The first on could definitely have been a cryptic pregnancy if she’s telling the truth about not knowing. And if there only been dating for 4 months then the baby was conceived well before they met. Not cheating 💀
She was most likely lying she had the baby 4 months into the relationship so she was pregnant 5 months before that's plenty of time to find out about a pregnancy especially after missing 4 or 5 periods
@@Bluebox3some women continue to have periods even when pregnant and some women have PCOS which naturally makes their periods extremely irregular. My friend just had her baby not to long ago and they didn’t know she was pregnant until they were 6 months along. Baby was born 2 months later.
@@unsoundfoxlydid she just not notice her water breaking too? Did she not notice she was gaining a lot of weight her eating habits changing? Like how tf does someone grow a 5 pound lump of baby and not notice? I've never had a kid but I assume you'd notice at the 8 mouth mark at least
@@Bluebox3 this baby was born featherweight premature it was 4 pounds 4oz and can still fit in the palm of your hand like a chipotle burrito. She is a tall women so that 4 pounds was not noticed. She only decided to take the test because she started having weird food cravings and her husband suggested they take a test.
Fun fact: pregnancy can actually NOT be noticed, theres a nurse on tiktok, Stevioe, who quite literally said that he had a mother and neither one could tell she was pregnant despite her being near ready to burst. People can in fact, not notice theyre pregnant, until the baby comes shooting out
@@maishal7034 no, if the dude doesn’t want to have the responsibility to raise a kid, let alone one that is t his, it’d be a totally valid reason to leave. You can’t force someone into being a parent or step parent. Besides 4 months isn’t that long so it’s not like they’re in some long time commitment either
For one, half the people in these comments are the slowest people I’ve ever seen. They are TWO SEPARATE STORIES. The first girl didn’t cheat if she was pregnant for FIVE MONTHS before she even started dating the guy. Sounds like she had a cryptic pregnancy. The SECOND STORY OF A DIFFERENT GIRL is the one who cheated and gave her baby an STD. listening and reading comprehension ain’t y’all’s strong suits, are they??
So…not only did she get knocked up before this guy, but she caught and STD, gave it to the child (probably the bf too), AND she admitted she’s cheating on him too!? Brutal
@@animeislifeq8026 Or, they’re both true. Schrödinger’s cat probably posted this. It would make sense given cats, dead or alive, cannot speak in human tongue 🤔
The first one wasn’t even cheating if they were only dating for four months. Also very possible that she didn’t know (or was at least in heavy denial) that she was pregnant. Iffy situation all around there but not really anyone’s fault
Here’s a more natural version: "Some people think men can't be abused, but abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or location. I hope her brother keeps making progress on his healing journey with you."
For those who are like "how could she not have known about the pregnancy" for the first one: There is a thing called cryptic pregnancy. This is when a person doesn't have any signs of a pregnancy. Some people have irregular periods so that's why they wouldn't be alarmed when they don't have their period. Others keep having their period during pregnancy. And some even use contraceptives and don't notice that their periods aren't there because they are pregnant and just think it's because of using the contraceptive. Next you might be wondering about the belly and some pregnant bellies do not show at all, they still look the same as when the person was not pregnant. Other pregnancy symptoms can just also not happen at all or be blamed on certain medical conditions that the pregnant person has or medical conditions that have been running in the family. There have been actual cases of women accidentally giving birth on the toilet because they didn't know they were pregnant, some even mistaking it as needing to pass a kidney stone and just ending up with a kid. Also those saying she cheated on him learn how to do basic math. 9 months - 4 months = 5 months that they weren't actually together so this is not cheating. Also before shaming anyone as well don't forget that 🍇 also still happens and that people also can get pregnant from that and that there are also people that don't want to associate their first time with 🍇 and rather say that they are still a virgin since it was never with consent.
How is she forcing responsibility? She didn't know she was pregnant and being with a single mother doesn't automatically mean taking care of her kids. Taking care of kids requires trust.
She knew. She couldn't pee, obviously she was pregnant. Very few things cause that and pregnancy is the only one people generally know because it's the only one that's not incredibly rare
His girlfriend has an std, he might’ve even gotten it himself. He also might not want to be with someone who has kids that aren’t his. There’s plenty of reasons to feel bad for the guy whose whole relationship just got turned upside down.
@@Dannyisme516 I totally agree with you like the man did nothing wrong I mean, I would be freaking out if my partner had an STD. And I feel bad for the baby since it has one too.
@@Dannyisme516 no. This is two stories. The first one a 19 yo girl comes in for a UTI (not an std) and her life is flipped upside down when she fucking gives birth. It’s not her boyfriend’s baby since they’ve only been together for four months. I think I feel worse for the 19year old girl who the OP calls dramatic and says was “clearly cheating” even though she clearly wasn’t by any detail of the story.
I went with my friend to the hospital when she gave birth and despite me and her both telling all the doctors and nurses beforehand that we’d never been together and I want the father when that child came out white despite me being black they all looked at me awkwardly like they were afraid to let me know something.
The first one isn't cheating if they've only been together for 4 months and she just had the kid that means she had been pregnant before they got together the second story however
There's a very good chance that no one knew. It was most likely a cryptic pregnancy cause how did no one, not even the doctors, notice a baby bump? So what likely happened is 5 months before she met the guy got pregnant from a previous relationship and only found out when delivering
@bigb2114 a baby takes 9 months they were dating for 4. The baby was full term the math ain't mathing. She wasn't with him when she got pregnant. Shoot she wasn't with him for a few months before it happened.
@@fireandice8248could have been talking prior she could have been messing around with two dudes promising both a relationship so not cheating but definitely some tomfoolery that could have been happening which is a betrayal if someone thought they were the only one being invested in.
No he won't. They now have two choices; to stay together (and coparent) or go separate ways and the woman will raise the child or give it up for adoption. Adoption is a possibility for both options
I missed the part where that was cheating. She was pregnant before she met him. If she was no longer with the guy she slept with 9 months prior, that isn't cheating.
Not a doctor or nurse but i was in the ER next to a women having her baby and her and her boyfriend are white with straight hair and the baby was black with black curly long hair.
Yeah and why would she feel bad for him? And not for both of them? They now need to figure out if they want to stay together or go separate ways. The woman has to raise the child or give them up for adoption.
Dating or met 4 months? I don't know how I feel for the guy. On one side, he could be upset since he now has a responsibility that he wasn't ready for with the woman or, two, he's devastated because he never wanted kids this early and considering ending the relationship. Either way, it's a lose, lose, or a win, win situation.
If you are pregnant before you date someone, you are not cheating unless you're cheating on the man who is the baby's biological father. All she did was "not realize" she was pregnant and never say anything about it
How is that cheating? Unless she had an STD and he didn't. They were dating for 4 months, which means that before they were dating, she was pregnant. That ain't his baby and everyone knows it.
First story wasnt cheating, she wouldve had to be pregnant for 5 months before even meeting the guy she dated for 4 months. And even she didnt know she was pregnant. That story doesnt beling in this post.
She. May have been cheating was in the relationship.But she wasn't cheating on him when the child was Conceived As they ve only been dating 4 months and it takes 9 for a baby
First story isn't cheating, but seeing that the guy didn't know and assuming the girl did, seems like she was going to try and get him to raise the baby. Regardless of her intentions, bro should get out now
The first scenario, it isn't even about cheating. Is this guy supposed to continue dating her despite her being a new mother. I wouldn't sign the certificate, if I was him and I'd rethink the relationship.
Okay well 1 its not cheating the baby was there before she started dating but 2 if ti went the full 9 months wouldnt she have the bump and the effects of pregnancy and even if it was premature at some point the baby bump becomes visible
But she didn’t cheat… she unknowingly got pregnant in a prior relationship. Yes, it happens, sometimes a woman can go through a whole pregnancy and be unaware. To call this cheating is plain wrong
Bruh, if they were only dating for four months, THAT ISN'T CHEATING... It's a dick move to not tell your partner about carrying a baby, but hell, if she didn't know, then there isn't anything malicious here, just a whole lot of confusion.
Extremely dramatic for just UTI? As a kid I had a lot of UTI's and they HURT my last one I had the infection spread to my kidneys, if they aren't taken care of they can turn in to somethin' awful. If you have a UTI, see your doctor and get it taken care of.
hehehe they thought i cheated cause my last boy came out with green eyes till me & my husband had to let them know both our mothers have green eyes 😂😂😂😂 THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES IN BOTH OUR FAMILIES TO HAVE GREEN EYES 😂😂😂😂
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Nah that spawn curse of getting an STD as you are born is fucking insane
And sadly common
baby got the curse of binding 😭🙏
It might not even live cause of said disease
@meat3994 that’s crazy
@meat3994Bro 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
This isnt cheating, she was literally pregnant BEFORE she even started dating the guy.
Yeah but lying about past relationships isn't ok either
you know that sometimes women don’t know that they are pregnant
@@kenzasayah5379 But they do know that they are having sex and she wasn't being honest with him.
@@kenkahre9262are you specting that when you date someone they just go "oh yeah I used to fuck with the dude I was before."?
@@kenkahre9262so she was intimate in a previous relationship, so what? It's only dishonest if she claimed to be a vigin, which we don't know.
The first on could definitely have been a cryptic pregnancy if she’s telling the truth about not knowing. And if there only been dating for 4 months then the baby was conceived well before they met. Not cheating 💀
Absolutely true. The man shouldn't pay for a kid that isn't his.
dude who brought the man paying into this convo?? this is not what the commenter was talking about
@@HyperX_D um that wasnt the point of the comment?
@@HyperX_DWhat?
That's for the partner to decide tbh
Sounds like the 1st woman was surprised as well.
She was most likely lying she had the baby 4 months into the relationship so she was pregnant 5 months before that's plenty of time to find out about a pregnancy especially after missing 4 or 5 periods
@@Bluebox3some women continue to have periods even when pregnant and some women have PCOS which naturally makes their periods extremely irregular.
My friend just had her baby not to long ago and they didn’t know she was pregnant until they were 6 months along. Baby was born 2 months later.
@@unsoundfoxlydid she just not notice her water breaking too? Did she not notice she was gaining a lot of weight her eating habits changing? Like how tf does someone grow a 5 pound lump of baby and not notice? I've never had a kid but I assume you'd notice at the 8 mouth mark at least
@@Bluebox3 this baby was born featherweight premature it was 4 pounds 4oz and can still fit in the palm of your hand like a chipotle burrito.
She is a tall women so that 4 pounds was not noticed. She only decided to take the test because she started having weird food cravings and her husband suggested they take a test.
@@unsoundfoxly where did that get mentioned?
Well I don't really think that's cheating because she was pregnant before she started dating him but that's just my opinion
Yea but she didn’t even tell him she was pregnant with a child who was already 5 months “old”
Yeah but not telling him she was preggers is crazy
Shw knew she was pregnant so she t9ok the second option
@@natigefner9834she said she didn't know, which is very possible
@fingrrr190 she said she didn't know. Which is very possible.
Fun fact: pregnancy can actually NOT be noticed, theres a nurse on tiktok, Stevioe, who quite literally said that he had a mother and neither one could tell she was pregnant despite her being near ready to burst. People can in fact, not notice theyre pregnant, until the baby comes shooting out
Bro spawned in with a debuff 💀💀
The debuff is dying.
Girl sounds like she genuinely didn’t know
Yet, wouldn't make the guy an Ahol for Dumping her...
@@maishal7034 no, if the dude doesn’t want to have the responsibility to raise a kid, let alone one that is t his, it’d be a totally valid reason to leave. You can’t force someone into being a parent or step parent. Besides 4 months isn’t that long so it’s not like they’re in some long time commitment either
@@leshooty2772same pfp!
😐
@@FREETAYK-001 😮
That last story is wiiiild man, sad that it actually happens too.
GET THE DOCTER HERE SHES HAVING A BABY
Chick was spawn camping with an STD killstreak.
That first one ain’t cheating, deceptive yes but not cheating, there isn’t any proof.
Based on how the doctors couldn't even tell it might've been one of those pregnancies that you don't notice ngl. Shits scary af
@@weatles_5798 maybe, ether way not cheating.
Lying is cheating
@@jonathangitter1311 no :/
Lying is lying, and there's a chance she didn't even know because the doctors didn't think she was pregnant
@@weatles_5798 anything that violates the rules of a relationship is cheating
For one, half the people in these comments are the slowest people I’ve ever seen. They are TWO SEPARATE STORIES. The first girl didn’t cheat if she was pregnant for FIVE MONTHS before she even started dating the guy. Sounds like she had a cryptic pregnancy. The SECOND STORY OF A DIFFERENT GIRL is the one who cheated and gave her baby an STD. listening and reading comprehension ain’t y’all’s strong suits, are they??
The second clip bro nah 💀💀💀
sqaure watermelon looks AWESOME
The grape one is sick
The video right after was insane
Cheating and paternity fraud needs to be punished
There was no cheating tho
So…not only did she get knocked up before this guy, but she caught and STD, gave it to the child (probably the bf too), AND she admitted she’s cheating on him too!? Brutal
Those are two different stories
@@animeislifeq8026 Or, they’re both true. Schrödinger’s cat probably posted this. It would make sense given cats, dead or alive, cannot speak in human tongue 🤔
They're different stories dude.
Even if it wasn’t cheating, blaintanly not letting a guy know your pregnant is a ducked up move
You can be pregnant and not know you are. It happens a lot more then you would think it’s called a cryptic pregnancy
Man, that question at the beginning was half the video
Might have had the child before she started dating him, but it sounds like STD happened during 4 months from cheating
The STD is a separate story
It's a uti it happens without sex. Her hormones were probably way off
They're two different stories. Jeez, how many people don't know how to listen in these comments 🤦🏻♂️
2nd clip 💀💀💀😭😭
That plant
I don't think that was a plant 😳
first dude should have disappeared from that hospital and proceeded to act as if he never knew the girl
Being born with an STD is crazy ☹️🙁
Like wtf you gonna do at that point?!
The first one wasn’t even cheating if they were only dating for four months. Also very possible that she didn’t know (or was at least in heavy denial) that she was pregnant. Iffy situation all around there but not really anyone’s fault
Here’s a more natural version:
"Some people think men can't be abused, but abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or location. I hope her brother keeps making progress on his healing journey with you."
Being born with an STd is a stat nerf that needs to be removed from the game , it’s wild
At that point just restart
Freaky ah plant wtf
For those who are like "how could she not have known about the pregnancy" for the first one:
There is a thing called cryptic pregnancy. This is when a person doesn't have any signs of a pregnancy. Some people have irregular periods so that's why they wouldn't be alarmed when they don't have their period. Others keep having their period during pregnancy. And some even use contraceptives and don't notice that their periods aren't there because they are pregnant and just think it's because of using the contraceptive.
Next you might be wondering about the belly and some pregnant bellies do not show at all, they still look the same as when the person was not pregnant.
Other pregnancy symptoms can just also not happen at all or be blamed on certain medical conditions that the pregnant person has or medical conditions that have been running in the family.
There have been actual cases of women accidentally giving birth on the toilet because they didn't know they were pregnant, some even mistaking it as needing to pass a kidney stone and just ending up with a kid.
Also those saying she cheated on him learn how to do basic math.
9 months - 4 months = 5 months that they weren't actually together so this is not cheating.
Also before shaming anyone as well don't forget that 🍇 also still happens and that people also can get pregnant from that and that there are also people that don't want to associate their first time with 🍇 and rather say that they are still a virgin since it was never with consent.
Damn that second antistress clip... I have an idea :>
I'm jealous of that flower
Dude got that debuff modifier on for extra xp
That second clip tho
Bro was born with a debuff 💀
It’s not cheating but forcing him into the responsibility is absolutely wrong
How is she forcing responsibility? She didn't know she was pregnant and being with a single mother doesn't automatically mean taking care of her kids. Taking care of kids requires trust.
Been together 4 months acting like the relationship ending is the end of the world is the real L.
. . .he buried his hands, so expected the doctor to find something else
If they’d only been together 4 months then that’s not cheating. That’s her getting with him after a different relationship
Baby got curse of binding 😭
oh no! how did it come out without someone yelling at her to "puuussh!!"???!!!
“I felt so bad for the guy”
Why? It really sounds like she didn’t know she was pregnant either and she was in pain
She knew. She couldn't pee, obviously she was pregnant. Very few things cause that and pregnancy is the only one people generally know because it's the only one that's not incredibly rare
His girlfriend has an std, he might’ve even gotten it himself. He also might not want to be with someone who has kids that aren’t his. There’s plenty of reasons to feel bad for the guy whose whole relationship just got turned upside down.
@@Dannyisme516 I totally agree with you like the man did nothing wrong I mean, I would be freaking out if my partner had an STD. And I feel bad for the baby since it has one too.
These are 2 different stories that’s why the second one says 2 and dings before it speaks
@@Dannyisme516 no. This is two stories. The first one a 19 yo girl comes in for a UTI (not an std) and her life is flipped upside down when she fucking gives birth. It’s not her boyfriend’s baby since they’ve only been together for four months. I think I feel worse for the 19year old girl who the OP calls dramatic and says was “clearly cheating” even though she clearly wasn’t by any detail of the story.
I was like ok and then i heard 1💀
The first one didn't cheat if they were only dating 4 months.
I feel so bad for the guy, hopefully he found a better girl
getting spawn camped by an STD, damn.
I went with my friend to the hospital when she gave birth and despite me and her both telling all the doctors and nurses beforehand that we’d never been together and I want the father when that child came out white despite me being black they all looked at me awkwardly like they were afraid to let me know something.
That watermelon was🧟🧟💎💎🟫🟩
I’m flabbergasted that almost everyone just facks around and without protection to…………….
Just feels unreal to me,
The first one isn't cheating if they've only been together for 4 months and she just had the kid that means she had been pregnant before they got together the second story however
Bring me that plant
It isn’t cheating if she got pregnant before they were dating 💀
And this reasons like this that I really don't want to date despite the fact I really do want to date. A paradox
Part 2 pls
It's not cheating but I still feel he should have been filled in on her situation
🤔 how that shi not cheating
There's a very good chance that no one knew. It was most likely a cryptic pregnancy cause how did no one, not even the doctors, notice a baby bump? So what likely happened is 5 months before she met the guy got pregnant from a previous relationship and only found out when delivering
@bigb2114 a baby takes 9 months they were dating for 4. The baby was full term the math ain't mathing. She wasn't with him when she got pregnant. Shoot she wasn't with him for a few months before it happened.
@@fireandice8248could have been talking prior she could have been messing around with two dudes promising both a relationship so not cheating but definitely some tomfoolery that could have been happening which is a betrayal if someone thought they were the only one being invested in.
How was she supposed to fill him in if she didn’t know she was pregnant?
That first one isn’t cheating 😂
Hey thats a huge bullet dodged so big even jfk would see it coming
Realest story on reddit
So....dating someone before your current partner is considered cheating?
Ok what was up with that red long pinecone
4 months? dude dodged a bullet bill sized bullet
I guarantee he'll be forced to pay child support to kid that isn't his.
That's literally not how that works unless he's dumb enough to put his name on the birth certificate
No he won't. They now have two choices; to stay together (and coparent) or go separate ways and the woman will raise the child or give it up for adoption. Adoption is a possibility for both options
I missed the part where that was cheating. She was pregnant before she met him. If she was no longer with the guy she slept with 9 months prior, that isn't cheating.
Not a doctor or nurse but i was in the ER next to a women having her baby and her and her boyfriend are white with straight hair and the baby was black with black curly long hair.
1st one didnt even answer the question
Love when that happens then put into a video
Yeah and why would she feel bad for him? And not for both of them? They now need to figure out if they want to stay together or go separate ways. The woman has to raise the child or give them up for adoption.
Dating or met 4 months? I don't know how I feel for the guy. On one side, he could be upset since he now has a responsibility that he wasn't ready for with the woman or, two, he's devastated because he never wanted kids this early and considering ending the relationship. Either way, it's a lose, lose, or a win, win situation.
That isn't cheating since it happened before they dated. Also maybe they just weren't aware for whatever reason
First one wasn’t even cheating and I mean 4 months is like a high school relationship like just leave at that point
I love when redditors just don’t answer the question 🤣
I feel like you might notice not having your period for 9 months so it’s not like she didn’t know…
If you are pregnant before you date someone, you are not cheating unless you're cheating on the man who is the baby's biological father. All she did was "not realize" she was pregnant and never say anything about it
It could be a truth it could be a lie, but if the bf didn't notice then it has to have been a cryptic pregnancy.
Imagine not following thr prompt
He did my guy not notice she was pregnant???
The second story is a lawsuit. If you knoe you havr a std by law you are required to tell the other person if you slept with them
In what way did this indicate she was cheating she was impregnated 5 months before they even started dating
Bro was born with a debuff, that sucks
First girl aint know she was pregnant either
This isn't cheating
But it isn't anything better
Knowing about your partner's past relationships is one's right
How is that cheating? Unless she had an STD and he didn't. They were dating for 4 months, which means that before they were dating, she was pregnant. That ain't his baby and everyone knows it.
Thats not cheating, they were dating for 4 months and a human pregnancy lasts 9
She really doesnt feel any pain does she
First story wasnt cheating, she wouldve had to be pregnant for 5 months before even meeting the guy she dated for 4 months. And even she didnt know she was pregnant. That story doesnt beling in this post.
The first one isn’t cheating it takes 9 months to make a child. He been dating her 4 months. Now if they dated a year but never had sex then yk
Most have Been a my 600 pound life situation
Shinji chair
She.
May have been cheating was in the relationship.But she wasn't cheating on him when the child was Conceived As they ve only been dating 4 months and it takes 9 for a baby
First story isn't cheating, but seeing that the guy didn't know and assuming the girl did, seems like she was going to try and get him to raise the baby. Regardless of her intentions, bro should get out now
The first scenario, it isn't even about cheating. Is this guy supposed to continue dating her despite her being a new mother. I wouldn't sign the certificate, if I was him and I'd rethink the relationship.
How the hell did nobody notice she was pregnant?
Cryptic pregnancy :) Their belly doesn't swell, they don't get nausea and no missed periods.
Okay well 1 its not cheating the baby was there before she started dating but 2 if ti went the full 9 months wouldnt she have the bump and the effects of pregnancy and even if it was premature at some point the baby bump becomes visible
But she didn’t cheat… she unknowingly
got pregnant in a prior relationship. Yes, it happens, sometimes a woman can go through a whole pregnancy and be unaware. To call this cheating is plain wrong
imagine that convo. "you gave my kid an std cuz you couldn't control yourself". if it even is his kid
Std story wasn't related to the first. The first one was about a cryptic pregnancy, the second about cheating and getting an STD
The stories aren't related
Call Ellen D lol😅
Ellen D must be a REALLY great doula
Bruh, if they were only dating for four months, THAT ISN'T CHEATING... It's a dick move to not tell your partner about carrying a baby, but hell, if she didn't know, then there isn't anything malicious here, just a whole lot of confusion.
Extremely dramatic for just UTI? As a kid I had a lot of UTI's and they HURT my last one I had the infection spread to my kidneys, if they aren't taken care of they can turn in to somethin' awful. If you have a UTI, see your doctor and get it taken care of.
This ones definitely fake
L&D ❎
Ellen Dee ✅
Second one, and std can come from a cheating father that got it and then passed it to mom.
hehehe they thought i cheated cause my last boy came out with green eyes till me & my husband had to let them know both our mothers have green eyes 😂😂😂😂 THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES IN BOTH OUR FAMILIES TO HAVE GREEN EYES 😂😂😂😂
Not cheating 😂😂