My oldest of 6 sons is 40 years old and he has Autism and ADHD. When he was younger I began to recognize that he was having anxiety and depression so I would have him help me with untangling my yarn which helped to calm down his Anxiety Disorder. I taught him how to crochet the basic stitches. It wasn’t so much about what the project was as it was to keep a stitch count and use the texture of the yarn for sensory processing. These are his tools for creativity, keeping control of his disorder instead of the disorder controlling him. Making washcloths and kitchen cloths became his “Yarn therapy” Crocheting has helped us both so much! ❤ And I love seeing him happy, feeling positive about himself! And learning life skills ❤❤
I’m so sorry you suffered so much in high school. I’m glad you’re still here with us, creating patterns, teaching us life lessons in addition to new techniques, and always engaging us. ❤
Mikey, it breaks my heart that you had to endure the worst of humanity when you were so young. I'm so grateful that you were strong enough to find a way to survive all of it and that now you're sharing your love of creating with this community you've created. You inspire me with your joy of living (and your courage!) Hugs from B.C.
I believe that you have given this series considerable thought out of concern for yourself and others. It is important to tell your story. I appreciate this contribution and will reflect on each. Thank you
I love that your making videos on mental health. Crochet has really helped me with my anxiety and depression. Thank you for all you do your channel is a bright spot in my day.
As a nurse, I am so glad you found an outlet to help with your mental health. In my work, I use crochet to help dementia residents in aged care to focus on something other than their situation and see the benefits every time they finish a project or get to start a new project, their smile is worth everything. Thank you for sharing your story and highlighting the need for understanding of mental health issues.
I'm with ya darlin. PTSD...Depression...Anxiety and ADHD. I find yarn and patterns make my "ADHD Brain" happy because of the variety. Whether I lived in Canada or here in the US, every place I've been I've had a "Happy place" to crochet and ponder life.
Isn’t it nice to know that we are not alone in this world? That there are many who suffer with the same things we do? I have ADHD as well, and it’s not easy living with it. I’m sending you a great big hug, and just know that I’m here for you ♥️!
Mikey how strong you were back in high school! So proud of you. Crochet gives me peace. You are a very very special person and don’t ever forget that😊😘
The school system has a lot to answer for. When my sons were young, we lived in Scotland and they were both totally miserable their entire school years. Happiest day of my life was when the youngest left school. They are in their 40s now and if I had my time over, I'd home school. No question. I'm glad you managed to get through those years. ♥
I suffer with depression and at 55 years old, I'm going through my worst time ever. I haven't crocheted in over a year. My craft room is junk. My life is junk. I am in such a bad place right now. But, after watching this video, you have given me the will to get my yarn hook out again and start making. Thank you so much.
I think it's amazing the amount of crocheters that use the hook to get thru life, to keep going, to see the light and stay for tomorrow...you & your creativity saved me more than once Mikey! ❤ ;
Thank you for sharing and always posting such wonderful projects!! 1 had a 5 month old baby, and 9/11 happened. I was working in Soho. I will never forget the feeling of hopelessness but determined to make it home to my baby on Staten Island. Then later that month, having to return to work, I went to my crochet and knitting to stop the panic attacks in the subway or just commuting to work in Manhattan. It did save my life.
Thank you so much for this. I am a 62 yr old she/her in an unhappy, unhealthy relationship & I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. It 😮me! Thank you for sharing your story, thank you for lifting any of us that you can & thank you for being you!! ❤❤
Everything that’s happened in your past is only a testament to to WHO you are NOW…caring, compassionate, empathetic. I love your videos. You’re an inspiration. I LOVE crocheting & dabbling in a couple other crafts…have fun! 😊❤
I crochet to keep me from becoming bored and to help with grieving, I didn't have a great high school experience. We moved two provinces away and I was so glad we did because I was bullied, and I took a crafts class in the new school and that got me through my depression, and now it keeps me from being bored. thank you for sharing Michael,
I’m so happy you are still here with us, thanks for sharing. You bring such joy to so many people. You always put a smile 😃 on my face when I see your videos Love your humour, your uniqueness and love for sharing your craft. Thanks for being you! 😊💕
I'm so glad you found your way out. Crocheting is very relaxing and it helps a lot of people. You are a amazing Teacher and well loved around the world. ❤
Thank you for telling your story. I have always used crocheting for my own therapy. The projects I complete are a bonus and given to someone for their joy and comfort.
High school was difficult for the first 2 years. I went from a one room 1 thru 8th grades together, with only 2 in my class... to 125 classmates and changing room every period. I did not adjust well. Major anxiety anxiety! I had polio as a baby which left me with a lifelong disability. Yarn and primarily knitting have been my friends and support for over 60 years. During the isolation of covid, I knit and crocheted A LOT!!! Like you, it has been my go-to comfort and joy. I appreciate your video and being so vulnerable.
Kids can be so cruel, yes crochet has saved me in so many ways. Thank you Mikey for your gift of crochet many, many nights it’ was me & Mikey on RUclips teaching me to crochet 🧶♥️♥️
I dealt with bullying all throughout my school aged years from early childhood through high school. Ive experienced different forms of abuse and struggled many times with my self worth, feelings of depression and, yes, at times, suicidal thoughts. Thanks for making your story accessible to other creative and talented souls out there, who may be struggling with finding a sense of purpose and identity. There's always room to welcome more into the yarn art community.
Oh, sweetie,...I'm so SORRY you had such a difficult time in HS. That's not right!!! Kids can be so mean! But I'm SO HAPPY you found crochet and found a way thru the terrible times in your life! This is much more prevalent than we think!!! Thanks for all you do for us! I hope you know you are IMPORTANT to US!!! Love you, fellow crocheter!!! TFS!! Austin TX USA
I'm so sorry you had such a horrible experience growing up, but I'm glad that you found a positive outlet to help you through it, because now we have you to brighten our days with a hobby we love!! 🙋🏻♀️❤️🧶☮️
I am so happy you survived that period in your life! I know how hard it was. My brother tried to do that to himself when he was 13 for the same reason. Stay strong, Mikey. We love you! My little grandson got one of your blanket designs & I was also able to make a small pillow cover with it as well. That was for Mom to put behind her back while feeding our little peanut. I wish I knew how to load a picture to this comment so you could see how beautiful it turned out.
There was a saying my grandmother used to say... The devil makes use of idle hands. Never understood it till I was mid 40's, as kids were growing up and not needing me, mum passed away, and although I helped dad lots, I found myself very lonely, and my fibromyalgia and cfs got so much worse I wasn't able to get out,either walking ,seeing friends etc, and felt there was no place for me in the world. Then after spending 2 weeks in hospital learning to walk again, I took up crochet, and now make toys/blankets and clothes for family and friends and it's given me a purpose 🙂. Thank you Mikey for all your videos, they are much appreciated 👏 💐
You have the most wonderful heart. Crochet lends itself to all with different abilities and disabilities. I have scoliosis, High BP and have had 4 spinal surgeries. Crochet has given me a purpose, the online community has given me connection with people outside my 4 walls. Thank you for giving voice to the often unseen mental and emotional struggles life brings. But most of all, thank you for being you!❤
Crochet is my therapy during perimenopause...even if it's completing one round of a blanket for my dog..it helps me get my mind off my symptoms or anxiety. I wouldn't be without it
It breaks my heart to think you were bullied at high school. You were blessed to find crochet through your mother. You have enriched so many lives with your videos. Your Shorts make me laugh and even smile on my bad days. Thank you, for being you. ❤
You are not alone I am the same you couldn’t pay me to go back to high school I had/have ADD but didn’t know at the time that that is what my problem was I not only had to deal with the AHole kids but a assistant principal and teachers who picked on me and caused me pain I even got punished at school for things that took place outside of school hours and not on school grounds. I’m so glad you made it thru and are here today because whether you realize it or not you are an inspiration and a tremendous help to so many more of us today.
I'm glad that you are still here with us fellow ADHD's. You have helped me learn so many new stitches as I, too, get bored with doing the same stitch over and over. My variety of crafting helps me deal with what life throws at me. And you and your sense of humor and artistry help more than just me! Stay with us...we're here for you too!
Mikey, I am so very happy that you are still here with us. I learned how to crochet from watching your videos. You showed how to do the different stitches. So I would practice doing a sc, a hdc, and a dc. This was back in the end of July of 2015. I sadly and unexpectedly lost my mom in February of 2014. She was only 60 years old. She could knit and crochet until the cows came home. She was very talented and creative. I decided that I wanted to learn because I wanted to have something that gave me a connection with my mom. So, I thank you for making the videos that I was able to watch and that allowed me to learn a craft that my mom once did, and now I am doing and love doing. Sending lots of love and hugs to you. ❤❤❤
My very first large project was one of your tutorials- a mandala blanket I made for my mum in law while she was in hospital with a broken pelvis. Spending time with her in hospital while making it for her is now one of my fondest memories. (She has since sadly passed) She had dementia, so each time I showed her an update on her blanket she was so excited. So thank you for that moment from the bottom of my heart. It got me through some of the most mentally exhausting times in my life. The blanket now lays beautifully over my couch in full display ❤️
It's amazing how many people in this world have been bullied by others especially teens and how many of us have turned to yarn arts for therapy and it becomes a lifelong love affair..Mikey and Dan love your content and love how you are our therapists ❤❤❤
Mikey ha know I'm considered different because ì older (74) and am still loner. Crochet has been and still is a mind soother for me. Mikey you make a difference í this life. Don't ever forget that ❤
I want to say these are really great and you have a special reach to touch people where others would not! Finding the crochet crowd and picking up my crochet again in helped get me through the toughest time losing my husband of 35 yrs. Focusing on learning new crochet skills more than I already knew also helped my new thru the roof anxiety level. Thank you so much for sharing in this space.
Thank you for sharing your story, Mike. I'm so sorry you went through what you did. You were very observant to notice what your mom was doing was bringing her some joy and you learned to do that, too. ❤
You popped up on my feed so I clicked to see what you were about. My son has Asperger's, or high functioning autism, and was bullied throughout his High School. He used to find solace in his drawings and artwork. I have knitted and crocheted since primary school (UK) and have always found comfort in both. I have subscribed.
Thank you for sharing. It helps me feel less alone. I was planning on ending my life and then got into a car accident. Crochet helped me recover from my brain injury and keeps me going. I have projects that need to be completed. I noticed people feel seen and loved when I gift them a project. Right now I have two little boys who are waiting on something and I need to finish them.
It's so important that you're sharing this. High school is hell for so many. Crochet, which I learned from watching your videos, has worked miracles with my anxiety and panic disorder. I hope you know how much you've helped and probably saved people. And where are those bullies now? Not doing great things and having such a positive impact on others as you have. Thank you!
Crochet is an absolute must for me, I can not go a day without it. Depression and anxiety are present here. My middle one (8) is struggling with anxiety, I'm going to get a hook in her hand.
I completely understand the point of having your crochet to look forward to doing when you get home. I've been going through some heavy depression the past while and finding the crochet crowd and having these great projects has really helped my mind set
I am so happy you found a passion! You would not have known how much you are loved by so mnay! My friend tells me there's more to life than crocheting. She doesn't understand the joy and feeling of accomplishment. I'm a disabled retired and crocheting makes me very happy! I follow the saying coffee crocheting and cats! LOVE YOU Mikey
Knitting and crocheting has given me many hours of pleasures and great accomplishment how a single strand of yarn can become a beautiful thing I love what you can do with a ball of yarn thank you for all your encouragement 😊
It has helped me so much with my bipolar and depression. I’ve tried 3 times to kill myself. I now have set a goal to try to make crocheted flags for Veterans that I meet and around my community. It’s so special seeing the look on their faces when I give them one! My Aunt Eddie got me started on crochet and I started watching you to learn more. Thanks Mikey for teaching me so that I can give joy to others and helping me with my mental health!❤
Thank you for this important, personal revelation. When we are making, it is a way to step away from our anxieties and disordered thoughts, and apply creativity with logic to create something that gives us a better sense of who, and what we truly are. Those are the positive qualities we need to nurture in ourselves. Thank you for all you are, and all you do. ♥️🙏🏻
You are wonderful, Mickey...and crochet has saved my life as well, and continues to do so at this very minute. Watching you makes me happy, and you need to never stop... okay 😊😊😊😊❤
Thank you for all you do and for sharing your story. You never know what someone is going through. I'm happy that you are still with us. Keep up the great work. ❤❤❤
Mikey you are so right about yarn...yes it helps me through so much...I'm glad you shared your story...ones that went through this can understand 100%...thank you for also giving hope and encouragement ❤
Thank you for sharing such a personal story from your life. I'm so happy crochet saved you in a way and now you're here spreading joy to others. I also have ADHD and unlike you I could only learn a small amount of crochet from my mother. For some reason as an adult I found it easier to learn from RUclips channels like yours. So I could stop the video and rewind as many times as I needed. Crochet is the best fidget toy if you ask me 😉
I have found that knitting and crochet have a very therapeutic effect for me. They helped me through an illness several years ago. I think it might be the hypnotic movement of my hands, it just has a calming effect. Whatever it is, perhaps, yarn, knitting and crochet should be prescribed before drugs and medication. Best wishes to you.
Mikey! My eyes welled up hearing your story. I'm so sorry of your experience, that's awful. Elated to you pulled through it all ... Bless, look at you now - success, celebrating YOU and sharing it with the world. Thank you 😎💞🌈
Mikey, I have been there myself and am currently struggling with life since my husband of 20 years passed. I had lost my crojo while caring for him and now have taken up hook and yarn again and it does help. It's not my cure all but it is helping. Thank you for sharing this. I can relate. ❤
Today is my brother's anniversary of his death. It is a sad day for me. I miss him and I thank you for this mental health awareness for so many. You do such great work.
Thank you for sharing your story. I came to crochet and knitting because I was feeling the same way after my sister passed away. The lonliness I felt was awful. Having the yarn and implements of construction were my saving grace, even now.
Crochet and knitting (especially for charity) has given my life a richness and happiness I never had before! My self confidence has soared to never before known heights, and fulfilling my life's purpose and legacy definitely gets me through hard moments. I would say to anyone struggling with mental health, FIND YOUR PURPOSE, because I promise you, WE ALL HAVE ONE!
I crochet so I can hold in my hands something that I made. My time on the planet isn't wasted if I can touch and feel something that I created. Just like being a witch, I wave my magic wand(the crochet hook) to turn yarn into anything I can imagine blankets, shawls, hats, clothing, turtles, dolls, body parts, etc. etc. etc.
😢 Oh Mickey..there are so many cruel humans in this world! I also suffered bullying in school for just being a true introvert..what was on offer for friendships just didn't appeal to me and my sister teaching me the art of crafts was a game changer!😍
I’m sorry you went through a traumatic high school experience. I do know what that is like and I too went to that same dark place many times. I’m so thankful you didn’t give in to the dark place. Otherwise the world would have lost out on one of the funniest and creative fiber artists today!!! Thankfully you had some clarity through the trauma. It’s a struggle that can rear its ugly head when least expected. I’ve been medicated for years to help with mine. I’m also thankful for a creative outlet. Thank you Mikey for sharing your experiences and insights. Cheers from FL😺
Bless your mom for teaching you. Back then, there was even more stereotyping than there is now. Thank goodness your mom didn't have the attitude that crochet was only for females.
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ I'm sad and happy all at the same time. I'm so glad you chose life. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for you choosing life. Your lessons changed my life. When I first ventured into crocheting it was so difficult because I'm left handed and back then, you seemed like the only youtuber showing how to videos for lefties. ❤
I agree several times I tried it but was saved, my parents were divorced I felt it was my fault but I know it wasn't but...I picked up again crochet after 15 yrs. Now I'm sort of happy I need help depression with cognitive heart failure SUCKS I. KNOW MY TIME WILL COME 😢 CROCHET IS SOOTHING FOR THE SOUL GB WILL MAKE IT DAY BY DAY❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Oh Mike so sorry to hear you have suffered that way. I suffered panic attacks and depression and would curl up in bed not wanting to talk to anyone. I decided to do crochet to at least be productive. It has worked and I am hooked. I crochet lap blankets for camping. I am so pleased to see you are productive as well.
I have severe depression, severe anxiety and PTAD, and crochet has really helped me. My Nana taught me the basics when I was 10. I put it down for many years. After my diagnosis my first granddaughter was on the way and I decided to pick it back up and make her a blanket and that's when I found out just how much crochet calmed me. Now I work on something everyday to calm myself down.
You are such an inspiration...crochet has pulled me from some of my darkest moments and it is comforting to me to know that I am not alone...keep doing what you are doing...you are an inspiration and motivation for so many ❤
Depression is difficult. I have crocheted 3 baby blankets in the last few months for granddaughters and great granddaughters who just had new babies. I don't get out much so my daughter brought them to each one. I have not received even a thank you from any. Crocheting, knitting and creating patterns and garments for myself has kept my hands and mind active for years. So maybe I will keep on going and find a way at Christmas to give to them to folks who need them.
It does help I have found joy in crocheting and colorful yarn when ever I feel sad ❤Thanks We love you Micky and you are a wounderful teacher ❤ myslfe i have learn from you many patterns they are beautiful❤❤❤❤❤
I too would never want to go back to high school. College is where differences shine. I am so sorry you had so many suicidal thoughts. Back then there was not much to help. I remember being told "Try to not be so weird." I make pot holders. Not difficult but gives me joy.
When I can't find the motivation to do anything else, I find that crochet helps me move through the inertia. It is one of my many arts but this is the one that helps me find my way back from being stuck and depressed.
Sorry you had to go through what you went through it is tough. Thank heavens you found something that lifted you and made you want to carry on and look at you now. I love crochet I find is quietens my mind lets me focus and keeps my hands busy, I ache when life’s ups and downs mean I don’t have so much time with a hook in my hand, the yarn arts are oft not given the credit they deserve. All my love for you sharing your story.
Mikey I was miserable in school also-im so sorry you had to go thru that. Girls are friggin mean-they harassed me n I just wanted to never go..u are awesome -so glad you stuck around to inspire us who aren't assholes! Love ya!❤
My oldest of 6 sons is 40 years old and he has Autism and ADHD.
When he was younger I began to recognize that he was having anxiety and depression so I would have him help me with untangling my yarn which helped to calm down his Anxiety Disorder. I taught him how to crochet the basic stitches. It wasn’t so much about what the project was as it was to keep a stitch count and use the texture of the yarn for sensory processing. These are his tools for creativity, keeping control of his disorder instead of the disorder controlling him.
Making washcloths and kitchen cloths became his “Yarn therapy” Crocheting has helped us both so much! ❤
And I love seeing him happy, feeling positive about himself! And learning life skills
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As an AudADHD mama- I appreciate this! Im gonna try to teach my son
I’m so sorry you suffered so much in high school. I’m glad you’re still here with us, creating patterns, teaching us life lessons in addition to new techniques, and always engaging us. ❤
Mikey, it breaks my heart that you had to endure the worst of humanity when you were so young. I'm so grateful that you were strong enough to find a way to survive all of it and that now you're sharing your love of creating with this community you've created. You inspire me with your joy of living (and your courage!) Hugs from B.C.
I believe that you have given this series considerable thought out of concern for yourself and others. It is important to tell your story. I appreciate this contribution and will reflect on each. Thank you
I love that your making videos on mental health. Crochet has really helped me with my anxiety and depression. Thank you for all you do your channel is a bright spot in my day.
Thanks for your honesty, Mike. I’m glad you found your way out. We are all better for it.
As a nurse, I am so glad you found an outlet to help with your mental health. In my work, I use crochet to help dementia residents in aged care to focus on something other than their situation and see the benefits every time they finish a project or get to start a new project, their smile is worth everything.
Thank you for sharing your story and highlighting the need for understanding of mental health issues.
I'm with ya darlin. PTSD...Depression...Anxiety and ADHD. I find yarn and patterns make my "ADHD Brain" happy because of the variety. Whether I lived in Canada or here in the US, every place I've been I've had a "Happy place" to crochet and ponder life.
Isn’t it nice to know that we are not alone in this world? That there are many who suffer with the same things we do? I have ADHD as well, and it’s not easy living with it. I’m sending you a great big hug, and just know that I’m here for you ♥️!
Mikey how strong you were back in high school! So proud of you.
Crochet gives me peace.
You are a very very special person and don’t ever forget that😊😘
The school system has a lot to answer for. When my sons were young, we lived in Scotland and they were both totally miserable their entire school years. Happiest day of my life was when the youngest left school. They are in their 40s now and if I had my time over, I'd home school. No question. I'm glad you managed to get through those years. ♥
Absolutely! Crocheting gets me through my anxiety. I'm glad you made it through. You are wonderful!
Knitting and crocheting is a life saver to me. Keeping my mind and hands busy❤❤❤
You are wonderful, Mikey . Thanks so much for sharing. ❤❤❤
So true about the difference between high school and college. Happy you are still with us.
I suffer with depression and at 55 years old, I'm going through my worst time ever. I haven't crocheted in over a year. My craft room is junk. My life is junk. I am in such a bad place right now. But, after watching this video, you have given me the will to get my yarn hook out again and start making. Thank you so much.
I think it's amazing the amount of crocheters that use the hook to get thru life, to keep going, to see the light and stay for tomorrow...you & your creativity saved me more than once Mikey! ❤ ;
Thank you for sharing and always posting such wonderful projects!! 1 had a 5 month old baby, and 9/11 happened. I was working in Soho. I will never forget the feeling of hopelessness but determined to make it home to my baby on Staten Island. Then later that month, having to return to work, I went to my crochet and knitting to stop the panic attacks in the subway or just commuting to work in Manhattan. It did save my life.
Thank you so much for this. I am a 62 yr old she/her in an unhappy, unhealthy relationship & I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. It 😮me! Thank you for sharing your story, thank you for lifting any of us that you can & thank you for being you!! ❤❤
Everything that’s happened in your past is only a testament to to WHO you are NOW…caring, compassionate, empathetic. I love your videos. You’re an inspiration. I LOVE crocheting & dabbling in a couple other crafts…have fun! 😊❤
I believe in crochet and knitting help us mentally and physically. I'm proud of you Mikey.❤
I crochet to keep me from becoming bored and to help with grieving, I didn't have a great high school experience. We moved two provinces away and I was so glad we did because I was bullied, and I took a crafts class in the new school and that got me through my depression, and now it keeps me from being bored. thank you for sharing Michael,
I (we) love you, Mikey.. Especially when you giggles and laughter..!!..so happy you are here with us with your tutorials.. Thank you so much..
Absolutely, my ❤❤❤❤ for crochet has gotten me through a lifetime of traumatic events.
Me too! 🥰 🧶 🧶 🧶 🧶.......🙌
It is so cool of you to share this. Maybe someone is struggling and will now find some relief. Everyone here loves and supports you.
I’m so happy you are still here with us, thanks for sharing. You bring such joy to so many people. You always put a smile 😃 on my face when I see your videos
Love your humour, your uniqueness and love for sharing your craft. Thanks for being you! 😊💕
I'm so glad you found your way out. Crocheting is very relaxing and it helps a lot of people. You are a amazing Teacher and well loved around the world. ❤
My heart goes out to you for such an awful school experience you had. You are an amazing person xx
Thank you for telling your story. I have always used crocheting for my own therapy. The projects I complete are a bonus and given to someone for their joy and comfort.
High school was difficult for the first 2 years. I went from a one room 1 thru 8th grades together, with only 2 in my class... to 125 classmates and changing room every period. I did not adjust well. Major anxiety anxiety! I had polio as a baby which left me with a lifelong disability. Yarn and primarily knitting have been my friends and support for over 60 years. During the isolation of covid, I knit and crocheted A LOT!!! Like you, it has been my go-to comfort and joy. I appreciate your video and being so vulnerable.
Kids can be so cruel, yes crochet has saved me in so many ways. Thank you Mikey for your gift of crochet many, many nights it’ was me & Mikey on RUclips teaching me to crochet 🧶♥️♥️
Crochet is great therapy. It quiets my mind & gives a sense of peace & productivity. Sending blessings your way from Texas!!!
I am so grateful that you persevered through those challenging years. You are a blessing to my life❤. Stay stong
I'm so glad you're here! You are an amazing person, teacher and your skills are off the charts!!
I dealt with bullying all throughout my school aged years from early childhood through high school. Ive experienced different forms of abuse and struggled many times with my self worth, feelings of depression and, yes, at times, suicidal thoughts. Thanks for making your story accessible to other creative and talented souls out there, who may be struggling with finding a sense of purpose and identity. There's always room to welcome more into the yarn art community.
Oh, sweetie,...I'm so SORRY you had such a difficult time in HS. That's not right!!! Kids can be so mean! But I'm SO HAPPY you found crochet and found a way thru the terrible times in your life! This is much more prevalent than we think!!! Thanks for all you do for us! I hope you know you are IMPORTANT to US!!! Love you, fellow crocheter!!!
TFS!! Austin TX USA
I'm so sorry you had such a horrible experience growing up, but I'm glad that you found a positive outlet to help you through it, because now we have you to brighten our days with a hobby we love!! 🙋🏻♀️❤️🧶☮️
I am so happy you survived that period in your life! I know how hard it was. My brother tried to do that to himself when he was 13 for the same reason. Stay strong, Mikey. We love you!
My little grandson got one of your blanket designs & I was also able to make a small pillow cover with it as well. That was for Mom to put behind her back while feeding our little peanut. I wish I knew how to load a picture to this comment so you could see how beautiful it turned out.
You are such a wonderful, kind, fun person and I enjoy your videos. Keep smiling, we all need you.❤
Thank you for sharing. Crochet and knitting makes me feel happy. It is soothing to me. And you're right about high school vs college.
There was a saying my grandmother used to say...
The devil makes use of idle hands.
Never understood it till I was mid 40's, as kids were growing up and not needing me, mum passed away, and although I helped dad lots, I found myself very lonely, and my fibromyalgia and cfs got so much worse I wasn't able to get out,either walking ,seeing friends etc, and felt there was no place for me in the world. Then after spending 2 weeks in hospital learning to walk again, I took up crochet, and now make toys/blankets and clothes for family and friends and it's given me a purpose 🙂.
Thank you Mikey for all your videos, they are much appreciated 👏 💐
You have the most wonderful heart. Crochet lends itself to all with different abilities and disabilities. I have scoliosis, High BP and have had 4 spinal surgeries. Crochet has given me a purpose, the online community has given me connection with people outside my 4 walls. Thank you for giving voice to the often unseen mental and emotional struggles life brings. But most of all, thank you for being you!❤
Crochet is my therapy during perimenopause...even if it's completing one round of a blanket for my dog..it helps me get my mind off my symptoms or anxiety. I wouldn't be without it
It breaks my heart to think you were bullied at high school. You were blessed to find crochet through your mother. You have enriched so many lives with your videos. Your Shorts make me laugh and even smile on my bad days. Thank you, for being you. ❤
You are not alone I am the same you couldn’t pay me to go back to high school I had/have ADD but didn’t know at the time that that is what my problem was I not only had to deal with the AHole kids but a assistant principal and teachers who picked on me and caused me pain I even got punished at school for things that took place outside of school hours and not on school grounds. I’m so glad you made it thru and are here today because whether you realize it or not you are an inspiration and a tremendous help to so many more of us today.
I agree. SCHOOL WAS AWFUL!
I'm glad that you are still here with us fellow ADHD's. You have helped me learn so many new stitches as I, too, get bored with doing the same stitch over and over. My variety of crafting helps me deal with what life throws at me. And you and your sense of humor and artistry help more than just me! Stay with us...we're here for you too!
Mikey, I am so very happy that you are still here with us. I learned how to crochet from watching your videos. You showed how to do the different stitches. So I would practice doing a sc, a hdc, and a dc. This was back in the end of July of 2015. I sadly and unexpectedly lost my mom in February of 2014. She was only 60 years old. She could knit and crochet until the cows came home. She was very talented and creative. I decided that I wanted to learn because I wanted to have something that gave me a connection with my mom. So, I thank you for making the videos that I was able to watch and that allowed me to learn a craft that my mom once did, and now I am doing and love doing. Sending lots of love and hugs to you. ❤❤❤
My very first large project was one of your tutorials- a mandala blanket I made for my mum in law while she was in hospital with a broken pelvis. Spending time with her in hospital while making it for her is now one of my fondest memories. (She has since sadly passed) She had dementia, so each time I showed her an update on her blanket she was so excited. So thank you for that moment from the bottom of my heart. It got me through some of the most mentally exhausting times in my life. The blanket now lays beautifully over my couch in full display ❤️
It's amazing how many people in this world have been bullied by others especially teens and how many of us have turned to yarn arts for therapy and it becomes a lifelong love affair..Mikey and Dan love your content and love how you are our therapists ❤❤❤
Mikey ha know I'm considered different because ì older (74) and am still loner. Crochet has been and still is a mind soother for me. Mikey you make a difference í this life. Don't ever forget that ❤
I want to say these are really great and you have a special reach to touch people where others would not! Finding the crochet crowd and picking up my crochet again in helped get me through the toughest time losing my husband of 35 yrs. Focusing on learning new crochet skills more than I already knew also helped my new thru the roof anxiety level. Thank you so much for sharing in this space.
Thank you for sharing your story, Mike. I'm so sorry you went through what you did. You were very observant to notice what your mom was doing was bringing her some joy and you learned to do that, too. ❤
You popped up on my feed so I clicked to see what you were about. My son has Asperger's, or high functioning autism, and was bullied throughout his High School. He used to find solace in his drawings and artwork. I have knitted and crocheted since primary school (UK) and have always found comfort in both. I have subscribed.
Thank you for sharing. It helps me feel less alone. I was planning on ending my life and then got into a car accident. Crochet helped me recover from my brain injury and keeps me going. I have projects that need to be completed. I noticed people feel seen and loved when I gift them a project. Right now I have two little boys who are waiting on something and I need to finish them.
It's so important that you're sharing this. High school is hell
for so many. Crochet, which I learned from watching your videos, has worked miracles with my anxiety and panic disorder. I hope you know how much you've helped and probably saved people. And where are those bullies now? Not doing great things and having such a positive impact on others as you have. Thank you!
Crochet is an absolute must for me, I can not go a day without it. Depression and anxiety are present here. My middle one (8) is struggling with anxiety, I'm going to get a hook in her hand.
I completely understand the point of having your crochet to look forward to doing when you get home. I've been going through some heavy depression the past while and finding the crochet crowd and having these great projects has really helped my mind set
I am so happy you found a passion! You would not have known how much you are loved by so mnay! My friend tells me there's more to life than crocheting. She doesn't understand the joy and feeling of accomplishment. I'm a disabled retired and crocheting makes me very happy! I follow the saying coffee crocheting and cats! LOVE YOU Mikey
Knitting and crocheting has given me many hours of pleasures and great accomplishment how a single strand of yarn can become a beautiful thing I love what you can do with a ball of yarn thank you for all your encouragement 😊
Glad you stayed around and share your talents with the rest of us! Crocheting has kept my sanity through dealing with MS . I was diagnosed in 2011.
It has helped me so much with my bipolar and depression. I’ve tried 3 times to kill myself. I now have set a goal to try to make crocheted flags for Veterans that I meet and around my community. It’s so special seeing the look on their faces when I give them one! My Aunt Eddie got me started on crochet and I started watching you to learn more. Thanks Mikey for teaching me so that I can give joy to others and helping me with my mental health!❤
Mikey, so greatful you "put a hook in your hand" and are here with us now ❤
Thank you for this important, personal revelation. When we are making, it is a way to step away from our anxieties and disordered thoughts, and apply creativity with logic to create something that gives us a better sense of who, and what we truly are. Those are the positive qualities we need to nurture in ourselves. Thank you for all you are, and all you do. ♥️🙏🏻
You are wonderful, Mickey...and crochet has saved my life as well, and continues to do so at this very minute. Watching you makes me happy, and you need to never stop... okay 😊😊😊😊❤
Thank you for all you do and for sharing your story. You never know what someone is going through. I'm happy that you are still with us. Keep up the great work. ❤❤❤
Mikey you are so right about yarn...yes it helps me through so much...I'm glad you shared your story...ones that went through this can understand 100%...thank you for also giving hope and encouragement ❤
Thank you for sharing such a personal story from your life. I'm so happy crochet saved you in a way and now you're here spreading joy to others. I also have ADHD and unlike you I could only learn a small amount of crochet from my mother. For some reason as an adult I found it easier to learn from RUclips channels like yours. So I could stop the video and rewind as many times as I needed. Crochet is the best fidget toy if you ask me 😉
Mikey, I just want to hug you. Much love from Australia.
I have found that knitting and crochet have a very therapeutic effect for me. They helped me through an illness several years ago. I think it might be the hypnotic movement of my hands, it just has a calming effect. Whatever it is, perhaps, yarn, knitting and crochet should be prescribed before drugs and medication. Best wishes to you.
Mikey! My eyes welled up hearing your story. I'm so sorry of your experience, that's awful. Elated to you pulled through it all ... Bless, look at you now - success, celebrating YOU and sharing it with the world. Thank you 😎💞🌈
I too suffer anxiety and Depression. My physiologist suggested that I keep up with my crochet projects.❤
Mikey, I have been there myself and am currently struggling with life since my husband of 20 years passed. I had lost my crojo while caring for him and now have taken up hook and yarn again and it does help. It's not my cure all but it is helping. Thank you for sharing this. I can relate. ❤
Today is my brother's anniversary of his death. It is a sad day for me. I miss him and I thank you for this mental health awareness for so many. You do such great work.
Keeps my mind on the right track. It's tuf being us.❤
Thank you for sharing your story. I came to crochet and knitting because I was feeling the same way after my sister passed away. The lonliness I felt was awful. Having the yarn and implements of construction were my saving grace, even now.
Crochet and knitting (especially for charity) has given my life a richness and happiness I never had before! My self confidence has soared to never before known heights, and fulfilling my life's purpose and legacy definitely gets me through hard moments. I would say to anyone struggling with mental health, FIND YOUR PURPOSE, because I promise you, WE ALL HAVE ONE!
Same here. I crochet for charity.
Bless you🥰. You give so much to your crochet friends. We love you ❤️🥰
I crochet so I can hold in my hands something that I made. My time on the planet isn't wasted if I can touch and feel something that I created. Just like being a witch, I wave my magic wand(the crochet hook) to turn yarn into anything I can imagine blankets, shawls, hats, clothing, turtles, dolls, body parts, etc. etc. etc.
Crochet is my therapy. Hugs to you. I am happy you found something to get you through the rough times
Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for still being here.
😢 Oh Mickey..there are so many cruel humans in this world!
I also suffered bullying in school for just being a true introvert..what was on offer for friendships just didn't appeal to me and my sister teaching me the art of crafts was a game changer!😍
I’m sorry you went through a traumatic high school experience. I do know what that is like and I too went to that same dark place many times. I’m so thankful you didn’t give in to the dark place. Otherwise the world would have lost out on one of the funniest and creative fiber artists today!!! Thankfully you had some clarity through the trauma. It’s a struggle that can rear its ugly head when least expected. I’ve been medicated for years to help with mine. I’m also thankful for a creative outlet. Thank you Mikey for sharing your experiences and insights. Cheers from FL😺
Bless your mom for teaching you. Back then, there was even more stereotyping than there is now. Thank goodness your mom didn't have the attitude that crochet was only for females.
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ I'm sad and happy all at the same time. I'm so glad you chose life. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for you choosing life. Your lessons changed my life. When I first ventured into crocheting it was so difficult because I'm left handed and back then, you seemed like the only youtuber showing how to videos for lefties. ❤
This is an amazing story, Mikey. Thanks for sharing. This could really help someone who is dwelling in a dark place. ❤
I agree several times I tried it but was saved, my parents were divorced I felt it was my fault but I know it wasn't but...I picked up again crochet after 15 yrs. Now I'm sort of happy I need help depression with cognitive heart failure SUCKS I. KNOW MY TIME WILL COME 😢 CROCHET IS SOOTHING FOR THE SOUL GB WILL MAKE IT DAY BY DAY❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
🎉 celebrating the happy place 🎈
Oh Mike so sorry to hear you have suffered that way. I suffered panic attacks and depression and would curl up in bed not wanting to talk to anyone. I decided to do crochet to at least be productive. It has worked and I am hooked. I crochet lap blankets for camping. I am so pleased to see you are productive as well.
I have severe depression, severe anxiety and PTAD, and crochet has really helped me. My Nana taught me the basics when I was 10. I put it down for many years. After my diagnosis my first granddaughter was on the way and I decided to pick it back up and make her a blanket and that's when I found out just how much crochet calmed me. Now I work on something everyday to calm myself down.
I crochet for my mental health. It use to be a running joke for me. But I’m realizing it’s 100% true
You are such an inspiration...crochet has pulled me from some of my darkest moments and it is comforting to me to know that I am not alone...keep doing what you are doing...you are an inspiration and motivation for so many ❤
Depression is difficult. I have crocheted 3 baby blankets in the last few months for granddaughters and great granddaughters who just had new babies. I don't get out much so my daughter brought them to each one. I have not received even a thank you from any. Crocheting, knitting and creating patterns and garments for myself has kept my hands and mind active for years. So maybe I will keep on going and find a way at Christmas to give to them to folks who need them.
Ty for sharing your personal story with us.
I do believe crochet has helped me through some painful times through my life as well.❤🙏
It does help I have found joy in crocheting and colorful yarn when ever I feel sad ❤Thanks We love you Micky and you are a wounderful teacher ❤ myslfe i have learn from you many patterns they are beautiful❤❤❤❤❤
I too would never want to go back to high school. College is where differences shine. I am so sorry you had so many suicidal thoughts. Back then there was not much to help. I remember being told "Try to not be so weird." I make pot holders. Not difficult but gives me joy.
When I can't find the motivation to do anything else, I find that crochet helps me move through the inertia. It is one of my many arts but this is the one that helps me find my way back from being stuck and depressed.
High school, never again. I hated it so much. I'm so sorry for what you went through.
Sorry you had to go through what you went through it is tough. Thank heavens you found something that lifted you and made you want to carry on and look at you now. I love crochet I find is quietens my mind lets me focus and keeps my hands busy, I ache when life’s ups and downs mean I don’t have so much time with a hook in my hand, the yarn arts are oft not given the credit they deserve. All my love for you sharing your story.
Mikey I was miserable in school also-im so sorry you had to go thru that. Girls are friggin mean-they harassed me n I just wanted to never go..u are awesome -so glad you stuck around to inspire us who aren't assholes! Love ya!❤
YOU are an OVERCOMER❤ GOOD FOR YOU ❤SO SO PROUD OF YOU❤
So sorry you had to go through that and am glad you kept going! You make me giggle and brighten my day . Have a blessed day.