very kind. JLo, on the other hand, appears to seek attention from everyone. It seemed like Ben was just arm candy, required to smile and look happy. Unfortunately, Ben appeared to be unhappy.
To be honest, it was my first thought, since JLo was getting exposed. With them being the current media topic, and the other being the Diddy raid. Her name was one of the first ones to gain attention due to her dating history w/Diiddy. (the hot topic was the night club shooting, and J Lo, carrying the gun in her purse.) 1 + 1 = 2 😊
Apparently Drake’s already made a play for her🤢 (as if Kendrick didn’t already have enough material to rap about 😂 looking forward to another amazing song out of this)
Ever since ben found out about jlos connection to diddy, their relationship literally just kept goin down the drain. What jlo did was clearly a crime she hid for years, after the nightclub shootin and she knew diddys dirty work involving so many victims and jlo did nothing to help with any of them. Shes selfish and a narcissist trying to ignore and blame others of what went on. And im glad its all being exposed cus it needs to. She needs to be held responsible for her actions. Im glad ben left her. Cus he actually is a talented actor and a professional successful movie director, he has a good career for him and he shouldnt let jlo damage him.
The only way I could see this happening is if the ABCs are trying to get J-Lo flip on Diddy, & she's refusing. The ABCs don't normally share info, but it could be a way to pressure her!
@@maxcloud6964 Suge Night, is covering for his friend Diddy trying to take the blame off him and trying to take her down with him that's what's happening but it was her mistake to get involved with Diddy in the first place.The whole gun mule story was Diddy's henchman talking.
@@javanjunkindahouse6625 Nope, she was arrested with bad news Diddy and was released in 1999 because she's innocent. If there had been witnesses against her, they would have come forward and accused her and made a case against her, but she was released because she was not involved Diddy's friends are just trying to involve her as usual and she was very smart to dump him.
I honestly don't think there's a lot of financial things for them to work out. They Prenups - they owned 1 house which is up for sale - that's easy enough to divide & work out - what else is left to resolve????
I don’t understand why it should be such a tough divorce. Let them both leave with what they came into the marriage with. That sounds fair to me. Sounds like J Lo is getting greedy because she’s angry in my opinion.
He just got the reality check that morally ethically that she is not the person he thought she was. The diddy situation by the sounds of it shattered the fantasy he has always held about her.
True or not this is a very scary era that we are living in where people can make assumptions and assertions and they become true in the eyes of others!…first it was JL is too controlling regarding a number of things like selling his motorcycle collection, taking his tips back or telling him he can’t do this or that…Then it was she doesn’t get along with people that are close to Ben…Then it was her sharing his letters and doing her This is Me Now piece and sharing too much with the world…Then it was her texting Alex Rod…then it’s people saying how rude she is and so different from Garner…then it was the fact that she has a new alcohol product and he’s recovering…now it’s the tapes from her past…there was so much negativity about JL that I even had an opinion about her and I’ve never met her a day in my life…These people are adults and if they divorce, it is what it is and it’s none of my concern…I no longer have an opinion negative or otherwise about either of them because there is always two sides to a story and I just don’t have that intimate information! I really hope we can focus on other news besides whether or not these two are divorcing! The reports on these two are quite excessive!
I always thought it was WIERD that they got married in the first place. I mean, why risk a chunk of your fortune when you are in your 50s, aren’t going to have kids, and can easily just live together? Especially when this is marriage #4? for Jenny from the Block. It never made any sense, except that JLo clearly has mental problems.
I don’t think people should be judged for mistakes they made in their past. People change and grow but the main problem is, she has changed and grown into a self indulgent snot. She’s too much! Run Ben! U can do better.
@@rhoe116 I don't know if he is or not, but I was not aware of any rumor that he's gay that's why I commented I didn't know who they were talking about, but I don't think she knew that. Again, your idea of truth is not mine like sold proof as in seeing him with other men which nobody ever saw so it's a rumor not fact. They all telling truth Diddy Stan? Nope she's not involved with his dealings if she was you can bet the police would be talking to her.
Out of all of the women in the world that Ben Affleck can date, why does he choose to waste his time on J Lo...for a second time even?! What is wrong with this guy?
You can’t blame Ben for not wanting to get dragged into Jenny from the block’s shenanigans especially if they’re being tied to Diddy. Personally I don’t think the woman can be trusted, period!
Ben the serial Groper initiated a reunion with her in 2021 knowing Diddy was trying to involve Jlo in his lies just because they dated. She's not involved in his criminal activity it's just Diddy's friends trying to involve her again.
I believe the FBI came Knocking on their door.
Ben is on the Epstein list😊
Ben only has 150 million, JLO 400 million they didn't sign a prenup. Now Ben want a piece of the pie from JLO.... they are making an agreemnt. But it's taking forever....
Do you know her personally? Can you be trusted? Stop talking so much b.s. please. Could be you next. Or one of your family members, friends, or acquaintances. You never, never know. Don't be so judgemental/jerkmental. 😂😂😂
The only thing we can be certain of is Ben isn't budging, he isn't going back !
That man is done !
Jennifer Garner should make sure her kids are kept far away from all this mess.
Lol they done a BD enough job with 1 of them already, jesus did you see her and the speech she gave, she looked so anxious
WTF, I didn't know they got devorced. does he have kids with Jen? I didn't know
@@halvorsa I'm sure 😁
@@halvorsa even the trans one?
You would think that wouldn't you, Garner has allowed Their daughter Violet spend time with JLo on two occasions apparently without Ben's knowledge, you'd think J Garner could discourage her daughter doing so or telling JLO to stop it....its awkward for Ben to say leave my kids alone, better for their mother to say something especially while her Diddy involvement is all public.
I’m shocked no one else made this connection. Literally, they broke up as soon as news came out that jlo was involved with the shooting. But no one made that connection. So weird
Exactly.
A criminal investigation will do that to a marriage. I wouldn't want my kids anywhere near that mess.
The police has ignored her never approached her once there is no investigation into her only Diddy, they raided his home and there was the tape of him beating Cassie. It's P Diddy's friends who are making up lies about her.
@@alinao1481 what are you, her bodyguard? I call BS. Everyone knows about Diddy and JLo.
@@druseyfirecaster3675 Don't get triggered by someone trying to defend someone who is being bullied there should be more people like that. It's not about assuming the worst you don't even know her, nor have you watched her over the years alot of people are jumping on the hate train and without even knowing her. So, tell me what do you know, because I can assure you, I know the whole story and you don't first look up the whole story without prejudice then come back. You really don't know do you that's the bottom line you just want to hate.
You don’t think Jen knows what Diddy did ? She was part of it …. Celebrities always partied with Diddy …. They were all there at point…..
I heard on Social Media a certain person took that 1 am drink and became Labrina
Amen...
She knows😂
She was dating him but found him to be bad news and dumped him.
Jen on the block was with Diddy that night,, she knows !
“ it’s not Diddy do it , it’s Diddy Done “
50 cent 😅
I always suspected the turn in their marriage had suspicious timing to what was going on with Diddy!
The FBI would not show a civilian classified information, so their separation is not about Diddy it's about something else the truth will come out when nothing is said.
Also, at the same time people were ganging up on her and releasing videos about what a rude jerk she had been to almost everyone she met.
@@stacyj7right. Everything happened at once.
This definitely has something to do with Diddy
Total turn off I'll bet
Jlo isn't as innocent as she pretends to be!
None of those characters thriving in Hollywood are...none!
Jenny from the block had many men 😂
Jenny on the block be doing too much these days
And Jenny wasn't from the block her father paid for private school.
Men do not like a woman with too many men….. but? Didn’t he knew???
( body counts )
If she lived in a council estate she'd be known as " the local bike" 🤦🏿♀️ how many husbands, boyfriends??? It's crazy 😂
more like Jenny around the block!
It is not only the shooting incidents but something to do with sextapes
I never thought JLo was so innocent from Diddy's criminal activities. Maybe Ben was informed about something he didn't like.
ONLY in America would a prisoner be allowed to have a podcast 😂
I am from/live in WV (about 50 miles from Charleston, the home town of Jennifer Garner). I’m not her “bestie” but I’ve met her a few times at 5K’s, clean up events, etc. Point of sharing this is that she & her family are VERY down to earth. IF JLo were involved in the Diddy mess, I would not at all be shocked if she told Ben to keep that mess away from their daughter. That’s simply my opinion, but I could absolutely see that as a reason to motivate Ben to reassess the situation.
I'm from Western PA. WV are generally cool, humble nice ppl.
I’ve heard that about her too. My family is from Charleston WV and my aunts met her. Said Jen G is very nice
I was surprised Violet spent time with JLo in the Hamptons.
Interesting how Diddy is almost the only ex JLo stayed close to, in addition to the father of the twins & Affleck (because she always hoped to get back with him). The rest of the million men she's been with, she completely cheated, ghosted & threw them away like trash. She has a secret shady past with Diddy & they both made sure to keep things tight between them. They have a special bond based on a gross & criminal past.
You are delusional she hasn't talked to Diddy in years they were never close after she dumped him in 1999 when she found out about his illegal activity. The whole truth will come out anyway when police keep ignoring her proving her innocence.
@@alinao1481 JLo stayed with Diddy for more than a year after the shooting. Does that not count as dangerous or potential criminal activity enough? She knows he shot people but got cleared and someone else took the fall. It's impossible that she didn't know or see a lot of things. She even accepted his repeated cheating until she had enough and left him when she had a new guy ready to be with, coming out in public in a short time with that backup dancer. Diddy only "respected" JLo because she was Tommy Mottola's muse. She had higher protection by a more powerful man. And they did talk. She filmed a dance challenge and they were talking like good old pals. Also, info has come out that Ben found out she kept in touch with Diddy and even had some business or payment deals with some lawyers with him. The timing of everything is very telling, to say the least.
@@aalucyaf-zp5ut Even if that were true Cassie also stayed with Diddy a long time knowing his criminality it looks like he threatens people. She left him right after the nightclub incident when you google it says she broke up with him when she was aware of his criminal activity but to me you seem like a hater if she was being cheated on it's not her fault, I guess you don't get that, and she didn't already have Judd she met him a while after but she was a victim and the truth will come out. If she had been involved and there were tapes, do you think the police would be ignoring her? Diddy is the one getting in trouble while the police leave her alone does that not tell you something?
@@alinao1481 Cassie? A victim of abuse, with no money, no power, no protection, will most definitely stay in an endless vicious cycle of never being able to leave her abuser. You can't compare Cassie with JLo. Jeez. JLo was already famous and was under the protection of TOMMY MOTTOLA, who she also dated. He launched her to stardom to screw Mariah Carey. Diddy wouldn't mess with Mottola.
@@alinao1481 How do you know. lol. get a life. Nobody really knows, but the ones involved. Calm down.
Ben's friends said the beginning of the end was when she became the spokesperson of her own alcoholic drinks when she knows Ben almost lost everything from alcoholism. She tried to tell Ben how to drink socially even though she's said for decades she Never drinks!
That's pure evil. It just is, no excuse
Isn’t that why Ben’s mom did not like JLo? Because she knew JLo was trying to give Ben drinks?
That’s how selfish JLo really is! She could’ve at least came out w/ her own line of Snapple juices.🤦🏾♀️ It’s always all about her and what she wants and not even considering her own husband.
It wouldn't surprise me if JLo tried to get Ben drinking again. That would be a great excuse for her to divorce him so she can jump on her next victim and get a new engagement ring for her collection.
I gave up alcohol to support my partner who had a serious drink problem. I know for sure it's made all the difference me giving it up at the same time, 2.5 years sober now.
This is what I thought exactly! For him to abruptly leave like that, had something to do with P Diddy tapes and JLo had to confess to some things such as tapes.
Likely she lied to Ben & that was the final straw. Can't blame him.
The truth will come out that she's not involved in Diddy's crimes, or nothing will be said showing her innocence. All the delusional ones will be proven wrong.
@@annem7806 Nope delusional one their separation has nothing to do with imaginary tapes Suge Knight is not known for credibility.
@@annem7806 The truth will come out when nothing is said by police.
I think it was her showing all the private letters Ben wrote to her was enough to split
He was disgusted by her past, that made it to the light. 💡 ( plus … the alcohol business. )
She was getting ready to take an unbelievably large amount of Ben’s money when she has even more than he does. It was really smart for him to slow down the divorce while he is gathering more evidence.
Exactly. And it’ll likely take years to sell that estate
She is always on the take
I definitely believe it there's something to this . There's NO WAY he divorced her just because she ,"likes the spotlight". That's nonsense. He's known her for 25 years! He's always known she likes the spotlight!
Has to be something pretty big they dont vwant the public to know.
The truth will come out that she's not involved. Ben is a drama Queen always has been that's why she should have stayed away from him like Leah Remini told her to.
Ben and Jennifer are just not meant to be together Second time around isn’t always want you want it to be People are who they are and it is what it is 🥴🥴
Can’t stand Jlo . She has no redeeming features. Ben had a lucky escape
@@kirstenwright1974 Only his fans like Ben and He's super overrated not nearly as good of an actor as Matt Damon.
They way Ben seemed so angry and eager to hurt her by spending a lot of time with ex etc. it would make sense for he felt he married a selfish cold heartless person. He just wants out
Of course she knows!!!
One things for sure, its the demasking period of Jlo. Something sure stinks around here.
Yes, those that believe lies on SM do live in a delusional world. The truth will come out by nothing being said from police haters do stink.
The whole truth will come out when nothing is said by police about her. The rest is lies by influencers and those with nothing better to do.
@alinao1481 , you're really going out of your way to comment on everyone's reply. Are you working for JLo?
@@littlet7556 You sure don't work for anybody you unpaid comment police! Get a job! I didn't know I have to ask for your permission to comment on a few posts unpaid comment police!
I don't think they GAVE him the tapes, but I do believe they SHOWED them. When the raid happened at Diddys and ppl started saying JLos name Ben probably asked her "is there anything on those tapes, are we gonna find anything" she probably denied the shit out of everything. Then along comes the FBI to show them BOTH those tapes and create a HUGE fight. Not just about whats on those tapes (you never did that with me), but the fact that she wasn't honest with him (what else have you been lying about).
You know this is true… her come up was a red flag.
The truth will come out when nothing is said by police.
Why in the hell would FBI give Ben a copy? Makes no sense
😂 zero
They might have shown him an except, but not given the tape itself
Because Ben has a lot of money and FBI is for sale like all the other government “agencies”
Friends of friends or maybe they using to get him to be upfront about some things she's said she done, like low-key info for a view of what they believe she done.
Hey Ben could even be CIA or have some incriminating evidence on someone special that he leveraged for knowledge.
Who knows? It's a mad world that's all I know and anything is possible.
Imagine hearing 10 years ago about an island that all the high ups go to and do bad things to kids, prob would have laughed and said no way....
@@crystalmesser6902 No. They would not show him the tapes either.
All speculation, but the Diddy tapes could have been involved. I can see a scenario where he asked her about the Diddy situation and then the evidence shown to him reveals that she lied straight to his face when he straight up asked her about it making him feel like he can’t trust her. It’s not about the past, it’s about the present.
Except the FBI would not give classified tapes to a civilian it's all lies from Diddy's friends.
Nope, the truth will come out when nothing is said by the police.
If and when this Diddy case comes out to the Public..her tapes are gonna be Front & Center! What a humiliation for Ben and their Marriage!
The greatest love story becam the nightmare of affleck🤣🤣🤣
If these tapes did exist, they would be questioning her. So far police have raided Diddy's house, and the Cassie tape came out while she was never in touch with the police once that should tell you something.
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shyne said it him self he was the fall guy. jlo saw everything and still let shyne take the fall. she lie she lie. so yes its all truth.
Nope, Diddy's fans are lying for him, but he keeps getting in trouble while she is ignored by police I wonder why?
@@alinao1481 keep trying and nobody is believing you, lol.
@@druseyfirecaster3675 Give the computer back to mommy 10 year old!
Ben probably fled when he looked at the list of everyone who knew to much about Diddy.
Im sorry, But the FBI does NOT just hand out evidence that they have collected to a civilian. EVER.
If you trust the FBI, I don't put anything past them to get what they want.
Ye and the also always convict wrongful people and never hide evidence like they did with Jeffrey E lol
Exactly!
They would if they think he's siding with her and knows something. Even if it was lies they told him.
Those tapes are being sold on the black market 😂
The only block she's from is the one with red lights.
😂👍🏼lmao yea...like so many others .. but BA knows n is just a hypocrite. And yea ...he fears stuff comes out and dsnt want to have shade .. if so.. . Coz of his kids. ...but they are the typical Hollyweird parents of now .. Pushing Seraphina to transition....👎🏼they get hell for it. ......
100% sold her soul. Now it's time to pay the piper.
@@PT-tw6kg Delusional!
Makes absolutely no sense!
I believe Suge! He has nothing to lose.JLo was young, just beginning her massive career, and could of been intimidated, like Cassie, like Kim, used... drugged abused- She loved Diddy, fell hard for him, and said she had never been cheated on and Diddy was stepping out on her- She would have kept all on a tape quiet about all she was made to do, especially to Ben!
Yup. He had to protect his kids. So that was that with La Lopez.
Whether this particular story is true or not, I think when her video came out and Ben actually saw the entire thing he was not thrilled with her sharing intimate details of their relationship with the world. He’s been working hard on his sobriety and this type of over the top drama isn’t easy to get through without slipping backwards into drinking. He has some really close friends and family who are obviously supporting him so my hope is they get the divorce over with and each of them can move on to productive life and work
More likely she told him about the Tapes. Puff was blackmailing her like the rest.
Another smear job attempt and the delusional ones will be proven wrong when nothing is said. If there were supposed tapes, she would have been arrested a long time ago right?
The whole truth will come out when nothing is said by the police.
@@alinao1481 WE HEARD YOU THE FIRST TIME. Stop spamming the comments like you know her lol. As if...
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Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 8years crash
Amazing, I am kind of in a similar situation, how did you handle it?
well not the orthodox way but I was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
please how can I get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
Her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
I have been saying over and over again there’s smex tapes on JLO and Diddy, I myself seen it reported on the news 2 decades or more ago.
My theory is Jen was more aware of Diddy’s wicked ways . Ben lost respect for her not speaking up. Look carefully at the timeline of how Ben looked unhappy the more & more the news of Duffy came out. Tapes or not. It could be she just didn’t disclose more to him
If the police thought, she knew something about Diddy they would have questioned her a long time ago.
She did admit Diddy took her into the tunnels under his house, plus he had cameras covering every space for his private entertainment! 😮
Really?! Yikes, when or where can we view this?
Where?
Ugghhhh!!!! Tunnels???? Diddy, Diddy dumb. Pockets full of come, come, comedy. That is when she decided to break up. The Dark side of Diddy, Diddy, Dumb, pockets full of crumbs or was it, pockets full of "Rocks" Yeah, the powdered rocks he gave Whitney Houston? Or was it "Kryptonite? Rumor has it, that Fiddy Diddy, the Fiddler provided the Coca Loca that killed Whitney. Wow! Diddy the Fiddly Wee wee Winnie 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Where are the Proof??theres no Profil.if that would be true than the Media would talk about it nun sto🫣🫣
Alot of us always suspected these things, and I am not surprised.
Jennifer was involved obviously with diddy.
The look on Ben’s face is the “You just kissed every ‘Dude’ at the party” Look. 😂😂😂
It's possible Suge knows more from the inside than anyone knows on the outside! That's the trippy part.
Except he isn't inside the FBI he does not work there or have classified information.
I remember an interview with jaime foxx and he called her J-HO. But if tapes exist it’s because Puff illegally taped people ALL THE TIME!
Just guessing, I would think that it's a combination of the awful movie she wasted so much money on and the Diddler situation just put the cherry on top. He wouldn't want his kids exposed to all of that. Talk about wrong timing for a film. She never expected to get the backlash from all of this drama and thought she could keep selling her narcissistic brand but, it has sizzled out.
Her kids are almost grown and she is still out there showing her arse instead of being a Mama.
Ben the drama queen is upset at the criticism the movie received while at the same time profiting from it since it was highly streamed. He shouldn't have initiated a reunion or married her if little things get to him, he knows she did not do anything, and the full truth will come out but now he's twice divorced and always finds a problem in his marriages.
I couldn’t AGREE more! 👍👏🏻👏🏻
@@ingibarr719 You seem very bitter and lonely trying to control the outcome of a life that is not yours no amount of hating will get you what you want because you can't control others like they are your puppets so my suggestion to you is to get your own life and happiness it works wonders!
So crazy. I do remember JLo really separating herself from Diddy back then after that gun incident. I can’t stand her, but I’d be surprised if she was involved with Diddy stuff. It is strange that things with Ben went so south so quickly. I wonder what happened.
Jlo stayed w Diddy a year after the gun incident! She's the reason Shine was innocently locked up ITs not strange at all BEN DOESNT WANT HOOD IN HIS HOME
Not at all. JLo made sure to stay with Diddy to climb the latter, as she did when she was secretly sleeping with Tommy Motola, who launched her to stardom to screw Mariah Carey. You can see each mayor leap JLo achieved based on the man she was sleeping with.
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If that was the case Garner and Ben would cut their kids associating with JLO.
His oldest daughter Violet is JLO's friend, she is 18 and an adult so they can't stop her...but would her parents explain to her about thug Diddy and JLo being his gun mule whilst dating him?
@@christyamar Nope deluded one she left Diddy right after he got her arrested in 1999 look it up, she did not want to be involved with him after finding out about his criminal activity. Ben the serial groper knew she'd dated Diddy and that his friends were making up lies about her and that she was not involved.
The woman who got shot is on video saying she saw JLo pull a gun from her purse & hand it to Puff, who fired the shot that struck her face. JLo is 100% an accomplice. They paid off that employee to take the fall. Not allegedly, I saw the tape.
I don’t know if she owes us an explanation, BUT hers was the first name that popped up for me at the time of the raids and facts of Cassie. I don’t respect the “no Diddy questions.”
Na, I think she was texting Arod behind Ben’s back and that was it for him. No amount of beauty and sex is worth being controlled. She also didn’t respect his privacy. Jlo only cares about Jlo.
Arod has a girlfriend, and Ben knew what he was signing up for.
@@alinao1481..did she text Ben while with ARod...she was with Ben pretty quick..
@@CdnCathy Ben got in touch with her Andy said he initiated a reconciliation in 2021. She jumped into it too fast I guess to punish Arod. I think she would be better off with someone out of the spotlight.
That marriage lasted longer than I thought she's Jho
The timing is spot on but I don’t think the FBI would do that….. but I do think there’s multiple tapes out there…
I agree
Why do you think she canceled her tour? She knows crap is going down with the tapes and diddy.
Yep, I bet that's why he even did the move out behind her back, while she was in Italy to get heck out of her Space for this same reason..regardless if it was the FBI, or some other source that showed him the tapes! Now that does explain Ben's urgency to keep away from her!!🤨
The truth will come out when nothing is said by police, and they keep ignoring her unlike Diddy.
@@alinao1481 You Sound like a broken record.
@@Marionana2 that's because it's a bot.
@@druseyfirecaster3675 oh…Thankyou!
From what ive learned over the last few months, JLo got her career to keep quiet. She was basically GIVEN her career, not earbed because of talent, because she knew Diddys secrets. As payment for her silence, she got her career. Tommy M. GAVE her music that he took from other artists. There TWO artist that can testify to it. Hence why Mariah never liked her.
Exactly! I can’t believe people can see this , it is so obvious, she stayed quiet about the gun and he further her career Duh!
She was close to ARod’s daughters but she still left! JLo doesn’t even care about her own kids attachment and mental health IMO
What is there to hash out she keeps her stuff he keeps his. Move on. She is a very different person than him. He likes quiet she likes glam and lights. They tired it didn’t work. That’s it
His mother seems not to like her at all, probably because her Getto attitude, and now this situation of her been involved with puff deals, is understandable for close ones and family members to have a conversation of,,for him and his kids well been to stay away from this complicate woman, that she is where she is now, over dishonesty,lies and use people to get what she wants..He looks very unhappy around this woman. For his well been need to stay away from this toxic
Yet he knew her personality when he married her and was the one to initiate a reunion in 2021. He also has issues he's not perfect. She's a narcissist but not a liar or a user the truth will come out that she's not involved in the Diddy scandal.
@@alinao1481 the truth is already coming out and we know what she did.
I believe they are quite different. I had a feeling this might happen. I have never seen so many pictures of Ben in my life. He seemed to have the ideal wife. His ex-wife doesn't seek out attention and seems very kind. JLo, on the other hand, appears to seek attention from everyone. It seemed like Ben was just arm candy, required to smile and look happy. Unfortunately, Ben appeared to be unhappy.
😂😂😂😂 but, but, butt she wanted to be famous!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wonder if there were tapes of JLo doing things at Diddy's 'freak out' parties that Ben might have seen.
but shes from the bronx lmao
Why would the FBI give a civilian not directly involved tapes for an on going case? Like they should be crime breaking.
Why not directly to JLo, why give to Ben?
The FBI has their own joke rules as we have seen over Trump. Trust no one in DOJ...at this time.
To see if Ben knew anything and would turn on his wife. But it could have just showed him who she really is.
Maybe it wasn't the FBI but someone else who gave him some tapes🤷♀️
@@Squirrel_SPTVbecause Ben has a lot of money and the FBI is for sale.
I absolutely believe Ben went digging and found some shit 😂
How quick it ended feels odd for you but not for me.
They lasted longer than I expected.
Im positive 85% were the tapes
I believe Suge Knight!!!!!
He's got nothing to lose, why lie? I believe him too.
The whole truth will come out when nothing is said by the police.
@@lorihoop3831 Why do they all lie? He's also covering up for Diddy by smearing her.
This sounds more real on why they divorced
To be honest, it was my first thought, since JLo was getting exposed. With them being the current media topic, and the other being the Diddy raid. Her name was one of the first ones to gain attention due to her dating history w/Diiddy.
(the hot topic was the night club shooting, and J Lo, carrying the gun in her purse.)
1 + 1 = 2 😊
THE DIDDLER STRIKES
Seems to me where she wants the divorce settled so fast, that she already has her next victim picked out....
I suspect the same.
Apparently Drake’s already made a play for her🤢 (as if Kendrick didn’t already have enough material to rap about 😂 looking forward to another amazing song out of this)
I’ve believed that they split because of Diddy since they showed Jlo by herself at the Met. I can bet anything that’s the cause.
And she looked like she was crying at The Met
Ever since ben found out about jlos connection to diddy, their relationship literally just kept goin down the drain. What jlo did was clearly a crime she hid for years, after the nightclub shootin and she knew diddys dirty work involving so many victims and jlo did nothing to help with any of them. Shes selfish and a narcissist trying to ignore and blame others of what went on. And im glad its all being exposed cus it needs to. She needs to be held responsible for her actions. Im glad ben left her. Cus he actually is a talented actor and a professional successful movie director, he has a good career for him and he shouldnt let jlo damage him.
The only way I could see this happening is if the ABCs are trying to get J-Lo flip on Diddy, & she's refusing. The ABCs don't normally share info, but it could be a way to pressure her!
Somebody had to say it, Suges got nothin to lose😂
You don’t think Jen was involved?
shyne said it him self he was the fall guy. jlo saw everything and still let shyne take the fall. she lie she lie. so yes its all truth.
@@maxcloud6964 Suge Night, is covering for his friend Diddy trying to take the blame off him and trying to take her down with him that's what's happening but it was her mistake to get involved with Diddy in the first place.The whole gun mule story was Diddy's henchman talking.
@@alinao1481also the witness and victim also saw
@@javanjunkindahouse6625 Nope, she was arrested with bad news Diddy and was released in 1999 because she's innocent. If there had been witnesses against her, they would have come forward and accused her and made a case against her, but she was released because she was not involved Diddy's friends are just trying to involve her as usual and she was very smart to dump him.
Can’t understand a word of that interview
I agree. It was irritating.
Why does that picture of suge knight look like Thanos in an orange jumper😂
I honestly don't think there's a lot of financial things for them to work out. They Prenups - they owned 1 house which is up for sale - that's easy enough to divide & work out - what else is left to resolve????
Waiting for their second anniversary on Aug 20th to announce just to say they were married for two years
I'm so sick of her, but she will reap what she sows
Thanks Andy!
He probably hear all the noice those rumors are goong around and ain't very decent😂
I don’t understand why it should be such a tough divorce. Let them both leave with what they came into the marriage with. That sounds fair to me. Sounds like J Lo is getting greedy because she’s angry in my opinion.
When two or more narcissists having a midlife crisis are gathered....
How "Low", did J-Lo really go? We will soon find out😂
I don't think that the FBI would give Ben Affleck videos of his wife! It's not a yellow magazine!
I think Ben didn’t want his personal life blasted on social media and she did it anyway
Ben needs to get away from this woman asap
Cannot understand what that dude is saying
😂 👍
He just got the reality check that morally ethically that she is not the person he thought she was. The diddy situation by the sounds of it shattered the fantasy he has always held about her.
I said from the beginning this has to do with Diddy
They may have gotten them to him anonymously like the Cassie assault tape, I'd run from diddlers crap also, and anything is possible
True or not this is a very scary era that we are living in where people can make assumptions and assertions and they become true in the eyes of others!…first it was JL is too controlling regarding a number of things like selling his motorcycle collection, taking his tips back or telling him he can’t do this or that…Then it was she doesn’t get along with people that are close to Ben…Then it was her sharing his letters and doing her This is Me Now piece and sharing too much with the world…Then it was her texting Alex Rod…then it’s people saying how rude she is and so different from Garner…then it was the fact that she has a new alcohol product and he’s recovering…now it’s the tapes from her past…there was so much negativity about JL that I even had an opinion about her and I’ve never met her a day in my life…These people are adults and if they divorce, it is what it is and it’s none of my concern…I no longer have an opinion negative or otherwise about either of them because there is always two sides to a story and I just don’t have that intimate information! I really hope we can focus on other news besides whether or not these two are divorcing! The reports on these two are quite excessive!
How is he allowed a podcast? Hilarious, imo as I wonder if played in cells too like Hospital radio? 😮🇬🇧👵
I always thought it was WIERD that they got married in the first place. I mean, why risk a chunk of your fortune when you are in your 50s, aren’t going to have kids, and can easily just live together? Especially when this is marriage #4? for Jenny from the Block. It never made any sense, except that JLo clearly has mental problems.
jajajajaja - that´s es imposible - FBI giving tape to BEN - jajajajajaja no way ...
Right? I think he found out and confronted her, and she lied. She was a part of that world and he wants no part of it. Jmo
Ben's obviously mad about something!?!?!
I don’t think people should be judged for mistakes they made in their past. People change and grow but the main problem is, she has changed and grown into a self indulgent snot. She’s too much! Run Ben! U can do better.
She should just marry Benny Medina. It’s not like she hasn’t been with gay men before him.
The obsessed delusional haters are sickening!
@@alinao1481hahaha true, Casper’s smart was bisexual, ..they all telling truth.. jlo fans just cant handle truth
@@rhoe116 I don't know if he is or not, but I was not aware of any rumor that he's gay that's why I commented I didn't know who they were talking about, but I don't think she knew that. Again, your idea of truth is not mine like sold proof as in seeing him with other men which nobody ever saw so it's a rumor not fact. They all telling truth Diddy Stan? Nope she's not involved with his dealings if she was you can bet the police would be talking to her.
Out of all of the women in the world that Ben Affleck can date, why does he choose to waste his time on J Lo...for a second time even?! What is wrong with this guy?
JLo, Karma, how you got to the top.
She is part of it, she is involved in alll of that.
It wouldn't shock me, I mean...she dated the guy.