nex music seriously had that mentality when I left my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It wasn’t a spiteful type of I was the best for you, it was like she said, “I’m glad I could be some help.” My heart broke too but we weren’t happy and I was fortunate to see that before it got too late. Ahh this song is everything right now.
Vindictive, arrogant and bitter is the energy most try to avoid, and Blessed are the ones that recognize who is and isn't the possessors of that energy. Regardless of the idea of a time period for making that realization. Nothing but love and appreciation for everyone that I have encountered.
I know this album was about her overcoming someone breaking up with her. But this album, honestly, gave me the strength to walk away from a dangerous relationship and heal from it. God is good.
Yes it does! I knew a guy all my life and he contacted me and asked me out. Well of course I said yes. I have siezures , anoxic brain damage from pneumonia . I was deprived of oxygen. Well we went out for about a month and he asked me if I would his. Before I said yes , I asked him if he could deal with my disabilities and of course he said oh yeah baby I can. We've known each other all our lives. I'm not that shallow of a guy. I believed him and said yes. Well in February 2021 I went to the mountains with my family . He was also invited and his teenage daughter. He declined offer and told me him would watch my mini schnauzer. When I got back from mountains he brought my furbaby to me . He kissed me bye . He said he was in a hurry had to go. I said okay. Well 3 days went by nothing from him. So I text him and asked if everything was okay? His response was I just want to be alone. I asked if he didn't have to be at his house when I went to go get my things , because I didn't want to see him. His response was does it have to be this way? UMMMMM, yes it does. You've been knowing you didn't want to be with me , when you dropped off my furbaby to me. You just didn't have the balls to tell me. Three weeks later he was already with someone and post in a relationship on Fb. I thought I wasn't good enough for him . I believed if someone I knew all my life did me that way then anyone is going to do that. It has taken months to finally realize he was good enough for me. I cried many of nights. I came to the conclusion he will never be able to be in a long term relationship.
@Sailorperson I get what you're saying 100% went through a divorce with 3kids after a 15yr semi abusive marriage,was hard but felt good.This time I'm older and I kno is the person I should've met a long time ago&this will be the last relationship(if it ends)I'll have. But I do agree
so proud of you girl. I broke up with my boyfriend today cause he cheated on me. I hope next year I can come here and say that it doesnot hurt anymore.
“if your getting out, I’ll drive!” Loved this line bc it’s so important to let people go who don’t want to put in any effort to stay! If they wanna leave, open the door xx
"cause you said this then did that, took my heart gave it back. so how do you expect me to... be happy for you" love this! i know how it feels to do that same thing! i am still healing from the pain. God bless you Hollyn!!
I had a crush on my bff in 3rd / 4th grade, didnt have to guts to tell her until 5t which is after she moved. She- was okay with it when I told her, I felt myself blush a bit when I saw that..- I still like her and Im scared she doesnt like me back..
YES oh yes it really really does going through this exact same thing right now right at THIS very very moment AND it literally is tearing, ripping, my fricken heart ❤️❤️ into tiny tiny little little pieces little shreds of nothing!!!!!💔💔💔💔💔
Especially when married and have been completely destroyed by being loyal and dedicated....7yrs gone today. Smh Why is the ugliest most unanswered question there is. I love you Jame..... you're about to see how much....😥😖😱😱😱😟😟😟😢😢😢😤😤😤😩😩😩💀💀💀💀💀
Wow!!! I needed to hear that this very second!!! Thank you! Im healing, its gona take some time & I just started.... but I'm worth it! & LEARNING ABOUT MY "EMOTIONAL" SELF SO I CAN BREAK THAT PATTERN!!!
I feel the same way right now. My wife just took off few hrs ago. Said she just couldnt do anymore in a text message not even a phone call. After all the times i let her cheat on me
Whoever is reading this just know your better off without that person! You are beautiful and the right one WILL come. Have faith and stay true to yourself🥰😘
Tasha Rowe I believe heartaches and all pain we experience with love are all just LESSONS, ment to teach us something or help us grow to be the person we’re ment to be and for the person we’re truly ment to be with. Some lessons are harder then others. No matter what you MUST know YOU ARE WORTH MORE THEN YOUR LESSON, YOU MATTER! You might not see the positive in something so hurtful but in time you’ll see that it all happens for a reason. All I see in these comments are BEAUTIFUL ppl who’ve clearly loved and didn’t get the same in return. Don’t EVER let the inconsistency of someone stop you from loving or being the best version of yourself! 2 broken ppl do not make a whole. Healing and learning to love yourself is the best kind of LOVE you could ever give yourself and if no one told you, I CARE AND YOUR PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE🥰
Those words "Sometimes you win and then sometimes you loose." and how she delivers them. I can feel the utter panic of futility in them. Those words were written by someone who has to give up on someone they loved so much they thought they would be with them for the rest of their lives.
Like Trent Shelton said: "The only closure you need is knowing that you deserve better." I'm still trying to live those words but some days the pain overtakes me and I struggle to keep going. Love is a verb: trust actions and not words.
Thank you for finding me at a time I was just done, over, threw all I wanted to do was end... I'm blessed God lead me to your voice an experiences. I'm slowly coming back from that cold, dark, emptiness I FELL off in! YOUR TRULEY A GIFT!!!
“Glad that I could be some help!” That’s my favorite part! I feel like I’ve said this many times in my relationship. I just don’t have the time or the energy for these broken down guys that don’t know who they are anymore. Lol
I just stumbled across this song. Married 29 yrs , and had to have my leg amputated. Husband told me he wanted to separate 4 days before amputation. Left me, our 13 yr old son & 19yr old daughter for another woman 20years younger . Heartsick & feeling gut shot. This song is exactly what I needed.
6 years with a toxic guy, we broke up 2 years ago almost in August in still cuts me like a knife. He was toxic with his words and was a mental and a emotional abuser. Me feeling stupid i stayed with friends with him try to but i cut him off 1 year ago, it hurts because i loved him. I learn that i am better off, no one needs any abuse in a relationship you are amazing and you deserve the best. Work on yourself learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.
I've been where you're at and know where ya goin.. my soon to be wife and I were together 10years and as I was getting home from the night shift in the coal mines, I told her bye as she left for work on a fall Tuesday morning and never came home. And I fixed her a gourmet candle light dinner so we could eat before I had to go to work but the candles burned out on me... it hurts more than any pain I have ever endured! I honestly thought she was my forever girl so never say never, that's for sure!
Honey me too.....5 wasted years and lost my boy's over it. He just walked away. I'll be in therapy for the rest of my look life over the mental torment
This is how love really is. When you love someone and the relationship comes to a end and you wish them happiness no matter how it hurts you. Thats true love.
For all of you that were left with your heart in your hands...they didn't deserve it! Take it back even tho it hurts, allow the deep wound to heal. Someone will come along when you least expect and give your heart and soul the nurture it so needs💖
Cried my eyes out for someone who never loved me just tried to break me til there was nothing left. But today I am a person because I learned my worth was worth my sanity
"took my heart, gave it back" Whenever someone takes your heart. You trust them with it. But when the give it back. It hurts because you feel like you did something wrong, so they didn't want it anymore. Sometimes, it makes it so you can't trust others with your heart. It always will get better. Just takes time to heal
This song hits hard.... Every word. My heart was broken just like this song says. "Maybe you'll find yourself better with someone else...glad I could be some help". 💔
Dont be scared mate. I can totally relate to your feelings. It would sound cliche but, believe me, it will pass. The only reason you are scared its bcz you learned in a situation and now that situation changed. Let it happen. Let it go. Observe you thoughts and feelings and day by day will see them change for the better. Much love and take care of your self 💜
Sometimes it's best. Been single for a long time and every time I get with someone it feels like I'm always settling for less than what I want for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it's cheaters and sometimes it's just lazy dreamers. Never anyone chasing dreams or appreciating life for what it is. What they lack they always take from others. Sometimes single is the best life but it is what it is
Wow, this is truly the theme of my life. I’m 33 and feel like I havent nothing to show for it. This song speaks volumes to me. I dont know what Im doing but I can say Im not a settler and I want to do God’s will and I just havent reached it yet. Someday it will make sense. Great job guys! Love your music!
I’m 34 and currently in process of leaving a dude that treats me worse than I’ve ever been treated …and that Includes my mentally and physically abusive sons father….I have sat around being sad about where I’m at….I thought I’d be married, happy, with someone I love and loves me back….but I have come to realize I’m going to be happy and it’s going to come right when it’s supposed to….I learn a lot from every bad situation I’m in…I’ve also learned that I believe the main reason I’ve always dated ass hole scum bags is because I’ve always had a low self image and low self worth. I always had confidence issues and was my own worst critic and enemy. The older I get the more I learn to love myself and set boundaries and realize I deserve more! I was doing well and was with a great guy not long ago but I left him and met this dude who is horrible I relapsed on toxic relationships but I def learned from this that I can’t forget eat I deserve and I can’t settle for misery and sadness…my ex showed me what a relationship is SUPPOSED TO be like and it’s so much better with a non toxic partner. I know I’m still learning about life I just got a late start bc I was blinded and blocked by my self worth issues but we are still young and have plenty of time to get the most out of life, don’t give up and always put yourself first!!
I’m 33 as well. Still in love with my ex who broke my heart and I know I need to let go but it’s so hard. We (you and I) will figure it out and trust the process.
I lost my son to suicide 5yrs ago. I often want to join him cause I miss him so much. What stops me is my other 3 children and my grandchildren. I'm a suicide survivor. I tried years ago when I hit my rock bottom with depression, I had Noone who believed in me. I had to learn how to cope. 12 yrs on I'm here. 😊
I believe in you, please don’t do something you can’t get back from. My life aint pretty either, but please fight. You’re here for a reason and don’t you ever forget it!
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my son as well to suicide in July will be 5 years! I can relate to how you feel. It doesn't get easier and it feels like my heart will never be full again. Hang in there the love of our other children is the only reason we are still here.
Am so sorry to hear this my brother killed himself one year ago this month and it gets so hard with out him but then I think about my kids and how he wouldn't want me leaving them just cause he did am so sad still all the time he was my very best friend I loved him so bad my soul is still in so much pain I desperately need to talk to some one any one Stay strong
My insides are SCREAMING OUT AT THE PAIN I AM FEELING RIGHT NOW FROM THE MAN I THOUGHT WAS MY GOD'S GIFT SOULMATE!!!!!!!!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔...... Thank you SO MUCH for this song.... Your voice is absolutely amazing! God bless you!
I love this song.. she has a great voice.. this song hits my ❤️ it’s been a year 1/2 I’m still hurting and struggling, who Ever is reading this, I feel your pain, you’re not alone, let’s stay strong together. I ❤you
Been almost a yr for me hard when someone breaks u like that ,I'm just trying to work on me ,it's life but the one that made it easy an I could hold anytime I was upset died my best friend my 🐶 dog I don't know ,it's not helped anything I'll tell u that ,but u know what I'm not gonna stay sad forever, God I just want to me alone an she can just keep my heart.i don't need it anymore, good song ,but to whoever reads this ur not alone just work on u the inter person.i love u ♥ I steal have some heart left but God knows I will never get married I bought a ring an all I really thought we was ok .I mean it's life I guess I guess I never got the closer I needed I don't know ,I really don't think I'll ever be emotionally available, I'm emotionally unavailable at the moment.facts I'm here too just know u aren't alone hope yall have a good day
O me to. I'm only enough when his heart gets broken. His excuse is I build a wall so I don't fall in love with you. I don't think I will ever be good enough. Every time I try to just get him out of my heart and try to see someone else. He comes back and say I don't want to be without u in my life. And again I fall for it. Im just a country girl who just wants a honest caring man to care and love me for who I am, yes I don't have alot. But I have a heart and love. Sometimes I feel like Being me and loving a man will never be enough.
"i wasn't enough for you" Turnin' down the radio station Wanna have a conversation Pull into a parking lot Yeah, feel my heart is sinking down Feel it in my stomach now Like you tied it up in knots You say lets stay friends But whoever stays friends Hope I understand But I'll tell you where I stand If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you? Never saw the good in bye So I will never tell that lie If you're getting out, I'll drive, yeah Maybe you could "find yourself" Better with someone else Glad that I could be some help You say lets stay friends But whoever stays friends Hope I understand But I'll tell you where I stand If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you? Turnin' down the radio station Wanna have a conversation Pull into a parking lot (Be happy for you) Maybe you could "find yourself" Better with someone else Glad that I could be some help If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you?
This is the music and the voice that is authentic, beautiful, and real. No fancy video, no fancy makeup, no fake plastic singers. Only the voice and lyrics. Beautiful 😍. The world needs more of this...
I don’t know how i end up listening to this song but it touched my soul I Just wanted to say be happy forever i have loved you the most & gonna miss you forever
I felt this way at one point and then turned around and put my girl through the same shit of not feeling like she was everything. So glad we were able to grow up and buss through the obstacles over a 12 year span. We’re engaged now and we’re both excited! Now her flaws are memories that often makes me smile and she is the most beautiful woman in my eyes! She often relies on me to keep us together but little does she know that she has been the rock that encouraged me to grow into the soon-to-be husband of her’s. She may not be perfect but I don’t give a fuck because her imperfections is what makes her perfect to me.
Turnin' down the radio station Wanna have a conversation Pull into a parking lot Yeah, feel my heart is sinking down Feel it in my stomach now Like you tied it up in knots You say lets stay friends But whoever stays friends Hope I understand But I'll tell you where I stand If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you? Never saw the good in bye So I will never tell that lie If you're getting out, I'll drive, yeah Maybe you could "find yourself" Better with someone else Glad that I could be some help You say lets stay friends But whoever stays friends Hope I understand But I'll tell you where I stand If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you? Turnin' down the radio station Wanna have a conversation Pull into a parking lot (Be happy for you) Maybe you could "find yourself" Better with someone else Glad that I could be some help If that makes you happy, I'm happy Not wishing the best Cause I was that for you I guess it happens, it happens Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose When you lay down at night I hope you sleep alright Cause you said this, then did that Took my heart, gave it back So, how do you expect me to Be happy for you?
My soulmate died 9 months ago. This song is exactly how I feel about him and what happened, and when I sing it to him now I know he's listening. I love you forever John, no matter what.❤❤❤❤
“Took my heart, gave it back so, how do you expect me to be happy for you” I really felt that part...after recently being dumped. Coming out of an 8 year relationship, where he realized after all that time he wasn’t happy....
28 years, husband decided to leave, for another woman, then broke up with her, and now married to another woman. Just wondering, how long, he'd known both of them
I was in one for 9 years, and after all that said he wasnt happy too. I could see it bc he was slowly distancing himself from me. "You said this and did that, took my heart and gave it back" That really did it for me in this song.
@@sarahsrebro2432 so sorry... Seems nothing I did, made any difference. Bought him dinner, fo take to work with him, cooked for him, washed & dried his clothes .. after working 10 1/2 hour days myself.
@@sandyanderson1285 thank you, sorry for you as well. Men just dont have the compacity that us women have. The way we think, the way we can emotionally destroy us to the point where it seems to be no return. There more behind to what I said, THERES ALWAYS MORE. Now it's been a month, and already is tagging this other woman in photos. And it says my queen above a Simpson's picture with the lady in a tub, and him sitting there next to her in it. Saying a twisted tea for my lady. Your already involving yourself w another person. I think he was for weeks before he left me. Yes people lose their spark, but if it ment that much, youd want something better for both of you. I just had a kid hes 19 months now. And he wasnt there for half of it. Reasons I'd rather no say. But that isnt an excuse. So you can emotionally involve yourself with another woman, being w me. But you can't be involved w your son when he was "with me".now he wants to be super dad. And make it right. Nothing you've done this far has been right. I did chose to drag myself down with him in years before. But now that I started growing he couldnt except that. He didnt want to. He was to still be out til 2am. While I've been working long shifts too, and come back to take care of MY son. He doesnt deserve me or him. I keep saying that everyday. Weither she is a rebound or not. It's sad that I still want him but who you are as a person is disgusting I tell myself. Everything about it is sad. Us woman will do whatever it takes but they never see that as a simple appreciative thing. Always taken, not giving back. Sorry this was long..
I remembered having a meet and greet with her several years ago and it was one of the nicest experiences I have ever had. She's an excellent performer too.
Funny thing, I was listening to contemporary Christian music and this song popped up. Never even heard the original, but you’re absolutely beautiful and so is your song❤
She is selfish, thinks too highly of herself. Maybe, so love yourself. Find your own happiness dont be dependent. Protect your feelings or people will step on you. Your life will get better once you start loving yourself more.
It's a great message. I was bitter after my first wife left me with our 3 year old song to live a life with another. and disliked her and stayed bitter. But this song really express how eventually felt and let go of the hate and disgust. It made a tremendous difference in what and how I changed and became a better person. You take the path of this song and you'll get peace before you know it.
No matter what happens, I still love you for such a great human being you are. We're no longer together, maybe it's faith. I accept it, and I want to move on. Thanks for apprearing in my life, H. Thanks for all the lessons you've taught me about love. You mean a lot to me ❤
All that love you and for that person, give just a fraction of it to yourself…you’ll start to see how much you gave them, and how little you actually need to be happy. Eventually, you’ll fall in love with you. And man, that’s the greatest love you’ll ever feel.
OMG!! I love her voice with the acoustic guitar. Very good song from the vocal to the guitar to the lyrics that seem to touch many people deeply. Seriously a great song all the way around.
You are good! It's them that's messed up! They try to make you the scape goat for their issues. Women go through so much. You are beautiful you are the apple of GODS eye. IVE .I've been in 2 long abusive marriages. Where they black your eyes , tear down your self esteem but want you to build them up. WOMEN NEED TO ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER .AS females who carry so much of a load are so undervalued ! EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE! STRONG, INTELLIGENT BEAUTIFUL, NURTURING FEARLESS WOMEN!!! YOU ARE PRICELESS
You are good enough. He’s not capable of loving you the way you need it. It’s a blessing. Let people who are not for you GO. You are more than capable of being loved.
I always think of the same person whenever I listen to this song. He was my first love, my first heartbreak. I was too good for him and I deserved so much better. Thankfully I got it!
I want to say this song help me get out of a really bad place in my life, I put 10 years of my life into somebody I thought I loved and it was the only person I ever actually fell for in twenty-some years. We've been apart for a year-and-a-half now and she recently came back into my life trying to pull on my emotions just to be playing games and I heard this song, the song made me realize I'm worth so much more than that and I can't thank you enough for that. Listen to the song on repeat didn't make me sad but gave me strength. And for whoever needs to read this whether you're a man a woman or anyting between, just know that if you're putting your all into something and the person you're giving your all to isn't giving you the same... then don't sell yourself short for some more soul of love, you deserve so much more. And no matter how much you may think it in your mind that you don't deserve better, no matter how much you tell yourself that you'll be able to work this out, just know that you don't have to work it out. If you're unhappy or hurt because you're giving your all and they're not giving you the same thing it's time for you to realize that there are better things in the world. The minute you're able to love yourself without needing somebody to love you is the minute you can truly find happiness and then find what's really meant for you. Been single for a year-and-a-half now and I found somebody really nice to me, I'm taking things slow and it's looking up. So for those who are out there in a situation right now that they're trying to fight for something that may not be fighting for them just know that you are so special and you don't need anybody to make you feel that way. As a rapper I want to listen to said. "Its time to cut the bad fruit of the tree, make the sacrifice".
Wow ...are you kidding me right now ??... Good God// some dudes be so shallow .... anthony..you on here with that long ass post . That you're ex girlfriend probably sent you -- so you repost// in hopes that whatever female you prolly cheated on her with :: is reading this : like wow. He's so SWEET " AMAZ I NG ::HES PERFECT !! "WHY WOULD HIS EX HAVE EVER DONE HIM //anytype of way!?? .. and you heard this song when she played it for you .. I'm sure . 😂 hey buddy at least you listened to it.. stay truckin (real shit from real mfrs) !! Stay truckin in the fast lane of course ,, cause we know you ain't slow. ... " you said let's stay friends ,But whoever stays friends ?" WHO WOULD?? "WHEN you lay down at night , I hope you sleep all right " Cause you said this ,,THEN did THAT // TooK my Heart . Gave it back So HOW DO YOU. EXPECT ME .TO // BE HAPPY FOR YOU!??
The LOVE OF GOD ... is all you need. When God sends you the one (After you keep your eyes on Him and He has you where you need to be in order to be fully ready for that "one") then you can SHARE that love with them.
Amen! Seek the kingdom of God first. Put God first. And everything will follow. Walk with Him and you will never be disappointed. God is the only one who will never leave us and will always love us no matter who we are.
12 years I gave…and a daughter. I can honestly say I didn’t see it coming. I thought it was real. This song hits hard every time. It’s a masterpiece. Thank you
A true artist 100% 🗣❤ U should check out Jaylyns Love Trilogy! I think you'll love her, promise! Shes gonna be huge one day ruclips.net/video/kR98gFvZkGc/видео.html
This song is so beautiful! I heard one of the contestants on The Masked Singer perform it and I immediately came to You Tube to find it. I am a music lover and I love these shows that give us an opportunity to experience music from artist we may not have ever known about.
Honestly this song helped me in a way I did not think it would rain… I am in a marriage that has formed a lot of insecurities at night. I husband does not make me feel stable and I always fear of what tomorrow will bring. I think it comes from CO dependency. But the way that you kept your heart up in the air with God as well as showing your raw emotions it just really encouraged me to be a confident woman again for the 1st time in a very long time
I LOVE the tempo and sound of this song! Great hook! Just discovered this song and have listened to it about twenty times in the past hour .. wish there was this beautiful acoustic super extended song …it would be great at weddings, proms, etc, etc
You were enough otherwise I wouldn't have said let's go to Gatlinburg when there was a million other things that should have been took care off first. But I put your happiness first but somewhere I didn't put your heart first since. I'm sorry I missed that moment. I put you first in all decisions even when purchasing a loaf off bread. (BlueBunny) I missed it somewhere that moment missed was the moment 4ever after ended. Noones perfect. People define perfection there own way. You were my perfection. You said I wasn't happy anymore when I said I was. That's because you weren't happy anymore so this shows as me not being happy when it's me trying to hard to get your approval again. This doesn't mean I'm not happy. It means I'm busy finding your heart again so when I'm searching for your heart Cassie I'm outwardly appearing unhappy. Nope I'm busy searching for that moment. That moment missed. That moment to spark a bonfire. If I had plenty of chances and missed them all. It's because I couldn't trust anyone to help spark a moment. I put it all on us to spark that moment and trusting only you and that you were 1000 with me is the firey moment that naturally would have happened. It never came because you thought I couldn't trust you. Even when I said I didn't I did. I said alot of things that were lies to see how much we really knew each other. I'm sorry I couldn't hold all the weight on my shoulders. I thought I could. I was wrong. I love you when I say I don't. I will love only you even after death. So I'm left to see the world as it is without you. Garbage, internet trolling, a tool used to futher down the BROKEN. Because they are scared of the BROKEN and there ability to feel real emotions on levels that only the BROKEN can understand. To everyone else it's a Misunderstood Language sorted by categories and groups. Life has purpose with real love felt by the BROKEN. Jealousy of not being able to understand love from being nurtured and never feeling alone with riches and power to keep a person from being BROKEN is what the world is scared of. So destroy the BROKEN through stereotypes of how a person is supposed to live. Deception of what happiness is. (Kardashians,News,Paris) all things that once you get are still searching for more because it's a lie of what makes a person happy. Cassie Jaye Trusty I'm sorry I missed that moment and let you slip away too a world deep down you don't want. U can be happy again with another BROKEN being. Our story will end for you. (That's OK) for me it is the only story. Four months into my sentence is what BROKE ME as YOU WERE BROKEN ALREADY That's what made me Love. You wanted to give up. We stuck it through didn't we? AND I WOULDN'T TAKE IT BACK KNOWING WHAT IM GOING THROUGH NOW. IM BOUND TO YOU FROM TRUE LOVE. IF I WAS SO EAGER TO MOVE ON YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO GO A DAY WITHOUT ME. But I wouldn't want you to feel that you are nothing special and are replaceable. I couldn't fuck Wendy, Julie, or Kaitlyn. When I wanted to so I can prove to myself that I'm a man. (That's not a man Society calls that a man) TRUE LOVE FROM BEING BROKEN is what stopped any erection in my pants. So after this is read by anyone who has been BROKEN and UNDERSTANDS. Take every day as your last to make your partner smile as much as possible no matter what logic, money, or outside opinions say. Because you will make it through together forever when he/she is all that matters. Genuine forgiveness, trust, space, and hard work when you have your space will make it where he/she can't wait to get to you nomatter what or who they are around. WITH ALL MY LOVE, MIKEY JOSEPH MCCLANAHAN (BROKEN)
Wow another story of mine told from another....he's my true love he give me power to do better in life cuz I was beyond BROKEN but healing cuz him his love brings the brokenhearted together when we say our I do's we won't be broken but happily tamed...I wish I could have a clear sign from u AND know it's u without a drop of doubt that U mKm want it desire it gotta have it JUST as BAD as I DO....and I DO....love u love me...love me. Love u....love lil Ms L too.....we when see each other lead in a dance so I can put my arms around and look into it eyes and tell how ur still and always simply the BEST... I can see us no longer BROKEN...standing there happily tamed living life unbrokenhearted
Ugh I feel you. My ex boyfriend did the same thing. He would say one thing or say he would change and then do the complete opposite. He thought by just apologizing every time or saying he wouldn’t do it again that the actions would be excused. Always trust what people show you rather then tell you. Learned that the hard way.
@Seidian Causey yeah honestly these boys (or girls) just want us when they need someone to feed their ego. they never miss us they miss the unconditional attention they'd get even after they hurt us. My boy bsf broke my heart and left so many times and id let him back and he knew id do it.
“Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you”
That’s kind of energy you need when you walk away from a relationship
nex music seriously had that mentality when I left my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It wasn’t a spiteful type of I was the best for you, it was like she said, “I’m glad I could be some help.” My heart broke too but we weren’t happy and I was fortunate to see that before it got too late. Ahh this song is everything right now.
@nuitNo.6 omg so true, that's what I did when I kinda met him smh
nex music i know how that feels
Vindictive, arrogant and bitter is the energy most try to avoid, and Blessed are the ones that recognize who is and isn't the possessors of that energy. Regardless of the idea of a time period for making that realization.
Nothing but love and appreciation for everyone that I have encountered.
Make more love.
I know this album was about her overcoming someone breaking up with her. But this album, honestly, gave me the strength to walk away from a dangerous relationship and heal from it.
God is good.
I pray I get there too.
@@shalomwaithaka5822 I'll pray with you.
I know that wasn't easy. Proud of you for looking forward to a better day and doing what was best for you. May God continue to give you strength. 🙏
Good job!!!
God IS good all the time!🙌
RIP to the me that came here one year ago to cry my eyes out. Life goes on.
Congratulations hun!
How did you get through it?
Yes it does! I knew a guy all my life and he contacted me and asked me out. Well of course I said yes. I have siezures , anoxic brain damage from pneumonia . I was deprived of oxygen. Well we went out for about a month and he asked me if I would his. Before I said yes , I asked him if he could deal with my disabilities and of course he said oh yeah baby I can. We've known each other all our lives. I'm not that shallow of a guy. I believed him and said yes. Well in February 2021 I went to the mountains with my family . He was also invited and his teenage daughter. He declined offer and told me him would watch my mini schnauzer. When I got back from mountains he brought my furbaby to me . He kissed me bye . He said he was in a hurry had to go. I said okay. Well 3 days went by nothing from him. So I text him and asked if everything was okay? His response was I just want to be alone. I asked if he didn't have to be at his house when I went to go get my things , because I didn't want to see him. His response was does it have to be this way? UMMMMM, yes it does. You've been knowing you didn't want to be with me , when you dropped off my furbaby to me. You just didn't have the balls to tell me. Three weeks later he was already with someone and post in a relationship on Fb. I thought I wasn't good enough for him . I believed if someone I knew all my life did me that way then anyone is going to do that. It has taken months to finally realize he was good enough for me. I cried many of nights. I came to the conclusion he will never be able to be in a long term relationship.
@Sailorperson I get what you're saying 100% went through a divorce with 3kids after a 15yr semi abusive marriage,was hard but felt good.This time I'm older and I kno is the person I should've met a long time ago&this will be the last relationship(if it ends)I'll have. But I do agree
so proud of you girl. I broke up with my boyfriend today cause he cheated on me. I hope next year I can come here and say that it doesnot hurt anymore.
“if your getting out, I’ll drive!”
Loved this line bc it’s so important to let people go who don’t want to put in any effort to stay! If they wanna leave, open the door xx
"cause you said this then did that, took my heart gave it back. so how do you expect me to... be happy for you" love this! i know how it feels to do that same thing! i am still healing from the pain. God bless you Hollyn!!
thank you Hollyn for the love!! it means the world to me
I don’t understand how no one is complimenting not only her voice, but her simplistic beauty. Like damn I wish I looked like that.
Jasmine Cabunac she is beautiful!!
u r beautiful as you are!
Same lol. I swear. Its beauty
Jasmine, i am sure you are even more beautiful, you just dont see it. But i bet everyone around you aees it.
Jasmine Cabunac 👌🏽💯
These lyrics are so powerful... When you love someone with everything you have and they turn their back on you it hurts.
@Brian rolley
so true …go beyond everything but never good enough
I had a crush on my bff in 3rd / 4th grade, didnt have to guts to tell her until 5t which is after she moved. She- was okay with it when I told her, I felt myself blush a bit when I saw that..- I still like her and Im scared she doesnt like me back..
YES oh yes it really really does going through this exact same thing right now right at THIS very very moment AND it literally is tearing, ripping, my fricken heart ❤️❤️ into tiny tiny little little pieces little shreds of nothing!!!!!💔💔💔💔💔
Especially when married and have been completely destroyed by being loyal and dedicated....7yrs gone today. Smh Why is the ugliest most unanswered question there is. I love you Jame..... you're about to see how much....😥😖😱😱😱😟😟😟😢😢😢😤😤😤😩😩😩💀💀💀💀💀
3 guys I cared about did that , now they can kiss a rats ass cause they were selfish and stupid enough to let me go ❤️🔥💅💅😏
“He’s not your type, he’s your pattern.”
Oof! That hit💯
Right 😂
Merci ❤
Your rite thank you
Wow!!! I needed to hear that this very second!!! Thank you! Im healing, its gona take some time & I just started.... but I'm worth it! & LEARNING ABOUT MY "EMOTIONAL" SELF SO I CAN BREAK THAT PATTERN!!!
*Ladies*
Stop falling in love by their words. Fall in love with their actions.
ClassyMe Yes... ♥️😥
I need to learn this
Best advice on this thread.
Yesss. Anyone can tell you the sweetest things ever but not many can mean it nor show you that they mean it. It’s sad but it’s the truth y’all.
Not just for ladies.
I am going through this right now. I am learning its okay to let go people who dont love you the way you should be loved. Thank you for this song.
I feel the same way right now. My wife just took off few hrs ago. Said she just couldnt do anymore in a text message not even a phone call. After all the times i let her cheat on me
Whoever is reading this just know your better off without that person! You are beautiful and the right one WILL come. Have faith and stay true to yourself🥰😘
Thank you❤️
ty for that shit helped
Been cheated on twice went back twice
How can u feel that way when u don't even feel like ur enough n not trusted or believed in to b better than the mistakes to do better...
Tasha Rowe I believe heartaches and all pain we experience with love are all just LESSONS, ment to teach us something or help us grow to be the person we’re ment to be and for the person we’re truly ment to be with. Some lessons are harder then others. No matter what you MUST know YOU ARE WORTH MORE THEN YOUR LESSON, YOU MATTER! You might not see the positive in something so hurtful but in time you’ll see that it all happens for a reason. All I see in these comments are BEAUTIFUL ppl who’ve clearly loved and didn’t get the same in return. Don’t EVER let the inconsistency of someone stop you from loving or being the best version of yourself! 2 broken ppl do not make a whole. Healing and learning to love yourself is the best kind of LOVE you could ever give yourself and if no one told you, I CARE AND YOUR PERFECT JUST THE WAY YOU ARE🥰
Those words "Sometimes you win and then sometimes you loose." and how she delivers them. I can feel the utter panic of futility in them. Those words were written by someone who has to give up on someone they loved so much they thought they would be with them for the rest of their lives.
Super heavy. She is a strong person. Im barely getting through with my self.
"you say let's stay friends but who ever stays friends?" wow. felt that.
I felt this whole song.... 😭
@@Sparklepharts same!
That line hits so hard.....powerful but so true...
Frr
😢😢😢 Felt that as well x
Like Trent Shelton said: "The only closure you need is knowing that you deserve better." I'm still trying to live those words but some days the pain overtakes me and I struggle to keep going. Love is a verb: trust actions and not words.
John Mayer Song :)
I'm sorry, I hope it eases but yeah some days are harder than others. It hurts and I don't want better. I want him.
@@lia0281 100% agree with you. Here's hoping for better days for all of us. 💜
It's gotta be both Words and actions. Just remember that someone who treats you badly usually does not like themselves much either.
yeah, totally agree, some days the pain is stronger, but there's no other way than keep going, with pain and all
Thank you for finding me at a time I was just done, over, threw all I wanted to do was end... I'm blessed God lead me to your voice an experiences. I'm slowly coming back from that cold, dark, emptiness I FELL off in! YOUR TRULEY A GIFT!!!
"maybe you could “find yourself”
better with someone else"
girlll oh my god
thats what my ex did, said he needed time to fix himself, got a new boo in less than a week.
"Glad that I could be some help". Homegirl was spittin!
@@kokolatte825 hope I understand when I tell you where I nvh understand... lol
I like how you said that, There's a girl that definitely makes me a better person!!
“Glad that I could be some help!”
That’s my favorite part!
I feel like I’ve said this many times in my relationship. I just don’t have the time or the energy for these broken down guys that don’t know who they are anymore. Lol
Can someone give props to the guitarist?
Yesss he's incredible
They blend beautifully together-felt he was really respecting her voice with his playing.
right? he's awesome!!
I wonder if they’re married. They both have wedding rings on...
Such a chick. This not hrd to play... Its her voice.. And If u listen he is off at times.. But props... Happy¿
Found this song by accident and wow I’m in tears. Explains exactly how I’m feeling. Love this song!!!
Not by a accident everything happens for a reason ❤
It wasn’t an accident. You were right where you needed to be at that moment. I’m happy for you
@@tomasmolina3135ha e to steo gly agree 👍 fair play xx
I just stumbled across this song. Married 29 yrs , and had to have my leg amputated. Husband told me he wanted to separate 4 days before amputation. Left me, our 13 yr old son & 19yr old daughter for another woman 20years younger . Heartsick & feeling gut shot. This song is exactly what I needed.
Same.
I could never get tired of your song... I'm ever so grateful that your voice found me once again, so many years later... ❤
Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose.. your bigger purpose is elsewhere, but they got the only piece they were destined to receive. Keep it moving
Thanks I needed to read this. 😙☺
This young lady can sing! What beautiful vocals and the words to this song touches so many because we have all had our hearts broken at some point.
6 years with a toxic guy, we broke up 2 years ago almost in August in still cuts me like a knife. He was toxic with his words and was a mental and a emotional abuser. Me feeling stupid i stayed with friends with him try to but i cut him off 1 year ago, it hurts because i loved him. I learn that i am better off, no one needs any abuse in a relationship you are amazing and you deserve the best. Work on yourself learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.
I hope you’re doing great. Sending you positive energy and love. We all deserve to be happy . 🤍
I've been where you're at and know where ya goin.. my soon to be wife and I were together 10years and as I was getting home from the night shift in the coal mines, I told her bye as she left for work on a fall Tuesday morning and never came home. And I fixed her a gourmet candle light dinner so we could eat before I had to go to work but the candles burned out on me... it hurts more than any pain I have ever endured! I honestly thought she was my forever girl so never say never, that's for sure!
Wait on God's man for you...It will be worth it!
Honey me too.....5 wasted years and lost my boy's over it. He just walked away. I'll be in therapy for the rest of my look life over the mental torment
Feels good to read yall and not feeling alone
She has literally put her soul in this song..just amazing..soul wrenching.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is how love really is. When you love someone and the relationship comes to a end and you wish them happiness no matter how it hurts you. Thats true love.
Last Laugh it so so so hard 🖤
It is hard. But sometimes it's for the best. Love not suppose to hurt all the time.
I’m glad I just found this. She is underrated asf
True
I feel you I got excited abt this gem of a find
So underrated!
For all of you that were left with your heart in your hands...they didn't deserve it! Take it back even tho it hurts, allow the deep wound to heal. Someone will come along when you least expect and give your heart and soul the nurture it so needs💖
Cried my eyes out for someone who never loved me just tried to break me til there was nothing left. But today I am a person because I learned my worth was worth my sanity
I can't tell you how much this gave a voice to my pain! Thank you for sharing your beautiful talent with the world!
"took my heart, gave it back" Whenever someone takes your heart. You trust them with it. But when the give it back. It hurts because you feel like you did something wrong, so they didn't want it anymore. Sometimes, it makes it so you can't trust others with your heart. It always will get better. Just takes time to heal
This!
❤
sorry, no it does not ALWAYS get better. Reality
This song hits hard.... Every word. My heart was broken just like this song says. "Maybe you'll find yourself better with someone else...glad I could be some help". 💔
Thankful for coming across this song. He broke me. I’m trying to get over it.
My ex broke up with me, & it was the BEST thing that ever happened to me! Be patient!
Genuine love is always hard to get over. Believe me how old lady advice to you.
She is singing my life right now and it’s scaring me😓😭
Dont be scared mate. I can totally relate to your feelings. It would sound cliche but, believe me, it will pass. The only reason you are scared its bcz you learned in a situation and now that situation changed. Let it happen. Let it go. Observe you thoughts and feelings and day by day will see them change for the better. Much love and take care of your self 💜
Gideon Boateng #same
Despina Theodosd this really helped
I feel so much better now
Thank you❤️
Me too. 🤦♀️😂
And I’m a dude!!
Added to my ‘Feels but can’t relate because I’ve always been single’ playlist
😂😂
Shayna-Lee M.N this is sadder than the song 😂😂😭
lol same here..
Sometimes it's best. Been single for a long time and every time I get with someone it feels like I'm always settling for less than what I want for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it's cheaters and sometimes it's just lazy dreamers. Never anyone chasing dreams or appreciating life for what it is. What they lack they always take from others. Sometimes single is the best life but it is what it is
hahahah, feels same here😂 being single since born
“Not wishing the best, cause I was that for you” is too real
YEAH, THAT'S MY FAVORITE VERSE... 👍
Wow, this is truly the theme of my life. I’m 33 and feel like I havent nothing to show for it. This song speaks volumes to me. I dont know what Im doing but I can say Im not a settler and I want to do God’s will and I just havent reached it yet. Someday it will make sense. Great job guys! Love your music!
I’m 34 and currently in process of leaving a dude that treats me worse than I’ve ever been treated …and that Includes my mentally and physically abusive sons father….I have sat around being sad about where I’m at….I thought I’d be married, happy, with someone I love and loves me back….but I have come to realize I’m going to be happy and it’s going to come right when it’s supposed to….I learn a lot from every bad situation I’m in…I’ve also learned that I believe the main reason I’ve always dated ass hole scum bags is because I’ve always had a low self image and low self worth. I always had confidence issues and was my own worst critic and enemy. The older I get the more I learn to love myself and set boundaries and realize I deserve more! I was doing well and was with a great guy not long ago but I left him and met this dude who is horrible I relapsed on toxic relationships but I def learned from this that I can’t forget eat I deserve and I can’t settle for misery and sadness…my ex showed me what a relationship is SUPPOSED TO be like and it’s so much better with a non toxic partner. I know I’m still learning about life I just got a late start bc I was blinded and blocked by my self worth issues but we are still young and have plenty of time to get the most out of life, don’t give up and always put yourself first!!
I’m 33 as well. Still in love with my ex who broke my heart and I know I need to let go but it’s so hard. We (you and I) will figure it out and trust the process.
Wow I have never heard of this artist but I really like her voice
Dovewing25 25 same same
I really felt the lines “no wishing the best cuz I was that for you” and “I never saw the good in bye so I will never tell that lie”
I lost my son to suicide 5yrs ago. I often want to join him cause I miss him so much. What stops me is my other 3 children and my grandchildren. I'm a suicide survivor. I tried years ago when I hit my rock bottom with depression, I had Noone who believed in me. I had to learn how to cope. 12 yrs on I'm here. 😊
Sorry for Your Loss!!! ❤
Sending love to you ,I lost my nephew as well
I believe in you, please don’t do something you can’t get back from. My life aint pretty either, but please fight. You’re here for a reason and don’t you ever forget it!
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my son as well to suicide in July will be 5 years! I can relate to how you feel. It doesn't get easier and it feels like my heart will never be full again. Hang in there the love of our other children is the only reason we are still here.
Am so sorry to hear this my brother killed himself one year ago this month and it gets so hard with out him but then I think about my kids and how he wouldn't want me leaving them just cause he did am so sad still all the time he was my very best friend I loved him so bad my soul is still in so much pain I desperately need to talk to some one any one Stay strong
I had never heard of her until recently and I just love her ! She has this incredible voice and the sincerity is so amazing,her voice is just to good!
"I wasn't enough for you", "isn't harmless" and "I feel bad for you " are constantly on repeat" 😫❤💞
I’m back 3 years later feeling 90 percent healed Amen 🤍🤍🙏🏿
Me too🎉
My insides are SCREAMING OUT AT THE PAIN I AM FEELING RIGHT NOW FROM THE MAN I THOUGHT WAS MY GOD'S GIFT SOULMATE!!!!!!!!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔...... Thank you SO MUCH for this song.... Your voice is absolutely amazing! God bless you!
Ashley Paulsen it so hard to move on but you are so worthy of some who want to be with you know your self worth
Felt the same way...
I love this song.. she has a great voice.. this song hits my ❤️ it’s been a year 1/2 I’m still hurting and struggling, who Ever is reading this, I feel your pain, you’re not alone, let’s stay strong together. I ❤you
I do Love YOU❤️
we got this....
❤. It’s been 6 yrs for me. And I can’t let go. Lots of trauma bonding.
Been almost a yr for me hard when someone breaks u like that ,I'm just trying to work on me ,it's life but the one that made it easy an I could hold anytime I was upset died my best friend my 🐶 dog I don't know ,it's not helped anything I'll tell u that ,but u know what I'm not gonna stay sad forever, God I just want to me alone an she can just keep my heart.i don't need it anymore, good song ,but to whoever reads this ur not alone just work on u the inter person.i love u ♥ I steal have some heart left but God knows I will never get married I bought a ring an all I really thought we was ok .I mean it's life I guess I guess I never got the closer I needed I don't know ,I really don't think I'll ever be emotionally available, I'm emotionally unavailable at the moment.facts I'm here too just know u aren't alone hope yall have a good day
I love you too❤
This is amazing, effortless, and natural. She is who I want to hear on the radio
I'm speechless, this was everything... Who stays friends for real?
When she said “ maybe you could find yourself better with someone else. Glad that I can be some help”
FELT THAT TO MY CORE 🥺
O me to. I'm only enough when his heart gets broken. His excuse is I build a wall so I don't fall in love with you. I don't think I will ever be good enough. Every time I try to just get him out of my heart and try to see someone else. He comes back and say I don't want to be without u in my life. And again I fall for it. Im just a country girl who just wants a honest caring man to care and love me for who I am, yes I don't have alot. But I have a heart and love. Sometimes I feel like Being me and loving a man will never be enough.
💯🗣
Exactly me too.. helped him
My 3! Year commitment was in the way of a love much older.
I hope she has everything she needs,
As long as we can be friends.
That was me to my ex.
Her voice is out of this world ❤❤❤ why isn’t she super famous…
She’s soooo good. I feel this song deep in my heart, going through it right now
"i wasn't enough for you"
Turnin' down the radio station
Wanna have a conversation
Pull into a parking lot
Yeah, feel my heart is sinking down
Feel it in my stomach now
Like you tied it up in knots
You say lets stay friends
But whoever stays friends
Hope I understand
But I'll tell you where I stand
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
Never saw the good in bye
So I will never tell that lie
If you're getting out, I'll drive, yeah
Maybe you could "find yourself"
Better with someone else
Glad that I could be some help
You say lets stay friends
But whoever stays friends
Hope I understand
But I'll tell you where I stand
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
Turnin' down the radio station
Wanna have a conversation
Pull into a parking lot
(Be happy for you)
Maybe you could "find yourself"
Better with someone else
Glad that I could be some help
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
Anastasia Yakshina Thanks 👌🏻
Read the very last line of every paragraph. It all makes sense like that.
Thanks for Lyrics! GBU
Anastasia Yakshina thank you for thisssss!!
Thank you 💕
That was the best live performance I have seen in a few years. Absolutely flawless! You can tell she has lived those lyrics.
Dang old man, what a voice, bless you. He is all that’s left when it all dark, thank God He’s more than enough
I play this on repeat, until it hits my pain the way I need it too.
Same.... 38 fuc&':+; YEARS!!!! WOW... Kelly Reyes helps to
@@deinna101 yes . perfectly said
me currently listenen to it hoping it helps
Doing that now
Wow, you said exactly what my heart has been trying to say. Thank you, so insightful.
Goosebumps every time I listen to this song.
"Not wishing the best, because I was that for you."
This song still always brings me to tears because I felt like I wasn't enough
This is the music and the voice that is authentic, beautiful, and real. No fancy video, no fancy makeup, no fake plastic singers. Only the voice and lyrics. Beautiful 😍. The world needs more of this...
Totally agree with that
Prayers for anyone having suicidal thoughts and heartbreak. GOD’s got ou, you’ll be alright ❤️
😢 that's all I want to do is die
I say this all the time..."Lord please bless him with only the best and may he live the life he always wanted!
This one's my favourite. I mean listen to than guitar picking. Amazing voice Hollyn. God Bless
I could not have imagined finding something so enthralling tonight. Definitely took attention and did not give it back
Wow
❤
“Cause you said this and did that
Took my heart, gave it back”. This blows my mind each time..!!
We are all enough.. It's hard to believe how someone you love can break us but we can rise and learn from it. YOU ARE ENOUGH
This song is helping me so much get through my break up , ♥️♥️
I don’t know how i end up listening to this song but it touched my soul
I Just wanted to say be happy forever i have loved you the most & gonna miss you forever
She is singing my heart right now 😢
me2
Listening to this beautiful song at almost 59 years old, and still relating. Damn.
SS S music has no age. cheer up!
@@lovelyrose1811 Truth. Thank you.
Came across this song by accident and fell in love with it the first time I heard it I almost cried. Wow! I'm so blown away.
Try jessie ryez ..it figures..
I LOVE this song! Her voice is 🔥! Beautiful voice and a song I can relate to…..
I love how simple this song is, but it’s hard at the same time why is this girl not bigger? She’s so slept on ..
I felt this way at one point and then turned around and put my girl through the same shit of not feeling like she was everything. So glad we were able to grow up and buss through the obstacles over a 12 year span. We’re engaged now and we’re both excited! Now her flaws are memories that often makes me smile and she is the most beautiful woman in my eyes! She often relies on me to keep us together but little does she know that she has been the rock that encouraged me to grow into the soon-to-be husband of her’s. She may not be perfect but I don’t give a fuck because her imperfections is what makes her perfect to me.
Turnin' down the radio station
Wanna have a conversation
Pull into a parking lot
Yeah, feel my heart is sinking down
Feel it in my stomach now
Like you tied it up in knots
You say lets stay friends
But whoever stays friends
Hope I understand
But I'll tell you where I stand
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
Never saw the good in bye
So I will never tell that lie
If you're getting out, I'll drive, yeah
Maybe you could "find yourself"
Better with someone else
Glad that I could be some help
You say lets stay friends
But whoever stays friends
Hope I understand
But I'll tell you where I stand
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
Turnin' down the radio station
Wanna have a conversation
Pull into a parking lot
(Be happy for you)
Maybe you could "find yourself"
Better with someone else
Glad that I could be some help
If that makes you happy, I'm happy
Not wishing the best
Cause I was that for you
I guess it happens, it happens
Sometimes you win and then sometimes you lose
When you lay down at night
I hope you sleep alright
Cause you said this, then did that
Took my heart, gave it back
So, how do you expect me to
Be happy for you?
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Song is cock strong k@@JennaSmith14
Lyrics are available at the bottom
My soulmate died 9 months ago. This song is exactly how I feel about him and what happened, and when I sing it to him now I know he's listening. I love you forever John, no matter what.❤❤❤❤
“Took my heart, gave it back so, how do you expect me to be happy for you”
I really felt that part...after recently being dumped. Coming out of an 8 year relationship, where he realized after all that time he wasn’t happy....
28 years, husband decided to leave, for another woman, then broke up with her, and now married to another woman.
Just wondering, how long, he'd known both of them
Oh, also, ... this was all, less than 3 years after he left me.
I was in one for 9 years, and after all that said he wasnt happy too. I could see it bc he was slowly distancing himself from me. "You said this and did that, took my heart and gave it back" That really did it for me in this song.
@@sarahsrebro2432 so sorry...
Seems nothing I did, made any difference. Bought him dinner, fo take to work with him, cooked for him, washed & dried his clothes .. after working 10 1/2 hour days myself.
@@sandyanderson1285 thank you, sorry for you as well. Men just dont have the compacity that us women have. The way we think, the way we can emotionally destroy us to the point where it seems to be no return. There more behind to what I said, THERES ALWAYS MORE. Now it's been a month, and already is tagging this other woman in photos. And it says my queen above a Simpson's picture with the lady in a tub, and him sitting there next to her in it. Saying a twisted tea for my lady. Your already involving yourself w another person. I think he was for weeks before he left me. Yes people lose their spark, but if it ment that much, youd want something better for both of you. I just had a kid hes 19 months now. And he wasnt there for half of it. Reasons I'd rather no say. But that isnt an excuse. So you can emotionally involve yourself with another woman, being w me. But you can't be involved w your son when he was "with me".now he wants to be super dad. And make it right. Nothing you've done this far has been right. I did chose to drag myself down with him in years before. But now that I started growing he couldnt except that. He didnt want to. He was to still be out til 2am. While I've been working long shifts too, and come back to take care of MY son. He doesnt deserve me or him. I keep saying that everyday. Weither she is a rebound or not. It's sad that I still want him but who you are as a person is disgusting I tell myself. Everything about it is sad. Us woman will do whatever it takes but they never see that as a simple appreciative thing. Always taken, not giving back. Sorry this was long..
You took my heart and gave it back and I was there for you. How do you expect me to be happy for you?! Damn I felt this deep in my soul.
I remembered having a meet and greet with her several years ago and it was one of the nicest experiences I have ever had. She's an excellent performer too.
I am blown away by the power behind her voice. It's somehow soft and powerful all at the same time. Beautifully done.
Funny thing, I was listening to contemporary Christian music and this song popped up. Never even heard the original, but you’re absolutely beautiful and so is your song❤
Broke my heart twice.
Still trying to be happy for her.
But how can she be happy with another one when i am the best for her.
🍀🍀
I'm in the same boat
lok bahadur gurung 😔 same here? How can he do this to me?
😭😭😭
It's her lost you will find someone who will Love you
She is selfish, thinks too highly of herself. Maybe, so love yourself. Find your own happiness dont be dependent. Protect your feelings or people will step on you. Your life will get better once you start loving yourself more.
whoever is reading this, GET RIGHT WITH GOD! HAVE FAITH! TRUST GOD! GOD IS SO AMAZING! GOD BLESS!
Amen sister ❤️
I’ve never heard of her till now but her voice calms me down. It’s very nice! I hope she gains more popularity.
It's a great message. I was bitter after my first wife left me with our 3 year old song to live a life with another. and disliked her and stayed bitter. But this song really express how eventually felt and let go of the hate and disgust. It made a tremendous difference in what and how I changed and became a better person. You take the path of this song and you'll get peace before you know it.
No matter what happens, I still love you for such a great human being you are. We're no longer together, maybe it's faith. I accept it, and I want to move on. Thanks for apprearing in my life, H. Thanks for all the lessons you've taught me about love. You mean a lot to me ❤
Her voice is amazing! Great song. And she's so pretty.
It's so raw and perfect I can't stop listening to you , the whole vibe, the clothes, the background, it's simply perfect !
All that love you and for that person, give just a fraction of it to yourself…you’ll start to see how much you gave them, and how little you actually need to be happy. Eventually, you’ll fall in love with you. And man, that’s the greatest love you’ll ever feel.
I can listen to this on repeat!! She is such a great song writer/singer not to mention her voice..... she is so talented
OMG!! I love her voice with the acoustic guitar. Very good song from the vocal to the guitar to the lyrics that seem to touch many people deeply. Seriously a great song all the way around.
he acts like i never even existed. like i was nothing to him after he made me truly believe he loved me. why am i never good enough?
Same b...but let’s kill that part of our selves that makes us feel this way
Facts
I wonder the same . I have enough tattooed on my pointer finger to remind myself I am
You are good! It's them that's messed up! They try to make you the scape goat for their issues. Women go through so much. You are beautiful you are the apple of GODS eye. IVE .I've been in 2 long abusive marriages. Where they black your eyes , tear down your self esteem but want you to build them up. WOMEN NEED TO ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER .AS females who carry so much of a load are so undervalued ! EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE! STRONG, INTELLIGENT BEAUTIFUL, NURTURING FEARLESS WOMEN!!! YOU ARE PRICELESS
You are good enough. He’s not capable of loving you the way you need it. It’s a blessing. Let people who are not for you GO. You are more than capable of being loved.
I always think of the same person whenever I listen to this song. He was my first love, my first heartbreak. I was too good for him and I deserved so much better. Thankfully I got it!
I've had this song on repeat for about a month. It's ridiculously accurate. Amazing ❤
why is this girl so underrated? ilysm lyrics hit really hard
I want to say this song help me get out of a really bad place in my life, I put 10 years of my life into somebody I thought I loved and it was the only person I ever actually fell for in twenty-some years.
We've been apart for a year-and-a-half now and she recently came back into my life trying to pull on my emotions just to be playing games and I heard this song, the song made me realize I'm worth so much more than that and I can't thank you enough for that. Listen to the song on repeat didn't make me sad but gave me strength. And for whoever needs to read this whether you're a man a woman or anyting between, just know that if you're putting your all into something and the person you're giving your all to isn't giving you the same... then don't sell yourself short for some more soul of love, you deserve so much more. And no matter how much you may think it in your mind that you don't deserve better, no matter how much you tell yourself that you'll be able to work this out, just know that you don't have to work it out. If you're unhappy or hurt because you're giving your all and they're not giving you the same thing it's time for you to realize that there are better things in the world. The minute you're able to love yourself without needing somebody to love you is the minute you can truly find happiness and then find what's really meant for you. Been single for a year-and-a-half now and I found somebody really nice to me, I'm taking things slow and it's looking up. So for those who are out there in a situation right now that they're trying to fight for something that may not be fighting for them just know that you are so special and you don't need anybody to make you feel that way. As a rapper I want to listen to said. "Its time to cut the bad fruit of the tree, make the sacrifice".
Well said!!
Wow ...are you kidding me right now ??... Good God// some dudes be so shallow .... anthony..you on here with that long ass post . That you're ex girlfriend probably sent you -- so you repost// in hopes that whatever female you prolly cheated on her with :: is reading this : like wow. He's so SWEET " AMAZ I NG ::HES PERFECT !! "WHY WOULD HIS EX HAVE EVER DONE HIM //anytype of way!??
.. and you heard this song when she played it for you .. I'm sure . 😂 hey buddy at least you listened to it.. stay truckin (real shit from real mfrs) !! Stay truckin in the fast lane of course ,, cause we know you ain't slow. ...
" you said let's stay friends ,But whoever stays friends ?"
WHO WOULD??
"WHEN you lay down at night , I hope you sleep all right "
Cause you said this ,,THEN did THAT //
TooK my Heart . Gave it back
So HOW DO YOU. EXPECT ME .TO // BE HAPPY FOR YOU!??
Absolutely perfect. This is beautifully done. You're definitely in my favorites now. Good job
The LOVE OF GOD
... is all you need. When God sends you the one (After you keep your eyes on Him and He has you where you need to be in order to be fully ready for that "one") then you can SHARE that love with them.
Only His love completes us.
Amen! Seek the kingdom of God first. Put God first. And everything will follow. Walk with Him and you will never be disappointed. God is the only one who will never leave us and will always love us no matter who we are.
12 years I gave…and a daughter. I can honestly say I didn’t see it coming. I thought it was real. This song hits hard every time. It’s a masterpiece. Thank you
I felt every single lyrics pick at my heart.
and holy cow... her voice I was completely taken in right from the start. Keep it up!, Hollyn!
A true artist 100% 🗣❤ U should check out Jaylyns Love Trilogy! I think you'll love her, promise! Shes gonna be huge one day ruclips.net/video/kR98gFvZkGc/видео.html
This song is so beautiful! I heard one of the contestants on The Masked Singer perform it and I immediately came to You Tube to find it. I am a music lover and I love these shows that give us an opportunity to experience music from artist we may not have ever known about.
Honestly this song helped me in a way I did not think it would rain… I am in a marriage that has formed a lot of insecurities at night.
I husband does not make me feel stable and I always fear of what tomorrow will bring. I think it comes from CO dependency. But the way that you kept your heart up in the air with God as well as showing your raw emotions it just really encouraged me to be a confident woman again for the 1st time in a very long time
I LOVE the tempo and sound of this song! Great hook! Just discovered this song and have listened to it about twenty times in the past hour .. wish there was this beautiful acoustic super extended song …it would be great at weddings, proms, etc, etc
You were enough otherwise I wouldn't have said let's go to Gatlinburg when there was a million other things that should have been took care off first. But I put your happiness first but somewhere I didn't put your heart first since. I'm sorry I missed that moment. I put you first in all decisions even when purchasing a loaf off bread. (BlueBunny) I missed it somewhere that moment missed was the moment 4ever after ended. Noones perfect. People define perfection there own way. You were my perfection. You said I wasn't happy anymore when I said I was. That's because you weren't happy anymore so this shows as me not being happy when it's me trying to hard to get your approval again. This doesn't mean I'm not happy. It means I'm busy finding your heart again so when I'm searching for your heart Cassie I'm outwardly appearing unhappy. Nope I'm busy searching for that moment. That moment missed. That moment to spark a bonfire. If I had plenty of chances and missed them all. It's because I couldn't trust anyone to help spark a moment. I put it all on us to spark that moment and trusting only you and that you were 1000 with me is the firey moment that naturally would have happened. It never came because you thought I couldn't trust you. Even when I said I didn't I did. I said alot of things that were lies to see how much we really knew each other. I'm sorry I couldn't hold all the weight on my shoulders. I thought I could. I was wrong. I love you when I say I don't. I will love only you even after death. So I'm left to see the world as it is without you. Garbage, internet trolling, a tool used to futher down the BROKEN. Because they are scared of the BROKEN and there ability to feel real emotions on levels that only the BROKEN can understand. To everyone else it's a Misunderstood Language sorted by categories and groups. Life has purpose with real love felt by the BROKEN. Jealousy of not being able to understand love from being nurtured and never feeling alone with riches and power to keep a person from being BROKEN is what the world is scared of. So destroy the BROKEN through stereotypes of how a person is supposed to live. Deception of what happiness is. (Kardashians,News,Paris) all things that once you get are still searching for more because it's a lie of what makes a person happy. Cassie Jaye Trusty I'm sorry I missed that moment and let you slip away too a world deep down you don't want. U can be happy again with another BROKEN being. Our story will end for you. (That's OK) for me it is the only story. Four months into my sentence is what BROKE ME as YOU WERE BROKEN ALREADY That's what made me Love. You wanted to give up. We stuck it through didn't we? AND I WOULDN'T TAKE IT BACK KNOWING WHAT IM GOING THROUGH NOW. IM BOUND TO YOU FROM TRUE LOVE. IF I WAS SO EAGER TO MOVE ON YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO GO A DAY WITHOUT ME. But I wouldn't want you to feel that you are nothing special and are replaceable. I couldn't fuck Wendy, Julie, or Kaitlyn. When I wanted to so I can prove to myself that I'm a man. (That's not a man Society calls that a man) TRUE LOVE FROM BEING BROKEN is what stopped any erection in my pants. So after this is read by anyone who has been BROKEN and UNDERSTANDS. Take every day as your last to make your partner smile as much as possible no matter what logic, money, or outside opinions say. Because you will make it through together forever when he/she is all that matters. Genuine forgiveness, trust, space, and hard work when you have your space will make it where he/she can't wait to get to you nomatter what or who they are around. WITH ALL MY LOVE, MIKEY JOSEPH MCCLANAHAN (BROKEN)
@@michaelmcclanahan1991 if that makes you happy I’m happy
Wow another story of mine told from another....he's my true love he give me power to do better in life cuz I was beyond BROKEN but healing cuz him his love brings the brokenhearted together when we say our I do's we won't be broken but happily tamed...I wish I could have a clear sign from u AND know it's u without a drop of doubt that U mKm want it desire it gotta have it JUST as BAD as I DO....and I DO....love u love me...love me. Love u....love lil Ms L too.....we when see each other lead in a dance so I can put my arms around and look into it eyes and tell how ur still and always simply the BEST... I can see us no longer BROKEN...standing there happily tamed living life unbrokenhearted
when someone plays with ur trust and love by saying one thing but doing another a second later... yeah I feel it about my ex boy best friend
My ex boyfriend too. I feel like the dude wanted to take advantage of my love and feelings for him but when I tell him this he says I'm "super wrong".
Ugh I feel you. My ex boyfriend did the same thing. He would say one thing or say he would change and then do the complete opposite. He thought by just apologizing every time or saying he wouldn’t do it again that the actions would be excused. Always trust what people show you rather then tell you. Learned that the hard way.
@Seidian Causey yeah honestly these boys (or girls) just want us when they need someone to feed their ego. they never miss us they miss the unconditional attention they'd get even after they hurt us. My boy bsf broke my heart and left so many times and id let him back and he knew id do it.
I feel you 😭😭
Awesomeness😭💕
Ur music hits home and i believe in every word to this song....u want the ppl u love to be happy even if it hurts thats growing up.