I'm not a nam vet but I was in OIF and I can tell you that that's one of the first things they teach you in Army basic training combatives is to instantly go for the neck and put your enemy in a choke hold. For Kevin Costner not being an actual war vet himself he sure played one well 👍👌
My friends father was a nam vet (I'm not that old, he had his son at like 50) and that man was the biggest hippie around. Full on dead head in the bay area. I interviewed him in high school. The man killed people but never told us, we only know because his name was on the wall the had at base. He hated violence, but he wasn't harmless
I powerful statement that could teach everyone a valuable lesson. Just because someone may not be prone or apt to violence does not mean they are not capable or, under the right circumstances, willing to stand up for the things they love. Those who have seen war know violence and it's ugly faces, then wish it no more. Those who have never been to battle mock it childishly as if it were a game. Never underestimate a man who is reluctant to fight, cause it is most likely he that has seen more violence than he cared to.
I love when he gave the kids the cotton candy. One of my favorite Kevin Costner movies. The other movie is A PERFECT WORLD. If u haven't seen it I strongly recommend it
i saw this film a long time ago by accident (repertory theatre) and didn't think much about it before it began....then wow....what an extraordinary movie
I was to young to appreciate this scene the first time I saw it but even then this scene stuck with me. I've become a father, served in the U.S. Army and just generally grown up since then and now feel very moved by this scene.
I love this movie definitely in my top 10. I love watching old movies like this. I’m 38 years old it just brings me back to being a little kid and remembering how life used to be and how I wish it still was
I will never understand why some people don’t like this film. I know we all have our own opinions, but in my opinion, this movie is great, and that is the correct opinion.
Rotten Tomatoes 25% why ? Because it showed a man being responsible for his actions, and taking care of his child, and teaching him the value of an apology. 🤨🤨🤨
I remember watching this movie as a kid I’m 38 years old and it just brings back old memories to how life used to be and not this fucking shit world that we live in now
Saw this movie when it was released in the theaters (I must've been 11 or 12) and it haunted me. To this day, and after serving...this movie no longer haunts me-it speaks for me. Underrated film and deserves so much respect.
The water tower scene kinda horrified me as a kid.. And ironically, when I got older, at the age of 11, I nearly drowned after getting sucked into a culvert in a low water bridge.
its good.. and they show realism.. and ugliness of people and children but also kindness..yes its overracted a few times a little sappy at times but its an underrated movie
"The War is not a good film" Agree to disagree sir. This movie is one of my favorites and has many powerful scenes and important lessons. It is an excellent film.
I said the same thing. The War is an absolutely wonderful movie, as the daughter of a Vietnam vet, I remember the nightmares. Also, the kids, all of the kids, steal the show though.
The humility, humbleness, respect and self control and business he shows and handles in this scene is imeasurable to how us as men should conduct ourselves
I disagree. The War is an amazing movie. It should have won many awards. Maybe you'll understand when you mature a bit. Costner plays Stephen Simmons, a man who has seen war in Vietnam, isn't afraid of killing, but through his experiences has come to understand the destruction in hate , and the power in love. He has chosen the latter for himself, often to his own hurt, and his family's hurt. It makes him a stronger man. I almost needed grief counseling after watching this movie, and Elijah Wood delivers the most heart wrenching lines when he is told his father has died. There are powerful themes in this movie. They seem to have gone completely over your head.
are you really this angry over a MOVIE, who liked it and who did not? Please get help. Oh, and your opinion means zero to me. All the profanity and name calling...if you think that makes you tougher, smarter, or better, it does not. I feel very sorry for you. You've proven yourself to be a very small person. You cannot elevate yourself by trying to demean others. You only demean yourself further.* one of those themes*Billy Beedamned
apparently you do as you read it and felt the need to comment. Do you ever stop to think how bizarre it is to post angry, profane and vile things to strangers...over expressing an opinion on a movie? Get help.
I once read this phrase in a book: "The best warrior wins without ever having fought, and wins the war without throwing a single blow." This scene will live in me forever. Usually, loudmouths are Simply that, big mouths, the fact that you don't want to fight doesn't mean you're a coward, you simply know the value of peace.
the film is a little sappy at times... but this scene and when kevin coster's character gives cotton candy to the lipnicki kids "they look like they hadn't received anything in a long time" very moving
I watched this movie growing up in the 90s, probably 12-13 yrs old. Beautiful. Honorable. I grew up as a Latina in America and seeing this made me realize the seriousness of race issues. It reminds me of my dad, such a hard working man, standing for right no matter where! On top I had a little brother whom I was and still am overprotective of…this movie taught me to live life respectfully, humbly, and rightfully…color is NOT a matter. No matter the circumstances!
Maybe it's not the best film BUT for me seeing this scene as a child was important. I Understood that some people don't want to fight, not because of what you will do to them but because they're afraid of what they will do to you if it happens to go there. Some people have no control and once you've put them into fight/survival mode they will do anything and everything to end you forreal and minor disagreements are hardly worth that. As an adult I can see why someone wouldn't like this film but as a child I needed to see it.
So well put. I have tried to explain this to people but I think you have this understanding or you dont. People dont realize, as he says in another scene, how dramatically one split second decision can change your life. People think that everything is fair and there is some kind of “code” that you follow in a fight. There isnt. Someone gets knocked to the ground, there is no chilverous code where the fight stops. They could stomp on your head while you are unconscious and defenseless. Five of the persons friends could join in and beat you TO DEATH. Then there are weapons that could come out. I had to do a lot of maturing to learn to just take insults and even antagonistic pushing and such. Nothing is worth getting in a fight. Unless someones life is on the line, I let it go. Do whatever you want, say whatever you want, im walking away, or running. If you instigate violence, then you compel me to react with lethal force. I have no idea and can not count on someones sense of fair play that they wont entice 10 of their friends to beat me to death if im getting the better of them. I cant rely on them saying ok, i knocked him on his ass, he’s had enough guys, or we proved our point. No, i have to assume that if a situation gets physical, that either me or someone i love could end up dead. So nothing, my pride, ego, money, is worth someones life. It makes me sick to think about losing it and killing someone. But when i think about someone i love being hurt, “ a button gets pressed” So i hold back with all my strength, and if that line gets crossed. At least i know it was life and death. A life and death scenario is the ONLY one i would ever react physically to.
ONE OF MY FAVORITE UNDERRATED MOVIES besides The King of Comedy 1982, Testament 1983, Highlander 1986, Point of No Return 1993, Farinelli 1994, Girl 6 1996, The Majestic 2001, Nacho Libre 2006, Factory Girl 2006, The Thinning 2016.
This is so powerful.... Soldier or not.... Sometimes i am stew and open my fat mouth and don't see the bigger picture. My (step) dad is kevin costner. He is the best man alive. He chose to love me
Thank you for posting this. "Not a good film"? Many films of this genre are often not appreciated because they remind us of parts of our humanity that we do not want to think about, like war, prejudice, evil, lack of care for others, ignorance of the rest of the world..... The term "retarded" is viewed as obsolete by most mental health workers today. Most would use the term "challenged" or perhaps "not privileged". I often remember what one of my teachers told me, that MOST of us are "temporarily able" as compared to some who are "permanently disabled". "He is crap in the rest of the film"? He portrays a "wounded warrior" quite well. He has seen more death and war than most of us would want to see, and has redrawn his beliefs and life accordingly. How do you decide what to believe and how to live? Do you (we?) learn from our individual and collective mistakes? Do we even admit to those mistakes? That is what Mr. Costner is trying to show. Has he succeeded? Tell me that. I think he has come close, and THAT is why you do not like this film, except for the close violence you show here. You have a good life, my friend.....
Any other Extras on here reminiscing like me? My daughter and I can be seen several times in this clip. I'm also the nurse who can be seen coming and going from the hospital.
Great wholesome family movie! I've watched this film several times and I'll watch it many more times! Kevin Costner, Elijah Wood, Lucas Black, LaToya Chisolm (Why my life is like a bowl of cherries-shit), Lexi Randall, Christine Baranski
You missed out on one of the next, directly related, most important scenes of this entire movie. Kevin Costner's character, though dirt poor, takes the cotton candy that he bought for his own family and gives it to the children attacking his own son (despite the anger of his son), saying, "they look like they have been given nothing in a long time." I never forgot that when I first saw it. People that go through horrible trauma... part of what gives them any hope is that the people that come after will never repeat it.
Never could make up my mind about the Lipnicki kids when I watched this as a kid. It's obvious they're a family of inbred bullies that you just wanna see them get served what they've been dishing out, but then you see the kind of father they have and you realize how they got like that.
*One of the most under-rated movies of all time.*
Those Nam vets are nothing to mess with when you hit those buttons in them. God bless them all for what they went through.
I reckon combat vets become numb to fear, yet many remain civil and even cordial in civilian society.
My dad was a Vietnam vet (may he rest in peace)
@@mikyl-fo8rhthey don’t become numb to fear, they have mental scars and deal with ptsd. Often for the rest of their lives.
I'm not a nam vet but I was in OIF and I can tell you that that's one of the first things they teach you in Army basic training combatives is to instantly go for the neck and put your enemy in a choke hold. For Kevin Costner not being an actual war vet himself he sure played one well 👍👌
“The soldier above all others prays for peace, for it is the soldier who must suffer and bear the deepest wounds and scars of war.”
My father a vet from Nam said- deep breath - the same... thank you
Jack Crow, well said, sir! Very well said!
@@iamsteveporter It's a good quote. Thank you.
Amen
God bless you
Man this was a classic me & my brother use to watch this back to back as kids reciting them word for word 🤣🤣🤣
When a man claims that he doesn't believe in fighting or violence, that is a good indication that you don't want to piss him off.
My friends father was a nam vet (I'm not that old, he had his son at like 50) and that man was the biggest hippie around. Full on dead head in the bay area. I interviewed him in high school. The man killed people but never told us, we only know because his name was on the wall the had at base. He hated violence, but he wasn't harmless
Very powerful scene. Absolutely love it
I powerful statement that could teach everyone a valuable lesson. Just because someone may not be prone or apt to violence does not mean they are not capable or, under the right circumstances, willing to stand up for the things they love. Those who have seen war know violence and it's ugly faces, then wish it no more. Those who have never been to battle mock it childishly as if it were a game. Never underestimate a man who is reluctant to fight, cause it is most likely he that has seen more violence than he cared to.
Truth be here
Well said
A good father (parent) will always protect their children. It just comes natural.
Fantastic and underrated movie.
I love when he gave the kids the cotton candy. One of my favorite Kevin Costner movies. The other movie is A PERFECT WORLD. If u haven't seen it I strongly recommend it
i saw this film a long time ago by accident (repertory theatre) and didn't think much about it before it began....then wow....what an extraordinary movie
agreed
One of Costner's best
underrated movie... probably the most underrated movie ever made
I was to young to appreciate this scene the first time I saw it but even then this scene stuck with me. I've become a father, served in the U.S. Army and just generally grown up since then and now feel very moved by this scene.
This is my favorite movie ever. So many good lessons packed into one show.... It only has a 25% rating on Rotten Tomatoes. What a decieving shame.
who gives a shit about those filthy rotten potatoes
considering what gets high ratings on that trash site it should be a badge of honor
Love this movie. Gets me every time.
I love this movie definitely in my top 10. I love watching old movies like this. I’m 38 years old it just brings me back to being a little kid and remembering how life used to be and how I wish it still was
I will never understand why some people don’t like this film. I know we all have our own opinions, but in my opinion, this movie is great, and that is the correct opinion.
Rotten Tomatoes 25% why ?
Because it showed a man being responsible for his actions, and taking care of his child, and teaching him the value of an apology.
🤨🤨🤨
They’re all leftists that should tell you why.
Yeah, it goes against the agenda
That being the reason for the rating sounds stupid.
@@Steven-in2diI’m a lib and I’ve always loved this movie. Stop being so tribal and simple minded.
I remember watching this movie as a kid I’m 38 years old and it just brings back old memories to how life used to be and not this fucking shit world that we live in now
its a beautiful, philosophical film of a wise man who showed his kids of whats more important in life than money.
Like my dad always said, walk away until you can't walk away. This movie is so underrated.
Saw this movie when it was released in the theaters (I must've been 11 or 12) and it haunted me. To this day, and after serving...this movie no longer haunts me-it speaks for me. Underrated film and deserves so much respect.
This movie is amazing. Hits on all the right notes. So well made
I have to disagree, this film was great, it's something I need to watch in full again eventually.
Reminds me of me when it came to my kids. Played this movie a lot for them too.
The water tower scene kinda horrified me as a kid.. And ironically, when I got older, at the age of 11, I nearly drowned after getting sucked into a culvert in a low water bridge.
its good.. and they show realism.. and ugliness of people and children but also kindness..yes its overracted a few times a little sappy at times but its an underrated movie
This movie is a classic
Never is a man more dangerous than when his children are messed with.
"The War is not a good film" Agree to disagree sir. This movie is one of my favorites and has many powerful scenes and important lessons. It is an excellent film.
I said the same thing. The War is an absolutely wonderful movie, as the daughter of a Vietnam vet, I remember the nightmares. Also, the kids, all of the kids, steal the show though.
This is a very powerful scene in a great movie.
The humility, humbleness, respect and self control and business he shows and handles in this scene is imeasurable to how us as men should conduct ourselves
This movie really got to me as a child. Watched it many times.
One of thee most UNDER RATED MOVIES EVER. Always forget about this one. Costner, and wood deliver a great performance.
what a powerful film
Watching this as a kid, and then as a father.... 2 very different things
One of my favorite scenes from one of my favorite childhood movies.
Best. dad. EVER!
What a masterpiece this movie was!!👌
I think I might buy this movie tomorrow. Either this one, or another one I like.
I disagree. The War is an amazing movie. It should have won many awards. Maybe you'll understand when you mature a bit. Costner plays Stephen Simmons, a man who has seen war in Vietnam, isn't afraid of killing, but through his experiences has come to understand the destruction in hate , and the power in love. He has chosen the latter for himself, often to his own hurt, and his family's hurt. It makes him a stronger man. I almost needed grief counseling after watching this movie, and Elijah Wood delivers the most heart wrenching lines when he is told his father has died. There are powerful themes in this movie. They seem to have gone completely over your head.
are you really this angry over a MOVIE, who liked it and who did not? Please get help. Oh, and your opinion means zero to me. All the profanity and name calling...if you think that makes you tougher, smarter, or better, it does not. I feel very sorry for you. You've proven yourself to be a very small person. You cannot elevate yourself by trying to demean others. You only demean yourself further.* one of those themes*Billy Beedamned
Please shut the fuck up, no one cares about your opinion.
apparently you do as you read it and felt the need to comment. Do you ever stop to think how bizarre it is to post angry, profane and vile things to strangers...over expressing an opinion on a movie? Get help.
BlueEyed Apache we care less about yours
BlueEyed Apache but how will you find me?
If you tear up easily in movies, AVOID this one lol! JK, worth it. Excellent movie!
Today this film would have won an Oscar
Today this film would never have seen the light of day.
Nuan Prachakorn false
No its too real, it would've been trashed for having such a real heartfelt message.
@@dawsondudark True.. Hollywood only promotes trash and things that make them seem morally virtuous in their twisted false reality that they live in.
@@bostenbergful why not?
this is one of my favorite movies👌
i still watch it sometimes, and some other great pieces too. Never get tired of the good ones.
God damn this is one of the best movies ever.
"You're gonna push a button on me,then I'm gonna lose control,and kill yah"
He went in full war mode on that guy, but still kept it under control.
And the thing about those shell shocked Nam vets... They MEAN it
I watched this movie as a kid. I think it had more impact on me because of that, I always thought it was a great movie!
I once read this phrase in a book: "The best warrior wins without ever having fought, and wins the war without throwing a single blow." This scene will live in me forever. Usually, loudmouths are Simply that, big mouths, the fact that you don't want to fight doesn't mean you're a coward, you simply know the value of peace.
I can't believe the critics hated this movie because it was incredible
My favourite movie when I was a kid
Mine was as a kid Kazaam and The Little rascals and the Karate kid
"The War is not a good film"? I loved it.
the film is a little sappy at times... but this scene and when kevin coster's character gives cotton candy to the lipnicki kids "they look like they hadn't received anything in a long time" very moving
Yea.
That scene is almost as good as this one. Sappy but first time you watch it it’s full of surprises.
I've haven't seen this movie in ages brilliant movie and it's a sad story to this the bully family really have nothing
I watched this movie growing up in the 90s, probably 12-13 yrs old. Beautiful. Honorable. I grew up as a Latina in America and seeing this made me realize the seriousness of race issues. It reminds me of my dad, such a hard working man, standing for right no matter where! On top I had a little brother whom I was and still am overprotective of…this movie taught me to live life respectfully, humbly, and rightfully…color is NOT a matter. No matter the circumstances!
That man was raising his kids good. So sad what happens to him I would of shook his hand
Maybe it's not the best film BUT for me seeing this scene as a child was important. I Understood that some people don't want to fight, not because of what you will do to them but because they're afraid of what they will do to you if it happens to go there. Some people have no control and once you've put them into fight/survival mode they will do anything and everything to end you forreal and minor disagreements are hardly worth that. As an adult I can see why someone wouldn't like this film but as a child I needed to see it.
So well put. I have tried to explain this to people but I think you have this understanding or you dont. People dont realize, as he says in another scene, how dramatically one split second decision can change your life. People think that everything is fair and there is some kind of “code” that you follow in a fight. There isnt. Someone gets knocked to the ground, there is no chilverous code where the fight stops. They could stomp on your head while you are unconscious and defenseless. Five of the persons friends could join in and beat you TO DEATH. Then there are weapons that could come out. I had to do a lot of maturing to learn to just take insults and even antagonistic pushing and such. Nothing is worth getting in a fight. Unless someones life is on the line, I let it go. Do whatever you want, say whatever you want, im walking away, or running. If you instigate violence, then you compel me to react with lethal force. I have no idea and can not count on someones sense of fair play that they wont entice 10 of their friends to beat me to death if im getting the better of them. I cant rely on them saying ok, i knocked him on his ass, he’s had enough guys, or we proved our point. No, i have to assume that if a situation gets physical, that either me or someone i love could end up dead. So nothing, my pride, ego, money, is worth someones life. It makes me sick to think about losing it and killing someone. But when i think about someone i love being hurt, “ a button gets pressed” So i hold back with all my strength, and if that line gets crossed. At least i know it was life and death. A life and death scenario is the ONLY one i would ever react physically to.
Not a good film? We'll agree to disagree...
This movie was a great movie. True to life.
ONE OF MY FAVORITE UNDERRATED MOVIES besides The King of Comedy 1982, Testament 1983, Highlander 1986, Point of No Return 1993, Farinelli 1994, Girl 6 1996, The Majestic 2001, Nacho Libre 2006, Factory Girl 2006, The Thinning 2016.
Kevin Costner is Fine even as He ages he still rocking it
This is so powerful.... Soldier or not.... Sometimes i am stew and open my fat mouth and don't see the bigger picture. My (step) dad is kevin costner. He is the best man alive. He chose to love me
*my stepdad is like Kevin.... No my stepdad is not actually Kevin Costner.
Mt favorite movie in the world
Actually, is a great movie!
Thank you for posting this. "Not a good film"? Many films of this genre are often not appreciated because they remind us of parts of our humanity that we do not want to think about, like war, prejudice, evil, lack of care for others, ignorance of the rest of the world..... The term "retarded" is viewed as obsolete by most mental health workers today. Most would use the term "challenged" or perhaps "not privileged". I often remember what one of my teachers told me, that MOST of us are "temporarily able" as compared to some who are "permanently disabled". "He is crap in the rest of the film"? He portrays a "wounded warrior" quite well. He has seen more death and war than most of us would want to see, and has redrawn his beliefs and life accordingly. How do you decide what to believe and how to live? Do you (we?) learn from our individual and collective mistakes? Do we even admit to those mistakes? That is what Mr. Costner is trying to show. Has he succeeded? Tell me that. I think he has come close, and THAT is why you do not like this film, except for the close violence you show here. You have a good life, my friend.....
Jamscout RIGHT ON!! Great comment!
I haven’t watched this movie in so long
Any other Extras on here reminiscing like me? My daughter and I can be seen several times in this clip. I'm also the nurse who can be seen coming and going from the hospital.
This movie however depressing.... Was in itself a really incredible piece of Cinema
One of my all time favorites
I forgot about this film.
This the best part of this movie
Love this movie
Every elementary school child should see this poweful movie.
I relate to Kevin Costner's role in this movie.
One of the best movie scenes ever! Don’t fuck with other people’s kids.
Got to many kids already can't feed them all and one of them is truly getting neglected.
Great wholesome family movie! I've watched this film several times and I'll watch it many more times! Kevin Costner, Elijah Wood, Lucas Black, LaToya Chisolm (Why my life is like a bowl of cherries-shit), Lexi Randall, Christine Baranski
Top flight film that we will keep to ourselves.
I like this movie the war it very funny and sad
Hey he stood up for his dad and himself too. That boy had some balls!
Great film, Powerful scene.
You missed out on one of the next, directly related, most important scenes of this entire movie. Kevin Costner's character, though dirt poor, takes the cotton candy that he bought for his own family and gives it to the children attacking his own son (despite the anger of his son), saying, "they look like they have been given nothing in a long time." I never forgot that when I first saw it. People that go through horrible trauma... part of what gives them any hope is that the people that come after will never repeat it.
Anger is not toughness
What REAL fathers are made of
Great line for Elijah "You son of a bit**!" XD
That's the Ranger Choke Hold kids. ... only lightly.
great story
Classic
The movie has like 3 or 4 very powerful Scenes
Never ever mess with any Veterans including WW1, WW2, and Vietnam
That's Lucas Black...his first role in a film.
great movie
What the hell!! Dad, he's hitting are car👀
KC: I can see that 😂
As my mother used to say, "You can walk all over me, but don't you mess with my kids".
U throw my kid in the cess pool? 😂😂
"The War is not a good film" in your description. You're right, it's not a good film. It's a GREAT film.
I would totally say that!!
Kevin Costner is so handsome here
This movie is tragic...but its good.
a great American man
Never could make up my mind about the Lipnicki kids when I watched this as a kid. It's obvious they're a family of inbred bullies that you just wanna see them get served what they've been dishing out, but then you see the kind of father they have and you realize how they got like that.
The only thing missing is Costner extending his hand to help Lipnicki off the ground. As if he would have taken it.
The Lip Kickies
The Limp Dickies 😂
God’s gonna make Satan pay eternally for messing with his children a.k.a. GODS CREATION, MADE IN HIS IMAGE
great
Strong scene
Fucking awesome film