What You Must Leave Behind to Move Forward | Nathan Mellor | TEDxPepperdineUniversity

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  • Опубликовано: 2 фев 2025

Комментарии • 41

  • @ChetanRajputpoetry
    @ChetanRajputpoetry 2 года назад +23

    All failed relationships hurt, but losing someone who dosent appreciate and respect u is actually a gain, not a loss.

  • @Rama-lila
    @Rama-lila Год назад +6

    "Be willing to serve!". (Yourself included) Wonderful!

  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 Год назад +2

    Remapping your brain is a key concept. Unlearning is important, too. To let go of something that doesn't work, to try something that could work better!

  • @LabradoodleTofuBoy
    @LabradoodleTofuBoy 2 года назад +9

    This made me cry because I was heartbroken by someone whom I so admired and loved. One day, I made a choice to live and love myself more. At deepest pain, each of us becomes an artist to create something amazing for ourselves and for others. Thinking leads to action. Now, when I get up each morning, I say this to myself "I love myself and today will as beautiful as I am." This powerful words help me. Today I feel 100% wiser & happier. Our mind is a powerful thing. Regardless how broke or hurt we are, we do have a choice to heal ourselves and it starts with thinking

  • @madiba4ever210
    @madiba4ever210 3 года назад +9

    What a thinker. What a storyteller. What a man..
    Bravo, Sir.

  • @bondarapang714
    @bondarapang714 3 года назад +14

    Amazing talk . I feel bad that so little people have not had the luck to stumble across this talk . Thanks again for the amazing story of your dad . Mad props on the insight from the school story and the store at the 31st mile .

  • @AuntLorasHouse
    @AuntLorasHouse Год назад +2

    This is a very underrated speech! Amazing tedtalk!

  • @raerae6422
    @raerae6422 2 года назад +5

    Heartening talk. One of the best ive seen on TED. Resonated with me as i am trying reprogram my thinking after years of believing im worthless and stumbling across videos on neuroplasticity and i too feel a deep longing to help others.
    Shout out to Adam and his patient and loving foster family. Hope he was able to remain with them and not be shuffled around.

  • @gabierudyte9202
    @gabierudyte9202 Год назад +1

    What a powerful talk. The ending... wow. Bravo. Gave me chills & it was exactly what I needed to hear...

  • @cosmocats20489
    @cosmocats20489 3 года назад +6

    Magnificent. I cried 3 times. meaning it did resonate deep in me 3 times. thanks.

  • @annoshakb
    @annoshakb 4 года назад +24

    This has been one of the most powerful TED talks I've seen. It's powerful in that Dr. Nathan is relatable and his deliverance is genuine. The most powerful truths revealed in this TED talk: "I realized, I didn't have to be the smartest person in the world to make a difference; that if I was a little farther down the road than somebody else, I could serve them", (5:14-5:29); " . . . and if you want to change your mind you have to be willing to fight for it and you are the only one who can do it. But your.... mindset is not fixed, you can change today the way that you think but it will take effort and it will take time", (10:12-10:30).

  • @TheAmandaHuggins
    @TheAmandaHuggins 5 лет назад +7

    Oh how I love your Dad! Brother Dave is a gift to us all!! And your mom too. Susan is the sweetest lady too!!

  • @lindakaye7096
    @lindakaye7096 2 года назад +1

    Thank you. What a wonderful father you have.
    I am fixing to unpack some stuff.

  • @adripdv
    @adripdv 2 года назад +2

    What an amazing inspiring talk

  • @torwheee
    @torwheee 2 года назад +3

    This was INCREDIBLE.

  • @timwelch6238
    @timwelch6238 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you Nathan for using your gift to share your wisdom. I always look forward to hearing you speak!

  • @AngelTacha87
    @AngelTacha87 3 года назад +3

    OMG that story about the 3-year old kid being put in hot water by his mom at 2 years old made my eyes water up. That picture is really painful to imagine.

  • @joemcshmoe10
    @joemcshmoe10 Месяц назад

    Excellent stuff.

  • @hayleyhilton5018
    @hayleyhilton5018 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your story, i needed to listen to it today for a few different reasons x

  • @maryamrashidi2329
    @maryamrashidi2329 Год назад

    Great storyteller!

  • @sueandpatrick
    @sueandpatrick Год назад

    Thank you!

  • @shawnlove4502
    @shawnlove4502 2 года назад +1

    This was a fantastic talk.

  • @anaquasar5228
    @anaquasar5228 4 года назад +4

    Amazing! Thank you for that!!

  • @dearme5549
    @dearme5549 3 года назад +4

    Really impactful

  • @shankfish1990
    @shankfish1990 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful.

  • @leolady8114
    @leolady8114 2 года назад

    Great content and presentation!!!

  • @DD-pz3kf
    @DD-pz3kf Год назад

    Love it ❤

  • @lizziherambere6970
    @lizziherambere6970 4 года назад +2

    Really great 👍

  • @jasr3526
    @jasr3526 3 года назад +2

    Amazing ✨

  • @gabriellamarcucci1129
    @gabriellamarcucci1129 3 года назад +2

    Powerful and inspirational! Thank you!!

  • @jasr3526
    @jasr3526 3 года назад +1

    Amazing

  • @irenagaidelis5145
    @irenagaidelis5145 4 года назад +1

    Lovely thanks

  • @danf4447
    @danf4447 2 года назад +1

    nice talk

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold 3 года назад +1

    😭😭😭💖🙏🏽

  • @mariecook622
    @mariecook622 4 года назад +2

    Please share his video

  • @sharpmindschannel
    @sharpmindschannel 22 дня назад

    This is how adults bad behavior affects and can destroy a children. Your parents was send here to save this children from their hateful parents. God blessed then.

  • @colt4201
    @colt4201 Год назад

    Love the part he says Standford, Harvard, and looks at Yale and says others 😂😂😂

  • @iforgotmyname1885
    @iforgotmyname1885 Год назад

    Instructors like that man... talk is cheap.