Hell, my dad did this to my sister's first boyfriend when I was home from college. His first night at our house to see my sister and dad walks through with my shotgun. Scared him so bad he almost left and I am outside laughing. American family here.
Honestly, if this had to do with a Latin family, every member would have a gun and then some if someone had a significant other lmao. No chill anywhere 🤭
@@peackpr9 My grandfather decided to "clean" his rifle the day my sister's boyfriend first came to visit. He had never even seen a gun before outside a cop's belt... Afterwards we all passed around the gun, I gave it to him and I have never seen someone hold something with that strength, he wouldn't give it back to me!
“It’s okay if you can communicate with him I guess they are into little girls” Lmao her mom is too much. Reminds me of my own mom that would congratulate me and roast me at the same time.
Exactly like my mom 🤣 When I first got bf, she was like "Awesome. Congratulations Let me meet him because I wanna see why do he like a fat girl like you." 🤦♀️ But I'm not even fat 🤣🤣🤣
@@morbidgirl6808 My mum would always say to like friends or family, "oh hes with his gf, shes really pretty!" which is a nice thing to say but she said it with such surprise, like she expected to be repulsed by the girls that would actually agree to date me lol. its like a backhanded compliment! Didn't know whether to be pleased she approves or offended.
This was interesting! ChaCha’s mom was cool. And Austin’s mom seemed open, but what if his “girlfriend” has dark skin or dark eyes & hair? The reaction from the guy’s grandma is what I expecting from all the parents.
They would think of her as dirty and from a poor country, at least in rural areas. Koreans are very blunt and would mask it with jokes, my father side used to tell my mom she “stayed in the sun for too long” she was legit pale but they said it bc she was Chinese. There’s definitely slight biases compared to Caucasian’s
i think most of the world, when they think of an american, they think of white people 1st because they are/were the majority of the population. i dont think that big of a deal for foreigners to do that since theyre only exposed to the media we project out, which unfortunately is very white.
As a Korean American in her 20's, this is basically what I expected lol. Somewhat open middle aged parents, mixed opinions colored by the age of the family member. Parroting another comment, I do wonder what the responses would have been if everyone had brought up non-caucasian Americans as their partners?
It would be bad, for some reason majority of Asian Parents or Asians in general think it’s bad if you don’t date Caucasian or Asian… you have to pick one of the two. Hopefully one day our people will break out that loop but as it is now it’s impossible
@@CalamariTasteGood There’s a high probability it wouldn’t go over well in White American families either. So, no different for Asians living in Asian. Although I think it’s wrong, but it’s reality.
@@AncientSpirit. Koreans don’t worship white people, they worship their skin color which is attainable for other Koreans, it’s not about being Caucasian. It’s skin color. They think blondes are easy and have bad reputation in rural areas. 😐
@@kyitty yes but the do idolize white features which are very desirable to them especially if those feature can be passed down to their kids, they love wasians
it’s always so interesting when non-Americans assume “American” means blonde and blue eyed, but maybe it’s because they’re older...? i guess over time the world will realize “American” could mean any race and color. but cool video!! their parents seem very cute hahah
People do the same with Asian decent confusing Chinese, Korean, and Japanese people. I think it’s a distance and assumption that’s formed over the years. It’s very diverse so they assume that due to media, language, etc.
@A Sprocket What? Lol. Who’s crying at racism? Lots of these Korean videos with American foreigners, they presume them to be white with blonde hair and blue eyes (brown hair and brown eyes is the most common btw). When someone from the UK thinks of Americans, it’s usually more diverse. That’s the difference of western media vs eastern. It’s the same as westerners thinking Asia only refers to China, Korea, or Japan. You seem triggered 😂.
I’m American (Mexican family) and I could date a Korean and I feel that my family wouldn’t care . They would be excited to show you our culture and welcome you with open arms. That’s why is quite surprising when I see people from foreign countries sometimes reject the idea of having a foreigner in their family.
@@charlievetta1385 What i'm saying is in a lot of countries wanting to preserve culture and not mix is a big thing and i can respect that. Some people just want to fulfill their fantasies of having a mixed child.
They're from ethnically homogenous societies thousands of years old, where their national identity is tied to their ethnic group. These countries are often ferociously conservative. They're not primed to accept anyone outside of their local culture, let alone outside their own country. That's why I have 0 expectations for fairness or understanding for those countries regarding racism. Their homogeneity means, in their eyes, they don't need to give a fuck
The boy with his grandmother made me a little sad ... I suppose that because he comes from a different generation it will make it more difficult for him to accept a foreigner in the family, but I hope the boy gets his ideal girl and that the grandmother is happy for him.
From what I understood she was opposed cause he was going to the army correct? Not really cause of where the person was from which is sorta understandable
If you’re white and Christian in the U. S. and you tell them you’re dating a brown Democrat things are not gonna go well either. Heck you could even leave out the brown part.
@@powbobs lol where you responding to my post? Also yes lol I agree. I guess my question was she said she didn't agree but not because the person was foreign but because he was going into the services? Does dating a foreigner jeopardize the chances of joining the army/armed services? I truly don't know, asking out of curiosity...
@@walternolasco9052 Sorry, wrong post. I was responding to someone who acted as if Korea was the only place where having your child date someone different oils elicit a negative reaction.
@@walternolasco9052 Yeah. That was weird. I think maybe she was just making an excuse for her negative reaction. She’s a grandma though and racism is pretty prevalent in the older generations. It was normal when they were younger.
Ah it hurt my heart to see the opposition to the relationship, even if it was fake. My husband is Korean and at first I was worried that possibly they wouldn’t be accepting of us. But they absolutely love our relationship and they love me to pieces and I love them. I’m so grateful for them and I’m glad they don’t think like that, my husband is my world and I couldn’t imagine being without him. I hope over time all of Korea is a bit more open minded to these things
Lol this was great. I’m 30 and korean American. My first boyfriend at 18 was an American guy and my mom had such a held back and unsure opinion. 12 years later he and I are happily married, have two amazing girls, and my mom now calls him son and loves him so much 🥰
And did this happen in Korea or in America? There are so few minorities in Asia that the 99.99% of the homogenous population don't want to change their perceptions and habits to "cater" to a foreigner. But if this is in a Western country where Asians feels the need to adapt and sometimes abandon their Asian culture for Western values, especially for the generation that was born in the West and has no idea what living in Asia is like, the acceptance comes much quicker and easier. It's all about integrating to the dominant culture and upbringing.
@@sigerlion8608 acceptance os easier even in Asia if their daughter is dating a white guy that's White obsession on Asian people specially in China Korea and japan
@@hemanshuchudasama3535 China's definitely not obsessed with White people. White skin yes, but the Chinese white skin look not European white skin. I can't speak for Korea or Japan. With a population of 1.4 billion, of course there will be a small percentage of women large enough in China interested in foreigners. Even 0.05 percent of Chinese women would be enough for the number of foreign men there. But that doesn't equate to a lot of women in China wants a foreign boyfriend. Once again, I can't speak for Korea or Japan since their cultures are vastly different.
So weird, in my country I can't imagine family being against someone dating a foreigner. I think most people would see it as a good thing unless they couldn't communicate well
Well, this explains a lot. My father met my mother when he was stationed in Korea, married her and they moved to the US. The hatred towards Americans explains why my mother's side of the family doesn't want anything to do with us.☹️ I always wanted to visit South Korea and meet with the rest of my family over there, but I guess that'll never happen
Awww! I want to meet Cha Cha’s mom! She was super cute! 🥰❤️✨ I feel bad for the guy with the grandma 👵🏻😔, but I guess older generations are harder to accept foreigners in the family since they follow customs more strongly. I just hope everyone will have a boyfriend/girlfriend soon, y’all so cute and deserve to be loved bunches! 🥰❤️❤️❤️✨Coming from a single for 5 yrs now…fighting! 🥺💪🏻🤨🙌🏻😁
I honestly feel kinda bad for my brothers wife’s grandpa. He had 2 sons, and both of them moved to America, married Americans. He attended the wedding, but had no one to speak Japanese with, besides his sons, that were busy for the most part.
:P Austin's mom sounds so cute, and so does Cha Cha's. But sounds like the Austin's parents know what he likes lol I do remember seeing another Korean guy afraid to bring his black American girlfriend to meet his parents and his parents took her in when he went away two weeks later, and he was so surprised they were that open minded.
My thought was why would you date someone who wasn't at least proficient in your language if your feel like you're not gonna be proficient in theirs lol
So interesting to see other cultures. Mexican American parents need to be called constantly to be told " Im ok and I love you" if not they think you're in trouble.
my mom would watch my facebook, if i didn't post anything for a week, she'd call to make sure i was ok (that was actually WHY i posted most of the time).. most of that time, i was actually taking care of not just myself, but a girlfriend and her 3 kids. so, yeah, i guess you'd say living an adult life. she's (mostly) native american.
I’m glad the parents didn’t say something like , Is good for the experience 🧐 because I have watch Many RUclips channels, where Koreans are ask if they will date a foreigner. They say yes, “ I will like to have that experience,” as if dating someone from a different nationality/ ethnic background is something to brag about and put on your resume….
it is something to brag about and is a unique experience. Besides USA, Canada, and UK, every other country is majority one race with no diversity. Most of them will never meet in person someone different than them
Since in Korea 99% of the population is Korean, dating someone from a different ethnicity is very rare. It makes people want to brag about it because it's a unique thing they have going. Basically standing out from the others around them. It's like having these new brand shoes only a few rich people could get but everyone wants them. Yes, it sounds a little weird but that's how it is in homogenous countries.
A study was done a few years ago in South Korea. Koreans were asked who they would prefer as a neighbor if it could not be another Korean. Overwhelmingly they chose white Europeans or North Americans. What's interesting is that they preferred those two groups even over having a neighbor that was Asian, but not Korean. The group they said they would least prefer as a neighbor were blacks from any country.
This is great. Korean people are so kind and understanding. I think South Korea and the US are like one. All Americans I know have Korean friends and Love Korea and everyone loves Korean dramas and most people love historical shows such as Jumong.
Depends on which generation. Older generations are much more conservative and have more closed-minded views that aren’t really accepting of new ideas or beliefs. On the other hand, middle and younger generations are much more accepting of new views and ideas, such as Korean girls have foreigner boyfriends, and vice versa for Korean boys with foreigner girls, and even more accepting view of LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️⚧, despite the Korean government being pretty shitty towards homosexuals and same-sex love rights in general. I hope that as time goes on, the old, conservative members of the Korean government can be replaced with more accepting, youthful, and love-giving people who will allow for better treatment of LGBTQIA+ citizens, ban discrimination against LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈, legalize same-sex marriage in the country, and overall make Korean society better.
@@rainstories666, I agree. In America most older people now are pretty open to freedom. Its changing fast and my hope is America and South Korea can continue to build a healthy and happy relationship based on the idea of common freedoms! Of course there will always be differences and it takes awhile to accept new freedoms but thats what makes both countries great!
@@rainstories666 I'm sorry but you're wrong. not only older generation, but also young folks in Korea generally have such a negative stance against LGBTQ+ or dating with foreigners. in my school time people who were outed had to get bullied, or immediately move to other school so they can hide that they're LGBTQ+. trans people here have 0 chance to get any proper job, so often they choose to sell their body to make a living. we're the least opened people in Asia. even in Muslim countries they are more open-minded and they accept, tolerate more. I didn't want to be mean but reality here is a lot different with your explanation.
The next part is gonna give me anxiety..I know it’s likely that the parents aren’t going to be open-minded (since they’re older) but I hope they understand, even if it’s just a prank
Single Korean Child: "Mom, I'm dating an American" Korean Mom: "You're ruining your life" Single American Child: "Mom, I'm dating a Korean" American Mom: "Finally you're dating. When am I going to have grandkids?"
Born in S Korea in 1994, migrated to US 2000. Grew up in Cali basically my whole life. I have a Hispanic/Russian wife. Parents were very accepting of my wife simply(only son). My mom was very accepting initially because of how beautiful/pretty my wife is. That gave my mom ammunition to brag with her friends. "My son's wife is not korean, but she is very beautiful" As long as you are physically attractive... the Koreans from my experience will at least try to give you benefit of doubt. If my sister were to bring home a black boy or hispanic boy... that man would really have to prove himself to my mom specifically. Unless he a MD or some big company CEO.
If this would have been a video of korean girls telling their parents they were dating a black man the video would be 30 seconds long because their parents would have just immediately hung up and blocked their number.
so im guessing when Koreans hear “American” they think of white skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes? 😂 Americans come in all shades of skin, hair, and eye color.
Because its the common representation of Americans because of Hollywood and things like that. Also, most foreign Americans they met might have been white
I am the white 6ft blonde American guy and dated Korean girls back in the 80's. Not sure how their parents felt about it. I do know one girl her mom ran a restaurant and she loved me and encouraged me to ask her daughter out.
As a white man who married a Korean girl and has 2 daughters ... don't do this to your poor parents. I just felt so much empathy for the mom who wanted to bring a gun. Life is hard so don't shock your parents unless it's real.
Korea dweller here. Someone I know introduced her boyfriend (British) to her Korean family and the mother cried. She ended up marrying a doctor a few weeks later, she is unhappy and she wants to divorce before they have kids. Interesting.
I was on the other side of this, I was an American in the army in Korea and started dating a Korean woman that was going to school in Taegu (Daegu). Mom was ok with it, dad was ok with it, the older brother that was going to school in Seoul was not ok with it, that was that end of the relationship.
@@powbobs perhaps in some countries but America is very diverse. Asian Americans African American native American hispance American Middle Eastern American. I can go on for a long time lol.
@@hihai_TV I know what America is like. I live here. You don’t seem to understand my comment. We’re not talking about reality here, we’re talking about how many Asian countries envision Americans. Just as Americans often imagine all Japanese girls to be beautiful / cute and subservient. Reality has nothing to do with it.
That guy in the white shirt 0:59 told that the last time he spoke to his mom was last year😳 I mean I don't really speak to my parents often but not this long
This really shows the difference in cultures like in the PH from what my mom said cause I grew up in CA that if people had a foreign partner they were praised and shit but my mom raised me different to basics treat everyone the same and that she could careless of who I date as long as the girl loves me and respect her and my dad she will accept her open arms
the first time i told my mother i had a girlfriend, the first thing she said was "you better be practicing safe sex" then she said, as long as i'm happy, she's happy, but in her mind, nobody would ever be good enough for me.
This is is a good example of why the US shares military secrets with Australia and not South Korea. The Korean reporter who asked that should watch this video.
A large portion of the comment section seems to find it awkward, surprising or even annoying that by "American" they mean a white person. I think this happens for two reasons. First reason is obviously because white people are the majority in America, plus the parents are older and when they were young, white people were an even larger majority. As a second reason, i estimate that it is so because if they dated a black American, they would have specified it. They would have most likely said "I am dating a black person" or "i am dating a black American". This is what happens in racially homogenous countries.
Yepp..even as a Singaporean that has so may races in one tiny country? There's still that impression that people in America,Britain ,Australia are Caucasians. This is extremely prevalent and there is even a phrase'Ang Moh' literally translating to red person kind of in hokkien . Even when I know that there are other race, I do not think of say, an Asian American when. I think of America. So yea.. i get it
I see that it was not your intention but it is a bit misleading when you say "white people are the majority in America" since white people make just a bit more than 50% of America. Probably it would be more clear if you said "white people are the majority in USA". What you said is true, here where I live people would rarely specify anything at first, they would only say "I'm dating someone", because it is expected that anyone here is descendant of a mix of ethnicities
For the grandma. I don’t think she’s opposed because it’s a foreigner, it’s because of what she said about going to the army. Korean men have to do this mandatory military enlistment so it could be because him being busy and not being to communicate much for 18 months could heavily affect the relationship and also their foreign lover wouldn’t understand because of cultural difference.
Since i first heard that it was common in Korea to only bring ones girlfriend/boyfriend to introduce to the parents once you're thinking about marriage my brain has adjusted to thinking like that everytime I hear about Koreans (specifically) bringing someone to meet their parents. So in this video especially when they tell their parents that they are thinking of bringing their 'American partner' to come visit, i chuckled.
I’m Mexican American :) if I told my mom I was dating a Korean guy idk how she’d respond😭 She always telling me to get with a Mexican guy but I’m sure she’ll be okay with it :) as long as he’s respectful and Nice :)
I'm a Tejano and I don't know what type of girl I should choose. Latinas feel close to home and warm, east asians seem polite and introverted, whites are the most common racial group in the US. Ah, I don't which type to choose from.
As a non-Caucasian American I was expecting this to go very differently. I've visited Korea a few times and have experienced a coldness in people that my Caucasian friends didn't feel, felt watched/gawked at, and was regularly singled out especially since it seemed completely normal to use my skin color (black) as a prefix in talking about me. I would definitely be interested in seeing what parents would say about non-Caucasian Americans.
The next video is telling their parents that they are gay. The video after that should be that they are dating a gay American...and then just sit back and wait for the parents to put it together!
It shouldn't be so strange to them in this case.During the Korean conflict,a lot of babies were born out of relationships between American GI's and Koreans.It's quite possible that your parents are those people.
Blonde hair and ,ight eyes are less than 2% of population. Very much worth preserving them and it’s quite beautiful no matter the bs on them being a majority…,far from it.
A lot of people have asked what would happen if they specified that their partner was of another race, and while there are a few who would be open. I wonder what would also happen if they talked about marrying that foreigner because some korean parents say they are open to them DATING foreigners of another race but MARRYING them, No way! They switch up real fast.
Her: I got a boyfriend, I'll bring him home this weekend
Mom: I'll bring a gun
( Asian parents got no chill) 😂😂
Hell, my dad did this to my sister's first boyfriend when I was home from college. His first night at our house to see my sister and dad walks through with my shotgun. Scared him so bad he almost left and I am outside laughing. American family here.
😂😂
@@peackpr9 damn😂😂
Honestly, if this had to do with a Latin family, every member would have a gun and then some if someone had a significant other lmao. No chill anywhere 🤭
@@peackpr9 My grandfather decided to "clean" his rifle the day my sister's boyfriend first came to visit. He had never even seen a gun before outside a cop's belt... Afterwards we all passed around the gun, I gave it to him and I have never seen someone hold something with that strength, he wouldn't give it back to me!
“It’s okay if you can communicate with him
I guess they are into little girls”
Lmao her mom is too much. Reminds me of my own mom that would congratulate me and roast me at the same time.
I legit got cramps from laughing so hard OML
😂😂
Poor Chacha.
Exactly like my mom 🤣 When I first got bf, she was like "Awesome. Congratulations Let me meet him because I wanna see why do he like a fat girl like you." 🤦♀️ But I'm not even fat 🤣🤣🤣
@@morbidgirl6808 My mum would always say to like friends or family, "oh hes with his gf, shes really pretty!" which is a nice thing to say but she said it with such surprise, like she expected to be repulsed by the girls that would actually agree to date me lol. its like a backhanded compliment! Didn't know whether to be pleased she approves or offended.
This was interesting! ChaCha’s mom was cool. And Austin’s mom seemed open, but what if his “girlfriend” has dark skin or dark eyes & hair? The reaction from the guy’s grandma is what I expecting from all the parents.
If they are Korean-Americans they might be more open. My parents wouldn't mind if my gf was black.
They would think of her as dirty and from a poor country, at least in rural areas. Koreans are very blunt and would mask it with jokes, my father side used to tell my mom she “stayed in the sun for too long” she was legit pale but they said it bc she was Chinese. There’s definitely slight biases compared to Caucasian’s
@@kyitty oof :(
@@sangwoohan1177 I always thought Koreans are bias to black even tho my favorite boy band is Korean @bts
i think most of the world, when they think of an american, they think of white people 1st because they are/were the majority of the population. i dont think that big of a deal for foreigners to do that since theyre only exposed to the media we project out, which unfortunately is very white.
my mom would hate this prank, but only because she'd be so disappointed i don't actually have a boyfriend lol
Same LOL
@@morbidgirl6808 We have to KNOW how you guys met ;-P
Same here😂
@@morbidgirl6808 Aww das cute :> congrats!
SAME
As a Korean American in her 20's, this is basically what I expected lol. Somewhat open middle aged parents, mixed opinions colored by the age of the family member. Parroting another comment, I do wonder what the responses would have been if everyone had brought up non-caucasian Americans as their partners?
It would be bad, for some reason majority of Asian Parents or Asians in general think it’s bad if you don’t date Caucasian or Asian… you have to pick one of the two. Hopefully one day our people will break out that loop but as it is now it’s impossible
@@CalamariTasteGood There’s a high probability it wouldn’t go over well in White American families either. So, no different for Asians living in Asian. Although I think it’s wrong, but it’s reality.
@@AncientSpirit. Koreans don’t worship white people, they worship their skin color which is attainable for other Koreans, it’s not about being Caucasian. It’s skin color. They think blondes are easy and have bad reputation in rural areas. 😐
I'm very interested at the reactions if it were brown and black people 🤔
@@kyitty yes but the do idolize white features which are very desirable to them especially if those feature can be passed down to their kids, they love wasians
it’s always so interesting when non-Americans assume “American” means blonde and blue eyed, but maybe it’s because they’re older...? i guess over time the world will realize “American” could mean any race and color. but cool video!! their parents seem very cute hahah
3:06 I imagine that's why he said it's different from what he thinks!
People do the same with Asian decent confusing Chinese, Korean, and Japanese people. I think it’s a distance and assumption that’s formed over the years. It’s very diverse so they assume that due to media, language, etc.
@@sabi06 very true, thank God now with the internet we get to learn more.. 🙌🏼
Yeah. Could be Korean American. A homogeneous country just has an ethnocentric viewpoint maybe?
@A Sprocket What? Lol. Who’s crying at racism? Lots of these Korean videos with American foreigners, they presume them to be white with blonde hair and blue eyes (brown hair and brown eyes is the most common btw). When someone from the UK thinks of Americans, it’s usually more diverse. That’s the difference of western media vs eastern. It’s the same as westerners thinking Asia only refers to China, Korea, or Japan. You seem triggered 😂.
The next part is gonna be JUICYYYY
Yesss it is
more like homophobic
It is I’m excited
I'm already cringing in anticipation
Suicide watch.
I’m American (Mexican family) and I could date a Korean and I feel that my family wouldn’t care . They would be excited to show you our culture and welcome you with open arms. That’s why is quite surprising when I see people from foreign countries sometimes reject the idea of having a foreigner in their family.
It's about preserving culture and racial purity
@@charlievetta1385 What i'm saying is in a lot of countries wanting to preserve culture and not mix is a big thing and i can respect that. Some people just want to fulfill their fantasies of having a mixed child.
@@charlievetta1385 It is disturbing. Very Nazi-style.
They're from ethnically homogenous societies thousands of years old, where their national identity is tied to their ethnic group. These countries are often ferociously conservative.
They're not primed to accept anyone outside of their local culture, let alone outside their own country. That's why I have 0 expectations for fairness or understanding for those countries regarding racism. Their homogeneity means, in their eyes, they don't need to give a fuck
@@RicochetForce ehhh maybe that's true. Sensing some bias here tho lol
The boy with his grandmother made me a little sad ... I suppose that because he comes from a different generation it will make it more difficult for him to accept a foreigner in the family, but I hope the boy gets his ideal girl and that the grandmother is happy for him.
From what I understood she was opposed cause he was going to the army correct? Not really cause of where the person was from which is sorta understandable
If you’re white and Christian in the U. S. and you tell them you’re dating a brown Democrat things are not gonna go well either.
Heck you could even leave out the brown part.
@@powbobs lol where you responding to my post? Also yes lol I agree. I guess my question was she said she didn't agree but not because the person was foreign but because he was going into the services? Does dating a foreigner jeopardize the chances of joining the army/armed services? I truly don't know, asking out of curiosity...
@@walternolasco9052
Sorry, wrong post.
I was responding to someone who acted as if Korea was the only place where having your child date someone different oils elicit a negative reaction.
@@walternolasco9052
Yeah. That was weird. I think maybe she was just making an excuse for her negative reaction.
She’s a grandma though and racism is pretty prevalent in the older generations.
It was normal when they were younger.
Ah it hurt my heart to see the opposition to the relationship, even if it was fake. My husband is Korean and at first I was worried that possibly they wouldn’t be accepting of us. But they absolutely love our relationship and they love me to pieces and I love them. I’m so grateful for them and I’m glad they don’t think like that, my husband is my world and I couldn’t imagine being without him. I hope over time all of Korea is a bit more open minded to these things
The perfect one-world, one race government mindset. Congratulations.
Awww their parents are so fricking cute
been waiting for this and now I'm excited for the next episode!!!
not her mom saying Americans are into little girls 😭
Wait ... they are not ? 😭😭
I mean have you seen our politicians
Kinda true American men when they list the things they like about a female it gives the same as what a child has
@@msilas4507 Someone has never been to E / SE Asia.
an appropriate drag 😂
Lol this was great. I’m 30 and korean American. My first boyfriend at 18 was an American guy and my mom had such a held back and unsure opinion. 12 years later he and I are happily married, have two amazing girls, and my mom now calls him son and loves him so much 🥰
And did this happen in Korea or in America? There are so few minorities in Asia that the 99.99% of the homogenous population don't want to change their perceptions and habits to "cater" to a foreigner. But if this is in a Western country where Asians feels the need to adapt and sometimes abandon their Asian culture for Western values, especially for the generation that was born in the West and has no idea what living in Asia is like, the acceptance comes much quicker and easier. It's all about integrating to the dominant culture and upbringing.
@@sigerlion8608 acceptance os easier even in Asia if their daughter is dating a white guy that's White obsession on Asian people specially in China Korea and japan
@@hemanshuchudasama3535 China's definitely not obsessed with White people. White skin yes, but the Chinese white skin look not European white skin. I can't speak for Korea or Japan. With a population of 1.4 billion, of course there will be a small percentage of women large enough in China interested in foreigners. Even 0.05 percent of Chinese women would be enough for the number of foreign men there. But that doesn't equate to a lot of women in China wants a foreign boyfriend. Once again, I can't speak for Korea or Japan since their cultures are vastly different.
@@sigerlion8608 no man it's not foreign they're interested in Western guys or white guy to be precise
So weird, in my country I can't imagine family being against someone dating a foreigner. I think most people would see it as a good thing unless they couldn't communicate well
It's cultural difference.
That's sad you should want to stick to your own
@@noo343 um are u talking to me?
@@noo343wtf are you saying lol?
Would've loved to see how they'd react if they said they were dating an Indian or black person.
Me too 😂😂
@thickock45 Right? Gtfo with that nonsense 💀💀💀 eewwwwwwwww
Very interesting to be able to take a part in.
I can not believe you guys are single... Being celebrities and all that *jazz* Get out there!
And Chacha is so adorable.
@@powbobs For sure.
The fact that all parents are not like their's who understand their children hurts me. Some parents don't even respect their children privacy.
The next video seems really intense
Well, this explains a lot. My father met my mother when he was stationed in Korea, married her and they moved to the US. The hatred towards Americans explains why my mother's side of the family doesn't want anything to do with us.☹️ I always wanted to visit South Korea and meet with the rest of my family over there, but I guess that'll never happen
i am so sorry to hear that i hope one day they and you can meet :)
Awww! I want to meet Cha Cha’s mom! She was super cute! 🥰❤️✨ I feel bad for the guy with the grandma 👵🏻😔, but I guess older generations are harder to accept foreigners in the family since they follow customs more strongly.
I just hope everyone will have a boyfriend/girlfriend soon, y’all so cute and deserve to be loved bunches! 🥰❤️❤️❤️✨Coming from a single for 5 yrs now…fighting! 🥺💪🏻🤨🙌🏻😁
I honestly feel kinda bad for my brothers wife’s grandpa. He had 2 sons, and both of them moved to America, married Americans. He attended the wedding, but had no one to speak Japanese with, besides his sons, that were busy for the most part.
Nothing like trollin’ the fam.
I’ve been waiting patiently for this 😌🙂
The next video thooo. I'm already on the edge of my seat lol
OSSC is next level!!
'My parents play cool in front of other, but I don't know how cool they are in reality'
This. 🤣🤣
I love how that one mom caught onto the lie from the beginning.
:P Austin's mom sounds so cute, and so does Cha Cha's. But sounds like the Austin's parents know what he likes lol
I do remember seeing another Korean guy afraid to bring his black American girlfriend to meet his parents and his parents took her in when he went away two weeks later, and he was so surprised they were that open minded.
0:27 « language barrier » she can be American but speaking korean haha
It’s a really difficult situation.
My thought was why would you date someone who wasn't at least proficient in your language if your feel like you're not gonna be proficient in theirs lol
So interesting to see other cultures. Mexican American parents need to be called constantly to be told " Im ok and I love you" if not they think you're in trouble.
my mom would watch my facebook, if i didn't post anything for a week, she'd call to make sure i was ok (that was actually WHY i posted most of the time).. most of that time, i was actually taking care of not just myself, but a girlfriend and her 3 kids. so, yeah, i guess you'd say living an adult life. she's (mostly) native american.
Austin's mom's voice sounds so comforting.
I just know the next video is going to be BRUTAL
Really excited for the next video. The content on this channel just gets better and better.
Chacha single for 3 years! Cmon korean guys she is a catch! I'd swim from the US and walk threw fire just to get a CHANCE to talk to her.
and get rejected because girls don't like simps
When I was young, I also thought that all Americans are white with blonde hair and blue eyes. But as I got older, I learned that was not the case.
The first time i saw Americans with brown skin is when i saw a basketball game in 2004
If only it were.....😔
I’m glad the parents didn’t say something like , Is good for the experience 🧐 because I have watch Many RUclips channels, where Koreans are ask if they will date a foreigner. They say yes, “ I will like to have that experience,” as if dating someone from a different nationality/ ethnic background is something to brag about and put on your resume….
it is something to brag about and is a unique experience. Besides USA, Canada, and UK, every other country is majority one race with no diversity. Most of them will never meet in person someone different than them
kinda like all these koreaboos want a koreaN boyfriend or girlfriend
@@Pyramanager countries in latin america are really diverse, especially here in Brazil
Since in Korea 99% of the population is Korean, dating someone from a different ethnicity is very rare. It makes people want to brag about it because it's a unique thing they have going. Basically standing out from the others around them.
It's like having these new brand shoes only a few rich people could get but everyone wants them. Yes, it sounds a little weird but that's how it is in homogenous countries.
Believe it or not, that's what most guys and (women) from homogeneous countries says... It's not unique to Koreans...
Uh oh.... the trailer for part 2 got me even more interested! These are great 😂
Me: "Mom I have a boyfriend"
Mom: "*sigh~* you can finally leave my house" or " Is he short sighted?"
Chacha’s personality seems🥰
A study was done a few years ago in South Korea. Koreans were asked who they would prefer as a neighbor if it could not be another Korean. Overwhelmingly they chose white Europeans or North Americans. What's interesting is that they preferred those two groups even over having a neighbor that was Asian, but not Korean. The group they said they would least prefer as a neighbor were blacks from any country.
I don’t see how any of the Korean girls are single their so cute
The Korean birth rate is so low because of the big factors is that so many young people are single.
@@juliaj7939 honestly I think that’s how it is how n most of Asia right now and somewhat in the USA
@@quentinmims9400 and when there’s advancements in medical science, birth rates drop
This channel is getting crazier by the next video
“Which means I’m the best mother” Um, until that comment, yes
"They like small girls" HAHAHAHAHAA that shit is funny !!!!
No it's weird...
Chacha get's her cool personality from her folks!
"I'll bring a gun"
Me, an American: *likewise*
See, she's already fitting in!
Me: Mom, I’ve got a girlfriend, she is American
Mom: Oh really? Thank god, you’re gonna leave this country soon 🤣🤣🤣
0:59 when was this filmed..? we're nearing 2022
I need more of Chacha’s laugh in my life!
🤣🤣🤣Chacha's mum sent me.She is 😍😍
Chacha’s mom was the best, very funny 😂😂😂
South asian- most of us can't even tell our parents that we are in relationship 😂....
I'm sure there are a lot of American guys (not me; too old) that would volunteer to be ChaCha's boyfriend so she wouldn't have to disappoint her mom.
This is great. Korean people are so kind and understanding. I think South Korea and the US are like one. All Americans I know have Korean friends and Love Korea and everyone loves Korean dramas and most people love historical shows such as Jumong.
Depends on which generation. Older generations are much more conservative and have more closed-minded views that aren’t really accepting of new ideas or beliefs. On the other hand, middle and younger generations are much more accepting of new views and ideas, such as Korean girls have foreigner boyfriends, and vice versa for Korean boys with foreigner girls, and even more accepting view of LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️⚧, despite the Korean government being pretty shitty towards homosexuals and same-sex love rights in general. I hope that as time goes on, the old, conservative members of the Korean government can be replaced with more accepting, youthful, and love-giving people who will allow for better treatment of LGBTQIA+ citizens, ban discrimination against LGBTQIA+ 🏳️🌈, legalize same-sex marriage in the country, and overall make Korean society better.
@@rainstories666, I agree. In America most older people now are pretty open to freedom. Its changing fast and my hope is America and South Korea can continue to build a healthy and happy relationship based on the idea of common freedoms! Of course there will always be differences and it takes awhile to accept new freedoms but thats what makes both countries great!
@@rainstories666 I'm sorry but you're wrong. not only older generation, but also young folks in Korea generally have such a negative stance against LGBTQ+ or dating with foreigners. in my school time people who were outed had to get bullied, or immediately move to other school so they can hide that they're LGBTQ+. trans people here have 0 chance to get any proper job, so often they choose to sell their body to make a living. we're the least opened people in Asia. even in Muslim countries they are more open-minded and they accept, tolerate more. I didn't want to be mean but reality here is a lot different with your explanation.
Man, that guy who didn’t call his parents since last year… if they treated him well and he loves them, he should call and visit more.
It is good to see light hearted and funny video. Thank you for the laughs.
the mom said 'I guess he likes little girls' ...roasted hahahahaha
That grandma - 듣.고.있.다. - gets me every time! 🤣
This had me dying, why was the one girl's mom so brutal lol off the bat she said I know your lying Ahhahaha
Wonder what the call will sound like if they said they are dating black girl or guy
The next part is gonna give me anxiety..I know it’s likely that the parents aren’t going to be open-minded (since they’re older) but I hope they understand, even if it’s just a prank
Single Korean Child: "Mom, I'm dating an American"
Korean Mom: "You're ruining your life"
Single American Child: "Mom, I'm dating a Korean"
American Mom: "Finally you're dating. When am I going to have grandkids?"
Born in S Korea in 1994, migrated to US 2000. Grew up in Cali basically my whole life. I have a Hispanic/Russian wife. Parents were very accepting of my wife simply(only son). My mom was very accepting initially because of how beautiful/pretty my wife is. That gave my mom ammunition to brag with her friends. "My son's wife is not korean, but she is very beautiful" As long as you are physically attractive... the Koreans from my experience will at least try to give you benefit of doubt.
If my sister were to bring home a black boy or hispanic boy... that man would really have to prove himself to my mom specifically. Unless he a MD or some big company CEO.
If this would have been a video of korean girls telling their parents they were dating a black man the video would be 30 seconds long because their parents would have just immediately hung up and blocked their number.
다음화도 기대되네요 ㅎㅎ 잘봣어유
im HERE for this
so im guessing when Koreans hear “American” they think of white skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes? 😂 Americans come in all shades of skin, hair, and eye color.
They’re thinking of the most beautiful
@@hah3456 what do you mean by white skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes are the most beautiful????? what a racist comment
@@hah3456 they’re thinking of the most basic and annoying, actually
Because its the common representation of Americans because of Hollywood and things like that. Also, most foreign Americans they met might have been white
@@alexw9879 but why the most beautiful? Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, just like people. Now he is trying to the white supremacy up again?
chacha is adorable protect her at all cost
yooo i'm really looking foward to the next part lmfao
Cha Cha has a hilarious mother.
Its just tough when cultures collide. Somethings might be ok in one and bad in the other. I've seen many mix marriages end because of that
차차 너무 귀여워요옹😭💞
I am the white 6ft blonde American guy and dated Korean girls back in the 80's. Not sure how their parents felt about it. I do know one girl her mom ran a restaurant and she loved me and encouraged me to ask her daughter out.
The girl in the navy blue outfit was really cute.
As a white man who married a Korean girl and has 2 daughters ... don't do this to your poor parents. I just felt so much empathy for the mom who wanted to bring a gun. Life is hard so don't shock your parents unless it's real.
Korea dweller here. Someone I know introduced her boyfriend (British) to her Korean family and the mother cried. She ended up marrying a doctor a few weeks later, she is unhappy and she wants to divorce before they have kids. Interesting.
I was on the other side of this, I was an American in the army in Korea and started dating a Korean woman that was going to school in Taegu (Daegu). Mom was ok with it, dad was ok with it, the older brother that was going to school in Seoul was not ok with it, that was that end of the relationship.
I love y’all 💜💜
American bf or gf could mean alot of things lol.
Asians tend to think of Americans as blond and blue eyed.
@@powbobs perhaps in some countries but America is very diverse. Asian Americans African American native American hispance American Middle Eastern American. I can go on for a long time lol.
@@hihai_TV
I know what America is like.
I live here.
You don’t seem to understand my comment.
We’re not talking about reality here, we’re talking about how many Asian countries envision Americans.
Just as Americans often imagine all Japanese girls to be beautiful / cute and subservient.
Reality has nothing to do with it.
@@powbobs ah I see, good point.
@@powbobs spot on observation! 👍🏻
That guy in the white shirt 0:59 told that the last time he spoke to his mom was last year😳 I mean I don't really speak to my parents often but not this long
Do one where u tell the parents he or she is black…keep the whole video honest no edits
2:57 - 3:07 “White with blonde hair and blue eyes”! Interesting how that’s the image foreigners always think of when referencing Americans.
Judy is so cute....! Judy's mom is so cool... I like her.....💕
This really shows the difference in cultures like in the PH from what my mom said cause I grew up in CA that if people had a foreign partner they were praised and shit but my mom raised me different to basics treat everyone the same and that she could careless of who I date as long as the girl loves me and respect her and my dad she will accept her open arms
what country is CA ?
@@Karkarbroom pretty CA stands for California
pretty sure*
@@miumoments yep
the first time i told my mother i had a girlfriend, the first thing she said was "you better be practicing safe sex" then she said, as long as i'm happy, she's happy, but in her mind, nobody would ever be good enough for me.
When I was 16, my mother told me " You better get me some grandkids"
I said " Mom, I'm 16!"
I'm guessing they edited out some of the more extreme responses.
This is is a good example of why the US shares military secrets with Australia and not South Korea. The Korean reporter who asked that should watch this video.
"They are into little girls" fkn lol!
A large portion of the comment section seems to find it awkward, surprising or even annoying that by "American" they mean a white person. I think this happens for two reasons. First reason is obviously because white people are the majority in America, plus the parents are older and when they were young, white people were an even larger majority. As a second reason, i estimate that it is so because if they dated a black American, they would have specified it. They would have most likely said "I am dating a black person" or "i am dating a black American". This is what happens in racially homogenous countries.
Yepp..even as a Singaporean that has so may races in one tiny country? There's still that impression that people in America,Britain ,Australia are Caucasians. This is extremely prevalent and there is even a phrase'Ang Moh' literally translating to red person kind of in hokkien . Even when I know that there are other race, I do not think of say, an Asian American when. I think of America. So yea.. i get it
I see that it was not your intention but it is a bit misleading when you say "white people are the majority in America" since white people make just a bit more than 50% of America.
Probably it would be more clear if you said "white people are the majority in USA".
What you said is true, here where I live people would rarely specify anything at first, they would only say "I'm dating someone", because it is expected that anyone here is descendant of a mix of ethnicities
For the grandma. I don’t think she’s opposed because it’s a foreigner, it’s because of what she said about going to the army. Korean men have to do this mandatory military enlistment so it could be because him being busy and not being to communicate much for 18 months could heavily affect the relationship and also their foreign lover wouldn’t understand because of cultural difference.
Since i first heard that it was common in Korea to only bring ones girlfriend/boyfriend to introduce to the parents once you're thinking about marriage my brain has adjusted to thinking like that everytime I hear about Koreans (specifically) bringing someone to meet their parents.
So in this video especially when they tell their parents that they are thinking of bringing their 'American partner' to come visit, i chuckled.
That burburry polo shirt flashed my eyes
I’m Mexican American :) if I told my mom I was dating a Korean guy idk how she’d respond😭 She always telling me to get with a Mexican guy but I’m sure she’ll be okay with it :) as long as he’s respectful and Nice :)
I'm a Tejano and I don't know what type of girl I should choose. Latinas feel close to home and warm, east asians seem polite and introverted, whites are the most common racial group in the US. Ah, I don't which type to choose from.
chacha: i've been single for 3 years
me: *says hey louder than everyone*
As a non-Caucasian American I was expecting this to go very differently. I've visited Korea a few times and have experienced a coldness in people that my Caucasian friends didn't feel, felt watched/gawked at, and was regularly singled out especially since it seemed completely normal to use my skin color (black) as a prefix in talking about me. I would definitely be interested in seeing what parents would say about non-Caucasian Americans.
They would rightfully disown them 💀
@@lobsterjohnson8642 Rightfully?
@@lobsterjohnson8642 what about Asian American?
The next video is telling their parents that they are gay. The video after that should be that they are dating a gay American...and then just sit back and wait for the parents to put it together!
It shouldn't be so strange to them in this case.During the Korean conflict,a lot of babies were born out of relationships between American GI's and Koreans.It's quite possible that your parents are those people.
That is where my Korean cousins come from.
I don't think dating an "American" is necessarily something that should be bragged about or put on a pedestal that's just my opinion.
Well, they're a homogeneous country and their views of america are different 🤷♀️
@@winniethepooh8353 a lot of places are homogeneous and it's just not Korea who brags they date Americans
We all have them.
That one’s yours.
@@ToBeDetermined553
Americans are usually seen as rich by other nations.
It’s good to marry rich.
It’s not really surprising.
They're not, I think they're just seeing how their parents would react
I will happily end ChaChas 3 year streak of being single lol
Blonde hair and ,ight eyes are less than 2% of population. Very much worth preserving them and it’s quite beautiful no matter the bs on them being a majority…,far from it.
A lot of people have asked what would happen if they specified that their partner was of another race, and while there are a few who would be open. I wonder what would also happen if they talked about marrying that foreigner because some korean parents say they are open to them DATING foreigners of another race but MARRYING them, No way! They switch up real fast.
Unless their white come on now lol