Absolutely, family first always... in that situation I would choose my mother too. At least he knows his wife/ex is this way now before having any more children with her.
Mum vs wife was such a toxic question, and her arcing up so much, it's no wonder he checked out of the relationship. Especially when she doubled down. She single handedly killed the relationship, and caused op to lose all feelings for her bar disgust seemingly. She fucked up, and he isn't an asshole. His describing of the aftermath is pretty on par with somebody checked out considering their exit options. Man, what a shitty situation. She'll either regret that foe the rest of her life, or turn it into resentment against him further, and try to turn the daughter against him too. I hope she doesn't, but you never know these days. Rip ops mum and his relationship
My first thought? This pregnant woman is spending too much time on TikTok. Specifically the area of TikTok dealing with love and relationship. But in the Red Pill community this is what is known as a "Poop Test". Some crazy problem the wife proposes with no correct or right answer. No matter how the man responds, he will be in the wrong. The only way to address the question is to call the wife out on the poop test. That there is no correct response. The real answer to the question? Situational. If Mom is on her death bed, you aren't going to leave her. If this crazy woman is in child birth, you aren't leaving her. And if on the off chance both are happening at the exact same time and you aren't at home, who are you closest too.
Agree with everything except the single handed part. He walked out the door. "It was her or me" was the rationale. So he was already checked out. "I always put them first" also can mean anything from he never lifts a finger to help out around the house but speaks kindly, to he's literally doing everything while she watches TV. Guessing it's closer to the former.
I was giving the wife benefit of the doubt that maybe she was a bit hormonal and made a dumb question and got herself worked up but not going to the funeral? That's messed up. I don't know if I could.forgive my partner for.not coming with me to my parents funerals. Op seems like they might be an emotionally stoic person with how reserved he is and how he talks about he can't change her mind. I think op is rigjt and arguing about being in the delivery room or anything wojld just be a long argument. And with op asking for couples counseling and her denying it immedielty? Yeah no. I feel arguing with her is a lost cause. If I were in this scenario I don't know if I would have the energy to work through this either. But I dunno I couldn't see my partner and I getting into this scenario, we try to communicate well, even if saying words is hard we will resort to laying in bed next to each other and texting our feelings. Try not to go to bed angry if possible. Its just a tough scenario. I hope op and his wife get the help they need, if they could reconcile good for them but... I wouldn't be able to.
Whoever confessed to the husband about his wife cheating before they married isn’t a friend. She blew up his life to make herself feel better? A real friend would have said something before the marriage even took place.
"Go shopping with me or save your mom from a burning house...you save your mom?! You don't put me first😡😭" Such a toxic way of thinking. At least put the tow people in the same hypothetical situation... Sure giving birth and dying moments are both important moments but they are not the same. Also super toxic is making someone choose between two loved ones... Finally, the husband should know better than to answer such a toxic trap question. But since it's a situation that has a possibility of actually happening, she may have forced him to give an answer.
Devil's advocate here, giving birth can result in the death of the mother and/or child. But, devil's advocate the opposite way, you know for a fact your mother is dying...
Third story: 🤔So basically what people are saying is that because the stepdaughter didn't know that the biological daughter was going to work hard and fix up the basement super nice with her own earned money and buy a new computer, that the stepdaughter should just have everything the bio daughter bought and worked hard for, including several hundred dollars worth of computer equipment that the bio daughter bought for herself? And that when the mom said no, it was perfectly reasonable for the stepdaughter to get upset and destroy the computer so that no one could have anything nice if she couldn't? (Press X to Doubt)
3:32:48 Seriously fucking spineless OP. She's exhausting. The whole scenario could have been ended years sooner. I rolled my eyes so much at her story. Good lord!
I feel for the husband in the mom hypothetical. My daughter's mom made a unilateral decision that hurt both our families, and while we fought, I tried to make it work. I dread to think that this man went through the same isolation and partner alienation that I went through. It's soul crushing
1st story. Do not answer questions that you can tell she is trying to get you in a bad position. Just say “Stop talking and trying to Manifest that situation.”
For Coral and Leia, it'd make sense that there's some sort of mental illness involved. Coral seems a bit unstable, so hopefully the hospital stay will help.
The story about coral and her step-sister, teenagers do apologize if they are raised right, teenagers shouldn’t comment on adult stories. (The reddit commenters.)
As an extremely high functionally mentally ill person to claim that you have control all the time as an adult is pure bunk. 😠. Between the driving desire for solutions and sufficient IQ I was driven to find and eventually found proper medications.
On the stepdaughter going way overboard over the boyfriend and the room. The problem.I have seen very frequently in cases like this is.People are afraid to act because of what the other person might do, but the problem ISIS, the longer you wait to act.The worst the thing they might do to themselves or others becomes and now is almost always the right moment because it's not going to get better with that action. Is it awful she tried to do that to herself? Could this have been prevented by quashing this Spoil behavior earlier? Maybe and maybe but I can tell you this if they had not acted The next level would have been worse
The first story i have to agree. Im on the fence of whats going on. The wife for sure is an ahole for bringing up that toxic question in the first place. You should never ever in a marriage or in a relationship ask that question because that reveals that you are insecure about who you are as a person
Story 1: That sounds like tiltok relationship test. Both given answers are wrong and you have to think like a romance novel character to dodge the incoming catastrophe. It does not sound like this was a healthy relationship before the question either. It sounds like the only reason they were still together was the pregnancy. Story 3: arm chair psychology moment, this girl obviously needs help. It seems like she has an unhealthy understanding of her emotions and how relationships work. I have a suspicion that her mind was poisoned by her mother into thinking she has to be nasty and hyper competitive to win a boyfried, possibly from the mother badtalking the stepmom. Also a decent chance of abandonment issues, clinical depression, and or a mood disorder.
Your dad's wife may be nice now, but if she cannot stick to boundaries then beware that she doesnt potentially psychotically kidnap your daughter because her attitude changes towards your daughter.
First story OP is not the asshole. That goes to his wife for even asking such a question. There is no need to be asking that even if both could happen any day. It's just a fucked up thing to ask period.
When I saw '4 hours of assholes', this is not what I thought I would be getting at 1am. 😂
It made me think of "Spaceballs".
"I knew it I'm surrounded by assholes. Keep firing assholes." Lol
That wife in the first story is despicable and the husband seems so mentally exhausted from it.
Absolutely, family first always... in that situation I would choose my mother too. At least he knows his wife/ex is this way now before having any more children with her.
Mum vs wife was such a toxic question, and her arcing up so much, it's no wonder he checked out of the relationship. Especially when she doubled down.
She single handedly killed the relationship, and caused op to lose all feelings for her bar disgust seemingly.
She fucked up, and he isn't an asshole. His describing of the aftermath is pretty on par with somebody checked out considering their exit options.
Man, what a shitty situation. She'll either regret that foe the rest of her life, or turn it into resentment against him further, and try to turn the daughter against him too.
I hope she doesn't, but you never know these days.
Rip ops mum and his relationship
My first thought? This pregnant woman is spending too much time on TikTok. Specifically the area of TikTok dealing with love and relationship.
But in the Red Pill community this is what is known as a "Poop Test". Some crazy problem the wife proposes with no correct or right answer. No matter how the man responds, he will be in the wrong.
The only way to address the question is to call the wife out on the poop test. That there is no correct response. The real answer to the question? Situational. If Mom is on her death bed, you aren't going to leave her. If this crazy woman is in child birth, you aren't leaving her. And if on the off chance both are happening at the exact same time and you aren't at home, who are you closest too.
Agree with everything except the single handed part. He walked out the door. "It was her or me" was the rationale. So he was already checked out. "I always put them first" also can mean anything from he never lifts a finger to help out around the house but speaks kindly, to he's literally doing everything while she watches TV. Guessing it's closer to the former.
Mom vs Wife.
That's a question with no acceptable answer. It's the same as "Does this dress make me look fat?"
I was giving the wife benefit of the doubt that maybe she was a bit hormonal and made a dumb question and got herself worked up but not going to the funeral? That's messed up. I don't know if I could.forgive my partner for.not coming with me to my parents funerals. Op seems like they might be an emotionally stoic person with how reserved he is and how he talks about he can't change her mind.
I think op is rigjt and arguing about being in the delivery room or anything wojld just be a long argument. And with op asking for couples counseling and her denying it immedielty? Yeah no. I feel arguing with her is a lost cause. If I were in this scenario I don't know if I would have the energy to work through this either.
But I dunno I couldn't see my partner and I getting into this scenario, we try to communicate well, even if saying words is hard we will resort to laying in bed next to each other and texting our feelings. Try not to go to bed angry if possible.
Its just a tough scenario. I hope op and his wife get the help they need, if they could reconcile good for them but... I wouldn't be able to.
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Whoever confessed to the husband about his wife cheating before they married isn’t a friend. She blew up his life to make herself feel better? A real friend would have said something before the marriage even took place.
"Go shopping with me or save your mom from a burning house...you save your mom?! You don't put me first😡😭"
Such a toxic way of thinking. At least put the tow people in the same hypothetical situation...
Sure giving birth and dying moments are both important moments but they are not the same.
Also super toxic is making someone choose between two loved ones...
Finally, the husband should know better than to answer such a toxic trap question. But since it's a situation that has a possibility of actually happening, she may have forced him to give an answer.
Devil's advocate here, giving birth can result in the death of the mother and/or child. But, devil's advocate the opposite way, you know for a fact your mother is dying...
I've been through menopause and i NEVER ... no matter how much my husband pissed me off ... have EVER thrown anything at my husband.
Reddit makes the most absurd excuses
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Third story: 🤔So basically what people are saying is that because the stepdaughter didn't know that the biological daughter was going to work hard and fix up the basement super nice with her own earned money and buy a new computer, that the stepdaughter should just have everything the bio daughter bought and worked hard for, including several hundred dollars worth of computer equipment that the bio daughter bought for herself? And that when the mom said no, it was perfectly reasonable for the stepdaughter to get upset and destroy the computer so that no one could have anything nice if she couldn't? (Press X to Doubt)
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3:32:48 Seriously fucking spineless OP. She's exhausting. The whole scenario could have been ended years sooner. I rolled my eyes so much at her story. Good lord!
Exactly. So pathetic she even let it get to the point of having her pics removed from the frames
Second story is so sad. The stepmom was basically just a glorified roommate/maid.
I feel for the husband in the mom hypothetical. My daughter's mom made a unilateral decision that hurt both our families, and while we fought, I tried to make it work.
I dread to think that this man went through the same isolation and partner alienation that I went through. It's soul crushing
Loaded questions from a girlfriend or a wife are just plain evil and should be treated as such.
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1st story. Do not answer questions that you can tell she is trying to get you in a bad position. Just say “Stop talking and trying to Manifest that situation.”
For Coral and Leia, it'd make sense that there's some sort of mental illness involved. Coral seems a bit unstable, so hopefully the hospital stay will help.
The story about coral and her step-sister, teenagers do apologize if they are raised right, teenagers shouldn’t comment on adult stories. (The reddit commenters.)
As an extremely high functionally mentally ill person to claim that you have control all the time as an adult is pure bunk. 😠. Between the driving desire for solutions and sufficient IQ I was driven to find and eventually found proper medications.
You should give AmITheDevil a try. It’s just the worst of the worst and includes those that got deleted
I think so too! =)
This! He absolutely should!
On the stepdaughter going way overboard over the boyfriend and the room. The problem.I have seen very frequently in cases like this is.People are afraid to act because of what the other person might do, but the problem ISIS, the longer you wait to act.The worst the thing they might do to themselves or others becomes and now is almost always the right moment because it's not going to get better with that action. Is it awful she tried to do that to herself? Could this have been prevented by quashing this Spoil behavior earlier? Maybe and maybe but I can tell you this if they had not acted The next level would have been worse
The only thing I have to say is F Christmas. I hate that shit!
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The first story i have to agree. Im on the fence of whats going on. The wife for sure is an ahole for bringing up that toxic question in the first place. You should never ever in a marriage or in a relationship ask that question because that reveals that you are insecure about who you are as a person
Gets a good dicking down. Now she loves him again.
Story 1: That sounds like tiltok relationship test. Both given answers are wrong and you have to think like a romance novel character to dodge the incoming catastrophe. It does not sound like this was a healthy relationship before the question either. It sounds like the only reason they were still together was the pregnancy.
Story 3: arm chair psychology moment, this girl obviously needs help. It seems like she has an unhealthy understanding of her emotions and how relationships work. I have a suspicion that her mind was poisoned by her mother into thinking she has to be nasty and hyper competitive to win a boyfried, possibly from the mother badtalking the stepmom. Also a decent chance of abandonment issues, clinical depression, and or a mood disorder.
Your dad's wife may be nice now, but if she cannot stick to boundaries then beware that she doesnt potentially psychotically kidnap your daughter because her attitude changes towards your daughter.
First story OP is not the asshole. That goes to his wife for even asking such a question. There is no need to be asking that even if both could happen any day. It's just a fucked up thing to ask period.
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So here is my comment down below.
First!
Congratulations
Good morning
Woman don't use logic
Op you need a different counselor. You progressively got worse instead of coming to terms. And on road to healing
Second!