Jane, "It feels like you're trying to prove something. Every other photo is of you kissing." Not to mention she made a entire movie. Ben, "I don't want a relationship on social media. And JLo makes a whole movie. I love JLo, but she has to stop caring so much about public perception and what we think about her.
I think she made a movie about the trajectory of her love life….which is typically what artists make albums about lol except when it’s her, yall like to be deliberately obtuse. The movie didn’t contain Ben, the documentary it was included Ben
not everyone predicted this, especially the ones who constantly kept asking when they were getting married after learning Jen and Ben were dating again and forgot what happened the last time. NO WONDER WHY LOTS FAMOUS PEOPLE KEEP THEIR PERSONAL LIFE OUT OF THE SPOTLIGHT
@@JaPittmanI told Bennifer fans in 2023 Adan Sanchez, Laura Lopez and Jaili and others they are Bennifer diehard fans I told them they won't last, they just laughed at my comments her first ex husband Ojani Noa told Jlo and Bennifer fans they won't last too. I said divorce is coming couple of months ago
Sad you feel that way. Guess you never experience love! Love shines and no one can contain its living GLOW! Jlo has that & guess that’s why she is criticized & hated!
Sounds like that was his deal breaker - that he didn't want a relationship on social media. And that is not only what she did, she made a whole movie and album about it.😄
Social media and reality shows ruined all of these celebrities relationships. I don't understand why they don't see that. We don't need to see or know what's going on in their relationships. Social media ruins relationships for anyone. Privacy is beautiful
Well could you blame it? Social media ALWAYS damaged celebrities who date. But even back when social media wasn’t around, celebrities who had dated still put their relationship to the public’s eye too. Look at back then with Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley for example, you put your relationship in the public eye and the next thing you know it destroys your love life, and guess what happened to them both? Their both sadly dead. So Jennifer Lopez better realize that with so many divorces under her belt, don’t publicly put a real relationship especially on social media, all over the place. Maybe JLo should hook up again with P. Diddy and really make the world see her if she really wants to have attention so much. Imagine that huh 😂.
@Sassyellechica Elizabeth Taylor was pre Social Media. They either get it or they don't. You have to work at marriage. If you don't want to put in the effort, even in hard times, don't bother. Some choose to be in our faces. We see Beyonce and Jay-Z when they want to be seen... otherwise NOPE. Janet Jackson was married and we didn't know until she was getting a divorce. The people are going to places where they know there will be cameras. How often did you see Ben and J Garner out?
So what you are saying is Jlo listens to no one. If she truly loved Ben like she kept shouting out to the world, than she would have respected his wishes the second time around. At this point in her life it is not the men, but her. A relationship is about what 2 people want, not one.
I don’t think JLo will put the time and effort into changing herself because in her eyes she has no problem and some people will continue to agree with her and never bring their true beliefs to her because she’s a narcissist..
Everyone predicted this let's get real here. Doesn't help that she has a crappy track record of rushing into marriages and then getting divorced shortly after.
Jane, You're an ICON. Jennifer is not. With that being said, I was hoping the best for them. Ben Affleck deserves nothing but that best. He and Matt went hardcore working their way to the top with phenomenal acting. 👏👏👏👏
The analogy between water and the media is not even close. As a celebrity, you can still choose to live privately when it comes to your personal life, it’s a matter of choice.
But he is right though. You can't day you don't like water yet your pattern is a boat captain. I mean he or she spends most their time on water . Jlo also likes having her life being on social media. So even if he didn't like it, there was nothing to do about coz that is Jlo life style. So inorder not to create issues from the beginning, he had to compromise. That is how I see it.
Jennifer should have tried to keep it private this time .. doing the album the documentary and the movie.. Ben must have felt embarrassed.. I heard they split the 1st time in 2004 cuz of the attention.. well this time they should have learned from the 1st time .. I was rooting for them.. this is sad
Ben said it.. “we’re just 2 people with 2 different approaches trying to learn to compromise” (They were never compatible to begin with instead forced it upon themselves)
One is still craving the limelight, the other one is more of a private person ... at some point it became an issue especially when one is not willing to "compromise"
Ben suggested not to do the movie.He also urged her not to finance the movie with her own cash. But now, with 20 million dollars wasted on a flop movie about them, a flop album a about them, a canceled tour, and a ruined marriage MAYBE now she understands why everyone was telling her "live your love instead of telling everybody and showing everybody" but nope..... Clearly, she wasn't willing to compromise her vision 🙄. No, they didn't have a social media relationship like he feared. She made it a media relationship. Period. imagine being in a relationship with someone who's trying to leverage your relationship for financial gain and then will not listen to you when you tell them that its not going to work. 😕
Was she ever out of the spotlight?? He knew that about her, why did he ever consider going back to her… maybe he thought AROD was stealing his spotlight LOL
@@northsouth6739...A-ROD could never steal his thunder. He went back with Jennifer because he thought she had changed but he found out that everything was just the same.
@@northsouth6739 He 100% thought it was going to be different this time around but seems like JLO backtracked to her old ways everyone on the documentary was telling her and she didn't listen.
J Lo at this point has no one to blame but her own narcissism and preoccupation with look perfect. She reminds me of so many people on social media, who spend every hour of their day posting photos bragging about a lifestyle or relationship that’s not even real or authentic. And then when they can’t keep up the facade, and it crashes and burn, they get mad that everyone’s laughing at them. Sorry, you’re the one who acted like the vain Emperor in the Emperor’s New Clothes. Walk in humility and then you won’t ever have to get egg on your face.
Interesting point:👍However, is it possible that Jennifer simply wants love, but, making all the wrong decisions like so many regular folks? I believe that once someone realize that the hole they’re trying to fill, can only be filled by themself, relationship hopping will end.
@@lillybethford1915If she simply wants love and looking to fill a hole she wouldn’t put everything out there on front street after being told not to by “the love of her life” This video shows her being arrogant and dismissive. This is husband number 4. This isn’t about love. There’s something wrong with Jlow. She has no boundaries and no respect for people. It’s evident in the documentary.
@@lillybethford1915She seems to be after that “in love”, head over heels, giggling school girl love. Not an adult relationship. All of her marriages and relationships crash and burn. She really needs to find a good psychologist and spend some time alone. Plus, it appears that she is a massive narcissist, so maybe nothing will help her.
The sad thing is I feel like she included the phone call as a way to say I don’t care what you’re saying we’ll prove you wrong. This is forever..! She probably feels embarrassed now
J. Lo is like many people I know. They like to flaunt whatever they have simply because they want other people to be envious and say "aww, wish I have that too"... or so they think.
Don’t understand why she can’t be single for a few years. How old are her twins? How about until they’re 18? She keeps uprooting them and introducing men into their lives.
We ALL predicted it. What's funny is that Ben & Jlo thought that it would last the second time around! Or maybe they're just so completely self-absorbed that it's no big deal to throw money around and mess with their kid's/ family's/friend's minds.
I hope Jen will learn from this and keep her love relationships private in the future! After hearing Ben saying he didn’t want a public relationship, then Jen had an opportunity to stay off social media. They’re two different people. She should have married the baseball player who loved social media attention like her! They were compatible!
Everyone predicted their divorce. Everyone. And Everyone cheered and laughed and clapped and mocked and ridiculed the two of them as soon as the divorce was announced. 😅
There’s a deep tastelessness in her actions. Firstly, they were both recently divorced. Ben especially had a long term marriage etc. He has addiction issues. He wants to be on the down low. Secondarily it’s so tasteless to make it seem like they and some connection all these years. And making a movie..like what?
People DON'T change. He left her at the Alter 4 days before their Wedding. Had an AFFAIR with Jennifer Garner while being Engaged to Jlo. Let's stop blaming JLO for Ben's Childish behavior.
The lies, the lies, the lies. Allegedly. We ALL knew this wasn’t going to last. This is about Jlo’s ego, not love. She needed to fall under another man after ARod, and Ben just happened to be available. Much like Elizabeth Taylor, she can’t stand to be seen single - she has to keep up her desirability. Jlo created an entire relationship, and marriage, out of thin air, and it backfired on her spectacularly. And she won’t learn. In a matter of weeks she will be linked up to someone else.
Oh Jane Fonda you queen 😂. Jane knows bc she’s been married three times herself 🤣 you don’t get to almost 100 without learning a thing or two……unless you’re Jennifer Lopez 😂
Ben, supposedly, a mature man and already went through this 22 years ago with Jennifer. He makes the mistake of hooking up in a toxic relationship and this demonstrates Bens penchant for kamikaze love affairs. They both are emotionally challenged, if not damaged.
It seems to me that JLO isn't very good at compromising. Huge mistake to share their personal letters with others for monetary gain. Super insensitive and shallow. Then of course there are the Diddy video's of her and also what happened when she lied about the nightclub shooting to defend that sow Diddy. JLO has a low moral compass it seems! Riches, false adoration my the masses, fame and her physical beauty seem to mean most to her. What a shame~! As a Bronx born and raised Puerto Rican woman the same age as JlO, I absolutely adored and admired her until the few months. Terrible what she did sharing Ben's beautiful gift of that book of letters! Also not caring about her children regarding the VERY racy lyrics to a couple of her songs from this Is me Now. That was a turn off! Like WHAT was she trying to prove? I feel sad for hr kids. Neither of them seem very happy at all. I hope she gets mental health help and is able to focus on her children much, much more. Heard she may do another "tour." Well that just makes me sad for her. I hope she doesn't end up like Lola from the Copacabana or Delta Dawn with the faded rose from days gone by....
While I was not surprised about it, I feel for both of them. They felt it and tried to make it work but sometimes when you want something so badly it doesn’t work out that way. Unfortunately, now it’s all anyone wants to focus on. Let’s give them some privacy and space to go through this. Now it’s up to them to hopefully not end on a bad note but an understanding one.
Not at all surprising but I was hoping they would make it. Jen really gets a bad rap. Yes she has standards as she should. She's confident, talented, very hard working, generous and extremely loyal to those close to her. She was really cool with everyone on set. Love is complicated. I think A-Rod was probably the closest match for her. He likes all the attention, 'high-living', and does fine with the drama. Unfortunately he's got a roving eye and issues with fidelity...lol. I wish her and Ben the best.
It's a shame she doesn't have the same standards when it comes to her kids. Those kids have a revolving door of men (and step siblings) that come in and out of their lives without permanency.
She’s generous? What did she do when Ben gave a really nice tip to a server? She’s ego-centric and craves attention - how can any marriage withstand that?
Why with all these years of fame attention news they were not being able to at least spend couple of years in a quiet luxury just enjoying themselves and focusing on kids from both sides For me in all this situation kids suffer the most.
❤❤Still Ben is suffering from an avoidant personality disorder ,and he has never worked on himself ,as Jennifer who has been anxious attached before and developed into more secure attachment now ,so i think Ben could have worked more on himself because after all he is not 14 anymore ,still acting like a 14 year old ,if he was mature no episode or nothing of what happened would even bother him ,he would be the alfa male and let Jlo be herself ,❤❤no stop finding excuses for Ben ,this is only his work .And very childish of him ,not working on himself and their love ,if he had did his part they would still be together ( he is acting like a teenager about everything ,not supporting Jennifer .❤❤
You are very right.Ben is very selfish.Always blaming Jennifer Lopez.He knew before getting married.He just likes to look so miserable. I have never seen that man happy.with Jennifer or without her. He is a very complicated man.
What amazes me the most is the fact that Jennifer chose to expose herself in this way - a negative one. Usually, a narcissistic person chooses to let everyone see only the best parts, the ones which make them shine and be seen in a positive light. Instead, she includes parts in the documentary which have the opposite effect, for instance: jennifer saying to Ben that she does not care a **** about his photocameras, Ben being critical of many things, Jane Fonda criticizing her exaggerated exposure of the relationship, and worse, showing that many famous people did not accept to be part of the documentary. That is QUITE embararrasing - why leave all those parts in the film? it seems that she was doing all this alone instead of having someone (Ben, an agent, Benny Medina, friends) to advice her telling that this was TOO MUCH. Very sad.
That's a very good question. Is it because that's her interpretation of displaying a raw portrayal of her life? But if you compare it to narcissistic celebrities documentaries, such as Beyonce's, in which they only show themselves as incredibly hardworkers (positive light), it is baffling that Jennifer chose to show herself not always winning.
Two people can look like they're perfect for each other, but if they're internally messed up... baby, it ain't gon' work! Marriage takes compromise, submission and being unselfish. There can't be any ego. Oh... AND IT TAKES GOD!!! You're, BOOTY, intellect or money ain't gon' keep this one together.
I feel bad for Jlo. People are mean and judgemental about her no matter what she does. She’s just a woman that wants to be loved and happy. Stop hating on her and who cares about her mistakes. We all mess up and there’s nothing wrong with her trying to find love. This time though I hope she loves and works on herself. I gotta do the same thing and she deserves it. ❤❤❤
Not just Jane Fonda predicted it. Everyone did 😂
Lol
Even my Persian cat predicted it. 😺
I’m going on record to predict the next one
Everyone with a brain, knew
Yup I'm sure this didn't surprise anyone
Jane, "It feels like you're trying to prove something. Every other photo is of you kissing."
Not to mention she made a entire movie.
Ben, "I don't want a relationship on social media.
And JLo makes a whole movie.
I love JLo, but she has to stop caring so much about public perception and what we think about her.
An album, movie and documentary 😬
I think she made a movie about the trajectory of her love life….which is typically what artists make albums about lol except when it’s her, yall like to be deliberately obtuse. The movie didn’t contain Ben, the documentary it was included Ben
that was telling.. she knows how uncomfortable he is with this and she pushed it on him.. this scene showed how unattuned she is to his needs/feelings
She wanted to gloat about the fact that he came back to HER
jane fonda was right, and in all those kissing pictures, Ben always looked like he was trying to avoid it.
I think EVERYONE knew their relationship wouldn't last. Everyone but Jennifer Lopez.
And Ben Affleck. He obviously thought it would work out as well.
Oh come on everyone predicted this.
😂😂😂
not everyone predicted this, especially the ones who constantly kept asking when they were getting married after learning Jen and Ben were dating again and forgot what happened the last time.
NO WONDER WHY LOTS FAMOUS PEOPLE KEEP THEIR PERSONAL LIFE OUT OF THE SPOTLIGHT
@@JaPittmanI told Bennifer fans in 2023 Adan Sanchez, Laura Lopez and Jaili and others they are Bennifer diehard fans I told them they won't last, they just laughed at my comments her first ex husband Ojani Noa told Jlo and Bennifer fans they won't last too. I said divorce is coming couple of months ago
“Push something instead of just living it..” exactly… she was living her life but pushing it down our throats
Sad you feel that way. Guess you never experience love! Love shines and no one can contain its living GLOW! Jlo has that & guess that’s why she is criticized & hated!
@lovemypets254 what in delulu are you talking about?
Whoever Jane Fonda’s plastic surgeon is must be the most talented surgeon on earth. She looks absolutely fabulous.
Sounds like that was his deal breaker - that he didn't want a relationship on social media. And that is not only what she did, she made a whole movie and album about it.😄
And told the world all his secret love letters, that should’ve been private
She thought that their love story will earn more money is she do it hehehe sadly people will not buy it
And blasted his very personal love letters KNOWING how private he is🥺💔.
He knew what he was getting into.
It seems like to her it isn’t love unless is high school love.
Everything seemed “forced & fake” basically 😂
Perfect answer it was always force to the cameras 😢
The letters meant nothing! Love is action! Ben never wanted to display love cause he didn’t have it to give!
Very weird, Hollywierd.
Romans 10:13👑🙏
And then her fake laugh response “that’s us living our lives…he he he…” 😂
Ummmm Stevie Wonder saw it coming 😊
😂
😆😆😆
I did too from far away in the galaxies 😂😂😂
Now that comment me me laugh so hard,, good one 😂
And his best friend Ray Charles.
I know it takes two but Jlo doesn't listen to anyone, especially Ben. She ignored his wishes and violated his privacy.
Yup a narcissist in action. She's definitely one
She's abusive tbh.
@@jimmylittle9393 I thought that might be the case. No one should live with that.
Ben is the documentary producer with his production company, that was his idea, he directed and edited it, so make it make sense.
Yes she is so selfish
Jane called it! Nothing beats experience.
A private person would get severely stressed out. Every time you walk out the door; a camera in your face. It’s too much!
Social media and reality shows ruined all of these celebrities relationships. I don't understand why they don't see that. We don't need to see or know what's going on in their relationships. Social media ruins relationships for anyone. Privacy is beautiful
Well could you blame it? Social media ALWAYS damaged celebrities who date. But even back when social media wasn’t around, celebrities who had dated still put their relationship to the public’s eye too. Look at back then with Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley for example, you put your relationship in the public eye and the next thing you know it destroys your love life, and guess what happened to them both? Their both sadly dead. So Jennifer Lopez better realize that with so many divorces under her belt, don’t publicly put a real relationship especially on social media, all over the place. Maybe JLo should hook up again with P. Diddy and really make the world see her if she really wants to have attention so much. Imagine that huh 😂.
Then how do explain the demise of her multiple relationships before all that stuff?
@Sassyellechica Elizabeth Taylor was pre Social Media. They either get it or they don't. You have to work at marriage. If you don't want to put in the effort, even in hard times, don't bother. Some choose to be in our faces. We see Beyonce and Jay-Z when they want to be seen... otherwise NOPE. Janet Jackson was married and we didn't know until she was getting a divorce. The people are going to places where they know there will be cameras. How often did you see Ben and J Garner out?
A private life is a happy life
@@brynneholt1990she was making them public too. Since Diddy she never stopped.
Jane's hair ? Breathtaking !!!!
86 years old? Jane can afford it.
@@user-wc8em2it6dshe looks amazing at 86
She is a silver fox
She's more beautiful now than ever. ❤
I saw the thumbnail and clicked on the video to say this. Future hair goals. 🤍
Ben checked out months ago. I don’t think he cares who filed first lol
Should listen to your elders 😂
So what you are saying is Jlo listens to no one. If she truly loved Ben like she kept shouting out to the world, than she would have respected his wishes the second time around. At this point in her life it is not the men, but her. A relationship is about what 2 people want, not one.
Facts
Exactly my thoughts!
I immediately thought of this scene when I saw the headline about the divorce. 😂
I don’t think JLo will put the time and effort into changing herself because in her eyes she has no problem and some people will continue to agree with her and never bring their true beliefs to her because she’s a narcissist..
Everyone predicted this let's get real here. Doesn't help that she has a crappy track record of rushing into marriages and then getting divorced shortly after.
Jane spoke words of wisdom, Jlou chose not to listen.
Jane, You're an ICON. Jennifer is not. With that being said, I was hoping the best for them. Ben Affleck deserves nothing but that best. He and Matt went hardcore working their way to the top with phenomenal acting. 👏👏👏👏
The analogy between water and the media is not even close. As a celebrity, you can still choose to live privately when it comes to your personal life, it’s a matter of choice.
Like Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendez 👍🏻
@ciputgal A man and a woman basically don't get along. there's a lot of compromise involved and so many can't do it.
But he is right though. You can't day you don't like water yet your pattern is a boat captain. I mean he or she spends most their time on water . Jlo also likes having her life being on social media. So even if he didn't like it, there was nothing to do about coz that is Jlo life style. So inorder not to create issues from the beginning, he had to compromise. That is how I see it.
She is low class .
It's Jlo's fault. She's the one who can't be private because she thinks the world would forget about her if she did that.
Jennifer should have tried to keep it private this time .. doing the album the documentary and the movie.. Ben must have felt embarrassed.. I heard they split the 1st time in 2004 cuz of the attention.. well this time they should have learned from the 1st time .. I was rooting for them.. this is sad
She's a Leo, she doesn't do things private
C'est une femme egoiste
@@Clearbluesky771une lionne stupide qui veilleira seul.😢
Ben said it.. “we’re just 2 people with 2 different approaches trying to learn to compromise” (They were never compatible to begin with instead forced it upon themselves)
Ben was trying to compromise. 😂 Jlow has no boundaries and no respect for anyone…
She should have followed Jane’s advice
Just too old to be making the same mistake over and over. Stop turning your relationships into career moves.
Yeah, wonderful comment.
She treats every man like a mannequin to pose with her on the red carpet.
This!!!!!!!
One is still craving the limelight, the other one is more of a private person ... at some point it became an issue especially when one is not willing to "compromise"
That's not it. That's just what they want people to think.
@@meghanmisaliar NO, that s exactly what has happened.
The Monster in Law ….who wasn’t a monster after all
Ben suggested not to do the movie.He also urged her not to finance the movie with her own cash. But now, with 20 million dollars wasted on a flop movie about them, a flop album a
about them, a canceled tour, and a ruined marriage MAYBE now she understands why everyone was telling her "live your love instead of telling everybody and showing everybody" but nope..... Clearly, she wasn't willing to compromise her vision 🙄. No, they didn't have a social media relationship like he feared. She made it a media relationship. Period. imagine being in a relationship with someone who's trying to leverage your relationship for financial gain and then will not listen to you when you tell them that its not going to work. 😕
This comment needs its own RUclips Channel💖💖💖💥💥💥💥💥🤸🏽♀️.
Was she ever out of the spotlight?? He knew that about her, why did he ever consider going back to her… maybe he thought AROD was stealing his spotlight LOL
@@northsouth6739...A-ROD could never steal his thunder. He went back with Jennifer because he thought she had changed but he found out that everything was just the same.
@@northsouth6739 He 100% thought it was going to be different this time around but seems like JLO backtracked to her old ways everyone on the documentary was telling her and she didn't listen.
"Two different approaches" is Ben being very diplomatic. They are oceans apart and it always seemed like they had nothing in common. 🤕
J Lo at this point has no one to blame but her own narcissism and preoccupation with look perfect. She reminds me of so many people on social media, who spend every hour of their day posting photos bragging about a lifestyle or relationship that’s not even real or authentic. And then when they can’t keep up the facade, and it crashes and burn, they get mad that everyone’s laughing at them.
Sorry, you’re the one who acted like the vain Emperor in the Emperor’s New Clothes. Walk in humility and then you won’t ever have to get egg on your face.
Interesting point:👍However, is it possible that Jennifer simply wants love, but, making all the wrong decisions like so many regular folks? I believe that once someone realize that the hole they’re trying to fill, can only be filled by themself, relationship hopping will end.
@@lillybethford1915If she simply wants love and looking to fill a hole she wouldn’t put everything out there on front street after being told not to by “the love of her life” This video shows her being arrogant and dismissive. This is husband number 4. This isn’t about love. There’s something wrong with Jlow. She has no boundaries and no respect for people. It’s evident in the documentary.
@ladybug7273 Wow spot on
@@lillybethford1915She seems to be after that “in love”, head over heels, giggling school girl love. Not an adult relationship. All of her marriages and relationships crash and burn. She really needs to find a good psychologist and spend some time alone. Plus, it appears that she is a massive narcissist, so maybe nothing will help her.
@@lillybethford1915she doesn't want love. She wants constant attention, adoration and validation.
Didn't take a rocket scientist to predict that!!
The sad thing is I feel like she included the phone call as a way to say I don’t care what you’re saying we’ll prove you wrong. This is forever..! She probably feels embarrassed now
Hopefully!!
Jane is a wise woman. She knows that no one can love JLo more than JLo.....
Yes❤
@@switch1237lol
Lol
this just mamkes me sad..but Jane Fonda had some really wise and sound advice there...her concern was so real..a real friend says that to your facde.
He wanted Jennifer …Lopez… not Bennifer or JLO
Nah. He never wanted her. He doesn't love her
That is one him. He should have known. Jen should have known as well that Ben dislike the limlight.
Jane was right!!! This one was trying to proof something.
aww popor jane, she really likes jlo and was trying so hard to be honest about the situation...
Jennifer’s craving for attention is what ended the marriage. She is too narcissistic.
@@georgiabarker6852 Malignantly so 👍🏻
J. Lo is like many people I know. They like to flaunt whatever they have simply because they want other people to be envious and say "aww, wish I have that too"... or so they think.
jlow is like kim k, both protects their carrer and public image over love.
Umm, neither of them should trust their judgment about relationships. They need to focus on their children!
No it’s their idea of love. A person can do all 3
@@no_prisoners6474Unless the public image is all-consuming
Wow, an honest friend telling you the truth. Jennifer needs SEVERE therapy.
Well on that note, what does Ben need? All negative comments are ALWAYS directed at Jennifer.
@@robyndismon394Ben is effed too and needs lifetime of therapy 😊
@@ChalNjurshEp spoken from someone whose NEVER seen a therapist,
Don’t understand why she can’t be single for a few years. How old are her twins? How about until they’re 18? She keeps uprooting them and introducing men into their lives.
And she wasn’t willing to compromise.
Two completely different people . Ben needs a quiet, settled and down to earth woman.
We ALL predicted it. What's funny is that Ben & Jlo thought that it would last the second time around! Or maybe they're just so completely self-absorbed that it's no big deal to throw money around and mess with their kid's/ family's/friend's minds.
Jane was right on!
What I don’t understand is that Jlo is allowing everyone on IG to trash Ben by calling him a liar, an abuser and an addict.
Well he is an Addict. She can't control what people say on social media but they're saying more bad things about her
She's the one writing those comments.
Those are her paid PR bots
@@SaynabYusuffshe can definitely control it 😂😂😂. And what is SHE!??
@@SaynabYusufflook how many stories are out there about her. Saying she's rude and snobby.
I hope Jen will learn from this and keep her love relationships private in the future! After hearing Ben saying he didn’t want a public relationship, then Jen had an opportunity to stay off social media. They’re two different people. She should have married the baseball player who loved social media attention like her! They were compatible!
Jane Fonda is a very wise woman!
I would say more experience, Jane had quiet a few relationships
Everyone predicted their divorce. Everyone. And Everyone cheered and laughed and clapped and mocked and ridiculed the two of them as soon as the divorce was announced. 😅
😂 We, all predicted that 😂
Duh. Jane warned her and she didn't listen. They did it to themselves..
lol anybody could have called that one
Jane was speaking the truth
There’s a deep tastelessness in her actions. Firstly, they were both recently divorced. Ben especially had a long term marriage etc. He has addiction issues. He wants to be on the down low. Secondarily it’s so tasteless to make it seem like they and some connection all these years. And making a movie..like what?
Even Stevie Wonder knew their divorce was inevitable.
Jane was right she should have kept her love life private all those photos kissing all the time was too much for Ben
Yeah, Ben never looked happy with her.
She’s addicted to being in love. But, real love is more than romance.
As I have said before, the biggest punishment to Jlo is to ignore her. Jlo probably had her staff tell the paparazzi when and where she is.
So it wasn’t the greatest love story never told!
Unfortunately, Jane was right. And that sucks. I really wished it work out for them.
Jen should have listen to Jane 😂
Jane was right again.
JLos next film:
“The greatest divorce ever told.”
YES‼️👍🏻👍🏻
Wow, harsh
@@switch1237 Truth hurts
the divorce we all knew was gonna happen and just betting on the day it drops
You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to predict this one!
Why is she on camera talking about her relationship
IMO, it was her own doing why it failed since he didn’t want their private life in social media but she wanted all the attention…
Wow! Jane can predict what billions in the world also predicted.
Don’t blame Ben. Even though Jennifer is 55 years old, she is very immature and fame-thirsty.
“Look at me”. “Love me”. “Validate me”.
Jennifer, stay single and work on yourself. Give yourself time before starting a new relationship. My best wishes forward.
She’s not the only one
Jane is old school has a lot of wisdom…..
People DON'T change. He left her at the Alter 4 days before their Wedding. Had an AFFAIR with Jennifer Garner while being Engaged to Jlo. Let's stop blaming JLO for Ben's Childish behavior.
Please….it doesn’t take a prediction. It was a given.
I think it’s very sad that they’re divorcing. I always hoped that they would make it.
Staying married to father of her kids would have been the relationship to keep alive, not dig up the twenty year past w/ Ben. JS
The lies, the lies, the lies. Allegedly. We ALL knew this wasn’t going to last. This is about Jlo’s ego, not love. She needed to fall under another man after ARod, and Ben just happened to be available. Much like Elizabeth Taylor, she can’t stand to be seen single - she has to keep up her desirability. Jlo created an entire relationship, and marriage, out of thin air, and it backfired on her spectacularly. And she won’t learn. In a matter of weeks she will be linked up to someone else.
Oh Jane Fonda you queen 😂. Jane knows bc she’s been married three times herself 🤣 you don’t get to almost 100 without learning a thing or two……unless you’re Jennifer Lopez 😂
New book "mommy dearest from da block" author: one or both of her kids!!
Ben, supposedly, a mature man and already went through this 22 years ago with Jennifer. He makes the mistake of hooking up in a toxic relationship and this demonstrates Bens penchant for kamikaze love affairs. They both are emotionally challenged, if not damaged.
It seems to me that JLO isn't very good at compromising. Huge mistake to share their personal letters with others for monetary gain. Super insensitive and shallow. Then of course there are the Diddy video's of her and also what happened when she lied about the nightclub shooting to defend that sow Diddy. JLO has a low moral compass it seems! Riches, false adoration my the masses, fame and her physical beauty seem to mean most to her. What a shame~! As a Bronx born and raised Puerto Rican woman the same age as JlO, I absolutely adored and admired her until the few months. Terrible what she did sharing Ben's beautiful gift of that book of letters! Also not caring about her children regarding the VERY racy lyrics to a couple of her songs from this Is me Now. That was a turn off! Like WHAT was she trying to prove? I feel sad for hr kids. Neither of them seem very happy at all. I hope she gets mental health help and is able to focus on her children much, much more. Heard she may do another "tour." Well that just makes me sad for her. I hope she doesn't end up like Lola from the Copacabana or Delta Dawn with the faded rose from days gone by....
OMG Lola‼️ YES‼️👍🏻
Oh dear God, everyone knew they wouldn't make it.
There’s no way Ms. Jane still looks this amazing!
BEN, run 🏃♂️ 😳
Put some roller blades on,, you can do way much better .
Unfortunately, most people don’t listen to those who older with many more years of knowledge and experience. Jane knew this was a train wreck. 🤔
Oh let's give her a cookie now. You predicted it. Nice job Nostradamus.
Everyone predicted that they’d get divorced. JLo has to change her men every couple of years.
She must be related to Swift.
I think the only that didnt know this would happen was Jlo
While I was not surprised about it, I feel for both of them. They felt it and tried to make it work but sometimes when you want something so badly it doesn’t work out that way. Unfortunately, now it’s all anyone wants to focus on. Let’s give them some privacy and space to go through this. Now it’s up to them to hopefully not end on a bad note but an understanding one.
Not at all surprising but I was hoping they would make it. Jen really gets a bad rap. Yes she has standards as she should. She's confident, talented, very hard working, generous and extremely loyal to those close to her. She was really cool with everyone on set. Love is complicated. I think A-Rod was probably the closest match for her. He likes all the attention, 'high-living', and does fine with the drama. Unfortunately he's got a roving eye and issues with fidelity...lol. I wish her and Ben the best.
It's a shame she doesn't have the same standards when it comes to her kids. Those kids have a revolving door of men (and step siblings) that come in and out of their lives without permanency.
She’s generous? What did she do when Ben gave a really nice tip to a server? She’s ego-centric and craves attention - how can any marriage withstand that?
Wish they could of worked out they both just threw their hands up 🙌
Why with all these years of fame attention news they were not being able to at least spend couple of years in a quiet luxury just enjoying themselves and focusing on kids from both sides
For me in all this situation kids suffer the most.
She should apologize to Ben and their entire families for exposing such treasured privacy. Some things dont need to be told, if she truly loved him
I think no one needed to predict this. It is predictable that Ms. Lopez can't stay married. So it was essentially over before the ink dried!!!!!
Or maybe he's a drunk, gambler and cheater!
@@wherebeautymeetswellnesswell, then she's double stupid because she married him nonetheless😅
@@wherebeautymeetswellnessor maybe when her past and what she did with Diddy started coming out he said enough is enough
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Did you hear him talking about the toll of her public image?
❤❤Still Ben is suffering from an avoidant personality disorder ,and he has never worked on himself ,as Jennifer who has been anxious attached before and developed into more secure attachment now ,so i think Ben could have worked more on himself because after all he is not 14 anymore ,still acting like a 14 year old ,if he was mature no episode or nothing of what happened would even bother him ,he would be the alfa male and let Jlo be herself ,❤❤no stop finding excuses for Ben ,this is only his work .And very childish of him ,not working on himself and their love ,if he had did his part they would still be together ( he is acting like a teenager about everything ,not supporting Jennifer .❤❤
You are very right.Ben is very selfish.Always blaming Jennifer Lopez.He knew before getting married.He just likes to look so miserable.
I have never seen that man happy.with Jennifer or without her. He is a very complicated man.
What amazes me the most is the fact that Jennifer chose to expose herself in this way - a negative one. Usually, a narcissistic person chooses to let everyone see only the best parts, the ones which make them shine and be seen in a positive light. Instead, she includes parts in the documentary which have the opposite effect, for instance: jennifer saying to Ben that she does not care a **** about his photocameras, Ben being critical of many things, Jane Fonda criticizing her exaggerated exposure of the relationship, and worse, showing that many famous people did not accept to be part of the documentary. That is QUITE embararrasing - why leave all those parts in the film? it seems that she was doing all this alone instead of having someone (Ben, an agent, Benny Medina, friends) to advice her telling that this was TOO MUCH. Very sad.
That's a very good question. Is it because that's her interpretation of displaying a raw portrayal of her life? But if you compare it to narcissistic celebrities documentaries, such as Beyonce's, in which they only show themselves as incredibly hardworkers (positive light), it is baffling that Jennifer chose to show herself not always winning.
Two people can look like they're perfect for each other, but if they're internally messed up... baby, it ain't gon' work! Marriage takes compromise, submission and being unselfish. There can't be any ego. Oh... AND IT TAKES GOD!!! You're, BOOTY, intellect or money ain't gon' keep this one together.
I feel bad for Jlo. People are mean and judgemental about her no matter what she does. She’s just a woman that wants to be loved and happy. Stop hating on her and who cares about her mistakes. We all mess up and there’s nothing wrong with her trying to find love. This time though I hope she loves and works on herself. I gotta do the same thing and she deserves it. ❤❤❤