4 Crazy Things About Girls I Wish I Knew Sooner

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • These are 4 things about girls that I wish I knew sooner, ideally, before I had turned 20. Had I fully understood these things before I got older, my life most likely would've been a bit more interesting.
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  • @tuanf01
    @tuanf01 3 года назад +663

    Never make women the main focus of your happiness. Focus on your purpose and success. When you're happy and successful, you will attract women like a magnet.

    • @kennylanqua6512
      @kennylanqua6512 3 года назад +7

      @Richard Gos spot on

    • @pduh42
      @pduh42 3 года назад

      I fully agree!

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 3 года назад +20

      I'd prefer a woman who is simply attracted to me because of my personality rather than what I drive or wear, that's definitely a red flag

    • @quinnsgumbite2247
      @quinnsgumbite2247 3 года назад +2

      Yeah why the fuck rich man marry gold digger that make him lost and stupid

    • @manchuriancandidatethe3rd101
      @manchuriancandidatethe3rd101 3 года назад +1

      @R Go just like women, money is also just a byproduct of purpose and success, so no, you don't really get the point.

  • @madstudent8939
    @madstudent8939 3 года назад +823

    "Real girls are never perfect, and perfect girls are never Real.

    • @YourDeath311
      @YourDeath311 3 года назад +20

      So let’s create it.
      Let’s make a Android female and replace this obsolete creature

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 3 года назад +2

      My guy from Mississippi use say that all the time

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +7

      @@YourDeath311 bro, sex robots come soon. With them we can also have emotional bonds. Unless our females start becoming female again and stop being so hyper career focused... they haven't deserved better.

    • @denpogi10
      @denpogi10 3 года назад +1

      @@YourDeath311 but Androids can't make babies, without babies the human species will be extinct in the future

    • @narop4911
      @narop4911 3 года назад +1

      Don’t worry I’m pretty sure we will find a way around it

  • @gabrieljordan8015
    @gabrieljordan8015 3 года назад +460

    As a former 'nice guy' I learned that even though yes nice guys finish last - we also get the last laugh.
    Once nice guys finally give up and start focus on bettering themselves as men then all the girls that ditched us for the chads and bad boys suddenly come crawling back. Unfortunately they are used goods by then and the nice guys have officially lost interest.
    My advice to young men out there is focus on improving your lives and don't worry about what girls or society for that matter thinks about you.

    • @1957346
      @1957346 3 года назад +14

      Thats exactly what happened to me

    • @inannaxanthus1749
      @inannaxanthus1749 3 года назад +26

      this happened exactly to me: "hi,i lost ur number" or "hi,hadn't seen you in a long time" and deep inside i was like "i am no longer interested even in talking to you,lol."

    • @paularnold2124
      @paularnold2124 3 года назад +16

      @@inannaxanthus1749 bro this is true...this one girl thought I had time to play her games....so out of the blue she ghosts me for a couple of months but luckily I learnt never to take such things into consideration she wants to go....I'd happily pack your bags and call you a cab😂...fast forward she comes back with hey...and I'm thinking what's wrong with this girl a couple of months won't change shyt

    • @joshuaquanstrom370
      @joshuaquanstrom370 3 года назад +2

      Big facts 💯

    • @luciusaureliuscommodus6520
      @luciusaureliuscommodus6520 3 года назад +10

      Bro this is exactly what happened to me and I am working on my niceness and caring less and less how I used to and started to focus on myself. Agree 100 with what you said. Single for 5 months now.

  • @dracon501
    @dracon501 3 года назад +364

    Guys, sometimes you peak at different ages. If you spent your 20s getting your life together go have fun in your 30s.

    • @minhkhuong6132
      @minhkhuong6132 3 года назад +10

      thanks for your wise words.. motivate me a lot

    • @tdaye6978
      @tdaye6978 3 года назад +59

      As a 30 year old who just spent the last decade getting his life together...I couldn't agree more
      And fuck all these weirdos talking about starting relationships too late or having kids at an "old" age. Most of them are jealous that they got stuck with kids in their early 20's and never had a chance to live their life or figure out who tf they even are. Be the guy in your mid 30's knocking down 20 year old college chicks that their peers are jealous they can't have

    • @mastertray
      @mastertray 3 года назад +24

      Thanks you. I am about go get 26 and my life is absolutly not together. I guess i will need time, maybe years to get it together. I am just afraid that this means, that the "fun" time will be over before i am able to fix my life. When i read something like your comment, it helps me to get motivated. All the best to you

    • @TheBigBrainn
      @TheBigBrainn 3 года назад +6

      @@mastertray It is actually even more amazing when you realize that we all share those mutual fears and are quite actually in the same boat all of our lives. You just have to see through your fears and you win.

    • @midnightstorm4290
      @midnightstorm4290 3 года назад +2

      @@tdaye6978 I'm 16 and my mum had me at 22.... LIKE WHAT THE FUCK?? Ye I'm not gonna have any kids till maybe 30 I think early 20s is way too young for me. Shit if I were go have kids at 22 I wouldnt even be finished with uni..

  • @ZacDuPreez
    @ZacDuPreez 3 года назад +304

    Dude if a girl leaves you at your worst, shes not the one

    • @barflin
      @barflin 3 года назад +12

      yep.....go forever no contact!

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 года назад +10

      well anytime she leaves, she is obviously not the the LMAO. one bitch leaves get another one, they are all the same

    • @baha3alshamari152
      @baha3alshamari152 3 года назад +3

      It's her nature to do so
      it's a lion nature to kill zebra and eat it you can't say he is not the one
      You should always understand that

    • @ZacDuPreez
      @ZacDuPreez 3 года назад +3

      @@baha3alshamari152 so if a guy leaves a girl at her worst,its okay,no its not

    • @baha3alshamari152
      @baha3alshamari152 3 года назад +2

      @@ZacDuPreez
      A man nature isn't to leave her at her worst
      it's to add another woman on the side

  • @massangabe
    @massangabe 3 года назад +395

    Women get crazy when they feel that you are weak. Especially at your lowest point they start testing your strength.

    • @greatdelusion7654
      @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад +64

      That is true. It’s an inherent defence mechanism in females. If the girl is quiet and indifferent toward you, you alreadly know you lost her. If she is screaming and yelling, driving you crazy, that’s a GOOD SIGN.

    • @nellynel6141
      @nellynel6141 3 года назад +37

      It looks like she’s testing your strength but really she’s just trying to squeeze the last drop of the powerful masculine energy you have left. Humiliation tactic

    • @nicekix3038
      @nicekix3038 3 года назад +1

      @@greatdelusion7654 What would you do if they try to give you another chance after giving you the silent treatment?

    • @BattleTested
      @BattleTested 3 года назад +8

      @@nicekix3038 run

    • @mike-cc3dd
      @mike-cc3dd 3 года назад +2

      No.. girls do that. Women are different. they dont live by their programmed nature but actually try to overcome that to be a woman. .

  • @x-man5056
    @x-man5056 3 года назад +271

    What I regret the most from my younger dating days is not the rejections, it's the times I let lack of confidence and fear of rejection keep me from trying. It is much better to get rejected by any woman than potentially let the one who might have said yes get away without trying.

    • @TheRonaldbaxter
      @TheRonaldbaxter 3 года назад +10

      Yes the confident older you is disappointed with the younger you, who lacked confidence for no good reason at all. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 3 года назад +10

      @@TheRonaldbaxter The "no good reason at all" is the part that gives angst. Missed out on some very attractive women for fear of a momentary rejection, the distress from which would disappear the moment I turned away as long as you let it.
      Apparently it's a fairly common issue.

    • @TheRonaldbaxter
      @TheRonaldbaxter 3 года назад +7

      @@x-man5056 Yeah, fear of rejection is stupid. However, when you are young you are so concerned what everyone else thinks.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 3 года назад +11

      @@TheRonaldbaxter Yes, better to give her a shot and let her say no than just say no to yourself on her behalf to protect your ego. So dumb.

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 3 года назад +3

      Dude facts. Everytime I see a girl I'm attracted to and I talk myself out of even trying, I go home and look at myself in the mirror asking myself "why didn't you even try?". You literally have a 50-50 shot, it's either a yes or a no. That regret is far worse than just a simple "no thanks".

  • @959pilot4
    @959pilot4 3 года назад +545

    This makes it seems like dating a woman is poimtless.

    • @SomeGuy-xf9bc
      @SomeGuy-xf9bc 3 года назад +85

      It doesn't make it "seem" like it. It illustrates it. Keep it casual and occasional.

    • @959pilot4
      @959pilot4 3 года назад +56

      @@SomeGuy-xf9bc and all women are like this? I mean im dating a chick. One thing i was taught as a kid, pay attention to their actions and youll never be fooled by their words. Call me crazy but i dont belive we were meant to be alone.

    • @abde4645
      @abde4645 3 года назад +51

      @@959pilot4 yeah don't listen to the losers who think women are some kind of demons there are bad and good women out there and i agree its been proven over and over that being alone isn't the best way to live

    • @SomeGuy-xf9bc
      @SomeGuy-xf9bc 3 года назад +47

      @@959pilot4 I had a guy lecture me on my views one time. 6 months later his wife served him papers. I genuinely wish everyone well, but the odds are not in a mans favor with regard to long term commitment.

    • @959pilot4
      @959pilot4 3 года назад +25

      @@SomeGuy-xf9bc my guy we're doomed from birth. Everyone has had relationships go south. But not everyone is out to hurt ya. If mine goes south then it is what it is. Sure it will hurt, but i will live. Only things garuntee in life us death and taxes.

  • @The_Future_isnt_so_Bright
    @The_Future_isnt_so_Bright 3 года назад +211

    Words to live by : ''You'll lose alot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money.''

    • @kelvinmudadi4732
      @kelvinmudadi4732 3 года назад +6

      I like it

    • @rogue_spirit
      @rogue_spirit 3 года назад +4

      10/10!!!

    • @doreenlane2370
      @doreenlane2370 3 года назад +3

      Not always true in marriage. If you leave your wife for money than you will most likely lose your wife.

    • @magicnik5737
      @magicnik5737 3 года назад +3

      @@doreenlane2370 bro if i ever leave my wife home its prolly gonna be buisness

    • @robertedwardn
      @robertedwardn 3 года назад +2

      Also WRONG

  • @glevando
    @glevando 3 года назад +201

    She's not yours, it's just your turn. And yes, don't be a nice simp. That will get you nowhere despite what Hollywood says. Decent video.

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 3 года назад +3

      I tend to think that this saying is mostly used by young guys & guys who've been cheated on. I doubt if you would still use it on someone that bears your kids and is your wife

    • @OriginalKingRichTv
      @OriginalKingRichTv 3 года назад +2

      @@Rassy_ naw it’s all the same

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 3 года назад

      @Harvey Smith the simp part is true, dont be one but trust me there are good women out there, only extremely rare to find though

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +149

    Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 3 года назад +1

      Factz

    • @2000rayc
      @2000rayc 3 года назад +1

      HOODVILLE

    • @kennylanqua6512
      @kennylanqua6512 3 года назад +1

      I see that men must be the ones who are treated as celebrities by women, not the other way around

    • @jccgold
      @jccgold 3 года назад +4

      @@kennylanqua6512 nop. Men like to protect and love their women, women only love their children. It's sad

    • @kennylanqua6512
      @kennylanqua6512 3 года назад

      @@jccgold it looks like a dude has to find a way to make himself lion appealing so a woman somewhere would look at him as the celebrity instead. Because as the saying goes if the woman sees that the dude is looking at her as the celebrity then she won't be interested in him

  • @barflin
    @barflin 3 года назад +80

    Another thing i learned after my 4 year relationship with my girlfriend ended with her cheating on me was.....If they cheated on their ex husband to be in a relationship with you, it's only a matter of time they will cheat on you as well. I was a fool for believing anything she was saying the whole damn time. CGE

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 3 года назад +10

      Sorry about that, but the good thing is that she was only your girlfriend & not a wife

    • @darryledwards3675
      @darryledwards3675 3 года назад +1

      😂🤣

    • @davidmccarthy8599
      @davidmccarthy8599 2 года назад

      Live and learn mate u almost asked for that one shoulda known better u probs done her ex man a favour nxt time get a single one there bad enuff lol

    • @nlouisf
      @nlouisf 2 года назад

      I thought we all know about this 😂

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +356

    A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 3 года назад +7

      You really need to update this Bro. Just simple change "better" with something else.
      No one is "better" than any one else and "no one likes to feel "inferior" to anyone.
      In terms of being a human being, different people are good at different things that much is true.
      A man is better at certain things compared to a woman and woman is better at certain things compared to men. One side isnt overall better than the other and neither side believes the other to be inherently better.

    • @MasterWarlock1935
      @MasterWarlock1935 3 года назад +23

      @@xMckingwill you seem to have missed the point, of the article, of the comment, and of the reality of mankind. The article points out that what women think they want and what they instinctly actual want are different. If you present yourself as what they SAY they want, you will almost always lose.
      It's a fact, substantiated by many studies going back generations, that women do indeed seek out men who are better than they are. Better in education; better in income and career; smarter and wiser; better in handling problems; even latger, taller, and stronger than they are.
      To say that no one is better than anyone else sounds noble, but in fact it requires ignoring six thousand years of recorded history. Geniuses are not just smarter, they are better adjusted and more prosoerous, and have far better readership skills than average people, let alone below- average people.
      It's a fact that in this country everyone has the same RIGHTS and FREEDOMS as everyone else. It's not true that no one is better than others.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 3 года назад

      @@MasterWarlock1935 no i have not missed anything, I think you missed my point, you have missed my point completely. And you have not actually read what I put.
      I literally said different people are better at different things, I guarantee there is a woman out their that is smarter and wiser than you, but i doubt you feel like she is superior to you on a fundamental level. Or you feel less human because of it.
      You don't seem to understand what i mean by no one is "better" then anyone else.
      I mean no one is sub human, less tham human, or losses their dignity as a HUMAN being. There is a difference between acknowledging someone is better at something you are, but that doesn't mean you feel less human compared to them.
      I'm making a point better does not mean superior. They like certain traits but it doesn't not come from a place
      " oh I'm attracted to him because I feel inferior to him"
      This is not the case.

    • @abde4645
      @abde4645 3 года назад +4

      @@xMckingwill bro chill its just a single word and yes go look it up women like you more when they feel that you are better than them

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 3 года назад +1

      @@abde4645sigh its not the case they are not attracted to you because they feel inferior to you. Stop trying to give yourself an ego boost.
      Yes they like strong, confident, etc men . That much is obvious, but again being attracted to those traits does not come from a place of feeling inferior as a human being.
      The reason im hung up on one would is that it creates a toxic view of women and a false idea of how they view the world, it creates a superiority complex.

  • @DJ-JayKo
    @DJ-JayKo 3 года назад +97

    Damn, these hit hard. Just broke up with a girl and these things definetly ring a bell. Definetly can relate to this and realize that I have felt basically all of these attributes. Thank you for sharing!

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 3 года назад +3

      Stay focused on your purpose the right woman will come

    • @DJ-JayKo
      @DJ-JayKo 3 года назад

      @@houseofmatrix6174 true that brother, same to you!

  • @WATDC
    @WATDC 3 года назад +56

    You're giving advice I've never heard from anyone else before. That tends to happen pretty often. Your channel is called far from average for a reason.

  • @KCinSD84
    @KCinSD84 3 года назад +148

    Women are ruthless if they feel you getting weak in a relationship. Cold assassins!!

    • @Ashtonishing1812
      @Ashtonishing1812 3 года назад +6

      Yep, they only stick if they believe you are strong

    • @factcheckingyourmum
      @factcheckingyourmum 3 года назад +13

      Yeah weakness is unattractive.

    • @kayasper6081
      @kayasper6081 3 года назад +1

      Completely true!

    • @florianb3935
      @florianb3935 3 года назад +6

      ​@R Go Believe it or not, it's surprising to men to discover how women judge them and how their love can be "conditional".
      Per education, a man would never feel OK to leave a woman for a flaw that she has. We have to protect them at any cost, to bear with them, not be superficial, etc. Leaving a woman is always an asshole thing to do, unless she's totally crazy. Now of course that skews things a bit, because then an asshole is just a guy that dumped his gf, and then some wonder why assholes "win".

  • @AC-qz3tv
    @AC-qz3tv 3 года назад +427

    You know he's spitting absolute facts when you see no female in the comments disagreeing

    • @TheJLH
      @TheJLH 3 года назад +20

      Lmfao, these videos don’t populate for any rational chick in a RUclips algo.

    • @Marina-wi3rs
      @Marina-wi3rs 3 года назад +2

      @@LliamMoore just a female trait??

    • @manonshadowfax2482
      @manonshadowfax2482 3 года назад +8

      @@TheJLH wait, there is a female that is rational..? We must protect them!

    • @amilitux8202
      @amilitux8202 3 года назад +23

      As a female, I agree to what he is saying. We want a man who respects and can stand up for himself. At the same time, respects us.
      If a man respects himself, it means that he is good in decision-making and has a good coping mechanism at his low points in life. That is attractive.
      But we don't want a misogynist who is arrogant and has a pickup artist vibe, it's very annoying. If a guy does PUA things to any woman, I want to reap his gut out. PUA vibe only works with women who have low self-esteem.

    • @richcohen5936
      @richcohen5936 3 года назад +12

      @@amilitux8202 So why do girls date and have crazy sex with goons, criminals & serial killers? Why do they go crazy for them but pretend that those guys are the worst? I think what you're saying is you want a competent alpha guy in your 20s and a security guard in your 40s. But you still don't want men to judge you, so spinning the wheel to feel larger than life sort of manipulation.

  • @jasonjanthony6857
    @jasonjanthony6857 3 года назад +21

    I’m 49 and throughout my late teens, 20’s I got women easy cause I played ball but could never hold on to the ones I had feelings for cause my introvert, still very insecure nature. Listening to your videos it’s like I’m starting over in learning female nature but with 30 years experience in dealing with them. So much easier the second time around. Thanks for the great content.

  • @luise7054
    @luise7054 3 года назад +83

    Hypergamy doesn't care, is so much easier when you finally understand it

  • @modernconsumer2813
    @modernconsumer2813 3 года назад +85

    i feel like he just told me "dont be mad that a scorpion is going to do what a scorpion does". what is happening right now.

  • @VincentVega987
    @VincentVega987 3 года назад +98

    A feminine woman does not tolerate emotional or mental weakness in men, except if you want to be just friends. Passing a woman's test was one of the most valuable thing I learn from your channel

  • @coreyloucks4865
    @coreyloucks4865 3 года назад +34

    Spiderman didn't get the girl because Peter Parker was nice, he got the girl because of many different variables. He was mysterious, always vanishing, had a moral code to live by, was super smart, and so much more.

    • @thedudeabides3930
      @thedudeabides3930 3 года назад +3

      Also, he was part spider.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Год назад

      @@thedudeabides3930 And now that we identify as whatever we want, you too can be part spider. Ain't it great?

  • @Mahoni2101
    @Mahoni2101 3 года назад +19

    Yeah, I have had the same experience, so inductively speaking this is another affirmation of the hypothesis. When I was at my lowest point and needed my girlfriend the most, she dumped me. As C.G. Jung said: "no tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell." This was definitely a learning experience. We win or we learn.

  • @justexploring6979
    @justexploring6979 3 года назад +25

    Loved the video bro. At this point, I'm not even actively searching for girls anymore; just focusing on making myself a better man.

    • @deltad9627
      @deltad9627 2 года назад

      Goodluck! Not every man needs a woman to get through life. I'm a woman myself, and I don't disagree with anything stated in this video. I wish you luck! Ciao

  • @myleshorton1125
    @myleshorton1125 3 года назад +77

    One thing left out is female nature is a big reason if not the main reason why a lot of females grow old unhappy or alone or both. Think about it, everything about a female’s happiness is temporary Because she is never satisfied. She’s always looking for the next best thing. It’s almost like they’re not meant to be truly happy. Where as with men it’s the simple things that make us happy it doesn’t take much to make a man happy because it’s our destiny to be happy. It’s our nature to make the best out of what we have and use it to make more. Women don’t move like that. They move into an already finished project and leave it when they’re no longer happy with it. This can create an endless cycle of searching for happiness. This can lead to a life of loneliness and utter sadness when they’re older but this is in fact their nature. So to be honest you shouldn’t feel angry at them because of their nature actually you should feel sorry for them. But don’t let them use you. educate yourselves.

    • @truthimagination2997
      @truthimagination2997 3 года назад +8

      EXACTLY! WELL SAID!

    • @purpessenceentertainment9759
      @purpessenceentertainment9759 3 года назад +8

      They’re trying to move into the best possible option. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I want the best option when it comes to women. The problem is, happiness is internal, not external. Both genders have issues with that.

    • @kostasplafountzis6602
      @kostasplafountzis6602 3 года назад +13

      because they are narcissists ,most of the pretty ones at least,they think all the world goes around them and everyone is here on earth just to please them as a servant...

    • @myleshorton1125
      @myleshorton1125 3 года назад +9

      @@purpessenceentertainment9759 That’s the problem there is no best option for women there is only best for right now. She will go with the best option for her current situation and when she depletes its resources and becomes unsatisfied she will just move on until nature finally sets in and her options go away.

    • @purpessenceentertainment9759
      @purpessenceentertainment9759 3 года назад

      @@myleshorton1125 True. It's all about how she thinks you make her feel. Be you. She likes you because you are who you are. Don't let her change you. She's going to try. It's like a game of chess. Let her know who king is.

  • @BG-sq7zf
    @BG-sq7zf 3 года назад +226

    Sweet/Good Guy: I finished last and kept her in the end like a real man. I man up. I stepped up.
    Bad/Jerk Boy: Finished on her face.

  • @chrisbunka
    @chrisbunka 3 года назад +8

    One of the older ones here, dude. I didn’t learn it when I was younger. Learning it all now and loving it!

  • @Charles-gm9tf
    @Charles-gm9tf 3 года назад +13

    All of the things are true, I always remember the one girl that told me "I love you with all my heart Charlie" and two days later she told me in front of all my friends that it was just bet that she couldn't even win, because she wouldn't date a guy like me for more than two days

  • @TheDarkstarsk8allday
    @TheDarkstarsk8allday 3 года назад +49

    You sound exactly like AMS. Down to the patreon

  • @mikegeorge8132
    @mikegeorge8132 3 года назад +33

    A strange game in which the only winning move is not to play. - WOPR

    • @clover831
      @clover831 3 года назад

      Wise and profound words..

    • @grega6580
      @grega6580 3 года назад +2

      Yeah great. This is the most discouraging video I've seen on the subject. So I'm too old, too boring, too shy. Guess I'll give up completely.

  • @ToBeKing
    @ToBeKing 3 года назад +26

    This is basically all the things I learned in my experience. The only thing I had a problem with is that I thought their nature was like my nature

  • @Angrybogan
    @Angrybogan 3 года назад +16

    "They're interested in your resources..." - That says they all belong to a profession....What is that called again?

  • @joealkanovski513
    @joealkanovski513 3 года назад +38

    An advice from an mature guy: it's not yours, it's just your turn so don't be nice and stay like a rock so at least whe she decides to leave you she won't forget your personality and she will regret after.

    • @Eternalcarclub66
      @Eternalcarclub66 2 года назад +1

      That's powerful brotha. I'm gonna remember that and take it to heart. Thanks 👍

  • @sum575
    @sum575 3 года назад +4

    Watched it, liked it, support it.
    'cause this is my favourite channel

  • @haohuynhnhat3881
    @haohuynhnhat3881 3 года назад +1

    I very much appreciate you sharing those bits of knowledge. Thank you a lot!!

  • @NotA_Coincidence
    @NotA_Coincidence 3 года назад +1

    Oh my word!
    Thank you SOO much! That helped a lot more then I thought. The 3 things to focus on are 3 things I need to get better with, so Thank you so much you really helped me out :)

  • @firekungfuhero1150
    @firekungfuhero1150 3 года назад +17

    It's sad that being nice isn't enough or it doesn't work, they only care that you are smart, rich, and have a gift to gab

    • @ianwaltham1854
      @ianwaltham1854 3 года назад

      I agree with you. It's crazy.

    • @Robohead-z6z
      @Robohead-z6z 2 года назад

      Too be fair aren’t guys kinda the same with women, but with their looks? I’m married and even I have to say it is better not to be married.
      Ps. I love my husband and he loves me.

  • @stephanledford9792
    @stephanledford9792 3 года назад +7

    As a guy, I subconsciously make a risk vs reward calculation when making decisions in my life. This video and other like it (along with the 50% divorce rate and the treatment men get in family court) make it pretty clear that the risk/reward calculation doesn't work at all for men in marriage, and it's a close call on anything more than just being friends with females.

  • @nonglansantos1455
    @nonglansantos1455 3 года назад +2

    Thanks, I have made mistakes on all four, back in the day. Too much pain back then, now I know why what happened, happened to me. We need more content like these please.

  • @jacquesbertuzzo
    @jacquesbertuzzo 3 года назад +1

    As usual, love this video and found it very useful. Keep going!⚡

  • @darkknight6069
    @darkknight6069 2 года назад +8

    Recently I had my heart broken by this girl I wanted to be with this video offered me perspective on it I can feel however I want to feel but I can’t blame her for wanting happiness with someone else while I’m still going through one of the most painful times in my life and doubt that I will look back at this and laugh I still want to see this as a lesson that I will carry on and adapt.

  • @ats4670
    @ats4670 3 года назад +39

    I understand what you are trying to say, but being “biologically programmed” for something doesn’t mean as a higher thought creature, human, we should give into our animal self.

    • @linsleyghurahoo
      @linsleyghurahoo 3 года назад +5

      I suspect this advice came out of dealing with girls and not women.

    • @bullymaguire2061
      @bullymaguire2061 3 года назад +14

      Humans are animals.
      Don't expect anything more.

    • @thepeter3116
      @thepeter3116 3 года назад +1

      There's no matriculation to adulthood in the city life. Not really a gendered thing, just technological.

    • @ZingerCarlJ
      @ZingerCarlJ 3 года назад +1

      We are biologically programmed to spread our seed

    • @HowTwo007
      @HowTwo007 3 года назад +5

      Yes. We are capable of higher thinking, but the biological programming of the limbic system ( mating behavior) is always the default. Both men and women have their own programming. 80% of marriages today end in divorce. And 90% of which are initiated by women. Its not that 90% of men are abusive, but 90% of the women resort back to the limbic system at some point and relize they can do better than the guy they are with.and pretty much all men while in a relationship, if given both an opportunity and reason ( so not putting out) to cheat, will resort back to limbic programming ( spead genes by any means necessary).
      Post nut clarity is your brains switching from limbic system programming back to prefrontal cortex.

  • @riecehinshaw2630
    @riecehinshaw2630 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this video.

  • @mexikleo8449
    @mexikleo8449 3 года назад +66

    Just one thing though. Living a more exciting life to be more attractive to girls, while I believe that to be true, is still not a good way to go about it. Have a more exciting life for yourself, not to be seen as attractive, but so you are satisfied with your own accomplishments and your own life choices when you are older. Love yourself first, women will follow.

    • @truthimagination2997
      @truthimagination2997 3 года назад +2

      Yup!

    • @kzzzc
      @kzzzc 3 года назад +3

      Nice mindset bro

    • @bunnyfemin8986
      @bunnyfemin8986 2 года назад

      I like your point of view!! Yes it is truee in vice versa, I love myself first and the men will follow.

  • @light3267
    @light3267 3 года назад +17

    The best way to keep a girl is loving them less than they do.

    • @kelvinmudadi4732
      @kelvinmudadi4732 3 года назад

      It's hard

    • @light3267
      @light3267 3 года назад

      @@kelvinmudadi4732 yea but don’t make the same mistake i did 😅

    • @light3267
      @light3267 3 года назад

      @selva kumar i said less, not love them

  • @ChildOL
    @ChildOL 3 года назад +5

    So I was talking to her about how I felt regarding something she was doing then she started talking about herself making me feel sorry for her instead, and I asked her “why are you trying to make me feel guilty?” And she said “oh if I want to make you feel guilty I can make you feel guilty”. 😳

  • @pioneerjatt93
    @pioneerjatt93 3 года назад +1

    Thanx bro much needed this video today. 🙏🏽

  • @frugalgems5242
    @frugalgems5242 3 года назад +1

    Wow. This helped me in a tought time . I was not expecting that thank you

  • @susza89
    @susza89 3 года назад +6

    There is a big difference between being nice and being a simp...
    You can definitely still attract women by being nice and you should keep the women that is attracted to that (it shows shes got good values).
    Pro tip: be more nice to your targets friend/sister. She will get jealous and will want you very fast just so her freind/sister dosnt get you. I know seems counterintuitive but that's women...

  • @g.private9101
    @g.private9101 3 года назад +7

    I'm 55 and just learning this.

  • @adofficial869
    @adofficial869 3 года назад +2

    best type of videos . another part please!!

  • @haroldmartin2468
    @haroldmartin2468 2 года назад

    FarFromAverage: You accuracy is refreshing! Thank you, thank you, TY TY TY!

  • @Crosland_Hill
    @Crosland_Hill 3 года назад +15

    5:50-6:20 When I was at university in the 1990s, the guys who seemed to get laid most were "bad boys" but were not really archetypal Alpha males - they were confident around women, uninhibited and fun-seeking, but definitely not very focussed or goal-driven, and didn't seem to have many interests apart from excessive drinking, electronic dance music and taking recreational drugs. I was hopeless with girls at the time, and if I'd wanted to improve I had no role models other than these shallow degenerates whom I envied but did NOT want to be like. This left me very confused for many years about what women wanted.

    • @veev327
      @veev327 3 года назад +2

      I'm a woman and only date woman and I'm also confused

    • @notthemlgtom494
      @notthemlgtom494 3 года назад

      Are you still a 50 yo virgin? Lmao

    • @Crosland_Hill
      @Crosland_Hill 3 года назад +1

      @@notthemlgtom494 No to both - but I'm in my 40s and don't have as much experience as I'd like to. I'm hoping to change that in the next year or two.

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 3 года назад +4

    "Many of the great leaders in the future for humanity will have to be women. It is their destiny. It is what they must do. If this is denied, then humanity will not progress. It will remain captive to history, to tradition, to conflict and war. Being providers and maintainers, women are more given to establishing peace and cooperation. In a traditional sense, they have to make families work, they have to hold families together, they have to take care of people directly, intimately. Do you see the advantages here?"
    A quote from the teaching entitled *The Age of Women* which you can read or listen to free online at NewMessage .org

  • @abdolhamedsharef2924
    @abdolhamedsharef2924 3 года назад

    Thank you for your countless efforts

  • @garybentlage481
    @garybentlage481 3 года назад

    Thank for this, very informative👍😊

  • @johnnythekid4601
    @johnnythekid4601 3 года назад +12

    The other thing is when your unattractive you could be the most exciting person and take all sorts of risks.. However the women would question your maturity because if your in your 20s, and 30s and above and unattractive there is never an excuse to be childish and lack maturity in the minds of all women. but someone good looking can get away with acting immature because women like it when good looking men don't take life so seriously.

    • @trevorforrester3142
      @trevorforrester3142 3 года назад +3

      The dynamic you're talking about is the same as if an unattractive guy tells a very funny joke she will roll her eyes and think he's creepy and may even attempt to get him in trouble, whereas an attractive guy could walk up and LITERALLY say "BLA BLA BLA" and she would melt in his arms. It's ok to not be interested in someone but not set out to destroy their self esteem.

    • @johnnythekid4601
      @johnnythekid4601 3 года назад

      @@trevorforrester3142 you mean a dirty or offensive joke

    • @johnnythekid4601
      @johnnythekid4601 3 года назад +1

      But of course all jokes an unattractive man would try to tell will be seen as offensive.

  • @brunocunha3114
    @brunocunha3114 3 года назад +4

    This kind of video disappoints me about what girls really want. This really frustrated me because I was so wrong, so far form the reality. Thank you, you open my eyes

  • @zeeqayoom2191
    @zeeqayoom2191 Год назад

    Bro your so on point as I always say we don't own people we should just go with the flow and have fun and enjoy the journey

  • @arjun9w748
    @arjun9w748 3 года назад

    Thnx bro.. needed this.

  • @rodneyoben4465
    @rodneyoben4465 3 года назад +11

    I believe that some level of "niceness" toward girls, and people in general, is important. So, please, could you do a video explaining where to draw the line between "niceness" that leads to a relationship and "niceness" that leads to the friend zone?

    • @konradrojo3572
      @konradrojo3572 3 года назад +1

      No. Your belief is wrong there's no need.

    • @JaredDeinlein
      @JaredDeinlein 3 года назад +1

      The term your looking for is being a charismatic gentlemen like James bond. But not being a millhouse chasing Lisa

    • @alexanderthegreat3424
      @alexanderthegreat3424 3 года назад +6

      Well. We know that we dont want to be an asshole to everybody, as we don't want to be assholed ourselves by anyone (duh, typical golden rule).
      That's what I believe the 'niceness' OP is referring to.
      But there is a disconnect in that generic social niceness and the simping niceness that the video is talking about.
      The video simply means, 'Dont be nice to a girl you like just because you wanna impress her and hope she would like you back. Just no! I suggest you treat her like any generic human being you just happened to be hanging with'

  • @irishluck8681
    @irishluck8681 3 года назад +8

    It’s important to build up confidence but stay humble. The male hero’s in my life had that quality but didn’t have to be a mean cocky person. I don’t care what people think the best male roll models bring inspiration not discouragement.

  • @markussanchez1346
    @markussanchez1346 3 года назад +1

    This is the best and most honest video ever!!!

  • @Herostone.
    @Herostone. 3 года назад +1

    This cemented alot for me bro thank you

  • @syafiqzailan
    @syafiqzailan 3 года назад +38

    "look at her, you think a women like that sniffing around because she like your personality? Your mother was beautiful too. They're all beautiful, until they're snarling like a pack of ravenous wolves after your trust fund." -Norman Osbourne, Spiderman 2002

  • @kyleoxtoby
    @kyleoxtoby 3 года назад +9

    You’l get men who start to decline with cancer and their wife still love them and stand by them until they pass. So surely if they really love them they’l be loyal through it all and not that all women just have no heart and leave. Thats the only point i could debate with

    • @hollysmith1347
      @hollysmith1347 3 года назад

      Worked aged care. More women stood by their declining husband's than reversed saddily. The husband's that did always got huge praise for it. Usually women were also their husbands carer. Usually one of the wife's (if wife was declining) one if the kids would look after her and not the husband.
      Just what I saw 7 years working in age care.

    • @sasbttrr
      @sasbttrr 3 года назад +1

      Married women don't leave their husband .. because they are already married and even if it's legal to get a divorce it's hard to come by people that would actually want to settle with her at a age past 35. So they instead choose to help their provider who is sick because if he isn't there she has to be the provider. Everything women do has a sinister logic with it especially in this modern day world.

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 3 года назад +2

    Great stuff...I still would appreciate somebody explaining. Exactly what "confidence" means. What type of confidence. I hear the term thrown around so broadly.

  • @mrthomaslaux1
    @mrthomaslaux1 3 года назад +1

    Thanks. All very true. Good vid

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 3 года назад +10

    Uhh I'm 30 and too late... I wish I saw this when I was 15

    • @greatdelusion7654
      @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад +17

      What are you talking about? 30 is still young for a guy. Hell, life begins at 40! Men age like fine wine. The world is your oyster.

    • @zerubbabelsbridge
      @zerubbabelsbridge 3 года назад

      Lol this is when it starts for you.

    • @greatdelusion7654
      @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад +2

      ​@@zerubbabelsbridge
      Life starts for me every day, at dawn, when I see the sun rise. Try me again.

    • @abde4645
      @abde4645 3 года назад +9

      Lmfao bro you know that women find men in their 30s more attractive than in their 20s you are in the sweet spot

  • @thetrashtalktvshow
    @thetrashtalktvshow 3 года назад +3

    Im tired of people saying its ok for women to ditch the guy they're with when he falls off, just because they're women and they're "supposed to" but if it were a friend all of a sudden now its considered wrong. It's wrong in every situation, period

  • @limdydarryl
    @limdydarryl 3 года назад

    Thank you very much for this.

  • @anthonybrown2352
    @anthonybrown2352 3 года назад +1

    You explain things brilliantly

  • @tomlloyd9364
    @tomlloyd9364 3 года назад +9

    Start a company, if it doesn’t work out, keep trying and eventually one will be perfect for you, just like a women. Real women don’t care how much you make. Real men don’t always drive Ferrari’s.

  • @greatdelusion7654
    @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад +35

    Translation:
    Be Brad Pitt, not Edward Norton (not necessarily in looks, but in ethos).

    • @Zack________________
      @Zack________________ 3 года назад +1

      explanation please, bro

    • @greatdelusion7654
      @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад +6

      ​@@Zack________________
      Sorry, my bad, it’s a Fight Club (1999) movie reference, bro.

    • @psiga
      @psiga 3 года назад

      Aaaand Brad Pitt still ended up divorced.

    • @greatdelusion7654
      @greatdelusion7654 3 года назад

      @@psiga
      But Tyler Durden didn’t. He transcended marriage and divorce.

  • @conkersquirrel8872
    @conkersquirrel8872 3 года назад +1

    Ever noticed how this channel is just plain awesome?

  • @tebnuhotep217
    @tebnuhotep217 3 года назад

    This Really Helped Out A Lot Bro💯💯💯💯. Thank U

  • @ineskamber4344
    @ineskamber4344 3 года назад +3

    Real woman will always chose the man who behaves nice, who is kind and gentle to her... so kindness and politeness is very important to a woman like me... please cherish that and be nice to a woman if she is good one, ive rejected many men just cause they didnt behave properly and were jerks

    • @LGinux
      @LGinux 3 года назад +1

      I agree, but there's one detail I'd add. Women like men who are kind as long as they are also assertive and confident.
      I think this video is a bit black and white tbh, I think your message is right. Real women will appreciate kind men; as long as they also are 'men'.

    • @Rassy_
      @Rassy_ 3 года назад +1

      @@LGinux Agreed, most men in this comment section are going with the 'treat them like trash & they will stick around' logic

  • @lifewithbakari1413
    @lifewithbakari1413 3 года назад +3

    Nothing will be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome🗣

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 3 года назад +1

    You are 100% right thank you!

  • @rohitkumarsingh336
    @rohitkumarsingh336 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much 💛

  • @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
    @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 3 года назад +5

    Some of the men's channel videos are saying just dump getting involved with females completely at any age. Focus on yourself and maybe get your wealthier and you can buy, rent all the female service providers you want. Your assets would also be safe from divorce too.

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 3 года назад +10

    Hes right I was a douche bag to my ex for 12 years lol

  • @domingodeanda233
    @domingodeanda233 3 года назад +1

    That was pretty damn good, thanks

  • @at6161
    @at6161 2 года назад

    Very good advice in this video

  • @TheRonaldbaxter
    @TheRonaldbaxter 3 года назад +20

    If I could put my 50 yr old brain into my teenage body I would have had so much more fun and excitement with the ladies! 🙂😋

  • @trevorforrester3142
    @trevorforrester3142 3 года назад +3

    Whether it's programming and or natural or call it whatever you want... It still translates to a very "conditional" connection in which is a very different "love" experience than a man has with a woman.. imagine telling women that it's just the way men are programmed to just leave out Of no where because that's just the way men are.. See what reaction you'd get from from just saying "Oh well! Just deal with it!"....If a man has to constantly play games with a woman in order to keep her around because her programming is stronger than her ability to commit... It's time to say good bye and live a drama free life. It becomes not worth it.

  • @somosElSALVADOR
    @somosElSALVADOR 3 года назад

    You have quality content bro

  • @tuhinmondal1820
    @tuhinmondal1820 2 года назад

    Good content...👍

  • @Lerrycapetime
    @Lerrycapetime 3 года назад +5

    I can understand at 4:33 girls brains run on an Intel core I5 and not an AMD processor so it makes sense to me with the logical reasoning of this informidable video

  • @nrmlyaroy7135
    @nrmlyaroy7135 3 года назад +3

    Moral of the story is concentrate on PURPOSE yeah that's what my parents are telling me and I love it

  • @thegreatandsigmaticgiants8307
    @thegreatandsigmaticgiants8307 3 года назад +1

    Deep video man I can relate

  • @leviwoodruff4610
    @leviwoodruff4610 3 года назад

    Great video, how did you learn this information?

  • @garymcneill4958
    @garymcneill4958 3 года назад +4

    Nice guys DON’T finish last … the boring ones do!
    Always stuck with me :) you're welcome.

  • @forrestb1165
    @forrestb1165 3 года назад +6

    Nice guys don't always finish last. If the "nice guy" is wealthy, - This is the big game changer.

    • @sideskroll
      @sideskroll 3 года назад

      By the way, she bought me things, coffees and dinners with HIS money... So yeah, I'd say he finished last...

    • @mrda2611
      @mrda2611 3 года назад

      I imagine that if the guy wants more than a hole or three to stick it in, that's a recipe for insecurity: "Does she love me or my money?"

  • @toluwanidaniel7841
    @toluwanidaniel7841 3 года назад +1

    Your thinking is truly far above average!

  • @ankitsinghgujjar4226
    @ankitsinghgujjar4226 3 года назад +2

    Brother, I've been watching your videos since about 2-3 years now. Never subscribed; because I'm an idiot sometimes. I did subscribed just before writing this, I hope you don't get all crazy on me for being so late. But I do respect the work you do. Period!
    Now the even more important question/curiosity... whenever you mention an Alpha, why is it always a gorilla in the illustrations? I consider a Lion as the perfect alpha in a real life scenario. But that's my opinion. I would love to know your reason for an alpha as a gorilla.
    All being said and done, I'm an author and you inspired a book that I'm writing. So, I respect you and very much obliged for what you do. Keep it up! Cheers mate!

  • @jpoeng
    @jpoeng 3 года назад +12

    I wouldn’t have said “be meaner” but be more focused on your purpose and masculine. Real masculinity isn’t “mean” but just isn’t simping.

  • @mzansimomentsreloaded913
    @mzansimomentsreloaded913 3 года назад +5

    And this is why men go their own way...

    • @Naka-wc3yo
      @Naka-wc3yo 3 года назад

      Yea there are men who are doing that, but i feel those men just have a hard time accepting that its a woman's nature to want a man that can protect or provide for them, love is never unconditional

    • @mzansimomentsreloaded913
      @mzansimomentsreloaded913 3 года назад

      @@Naka-wc3yo True but the conditions should be sincere and based on loyalty.

  • @brchp9385
    @brchp9385 3 года назад

    The best content of Far from Average

  • @twafikalkhameri902
    @twafikalkhameri902 3 года назад

    i love you man all i have been through you describing it in this video