How I tricked my brain to like doing hard things

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  • @739redrose
    @739redrose 4 года назад +9222

    "...then I lost my hair..." Saitama confirmed.

    • @Borex2
      @Borex2 4 года назад +80

      Lol i had the same thought

    • @jaywavy2978
      @jaywavy2978 4 года назад +10

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Bucasta
      @Bucasta 4 года назад +70

      When he said that, it resonated on an emotional, soulmate, kind of level.

    • @zissler1
      @zissler1 4 года назад +35

      I’m just surprised how many one punch fans there are.

    • @739redrose
      @739redrose 4 года назад +28

      @@zissler1 I'm not. I have seen people who do not watch anime talk about one punch man. It's quite popular outside the community.

  • @royalrod_
    @royalrod_ 4 года назад +8950

    Why am I always so motivated to get my life together at 4am in the morning 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @kozator3478
      @kozator3478 4 года назад +610

      cus at that time u probably start to think about your decisions and your life overall

    • @lex5055
      @lex5055 4 года назад +786

      Especially in 3 am lol I remember I was in my bed and I had a sudden urge to learn russian

    • @youraveragetuber3690
      @youraveragetuber3690 4 года назад +97

      How come this comment was made 1 month ago and we all starting replying today

    • @ethanzheng1368
      @ethanzheng1368 4 года назад +16

      Your Average Tuber lol yeah

    • @ashleyreed62
      @ashleyreed62 4 года назад +26

      @@lex5055 I laughed out loud

  • @Eternalised
    @Eternalised 4 года назад +882

    “The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.”
    - Socrates.

    • @yevheniisnezhko8292
      @yevheniisnezhko8292 3 года назад +4

      Less seeking more and more developing enjoying less - genius

    • @leonwust8713
      @leonwust8713 3 года назад +3

      Thankfulness is the key to happiness! There is a nice "kurzgesagt" video about it ("the secret of happiness", i can highly recommend)

    • @drshehzadhussain6526
      @drshehzadhussain6526 2 года назад +2

      Vey well said

    • @drshehzadhussain6526
      @drshehzadhussain6526 2 года назад

      @@leonwust8713 plz share the link

    • @pedroivog.s.6870
      @pedroivog.s.6870 2 года назад

      @@drshehzadhussain6526 ruclips.net/video/WPPPFqsECz0/видео.html (probably a bit late but here it is)

  • @jacobdn8964
    @jacobdn8964 4 года назад +1126

    I'm surprised nobody has mentioned this yet, but one of the keys to enjoying stuff is knowing the deeper meaning behind what you're doing. For example exercising, you should research a bit about anatomy, human biomechanics and how the body functions, and how all the muscles work together. It'll make exercising a totally different experience. The same thing applies to other activities, If you take a walk in the forest you might not think too much about the trees and plants around you, but if you take the time to go read about forest life and nature i general, you're going to notice things you never would've before, and therefore taking a walk in the forest becomes a completely different and much more enjoyable experience. You can apply this process to many aspects of your life.
    hopefully this will help you and make you enjoy and appreciate stuff and life more :)

    • @nicetomeetu3733
      @nicetomeetu3733 2 года назад +10

      wow gr8 comment! i totally agree!

    • @emmadora9509
      @emmadora9509 2 года назад +5

      How do I apply that to school??

    • @umapersonnormal3209
      @umapersonnormal3209 2 года назад +26

      @@emmadora9509 Read about what you are learning, for exemple, if you are reading(idk), about Imaginary numbers, read where they are used and why they are used. Yeah. I think that ist it. Read where the thing you are learning is used and why is used.

    • @loydparker2917
      @loydparker2917 Год назад +8

      I agree with this, I’ve exercising routinely for about a year and 6 months and the work outs have become infinitely more interesting the more I learn about muscles and the human body

    • @isaakvanwegen2784
      @isaakvanwegen2784 Год назад +1

      Most important tip imo

  • @nicodorable
    @nicodorable 4 года назад +3787

    Hey, sorry about Thor. But there is always Thanos

    • @kevinwalter2674
      @kevinwalter2674 4 года назад +37

      Step 1: Become a Ballchinian.
      Step 2: Get neutered...

    • @JordyHistorian
      @JordyHistorian 4 года назад +58

      Johnny sins is better

    • @matheusm8239
      @matheusm8239 4 года назад

      @J. Lee lmaooo

    • @ewilio
      @ewilio 4 года назад +11

      It was inevitable...

    • @Kometheus
      @Kometheus 4 года назад +1

      And Mark Zuckerberg

  • @inhale1496
    @inhale1496 4 года назад +3476

    In a nutshell: develop a system, not a goal.

    • @essennagerry
      @essennagerry 4 года назад +130

      Not just that tho - I've fantasized about the system as much as I've fantasized about the end goal.

    • @Tony32
      @Tony32 4 года назад +17

      That reminded me of Scott Adams advice; don't have a goal, have a system.

    • @sveha6271
      @sveha6271 4 года назад +8

      Okay but how do you conflate all the people (David Goggins for example) who are like, VISUALIZE THE END GOAL AS CLEARLY AS POSSIBLE AND NEVER LET GO OF IT

    • @Mcgif21
      @Mcgif21 4 года назад +6

      Damn there is so many good comments on this video.

    • @inhale1496
      @inhale1496 4 года назад +13

      @@sveha6271 a system starts with a vision; it's half vision and half habit

  • @joelmount9791
    @joelmount9791 4 года назад +211

    “And then I lost my hair”
    Beard: am I a joke to you?

    • @JK-cj3qe
      @JK-cj3qe 2 года назад +9

      He looks really good without hair , tbh

    • @youngchild9294
      @youngchild9294 2 года назад

      @@JK-cj3qe Agreed

  • @d.ndriotis9209
    @d.ndriotis9209 3 года назад +1755

    Bullet points :
    -Do not focus on the end goal(1:00) : You'll never reach it and it's not motivating enough in day to day life)
    -Abundance mindset > Scarcity mindset(3:20) : With scarcity mindset you approach a goal as sth that you don't have,which is the most times outside of your character and feels unnatural. Abundance mindset helps you approach it as sth that improves a whole sector of your life,for instance your health, because you care about this sector.
    -Utilize Habit-Bunching(5:53) : Build a haibit around another habit that doesn't require effort or that you enjoy (for example make a habit of reading a chapter of a book before you go to bed or when drinking your afternoon coffee)

  • @spams9359
    @spams9359 4 года назад +5500

    Is it just me, ore are a lot of people trying to get there shit together right now

    • @johnbishop4740
      @johnbishop4740 4 года назад +196

      Everyone feels like they aren't productive enough even though they're working 40+ hours

    • @Nicole-tc3kd
      @Nicole-tc3kd 4 года назад +436

      I hate to be "that guy" since I'm a millenial but I really think technology is the problem. Everyone I know is addicted to their phone and would rather sit around scrolling through facebook than do anything else. Going to the gym or reading a book simply CANNOT compete with the internet in terms of reward sensations to our brains. Many people are starting to realize that it takes hard work and self-discipline to break free from the addictive influences of the internet. I am saying this as someone who gave up facebook earlier this month and went straight to youtube. Still working on it.

    • @bungieanimator
      @bungieanimator 4 года назад +42

      @@Nicole-tc3kd Two chrome extensions that basically do the same thing, but paired together killed off a wicked bad youtube addiction that I'd been dealing with for half a year after I had kicked facebook and reddit. Crackbook revival, and Mindful Anti Distraction. They break the instant dopamine hit cycle. I like to put crackbook at a 10 second wait, but the 3 seconds worked for other things before I grew more patient. You'll notice that you'll have clicked on videos, and within the 10 second delay you won't even remember what the video was, you were barely engaged, but you just wanted to click something. Also recommend using uBlock Origin to nuke the recommended videos on youtube's homepage. That and use the block element tool to nuke the youtube icon up in the top left corner. No need to keep going down the rabbit hole once you've gotten bored. It's time to leave. Only problem with blocking the front page is that you lose the content on channels pages, haven't figured that out, but it's not a big problem. Good luck out there

    • @btv4120
      @btv4120 4 года назад +93

      I think a lot of us are starting to realise how bad our technology addictions are. So much time is spent on social media, video games and watching videos and we don't realise how it's affecting us.
      I would bet a large sum of money that it has a lot to do with why people feel so run down and are depressed. Better habits equal a better life.

    • @manylittlefish693
      @manylittlefish693 4 года назад +4

      I like your comment but your profile picture spooks me. Then again, I've got a weird name... Welcome to the internet.

  • @max010113
    @max010113 4 года назад +2115

    the irony that I watched this instead of going to the gym like I planned

    • @yourlsdman7932
      @yourlsdman7932 4 года назад +76

      the video is like 10 min, could've just gone after

    • @ChrisHops22
      @ChrisHops22 4 года назад +74

      you should go to the gym because you are a healthy person and healthy people go to the gym, mate

    • @ionutradulazar8984
      @ionutradulazar8984 4 года назад +23

      @@ChrisHops22 but healthy people also watch this video

    • @rail7646
      @rail7646 4 года назад +2

      the way is watching this video in 2 parts in the gym while having breaks.

    • @andrewlegend6140
      @andrewlegend6140 4 года назад +1

      Yes, I watched this instead of studying... I could've studied after, but I had little breaks during the course of watching this, during which I surfed reddit and read the news, so this took a full day to watch. I'll try again tomorrow.

  • @elsaaforges
    @elsaaforges Год назад +96

    This is an amazing concept: do not focus on goals but on habits instead. I learned it by myself when struggling with yoga, working out and fancying a beautiful, strong and flexible body. I came to realize that it's quite pointless to set yourself a goal on things like working out, reading or playing an instrument. None of these are concrete goals, but buildable processes. After two years of practicing yoga consistently (1 to 1.5 hours every day), I forgot about getting flexible or how my body looked like, and without realizing it, I can now do poses I would have never dreamed I would be able to do a couple of years ago. I love doing yoga, it makes me feel like a ballerina. You are right: the key is to enjoy the process and forget about the goal. If you keep consistent, you will achieve it anyway. By the way, I guess it was not a coincidence to pick The Power of Habit as the book you put next to your coffeemaker to get it read...

    • @abhishekpatra7954
      @abhishekpatra7954 Год назад

      you should dm him. it seems you would make a great couple. You both need to bang ASAP!

    • @saidboul3awd500
      @saidboul3awd500 Год назад

      Hey Ms how are you doing?

  • @reynardlin8780
    @reynardlin8780 4 года назад +98

    How:
    1. Operate from an abundance mindset rather than a scarcity mindset (The process is a habit part of your personality)
    Reason why u go to gym is because you are an active person
    Habit bunching:
    Do it when you are doing a fun habit

  • @jamesarmisteaddoublespyund1193
    @jamesarmisteaddoublespyund1193 4 года назад +1333

    Like my dad always said “you wanna be successful? Learn to love to work”

    • @stupidrainbo
      @stupidrainbo 4 года назад +66

      It's true. My first job was less than 20 hours per week and I just hated having to go to work. I had to make my own schedule and I procrastinated and did the bare minimum, did as little as I could get away with. My next job was at UPS, I had to show up and work extremely hard manually, still part time. But it was different because it felt like I was actually doing something with my hands instead of stupid computer based auditing. Still sucked, though. I kinda liked showing up and bullshitting with my coworkers, who were generally friendly. My next/current job is fulltime, and twice the payrate too. My coworkers are all great, and after switching shifts and getting to know a couple of them we've actually hung out outside of work a few times. Now, I really like my job and I have learned to love working.
      There's a certain thrill to being able to get lots of stuff done, being fast, and doing quality work. There's a hope in the back of your mind that someone will notice and the idea excites you, maybe someday you'll get a promotion, and you know the whole time that you're getting paid a decent living wage to try. It's a similar thrill to what I get from getting good at a video game, it makes you feel like a badass.
      I mean I could go on about how I've been dealing with procrastination in general too but this is already way too big

    • @gabrielmza9476
      @gabrielmza9476 4 года назад +2

      well said

    • @codacreator6162
      @codacreator6162 4 года назад +2

      Do the right work and this part is easy.

    • @tashilhamu4510
      @tashilhamu4510 4 года назад +2

      James Armistead Double spy undercover that will happen when you love the work itself and have nothing to do with goal whatsoever. Ever thought about this?

    • @maribelru2011
      @maribelru2011 4 года назад +1

      Thank you Poppa!

  • @gzytqebakfkwkqkdvabqowmf
    @gzytqebakfkwkqkdvabqowmf 4 года назад +295

    This man does not look like he listens to Migos. I just can’t imagine it.

    • @betterideas
      @betterideas  4 года назад +179

      In the kitchen, wrist twistin' like a stir fry 🎶

    • @Kpeezki_
      @Kpeezki_ 2 года назад +6

      I see what u saying but it kinda don’t but it do

  • @christinechesse8777
    @christinechesse8777 4 года назад +173

    “Do not let the perfect be the enemy of the good.” -Voltaire

  • @CapCoD61
    @CapCoD61 4 года назад +1

    I just watched this video again as my teachers began to upload online classes after 3 weeks of Covid-19 break, and I just wanted to say thank you. IDK why, but you're one of the few (I'd say one of three) youtubers I watch their videos more than once, and I'm never bored. I learn something new every time, I understand you in a different way every time, and I think that's one of the many reasons your videos are so great. Thanks again man.

  • @ArutaretiI
    @ArutaretiI 4 года назад +1812

    with the release of Avengers: Endgame I actually hit my goal of looking like Thor...

  • @RageShroud
    @RageShroud 4 года назад +533

    My father told me when i was a young man " all things are hard until they are easy" I lived by that but sometimes things can get hard again. Never stop moving or moving becomes harder.

    • @jaynadoesart
      @jaynadoesart 3 года назад +5

      “Never stop moving or moving becomes harder.” I like that.

    • @RageShroud
      @RageShroud 3 года назад +1

      @Marianne True, but the saying was related to all things in life really. Like doing a new job, sometimes you might stress and struggle then suddenly 6m or 12m later things you stressed out about are just a casual task.

    • @issammelzi728
      @issammelzi728 3 года назад

      Your dad was prob drunk that doesn't make any sense bruh

    • @RageShroud
      @RageShroud 3 года назад +1

      @@issammelzi728 well it sounds like you've never done anything with your life then to experience the feeling.

  • @Leto85
    @Leto85 3 года назад +6

    3:8 Whatever you think your identity is, you will operate accordingly.
    There is so much to be learned from that very sentence.
    I love it how you keep on helping me think simpler when I have the tendency to overcomplicate things, even when I think I don't. I'm glad I've subscribed to you.

  • @carmencarrazana7314
    @carmencarrazana7314 3 года назад

    You are the RUclipsd WE NEEDED . I love it how you break things down .

  • @ishaansharma654
    @ishaansharma654 4 года назад +1217

    *Stares deeply into the mirror*
    "I AM a giant beast"

  • @bazhinovao
    @bazhinovao 4 года назад +411

    “Learn to love the process.”

    • @IndianBoy77
      @IndianBoy77 4 года назад +4

      Sure if you are the process😁

    • @yirmiyahu7265
      @yirmiyahu7265 4 года назад

      Its not that easy

    • @vignesh8392
      @vignesh8392 4 года назад +1

      69 likes...I don't want to make it 70

    • @ivanpardo1752
      @ivanpardo1752 4 года назад +1

      That's My problem, My routine is hard as fuck because I want to be the person at the end of the sacrifices, but it's tough as fuck, how do people like the process? The process of being a professional Makes You study like for 3000 hours of your life, the process of being ripped requires a diet. I can't understand how people like this, so I do It anyway but I struggle a lot and take some breaks off

    • @jokerstein627
      @jokerstein627 4 года назад

      Ivan Pardo we gon get thru it

  • @buzzedup8299
    @buzzedup8299 Год назад +37

    I came up with a quote the moment I saw this vid. “It’s better to suffer now, instead of feeling regret and misery after not doing it.”

    • @taylortots2295
      @taylortots2295 Год назад

      Temporary discomfort >>> long-term regret

  • @taysem321
    @taysem321 3 года назад +3

    Usually videos like this are just a lot of water with some obvious advice and some bullshit metaphors, but this has new useful information and doesn't waste time on repeating the same thing over and over. Well done, thank you!

  • @bradsta114
    @bradsta114 4 года назад +718

    This is fucking genius and has probably came about at the perfect time in my life.

    • @jayadityagupta6949
      @jayadityagupta6949 4 года назад +5

      same here agree with you

    • @solarlight10
      @solarlight10 4 года назад +3

      Sounds like he just summarizes some self-help book and regurgitates it as original content with an annoying hint of arrogance plus sponsors. I'm starting to really hate this guy

    • @samuelsnyder1587
      @samuelsnyder1587 4 года назад +16

      @@solarlight10 Sure he does, but his summarization is what we need instead of spending all that time studying those ideas and practices ourselves right? The videos are short and simple and frankly, I think we dislike the guy because he's telling us what our lazy side doesn't want to hear. Nobody wants to be told what's best for them if it requires them changing themselves.

    • @sugs0377
      @sugs0377 4 года назад +2

      @@solarlight10 When in the video does he say this is his own creation? If no one wants to read books then this is the perfect video for them

    • @atomik7066
      @atomik7066 4 года назад +12

      @@solarlight10 who pissed in your cornflakes mate

  • @Brian-vk1hm
    @Brian-vk1hm 4 года назад +1382

    "Goals are for losers, winners have systems."-Scott Adams

    • @davidmoore5004
      @davidmoore5004 4 года назад +28

      That's not very encouraging

    • @Brian-vk1hm
      @Brian-vk1hm 4 года назад +72

      @@davidmoore5004 Yes it is. You just have to understand it. Goals will never make you happy. Systems will.

    • @manylittlefish693
      @manylittlefish693 4 года назад +2

      @@Brian-vk1hm Nah bruh. At least in my opinion

    • @themclord6443
      @themclord6443 4 года назад +18

      Just misunderstanding, such as robert kiyosaki’s “saver’s are losers”. So research about the quote and y’all will understand.

    • @isaackmojica8302
      @isaackmojica8302 4 года назад +35

      "Amateurs wait for inspiration.Professionals just practice"-Hannes Grossmann

  • @lindsayh.8503
    @lindsayh.8503 3 года назад +9

    Love the habit bunching concept, I will definitely be implementing it into my daily life! Thanks for the great content, love your videos!

  • @user-ig2fb6bb1d
    @user-ig2fb6bb1d Год назад

    i love how you talked about dreaming a perfect body etc(it feels like i am the only one with these kinds of stupid thoughts) and also how to counter it. big thank you!

  • @hitzcritz
    @hitzcritz 4 года назад +1108

    "Then I lost my hair." I swear to god he is just Saitama

    • @sierradix4541
      @sierradix4541 4 года назад +2

      HitzCritz lol! 😂 I thought of OPM aswell!

    • @jauxro
      @jauxro 4 года назад +2

      Lol same, my first thought was "well obviously you were doing something right"

    • @Amharizz
      @Amharizz 4 года назад

      What's saitama?

    • @hitzcritz
      @hitzcritz 4 года назад +11

      @@Amharizz A uncomprehendably powerful person from the Anime _One Punch Man_ who trained himself so hard that his hair fell out.

    • @Amharizz
      @Amharizz 4 года назад +1

      @@hitzcritz Oh ok

  • @omarmemon1700
    @omarmemon1700 4 года назад +593

    one of the very few channels that never actually waste my time

    • @matteomuscas8974
      @matteomuscas8974 4 года назад +9

      Check out pursuit of wonder and Exurb1a if you haven't yet... It just popped in my mind as channels that never waste my time.

    • @paris5548
      @paris5548 4 года назад +2

      Matteo Muscas They’re so entertaining

    • @AryanKumar-jo1pz
      @AryanKumar-jo1pz 4 года назад

      I totally agree

    • @sofasniperman
      @sofasniperman 4 года назад +1

      Very true!

    • @zenon3021
      @zenon3021 4 года назад +1

      @Дмитрий Берсенев Pick Up Limes & also Matt D'Avella = good self-improvement channels

  • @JohnnyG196
    @JohnnyG196 4 года назад +3

    Wow, this is the most brilliant perspective I've ever heard! Thank you for genuinely providing the mindset for success and not just empty motivation or cookie-cutter advice!

  • @katiewestover9247
    @katiewestover9247 3 года назад +1

    I have never seen a video or read a post that has helped me the way your videos have...thank you for creating this content and helping people like me

  • @athena2755
    @athena2755 4 года назад +1325

    “When we dance, the journey itself is the point, as when we play music the playing itself is the point. And exactly the same thing is true in meditation. Meditation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the immediate moment.”
    ― Alan Watts

    • @gavinrode9153
      @gavinrode9153 4 года назад +14

      RadioactiveBob Thank you so much for this. I genuinely really appreciate it.

    • @naman8744
      @naman8744 4 года назад +1

      my man

    • @matteomuscas8974
      @matteomuscas8974 4 года назад +7

      Alan Watts was the shit.

    • @TimeFliesTimeManagement
      @TimeFliesTimeManagement 4 года назад +13

      This is a very powerful description of what meditation and living the present actually is.. thanks for this!

    • @aishwaryaramesh4877
      @aishwaryaramesh4877 4 года назад +3

      Could you please explain that a little bit, I couldn't quite understand the last part.

  • @zaranotthebrand2793
    @zaranotthebrand2793 4 года назад +553

    this guy is one of the most genuine, helpful, huggable youtubers out there. im really thankful to have stumbled upon your channel. much love from Morocco

    • @daesco92
      @daesco92 4 года назад +2

      +1 from morocco

    • @jauxro
      @jauxro 4 года назад +17

      The entire comment section wants to hug him lol

    • @bucknasty176
      @bucknasty176 4 года назад

      Try Emmymadeinjapan

    • @donnalazza8429
      @donnalazza8429 Год назад

      … yep huggable 😉

  • @thefiercehawk3413
    @thefiercehawk3413 7 месяцев назад

    Without a doubt you have the best self improvement channel on youtube. Every one of your videos is a gold mine, tysm.

  • @suhasts7180
    @suhasts7180 2 года назад

    Your techniques and thoughts are so perfect and most practical and logical. I love how you break down to these simple yet important points whilst others brag about vague solutions which lead us nowhere.

  • @janveidt2700
    @janveidt2700 4 года назад +512

    I used 'streaks' for a while. Taught myself French for over 2 years, every damn day, went through a bunch of courses, several workbooks, textbooks,... Worked out for 277 days straight. Took freezing cold showers for 260 days straight. Read classic literature every day for 450 straight. And a bunch of other stuff. The only goal with all of it was, 'keep this shit going.'

    • @kingfreak8548
      @kingfreak8548 4 года назад +60

      Jan Veidt “keep this shit going” that’s a very respectable line.

    • @chxpter4472
      @chxpter4472 4 года назад +17

      Bro that's actually inspiring. I'm starting to take cold showers too and I'm gradually building on top of it. It's great to hear your success

    • @alkhan9150
      @alkhan9150 4 года назад +5

      Hey Jan, that's incredible. I think you'll inspire a lot of my readers with your streaks, so I'd like to feature you on my blog. May I interest you for an email interview? :)

    • @janveidt2700
      @janveidt2700 4 года назад +1

      @@alkhan9150 Sure, I'm game. Expect lengthy responses. What's the blog?

    • @WEF2030SLAVE
      @WEF2030SLAVE 4 года назад +2

      @@alkhan9150 I'm also interested to read this.

  • @richardtrapnell1717
    @richardtrapnell1717 4 года назад +347

    I have heard this advice "learn to enjoy the process" many, many times. But, to my frustration, no one ever explains how.
    Thank you.

    • @kirby1809
      @kirby1809 4 года назад +6

      Go and read James Clear's book, its amazing

    • @richardtrapnell1717
      @richardtrapnell1717 4 года назад +15

      @@kirby1809 I'll check it out after I build the discipline to read lol. Seriously though, thanks for the recommendation.

    • @kirby1809
      @kirby1809 4 года назад +2

      @@richardtrapnell1717 I'm in the same boat as you! So I downloaded audible, and used my one free book to get it. Now I listen when I'm driving or riding my bike and am completely addicted.

    • @McDoodle44
      @McDoodle44 4 года назад +7

      @@kirby1809 Same here, audiobooks and podcasts have made the knowledge acquiring easier and enjoyable. But I feel that it also can be a trap as well by creating the illusion of doing something substantial while it's actually distracting me from doing the things that, according to these books, need to be done.

    • @kirby1809
      @kirby1809 4 года назад +2

      @@McDoodle44 Hahaha! Yes! I've got a massive problem with wanting to go onto the next book cause they're so interesting and I forget to properly implement what I've just learnt.
      Thanks for reminding me :)

  • @Sorazal23
    @Sorazal23 4 года назад +2

    Amazing, you are the first one I see addressing that. This epiphany/mindset changed completely my life last year and I'm surprised that not more people from the self-development adopt it or at least try it. I think the reason is the way our value system is conditioned to work, so for most it seems counter-intuitive to shift their focus from seeing the process as an effort to an end as a sensation or something you can enjoy. Really amazing video man. Thanks

  • @ghembrain
    @ghembrain 2 года назад

    the titles of your content are spot on!

  • @gabsta123
    @gabsta123 4 года назад +208

    I just finished a book yesterday called : How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, and a big chunk of it is about having systems rather than goals ... anyway thanks for your videos :)

    • @zac3392
      @zac3392 4 года назад +1

      Great book!

    • @slushyybtw9036
      @slushyybtw9036 4 года назад

      Is it worth the read?

    • @gabsta123
      @gabsta123 4 года назад

      @@slushyybtw9036 Yeah ! big time !!

    • @kelseykramer1783
      @kelseykramer1783 4 года назад +1

      Whose it by? i will check it out (:

    • @gabsta123
      @gabsta123 4 года назад

      @@kelseykramer1783 Scott Adams

  • @EvinNazya
    @EvinNazya 4 года назад +678

    I've actually never heard some of these tips before. We love a non-cliche video. Also, love your personality and humour for me. Thank you.

    • @punkseth1
      @punkseth1 3 года назад +8

      he is great at being non cliched

    • @matheus6894
      @matheus6894 3 года назад +5

      that's exactly how I feel about this video too! very enlightning.

  • @pure-pisces9470
    @pure-pisces9470 3 года назад

    I so love your "straight upness" i so relate to u!!!

  • @HayleyHaskett
    @HayleyHaskett 3 года назад

    I just came across your channel and I am LOVING it!

  • @jennasaisquoi5174
    @jennasaisquoi5174 4 года назад +37

    “Don’t wish for it; work for it.”

  • @justinfoster1040
    @justinfoster1040 4 года назад +157

    Kinda did something similar when quitting sugar. Wanted to have a cleaner diet so when I had a sugar cravings I started considering it to be a good thing, like having a sugar craving indicates I’m not getting as much of it so I’m now a person who’s not eating sugar. Mindset was a huge thing and just willing yourself to do most things for me at least doesn’t really work.
    Thanks for all the amazing content!

    • @downbntout
      @downbntout 4 года назад +3

      Justin Foster
      Oh thank you for that one

    • @domnakonev1840
      @domnakonev1840 4 года назад

      Justin Foster wait what? i’m trying to do this rn

    • @elibloom853
      @elibloom853 4 года назад

      Brandon Pinto no nut november😃

    • @wowandrss
      @wowandrss 4 года назад +3

      Have you grown to dislike sugar as well? When I go without sugar for a few months, all fruits seem sweeter than they are. But sugars in things like soda and candy became bad, the taste was too strong and not pleasant to eat, so I didn't crave anything processed.

    • @cath0dictube
      @cath0dictube 4 года назад +2

      would be awesome if this could work on me. i secretly define myself by my sugar craving. i could only go off it for 2 weeks and it was a horrible feeling of loss and sacrifice. i can't switch my mindset to see it as a benefit and not a loss.

  • @rebeccaoudt3522
    @rebeccaoudt3522 3 года назад +1

    ''Whatever you think your identity is, you will operate accordingly''. This opened my eyes so much. Thank you.

  • @jujutsucryin3256
    @jujutsucryin3256 Год назад +3

    Having a playlist I am only allowed to listen to when I workout truly is helpful. I've been working out consistently for 2 months now and I find that if you really like the music you're listening to you will want to workout just so you can listen to that song that's been stuck in your head. It has been especially helpful to change my mentality around exercise. To cultivate a positive association with exercise, I wrote down how I felt after every workout (energized, happier, proud, achieved etc.) for a month to where now I just know that when I go to workout especially on days that I don't want to, that I'll feel better (mind and body) afterward. Also, allow yourself to have days where you just can't lift as much, do as many reps, etc. Use your body as a guide to how much you can go that day because what's important is that you put in effort to keep the daily habit even if you didn't show up 100%.

  • @adrianmxb1718
    @adrianmxb1718 4 года назад +284

    Man, this actually kinda blew my mind.
    I was playing with the idea of going to the gym again as new years resolution.
    After watching this vid, I feel stupid about my mentality.
    Waiting just for the sake of having a new years resolution is counter productive...
    I'll call them up tomorrow, make an appointment and start right away.

  • @ReyReyloads
    @ReyReyloads 4 года назад +46

    “Enjoy the process”, perfectly said.

  • @Anna-qp1fi
    @Anna-qp1fi 2 года назад +31

    This guy is a blessing to my life.
    Joey, if you read this, please keep making videos because you are one of the few people who has made it so far and can help individuals like me attain the same mindset.
    Thank you.

  • @omarcosve
    @omarcosve 2 года назад

    THIS GUY IS SUPER CHILL, I LOVE HIM

  • @kitsunesden8085
    @kitsunesden8085 4 года назад +258

    Translation: "I really wanted to look like Thor, instead I ended up looking like Saitama"

  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 4 года назад +179

    Glad to have you back, it's been awhile

  • @mortified776
    @mortified776 3 года назад

    Omg you have articulated something I have been turning over in my brain for years but never quite put together. I never seem to want the end result as much as I don't want to do the things I need to do to get it. I am all too ready to con myself into doing things that feel good in the present but are not constructive in the long term over things that are onerous in the present but will ultimately make me happier with myself.

  • @ryantimmsjr7639
    @ryantimmsjr7639 Год назад

    Great video. Thanks for addressing this topic .

  • @sanhawk6554
    @sanhawk6554 4 года назад +29

    This is the switch that made me realize:
    "Stagnation breeds destruction - you have to keep moving. You have to love the daily discipline of going to battle every single day and finding fulfillment and pleasure in the thing in the present moment for its own sake.
    "
    I appreciate this reminder more than you'll know.

    • @arx754
      @arx754 4 года назад

      Yeah, it made me think about people who win the lottery and how they end up "crashing and burning", bankrupt, and with no friends left. That is, the people who handle the winning POORLY which can't be everyone. I have no doubt that some are sensible and that doesn't happen.

  • @Vinckw
    @Vinckw 4 года назад +300

    How to trick my brain into doing hard things:
    1) Don't fantasize on the end goal but enjoy the process. The feeling of fantasizing being a Greek God is different from actually going to the gym, which demotivates you from working out.
    2) Come from an abundance mindset and not a scarcity mindset. Saying I NEED to practice is a scarcity mindset which makes doing things feel like a chore.
    3) Use habit bunching. Combine the habits you're already doing with the habit you want to cultivate. If you drink coffee every morning you can bunch it together with reading a book while making/drinking coffee.
    And thank you Joey Schweitzer, the face behind Better Ideas for creating this video :)

    • @Vinckw
      @Vinckw 4 года назад +3

      Btw I’m learning English at the moment. Should I say don’t fantasize “about” instead on “on”?

    • @uja1448
      @uja1448 4 года назад +1

      @@Vinckw Yes.

    • @savvivixen8490
      @savvivixen8490 4 года назад +7

      Generally, yes, but frankly, english as a language does what it wants, so play with it and see what sticks.

    • @1flybyguy
      @1flybyguy 4 года назад +6

      @@Vinckw One usually fantasizes about something. I think you meant "focus on." It sounds a little odd, but it's understandable.

    • @junglegoose4648
      @junglegoose4648 4 года назад +2

      @@Vinckw Fantasise about learning English ! FantasiZe about learning American English ;)

  • @aakhan7269
    @aakhan7269 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, man! You just changed my entire perspective on habits and how Instead of relying on temporary motivation, we can simply find enjoyment in doing the things we want. And you did all of this in just a 10-minute video!😊😁

  • @jakekeyes6646
    @jakekeyes6646 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been struggling with actually making progress on these “end goals” I have for myself. I hope I can utilize the bunching you talk about. Thanks a lot!

  • @melissaferrin3054
    @melissaferrin3054 4 года назад +83

    that coffee tip is so simple but i Never would have thought of it... excited to try it out

  • @Thesnakeeyes12312
    @Thesnakeeyes12312 4 года назад +479

    Whoever disliked this video clearly has a scarcity mindset

    • @akankshayadav8737
      @akankshayadav8737 4 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @silverknight1740
      @silverknight1740 4 года назад +13

      Whoever disliked this video clearly isn't jacked

    • @scraegle4776
      @scraegle4776 4 года назад

      What is a scarcity mindset and how does this apply to this video?

    • @medachref2383
      @medachref2383 4 года назад

      I disliked it because he copies the exact same concept and title from another channel called "better than yesterday". I don't like copycats.

    • @pedroazevedo1069
      @pedroazevedo1069 4 года назад +1

      @@scraegle4776 3:20

  • @samanzibar
    @samanzibar 3 года назад

    These strategies are honestly so helpful and they make so much sense. Thank you!

  • @robertgranat3821
    @robertgranat3821 4 года назад

    Love the video! James Clear certainly made a huge shift in the collective conversation around desires and habits.

  • @JustRandomGamez
    @JustRandomGamez 4 года назад +118

    I'm starting to identify so much with you. It started with 12 rules for life, then the power of habit, then your mindset in this video and now you seem to be a fan of both John Mayer and Post Malone. Love your videos! Your editing game is also getting better so keep up the good work!

  • @LisevanwijkYT
    @LisevanwijkYT 4 года назад +723

    Just started watching your videos, thank you for this kind of great content!❤️ You’re helping so many people

  • @user-ks6gv8yg3f
    @user-ks6gv8yg3f 11 месяцев назад

    Happy to be part of the algorithm audience! Love the simple tips you can apply in different areas not just health related

  • @joshm8867
    @joshm8867 3 года назад

    A truly underrated video for productivity!

  • @spammebabe
    @spammebabe 4 года назад +265

    Yes, that's why I get stoned every time i need to do house cleaning.

    • @AmmoBops
      @AmmoBops 4 года назад +2

      Pedros Pedroski as long as your not causing harm to anything then why not🧐

    • @keithklassen5320
      @keithklassen5320 4 года назад +33

      Cleaning house while a little bit stoned is actually great. Just don't get bombed and you'll enjoy it more, and still be able to function.

    • @udick2913
      @udick2913 4 года назад

      Haha nice :D made my day

    • @aprilpinkard9929
      @aprilpinkard9929 4 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @john.richter_
      @john.richter_ 4 года назад

      hahaha made my day dude

  • @Kokola-qh9wp
    @Kokola-qh9wp 4 года назад +190

    "Do I have an addiction? Yes."
    Mood af

  • @Knowitallgirl
    @Knowitallgirl 2 года назад

    I'm really glad one of your videos popped up on my timeline. I really love your thinking and style of explanations

  • @coolmathgames.
    @coolmathgames. 4 года назад

    i honestly love your editing style. I was engaged and laughed the entire time

  • @Singleshotmafia
    @Singleshotmafia 4 года назад +108

    I love eating so I’ll just combine that with going to the gym.

  • @TheCjbowman
    @TheCjbowman 4 года назад +54

    "I really wanted to look like Thor - then I lost my hair..." 🤣🤣🤣

  • @scottarmstrong5257
    @scottarmstrong5257 3 года назад

    Will be putting these points into action. Thanks for putting out the content.

  • @wsup4019
    @wsup4019 2 года назад

    Every video of yours is so helpful, thank you!

  • @holo6883
    @holo6883 4 года назад +268

    How to read infinitely:
    1.Get coffee and start reading
    2.Try not to drink the coffee
    3.Now it's cold and you'll have to reheat it
    4. Back to step 2

    • @HomerS95
      @HomerS95 4 года назад +14

      what is up with the distaste for cold coffee everyone seems to have? Cold is just as good imo, sometimes I spread my cup over the span of multiple hours.

    • @glxblx
      @glxblx 4 года назад +6

      ​@@HomerS95 Cold coffee is fine, old coffee less so. If my coffee goes cold, instead of re-heating it I add ice to it and make it its own thing. Cold can be more refreshing as well.

    • @LucidWolf88
      @LucidWolf88 4 года назад +4

      It's not cold coffee that's a problem, it's lukewarm/room temp coffee that's terrible

    • @rickc2102
      @rickc2102 4 года назад +1

      I drink cold black coffee, as well as hot black coffee. Sometimes I just spoon folgers crystals into my mouth. There is no stopping my coffee consumption. There is no rule 2.

    • @aaronsmith6632
      @aaronsmith6632 4 года назад

      There's actually an endorphine kick you get from the anticipation of the caffeine, so you're not wrong.

  • @tilinapple
    @tilinapple 4 года назад +267

    "I really wanted to look like Thor... and then I lost my hair." ICONIC.

    • @albert6157
      @albert6157 4 года назад +4

      Becomes the wrong hero, but okay XD

    • @zexoman430
      @zexoman430 4 года назад

      One of the reasons i am scared of going to the gym. Is that it accelerates hair loss to those predisposed to it.

    • @artprentice877
      @artprentice877 4 года назад +1

      @@zexoman430 so... in 20 years your either bald and skinny, or bald and ripped lesser of two evils right lol

    • @zexoman430
      @zexoman430 4 года назад

      @@artprentice877 but i would be already married with kids if i am bald and skinny

    • @artprentice877
      @artprentice877 4 года назад

      @@zexoman430 lol good point I suppose. plus you can save on food cost because you would require less calories in a day.

  • @richard6869
    @richard6869 2 года назад

    that was actually very helpful, thank you so much

  • @johnnynandz
    @johnnynandz Год назад

    I really needed this today- thank you 🙏🏻

  • @allennguyen3522
    @allennguyen3522 4 года назад +270

    I didnt have to trick my brain into doing hard DRUGS

    • @FoodShowFan
      @FoodShowFan 4 года назад +15

      That's because it's fun, no motivation needed. Till you're addicted, then that's a different struggle

    • @allennguyen3522
      @allennguyen3522 4 года назад +7

      @@FoodShowFan no arguments there

    • @kimon7780
      @kimon7780 4 года назад +1

      @@FoodShowFan ...

    • @arcaneiconoclast319
      @arcaneiconoclast319 4 года назад +9

      Be carefull with playing with fire , you might get burned. God bless, stay sober kids.

    • @ryanjones9498
      @ryanjones9498 4 года назад

      Some whoo whoo thing, lol...what

  • @deathpoint3633
    @deathpoint3633 4 года назад +132

    In my gym the treadmills and things like that have netflix so I have “gym series”. Now I just go to know what happens next on the series that I reserved for the gym. Seriously, I am addicted to netflix.

    • @timmcspillywhop1234
      @timmcspillywhop1234 4 года назад

      You go to the gym to watch Netflix? Kind of a redundancy.

    • @deathpoint3633
      @deathpoint3633 4 года назад +11

      @@timmcspillywhop1234 redundancy why? I have Netflix on my tv but I reserve some series so I have more motivation to go. Watching Netflix is not why I go but is just an incentive.

    • @andokewl
      @andokewl 4 года назад +6

      @@timmcspillywhop1234 that's not redundancy at all. That fits the example of listening to Post Malone as mentioned in the video. Using Netflix as a reason to actually work out. Two birds with one stone. Man, I actually will use that method

    • @aman.s.rathore
      @aman.s.rathore 4 года назад +8

      @@deathpoint3633 You just hacked the system my friend.

    • @anonymousperson8332
      @anonymousperson8332 4 года назад

      @@aman.s.rathore yoo

  • @TheKatrinaRuthShow
    @TheKatrinaRuthShow 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing on this topic! Love your video!

  • @waterbottle881
    @waterbottle881 Год назад

    Dude, this change in mindset has transformed my life. Thanks bud! \m/

  • @Kokola-qh9wp
    @Kokola-qh9wp 4 года назад +34

    The only video on RUclips giving actual tips on productivity.

  • @Scherzprinz
    @Scherzprinz 4 года назад +95

    He's like Saitama, he trained so hard he lost his hair

    • @techwizpianist1654
      @techwizpianist1654 4 года назад

      😂😂

    • @AnonURnot
      @AnonURnot 4 года назад

      Scherzprinz stolen comment

    • @Scherzprinz
      @Scherzprinz 4 года назад +1

      @@AnonURnot Didn't scroll through the comments, I bet im not the only one who wrote this but feel free to add my 69 likes to your counter ;)

  • @itselisharoy
    @itselisharoy 3 года назад

    You're AMAZING bro. Thanks for the knowledge !

  • @RichardWatson
    @RichardWatson 3 года назад

    This was genuinely useful, particularly the habit-bunching idea. Thank you!

  • @pixelator5312
    @pixelator5312 4 года назад +103

    video: "try not to focus too much on end goals"
    school system: (forces end goals on me in the form of assignments)
    me:

    • @iTzKneecap
      @iTzKneecap 4 года назад +12

      An end goal is graduation. Assignments can be enjoyable with the right mindset, you do enough of them well and suddenly you're graduating.

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +7

      What I realized so many years after the fact is that while the school system is far from perfect, it can actually be instrumental in training our self-discipline, work ethic, and time management skills. Those skills could later be applied to whatever you decide to do in life. That's another way of looking at schooling that might make you see it in a way that makes it more useful and beneficial for your future plans. It's like practice for getting stuff done later in life in your career/business/etc...

    • @patrickbateman7665
      @patrickbateman7665 4 года назад

      Leave the school then Your life will turn

    • @MetaReplication
      @MetaReplication 3 года назад

      @@awesomebychoice7603 Wow... So I'm gonna need to spend 6 years developing mediocre discipline and a few other skills?

  • @Marcus83283
    @Marcus83283 4 года назад +119

    I think this is also the reason that "New Year's Resolutioners" bail out of the gym after a month. Their motivation and goal is "hey I'm gonna lose weight" with no consideration of the work that entails.

  • @thebitlot
    @thebitlot 2 года назад

    I greatly enjoy watching your videos, because you have put the finest point of accuracy on what my problem is and what the problem is for many other people. You've earned my subscribe. Even if you don't end up making anymore videos, I have so much respect for what you've already made.

  • @Opinions.aremine
    @Opinions.aremine 3 года назад

    I love your channel. Found you a couple of weeks ago and now you’re part of my morning routine.

  • @lukeodubhda
    @lukeodubhda 4 года назад +40

    1. rather than focus on a goal, try to enjoy the process - stay in the moment and make yourself just start and you'll probably keep going (it doesn't have to be that serious or perfect. "playing" instead of "practicing")
    2. operate from an abundance instead of scarcity mindset - e.g. you are an active person, a conscientious person, a meditator, a guitarist - instead of "I need to do this bc I'm not X enough"
    3. habit bunching (e.g. floss in the shower, don't listen to book/podcast unless doing the thing)

    • @elektrotehnik94
      @elektrotehnik94 4 года назад +1

      "floss in the shower" made me question my life choices :D

  • @lukaskuth7195
    @lukaskuth7195 4 года назад +30

    "its like the most boring thing I've ever encountered in my life!" i felt that!

    • @determined919
      @determined919 4 года назад +1

      Its not boring if you push yourself into unbearable pain lol

    • @PaganUchiha
      @PaganUchiha 4 года назад

      I love treadmills. I can push myself as hard as I want.

  • @Seanonyoutube
    @Seanonyoutube 3 года назад +4

    “I enjoy understanding”
    - George Costanza

  • @ranadiab5216
    @ranadiab5216 3 года назад

    Amazing practical content delivered in a simple way. Thanks Joey!

  • @mindibear
    @mindibear 4 года назад +108

    I have a sticky note on my computer that reads “Embrace the suck.” It motivates me to keep grinding.

    • @lukedhoffman12
      @lukedhoffman12 4 года назад +9

      Too many sex jokes

    • @electrichanoi7244
      @electrichanoi7244 4 года назад +2

      grando boy grando boi is not grando in bed

    • @frostyfingers9282
      @frostyfingers9282 4 года назад +2

      grinding tasks that you think suck isn't the same thing as learning to love the process though

    • @names9530
      @names9530 4 года назад +1

      Sounds gay bro

    • @ColonelCampbellAI2024
      @ColonelCampbellAI2024 4 года назад

      I have that pinned to my brain. It doesn't do shit.

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin 4 года назад +17

    I’ve been in a rut for the past few months. This is the most practical and salient advice I’ve gotten to help motivate me. It’s pragmatic as opposed to frou-frou, which I appreciate.

  • @mikhail_skvorchynskyi
    @mikhail_skvorchynskyi Год назад

    Maaaan, that's really great insight, thank you for that.
    You understood this world up to it's core

  • @ReefReview
    @ReefReview 7 месяцев назад

    You are changing my life around sir.