The guy and lady both came across as immature and material based. A top tier spouse is a person submitted to God, walks in integrity and willing to serve one another
I honestly think people miss the point of top-tier top-tier is not being tall, black and making a lot of money. Top-tier is having good character like she said leading with love like she said, supporting the dreams and the ideas of the person that you’re with like she said- creating a life for y’all together that’s the only thing that I would say she missed. It’s not about just him working to build a life of “HER” dreams, but also both of theirs , but a top-tier man…you can make a lot of money but be complete trash inside. He said this is what women are attracted to. What he listed is not what makes a man top-tier it’s what makes him attractive to SOME women.
I don't know that they miss they point. I think people live out their values and if you value superficial things, then you assess yourself and others by that.
Let's be cautious on how we interpret what she said. she never said a man with a bunch of money. She focused on character traits. Height means nothing. Just like weight should mean nothing, but people do get stagnated by their aesthetic preferences.
i think at times people can get bent on finding a mate, instead of being the person God wants 'em to be. i remember reading something like, "seek first the kingdom and His righteousness, and He will add everything else."(matt.6.33/luk.12.31) stop trying to be the man or woman of someone elses dreams and try to be the person God predestined you to be, He has a plan purpose and dream in His heart for you(jer.29.11/prov.14.12/16.25) ...merry christmas all God loves you more than any person in this world can.
It is disheartening out here. The last man that hit on me was a married man with a nice gold band on this ring finger. If he won’t respect the vowels he made to his wife before God and man, I will. I respectfully declined and prayed for him and his wife who ever she is.
Im thankful the men addressed the hypocrisy in Shania (it sounds like it’s spelled that way). She is not gonna date a 5’3 man yet she’s an advocate for dating short kings? The fellas are right. Those same qualifiers that so many low quality women in the world are spouting from the mountain tops, a lot of women in the church are saying the same thing. Bruh in the purple was speaking facts. It is the reality. This is another reason why so many men have left the church because of women who portray themselves like Shania, and have the same hypocritical views she has on this topic.
That's hiw a lot of men think. They claim not to want to be desired for their money, but he lead with his money & looks. He mentioned NOTHING about his morals, character or fruit. As a believer, I'm DISGUSTED by what I'm seeing in the dating world. Kima just stay single, celibate & close to the Lord and wait on God for who He sends me.
I think that a lot of women should be held more responsible for their part when they are wrong instead of it being more of the man's fault when he's in the right about something or some things but the goal post constantly gets moved when he checks off so many necessary things that are required of him. In other words, not always but often times it just looks like he's wrong when he's not wrong only because a lot of women move the goal post of standards for a man so much.
I am confused by the first response to the video clip (guy in purple shirt sorry I don't remember everyone's name yet) but I am confused b/c she said she described a man with money but she did not mention money. The guy she was talking to mentioned money.
One simple example of what I mean; If a man is stern and straight forward about letting a woman know something, she might act like he's toxic with his masculinity but she'll steady want him to be stern about certain things. But if she goes to being ticked off about something and yelling or just being aggressive she'll feel like there's nothing toxic disrespectful about her tone of voice. She's going to act like she's right and her tone doesn't matter because it's only about what's being said. But let a man only be stern and straight forward, now it's toxic masculinity.
It's funny how men and women have these "list" of character traits for a spouse in areas in which they don't possess within themselves. It totally diminishes the concept of having a "helpmate." If Adam, who was the first man in human history, wasn't all those things characteristically, evident by him not turning a serpent into a bible study and changing the course of history, why are Christian woman missing the obvious reason as to why God created Eve (woman) from the beginning. She was created to be a "helpmate" and Adam is created to be a leader, with the understanding that he alone can't do this by himself without "help" from God and "Eve."
I funny how quick the lady said “that’s the flesh” when he say it dudes be like don’t care cause she thick, But she don’t feel that way about he got to be tall…
Neither of them glorified the Lord so they both missed the mark. She made us look selfish by emphasizing everything is about pleasing us 🥴🤣 but I agree with most of her points however it’s give AND take. I disagree 100% with him tho. He be off key every single time I swear 😂
WHY DO MEN ACT LIKE THEY WANT TO DATE WOMEN WHO ARE TALLER THAN THEM?!? What's up with this theoretical questioning? She should have asked him if he ever dated a woman who was 3" taller. Most women will date any man taller than them and most men won't date any women taller than them, period. 😂
I find it funny how in the beginning the man's words were laughed at and denied by our sister but just asking her simple questions based on what was sed she had to realize that he wasn't lying. Most brothers know that if you have those traits women run u down, church or no church. It is what it is. Men will always aspire to do what they see winning and having those traits that the woman sed don't get u points, until after those money and height trait men have had their fun with them. It is what it is. Now in the end we shud aim to do it God's ways and look for Godly traits.
The guy and lady both came across as immature and material based. A top tier spouse is a person submitted to God, walks in integrity and willing to serve one another
Amen
I honestly think people miss the point of top-tier top-tier is not being tall, black and making a lot of money. Top-tier is having good character like she said leading with love like she said, supporting the dreams and the ideas of the person that you’re with like she said- creating a life for y’all together that’s the only thing that I would say she missed. It’s not about just him working to build a life of “HER” dreams, but also both of theirs , but a top-tier man…you can make a lot of money but be complete trash inside. He said this is what women are attracted to. What he listed is not what makes a man top-tier it’s what makes him attractive to SOME women.
I don't know that they miss they point. I think people live out their values and if you value superficial things, then you assess yourself and others by that.
As a Daughter of Yaweh…… I want who He wants for me. He knows what I need.
I tried my way, and though lessons were learned, I chose wrong every time.
Let's be cautious on how we interpret what she said. she never said a man with a bunch of money. She focused on character traits.
Height means nothing. Just like weight should mean nothing, but people do get stagnated by their aesthetic preferences.
i think at times people can get bent on finding a mate, instead of being the person God wants 'em to be.
i remember reading something like, "seek first the kingdom and His righteousness, and He will add everything else."(matt.6.33/luk.12.31)
stop trying to be the man or woman of someone elses dreams and try to be the person God predestined you to be, He has a plan purpose and dream in His heart for you(jer.29.11/prov.14.12/16.25)
...merry christmas all
God loves you more than any person in this world can.
It is disheartening out here. The last man that hit on me was a married man with a nice gold band on this ring finger. If he won’t respect the vowels he made to his wife before God and man, I will. I respectfully declined and prayed for him and his wife who ever she is.
I didn't hear anything materialistic from her. She mentioned character backed actions.
I really appreciate this podcast
We must understand that men and women are not the same! What’s important to one gender is not necessarily important to the other!!!
A top tier man is a Man Of God… everything else falls in line when His faith is in tact. Sincerely, happily married woman of 17 years. 🙏🏾
Stop messing with my sister; she hangs out with some real ones.
Im thankful the men addressed the hypocrisy in Shania (it sounds like it’s spelled that way). She is not gonna date a 5’3 man yet she’s an advocate for dating short kings? The fellas are right. Those same qualifiers that so many low quality women in the world are spouting from the mountain tops, a lot of women in the church are saying the same thing. Bruh in the purple was speaking facts. It is the reality. This is another reason why so many men have left the church because of women who portray themselves like Shania, and have the same hypocritical views she has on this topic.
Men have to work towards intimacy and relationships and a marriage
That's hiw a lot of men think. They claim not to want to be desired for their money, but he lead with his money & looks. He mentioned NOTHING about his morals, character or fruit. As a believer, I'm DISGUSTED by what I'm seeing in the dating world. Kima just stay single, celibate & close to the Lord and wait on God for who He sends me.
Both of them are wrong lol
My Top Tier Husband “IS” 5’3”
I think that a lot of women should be held more responsible for their part when they are wrong instead of it being more of the man's fault when he's in the right about something or some things but the goal post constantly gets moved when he checks off so many necessary things that are required of him. In other words, not always but often times it just looks like he's wrong when he's not wrong only because a lot of women move the goal post of standards for a man so much.
Both are wrong both are prideful and she never said accountable to God which should be number 1
If that what one follows
I am confused by the first response to the video clip (guy in purple shirt sorry I don't remember everyone's name yet) but I am confused b/c she said she described a man with money but she did not mention money. The guy she was talking to mentioned money.
One simple example of what I mean; If a man is stern and straight forward about letting a woman know something, she might act like he's toxic with his masculinity but she'll steady want him to be stern about certain things. But if she goes to being ticked off about something and yelling or just being aggressive she'll feel like there's nothing toxic disrespectful about her tone of voice. She's going to act like she's right and her tone doesn't matter because it's only about what's being said. But let a man only be stern and straight forward, now it's toxic masculinity.
If he ain’t tithing he ain’t top tier 😂😂
It's funny how men and women have these "list" of character traits for a spouse in areas in which they don't possess within themselves. It totally diminishes the concept of having a "helpmate." If Adam, who was the first man in human history, wasn't all those things characteristically, evident by him not turning a serpent into a bible study and changing the course of history, why are Christian woman missing the obvious reason as to why God created Eve (woman) from the beginning. She was created to be a "helpmate" and Adam is created to be a leader, with the understanding that he alone can't do this by himself without "help" from God and "Eve."
Helpmeet.
I funny how quick the lady said “that’s the flesh” when he say it dudes be like don’t care cause she thick, But she don’t feel that way about he got to be tall…
4:04 she still worldly 🤷🏾♂️
07:03 Mic Drop
Neither of them glorified the Lord so they both missed the mark. She made us look selfish by emphasizing everything is about pleasing us 🥴🤣 but I agree with most of her points however it’s give AND take. I disagree 100% with him tho. He be off key every single time I swear 😂
Yall are talking about this topic in an unrealistic way.
WHY DO MEN ACT LIKE THEY WANT TO DATE WOMEN WHO ARE TALLER THAN THEM?!? What's up with this theoretical questioning? She should have asked him if he ever dated a woman who was 3" taller. Most women will date any man taller than them and most men won't date any women taller than them, period. 😂
Power
I’m 6’4 lol it’s hard to find a taller women
@@traptheology Then please let the short kings have this convo! It's not your fight. lol
@@BearingMySeoul Lol
The lady on here proved him in the video CORRECT. Her or the woman in the video just mad at how he said it!!
I find it funny how in the beginning the man's words were laughed at and denied by our sister but just asking her simple questions based on what was sed she had to realize that he wasn't lying.
Most brothers know that if you have those traits women run u down, church or no church. It is what it is. Men will always aspire to do what they see winning and having those traits that the woman sed don't get u points, until after those money and height trait men have had their fun with them. It is what it is.
Now in the end we shud aim to do it God's ways and look for Godly traits.