Thank you for sharing such a personal episode in your life. Women learn the lessons in life from those that have actually experienced them. I’m a newbie to your channel and have already learned something new. Looking forward to the episodes you choose to share.
Imprinted on my soul...I so get it Makes me cry for my younger self..only I was abused physically too.The lack of hope can be crushing. Godspeed the sufferers' journey My heart you
Going cashless is totally going in the wrong direction. Using cash is best because it cannot be traced, tracked or controlled. Not a good thing. I stopped going to Starbucks a year ago when they continued to raise the charge for one coffee three times in a year, and during the shutdown no less. Not a company I support anymore. How often do you water the veggies in pots?
I have that same compost container in black with silver lid! Love it! Sits on my counter and NO odor at all with being out. We started composting again this year since moving to the Oklahoma City area from the country. Closer to our daughter and grandson.
Such wisdom! I had to find out about my marriage the same way. After 20 years, I finally realized, they don't give medals for endurance. My life is a thousand times better now. Sometime, I feel God just gives us a giant shove into a new life, that we might have been resisting. I love this video!
Loved this vlog as well. You are so multi talented it just blows my mind ! Again, I have learned many things from you this week. Thank you for taking us on the tour with you and showing us around your darling little town.
I so related to your marital infidelity experience, except that I was a stay at home mom with three kids. When I found out about his 10 year affair I was heartbroken, confused and humiliated. But I never felt humiliated by my decision to stay with him and try to make the marriage work because I wanted to be able to look myself and my children in the eyes every day and know that I did absolutely everything I could to try to keep our family together. About 5 years and a move across the country later, he decided that he wanted a divorce and by this time I agreed that there was nothing else I could do. Rather than feeling weak and humiliated by my decision, I have always chosen to frame it as a decision made in strength and motherly love.
Hello Kimberly! I really enjoyed following along with you. I usually pay cash when I go out shopping. I don’t go to Starbucks, so no problem with their sign. If that happens elsewhere, then I probably won’t shop there. That is the beauty of having choices, I choose to pay cash and I don’t need a store telling me how to pay. I love your front garden, it is looking so pretty. I hope you have a wonderful day!!
At the beginning of the pandemic I had to go and have my dog fitted for a harness and collar.It was pricey.He was already wearing it and I was told they had no change so I'd have to use a card;they weren't taking cash.I said that I only had cash so they could take it or take the harness back off of my dog!Bottom line is they had change and took my cash.I never shopped there,again.
@@joyce7310 Wow. Interesting how they lied and said they didn’t have change, and then they take your cash when you said that’s all you have. I wouldn’t shop there anymore either. Now they lost a customer. That’s really sad.
I haven’t been to Starbucks for several years but if I was still a fan this is where we would part ways. I will not shop anywhere that does not accept cash. Great video. 🙂
Ahhhh.. been there... done that.. so so hard and as you said.. soul crushing. I'm currently in my 2nd marriage....having adventures around the globe with the person I was always meant to be with.....I'm so so blessed. Thanks for sharing 💓🙏
Wow! Great vlog today Kimberly. Similar happened to me...our youngest was 11 at the time. I was a homeschooling mom to 3 that had an Amazon side hustle. On top of everything, the husband decided that $50/week was plenty of $ for groceries for our family. I raided my business to pay for what we needed while I figured out what to do. After the shock, the dejection and sadness I became determined. I found a way to hire a good attorney, have the husband removed from the home and began the divorce. It took months to muster the guts...and I did not take the process lightly. What I found out is that I am stronger than I knew, more capable than I ever imagined and now have a deep sense of peace and stability. There are no mistakes!
Your dinner looks so yummy! I hate anything cashless because I feel like I am having my privacy taken from me. I don’t know about all that. I have to tell you Kimberly, I admire your strength and independence. You rock!
I’m not sure going cashless is a good idea ,I have friends that only ever pay cash and it’s another form of controlling the public ,taking away our choices ,great vlog .
Good Morning! Thank you for your videos! I learn so much from you. I am 68 and my husband of 41 years passed away from cancer 4 years ago. I thought my world was done when he passed. With being married, being in partnership with my husband in business, and raising 2 kids, I didn't know myself. I have now just begun to learn so much about myself with how and what I can do by myself to live by myself. Your videos always give me encouragement. I cannot thank you enough.
Love your channel. You are such a warm and calming person to listen to, and just add some peace to my day. Also, very insightful! Thanks for sharing some background on your independence. I am 62 and am now waiting for the real estate prices to go down here in S FL for my separation to come of 23 years. This has been an ongoing head game with me, but know I just have to take the plunge to live on my own.😀🤨
I can relate to your marriage story as well. I found out my first husband was having an affair two weeks after my son was born. I stayed. I thought the affair was over but two years later I found it it was not. I left and divorced. Ten years later I remarried and had another son. He was three when the first affair started. Again, I stayed because single parenting is very very hard and I didn’t want to put him through what I had put my first son through by not having his dad around. Nineteen years later, another affair! I am now separated and have lost all what little self-esteem I had left. You are helping me to rebuild it. Thank you Kimberly!
Gigi, I am truly sorry to read that you have had such heartache and trauma. I hope that you get hugs and support from others that love and care for you.
Gigi I am so sorry for what you have been through. If I was close to you I would give you a big hug but since I am not I am hugging you with my prayers 🙏 you are beautiful, you are enough, you matter. Much love ❤️
I can totally relate to your life. I have absolutely no trust when it comes to men. Am 63 and still with my 3rd husband due to financial reasons, but have zero feelings left. Now I would be happy to see him meet another woman and move away with her. I hope you are doing well and loving yourself. Stay happy sister 💖
Wow! I have had a very hard weekend for many different reasons. I needed this so very badly this morning. I think it will help me reset my attitude an thoughts. Thank you so much!
Oh Kimberley - what a wonderful woman you are. You have such depth, understanding, awareness, honesty and yet you are truly humble. You brought tears to my eyes. ❤️
Kimberly, I love your honesty and independence - yet you have not lost your kindness. You make us feel like we are there with you. Good friends. There was an Executive Order signed this year to go to a cashless society. Big Brother is watching us. They want our land, not the people. Food shortages are coming too. Be well dear woman.
Boy oh boy can I relate to your marriage story. My ex did not cheat but he was so narcissistic and controlling and I finally left only to reconcile twice. I had always thought of myself as strong and capable but somehow this man succeeded in controlling my every thought and move. I finally left five years ago and have not looked back. I'm sure you realize that by making this video you have clearly expressed your opinion to your friend. Clever and very well done. I hope she makes the right decision.
Susan Banton Wow...some strong assumptions there, I think. Imo, Kimberly was not attempting to be 'clever' in this video hoping to influence the 'right' decision of her friend, in the assumption her friend would see the video. To the contrary - in my opinion Kimberly was giving us all - and her friend (if watching) - permission to feel free to make our own decisions... based on who we are, what space we are in at the time, and (subconsciously) the lessons we need to learn in life. I think her friend will make the 'right' decision, for her - whatever she decides (to stay or go) - because, ultimately, the decision will be based on what it is she needs to learn about herself, in her life. Just my opinion😉
I had been married to a narcissist too and the same thing…tried to leave once and got sucked back in. I finally divorced the bastard 6 years ago. Best decision of my life. In the process I learned to love and trust myself. When I look back I am saddened to see how many years I’d been manipulated and controlled. But life is good now, so I try an focus on that.
I’m watching this for a second time, I appreciate your advice on making decisions for my life. I am struggling with my marriage, feeling worried about my future; you give me hope that any decision I make will be the right one. I have come to realize that leaving an unhappy situation is not necessarily a failure, but a decision to make my life what I want it to be. Thank you!
Hope you share some vegetables recipes. I enjoy growing in my green stock. Your animals are just adorable. Ryan love the wine and plant idea. Great video, thank you. 🐝
I give all the credit for my strength to my Mom after watching her raise her children after my father died. Her work ethic, her steadfastness. I owe it all to her. We do what we have to do to get through that part of our lives. The decisions we make define who we are - I truly would not be the person I am today if I had not gone through all the trials I have experienced (and there have been many and I believe God allows trials to define who we are and the decisions we will make. The Bible says we will go through trials and tribulations. Right now my faith is getting me through as I grow older.
Your story could be mine except that my Mother only had me left at home (at age 11) after my Dad died. She was my rock and my inspiration and lived to be almost 96. I could not have made it through all the trials I've gone through had God not put me in her capable hands. He is faithful ... always.
I had a wonderful 38 year marriage, until he died, but your words are so powerful . I am navigating widowhood. I live in Anniston, Alabama. Just west of Atlanta. Welcome to the south.
Thank you for sharing different deeper aspects of your life. I feel all you bring up is relevant to us women, all around the world. You are a home maker for yourself, and what a lovely cozy feeding enviroment. I always look forward for your videos,the blog's in particular.
Agree there no mistakes, only life lessons. I too was married for 35 years to a cheating husband from the beginning. I took my vows seriously. He filed for divorce. Even then I did not want to be divorced but he pursued it . He moved back to our little town (with the last girlfriend) but she left when he had a stroke. He called me to see if I would care for him and I did agree with help for some of the things he needed. That was 4 years ago, My ex husband died last May. The day before, I spent the afternoon with him in the nursing home. I made the right decision to have stayed all those very painful years and being there when he passed. It was my faith in God and His direction, and my belief in the vows I took so many years ago. Everyone must be true their beliefs I don't regret any of it.
I loved your video. Thank you for sharing a part of your past which many of us gals from our generation can relate to - those of us that stayed home raising our kids in the 70's and 80's, deciding to stay in marriages (at that time) that took away our self worth. I vote no to a cashless starbucks or any cashless retailer.
I'm 82 and I always pay cash...just the way I grew up. I believe this country is going to go through a total upheaval in the very near future and all their rules about how to pay for goods and services will go out the window with the rules and regulations of old. I have been widowed twice and am now married to an old friend. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is: people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Love your videos!
Hi Kimberly, I look forward to seeing your vlogs! Going cashless is unsettling to me because of the controlling aspect, and we'll avoid any business that institutes this policy. I hope Starbucks doing this isn't a sign of things to come! Take care!
I agree with another viewer, powerful words! I feel like you do now. It took me a long time to get over it because I was so blindsided. Apparently, his affairs started before our first child was born. He even told me twice in the marriage, if we don't have "s***" soon, I'm going to look elsewhere! I was so devastated. I thought it was all my fault. I was working full time and took care of our two kids, s*** wasn't my first priority. I'm happy to report that I've been divorced for 20 years and I raised our kids all by myself while he started his new life with his receptionist. I found my strength and I couldn't be more happy with me!!! Thank you Kimberly! You are so brave and truly are an inspiration!
(Hello from North Augusta, SC, almost your neighbor!) Meaningful video, Kimberly. Our choices form us into who we are. My journey has an abundant share of "mistakes," all choices that have led me to be the free, loving and strong woman I am today. Mistakes, no. Life story, yes. No regrets here. Added note: You and Lucy were walking on North Augusta's Greeneway, 7+ miles in length. My home is a few short blocks from this trail. Welcome to our little city!
Thank you for sharing your story! Your words spoke to my heart and soul. I am 55 and believe I made the choices I needed to make at the time. Thank you for saying that these are not mistakes it is how the universe created my life. I cried a good cry listening to your story because I have my own. I am a strong women yet feel a sense of duty and commitment that has led me to struggle.
I look at it differently-You were a very conscientious MOM and wanted the ability to spend time with your child! You made a personal sacrifice to put your child first! I find that decision heroic!
Hi Kimberly, Great video! Thank you for taking us along! There are many people that do not use cash as a method of payment. A company or store has no right to tell a customer how to pay for an item or service. It's A great way to loose. customers! Love and light, Sarah🙏❤☀🙋
I just wanted to let you know how impressed I was with your honesty today sharing about your "life lessons". You have helped many others today with your disclosure, bless your heart for it. Wishing you all the very best from Canada.
I was married to a man that had Special Time with a lot of different women over 31 years. What finally gave me the courage to divorce him is a breast cancer diagnosis. I know that sounds strange. But I thought if I can go through mastectomy, reconstructive surgery and chemo I can’t get through the divorce. I’m a strong independent women because of that.
MY EX FOUND ONLINE DATING. WE WERE STILL MARRIED WHEN I GOT A DIAGNOSIS OF BREAST CANCER. I DID THE MASTECTOMY, CHEMO AND RECONSTRUCTION WITHOUT HIM AT MY SIDE. I HAD GOOD FRIENDS AND THAT HELPED. TODAY I AM AN ONCOLOGY NURSE. GAIL
Just wanted to thank you Kimberly for acknowledging the events of September 11 and all of the lives that were charged 21/years ago. You are much appreciated
I just subscribed. I've been watching your videos for months, and didn't realize that I wasn't subscribed. Then I was listening to your personal story in this video and I realized that you never know what personal hell people have been through. I would love to hear how you changed and improved your personal situation. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that.
Thanks for the talk. Going thru marital difficulties right now, revolving around money, which I have dealt with for years. Always rescuing him out of his uncontrollable spending and debt. He , yesterday, moved to Oregon for a new job, while I stay here in Colorado, teaching. I have not allowed myself to honor myself, to be respected, believe I deserve the love I should have for myself and so many other things. Its hard. Trying to figure out what I want my life to look like going forward.
Enjoy your vlogs very much! I'm Pro cash so I would stop going to Starbucks if I did go there because of that! The coffee I make at home in a French press is 10 times better anyway 😉
@@gingersmith2888 I don’t need Starbucks label!! Just so happens that in my 20 yr quest for a perfectly flavored espresso, their French Roast beans are superb!😊
@@gingersmith2888 unbelievable! Because I happen to like a certain coffee bean from a company you abhor, you feel the need to belittle me and be a total bitch all in the name of Starbucks! Leave me alone while I brew another cup of pesticides
Loved this video. I so look forward to spending time with you and your babies. I think Aiken really agrees with you. You seem so happy. Yes, we all learn by our mistakes...some quite costly mistakes that last a lifetime. I say absolutely NO to a cashless society. Can't wait to see you again.
Additional comments: the segment at Ryan's breathtaking secret plant space made my heart sing! I love houseplants and would have a zillion of them if space and light allowed. Also, love the paintings you've created! Beautiful! Such talent. And the river walk was so enjoyable. So peaceful. Stunning homes.
Hi Kimberly, Thank you for this great vlog filled with personal sharing which was very touching, and a wonderful variety of interesting information of plants, birds, sightseeing and a yummy looking dinner! Excellent and fun today. A big no to a cashless society or any store that tries to take away the freedom of choice!
Lucy is a smart puppy, "i always lay at your feet Mom, because you are doing something and excitement (eg, treats, going out, etc) might break out any second!"
Honestly, I feel so fortunate to have come across your videos last year. You may not know it, but you are really influencing me in all the best ways possible at a time in my life of profound change and grief. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏼
Kimberly, I just knew something had occurred in your life for you to be so confident in yourself and I’m happy for that. But I’m sad you had to go through this! My Mom went through this same experience and it crushed her. But after she got over the hurt, she was a power house of a strong confident woman! And that’s what I see in you! I love your channel!
I feel like I’ve had a very impactful spiritual lesson this Sunday morning. Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve always thought our experiences and people who come into our lives, even the unpleasant ones, are there to teach us something. The problem is, we don’t always listen. Your light is certainly showing through. Your blogs just keep getting better and better. Unbelievable! Starbucks….. I gave up on them a long time ago!
This was such a wisdom packed vlog! Thank you for being so honest and open about such a delicate subject. You have no idea how many people you have helped by sharing this experience. Good bless you!
Beautiful words on “mistakes “. I couldn’t agree more. There are no mistakes, just experiences that are helping us align with our true being. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing. ❤️
Oh, I love this vlog! I've been a subscriber for a year and I've never felt moved to comment before. I think it's because your vulnerability is bringing me closer to you. Thank you so much for these posts💚 I agree there are no mistakes
Kimberly, I’ve enjoyed watching your videos for a few years now. You’re such a warm, friendly, and out going woman. I found you when I was looking for beauty channels with older women because I’m not in my 30s or 40s anymore-I’m about to turn 61!!!!! I love how your channel has grown and am especially enjoying your journey in your new home. This particular video hit home with me because as I’ve gotten older and looked back over my life I made so “mistakes” that I’ve made and slowly realized that each one taught me something. I’ve tried to learn something each time and not make the same ones again. Of course, I’ve still repeated a few but try to extricate myself as soon as I realized was back in the same hole I dug for myself. You express yourself so eloquently and soulfully. As you say, I appreciate you so much. I’ve watched this particular video a few times and each time it resonates with me each time! Thank you!!!
I’ve got to tell you Kimberly that I’m really enjoying these vlogs. Makeup and beauty is fine but I like the variety and depth of the vlogs. Thanks for inviting us into your world. I love it❣️
I think is one of my favorite videos of yours so far. I loved the trolley and greenhouse tours and your own garden tour, you sharing your personal story about the relationship with your husband and how you grew from that. I think we need more cooking with Kimberley vlogs. The river walk was beautiful, those homes were stunning. Just loved everything 🌺
You have certainly had an interesting journey, yet although some of it was not pleasant you walked away learning some good lessenes. You are a strong, independent woman, and have a wonderful heart, that carries herself with dignity, grace and no bitterness. This has allowed you to have an open, artistic, heart with joy and love. Bravo to you and bless you.
I cannot even imagine the time and energy he spent with growing and grooming all of those beautiful plants and greenery. A true greenhouse. He is devoted to his God given talent and craft. He is sharing it with everyone. Lord bless him.
Kimberly! Your message on mistakes was meant for me to pass along to a loved one TODAY. She has been in a narcissistic marriage for many years and is hopefully on the verge of making that move to a better, more free life for herself. I shared this video with her and I hope she gets out of it what I did. It is past time for her to take control of her life and shed the 250 lb weight of the world from her shoulders. There are absolutely NO coincidences in life. NONE!! Thank you for sharing. Beautiful plants too - I have been following your gardening progress and it’s doing great. I am learning a lot. NO cashless business with get my money. I have never patronized Starbucks and certainly will never now. It’s overpriced, crappy coffee to begin with so this would be the final nail in the coffin for me.
I so enjoy your adventures and discoveries. If you haven’t ventured up the mountain, you need to come up to Hendersonville, NC. It’s a very quaint town full of charm. We are 25 miles south of Asheville which is another cool town with tons of eclectic southern hospitality.
Another great video. I could watch you for hours. Thank you for showing us your town and your neighbor town. You make it very interesting. I will be hoping for another video very soon. I am anxious to see how your chair comes out.
Just love spending time with you, your fur babies and your friends. Thank you for reminding me that my choices, very similar to yours, were not mistakes. They were choices I made in the situation I was in at the time. It helped me to release much of the resentment I have been holding inside. ❤️
Thank you for sharing such a personal episode in your life. Women learn the lessons in life from those that have actually experienced them. I’m a newbie to your channel and have already learned something new. Looking forward to the episodes you choose to share.
Your friend is so very BLESSED to have you!!! 💖
Everything we go through makes us who we are now.
Imprinted on my soul...I so get it Makes me cry for my younger self..only I was abused physically too.The lack of hope can be crushing.
Godspeed the sufferers' journey
My heart you
YOU ARE VERY INSPIRATIONAL TO ME ….
Thank you for all you do for us
Gratefully
Patricia
Going cashless is totally going in the wrong direction. Using cash is best because it cannot be traced, tracked or controlled. Not a good thing. I stopped going to Starbucks a year ago when they continued to raise the charge for one coffee three times in a year, and during the shutdown no less. Not a company I support anymore. How often do you water the veggies in pots?
Exactly ! No mistakes no coincidences
I have that same compost container in black with silver lid! Love it! Sits on my counter and NO odor at all with being out. We started composting again this year since moving to the Oklahoma City area from the country. Closer to our daughter and grandson.
Such wisdom! I had to find out about my marriage the same way. After 20 years, I finally realized, they don't give medals for endurance. My life is a thousand times better now. Sometime, I feel God just gives us a giant shove into a new life, that we might have been resisting. I love this video!
Loved this vlog as well. You are so multi talented it just blows my mind ! Again, I have learned many things from you this week. Thank you for taking us on the tour with you and showing us around your darling little town.
Kimberly, thank you for sharing your story. You are an inspiration!
Kimberly you look so pretty. You are glowing. Just love you.
I so related to your marital infidelity experience, except that I was a stay at home mom with three kids. When I found out about his 10 year affair I was heartbroken, confused and humiliated. But I never felt humiliated by my decision to stay with him and try to make the marriage work because I wanted to be able to look myself and my children in the eyes every day and know that I did absolutely everything I could to try to keep our family together. About 5 years and a move across the country later, he decided that he wanted a divorce and by this time I agreed that there was nothing else I could do. Rather than feeling weak and humiliated by my decision, I have always chosen to frame it as a decision made in strength and motherly love.
Hello Kimberly! I really enjoyed following along with you. I usually pay cash when I go out shopping. I don’t go to Starbucks, so no problem with their sign. If that happens elsewhere, then I probably won’t shop there. That is the beauty of having choices, I choose to pay cash and I don’t need a store telling me how to pay. I love your front garden, it is looking so pretty. I hope you have a wonderful day!!
At the beginning of the pandemic I had to go and have my dog fitted for a harness and collar.It was pricey.He was already wearing it and I was told they had no change so I'd have to use a card;they weren't taking cash.I said that I only had cash so they could take it or take the harness back off of my dog!Bottom line is they had change and took my cash.I never shopped there,again.
@@joyce7310 Wow. Interesting how they lied and said they didn’t have change, and then they take your cash when you said that’s all you have. I wouldn’t shop there anymore either. Now they lost a customer. That’s really sad.
I haven’t been to Starbucks for several years but if I was still a fan this is where we would part ways. I will not shop anywhere that does not accept cash. Great video. 🙂
Ahhhh.. been there... done that.. so so hard and as you said.. soul crushing. I'm currently in my 2nd marriage....having adventures around the globe with the person I was always meant to be with.....I'm so so blessed. Thanks for sharing 💓🙏
Wow! Great vlog today Kimberly. Similar happened to me...our youngest was 11 at the time. I was a homeschooling mom to 3 that had an Amazon side hustle. On top of everything, the husband decided that $50/week was plenty of $ for groceries for our family. I raided my business to pay for what we needed while I figured out what to do. After the shock, the dejection and sadness I became determined. I found a way to hire a good attorney, have the husband removed from the home and began the divorce. It took months to muster the guts...and I did not take the process lightly. What I found out is that I am stronger than I knew, more capable than I ever imagined and now have a deep sense of peace and stability. There are no mistakes!
Your dinner looks so yummy! I hate anything cashless because I feel like I am having my privacy taken from me. I don’t know about all that. I have to tell you Kimberly, I admire your strength and independence. You rock!
Wonderful vlog again. So positive. Thank you Kimberly. You made my day.
I’m not sure going cashless is a good idea ,I have friends that only ever pay cash and it’s another form of controlling the public ,taking away our choices ,great vlog .
Your are truly an inspiration for many women. Love to follow your stories.
Hi 😊 you've a gorgeous picture on your profile! Just decided to stop by and say hi! I hope my compliment is appreciated 😊
Good Morning! Thank you for your videos! I learn so much from you. I am 68 and my husband of 41 years passed away from cancer 4 years ago. I thought my world was done when he passed. With being married, being in partnership with my husband in business, and raising 2 kids, I didn't know myself.
I have now just begun to learn so much about myself with how and what I can do by myself to live by myself. Your videos always give me encouragement. I cannot thank you enough.
Love your channel. You are such a warm and calming person to listen to, and just add some peace to my day. Also, very insightful! Thanks for sharing some background on your independence. I am 62 and am now waiting for the real estate prices to go down here in S FL for my separation to come of 23 years. This has been an ongoing head game with me, but know I just have to take the plunge to live on my own.😀🤨
Love your video, hopefully your words will help someone. So glad you are in a great place. Enjoy your upbeat videos.
I can relate to your marriage story as well. I found out my first husband was having an affair two weeks after my son was born. I stayed. I thought the affair was over but two years later I found it it was not. I left and divorced. Ten years later I remarried and had another son. He was three when the first affair started. Again, I stayed because single parenting is very very hard and I didn’t want to put him through what I had put my first son through by not having his dad around. Nineteen years later, another affair! I am now separated and have lost all what little self-esteem I had left. You are helping me to rebuild it. Thank you Kimberly!
Gigi, I am truly sorry to read that you have had such heartache and trauma. I hope that you get hugs and support from others that love and care for you.
@@colettedoss4563 Thank you so much!
Gigi I am so sorry for what you have been through. If I was close to you I would give you a big hug but since I am not I am hugging you with my prayers 🙏 you are beautiful, you are enough, you matter. Much love ❤️
I can totally relate to your life. I have absolutely no trust when it comes to men. Am 63 and still with my 3rd husband due to financial reasons, but have zero feelings left. Now I would be happy to see him meet another woman and move away with her. I hope you are doing well and loving yourself. Stay happy sister 💖
Gigi, Sending hugs, and comforting thoughts to you! 🤗💖Liz fro Connecticut
Wow! I have had a very hard weekend for many different reasons. I needed this so very badly this morning. I think it will help me reset my attitude an thoughts. Thank you so much!
Hi 😊 you've a gorgeous picture on your profile! Just decided to stop by and say hi! I hope my compliment is appreciated 😊
Loved your vlog! I like when you share your painting and cooking. 🌸
Oh Kimberley - what a wonderful woman you are. You have such depth, understanding, awareness, honesty and yet you are truly humble. You brought tears to my eyes. ❤️
Kimberly, I love your honesty and independence - yet you have not lost your kindness. You make us feel like we are there with you. Good friends. There was an Executive Order signed this year to go to a cashless society. Big Brother is watching us. They want our land, not the people. Food shortages are coming too. Be well dear woman.
Totally against cashless. Thank you for asking.
So peaceful and interesting!!
Boy oh boy can I relate to your marriage story. My ex did not cheat but he was so narcissistic and controlling and I finally left only to reconcile twice. I had always thought of myself as strong and capable but somehow this man succeeded in controlling my every thought and move. I finally left five years ago and have not looked back. I'm sure you realize that by making this video you have clearly expressed your opinion to your friend. Clever and very well done. I hope she makes the right decision.
Susan Banton Wow...some strong assumptions there, I think.
Imo, Kimberly was not attempting to be 'clever' in this video hoping to influence the 'right' decision of her friend, in the assumption her friend would see the video.
To the contrary - in my opinion Kimberly was giving us all - and her friend (if watching) - permission to feel free to make our own decisions... based on who we are, what space we are in at the time, and (subconsciously) the lessons we need to learn in life.
I think her friend will make the 'right' decision, for her - whatever she decides (to stay or go) - because, ultimately, the decision will be based on what it is she needs to learn about herself, in her life.
Just my opinion😉
I had been married to a narcissist too and the same thing…tried to leave once and got sucked back in. I finally divorced the bastard 6 years ago. Best decision of my life. In the process I learned to love and trust myself. When I look back I am saddened to see how many years I’d been manipulated and controlled. But life is good now, so I try an focus on that.
I’m watching this for a second time, I appreciate your advice on making decisions for my life. I am struggling with my marriage, feeling worried about my future; you give me hope that any decision I make will be the right one. I have come to realize that leaving an unhappy situation is not necessarily a failure, but a decision to make my life what I want it to be. Thank you!
North Augusta is where I lived most of my life. 💖 Alot of kids do their Junior/Senior pics there. My son proposed to his wife in that area. 💖
Hope you share some vegetables recipes. I enjoy growing in my green stock.
Your animals are just adorable.
Ryan love the wine and plant idea. Great video, thank you. 🐝
I give all the credit for my strength to my Mom after watching her raise her children after my father died. Her work ethic, her steadfastness. I owe it all to her. We do what we have to do to get through that part of our lives. The decisions we make define who we are - I truly would not be the person I am today if I had not gone through all the trials I have experienced (and there have been many and I believe God allows trials to define who we are and the decisions we will make. The Bible says we will go through trials and tribulations. Right now my faith is getting me through as I grow older.
Your story could be mine except that my Mother only had me left at home (at age 11) after my Dad died. She was my rock and my inspiration and lived to be almost 96. I could not have made it through all the trials I've gone through had God not put me in her capable hands. He is faithful ... always.
I had a wonderful 38 year marriage, until he died, but your words are so powerful . I am navigating widowhood. I live in Anniston, Alabama. Just west of Atlanta. Welcome to the south.
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Thank you for sharing different deeper aspects of your life. I feel all you bring up is relevant to us women, all around the world. You are a home maker for yourself, and what a lovely cozy feeding enviroment. I always look forward for your videos,the blog's in particular.
Thank you for sharing your marriage story. Sadly so many of us can relate. You are such a ray of sunshine.
Agree there no mistakes, only life lessons. I too was married for 35 years to a cheating husband from the beginning. I took my vows seriously. He filed for divorce. Even then I did not want to be divorced but he pursued it . He moved back to our little town (with the last girlfriend) but she left when he had a stroke. He called me to see if I would care for him and I did agree with help for some of the things he needed. That was 4 years ago, My ex husband died last May. The day before, I spent the afternoon with him in the nursing home. I made the right decision to have stayed all those very painful years and being there when he passed. It was my faith in God and His direction, and my belief in the vows I took so many years ago. Everyone must be true their beliefs I don't regret any of it.
I loved your video. Thank you for sharing a part of your past which many of us gals from our generation can relate to - those of us that stayed home raising our kids in the 70's and 80's, deciding to stay in marriages (at that time) that took away our self worth. I vote no to a cashless starbucks or any cashless retailer.
Don’t support cashless businesses. A cashless society is a totally controlled society! Enjoyed seeing your town.
I agree with you 💯.
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Me,too.
Me too.
Do you think that they" want to track electronic purchases? I do. A cashless society is a less free society.
Agreed!
As always, I learn so much from you. Yes, our "mistakes" are always great lessons. Thank you for being you!!
I'm 82 and I always pay cash...just the way I grew up. I believe this country is going to go through a total upheaval in the very near future and all their rules about how to pay for goods and services will go out the window with the rules and regulations of old. I have been widowed twice and am now married to an old friend. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is: people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Love your videos!
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Hi Kimberly, I look forward to seeing your vlogs! Going cashless is unsettling to me because of the controlling aspect, and we'll avoid any business that institutes this policy. I hope Starbucks doing this isn't a sign of things to come! Take care!
I agree with another viewer, powerful words! I feel like you do now. It took me a long time to get over it because I was so blindsided. Apparently, his affairs started before our first child was born. He even told me twice in the marriage, if we don't have "s***" soon, I'm going to look elsewhere! I was so devastated. I thought it was all my fault. I was working full time and took care of our two kids, s*** wasn't my first priority. I'm happy to report that I've been divorced for 20 years and I raised our kids all by myself while he started his new life with his receptionist. I found my strength and I couldn't be more happy with me!!! Thank you Kimberly! You are so brave and truly are an inspiration!
Powerful words today about lessons learned, choices and “mistakes” plus a nice tour - great combo for a Sunday morning!
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(Hello from North Augusta, SC, almost your neighbor!) Meaningful video, Kimberly. Our choices form us into who we are. My journey has an abundant share of "mistakes," all choices that have led me to be the free, loving and strong woman I am today. Mistakes, no. Life story, yes. No regrets here. Added note: You and Lucy were walking on North Augusta's Greeneway, 7+ miles in length. My home is a few short blocks from this trail. Welcome to our little city!
Your take away about “mistakes” was very insightful.
Absolutely no to a cashless society! Absolutely yes to homegrown produce! 😘
Thank you for sharing your story! Your words spoke to my heart and soul. I am 55 and believe I made the choices I needed to make at the time. Thank you for saying that these are not mistakes it is how the universe created my life. I cried a good cry listening to your story because I have my own. I am a strong women yet feel a sense of duty and commitment that has led me to struggle.
I look at it differently-You were a very conscientious MOM and wanted the ability to spend time with your child! You made a personal sacrifice to put your child first! I find that decision heroic!
That is crap. Do not believe in a cashless - PERIOD! Love your videos
I love hearing your stories and what you learned from them...you are one tough cookie (with a big heart). Love you, my friend! 💗😘
Hi Kimberly,
Great video! Thank you for taking us along! There are many people that do not use cash as a method of payment. A company or store has no right to tell a customer how to pay for an item or service. It's A great way to loose. customers! Love and light, Sarah🙏❤☀🙋
I can see though how it could stop thieves but I totally agree with not having a totally cashless society where everything we spend can be tracked.
I just wanted to let you know how impressed I was with your honesty today sharing about your "life lessons". You have helped many others today with your disclosure, bless your heart for it. Wishing you all the very best from Canada.
So enjoy your channel. You are truly an inspiration to so many. Absolutely NO to cashless!
I was married to a man that had Special Time with a lot of different women over 31 years. What finally gave me the courage to divorce him is a breast cancer diagnosis. I know that sounds strange. But I thought if I can go through mastectomy, reconstructive surgery and chemo I can’t get through the divorce. I’m a strong independent women because of that.
MY EX FOUND ONLINE DATING. WE WERE STILL MARRIED WHEN I GOT A DIAGNOSIS OF BREAST CANCER. I DID THE MASTECTOMY, CHEMO AND RECONSTRUCTION WITHOUT HIM AT MY SIDE. I HAD GOOD FRIENDS AND THAT HELPED. TODAY I AM AN ONCOLOGY NURSE. GAIL
Just wanted to thank you Kimberly for acknowledging the events of September 11 and all of the lives that were charged 21/years ago. You are much appreciated
I’m so glad you shared this. Please do more videos like this one; so profound ❤️
Thank you.
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Loved your honesty and I agree I went through the same thing , but I did leave with a baby and it was the best choice. Love your vlogs
Wow - this is powerful! XX Great share - you will help so many - much love xx
I just subscribed. I've been watching your videos for months, and didn't realize that I wasn't subscribed. Then I was listening to your personal story in this video and I realized that you never know what personal hell people have been through. I would love to hear how you changed and improved your personal situation. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that.
Thanks for the talk. Going thru marital difficulties right now, revolving around money, which I have dealt with for years. Always rescuing him out of his uncontrollable spending and debt. He , yesterday, moved to Oregon for a new job, while I stay here in Colorado, teaching. I have not allowed myself to honor myself, to be respected, believe I deserve the love I should have for myself and so many other things. Its hard. Trying to figure out what I want my life to look like going forward.
You’re such a fascinating person Kimberly. Your videos are great. Wonderful message today. Thank you. ❤️
Absolutely agree! Cash is LEGAL TENDER in this country.
Amen to that!!
Enjoy your vlogs very much! I'm Pro cash so I would stop going to Starbucks if I did go there because of that! The coffee I make at home in a French press is 10 times better anyway 😉
I agree!!
I MUST have Starbucks French Roast beans tho!!
I’ve tried soooooo many beans and the rich flavor is what gets me going!😃
@@gingersmith2888 I don’t need Starbucks label!!
Just so happens that in my 20 yr quest for a perfectly flavored espresso, their French Roast beans are superb!😊
@@gingersmith2888 unbelievable!
Because I happen to like a certain coffee bean from a company you abhor, you feel the need to belittle me and be a total bitch all in the name of Starbucks!
Leave me alone while I brew another cup of pesticides
Well that’s not nice!
Loved this video. I so look forward to spending time with you and your babies. I think Aiken really agrees with you. You seem so happy. Yes, we all learn by our mistakes...some quite costly mistakes that last a lifetime. I say absolutely NO to a cashless society. Can't wait to see you again.
Additional comments: the segment at Ryan's breathtaking secret plant space made my heart sing! I love houseplants and would have a zillion of them if space and light allowed. Also, love the paintings you've created! Beautiful! Such talent. And the river walk was so enjoyable. So peaceful. Stunning homes.
Hi Kimberly,
Thank you for this great vlog filled with personal sharing which was very touching, and a wonderful variety of interesting information of plants, birds, sightseeing and a yummy looking dinner! Excellent and fun today.
A big no to a cashless society or any store that tries to take away the freedom of choice!
Lucy is a smart puppy, "i always lay at your feet Mom, because you are doing something and excitement (eg, treats, going out, etc) might break out any second!"
Thank you for sharing your life experiences. You’re an inspiration and a joy to watch.
Honestly, I feel so fortunate to have come across your videos last year. You may not know it, but you are really influencing me in all the best ways possible at a time in my life of profound change and grief. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏼
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Kimberly, I just knew something had occurred in your life for you to be so confident in yourself and I’m happy for that. But I’m sad you had to go through this! My Mom went through this same experience and it crushed her. But after she got over the hurt, she was a power house of a strong confident woman! And that’s what I see in you! I love your channel!
Kimberly. Nice video. I did enjoyed it. You look so happy Mindy
i really enjoy ut videos and have so much more respect for you after this one! You are one wonderful person!
I feel like I’ve had a very impactful spiritual lesson this Sunday morning. Thank you for sharing your story! I’ve always thought our experiences and people who come into our lives, even the unpleasant ones, are there to teach us something. The problem is, we don’t always listen. Your light is certainly showing through. Your blogs just keep getting better and better. Unbelievable! Starbucks….. I gave up on them a long time ago!
This was such a wisdom packed vlog! Thank you for being so honest and open about such a delicate subject.
You have no idea how many people you have helped by sharing this experience.
Good bless you!
Kimberly thank you for sharing this 🥰
Beautiful words on “mistakes “. I couldn’t agree more. There are no mistakes, just experiences that are helping us align with our true being. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing. ❤️
Oh, I love this vlog! I've been a subscriber for a year and I've never felt moved to comment before. I think it's because your vulnerability is bringing me closer to you. Thank you so much for these posts💚 I agree there are no mistakes
Kimberly
You never cease to amaze me with your inspirational words and life experience. Thank you again this week for words I need to hear!!❤️
Kimberly, you are such a beautiful person inside and out. I pray for your peace and happiness in your new home and city.
Kimberly, I’ve enjoyed watching your videos for a few years now. You’re such a warm, friendly, and out going woman. I found you when I was looking for beauty channels with older women because I’m not in my 30s or 40s anymore-I’m about to turn 61!!!!! I love how your channel has grown and am especially enjoying your journey in your new home. This particular video hit home with me because as I’ve gotten older and looked back over my life I made so “mistakes” that I’ve made and slowly realized that each one taught me something. I’ve tried to learn something each time and not make the same ones again. Of course, I’ve still repeated a few but try to extricate myself as soon as I realized was back in the same hole I dug for myself. You express yourself so eloquently and soulfully. As you say, I appreciate you so much. I’ve watched this particular video a few times and each time it resonates with me each time! Thank you!!!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
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I’ve got to tell you Kimberly that I’m really enjoying these vlogs. Makeup and beauty is fine but I like the variety and depth of the vlogs. Thanks for inviting us into your world. I love it❣️
So happy you're enjoying them!
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I think is one of my favorite videos of yours so far. I loved the trolley and greenhouse tours and your own garden tour, you sharing your personal story about the relationship with your husband and how you grew from that. I think we need more cooking with Kimberley vlogs. The river walk was beautiful, those homes were stunning. Just loved everything 🌺
I say it every week but I love these vlogs so much. I keep them to listen to on mondays at work and I look forward to them
Great vlog and thank you for sharing your story and insight into how situations can really impact you in ways we may not even can consider.
You have certainly had an interesting journey, yet although some of it was not pleasant you walked away learning some good lessenes. You are a strong, independent woman, and have a wonderful heart, that carries herself with dignity, grace and no bitterness. This has allowed you to have an open, artistic, heart with joy and love. Bravo to you and bless you.
Your life experiences seem to be what I’ve experienced more often than not! You are correct…everything comes full circle.❤
I cannot even imagine the time and energy he spent with growing and grooming all of those beautiful plants and greenery. A true greenhouse. He is devoted to his God given talent and craft. He is sharing it with everyone. Lord bless him.
What a wise and heartfelt video. I gained so much from your insights. Thank you Kimberly.
Kimberly! Your message on mistakes was meant for me to pass along to a loved one TODAY. She has been in a narcissistic marriage for many years and is hopefully on the verge of making that move to a better, more free life for herself. I shared this video with her and I hope she gets out of it what I did. It is past time for her to take control of her life and shed the 250 lb weight of the world from her shoulders. There are absolutely NO coincidences in life. NONE!! Thank you for sharing. Beautiful plants too - I have been following your gardening progress and it’s doing great. I am learning a lot.
NO cashless business with get my money. I have never patronized Starbucks and certainly will never now. It’s overpriced, crappy coffee to begin with so this would be the final nail in the coffin for me.
Thank you for another great video blog! I like the option of paying cash - I would no longer support a certain business if they didn't take cash!.
I so enjoy your adventures and discoveries. If you haven’t ventured up the mountain, you need to come up to Hendersonville, NC. It’s a very quaint town full of charm. We are 25 miles south of Asheville which is another cool town with tons of eclectic southern hospitality.
I'm heading to Ashville for 4 days at the end if the month!
I admire you! Love your vlogs 💕
Thank-you for such an honest and heart warming vlog. Each of those rare plants are such a work of art on their own ☺️
Another great video. I could watch you for hours. Thank you for showing us your town and your neighbor town. You make it very interesting. I will be hoping for another video very soon. I am anxious to see how your chair comes out.
Thank you for your lovely honest vlog you did so right to get rid girl xxxx
Just love spending time with you, your fur babies and your friends. Thank you for reminding me that my choices, very similar to yours, were not mistakes. They were choices I made in the situation I was in at the time. It helped me to release much of the resentment I have been holding inside. ❤️