Finding what’s appropriate for you is important. You don’t have to follow a trend, a lifestyle etc because everyone else is doing so. You are unique. Do you and stay classy at it 💜
I had to pause the video at 15:30 because I started shouting 😆 preach Dr. Michelle! We need to mind our own business and take care of ourselves and our own responsibilities. I’m always reminded of the scripture where Jesus says pull the beam out of my own eye before worrying about the splinter in someone else’s eye. Thank you so much for this awesome video.
Wow God is good indeed, how refreshing it is to hear this topic about high value women discussed/ taught from godly perspective, what a blessing. Thank you so much Dr Daf, may God bless you in all your ways and may you continue to be His vessel. Amen
I'm so glad to see women focusing on how to be more feminine and to revel in who we are. God made us differently from men. No man will ever be us. Nor should they be. We are unique. I love the emphasis on real woman hood.
What you said in the beginning 100%! I found your videos about 8 months ago, my partner and I had a HUGE argument almost ending things, all because I was so stuck in my masculine energy for so long being picky and angry, practically a tyrant. Your videos definitely have changed my life, my relationship is beautiful now, I’m doing an insane amount of trauma and inner child healing. It’s crazy. Iv even let spirituality back into my life.. you were my introduction into femininity! Because of you, I can trust a man so much that iv been able to feel proper emotions again and be vulnerable. Also, I REALLY love this look. Just wanted to leave some positivity, and while I’m not christian/Catholic I’m sending many blessings 💖💖
I am so grateful for your content! As a 55 year old woman still learning and growing becoming the best version of myself, the one The Most High created. I was in tears at the end because I remember my 20-30 year old self marking myself down, and also praising Him for not leaving me in that condition. Thank you for being such a blessing to your community.🤗💖
You are never past the point of learning and growing. And it's so hard but God helps us with everything. You are so beautiful and I'm grateful that you found a blessing in this video 💕🩷
Value is based on rarity and we are all unique and rare therefore we are all of high value. I think we tend to forget that. Thanks for this reminder ❤️
I just found this video and I Love the advice about minding your business and not gossiping negatively about people. It’s such a bad habit that many people don’t grow out of. It’s part of why I don’t have a good relationship with my MIL. All she wants to do is talk badly about people and I don’t participate so she doesn’t know how to talk to me. It’s hard sometimes but I refuse to contribute to that kind of behavior.
I’m 20 years old and I only just found your content. I’ve been going through an identity crisis And everything you say resonates with me ! And this is really helping me ! I also want to be a psychologist and I believe God made me come across your videos on purpose !! God bless you
If you are reading this, you are unique, and so is everyone else. Optimize the gifts God has given YOU, even if it seems similar to someone else. You are all you have, don't let fear waste your time. May you experience a miracle today.
You are such a gem!! 💎 You have really helped me so much, even in just my week or so of watching you. So glad to have found your channel! God bless you 🙏 ❤
The Bible verse that talks about gentle quiet spirit is so empowering to me 💗 beauty comes from the inside and sometimes I get too caught up on the physical world. It’s so important to me that I remember this and what’s important is serving God. Thankyou so much for this beautiful video i really needed to be reminded of this 🙏💋
I never realized my inability to create healthy boundaries for myself and with others stems from childhood insecurities and fear. I need to look further into this. Thank you!
Dr Daff, thank you. I thank God All Mighty for you. I just want you to know how much you have helped me! This video reminds me of your earlier content on femininity and makes me think about all the emotions and revelations I had because of you. You brought me closer to God and allowed me to let myself feel!! I’ve always been in my feminine but have allowed others to sway my beliefs thoughts and feelings. Your videos brought me back to the original me that I never knew I was until I clicked on your video. I kept seeing your beautiful face and the topic of femininity without reason wondering why RUclips would place this video at the top of my feed, finally I decided to click on it and I am a changed women. Thank you, you are an Angel 🙏🏽🙌🏽 as always, I pray the Heavenly Father continues to bless you beyond all measure!!!!
What a sweet message, thank you so much for sharing that. The Lord is so amazing and I am thankful that He used me to reach you. Keep shining sweetheart. This is only the beginning! May God bless you!
Wow I love that last message ♥️ because it’s a gentle reminder that I am worth it. I’m worth my peace with whoever I’m surrounded with. Whether that is me or others I’m worth my peace and God always knows how to bring it to my life. I just have to trust in Him
Bringing me to tears in the first few minutes. Thanks Michelle you’re beautiful and divine in your teachings. You’re wonderful I’ll love to try your fragrance!
I always enjoy your videos because you provide so much beautiful insight.Living your life walking on a righteous path will not only benefit you but others around you,not having the last word to save your marriage and appreciating the people in your life. Thank you ❤️
It is so easy to listen to you speak! You are pouring into the lives of so many by just being so relatable and presenting your topics in such a clear and precise manner for all to enjoy! Much Love & Many Blessings!💕🙏💕
Hey queen! I am so happy I found your channel. I have been trying to find someone who talks about this from a Godly perspective. As I've only been seeing witch craft and I am so grateful. You were in my recommended! What a blessing I loove your energy and aura. You are so beautiful and I appreciate your channel so much. I support you 100% and this fragrance is definitely on my "to get" list. Love you!!! New subbie ✨❤️
Hi Dr. Daf! I want to thank you for these videos and your channel. I found you through searches on femininity and have been further inspired by your claims of God. I have been anxious and depressed for most of my life, though, I didn't really know what it was until my early/mid-20s. I am now almost 30 years old and have had no job, been in an emotionally toxic relationship and been put on anti-depressants for the last year. I have met my lowest low. Somehow in the last week, I found the sense to leave my partner, the very next day I committed my life to Christ. He saved me on February 4th. I am still depressed, but for the first time, I feel comforted by the strength of the Lord. I feel hopeful and I believe in His plan. I have been tearing my spirit apart for years trying to find my purpose and little did I know I just had to look to Jesus. I still don't know what that purpose is going to be, but at least I KNOW that it will come to me. I have so much I could ramble on about, I should probably grab my journal, or hey, talk to God. Thanks again for your advice ❤️
Wow what a testimony! That is such a blessing. Welcome to the family! I will pray for your peace and release from feelings of depression. The enemy is no match for God and He will help you overcome it all. Please tune in to my weekly lives "When Women Pray". I believe it can help you. Blessings and love!
I Love your videos they are so inspiring warm inviting and so real. Specially always talking about the importance of having a close relationship with God❤️🙏🏼 Blessings!
Now I understand that God brought this video for me to watch!! Darling...! You're amazing! I loooove the fact that you love and talk about God, Thank you woman of God 🥰🥰🥰
Now, as a 19 yo girl, I realised I have boyish personality and behaviour Your videos calm me down and make me feel that being feminine isn't a weakness ! Thanks I just want to ask you: does being a computer science student, doing too much programing and math stuff make you unfeminine? I noticed that I get to competitive and stressed (boyish behaviour) while doing things like this :(( ..
I really think you can continue doing your computer science and all that...and still be feminine...I admire your strength doing all that...proud to see a girl doing programming
I was apart of a Navy SEAL squadron and still feminine 💯. YESSSSS you can be a feminine computer scientist! You’d be badass too! If you’d like, Google “women scientists” and just look how their hair is still kept, clothes are/were polished and showed natural beauty, unlike what is advertised today, nails were manicured etc etc. There is no “look” to being a computer scientist. Create a lane, you never know what little girls (and older women) are counting on you succeeding! Wishing you the best of luck💝!
@Dounia The beauty of a feminine woman is that she can embody both masculine and feminine qualities! You clearly have interest in programming and math since you are studying them, so don't change that! To feel more feminine, you can embody other feminine traits, like softness of spirit, gentleness, and warmth. Don't feel like you have to completely remodel your personality and interests to be a feminine woman. God gave you those interests and traits for a reason! ❤️
Yes my dear. Your femininity comes out in the way you behave, not your profession. There's a time for everything, so finding time to bask in your femininity after using your masculine energy during the day is important so you don't stay in that mode. We were all created uniquely to do different things and you bring your true nature with you. Much love!
That headband wig at 5:42 is so beautiful on you. What brand is it, if you don't mind me asking. I want to buy it asap. Love your content also. You're a breath of fresh air.
Wow another refreshing video. I had to replay it several times and make notes. All the points were worth working on but the one that I loved the most and need more work on is trusting God and to to worry. I am at peace when I totally surrender all to God. Is just unbelievable how my life has changed when I started listening to your videos. God Bless you so much. Thank you Dr Daf ❤️🙏
Your stock images and videos are just absolutely beautiful. Could you please share which program you use? I have your videos on a Playlist and I listen to them while caring for my home. It was something I used to resent but your videos help me take pride in that work and work on myself simultaneously.
Love your advice, thank you for sharing it with us. I have a question and hopefully yourself or some other women in a wise position can be of assistance. People ‘dump’ their emotional baggage on me often and it’s hard to know how to navigate that. I’ve been working on myself, boundaries, body language, etc, but because I’m easy to talk to people always dump all their problems on me, including gossip. I also have abusive people around me. How do we navigate being feminine, soft, agreeable, fauning, and de-escalating and balancing that with asserting boundaries, keeping emotional distance, being firm and saying no, holding others accountable, avoiding gossip. I have a therapist but she is a new age feminist. I don’t have a good pastor to speak with or any older Christian women who can help. My old pastor was great, but there was a sexual predator preying on myself and other women and the church handled it poorly, so I stopped going. The other pastors and an older Christian woman I reached out to for advice did not respond. This is a very tricky issue because I find that if I’m not ‘masculine’ in energy, then people walk all over me. I don’t have any family members or friends who are mentally healthy. The funny thing is to the outside world I seem so together emotionally because of the lifelong pattern of having to support others. But inside is a daily battle to cope mentally, especially because the toxic behaviour of others seems to gravitate towards me unless I am cold, distant, end connections or avoid them. Hopefully this comment helps other women going through similar things.
I appreciate how you make your videos based on christian perspective. Your videos have been a blessing to me. Thank you dr.Michelle. Much love from Aruba💕
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Finding what’s appropriate for you is important. You don’t have to follow a trend, a lifestyle etc because everyone else is doing so. You are unique. Do you and stay classy at it 💜
I totally agree with this🙌🏽
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As a Muslim woman, I appreciate how you use visible Muslim women in your videos ❤
Same here
Yes yes🤲❤
Indeed sis
I agree, as well as Muslimah qualities. Thank you ❤
Love you and thank you for watching!
I just got married last Friday and your videos have been giving me the tools I need to be a great wife to my husband . Thanks Dr. Daf❤️
Congratulations 🎉
Wow congratulations!! You will be a great wife! You are most welcome!
Congrats, may God bless your union! ❤
Congratulations 🎊🎈
This video is making my relationships easy!
I had to pause the video at 15:30 because I started shouting 😆 preach Dr. Michelle! We need to mind our own business and take care of ourselves and our own responsibilities. I’m always reminded of the scripture where Jesus says pull the beam out of my own eye before worrying about the splinter in someone else’s eye. Thank you so much for this awesome video.
Exactly!! Thank you for sharing love!!
Wow God is good indeed, how refreshing it is to hear this topic about high value women discussed/ taught from godly perspective, what a blessing. Thank you so much Dr Daf, may God bless you in all your ways and may you continue to be His vessel. Amen
Thank you so much love!
Ppl want to be around me more lately...I learnt this from ur video...to be warm and friendly...God bless u😊
That is wonderful! Thank you for sharing honey. God bless you too!
I'm so glad to see women focusing on how to be more feminine and to revel in who we are. God made us differently from men. No man will ever be us. Nor should they be. We are unique. I love the emphasis on real woman hood.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE how you tied everything back to God and you speak to the importance of having a gentle spirit. May God bless you abundantly!!
What you said in the beginning 100%! I found your videos about 8 months ago, my partner and I had a HUGE argument almost ending things, all because I was so stuck in my masculine energy for so long being picky and angry, practically a tyrant. Your videos definitely have changed my life, my relationship is beautiful now, I’m doing an insane amount of trauma and inner child healing. It’s crazy. Iv even let spirituality back into my life.. you were my introduction into femininity! Because of you, I can trust a man so much that iv been able to feel proper emotions again and be vulnerable.
Also, I REALLY love this look. Just wanted to leave some positivity, and while I’m not christian/Catholic I’m sending many blessings 💖💖
As a women in her early 20s I really appreciate your videos. And how you are involving God in everything makes my heart to rejoice ❤
I am so grateful for your content! As a 55 year old woman still learning and growing becoming the best version of myself, the one The Most High created.
I was in tears at the end because I remember my 20-30 year old self marking myself down, and also praising Him for not leaving me in that condition. Thank you for being such a blessing to your community.🤗💖
You are never past the point of learning and growing. And it's so hard but God helps us with everything. You are so beautiful and I'm grateful that you found a blessing in this video 💕🩷
Value is based on rarity and we are all unique and rare therefore we are all of high value. I think we tend to forget that. Thanks for this reminder ❤️
I just found this video and I Love the advice about minding your business and not gossiping negatively about people. It’s such a bad habit that many people don’t grow out of. It’s part of why I don’t have a good relationship with my MIL. All she wants to do is talk badly about people and I don’t participate so she doesn’t know how to talk to me. It’s hard sometimes but I refuse to contribute to that kind of behavior.
I’m 20 years old and I only just found your content. I’ve been going through an identity crisis And everything you say resonates with me ! And this is really helping me ! I also want to be a psychologist and I believe God made me come across your videos on purpose !! God bless you
If you are reading this, you are unique, and so is everyone else. Optimize the gifts God has given YOU, even if it seems similar to someone else. You are all you have, don't let fear waste your time. May you experience a miracle today.
I love your comment, it resonate within my spirit, I received this miracle and much blessings to you.
As a male. I approve of this message.
You are such a gem!! 💎 You have really helped me so much, even in just my week or so of watching you. So glad to have found your channel! God bless you 🙏 ❤
I love the tip about being an "angel's advocate" -- what a beautiful counterpoint to use when met with negative talk and drama.
Yes!!
Yaaaaay!! My favorite notification, you’re a blessing to womanhood!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
When you mention GOD with sincerity you had me.
The Bible verse that talks about gentle quiet spirit is so empowering to me 💗 beauty comes from the inside and sometimes I get too caught up on the physical world. It’s so important to me that I remember this and what’s important is serving God. Thankyou so much for this beautiful video i really needed to be reminded of this 🙏💋
I never realized my inability to create healthy boundaries for myself and with others stems from childhood insecurities and fear. I need to look further into this. Thank you!
Thank you for being obedient + utilizing your platform, intelligence and wisdom to fulfill your God given purpose!
Dr Daff, thank you. I thank God All Mighty for you. I just want you to know how much you have helped me! This video reminds me of your earlier content on femininity and makes me think about all the emotions and revelations I had because of you. You brought me closer to God and allowed me to let myself feel!! I’ve always been in my feminine but have allowed others to sway my beliefs thoughts and feelings. Your videos brought me back to the original me that I never knew I was until I clicked on your video. I kept seeing your beautiful face and the topic of femininity without reason wondering why RUclips would place this video at the top of my feed, finally I decided to click on it and I am a changed women. Thank you, you are an Angel 🙏🏽🙌🏽 as always, I pray the Heavenly Father continues to bless you beyond all measure!!!!
What a sweet message, thank you so much for sharing that. The Lord is so amazing and I am thankful that He used me to reach you. Keep shining sweetheart. This is only the beginning! May God bless you!
Wow I love that last message ♥️ because it’s a gentle reminder that I am worth it. I’m worth my peace with whoever I’m surrounded with. Whether that is me or others I’m worth my peace and God always knows how to bring it to my life. I just have to trust in Him
Thank you so much Dr Michelle, I am a Muslim and I have watched almost all of your video and it is positively affecting me. Thank you so much
You are most welcome honey!
Bringing me to tears in the first few minutes. Thanks Michelle you’re beautiful and divine in your teachings. You’re wonderful I’ll love to try your fragrance!
I always enjoy your videos because you provide so much beautiful insight.Living your life walking on a righteous path will not only benefit you but others around you,not having the last word to save your marriage and appreciating the people in your life. Thank you ❤️
I love how you prioritize every religion, ethnicity in your video ❤️🇧🇩❤️
One of the best videos I've seen, covers so much. Thank you for helping me on this journey with such wisdom and grace
Omg thank you so much for this video !
I'm so grateful to God I found your channel😍 your videos have been very helpful to me. Thank you Dr Michelle ❤️
It is so easy to listen to you speak! You are pouring into the lives of so many by just being so relatable and presenting your topics in such a clear and precise manner for all to enjoy!
Much Love & Many Blessings!💕🙏💕
Wow what a great video & invaluable learning tool. Thank you Dr. Michelle.🙏🏻❤
Thank you for making these wonderfully helpful videos Dr! And congrats on your little one 💖
This is such a gold video 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you so much 💖
Thank you for the information
My pleasure
I am so grateful to have found your channel, you are such a gem, thanks for sharing pearls of wisdom.
So glad! God bless you
Awesome Dr. Daf, connecting with God helps us raise up above our circumstances. Your video is really helpful. Thank you so much. God bless you.
Hey queen! I am so happy I found your channel. I have been trying to find someone who talks about this from a Godly perspective. As I've only been seeing witch craft and I am so grateful. You were in my recommended! What a blessing I loove your energy and aura. You are so beautiful and I appreciate your channel so much. I support you 100% and this fragrance is definitely on my "to get" list. Love you!!! New subbie ✨❤️
Top tier instructions Sis!
Hi Dr. Daf!
I want to thank you for these videos and your channel. I found you through searches on femininity and have been further inspired by your claims of God.
I have been anxious and depressed for most of my life, though, I didn't really know what it was until my early/mid-20s. I am now almost 30 years old and have had no job, been in an emotionally toxic relationship and been put on anti-depressants for the last year. I have met my lowest low.
Somehow in the last week, I found the sense to leave my partner, the very next day I committed my life to Christ. He saved me on February 4th. I am still depressed, but for the first time, I feel comforted by the strength of the Lord. I feel hopeful and I believe in His plan. I have been tearing my spirit apart for years trying to find my purpose and little did I know I just had to look to Jesus. I still don't know what that purpose is going to be, but at least I KNOW that it will come to me.
I have so much I could ramble on about, I should probably grab my journal, or hey, talk to God.
Thanks again for your advice
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Wow what a testimony! That is such a blessing. Welcome to the family! I will pray for your peace and release from feelings of depression. The enemy is no match for God and He will help you overcome it all. Please tune in to my weekly lives "When Women Pray". I believe it can help you. Blessings and love!
@@drmichelledaf I definitely will. Thank you very much 🙏🏽✨❤️
Hello Dr Michelle !!! Loved this video !!! I wanted to know what are some of your favorite Femininity channels here on RUclips? 💖
We should all be intentional about our role and what we want. Our relationship with God is the most important.
I'm glad i already started on this journey and your amazing video is reaffirming what I've been practicing. Felt i was doing things wrong
I Love your videos they are so inspiring warm inviting and so real. Specially always talking about the importance of having a close relationship with God❤️🙏🏼 Blessings!
Thank you for these encouraging words. People do treat us as we treat ourselves. Needed to hear this today.
Beautiful Woman of God! Love ya, God bless you and all on the thread!!!
Michelle, I love that you mention God in your videos
Always! You are so welcome!
I love your videos and I am a better woman because of them. Thank you so much, they have impacted me a lot. Love u so much!
You're so welcome love. Thank you for your kind words. Love you too 🤍✨
I needed to hear “Don’t feel about about sticking with your values/boundaries”.
This video made me so happy 😁 Thank you for allowing god to show himself through you.thank you for the reminder ❤️
Aww thank you so much sweetheart!
@@drmichelledaf you’re welcome❤️
you are the original one lady...hugs from Panama. Luv your channel.
Awww thank you so much love!
So helpful! I can't get enough of your videos! Thank you so much! Stay blessed! ❤❤❤
You are so welcome sweetheart! Blessings to you as well!
Now I understand that God brought this video for me to watch!! Darling...! You're amazing! I loooove the fact that you love and talk about God,
Thank you woman of God 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you so much!! God is faithful. Thank you for watching love!
Thank you so much for such pertinent and intelligent content!
Love it!🙏❤️❤️
MashaAllah. You always make such great points. Thank you for your time and insight.
Now, as a 19 yo girl, I realised I have boyish personality and behaviour
Your videos calm me down and make me feel that being feminine isn't a weakness !
Thanks
I just want to ask you: does being a computer science student, doing too much programing and math stuff make you unfeminine?
I noticed that I get to competitive and stressed (boyish behaviour) while doing things like this :(( ..
I really think you can continue doing your computer science and all that...and still be feminine...I admire your strength doing all that...proud to see a girl doing programming
I was apart of a Navy SEAL squadron and still feminine 💯. YESSSSS you can be a feminine computer scientist! You’d be badass too! If you’d like, Google “women scientists” and just look how their hair is still kept, clothes are/were polished and showed natural beauty, unlike what is advertised today, nails were manicured etc etc. There is no “look” to being a computer scientist. Create a lane, you never know what little girls (and older women) are counting on you succeeding! Wishing you the best of luck💝!
@Dounia The beauty of a feminine woman is that she can embody both masculine and feminine qualities! You clearly have interest in programming and math since you are studying them, so don't change that! To feel more feminine, you can embody other feminine traits, like softness of spirit, gentleness, and warmth. Don't feel like you have to completely remodel your personality and interests to be a feminine woman. God gave you those interests and traits for a reason! ❤️
Yes my dear. Your femininity comes out in the way you behave, not your profession. There's a time for everything, so finding time to bask in your femininity after using your masculine energy during the day is important so you don't stay in that mode. We were all created uniquely to do different things and you bring your true nature with you. Much love!
Thank so much girls for this encouragement 💜😁
Love you much Chelly. 😘
Great video as always 👍
This is great information thank you ❣️
Very good content! Thank you sister! I support the message!
I appreciate that
I love wearing beautiful silk head scarves, as well as pretty headbands.
As always, I love your videos 💕. I’ve already noticed changes in myself and so has my family and friends. Thank you!
That headband wig at 5:42 is so beautiful on you. What brand is it, if you don't mind me asking. I want to buy it asap. Love your content also. You're a breath of fresh air.
I can’t tell you how much I love and appreciate you. God bless you
Amazing mindful video ❤ thank you so much for your effort! It’s a masterpiece 👏🏻
Wow another refreshing video. I had to replay it several times and make notes. All the points were worth working on but the one that I loved the most and need more work on is trusting God and to to worry. I am at peace when I totally surrender all to God. Is just unbelievable how my life has changed when I started listening to your videos. God Bless you so much. Thank you Dr Daf ❤️🙏
The moment I saw scriptures, I was completely drawn. Thank you ☺️
This is such a great and loving message! I’m the cycle breaker in my maternal lineage so this resonates!
You are so beautiful.. thank you for you helping get my Feminine side back or at least take the journey to getting my Feminine side back..
I'm a work in progress to say the least perhaps, but this video is a good one and definitely helpful. I'm going to work on some of these areas
Glad it was helpful! You will get there honey!
I am so happy to witness how woman’s are changing for the better. Growing and evolving.
💕💕💕 thank you for this video.. it's so needed today. Especially touching on wearing sleeping attire outside 😴
You are most welcome love! That one is major!
Thank you for the video.
High quality woman you say.
Praise God.
Very insightful period .thank you for sharing.
Girl, I subbed so quick! 😂😂😂
Thank you for joining our family 💕
Binge watching your vids ❤
Thank you for share Love💗
Love your content ☺️
Thank you love 💋
I thank you for this video. This message came for me at the right time. You are truly a blessing. ❤️
You are so welcome love, I am thankful that it was helpful to you!
Your stock images and videos are just absolutely beautiful. Could you please share which program you use? I have your videos on a Playlist and I listen to them while caring for my home. It was something I used to resent but your videos help me take pride in that work and work on myself simultaneously.
L❤️VEEEE this so much!
Dont know how to explain but ur videos calm my anxiety 💖
That's wonderful! It is the Lord's presence. Thank you for watching love!
Im arab and muslim
And i really find ur videos helpful and valuable 🤍🙏🏻
Beautiful day with you video , 😍 love u 💕, im so bubbly lool , but I learned how to mix quitness with bubbleness . 🤪😉😄
Love you too babe! Bubbly is great, there's a time and place for everything!
So beautiful. I learned a lot in one video! Thankyou
So excited
This was a wonderful video. Very detailed. I appreciate it very much.
It starts at 6:00 .....
Thank you! So helpful 💛💛💛
I truly loved this video. Wishing you many blessings and prosperity.🥰🥰🥰
Love your advice, thank you for sharing it with us. I have a question and hopefully yourself or some other women in a wise position can be of assistance. People ‘dump’ their emotional baggage on me often and it’s hard to know how to navigate that. I’ve been working on myself, boundaries, body language, etc, but because I’m easy to talk to people always dump all their problems on me, including gossip. I also have abusive people around me. How do we navigate being feminine, soft, agreeable, fauning, and de-escalating and balancing that with asserting boundaries, keeping emotional distance, being firm and saying no, holding others accountable, avoiding gossip. I have a therapist but she is a new age feminist. I don’t have a good pastor to speak with or any older Christian women who can help. My old pastor was great, but there was a sexual predator preying on myself and other women and the church handled it poorly, so I stopped going. The other pastors and an older Christian woman I reached out to for advice did not respond. This is a very tricky issue because I find that if I’m not ‘masculine’ in energy, then people walk all over me. I don’t have any family members or friends who are mentally healthy. The funny thing is to the outside world I seem so together emotionally because of the lifelong pattern of having to support others. But inside is a daily battle to cope mentally, especially because the toxic behaviour of others seems to gravitate towards me unless I am cold, distant, end connections or avoid them. Hopefully this comment helps other women going through similar things.
Thank You very much for this Message.
You are so welcome love!
Love you! Thank you for sharing your beautiful loving spirit with us! ❤️ wishing you many blessings!
Thank you love you too 💋
Very important information. Thank you for your videos.😊
I’m getting a notebook and going to the first video I’m going to be living proof that anything is possible with God
Thank you so much Dr Michelle! God bless 🥰
This is wonderful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I appreciate how you make your videos based on christian perspective. Your videos have been a blessing to me. Thank you dr.Michelle. Much love from Aruba💕