I feel like this is an adult venue. This is a channel for people who have had some life lessons underneath their belts. I can truly relate to your channel. My husband and I both were married before with kids in the mix. That dynamic alone is a story in itself. I love what you two are doing.
Finally a mature couple to listen too, such a beautiful mature couple, it’s all about love & respect for one another. As a grandma, married over40 plus years, adult children can be difficult about your decisions, just gave to give time time, eventually situations will come to pass
I’m 45 going through a divorce and you two are such an inspiration. I’ve been separated for a two years and I’m ready to move forward. I kept holding on to hope but I have so “outgrown” that union. I was very unhappy for a long time in that marriage and refuse to go back. I’m ready to open my options and live my best life!
Hello to you. I appreciate this video. It takes a lot of courage to get online and be vulnerable enough to tell the truths that you experience in your relationship and life. Don't worry about what other people say, most of the time they would never post this type of video. Hats off to you. What you are doing is good and is helping a lot of people. Nothing is perfect and that is a good thing. Keep smiling and enjoying life and growing. Have lots of fun!!!!
It's refreshing to see such a beautiful couple that's honest & open with themselves, both as individuals & as a couple. I watched the 1st video last night, which I liked & subscribed. Today, I watched the remaining videos. I have always been very supportive of interracial dating, as I have always dated men based on their individuality, not their race. It has been a blessing, as I've learned/experienced the beauty of other cultures & so much more. I really appreciate the insight that you both offer, based upon what you all have learned throughout your different relationships. The "Inner" workings of the relationship are what take precedence, regardless of color, which you all so, generously, intelligently, & humbly have shared with us. I'm looking forward to learning & enjoying more of your beautiful union. A thumbs up to the ex's, children, extended family, & everyone working together, building a new dynamic of the relationships. It speaks volumes to the level of respect & maturity for which you all care for everyone involved.. Thank you for sharing!
Now you too have me addicted to watching your videos!!!...its because of the maturity...the realness...the sharing of life lessons!! John I need to inbox you😀😀 dont worry I'll be sending Barbara a copy.
They make me feel the same. I didn't realize how much I actually believe in love and not the superficial type, I love deep love and these two give me those vibes🥺😍🤗💚💙💜🖤
Interesting, loving with an open heart, takes healthy souls willing to go the distance, where ever it may lead. Always nice to engage and be able to learn from others journey! Thank you for sharing... 🥰
You guys have a beautiful, mature relationship. Pay no attention to ignorance and small-minded individuals. I appreciate and admire your openness (on your own terms) and honesty. Barbara...John in correct...You're Gorgeous girl!!! Looking forward to seeing more from you guys!! Stay Blessed and safe!!
Your maturity in discussing how you met, and the details, are very refreshing. Yes we all have come short, but it is great to see it's not holding you back from finding love. You both look so happy Stay happy ❤️
Watching you guys makes me think there is hope out there for people of mature age as I've been through so much and let down always. I am single again and I too if I found someone wouldn't be in a hurry to marry again but I know in life if it's meant to be it will be. Luv your relationship as it stands and god bless.
BARARA JUST LET GO OF THE PAST, THAT IS WHAT YOU WANTED . ALL IS WELL. YOUR EX FORGAVE YOU. JOHN IS SOOO PERFECT FOR YOU. HE HAS YOU. ALL WELL. LIVE YOUR LIFE GIRL. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.
Thank you for being so vulnerable in this video. One of our fears that held us back from starting a channel was dealing with backlash, so hearing you talk about how you've dealt with adversity is inspiring!
Seeing you guys for the very first time, and I subscribed almost immediately! Your level of maturity is sexy, and I love your candour! Continue to enjoy each other, and I hope this is your final relationship. It's worth going all the way to the end of time. Blessings! ❤❤
Barbara, John is good for you and your healing, you seem so serious and he so playful which I think you need to let go and enjoy life have a blessed and safe day look forward to your videos
Your Channel just showed up, I Think it's The New Orleans Things, The Place where you all are setting is The Area I grew up in, I Laughed when all said The Big Houses 😅😅 Funny, I've Nevered Watched your Videos, But, I'm here, I Hope you all had a Wonderful time In New Orleans!!
I am glad you told john re visiting your ex to help with the house, and even though you would have gone regardless, which I think it’s disrespectful to John
Very insecure is the person who talked backlash, that’s a personal opinion. I see your sharing your storing as giving light and hope to your subscribers. Keep doing you, there is the greater chance of helping more than hurting hurting. There are no coincidences, like you believe.
I think you two are meant to be life partners married or not, doesn't really matter maybe I'm projecting my feelings about your relationship and if I am, I'm ok because I wish you guys well and very happy long lives together 🤗😍 Much love from South Africa 💚💙🖤💜
Dear Barbara, spiritually you are searching, and it is not astrology/voodoo. The inner peace you are looking for is Jesus the lover of your soul. I pray you do seek Him and then your joy will be full. God bless you
Cher couple, Quand un amour est vrai, il est vrai. Alors vivez le dans toutes les vies; avec vos enfants et familles. Que Dieu soit votre partage et son amour votre essence. Je vous aime ! ❤💪🏽
Barbara you need to let go of the past and move forward with your new life with john turn the page or close that book because you will one way or the other still stay stuck there for one reason or another
I don't understand why are hanging on to your ex. You have no infant let alone any children with him. What is it? Is it guilt? Your ex is not family, that is why he is the ex without shared children. Let go, give John all of you not a piece of you. Because you give your ex a piece of you still.
Agreed. John is a good man for allowing that decorating trip. That was unnecessary and going down a very slippery slope. One foot in the present one foot in the past
Thank you, Bill. You learn something every day. The trees are truly beautiful...and the only trees I’ve ever seen that look anything like them are weeping willows. My mistake. - John
As a scopio and although deep thinkers we find it hard to express our emotions which comes across like emotionally detached. As an Aries, them Aries are usually out there.
Communication with One Another. Needs of hugs. Emotional connection and Support From My Man. I Wish I had not been so introverted in my past relationships with my Spouses. Lost some good husbands 😉. Wake Up New ERA. Roaming Is A Loss.
I feel like this is an adult venue. This is a channel for people who have had some life lessons underneath their belts. I can truly relate to your channel. My husband and I both were married before with kids in the mix. That dynamic alone is a story in itself. I love what you two are doing.
No way she's 46! What a gorgeous specimen. 8yrs difference is perfect 👌
Ok.....I thought we were gonna pretend we didn't have that surprised look when she said her age!!!!😂😂😂
what is a "specimen". racist much?
@@votesudanusa Well I'm black, so not racist much. Usually subconscious racists see racism in everything, you racist much?
Thank you. 💚
She is a human being not a lab specimen
Finally a mature couple to listen too, such a beautiful mature couple, it’s all about love & respect for one another. As a grandma, married over40 plus years, adult children can be difficult about your decisions, just gave to give time time, eventually situations will come to pass
Thank you 😊❤️
I’m 45 going through a divorce and you two are such an inspiration. I’ve been separated for a two years and I’m ready to move forward. I kept holding on to hope but I have so “outgrown” that union. I was very unhappy for a long time in that marriage and refuse to go back. I’m ready to open my options and live my best life!
You guys look ****(BEAUTIFUL)**** together!!!!
If you LOVE each other, THAT is ALL that MATTERS!!!
So true
Just watched all 4 videos. I like that you guys are an older couple. Blessings to your union.
Thank you for sharing your story. Mature couples are needed more to post vlogs like this story.
Hello to you. I appreciate this video. It takes a lot of courage to get online and be vulnerable enough to tell the truths that you experience in your relationship and life. Don't worry about what other people say, most of the time they would never post this type of video. Hats off to you. What you are doing is good and is helping a lot of people. Nothing is perfect and that is a good thing. Keep smiling and enjoying life and growing. Have lots of fun!!!!
It's refreshing to see such a beautiful couple that's honest & open with themselves, both as individuals & as a couple. I watched the 1st video last night, which I liked & subscribed. Today, I watched the remaining videos. I have always been very supportive of interracial dating, as I have always dated men based on their individuality, not their race. It has been a blessing, as I've learned/experienced the beauty of other cultures & so much more. I really appreciate the insight that you both offer, based upon what you all have learned throughout your different relationships. The "Inner" workings of the relationship are what take precedence, regardless of color, which you all so, generously, intelligently, & humbly have shared with us. I'm looking forward to learning & enjoying more of your beautiful union. A thumbs up to the ex's, children, extended family, & everyone working together, building a new dynamic of the relationships. It speaks volumes to the level of respect & maturity for which you all care for everyone involved.. Thank you for sharing!
Now you too have me addicted to watching your videos!!!...its because of the maturity...the realness...the sharing of life lessons!! John I need to inbox you😀😀 dont worry I'll be sending Barbara a copy.
Both of you make me believe that love is out there and I believe in love and relationships again.
Forgiveness is so very important to move forward God Bless you both🙏🏽🙌❤
They make me feel the same. I didn't realize how much I actually believe in love and not the superficial type, I love deep love and these two give me those vibes🥺😍🤗💚💙💜🖤
Thank you for your candor. It helps others to understand how others relationships work.
You both are gorgeous and you look good together.
Barbara has a beautiful smile. I can see why John is with her.
You are a great man to support your lady. Says a lot about you King🙏🏾
1st time seeing your video I think you are a beautiful couple 🎉🎊🎉🙏♥️♥️
You guys are Soo adorable and just so honest about y'all past relationships I love that
*Grown Folks 101* ❤️ it!
There is something about you two!
I slammed the subscribe button so fast.
Agreed
Love an honest and intentional man, John it is so good how you are open with Barbara. Communication is key.
Interesting, loving with an open heart, takes healthy souls willing to go the distance, where ever it may lead. Always nice to engage and be able to learn from others journey! Thank you for sharing... 🥰
Trueeee
Wonderful topic InnerRacial love the opennes of your relationship and what yall shared 👏🏽
Gorgeous couple! You both have great energy and such nice character. A great compliment to each other. Blessings to your ❤️
You guys have a beautiful, mature relationship. Pay no attention to ignorance and small-minded individuals. I appreciate and admire your openness (on your own terms) and honesty. Barbara...John in correct...You're Gorgeous girl!!! Looking forward to seeing more from you guys!! Stay Blessed and safe!!
I really appreciate the maturity of your sharing your story. 👏
Your maturity in discussing how you met, and the details, are very refreshing. Yes we all have come short, but it is great to see it's not holding you back from finding love. You both look so happy
Stay happy ❤️
I.love you guys channel. Barbara none.of.us.are sneaky clean...so.keep encouraging the older adults who are never too old to learn! Much.love...
Watching you guys makes me think there is hope out there for people of mature age as I've been through so much and let down always. I am single again and I too if I found someone wouldn't be in a hurry to marry again but I know in life if it's meant to be it will be. Luv your relationship as it stands and god bless.
Beautiful seasoned couple -- thanks for sharing your story!
BARARA JUST LET GO OF THE PAST, THAT IS WHAT YOU WANTED . ALL IS WELL. YOUR EX FORGAVE YOU. JOHN IS SOOO PERFECT FOR YOU. HE HAS YOU. ALL WELL. LIVE YOUR LIFE GIRL. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.
John what a gorgeous lady you have she is beautiful,you guys look great together God bless you 2
Thank you for this mature conversation. You both make a beautiful couple.
Good age, you suit each other😘
Beautiful Couple! Congratulations!
This lady is BEAUTIFUL!! Wow!
Thank you for being so vulnerable in this video. One of our fears that held us back from starting a channel was dealing with backlash, so hearing you talk about how you've dealt with adversity is inspiring!
Hello J&B I love your long videos. It has meaning and substance. 🙏🏾
Seeing you guys for the very first time, and I subscribed almost immediately! Your level of maturity is sexy, and I love your candour! Continue to enjoy each other, and I hope this is your final relationship. It's worth going all the way to the end of time. Blessings! ❤❤
You guys are a classy looking couple.
Very brave and open! I applaud you Barbara!!!
Hi InnerRacial, I just found your channel and appreciate your honesty and truth in answering questions from your viewers.
Beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing needed someone that was older to tell their life experiences in relationships.
Love conquers all, so let your love be your guide to push through all of the inevitable speed bumps
Great talk guys. Enjoyed listening to your stories and perspectives 👍❤
She's so beautiful ♥️♥️
Blessings to you both as you explore, learn more about each other and bond together ❤❤Real talk💯🙏🏾🙏🏼
Barbara, John is good for you and your healing, you seem so serious and he so playful which I think you need to let go and enjoy life have a blessed and safe day look forward to your videos
Gorgeous couple!!🤗🤗
They are wonderful together.
Loved the Q&A!
Love this couple...blessings upon blessings!👏
You two are gorgeous 😍
You guys make a great couple 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾
I don’t live too far from New Orleans and I love it! You guys make a beautiful couple!!
Thank you! 😊❤️❤️❤️
LOVED the VodooOlogist !🎩
Your Channel just showed up, I Think it's The New Orleans Things, The Place where you all are setting is The Area I grew up in, I Laughed when all said The Big Houses 😅😅 Funny, I've Nevered Watched your Videos, But, I'm here, I Hope you all had a Wonderful time In New Orleans!!
Absolutely beautiful. Jeez lol Bless!❤️
Thanks ❤️❤️❤️
I am glad you told john re visiting your ex to help with the house, and even though you would have gone regardless, which I think it’s disrespectful to John
And we all have faults no one on earth is that perfect person thats what make life interesting
You both look very youthful!
Just came across your you tube channel, love seeing a mature couple. 😊 Barbara is gorgeous!! Beautiful smile. 😊
Thank you Trini Gal ❤️❤️❤️
MORE VIDEOS PLEASE!!!!!!!❤️
Very insecure is the person who talked backlash, that’s a personal opinion. I see your sharing your storing as giving light and hope to your subscribers. Keep doing you, there is the greater chance of helping more than hurting hurting. There are no coincidences, like you believe.
I appreciate that!
By the way I love Bridgerton, can’t wait for season 2!!!!
And john you are a very handsome man seems to know where you want to be
You are so welcome
I think you two are meant to be life partners married or not, doesn't really matter maybe I'm projecting my feelings about your relationship and if I am, I'm ok because I wish you guys well and very happy long lives together 🤗😍
Much love from South Africa 💚💙🖤💜
He’s handsome and she’s beautiful
John looks like a young Kirk Douglas to me here..🤔 I’m still thinking about Barbara...😉 Thanks for the Q&A!
❤ you look so alike and beautiful together guys.
Love is amazing ! Embrace love! Embrace differences!❤️🥰❤️🥰. Nice couple!💕
You have to love family !! All through the stages !! Love from North Carolina !!
Dear Barbara, spiritually you are searching, and it is not astrology/voodoo. The inner peace you are looking for is Jesus the lover of your soul. I pray you do seek Him and then your joy will be full. God bless you
Cher couple,
Quand un amour est vrai, il est vrai. Alors vivez le dans toutes les vies; avec vos enfants et familles. Que Dieu soit votre partage et son amour votre essence. Je vous aime ! ❤💪🏽
Love Bridgerton!!!
Beautiful couple ✨
Hold on to your black queen king she is beautiful ❤️
We will hold onto each other. ❤️ ...but you are correct, Barbara is beautiful...inside and out.
Barbara you need to let go of the past and move forward with your new life with john turn the page or close that book because you will one way or the other still stay stuck there for one reason or another
I don't understand why are hanging on to your ex. You have no infant let alone any children with him. What is it? Is it guilt? Your ex is not family, that is why he is the ex without shared children. Let go, give John all of you not a piece of you. Because you give your ex a piece of you still.
Agreed. John is a good man for allowing that decorating trip. That was unnecessary and going down a very slippery slope. One foot in the present one foot in the past
Cute couple, I’m waiting for my own🥲
Beautiful couple
John, you are so adorable. you had me cracking up about the voodoo thing LOL!!!
Thanks Gigi 💚
Beautiful couple and great 😊 content 🥰😍
Thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️
Those are live oak trees and bald cypress trees draped in Spanish Moss. There are no weeping willows anywhere near there.
Thank you, Bill. You learn something every day. The trees are truly beautiful...and the only trees I’ve ever seen that look anything like them are weeping willows. My mistake. - John
I love how much Barbara understands and knows herself. Ps how can I find more about my sign astrology wise
You need Jesus Not astrology. I hope you call on Jesus and you will find your inner peace. God bless you.
Where there is love , there’ll always be jealousy.
As a scopio and although deep thinkers we find it hard to express our emotions which comes across like emotionally detached. As an Aries, them Aries are usually out there.
Yes, it's because Scorpio ♏ energy feels so deeply that it hurts. My Aquarius ♒ rising would rather analyze my feelings. ~Barbara
Calm down and enjoy one another just losen up and embrace life and respect one another
Very very attractive couple
Well wishes to you both, stay safe, stay blessed, stay humble..
I just cant see a man being free to truly be hisself around her without being judged.
You two are very good looking
Lovely couple God bless
Thank you ❤️
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Maturity!!!!
Wow beautiful couple
beautiful couple man .....i live not to far where yall at Audubon park ,i ride my bike there in the warmer months
Communication with One Another. Needs of hugs. Emotional connection and Support From My Man. I Wish I had not been so introverted in my past relationships with my Spouses. Lost some good husbands 😉. Wake Up New ERA. Roaming Is A Loss.
so if no one mentioned this yet, You look like Andrew Lincoln from The Walking Dead. Better known as Rick . Truly enjoying your videos.
He is a handsome guy
OMG you are amazingly beautiful!
And no way he 54
You guys are cute 😍 💓
She looks like Ciara