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Why People Are Choosing To Stay Single In Modern Times
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Dating for men in 2024 is a form of self harm.
Why not just date men than? They understand you more. Right?
WTF MAN
@@supinthiam5741sounds like you’re projecting
@@Sqeazii was a serious ?
@@supinthiam5741 he is speaking facts nothing here said was bashing women you are just sensitive and delusional
I don't chase anyone anymore. I already know the answer is no or that they will be a horrible person behind the fake smile. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.
I agree as well. The messed up part is instead of saying no respectfully. They shame you with disrespect after they say no to you.
Funny how they chase us now 😂😂
@@decaygrim8943they chasing us because they need us (our ability to think long term and providing resources)
You don't squeeze the juice anymore?
We have to realize we signed up for this earth game. We are free now start focusing on you. Its a blessing that they cant see our light ..
Learn to trade.
They're killing the magic of it all on purpose.
Life is mostly a disappointing nightmare from hell. Women will sleep around w tons of guys behind your back & smile in your face. It’s really sad, selfish, & they don’t have accountability, & they do not care about you. I’m not saying there’s not decent women left that don’t cheat but trust. Yes…trust
Society/state/devil have given women the green light to actively choose evil. They have made their choice. Period!
Those are called narcissists. No real woman would take her body to the dumpsters like that.
@@blkgranit333 *They have made their choice*
Absolutely correct.
Dating and single for 20yrs since 2010 all I've met is spiteful assholes that either do whatever they want and lie or lash out like 1000 pitbulls 😂😂😂😂😂
@@blkgranit333you said it now that they supposedly have equality they act like total assholes yet treat pregnancy like walking across a road without looking
73, I'm not chasing anyone, being alone is great.
I'm 60 been divorced raped twice, I'm finally truly living a stress free life. I was more lonely being married. Now I'm alone but not lonely.
Judging by your pfp no one else is chasing you too lol😅
@@iamwhoiam7887she’s a 73 year old woman bro some things you just gotta learn to keep to yourself Homie
@@devdev7366 no woman is happy alone, they arent built that way, shes coping hard and nobody asked her anyway, chill
🤔@@pepesabe....alright now go back to minecraft 🤦♂️
31 single, Virgin, Happy, Fully satisfied with my life 😊
Kudos to you. That’s awesome.
@RoamingRomeo Yo congratulations bruh
You’re doing it right. You have saved yourself mentally. My hats off to you.
Good to know I'm not alone, it's more common than I thought.
Enjoy your Virginity men, you are born with it for a reason.
Turn cold, brother... IT'S TIME!! #ColdGang 🥶
Women prioritize pride over the integrity of the relationship
Alot of chicks are children for life
till about 65 or when all their sexual market value is depleted.
and all are renters for life
They’re literally immature little kids in there mid 20s. It’s wild
@@drewbruns2895 It is simple. We have removed women from responsibilities. Before feminism they had to cook, clean and look after children but now they ARE the children because to look after children you just grow up and become an adult. That's why they have stopped developing at high school level mentally.
Amish girls are very responsible and respectful😊
32,never had a girlfriend. im lucky 😊
You saved yourself a lot of problemen/ mindgames bro 💪👍
Trying to court modern women in 2024 is setting yourself up for failure
True. They say they want to romanced, but they think romance is giving their body to a hot guy who treats them poorly. It’s crazy how many women seem to think this way.
Some want to give their hearts to good men, but attraction is a must.
@@photographyenthusiast9941 Enjoy getting cheated on😂
@@tuinov6286 Wow, your good character is showing sir. Lol. Work on yourself buddy.
@@photographyenthusiast9941 No amount of self work will stop women from cheating.
You’re 100%, correct, women don’t want what they say they are looking for. I just watched this happen to a buddy of mine. An excellent dude, an attorney, jacked, very competent, disciplined, strong dude. The girl he was dating, broke it off for no reason.
Sounds like my last gf, together for 3.5 years then done for nothing really in particular.
No doubt an attorney is a catch, but I’ve conversed with enough single attorneys to know that many are jerks that also do not want to put in any amount of work. Just saying. 💁♀️
Secondly, if a man’s only requirement is sexual attraction, he cannot be upset that the outcome is not fruitful.
It's never for no reason. She just didn't tell him what it is. I'd bet money that another dude is involved. Even when these modern chicks have it good they're always seeking something else, doesn't matter what you bring or how good you treat them.
Just out of curiosity, what constitutes a woman having it "good" nowadays? Personally, I'm not impressed by a man's accolades and money. I'm interested in a man's character and whether or not he's safe enough to let my guard down and fully be in my feminine. I have serious difficulty trusting men who don't follow through with text messages, phone calls, being transparent and whose actions don't align with their words. My mind, "If I can't trust you to do the small things right, how can I possibly trust you with more?" I get that we're human, full of flaws, and bound to make mistakes, but can we come to the table, admit our faults, discuss and work through them like adults? A man who cannot do, what I consider very basic things, is a turn off for me, no matter how much money, status, or great his appearance is.
@@feliciaciappetta342 I think the emotional aspect is just too much for most men to comprehend. Men seem to think that if they have a job, are somewhat attractive, and can act like civil human beings that they deserve the sun, moon, and stars. It's a different time we're living in, and what I see is women delivering the sun/moon/stars to men who still cannot manage to even be faithful. And again, most of these guys aren't all that. A woman having it "good" seems to me to be a woman that isn't tied down to that utter disappointment. The theme I see over and over again with supposed good men that are purported to be the monogamous type, which often doesn't turn out to be true, is that they tend to lack the ability to gracefully engage with a woman, they often refuse to put in any real effort, and they make their endless options evident which is repulsive.
I dont blame you for your decision. Women out here having a field day and think we should take them back, feel bad for them, or follow their rules. It's really not hard being a good human being.
Instead of chasing a nasty 304, use all the power you have to find the true meaning of life(easier said than done).
If you cannot answer the question of why you woke today you have a lot of work to do.
This also includes me!
Great comment! Purpose!
Straight and to the point
They expect way too much for a first date too. It's not worth the investment.
Trust God. Jump & hold God’s hand. 🙏🏻😭💖🦋
Amazing video Terry and after watching this, I immediately remember my bad breakup with my last girlfriend so many years ago!!!
It end so bad I was living in darkness indeed and the end was a total nightmare I remember....
After that, I meet a girl one year later just to soon realize I was no more capable of Love.
Since then, I am single for about 11 years.
I turned cold unfortunately and it's not so fun at all I don't wish that even
to my worst enemies....
Life is harsh it is a fact!!!
And no one cares.
Just get a cool car a cool apt nice clothes and shoes set a financial goal and i promise women will be the last thing on your mind tho i cant promise the pain will go away be thankful you learned the lesson sooner than others and remember it could/couldve always been worse stay up bros and always stay focused on the next level
Literally this is happening for me rn. I got a new truck, good paying job with a decent future, just got me a 2bd 2bth apartment and still can afford to eat out every night without worrying about paying my bills. It’s painful knowing she’s not gonna get to enjoy these blessings with me… but it’s done and over with. Now it’s just me homie
@@brandonlewis1245 i know brother but without the pain you would’ve neveer had the fuel to reach your new level some things in life just gone bring the beast out ya and unfortunately a broken heart is the right of passage for most of us to be deemed worthy by the universe of good fortune and luck it seems like, god speed boy im proud of ya make sure you ball on that hoe for the rest of her life youll run into her again and she’ll be so far beneath you youll be thanking god you dodged that bullet ⛹🏾♂️
In a society of no shame and everyone never telling females the truth. Were here. Beware of their friends and family. Women are followers and you best believe if her friends and family is jealous of her beauty and what she has with you… best believe they will ruin it. It’s hard to not try but I’m right there, at 33 it’s getting old but I haven’t lost all hope. Got to dig through piles of shit to find gold.
This is the truth
How much shit are you willing to dig through to find gold though? Are you willing to spend your life digging through shit instead of doing something fun?
That's right women are very much followers they're not leaders.
''You can love women, or you can understand women, but you can't do both''
Don't know who's quote it is, but it was often used by MGTOW.
In my opinion there is a lot of truth in that.
At 39 I have lost a lot of interest in women, after getting to know them very well, and realizing they all play the exact same game over and over.
It gets old.
Also in this day and age, every female out there has done some disgusting things in her past.
Well put
MGTOW was ahead of its time.. still is when I think about it, if enough men went MGTOW we could quickly fix today’s society
@@radofjc8242 The MGTOW philosophy is not of any concern with regards to society, it is for the man of acceptance of what he is for the anatomy of his own sovereign state.
I came to this point as well in my mid 30's, im 42 now and nothing has changed
The women are not;
Humble enough
Submissive enough
Fit enough
Honest enough
The are just not enough!
That is why we let them simmer a bit. We go self improve, make money.
Good poem
A good wife comes from the lord, I’m still waiting patiently upon the lord to send her 🙏🏼
Not gonna happen. Rotten eggs, take em or leave em. That's all we have sir.
God took two away from me.
Watch the video of the woman who’s been praying for 80years for a husband. You might as well just make yourself better and don’t look. They’ll come after you.
That’s not true. There are nearly 8 Billion People on the planet…you haven’t met everyone.
Faith Without Works IS DEAD!!!
We have to put some action behind that prayer!
More you want (expect) more is running away from you. I was learn one thing in my life. Dont expect nothing from nobody..
I don't chase either. The moment I show interest in someone then they're not interested. The people I am interested in aren't interested in me, and the people I'm not really interested in seem to be the most bold.
I think most people are happy being single and spending their time and energy on themselves and their extended family. Getting to know another person isn't really something most people have the time and energy for. Given that reality, let them do what they're going to do.
Same story with me! Same issues I’ve had. I don’t chase anymore.
Yo, it’s so crazy listening to you for all your episodes, bro me and you the identical lives like I could tell you you used to hang around the crowd, but never really like felt part of it like everybody else and eventually you decided to just break off and dump everybody in your old life and now you’re probably been success for a while now and it feels good man. Keep it up. I know how you feel.
Terry, I don't know about the next person, but I'm staying single due the sky high standards of modern women and their entitled, royal princess attitudes.
And like I said before, after 2 horrible relationships where I was naive, I'd rather not play a high risk, extremely low reward game anymore.
All I need in this lifetime is to save my money, travel,and enjoy life with my future dog/dogs.
100% agree. You are right bro.
Hey, traveling is a fantastic was to meet new and different people.
Sometimes you have to jump out of the dirty fish tank of poor local standards in order to find healthier fish in other places.
@@photographyenthusiast9941, absolutely
DO NOT BE FOOLED BY RELIGIOUS WOMEN, SEEK SET APART VIRTUOUS WOMEN THAT THE BIBLE DESCRIBES AND PURSUE NOTHING ELSE
That’s why Bible reading is so important. Church women by and large don’t do what is in the Bible.
This.^^ I see so many Christian men falling for fake Christian women. It is Crazy.
🎶 it is what it is what it is-is-is, it is what it is what it is-is-is, it is what it is what it is-is-is, what it iiisss! What it is-is-is 🎶🤠
Right. They can do certain things to disqualify themselves
You are dead on Terry. Thank you 🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿💯💯
Not many women are relationship material to build in the long term.
These videos have really made me realize im not the only one going thru the same stuff. I'm surpised with a man like your self your not getting women cus all the woman ive talked too dont want a skinny man they want men with dad bods or that are a little un healthy weight wise ive honestly fully given up on dating cus the work i do im very passonate about and if i have a bunch of friends and a woman up my ass im not gonna be able to get shit done that ive wanted to get done for a long time. I'm verry selective with who i bring into my life i dont want drama 24/7.
If you turn cold and "go wild" aka let your morals slip, you are being weak. Everyone is at their own level and when you're playing in the upper leagues, you dont get to quit because you're comparing yourself to the lower leagues. Winter will only last so long, endure man.
At 36 I'm cold as ice 🥶
Same...I'm hard to talk too as well..and unavailable
I trusted a snake and it bited me to the core. Never again.
Just take care of yourself bro🙏
You gotta spiritually heal yourself before you can interact with other people on a good vibe, otherwise what you put out is what you receive.
I didn't realize that until I thought I was Interacting with a good woman, but I ignored her red flags like an idiot and how easy I got her, or the other way around because of the mental state I was left in. I don't fully blame her because i'm no saint either, I guess that was my lesson learned. I just feel bad for the next fool that deals with her.
As for me, I'm done dealing with cat that ain't family. I gotta focus on myself in all aspects of my life. Been trying to have a connection with God, he's all I got left man. All I can do is smile in the face of adversary.
As a man I’m more wealthy than I’ve ever been
After having my last lady take my kid away from me
I will NEVER dream of dating or marrying ever again in my life
I find women as a liability because they’re not vital unless you want kids lol
I swear after two bad relationships im absolutely done. Im not trying a 3rd time. I realize after that im completely happy being single. No drama no bullshit no nothing.
Ultimate self mastery - monk mode!
43WM. One partner (rated-G thru XXX) my entire life for almost 19yrs. Then divorced. Thought a 2nd chance was in order with a new person, but she sunk that ship hard.
I'll tell you this my Kings, "Celibacy" is where it's at!
It's possible that circumcision has something to do with the disconnection between male and female. Consistent genital mutilation over large percentages of the population could have that result.
No hymen no diamond! popped cherry don't marry!spread the word good men.
@Johnnycampbell7691 yo give credit to @UndeadChronicXIV, because he was the one who came up with that statement bruh.
I know that, message wasn't spreading fast enough from the channel.
@@johnnycampbell7691 understandable bruh
It's all about sex attention seeking social media bullshit no real love like back in the day's they say I love you love off my life sure they tell 1000 other man the same fairytale fk it 🤣💯👌
Trust has gone out the window, really bad economy in most places. And no leadership in government. Women will come around, just hang in there and make money and wait for them to eat a lil humble pie.
Girl I was with for almost a year just started acting different a couple of weeks ago for no reason. Tried to communicate and she got more cold then blocked me off everything and said I screwed up the relationship and she wants her old life back. Never getting attached or involved like this ever again.
My thoughts for today is that emotional maturity is definitely something that is earned and sadly it's really not something you can expect of anyone anymore. So I do all I can to improve but it's hard no to be cynical when seemingly people are fine with how crazy they are or prefer bitching than working because they have their way somehow or they are somewhat content with what they're already getting. It feels like rewarding people for being shit. It feels like giving people the impression that being shitty is worth it because some people will blame themselves and become better out of guilt. It's like thanking them for being trash.
In older times, there was a faith that bound marriages together. Now, things are much more complicated. Families get divorced left and right, the man loses half of his earnings in the process at times, kids suffer with it, and younger women (especially in America) make themselves degenerative thru onlyfans and other sorts of selling their bodies online all for money. Men are also told not to be men and in some cases if one just tries to talk to a woman, they end up on a list. None of it seems worth it anymore. None of it.
To understand the modern world, just look up the story of the marriage and divorce of the football player from Morocco, named Hakimi.
Every time you drink from the blender bottle, I smile, the swig style says so much😆
That darkness you're describing- definitely hell
They tried to break me but ended up ⬆️ breaking themselves. It’s almost 😅 like anything you could do I could do better
Matthew 24:12-14
New King James Version
12 And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. 13 But he who endures to the end shall be saved. 14 And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come.
Were doomed
I am a female I love male company more and I work more with men and yes I single. A group of us went away 5 men and 3 women good ratio
Check your messages. Some guy would be interested in you
Your strong bro 👊 😎 you got the Terry 🙏🏽❤
I definitely believe we have a gender problem, for whatever reason. We need to love who we are people! ❤️💃
I hear you bro. The thing is, people are full of deeply ingrained self sabotaging tendancies. The key is to act as a catalyst so that people realize when and where they self sabotage. There be some humpty dumpties forsure but there are soo many more that need to hear that its not too late. Its not too late to be different.
You hit the nail on the head once again.
You wanna know how they did it? Watch Black Mirror season 1 episode 2 bro.
This is the sad truth about women now days it really sucks. I’ve been unable to find a decent woman my entire life and I’m almost 38. Tbh I already gave up trying but the fairy tale about love we were sold is not the same caliber of women now days of our mothers and grandparents generation. Women really do act out so bad we can’t predict when it won’t work but as a cycle that they created we learned to stop wanting or trying cause the standards are just out of control now days. There isn’t women choosing for love anymore they choose for a wallet 💳 or they continue to go from guy to guy until they have 6 kids from 5 different men and the same sad story the guy was awful to them. I’ve heard it a thousand times. As a Christian man I’ve truly given up even living in the Bible Belt there are no godly women out here and by time they wannna settle down the good guys don’t wanna be a step daddy cause we want a partner not a pre made family 😢
Whoa, I'm shocked to hear you say that. I live in California which is like Sodom and Gomorrah type bad and I really thought the Eastern US contained a larger percentage of Monogamous Believers. Yikes.
You have no idea how real this is until u actually lower Your value to the point of no return, after you finally meet a higher value women who you could have gotten if you didnt devalue yourself it all finally slaps u in the face
Terry, I started my journey to run a marathon, it’s all that I want because I hate running.
Man you can't go for 21 year olds and expect them to not make any mistakes and be as mature as you are. Think about how unaware you were at 21 and how many mistakes and experiences you had go through to end up where you are now.
These young girls have all that in front of them still, and that's okay, it's their journey.
Your chances of meeting someone real are much better if you go for someone your age. Dont burn yourself out on these young girls
If women don't change for the good, we are doom.
Like I always say, women are the main problem. Fix the women, and the men will follow.
peace.
Argued with a woman that said she got disgusted whenever a man said "females"😂 idk why but it seems to trigger
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😛🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 IM SICK!!! IM SICK!!! IM SICK!!!!!!
The only thing I can think of is that the type of female you're attracted to is not the kind that you can ever feel an everlasting affection for. Which means that you need to give another type a chance for at least a few times in your life. If that doesn't work then you're going to have to learn to like your own company a great deal for another 50 years or so. That can work but it takes some imagination to come up with the types of ideas that bring you satisfaction.
That point.. yeah at 50 years old Ive reached it! lol
Yeah people need to commit and be normal. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
I’m early 30s, have been single for about a decade. It was only halfway a choice. I long for an intimate partner, but have turned down a few dates over the years. For me, I guess I just realized I’d prefer to only date or begin a relationship with someone I feel compatible with, and I’m a bit unusual, so it’ll probably take me a while. I’m not conservative, but I guess I am waiting for marriage anyway. Who knew?
Everybody seems like they have big issues. Issues my higher standards don't compromise. I'm a church girl and it's in church too. So there ya go. Lol
Amen
They wanna come back after their body count is higher than snoop dog ❤
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Dang, its a cold world......
Live on, mgtow!!!!!
Women are why people are staying single....
lol yup!
You should have named this video "Why MOST MEN Are Choosing To Stay Single In Modern Times."
Its too dangerous to get involved with modern women. Staying single also gives you the option to enjoy yourself more. variety is the spice of life.
Their day will come. Our day will come. Vincit Veritas.
I did wrap it up in nutshell, women.Or I've jumped in the head they play all they do is point to play games with men.That's why man it's gonna.It's good become bad
Bros don’t know how to take accountability of you attract what you are
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Bro.. every women i talk to shows high interest.... ill even get their numbers etc .. but once i show interest, all of a sudden their bf becomes a priority.. despite them being the ones showing initial interest, while with their guy. Its a f'n game. It actually hurts me because now il ignore other women who show interest thinking the same outcome will occur
First of all you should not do other men like that. If women don't have any decency atleast you should have some.
You deserve it for going after taken women. You dont really belong here on this channel... no offence
Why are you going after taken women? Are you 12? Do you not know you going after a taken woman means your just 2nd best. Your there because she put you there as a plan b, an orbiter, a side piece lol. I have went through what your doing and thats why im telling you... you will get hurt because shes willing to lie to her bf why would you be different?
@@David.5035 they never mentioned they had a bf until i show interest lol
It's funny that you said that because that happen to me when I was out and about. Couldn't tell if she was with a trick , or on s date , or just her "friend" . The high interest in Me as soon as he left and went to the bathroom , the thirst trap she try to wool me in
Wa wa wa 😂
We live in modern times. People don't even know their gender anymore. Nobody wants commitment. Focus on The Lord. That's my experience. If God wants you with someone, He will bring that one to you.
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I knew it was a girl!! 😬
Bro you should grow your facial hair out
I think he should lose the hat bc hes got great hair, i first assumed he was going bald bc of the never ending hats
F ‘em and move on
Without the ability to maintain celibacy you're so screwed. Lmao
Be friends first for a long time and then date for a long time be companions do not rush into anything
You will never get a woman to agree to this.
@@russgould707 then she not a true friend no one has to agree but if I value someone I would want to build trust and have them remain in my life even as just friends
@susanmarie1487 It's hard enough for a guy to find another guy that is a true friend. Just about impossible for this to happen with a woman. It sounds good though.
@@susanmarie1487, thats bullshhit
You want me to tell you why the girls are effed up brother?, the truth no chosen ones 🐎 💩?, it's simple really, they're in a trauma loop bro. Many times they don't have much choice, or any at all. You gotta watch Altered Carbon season 1 only and Westworld Season 1 only. That's all you need. 2 of the top 5 in the past 20 years.
Okay, Wolfie. Thank you for your message. Maybe I was meant to be alone. Men never want to do anything much for me, it seems. They always want things from me. I can't help loving you, but I hear you. I just need a man to call me and to help me in any way he can. I just do. Love you, Wolfie. 💔
You going after the wrong men and need to learn your lesson. I guarantee you’ve passed up some decent men, just like I’ve certainly overlooked some women I would have been fine with. Now I just gotta go forward and keep searching, even if it’s tough. Don’t give up but maybe change strategies.
ITS YOUR TRUTH BROTHER, NOT THE TRUTH. YOU SAY PRAY TO JESUS CHRIST YET YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM. EXAMINE YOURSELF AND THE LIFE OF CHRIST TO REALIZE YOUR INADEQUACY. WE ARE ALL SINNERS BUT WE STRIVE TO EMULATE CHRIST. ITS NOT ABOUT RELIGION, ITS A RELATIONSHIP. WE MUST HUMBLE OURSELVES. “Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God. Which things also we speak, not in the words which man's wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual. But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man. For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.”
1 Corinthians 2:12-16 KJV
You just seen like a negative person to me. I admire your discipline and agree with a lot of your videos but when people know women better than the women do it's annoying. Everyone is different.
So, ignorance of women's behavior is bliss, huh?
If we look at statistics and the collective experiences of people then we can confidently say that not everyone is different.
And no women don't know women. This was proven when women had to act like men and try to attract other women. Guess what they couldn't do it.
Trying to date a woman these days is basically like signing a few years off your life with the amount of stress lol
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