Setting Boundaries With Your Adult Children - Allison Bottke - 2/2

Moira Brown speaks with Allison Bottke about how we need to set boundaries with our adult children.
Allison Bottke
Author, Speaker
Book: "Setting Boundaries With Your Adult Children"
www.allisonbott...

[@gwendolynwehage6336]

This applies to the disrespect our children show us. If they will not be respectful they must no t be allowed to come over or be with us until they learn not to speak and act disrespectfully to us.

[@tandrace8622]

When it comes to enabling Adult Kids..."Stop The Flow Of Money"...One of the most powerful advice tidbits ever!

[@ncurry9432]

Nice thanks for sharing your journey. I to was single mom and my daughter is now 22. The illness & HELL that is created from poor boundaries indeed creates a feeling that Take Away from ones life.. to a point you pray to God is this what my life is going to be I rather die. Then you get Really PISSED Off and Take Back your Life: one day at a time is enough, one step is enough.

[@amazingjourneycdc]

Thank you for sharing your journey. This is a wonderful interview and beautiful testament.

[@monicajones4862]

Great advice! Loved the video.

[@sharondstern3385]

This is soooo powerful!

[@joeldecoster8816]

i feel sick. On behalf of kids these days, okay you are 18 now, pay or get out.....how do you all of a sudden expect this? Then you kick them out on the street, /tHEN THE REVOLVING DOOR BEGINS, OFTEN YOU NEED YOUR ADULT KIDS TO SSTAY HOME ELSE YOU CANT PAY RENT. iNSANE ALRIGHT, What if granddkids are involved, and covid 19?

[@jviarruel]

Enabling.... I'm behind on rent because of CRUEL selfish family members who disrespect me constantly. I now have to make a decision to move out of my own apartment just to be free of them.

[@ellaleggett9628]

Sorry this is happening to you 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@eeg122]

Great advice. Note to self: STOP GIVING MONEY 20's, 50's. UGH! HELP ME LORD!

[@ilenecasebolt2228]

You mention Sanity Support Groups. How do I find one in my area?

[@sunflowerzelda45]

yes where are these support groups ? Arkansas here ,,
help

[@ameliavillanueva9162]

That's great, but the son is now back at home with the author at the time of the interviewing? Still in crisis? Still rescuing? Hope that it is working out for them.

[@monicajones4862]

Amelia Villanueva the author also say her son was having back surgery. once he has surgery, he wouldn't be able to move.

[@marquita3058]

Kick them out at 18 or 21 and they don’t come back when you are 60 and need them. So then what