Labor And Delivery | NO EPIDURAL Birth Vlog | Positive Birth Experience

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

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  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 3 года назад +1525

    Wow, as a retired nurse who has seen alot of deliveries you made this look way to easy. You were completely in the zone. Quite impressive.! The nurses & doctor were great. Congratulations. May God forever bless your family with many wonderful memories.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +78

      Thank you so much for this comment!! I find birth so fascinating and expierncing it twice is just such a beautiful state I can't explain. I find it amazing OB nurses and docs just see births so constant and alllll the twists and turns that comes with it! -- and they were incredible for sure!

    • @sarahbest1171
      @sarahbest1171 2 года назад +1

      Do you know what I'm thankful for, god making me an agnostic.

    • @melissavickery2236
      @melissavickery2236 2 года назад +4

      @@LysHeaster I'm 28 wks with our 2nd boy. Our first is 2 yrs 4 months old so when our 2nd boy gets here, im super excited about giving birth again. The doctors broke my water with my 1st, then 7 hours later our boy was born. This time, i want to wait a bit before i go. I love watching these

    • @melissavickery2236
      @melissavickery2236 2 года назад +1

      @@LysHeaster congratulations you all!!

    • @Abcdefghijajajaja
      @Abcdefghijajajaja 2 года назад +18

      Every women takes it like a champ, even if she is screaming and can’t stop moving because the pain. She’s still handling it well. It’s not easy and it never will be

  • @MsV405
    @MsV405 Год назад +48

    Your nurse and doctor were AMAZING! However, YOU were the STAR! OMG you labored like a WARRIOR!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  10 месяцев назад +2

      YES THEY WERE!!!! So thankful for them…. Thank you. 🥹 wish I could do it again..

  • @carolineb3400
    @carolineb3400 3 года назад +339

    Crying when he said do you want to pull your baby out 😭🥰 everyone seemed so supportive and not pushy and you did such a great job, I hope I will have the same experience when my time comes.

  • @elliebrooks329
    @elliebrooks329 2 года назад +487

    I'm due in 8 weeks with my first and this was just the kind of peaceful, inspiring labor and delivery I needed to see. You rocked it!

    • @christacalleros8956
      @christacalleros8956 2 года назад +10

      I’m due in March w my 4th baby and felt exactly the same

    • @hunniii2356
      @hunniii2356 2 года назад +4

      Omg so happy for you ❤️❤️

    • @elliebrooks329
      @elliebrooks329 2 года назад

      @@hunniii2356 awe! Thank you

    • @elliebrooks329
      @elliebrooks329 2 года назад +2

      @@christacalleros8956 Wow! Congratulations! 😊

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  2 года назад +20

      Congratulations!!! I’m going to Vlog today how I birthed twice with no epidural to try and she’s so positivity bc labor and birth is AMAZING!

  • @SassyWinterFox
    @SassyWinterFox 2 года назад +66

    I've always been told when a woman starts saying "I can't do this" they're so close to seeing their baby as their body is about to take over.
    Im due any day now. Super anxious due to the unexpected and uncontrollable things but I'll do it. These videos help reassure me that I'm just psyching myself up a bit.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +8

      How are you today? ❤

    • @SassyWinterFox
      @SassyWinterFox Год назад +17

      @@LysHeaster i have a gorgeous baby girl nearly 2m old. My birth turned out to be PROM without obvious signs they had broken. Induction. No progress. Epidural after 8h. Emergency csec. Epidural meant i got to be awake and my partner could join us. Very positive experience despite my birth preferences going out the window. Everything turned out great thankfully.

  • @yarelisserrano5806
    @yarelisserrano5806 2 года назад +41

    I cried when he came out! I’m 22 weeks, mentally and physically preparing for my birth, no epidural. You did amazing thank you so much for this video, it was a raw and magical ✨

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +1

      Aw thank you so much!! Con grain your pregnancy! And you can do it 🙏🏼🤟🏻

  • @MeliXdupraeX
    @MeliXdupraeX 2 года назад +72

    Videos like these are what gave me the confidence to deliver unmedicated. I had my daughter 8 months ago. I walked into the hospital unknowingly at 8cm. I thought I had plenty of time. My water broke and contractions started at 5pm and she was born at 9:15! This feels like watching my own delivery. Especially with the rocking side to side, the complete focus, saying “I can’t!” when she was almost here. It’s so empowering. Especially when so many people basically laughed at me for not wanting an epidural and told me “you don’t know what you want”. I absolutely would have taken one if I needed to. I honestly think the horror stories of the pain are what made me power through. I just kept thinking “well it’s not that bad yet so there must be a long way to go”. Congratulations. Your family is beautiful, you are powerful and so blessed!

    • @alexandrakritzman938
      @alexandrakritzman938 2 года назад +7

      Most people in my life have been negative when I said I don’t want an epidural. Not sure why.

    • @MeliXdupraeX
      @MeliXdupraeX 2 года назад +9

      @@alexandrakritzman938 I think a lot of people can’t conceptualize why you would want to endure pain when there is an option not to. But for me there were so many benefits to avoiding one if I could. People who are really sensitive about it I assume didn’t have the birth experience they wanted and it’s not really about me.

    • @louiseskip3488
      @louiseskip3488 2 года назад +8

      @@alexandrakritzman938 I know right. Nobody had epidurals unless they really needed one ,now getting one is like not even questioned. Women have been convinced somewhere along the line, that they aren't capable of birthing without one. It's sad to me, because it's taken your ability away in your mind and made women terrified unnecessarily.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +2

      Aw!!!! You freaking go girl! Yes your story is sooo similar to mine! 🥰 so cool!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +2

      @@alexandrakritzman938 it’s very upsetting to me to hear that :(

  • @deannnicole2877
    @deannnicole2877 2 года назад +53

    Lol, the husband not in labor “I feel like I got run over by a Mac truck.” Her, in labor, acting so normal and happy.

  • @alinasaephan
    @alinasaephan 2 года назад +451

    I’m a first time mommy and gave birth to my sweet girl almost a month ago ❤️ I went all natural, no epidural. If I can do it, you can too future mamas! 🥰 that first moment when she was out, she cried but as soon as the nurses put her on me to do skin to skin, she just stopped crying and sucking her fingers lol! It was so adorable and amazing. I’m still shocked. Good luck mamas out there :)

    • @bonolomodise4210
      @bonolomodise4210 2 года назад +4

      Omg. Was it sore? I think I’m panicking. I’m giving birth in 8 weeks

    • @alinasaephan
      @alinasaephan 2 года назад +14

      @@bonolomodise4210 the contractions did hurt but my experience may be different than others. I was 41 weeks and was scheduled to be induced. The morning of my induction, I lost my mucus plug. When I went in, they put the pill in me to help me dilate. A few hours passed and my water broke. Since I was dilating, the nurses decided I won’t get induced anymore. When my water broke, that’s when the contractions really became my worst enemy. When I finally got to push, my baby came out in 5 contractions (nurse told me to push 3 times everytime I had a contraction) Thank the lord!! So I was real lucky she wanted to come out. Ugh but girl my butt bone or tail bone whatever that is whatever that is was hella sore!! I had pelvic pain so getting up and out of bed was uncomfortable.

    • @gemma3944
      @gemma3944 2 года назад +6

      I'm so glad to read this comment my husband and I are expecting our first baby and we are 11weeks along 😁

    • @alinasaephan
      @alinasaephan 2 года назад +5

      @@gemma3944 omg congrats girly! Y’all will love parenthood. Wishing you a fast healthy delivery when that day comes and healthy recovery. I read somewhere that yes you have a new baby, but remember that you are also a new mom. Be patient with baby and yourself. You’ll do great 🥰❤️

    • @gemma3944
      @gemma3944 2 года назад +1

      @@alinasaephan thank you sooo much !!

  • @jaelinirslinger9413
    @jaelinirslinger9413 2 года назад +212

    I'm due in February with my first baby boy and out of all the videos I've been binge watching, this one was by far the most inspiring, beautiful representation of what labor and delivery is all about. This completely helped me ease my mind and believe in myself a lot more going into labor. You're amazing!!! Thank you for sharing this experience!

    • @Capricornmoon8
      @Capricornmoon8 2 года назад +3

      Omg not long now! I'm due in March with my first and watching the positive videos really motivates me that I can do it! Good luck with your pregnancy ❤️

    • @katalinbera3425
      @katalinbera3425 2 года назад +3

      I hope you had a positive birth experience

    • @emmaburgoscasal1036
      @emmaburgoscasal1036 2 года назад +1

      How is he????

    • @emmaburgoscasal1036
      @emmaburgoscasal1036 2 года назад

      @@Capricornmoon8 how is he???

    • @hopeullmann2221
      @hopeullmann2221 2 года назад +2

      How did your labor go!?

  • @sheripie5
    @sheripie5 2 года назад +68

    Your husband is such a great birth partner!! He was so calm and attentive.
    You did amazing mama ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ayashakeckler5301
    @ayashakeckler5301 3 года назад +120

    This video captured the beauty of birth so well! I cried at least 4 times😂 I had my son 5 months ago and this just brought back all the feels. I relate so much to the moment you had when you were almost 10 cm! When they came in and checked me and said I was ready to push I cried and the nurse thought I was crying because I was scared but it was because I was so excited to finally meet him.❤️

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +8

      AWWWWW!!! Ugh i just love that

  • @taylorrae1419
    @taylorrae1419 3 года назад +55

    You’re doctor and nurses are so kind and so reassuring..if I even have a baby I hope to have a medical team like them😭

  • @angelicaweeder4631
    @angelicaweeder4631 3 года назад +210

    This is the type of birth vlog I needed to see! You did so amazing! I am 31 weeks and you gave me the confidence that I can do it with no epidural. Well done mama!

    • @intellectuallyhot3407
      @intellectuallyhot3407 3 года назад +4

      Follow badassmotherbirther on insta! You can absolutely do it

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +32

      YOU CAN 100% do it! do positive brth affirmations/meditations in pregnancy and then into labor

    • @DoseOfDiana5
      @DoseOfDiana5 2 года назад +2

      @@LysHeaster what did you use for the affirmations??

    • @elizabethc3842
      @elizabethc3842 9 месяцев назад +1

      You can, I had five natural births, yes it hurts but you can do it. I had a 2 hr and 10 min labor/delivery with the 1st one and they got shorter each time. I had the last one in 56 minutes from the 1st contraction until birth. I loved natural births, I wanted my babies to come into this world without drugs in their systems. I feel like the babies breathe better and have so much better starts, they nurse better, are alert and bond better.

  • @momsmoneymarket
    @momsmoneymarket 3 года назад +73

    Your partner giving you those affermations, telling you how great you're doing was amazing ❤️

  • @brittneytheeactress
    @brittneytheeactress 3 года назад +366

    Omg I started crying when she was crowning . You have inspired me to go all natural. I’m due in a couple weeks.

    • @Miss_Alena.
      @Miss_Alena. 3 года назад +43

      I just had my 3rd baby July 18th no epidural...what helps is I pray to God during contractions to give me straight I also pretend in my brain that the epidural doesn't exist that they ran out of the medicine. That helps me out so I'm not tempted or think about even asking for it....good luck

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +76

      Oh girl you got this!!!! ❤️👏🏻 I love hearing that SO MUCH! Becuase there is such beauty in birth and our body in all phases! If you can't for a medical reason then so be it. And even if you were to change your mind, all births are beautiful -- it's life! BUT experinecing it with no epidural and all the power to you and your body is such an indescribale moment and feeling. You were made to do this. Your body has perfectly created your baby in your womb and it can deliver your body. My biggest things is mental state (be positive now in pregnancy and itll translate in birth, pregnancy/labor affirmations... I did Bridgette Teyler playlist on youtube) and your breathing! IN through nose OUT through mouth. It sounds easy until harding surges come on. Once you do those two things you'll be unstoppable with complete mental control and physical control over your body!

    • @brittneytheeactress
      @brittneytheeactress 3 года назад +6

      @@LysHeaster thank you so much I needed to hear this 💕💕

    • @brittneytheeactress
      @brittneytheeactress 3 года назад +7

      @@Miss_Alena. I love this way of thinking !! 💕💕💕💕💕

    • @intellectuallyhot3407
      @intellectuallyhot3407 3 года назад +8

      You can do it!

  • @Mel6.4
    @Mel6.4 3 года назад +193

    That nurse holy moly she was incredible!!! she took control and guided you like a champ through the mental part when you felt like giving up!!!! Holy wow!!! Im sobbing. Congratulations Alyssa and family!

    • @HH-yq6ch
      @HH-yq6ch 2 года назад +6

      Yes! And people don’t realize that that’s all so many women need! I experienced it myself with my mother helping me and I got through it with her guidance!

  • @alexiarifaey
    @alexiarifaey 2 года назад +138

    Girl you just made my answer final that I want to go all natural!!! I’m due in 8 weeks with my first baby, and honestly so many people have been so negative whenever I tell them I want to deliver unmedicated. But your labor and delivery was just so beautiful, I hope I have a similar experience!

    • @falsehoodbasher7240
      @falsehoodbasher7240 2 года назад +5

      So how’d everything go?!!

    • @alexiarifaey
      @alexiarifaey 2 года назад +39

      @@falsehoodbasher7240 I ended up having an emergency c section due to my baby’s heart rate dropping too low :( thanks for checking in on me. I’m 6wks pp and still coping but it’s getting better. I hope my next birth I’m able to have an all natural delivery.

    • @microvan1234
      @microvan1234 2 года назад +9

      @@alexiarifaey i ended up having to have an emergency C too. Hope your recovery is going well, and best of luck next time!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +3

      I hope you are feeling well physically and mentally now 🙏🏼🙌🏼💛💛

    • @RDB0
      @RDB0 Год назад +3

      @@alexiarifaey & @aerielvanluesauls5487 had an emergency C with my first and had a beautiful unmedicated waterbirth with my second and had my third at home which was very healing. One C-section does not mean any consecutive births will be c-sections. ♥

  • @lilacruz8192
    @lilacruz8192 3 года назад +32

    Reading the comments and seeing how many woman you’ve touched to give birth without an epidural is amazing , including myself I hope and pray as am as strong as you congratulations beautiful lady . May god bless you and your family with beautiful me memories !! So happy for you . Thank you for the inspiration

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад

      Awwwww THIS is so so sweet to read!!! It's such an incredible experience I can't quiet put words too! I haven't made time to read through many comments so I'm excited to now!!

  • @OhAussie
    @OhAussie 3 года назад +53

    Your doctor was so kind and caring. & Your nurse was amazing too 😭

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +7

      My doc is soooo incredible I can't even explain how much he helped me! And my nurse was my SAME nurse I had with Wesson!!! HOW COOL

  • @dippednailz4352
    @dippednailz4352 3 года назад +48

    Getting goosebumps watching this, makes me think of my birth nine months ago, I wish I could be as strong as you were I didn’t manage the pain well but at the end of my journey I was able to give natural birth with no pain meds and delivered a healthy little boy

    • @anonymous4244
      @anonymous4244 3 года назад +6

      Girl you grew a full human and got them out of you! You're strong as hell lol

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +6

      @@anonymous4244 YESSSS! No matter what that in itself is insane! To even concieve is amazzzzzzing to wrap our minds around

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +5

      You go mama! You totally rocked it

  • @alysamonet
    @alysamonet 3 года назад +25

    Your doctor sounds like the sweetest man! You had such a supportive birthing team!❤️

  • @themilkafam
    @themilkafam 2 года назад +8

    THIS IS TRULY SUCH THE MOST CALM AND BEAUTIFUL NATURAL BIRTH I HAVE EVER SEEN. ❤️ I BIRTHED 4 OF MY CHILDREN NATURALLY WITH NO EPIDURAL AS WELL, BUT I WAS NEVER THIS CALM. THANKS FOR SUCH AN INSPIRING VIDEO!! YOU GIVE ME HOPES TO HAVE ANOTHER 😍🙏🏻

  • @angela.b.
    @angela.b. 2 года назад +32

    Wow I’m blown away at how calm you were & even laughing during labor & pushing so calmly! I also had a natural birth & the pain was so intense & excruciating that I don’t even remember yelling & cursing at ppl in the room but my mom told me I definitely did. lol

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +1

      Haha that’s awesome 🤣🤣🤟🏻

  • @gingercyanide
    @gingercyanide Год назад +7

    Here i am at 33 weeks crying at the footage of your final pushes. This is inspirational. ❤

    • @NareHovakimyan
      @NareHovakimyan 5 месяцев назад

      Same here but many months down the line 😭 hope you and your little are doing so well!

  • @joyrosenbarker
    @joyrosenbarker 3 года назад +36

    Congrats! Isn’t it empowering to bring forth life?! I gave birth to my first 4 weeks ago. I went completely natural, unmedicated the whole way through. It was the most hardest and painful thing I’ve ever done, but also the most beautiful. I was so proud of myself and felt so empowered. Knowing that my body DID that!!! Bringing forth my baby! As women our bodies were made to do this!!!

    • @B-ch6uk
      @B-ch6uk 2 года назад

      Good for you. Congrats

    • @louiseray9274
      @louiseray9274 2 года назад +2

      It's just as empowering to do it medicated. Some of us have no choice eg if we need emergency caesarean etc.

    • @AuDHD99
      @AuDHD99 Год назад +5

      @@louiseray9274 Cesarean births are powerful. Medicated birth is powerful. Unmedicated birth is powerful.
      When someone celebrates themselves, they aren’t putting you down!!! Stop being toxic!

  • @jdunnswimmer
    @jdunnswimmer 2 года назад +22

    That was amazing😭❤️ I heard that when you start to feel like “I can’t do it” means you’re so close to meeting your baby!! You did incredible!!! I’m 26 weeks rn and can’t wait to meet baby boy!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад

      ITS SO EXCITING!!!!

    • @marie-andreemorin543
      @marie-andreemorin543 9 месяцев назад +1

      29 weeks here! Hoping for an unmedicated birth. These videos make me so emotional and give me strength. They are so empowering! Thank you to all of you brave women who put these out these and break scary stereotypes.

    • @colleenross8752
      @colleenross8752 9 дней назад +1

      ​@@LysHeaster, I think you would've been just as good a mother to a girl as you are to these two boys.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  9 дней назад

      @@colleenross8752 awww❤️🥹 hi! Whoever you are that was so sweet to read. I always wanted only boys growing up. But now I desire a daughter so very badly. For over a year now. I just prayed over it yesterday. My husband got a vasectomy (my decision unfortunately…) I’ve shed many tears over it. A decision I wish we never did. We’re so young too

  • @thecherishedlife
    @thecherishedlife 3 года назад +37

    Oh my gosh, this is one of the most amazing births I have ever seen! You did so amazing, mama! You were such a rockstar and such a great example! I only want to watch positive births from here on out to help prepare me for my first drug-free birth and this helped me to see that I can do it! THANK YOU!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +3

      You are so welcome! I love labor and deliveries so much! So I'm glad you got to take something positive away! I loved my experiences SO MUCH!

  • @bekahtroup2822
    @bekahtroup2822 3 года назад +15

    currently 14 weeks and i started bawling once you pulled him out. i cant wait for that moment with my baby🥺

  • @user-hv7vu6xz2q
    @user-hv7vu6xz2q Год назад +14

    28 weeks with my 4th baby boy and out of the million birth vlogs I've seen, this one is hands down my favorite. My last 2 births have been unmedicated, but I've had a lot of anxiety and fear surrounding this one. This gave me back the boost of confidence I needed and I definitely cried 💙

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +3

      Aw ❤️ I’m so grateful for that!!! Labor is so beautiful to me!!! It’s so doable ❤️🙏🏼

  • @Daisy_19971
    @Daisy_19971 3 года назад +42

    This has me so excited to give birth! I’m due on the 24th and have been wanting to go natural my whole pregnancy. I had to switch doctors three times before finding a midwife who had no problem with me going natural. (The others wanted to induce me for no reason). This video is so beautiful and has made me so excited for the birth of my daughter!

    • @rosevlogs4210
      @rosevlogs4210 2 года назад +4

      How did it go?

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +2

      How did it go?! 💛 I’m so happy it made you excited 🥹 labor and birth is SO beautiful

    • @Daisy_19971
      @Daisy_19971 Год назад +5

      @@LysHeaster it went really good! I had an unmediated waterbirth. I labored for 23 hours and pushed for only 20 minutes. Now she’s a whole toddler 😭😭 I miss my tiny baby.

  • @Kaddijatouray
    @Kaddijatouray 3 года назад +49

    Am currently 35 weeks watching your video made me change my mind of getting an epidural..you made me feel like I can do it as my first time...congrats❤🌹🤱🥰👸🏼

    • @ElizabethBartley
      @ElizabethBartley 3 года назад +3

      You got this!

    • @linaalonzo9410
      @linaalonzo9410 3 года назад +3

      Hope you have a wonderful birth just don't push your mind and body to much if you feel like you need meds ask for them

    • @ucheanagor5720
      @ucheanagor5720 2 года назад

      Try hypnobirthing.

  • @britmustard2500
    @britmustard2500 3 года назад +59

    Such a small world when you pulled into the hospital and then the doctor came in... I was like I know that place and he is an amazing doctor and that practice is a wonderful OB they delivered both my angel baby and my rainbow

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +8

      Awwww I LOVE THAT!!!! Yes the nurses are so sweet and encouraging of whatever birth you want even if its not the popular birth style. The doc is seriously like an angel here on earth I swear lol

  • @rebekahlauterwasser5279
    @rebekahlauterwasser5279 3 года назад +95

    The medical staff was so amazing!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +3

      Awwww I LOVE seeing this comment so constant ❤️🥰 THEY ARE

  • @ItsJessPearson
    @ItsJessPearson 3 года назад +32

    watching this made me think back to when i had my daughter. I got the epidural but it was put in too late so it was not effective at all while i was giving birth. I swear I felt the pain all over again every time you pushed. You did so amazing!!!

  • @KathleenTaraLouise
    @KathleenTaraLouise 3 года назад +45

    You're truly amazing Alyssa. That video was just perfect, your labour was very real and raw but so beautiful at the same time.
    The way you tied the video up at the end just fit so perfectly. You're an amazing mama and you should be proud of the family you and Grant have created. Thank you for taking us along on your journey 💛

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +2

      Awww that is so sweet! Ugh I just love it all so much and I'm so thankful I have these memories to look back on and have so many moms to connect and relate too!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +1

      Glad you loved the ending because that was a favoirte highlight for me

  • @katarinawhisler5741
    @katarinawhisler5741 3 года назад +52

    this whole video was a journey and it was beautiful to witness! The moment you pulled your baby out and they put him on your chest, that took my breath away how incredible that is. Congratulations to you and your family 💕

  • @Maddy4Gibbz
    @Maddy4Gibbz 3 года назад +29

    this is the best birth vlog I have seen by far. It seems like it was a very peaceful experience

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +4

      AW!! I love that you see that through it! It was seriously so so peaceful! I was soooo shocked

  • @Amelia-is9rb
    @Amelia-is9rb 2 года назад +12

    Loved every second of this! Thank you for sharing! Currently 35 weeks pregnant and beyond scared, nervous, happy, excited all at once. Very much enjoyed watching your journey! Congrats Mama!

  • @tishaguh1
    @tishaguh1 3 года назад +161

    This was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen and your doctor and nurse were absolutely amazing! Wow! Talked you through everything and empowering you along the way as well as your husband’s strong presence and words to you! I loved it. Congratulations

  • @brittanyjones393
    @brittanyjones393 3 года назад +19

    Thank you for sharing! Currently 28 weeks pregnant with my third son. I've had two vaginal births with epidural, that wore off completely. This time I plan to go all natural, so thank you for sharing. This encourages me so much ! Congrats on the baby ! 💙

    • @AndreaS-gm5ov
      @AndreaS-gm5ov 2 года назад +1

      Same. Mine wore off with my second son and I felt it all.

    • @caitlinmenger8716
      @caitlinmenger8716 Год назад

      Same! I thought I was alone, I had an epidural and it wore off and I felt everything for the last 2-3 hours of labor. So this time I know I can do it and I will definitely be strong on doing it naturally.

  • @kayctaylor
    @kayctaylor 3 года назад +14

    Beautiful. I have had 3 homebirths but I will have to go to a hospital this time for medical reasons. This helps me know natural birth in a hospital is totally doable. Thank you for sharing!

  • @trippy_lil_hippie
    @trippy_lil_hippie 3 года назад +30

    So amazing to see how strong and confident you were! I’ll be 31 weeks tomorrow and idk if it’s weird but I wish you could be in the room with me when I go into labor! Your energy is just amazing and I’m so happy for you and your little family!!

    • @meag_ken822
      @meag_ken822 3 года назад +2

      Congratulations!!! I am 38.5 weeks today. I’m getting a membrane sweep on Tuesday. If that doesn’t move things along I’ll be induced by end of next week. I can’t go past 40. This is my first baby [boy]. I can’t wait to meet him. And I definitely love Lys’ energy 💙

    • @trippy_lil_hippie
      @trippy_lil_hippie 3 года назад +1

      @@meag_ken822 congratulations to you as well!!! I was induced with my first baby and I want to experience things as naturally as I can this go around! Good vibes to you and your delivery!! I hope for a safe and enjoyable experience for you!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +8

      NOT WIERD AT ALL! That's what birth doulas are and I want to become one and be there for mamas! I am just sooooo passionate about birth and I would literally love more than anything to walk through pregnancy and labor with a mom!

    • @meag_ken822
      @meag_ken822 3 года назад +1

      @@LysHeaster you should 100% do it. Tonight at 8:09pm it will be 4 weeks since I had my baby boy Levi via emergency csection. Time flies so quickly 🥺💙

  • @mamabear1324
    @mamabear1324 Месяц назад +2

    Congratulations mama ❤you rocked it!

  • @sidneyculpepper2445
    @sidneyculpepper2445 3 года назад +10

    One of the most beautiful and peaceful labor and delivery vlogs I’ve seen! You were so calm and focused! Way to go mama.

  • @christina5kids16grands
    @christina5kids16grands 4 месяца назад +2

    Mom of 5, gma of 16 - you are very rare young lady. You were willing to work with your team, anxious to work hard at every possible turn, and in the few times you could have flipped out of control, you refocused, and absolutely KILLED this birth woman! This was two years ago, and I hope and pray God blesses you and your sweet little family forever. Sending much love from Orting, WA

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  4 месяца назад

      God bless you sweet woman of God! 🥹 normally I don’t see comments pop up, but this one did and how sweet to read….. I have found the Lord Jesus and been seeking after God. I never prayed over our boys in pregnancy til 2 years for my youngest maybe 3ish years for my oldest. Well God did his thing and now they randomly sing Jesus’s name and want to pray on Jesus on the throne. And so much goodness!!!
      Thank you for bringing him up. I have a best friend in WA. She’s found the Lord too and a young family ❤️❤️❤️ God bless. God is on the move!

  • @emBraceSinghlife
    @emBraceSinghlife 3 года назад +5

    Congratulations to you both.... Your doctor asking if you wanted to pull the baby out, explaining and showing you things was so amazing to me. I live in a 3rd world country where medical staff feel like they have to withold / dumb down information even when you ask. This made me a little teary eyed. Blessings on you all.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +2

      Awwww! He is seriously made to be an OB doc!! He would always go above and beyond to answer any questions I had! So thankdul for him!

  • @jozlynglander3125
    @jozlynglander3125 3 года назад +51

    So beautiful ❤️ what a special nurse you had really grounding you in those last moments!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +7

      YESSSSS PREACH 🙌🏼 needed those words so much

  • @emmacannetti2267
    @emmacannetti2267 3 года назад +30

    i’ve been following you since your wedding videos and let me just say this video is beautiful and i’m so proud of who’s far you’ve come !!!! congratulations to
    you and your beautiful family ❤️❤️🥺 also- grant is literally the best. im cracking up watching him yawn but also making sure he’s taking care of you🥺🥺

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +2

      Awwwww youre the best! Thank you SO MUCH! And he is sweet! I'd imagine it could be quite boring for them lol

  • @ashtonsquires3102
    @ashtonsquires3102 2 года назад +15

    So amazing! We’re expecting our first in April and I’m planning on a natural birth at a center. It’s terrifying making a commitment to be somewhere that doesn’t even stock pain medicine. Videos like this make me feel like I can do it ❤

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +4

      YES YOU CAN! Yes you can!!!! 🫶🙌🏼🙏🏼 there’s no need for pain medicine ❤️ none at all

  • @krisb6001
    @krisb6001 2 года назад +4

    Not me being 36 weeks and crying at how beautiful this process is ♥️♥️♥️

  • @beemaricle
    @beemaricle 3 года назад +5

    32 weeks pregnant with my first and cried my eyes out when your sweet baby was born! Congratulations

  • @tiamckay2243
    @tiamckay2243 Год назад +4

    This is the first video in a while that has made me emotional I can’t believe I’ll be there in 4 weeks

    • @giselleduff1001
      @giselleduff1001 8 месяцев назад

      Congrats Mama! 🎉 Hope the life adjustments are going ok. Counting down, 17 weeks left.

  • @yazelberry3928
    @yazelberry3928 3 года назад +14

    First off… I absolutely loved your hospital and nurses. I enjoyed watching such a positive both experience. Mine was totally opposite from the nurses and the restrictions they placed on me. I totally wish my nurses were like yours. My experience would have been some what better!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад

      Aw yes the medical staff can most certainly change things up a bit!

  • @Seirashot
    @Seirashot 3 года назад +25

    Just had my little 12 days ago. I have been following your journey through Jetts pregnancy. Congratulations! Watching this reminded me of the sheer pain, power and strength of our bodies. Good job girl!

  • @mikat6026
    @mikat6026 8 месяцев назад +1

    What a beautiful birth. Brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations 🎉

  • @justineboyette5638
    @justineboyette5638 3 года назад +11

    I cried so many times! You inspire me so much. I’m 12 weeks with my 2nd and you make me remind myself to enjoy every second. You are so strong ❤️

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад

      That is so heartwarming ❤️❤️

  • @jackietrevis8383
    @jackietrevis8383 2 года назад +1

    I was really young when I had my two girls. I was 21 and 23 now I’m 34 and pregnant with my 3rd daughter. We can not be happier to have this surprise and a baby around again. My oldest is almost 13 and my youngest is almost 11 and they can’t wait to have another sibling. Honestly we said no more too but as you get older and life gets easier and you see how fast they grow up you may change your mind. I never thought I would but I’m SO glad baby Grace is on her way to make our family whole again. 😍 congrats on your baby boy! 🥰

  • @Jaimarys
    @Jaimarys 3 года назад +42

    This made me tear up ! Congrats !! I'm due October 2nd and can't wait to meet my little baby boy already.

    • @emmab8600
      @emmab8600 3 года назад +2

      Awe congrats! I hope everything goes well and good luck! Also October 2nd is my birthday 🥰

    • @Jaimarys
      @Jaimarys 3 года назад +1

      @@emmab8600 thank you so much !! & Happy birthday in advance 😂💚

    • @caitlynandrew5684
      @caitlynandrew5684 3 года назад +2

      I’m due October 2nd with a boy as well

    • @Jaimarys
      @Jaimarys 3 года назад +1

      @@caitlynandrew5684 Congrats !!🎉 Hope everything goes well for you 💚

    • @sitihartigan9469
      @sitihartigan9469 3 года назад +2

      @@caitlynandrew5684 me too will be the 1 October and also a 👦

  • @ShadesSweetLife
    @ShadesSweetLife 3 года назад +17

    This is the most emotional birth blog I’ve watched!! I usually don’t comment but I had to!!
    You did such a great job!! I teared up after he came out. Well done!! Wish you and your family all the best!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +1

      Aw thank you so much! so sweet! Take care

  • @samantharyan4811
    @samantharyan4811 3 года назад +7

    Nothing hits my heart more than when they first see the baby, every single time🥰🥺🥺

  • @kellimcnamara6435
    @kellimcnamara6435 3 года назад +10

    Rockstar!!
    I went natural with my first, no epidural or pain meds, and you made this look easy!!
    Rock👏🏻Star👏🏻

  • @kimcornwell177
    @kimcornwell177 3 года назад +26

    I absolutely loved this video and seeing your strength during the birthing process! Your doctor and nurse were absolutely amazing as well! Much love for you all!!

  • @cassondrafaye
    @cassondrafaye 3 года назад +25

    You’re a rockstar. Such a great healthcare team too

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +2

      YES! Incredible nurse and doctor!!! They are amazing!!! And thank you ❤️

  • @diandrabaker9321
    @diandrabaker9321 3 года назад +16

    Ahh omg I’m so excited for this video and I’ve been waiting so patiently for you to upload it 😍 yay! So happy for you and your family Lys 🤍✨

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад +1

      Aw thank you so so so much! It’s been finished for a bit now and just got around to getting it online to RUclips ❤️❤️ i hope you can take soemthing away from it. I loved watched it back so many times so much 🥺🥲

  • @CaraLudick
    @CaraLudick Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for this. Currently 37 weeks and really hoping to channel your strength and focus through my own labour. You are such an inspiration.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад

      Aw thank you so much! It’s so beautiful and natural. Surrender to your body and feel the excitement of the day. Bridgette tayler videos on RUclips are what helped me so much and her labor meditations is what zi listened to 🤍

  • @mrsdaisymama
    @mrsdaisymama 2 года назад +4

    Nearly 26 weeks pregnant with my baby boy and I am also due in June! (19th) This was so inspiring to watch while planning to have an unmedicated birth 🤍 so excited to document and share my own positive labor and delivery too!

    • @evas8880
      @evas8880 2 года назад

      also due in June, I’m super excited too!

  • @lindajack7969
    @lindajack7969 2 месяца назад +1

    You made it look sooo easy…except the last 15 minutes! 🤦🏻‍♀️What a trooper you are! Good job and congratulations 🍾 on your new little guy!👼

  • @kyndalgunter4945
    @kyndalgunter4945 2 года назад +4

    I’m having a baby boy in February and this is the first birthing video I have seen since I found out and the emotions it made me feel is insane. I absolutely cannot wait to see what amazing life me and my fiancé have created.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  Год назад +1

      It is like Disney world! The most exciting day ever 😍😍😍

  • @laurensimonetti8071
    @laurensimonetti8071 3 года назад +14

    I’m in the home stretch of my third pregnancy and watching positive birth vlogs to hype myself up....and I may just stop here. Your family is so sweet and your birth so beautiful!!! I also love how tender and lovely your OB and nurses are. Thank you for sharing ☺️ Will you share what birth affirmations you listened to?

    • @kelminable
      @kelminable 2 года назад +1

      Yes! I’m 35+4 now and keen to know what birth affirmations helped you through too!

  • @dezpeaceify
    @dezpeaceify 3 года назад +5

    Goodluck to all the women out there having babies soon💙💙 I can’t wait to go natural.. remember WE CAN DO THIS

  • @racheltrammell8946
    @racheltrammell8946 10 месяцев назад

    Your doctor that delivered him is an Angel! Truly! Loved how encouraging and sweet he was throughout the delivery and most of all, after the delivery! Congratulating both of you! 🥹🥹🩵🩵

  • @adtakeover9447
    @adtakeover9447 3 года назад +3

    Im 29 weeks and couldn't help but cry once he came out! So beautiful and strong! Great job mama ❤so inspiring to watch you go through this beautiful experience!

  • @wonderfullymade4645
    @wonderfullymade4645 2 года назад +20

    First time mama & I plan to go natural as well. This is exactly what I needed to see. Thank you for sharing your birth journey with us, many blessings to you & your family!💗

    • @jessicamariche3999
      @jessicamariche3999 2 года назад +2

      I’m preg with my 6th! I went natural with my last and doing it again! My biggest tip is to practice every day your breathing techniques and remember to relax into the contractions! Don’t tense up or you will drag out the labor. Plus you won’t dilate. And watch lots of vids on how to do natural birth 😊

  • @oliviarose3841
    @oliviarose3841 3 года назад +14

    Your birth team was amazing!!! And YOU are amazing!!! I’m due any day now and I’m so emo over this 😅 I can’t wait for this moment 💕

  • @ktay785
    @ktay785 3 года назад +11

    I have watched so many videos trying to prepare myself for baby in a few months & your experience is truly inspiring! Definitely labor goals. Thank you for sharing & congratulations!

  • @brittaneywalker5106
    @brittaneywalker5106 3 года назад +6

    That nurse/doctor dynamic was amazing!

  • @HollyNicole-DavisGarnica-br8vg
    @HollyNicole-DavisGarnica-br8vg 10 месяцев назад

    I actually really appreciate the length of this video. It’s definitely a longer one, but I feel like I was able to actually see and understand the progression much more fully. Woman- you are a champ & your husband and doctor were just the sweetest.

  • @madelineoakland5070
    @madelineoakland5070 3 года назад +14

    So amazing! Way to go momma! Your pushing with your second was a lot like mine with my second. With my first when I started pushing it actually offered me a bit of pain relief. But with my second I was in shock because I was expecting that relief with pushing and instead it was so intense and very painful! Our bodies are crazy!

  • @jits1190
    @jits1190 3 года назад +15

    Almost at 39w here and getting a biy stressed but gosh seeing you labor so "calmly" and controlled gives me hope that I can do this too! For my first I had a positivie epidural birth but hoping I can manage the pain this time 🤞 thank you sm for sharing your experience

  • @noulor3571
    @noulor3571 Год назад +1

    I’m currently 24 going on 25 weeks pregnant with my first baby and I too, want to go a no medicated route. Your video really helps gives me a piece of mind that I too can and will be able to do it too. Just breathe and move, but omg…seeing your baby come out for me so emotional!! I know I’ll be balling when I see my baby for the first time. So beautiful and precious. Thank you for sharing your experience.🙏🏼❤️

  • @MrSashok99
    @MrSashok99 Год назад +5

    It is amazing and so empowering! You did amazing. 39 weeks and hoping for an unmedicated birth. Women rock!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  10 месяцев назад

      Our bodies are all so insanely beautifully created 🥹🥹🥹😭🙏🏼🙌

  • @Jessicacat
    @Jessicacat 3 года назад +10

    This was so amazing! Your are so strong Alyssa wooow!! I’m really considering having a natural birth now, you made look so beautiful! Please make a video on how you prepare and how to stay strong. Such a beautiful labor vlog, it deserves a million views.

  • @blairwilson9453
    @blairwilson9453 3 года назад +5

    This was absolutely beautiful and quite powerful and empowering. This was really informative to see a different country and their style of Healthcare, though I am glad lol that I live in NZ and we have a totally different style of delivery. No counting to 10 with pushing or making them go again, we let the woman control their pushes and the pace, therefore avoiding more unnecessary tears. I love watching beautiful raw deliveries, thank you so so much for sharing ❤

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад

      I LOVE THAT!

    • @monicataylor7414
      @monicataylor7414 Месяц назад

      In birthing centers or home births there’s more freedom to push how you want but yes hospital births that is the experience, counting to 10. I felt like I was going to pass out when I was pushing

  • @sophiej1987
    @sophiej1987 3 года назад +12

    Your doctor and nurses seem so amazing❤️ what a great team and family you have. This was so so beautiful. Congratulations mama and dad!!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад

      They are AMAZING! Thank you

  • @asiaslays_08
    @asiaslays_08 3 года назад +15

    I’m gonna channel you when I go into labor on September.. you did awesome !!

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  3 года назад

      Aw I love that mama!! Birth affirmations in pregnancy and labor! You got it!!

  • @KeyonnaD
    @KeyonnaD 2 года назад +1

    I watched this in 2020 when I was pregnant with my first child (girl). Now I’m 2 weeks away from my due date with my second (boy). This video makes me so excited for labor and delivery. I really want to do the entire labor natural this time. Im sure I’ve commented before but congratulations again!

  • @ashleyranch9721
    @ashleyranch9721 3 года назад +3

    normally i do not subscribe to the first video of somebody i watch but she is so brave, she stayed positive throughout the whole thing i just had too!!!!

  • @treicybrito3531
    @treicybrito3531 2 года назад +2

    The most beautiful delivery video I have ever seen. It make me cried. Great job.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  10 месяцев назад

      Aw…. It was so special…. I am so grateful….

  • @kenziecopeland3200
    @kenziecopeland3200 3 года назад +8

    I love your doctor, he seems like he was the most amazing OB! Congrats mama 💗

  • @emiliestraka569
    @emiliestraka569 Год назад +2

    Watching this right now two weeks out from my due date…. This is so Empowering and encouraging. After lots of research this will be my first unmedicated birth… #4. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mindy1898
    @mindy1898 3 года назад +6

    Your medical staff was soo great! Congratulations Lys!

  • @kennieloo6357
    @kennieloo6357 2 года назад +2

    I’ve been straying away from hospital birth videos just because I’m having a home birth and can’t often relate to the process of a hospital birth… I’m so glad I watched this! It was beautiful. I cried. I’m so impressed with you. And I’m so grateful to read comments saying your experience has inspired and encouraged others to go unmedicated. Yay yay yay! ❤️

  • @michellecahill4069
    @michellecahill4069 2 года назад +4

    Wow, that was beautiful! You were so strong and in control! I'm so happy your labor went well! I'm due in 5 weeks and I'll be thrilled if I can handle it as well as you did ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @savannahmonet9582
    @savannahmonet9582 3 года назад +13

    We had very similar birth experiences with our 2nd. At 39+2 I woke up and went to the bathroom. And felt off - around 10am I started having front pelvic pain but brushed them off thinking they were more Braxton Hicks because they weren’t as painful - but I called L&D and started to pack my bags - I went pee and wiped and there was pink blood & I started crying because I knew it was time & it wasn’t gonna just be me and Santiago anymore - similar feelings to you - so I started getting things together around 3 my water broke completely it plopped out into my underwear and do not break - I went over the toilet and boom it came out - and that’s when the contractions started crazy - so I rushed my son to my moms and got to the hospital - while at the hospital they checked me and I had my bloody show and I was 6cm! But it felt like Iwas ready so while in triage I was like hurry pls take me to delivery room - they wheeled me in and I Was just crying - so I get in there and they were trying to get the antibiotic for me and the fentanyl because I refused the epidural (didn’t have one with my first either) but I kept asking to check me and I went from 6-10 in 20 mins and they got me ready just like u and told me to just start when I felt it - so I did & I had the same feeling as you - I can’t do it - I feel I am not pushing right etc but as soon as I crowned they told me open ur eyes! Grab ur baby! And I pulled him out!! As soon as I did I said omg he’s so tiny! Why is he so tiny haha and they said no way he’s perfect - I guess we are just used to seeing a toddler running around we forget how small babies truly are - anyway your birth was beautiful and was very close to mine - we are warriors! Beautiful!
    My second son Sebastian Antonio was 7lbs 0oz 20 ins born at 5:24 pm

  • @jennalynfernando7865
    @jennalynfernando7865 2 года назад +2

    I’m so glad I clicked on your video! Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy 💖 I am 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby, and I would love to have a natural, and medicated labor and delivery. Seeing your video is inspiring and encouraging! I can’t wait to meet my baby girl in a couple months 🥰❤️ God bless you and your family!

  • @tiamckay2243
    @tiamckay2243 Год назад +3

    I love that you decided to stand. I feel like that helped with progression so much! I’m a ftm expecting soon & I hope to have a similar experience

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  10 месяцев назад +1

      Yes yes yea ! Standing is ittttt

    • @tiamckay2243
      @tiamckay2243 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@LysHeaster JOKE WAS ON ME ! I DID NOT STAND, but I did go natural !

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  10 месяцев назад

      @@tiamckay2243 whoop whoop go mama

  • @lecreamcakes4069
    @lecreamcakes4069 2 года назад +2

    Oh my god I love your doctor he is incredible, so was the rest of the staff.

  • @Kysoshy
    @Kysoshy 2 года назад +4

    I've watched hundreds of these and this ones my fav

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster  2 года назад

      Wowowowow! AMAZING to hear!!!! Thank you for thinking so!

  • @JahneshaH
    @JahneshaH 2 года назад +1

    Thank you. I'm planning a positive unmedicated birth at a hospital. I am 38 weeks today. This was very inspiring. Thank you thank you thank you. ❤️