Would You Date Someone Less Educated Than You? | Tell My Story
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I would date someone less educated but not someone significantly more stupid.
Lormenkal you’re right!
exactly!
Difference between having education and being intelligent someone could be less educated but very intelligent
I know a lot of people who aren't super educated but are so much more intelligent then people who are. But usually the intelligent people who didn't get educated are either motivated in some other area that doesn't require education (like sport for example), or lazy
Exactly
The way they were speaking to each other seemed like project partners.
very true
They are on camera for millions of people to watch, almost no one can be comfortable with that.
MsSomeonenew True
*cough cough* love island *cough*
lol that's a college girl for ya
Can I just say how refreshing it is to hear somebody say "I didn't need a college degree to succeed, but some people might"? Nothing irritates me quite as much when people talk in absolutes- either "college is a waste of money", or "I wouldn't date somebody without a college degree". How hard is it to realize that circumstances are going to vary from person to person? Good for you, man. That's open-mindedness right there.
Araxie Rose, exactly. How many people do we all know who lack a degree yet make more than someone with one. It's a case by case basis and a degree doesn't make someone more or less intelligent !!
She is Asian, give her some credit, she was brainwashed that its either college and uni or MC Donalds for life lol...
Araxie Rose I wouldn’t date someone without a degree
👌😜😍😃
It is super refreshing. Lots of people without degrees but make an excellent living. Education shouldn't define a person
Yes and my husband is less educated than me. But in no way would I say he is less intelligent than me.
Intelligence is different than being educated.
Thank you
@Patrick Parcivel Learned nothing??? You must be fooling around in college......
@Patrick Parcivel then whyd u go in if u werent a stem major? Seems like maybe u wasted ur own time?
@Digby Dooright There are people who spend hours upon hours in libraries around the world attaining the same characteristic that you speak of. What you should be worried about is whether the individual has that ambition and initiative to do so.
Amen to that. Education degree doesn't automatically make you a smart passionate person with real life Goals
I was clutching my pearls for the last question after they discussed the whole education thing. I'm so glad she wasn't closed-minded because of his educational background. He seems like a genuinely nice person.
Amos chan pearls
A. J. "i was clutching my pearls"
"Clutching your pearls"... I love you so much
damn, you classy
Highly doubt it will go anywhere. She's 22, went to USC, chances are she is going to have an education preference for a S/O.
This dude has such a big personality, he's awesome. Seems like someone you wouldn't be bored around.
Most car salesmen arent the boring kind. They make up with showing a vibrant personality because that's their work and usually helps sell more. It's that charisma and charm that can convince people
@@milkishouse4404 Yeah, he seems super type-A. Personally, people with that type of personality tire me out very quickly.
That’s how Portuguese people are (most of them at least)
i love his eye contact with her...makes him more attractive
It was good
Jimmy Tran Yeah, agree.
I feel they displayed their vulnerability but i feel it was from both a strong and secure and also a calculated strategic place. I do not feel it was because they were uncomfortable and genuinely/entirely swallowed up by that.
Exactly!
Good eye contact is the first thing you gotta learn in sales
He is attractive period!!😍
I've met some PhDs who were shockingly stupid outside their field of study.
bigart1993 🤣🤣🤣 you can’t be serious lmao
So.. True :) I got a masters, yet I find it harder to function in the work place, but I def do well in school environment.
Would love to hear a story about it if you want to share one!
Lol I work with PhDs that aren’t smart outside their field of study too. Completely lack emotional intelligence, how to communicate, self awareness and can’t socialize. These are important intellectual skills to have too
Dated a guy with a masters.. He was so clueless when it came to life matters...
he even walks like a salesman
HAHAHAHA wtf...! lol
gex True, it looks like something got into the shoes.
hahahahahaah
I LAUGHED SO HARD AT THIS
The way he got up from that chair was very car salesmany too
I have a PhD in Mathematics.
Would I date someone less educated than me? of course I would.
There are many different types of intelligence, academic intelligence is just one of them. If a girl has a passion for, say art. She doesn't need to be educated to be an artist.
Being a nice, genuine person. Making me happy, being happy together, is much more important than being educated.
Lord Chumpington your comment has made my day.
I totally agree with what you said :). Being happy together is the most important thing !
I wouldn't, however ,say that : passion for art isn't entwined also with academic inteligence and that you do have to be educated to be an artist! I speak this as an M.A in Visual Arts, even though the arts don't require logical-mathematic intelligence ( 1 of the 7 types) it does require visual and spatial intelligence , both of wich also have their space for academic production and require education to develop. I get the point you made, I just think you were unhappy with the example. In the end though it's just as you said "Beeing nice and genuine " is the key ! ^^
Lord Chumpington yeah, MAN, I agree at some points but... I'm gonna get an education close to math (i live in Russia, we have really complicated names for barchelor degrees) & i would never date someone who doesn't know how to make money. I am a girl and want a wealthy family not a special snowflake. There would be times when I wont be able to make money. U see, the other problem is that loving art is not hard at all. So I'd rather date someone ambicious and serious about life rather than someone so irresponsible. Also, we have free education and it's really good, so not having a degree would be considered as a total laziness. So I would only marry someone with a good degree. Also I'm not that stupid and well read, have taste im music and movies. So my main focus in people is brain. But I would totaly do a one night stand with someone stupid and pretty.
Sorry for mistakes
kakibackup2 Koujo
Hold your horses. She is well educated herself and simply wants an equal partner.
Damn a PhD in mathematics . . .
Its mind bottling the amount of people that don't know or understand the difference between education and intelligence
Bottling??? Lmfao
Colter Hikel it’s “Mind Boggling”
The expression is mind boggling not bottling.
☕🐸
mind bottling.
oh well
whatever
nevermind
“If you think you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room.” -Unknown
@@aryanchauhan588 umm.....so?
@@aryanchauhan588 okay. Don't take what I said as rude plz...I was kinda just joking.
I am 31: poor, lonely, and sick.
Despite learning a lot, I always struggled in school. I barely passed high school. Where I live you need a college diploma to get a somewhat “good” job. Since I grew up in poor household, I needed to work my ass off to get enough money to enrol for a college. With 23 I did that.
Like in school despite learning a lot I didn’t wrote good enough graded to finish my degree. I even changed three times my major. Nothing worked. At 29 I left college with no degree or money. The only job I could find was as a clerk at a fast-food chain.
People judge me for my experience negatively - especially in the context of dating. I tried everything: dating apps, approaching women, single meetups. Every woman rejected me. And off course not one single woman ever showed interested in me. They told me “I am lazy ass”.
That’s the worst part. People will judge you over something you had no control over. I worked my ass off and I still do. But its hard to get judged negatively for something I had no or little control over.
Why you racist assholes pair White MAN with Asian woman - why not Asian man with White woman ?? You all are promoting YELLOW FEVER and emasculation of Asian men. This is not only racist but also sexist. Yet you have no problem paring a Black man with a White.
this needs an app, where you're put with strangers who live next to you, and with only looking at a picture you answer all the questions , and then you videochat with them and see if you would date or not. i'd love to have an app like this
I AM SAM that's what dating sites actually do all the time son
hahaha well maybe a new app xD
TheNooBestSam omg yas I want an app like that
An app like this concept is really nice.
there's an app called "candidate" where you put out questions and rank people's answers and then you get matched with the person's answers you have ranked the highest
i like the way he thinks about college... At least he's making money and doesn't have any student debt to worry about...
Good comment, but why did you reply to yourself??
;)
Faadil Siyaad I was just thinking this 😂😂😂
Lolest i love myself
porque quiere, puede y no le da miedo ajajjajaja
Darkside Sider did you just say something about fear of commenting? Id like to learn your language...
I would totally love to see follow up dates after these encounters!!
Jasmine Park most importantly would u like to see us together in the future baby Jas? 🌹😚
LOOL dayum
Jasmine Park me too!!
Jasmine Park might happen...but might not happen...
Jasmine Park i see you a lot in comments :D
listen, i'm gonna need a video that updates us on all these couples.
Me too!
OMG.YES
Kaitlynn Rost I agree updates on all
I second that.
Agreed
I feel like this guy should be cast as a greaser in a 50's movie saying "ayy tony don't sweat it man, we'll waste these kats man"
😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂
'You were pretty spot on with almost all of them.'
*Gets none of them spot on*
This is cute as hell man
Kai Rey not as cute as you !
Kai Rey I
Francis King wtf
Kai Rey i can see them dating for 3 yrs and then the ring.
Kai Rey he seems wierd
Less educated doesn’t mean stupid or incapable of change,there are less educated who are much more financial successful than those who have attained further degrees in their education
Facts of life!
Sutekina Ojiisan Rich Dad , Poor Dad
Much more successful financially, or socially, athletically, romantically, in arts and crafts, etc....indeed, there are many different ways to shine, so to speak. and academics isn't the only thing out there one can excel at. There are also things that need to be done for society yet don't require lots of brains. I appreciate the people who drive the garbage trucks and clean public bathrooms so that this country can be nice to live in. If everyone decided to be professors or simply study theoretical stuff for a living, life in America would be significantly less pleasant.
Lili Cohen you are such a kind soul❤️ and you are right on this too:) God bless you!
@@factisfact9426 Thanks for the compliment there. And yes, I actually do think that American society would collapse if everyone had an IQ above 120. Those who are very academically inclined have valuable talents but still suck at many things that other people are good at. That is why diversity exists. Unfortunately, due to this long-standing idea that not going to college means you'll be loser, there is an actual shortage of workers in certain occupations that require nothing more than apprenticeships or vocational school. Schoolchildren have been brainwashed for decades into thinking that bluecollar jobs are only for losers. It's kind of ironic, though, because it is extremely common for people with college degrees to be working in retail. All of the baristas who work at my neighborhood Starbucks have degrees in liberal arts and they are suffering! Many degrees are useless now, not just for work, but even for making you smarter. So much of the content has been watered down in the less selective American colleges. So yes, I do respect people who clean the bathrooms WAY more than many "academics" out there, especially those who are teaching bogus courses in some weird subject area. As for the janitors, they are actually doing something that benefits society directly. Someone who gets paid to lecture students on arcane gender theories in medieval France is not really helping much usually. The students will also likely have tons of debt that they'll never be able to pay off. And the only job they'll be able to find is at Starbucks or something else that doesn't require a university degree.
I feel so single watching these LOL
Jasmine Park SAME
Jasmine Park hGahahahah lol
Jasmine Park Girl I don't feel single, I am single. LOL
Bad Bitch lol that actually made me laugh 😂
whahaha single crew here 🙋
Me and my girl are dumb asses so we good
😂😂😂
Justin Morales 😂😂😂😂
Same
Yoytube Comments it's a joke lol but I understand your comment
Rooooooooooooooofllllll
Less educated does not necessarily mean “stupid”.
Definitely yes
To women, it does.
@@2livenoob no lol
agreed
Less education doesn't mean 'stupid'. I agree. The problem is that one should never underestimate the power of the male ego. Many men have trouble dating women with more education. In the beginning they say it is fine, then they come up with excuses for why the didn't finish college. I can tell when someone has a college education just by their conversation alone. I've dated men with less education, it has never been a good idea.
She does look like an Ashley lol
bandsforlifelol bahahahaha
Tbh
Bands for Life your name is Suzy and you're 21 and youre a law student
More like an aubrey tbh
Brianna
I feel like they are good people, but not right for each other :/
Who else cheered so loudly for their results and answered they were both so understanding to each other. I really want an update on them😍😍😍
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I screamed so loud I wet my knickers.
lol i didn't but im still happy
I have a lot of respect for people who don't go to college because they want to do something else. it requires so much self-confidence and so much courage.
Thats cool and all till you want that next raise and promotion... but you need a degree 😬
Not me BTW. Just heard this from a family friend.
@@Setwhattt 34%*
@@meryembenallal7811 wow, huge difference /s
Some people are just lazy though
education is not about going to college, it is about reading.
I love how this man talks.
I said the same thing
He is a salesman
Move to Massachusetts LOL...New Bedford region to be exact...or Providence..LOL. You'll be surrounded.
He fucked up when he said she is 25 lol
Because it is obvious girls dont like to be thought old?
ファヒム M_ lol 25 isnt old
I would have honestly loved if someone thought I was 25 when I was 22, haha. Usually people think I'm 16
Cuz girls are fucked up in the head that way!
Wang Ping I'm 15 and usually people think I'm 23.
"I'm always hungry" I think I found my soulmate😂👏🏼
Wow
Lol
Is that you on your profile pic? If so that's an awesome pic!!
@@HaMashiachYeshuaisLord Yeah that's me :) Thank you sm😘
Lol every teen age girl ever 😂🙄
As a salesman myself I CAN tell he is extremely good at his job!
박정훈 my thoughts as well!
Seriously! I would totally let him sell me a car.
@@SaravanjaSteele this.....this means two things doesnt it? lol
@@stillthinking3740 - Not intentionally, but I see what you did there. LOL.
I agree!
I have a dear friend who hated school but she was amazing at sales. She became a head hunter and now owns the biggest firm in Northern California. She's a multi millionaire with zero mortgage on her Alamo home. We all fit in the world in different places!
yeeeeees another ep. you have to do an ep where you tell us if anyone has continued dating and such
Exactly!! I'm always curious!
izi810 -Fifa Vids :D I want to know that too!
KEEP IT AT 666
agreed! cause i wanna know how it goes
"an" ep not a ep
My long time boyfriend, now ex was, a heavy machine operator and made well over 100k and year. Not even sure he had a GED. But what pissed me off, was that he completely was against me going to college, to the point I didn't go. Granted I do okay financially now, but I'd at least have a two year. Ironically I'd probably be making less money if I finished school, but it was still dumb of me to listen to him.
So if anyone is reading this, if your significant other requires you to sacrifice your happiness/dreams and or goals to keep them happy, It isn't love, run. There's always a happy medium, and there's also always someone else.
Attica Jefferson I love ❤️ the part that there is always "someone else " that what I have been living hoping to get MR right for me yeah thanks 🙏 I'm gonna follow my dreams and will not ever try to please anyone as I always do in life 😊
Shut up. He told you that cuz he knew most degrees are bullshit and a waste of time. He was looking out for you
UniversalMystery47
You do know having a degree gets you more money then people WIHTOUT degrees iright,.,.
How does having a degree get you more money when Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, and Steve Jobs didn't have one and they all became billionaires?
Jessica Kóródy Statistically, people with degrees make more money than people without degrees. Also, the people that you listed were extremely intelligent, and some of them even attended Ivy league institutions before becoming entrepreneurs..
when she says how her area is very asian and a lot of peer-pressure to succeed in school as an asian i felt that lmao
channel break she's still a student tho
I'm a PhD student and my husband stopped after high school but we balance each other in so many ways, and it works for us.
Mina in Japan amazing. Tell me more !
Yes me too pls
Mina in Japan nice I think only us black people can live with each other even tho our education can be different... btw japan is beautiful I miss osaka
jon Doe - That's true. My father has a PHD degree in architecture. He and my mother are both immigrants and meet each other here. My mom didn't finish 4th grade but she's very intelligent. They're both black. My mom stays home and takes care of our family and my dad earns the money. They're both black. My father didn't care so much about her education but more her looks, personality and skills.
She DOES look like an Ashley lol
RJN omg I was just thinking this!
RJ N I thought that too, and I realized it's because of Ashely from buzzfeed 😂
RJ N tru
RJ N yeah she does😂
Like ole girl from Recess 😂😂
Difference in their educational views? There really didn't seem to be much difference in that. Just in their own level of formal education.
“You actually got a lot of them right!” Gets only one question right...
😂😂😂
Thought about the same thing...
I know people who have no college education that make great money, but I also think that an educated person will not trade their education for anything. Also note that you don't have to go to college to be educated as long as you keep yourself interested in learning about the world around you.
I would. If someone offered me a couple million or even just a million to trade in my education I would do it in a heartbeat. You will never get a million dollar paycheck going to school to take orders working for the man. Maybe over the span of years and you still won’t see that money in whole. I will trade it for anything worthwhile.
Generally, you're less likely to find a person without a college degree making high income than a person with a college degree, statistically speaking. However, you're absolutely right about the last sentence since you can learn almost anything with the internet and books. College degrees are pretty much like driver's licenses.
J Gamez well put.
I'm graduated with a business degree and I would trade that for a secure six figure salary job in a heartbeat.
Exactly. Self and continuing education are as important as any degree path.
He seems really sweet and he's a handsome looking fella! I would be surprised if she said she wouldn't date him just because he had a different view on education.
Ashely and Anthony are now happily married with 2 confused kids!!
Lmao
😂😂
Lol but why confused hahahahahah
xX FaNaTiCyEtTi Xx oh man I'm bad person!!! Hhhhh but confuced kids LMAO
What do you mean by confused?
I've got to hand it to the girl for asking him on a date first! Nice. Haha.
I applaud anyone who has the nerve to ask someone out.
@@donaldfewell9929 She wasted no time, too!
That was hardly an ask, if a guy asked a girl out like that, she would say no or have no idea he asked her out
that's because he makes more money than her /s
Education is not as important as the ability to think critically and have a good conversation. Some people find their calling and anything more than vocational school is a waste of time for them.
Everyone's like "omg this is so cute" but I found this really awkward tbh
Yeah I think they attempted to force themselves to connect to eachother for the sake of being nice
All first dates have a level of awkwardness I would say and people are nervous so it's harder to be comfortable. It's hard to tell if you'd be compatible on a first date unless there is an obvious difference in ideology.
Sarah K and I can assure you this date will not go well. It will go nowhere.
I think going on and on defending your decision not to get a degree comes across as needy. Turns me off.
yea this dude is such misogin-ish
i dont think educated is the right word. formal education doesnt imply intelligence or social consciousness. i'd date someone if they were curious and empathetic, regardless of how much schooling they have.
Curious and empathetic... definitely two amazing qualities to have!
Amber W well said.
Amber W Amber W agreed. I know a lot of people who graduated college and are dumb. A lot of people graduate college just cause and they barely get by just for validation. And after graduating they have no desire to keep learning and doing their own research on current events and other topics. I also know people who didn't graduate and are just as smart as those who did, or smarter.
Amber W that's something the uneducated say
I have always been saying "No" to dating someone less educated than me. Having 2 undergrad degrees as well a Master's degree in Science I was sure that in order to be successful and happy I would NEED someone with higher education as a partner. Let me tell you how wrong was I about it all😂 I am now dating someone AMAZING who doesn't even an undergraduate degree and I am happier than I have ever been ♥️
So happy for u girl 🥰
Sara's Randomz good for you,I went to college but didn't finish.I just started another business(my 3rd one).Success come in different ways.
If we dated based on our partner having a higher education achievement, we would be all be single. I have two undergrad degrees, and my partner has a master degree. So, I am glad you found someone.
I'm glad for you. 😊
I’m just surprised you had that mindset I’ve met plenty of assholes who are educated and non educated. I see people still judge in anything they can
ill just say it the "tell my story" intro its like 13 reasons why intro😂
Folkprism 2 soo true
Folkprism 2 I
Oml so true
Folkprism 2 OMG TRUEEEEE
Folkprism 2 Hahahhahaa
I'm Korean and I thought she was Korean.
Im Portuguese and did not know he was Portuguese...
im joseph and no one care
come clash with joe - clash royale I do
Anónimo Pt 😂😂
Is it me or what. Most of the girls guessed the guys work as a graphic design? 😅
The one time I saw a girl who didn't guess that, the guy actually was a graphic designer
Chasya Dawi yeah, he doesn’t even look like a graphic designer
brittany smith there is a look?
Patricia Carvalho yeah
Chasya Dawi because its quite safe.. saying they are not professionals in a kinder way
he reminded me of cristiano ronaldo for some weird reason
Because he is Portuguese aswell 😂
Sa3ooda A headshape
Sa3ooda A he looks like his cousin lol
Sa3ooda A yeaaa
Same
personally, education has had given me opportunities. But I can also vouch that its not the only way. I know a lot from my former school who aren't even using their diplomas and are venturing on other careers where they are more happy. So no matter which choice you make as long as you have a passion for it, be you.
Ni Enye you're right. great comment
Ni Enye thank you! love this!
In a relationship there will always be someone less educated
"Have you gotten lunch?" 😂
lol]
Day and she says education is a big thing 😂 obviously not grammar
That was correct grammar. That was actually as formal as you can get using past particle. Gotten implies the process of obtaining something, so yes, "Have you gotten lunch?" is correct.
Stay in school.
I see hunger in his eyes. I think that he will reach his goals.
i thought he would've wanted to be named Cristiano Ronaldo
Alex Constantinidi lol when I saw him I thought his name was Christiano and new he was Portuguese because he looks like Christiano Ronaldo
Hunter DeVoto *Cristiano
Alex Constantinidi hahahaha que sem graça mds
is that name romanian alex
Loool-same. They are lookalikes
when he makes eye contact and bites his lip... alsjsjsmakakn
Less educated or less intelligent? I don't care about the level of education, I do however prefer people with similar levels of intelligence to me.
misslilila He never said that! He said with similar iq levels..
misslilila
When you try to be a smartass...
Only to look like a dumbass...
😂
misslilila I apologize for not seeing your reply earlier and to answer your question, yes, I do believe I'm intelligent. I don't like to bring it up usually because I don't care much for boasting but in this case I felt it was related. My IQ is 145, but I don't feel the urge to go to college for a chance to get a job in an overflowing market. I'm choosing another route that does not require a college education and I don't believe that it should reflect the level of intelligence or ambition you have. I've found that I connect a lot better with women who can challenge me intellectually, that was the reasoning behind my comment.
misslilila What do you mean? I took one with a psychiatrist about 4 years ago. It took a couple hours. I was unaware that there's another kind of test.
Moving Target Not a college degree, those are just nuts & bolts for ppl wanting to get a job. But a degree from a good uni or a postgrad, especially one in the social/political sciences, psychology or law: those do indicate a certain level of intelligence & intellect, a basic (educated) understanding of the world and an ability to discuss a variety of topics with confidence.
He’s the cutest. I can see him talking me into buying a car.
Ha! I'm cuter 🤣
She's smart, hard working, and down to earth. He's a little aloof, hard working, thinks he's a little better than women (unconsciously, but you can tell from his assumptions, probably the way he was raised), and he felt a little uncomfortable with her responses. They are both very polite but I don't think they will work out. They both seem like solid people though.
Idk how he seemed aloof, he seemed pretty friendly and open
I know right lol? I don't think they know what aloof means
Spiritleaf u will be single and one will love u.
Moataz Alzhree Thanks, but I've been in a happy relationship for 10 years.
Spiritleaf WOO YOU SHOW HIM
7:01 for some reason his face screams, "She wont shut up" to me.
LilTRoberts1000 YES
😂😂😂😂 in dead
Who wouldn't date him?
Fagner Macedo straight male
Fagner Macedo me
Lol I wouldn't date him either. He's really nice and good-looking, but not my type.
Don't listen to them. I'd date him
Fagner Macedo 😜
They are both lovely. I am not totally convinced there is chemistry there though.
He's selling her his love.
She bought it cuz she dum dum head lol
There was NO CHEMISTRY between them, but neither of them could say that that " I don't feel chemistry so no I would not date you".
I'm dating Netflix, I'm dating RUclips. I'm a laying rotten potato
ᏦᎻᎪᏁᎻ ______ congratulations
you played yourself
This made me laugh so hard xD
GG I'm glad :3
I thought it said you were laying a rotten potato??
My boyfriend is an Iranian political refuge, he has been at the streets since he was 15, never had the chance to study in a university. Now he works as an interpreter from Farsi to Greek, helping refugees with medical appointments. He taught himself to speak, read and write Greek and he also speaks Turkish and some Kurdish.
On the other hand, I have a master degree from Athens school of Fine Arts, i am an illustrator.
Our life experiences, our wit and brains define who we are, not our diploma. I would be crazy not to date him 😍.
Fine arts? Not a real degree dear. Y'all are at the same level
@@murillop8362 Well said!
Eva Mourtzi is boyfriend completely uneducated I'm mean never went to school? Actually I m feeling a same situation the person who trying to pursue me is loving but is uneducated and on other hand I hold a 4 year university degree in sociology and I'm a bit confused what should I do. He does make good amount of money but I cannot figure out whether I should dive into this relationship or not.
@@UjalaAyub He went to school until the age of 13 i think. It depends on the person i guess. As everyone is saying here someone who has not studied can be really intelligent. If you are interested in the person you shouldnt look at his education but at his manners, character, smarts etc.
King Leonidas would not approve 😂
I feel like the producers just push them in the direction of the chair and let Jesus take the wheel.
Omg Galaxy That's what makes it so fun
that is literally what happens lol
I just wanna meet my soulmate and not have heartbreak
did not think she was going for it lmao
Where do I sign up for this? ahah the fact is i'm very introverted and most of the times when i meet a new person i'm nervous and i can't think of anything to say and probably end up being boring..but then when i'm alone i feel like I have a lot of things to say, to express about myself that sadly almost no one knows. I feel like i'll never find the right person who matches my values and interests just because i'll never be able to express myself to the maximum :(
Same here lady. I always stick to my headphones and my video games. Not an extrovert at all. I only open up to people whom I trust. Otherwise my music is my entire world.
preach , story of my life
My god. That is extremely relatable.
Introvert gathering haha same I shut off completely when I'm around people I don't trust
SO TRUE. it's like I speak a lot in my thoughts like when im thinking but when I actually talk to a person I'm so awkward and silent
The awkwardness was an overflowing sink. Especially at the start, although it does make them very similar. I think once they get more comfortable with each-other it'll be wonderful. Also I like the balance of she thinking school is necessary and he thinking it's not. It'll be good for the potential future children
Hold on to your horses my bro is MGTOW. Just dating for fun.
Palraja Pal why r u bringing mgtow into this smh
Right? Control a room?? He's like a wallflower right now...
Rachel Carter I don't see that working out. She would probably want to raise her children with the same values she has as would most people.
Rachel Carter That is not what he said, he said that it didn't work for him, but he's opinion was that you should graduate if you wanted.
If she doesn't date Andrew then can I?
Mina Is Fab I know right! like I felt she wasn't his type either. I feel like he was just being nice.
He even walks like a salesman
She is gorgeous! Also I love that they were able to have a friendly conversation and work out their differences. I hope their date went well!
Education doesn't correlate with having a "piece of paper" , doesn't work like that.
You can be "educated" by yourself or people in tons of other ways.
College just gave me a precise "mindset" (i have a degree in Computer Science) nothing more, if i could go back in time i wouldn't even started my college career.
I can't stop smiling whenever I watch these. Thank you.
Glad we could put a smile on your face 😊 This comment just put a smile on ours. Thanks for watching!
SoulPancake Watch Boku No Pico lol
do you have a medical problem? Do you need to go and see the doctor?
FoodforThought yup
I'd date this guy
depends on how well the date goes ;)
BZ wtf
? you seem lost someguywithahoodie
actually nah, the date is the teller because we watch how he treats us/how he is in general. looks only get you on the date itself lol. trust me ive had plenty of guys ruin a date and been like omg why am i here whilst on the date, his looks didnt matter. this guy is a cutie though.
Please take him away so I can date her.
In Singapore, no education is close to a dead-end. To find a girlfriend/partner who is far more educated than you, not a chance.
In Morocco too
My boyfriend is less educated than I am. True, it's frustrating at times speaking to each other and referring to things we don't know of. For example, my guy doesn't even know the Merchant of Venice or any of Shakespeare's plays (he doesn't like to read and has only heard of Romeo and Juliet so far; never mind War and Peace or the Handmaid's Tale) so he can never get the puns and quotes. He doesn't like philosophy either and he has quite a poor logical thinking (no fun for me to debate with him about world affairs; he considers arguments as fights/clashes and wants to avoid them). He didn't like museums or theaters much before he met me (and is often dragged to those places lol.)
Yet, he is so amazing with his craftsmanship. He's good with metal and wood and bricks and trees, and all the things I am not good at. (I can never run a household myself; it would be disastrous.) He can cook anything and fix anything. He handles kids and animals with simple magic of compassion. he grows flowers and fruits for me, plays guitar for me, and dries my hair every time I wash it. He drags me to go out more and to exercise (yup I suck at sports). I never had an interest in gardening, but this man taught me the importance and pleasure of the greens. He cools me and makes me let go of unnecessary materialistic ambitions.
I don't know... Many say he's dull and can never understand my mind, so I will never be touched in the soul. But for me he's good enough. What use do I have of another bookworm guy? I have plenty bookworm and academic friends all my life to spar words with. At home I want something different and refreshing, someone to show me new side of life. In my country we call a spouse 'samorn' which literally means 'where we die' meaning people you want to go to when it's your last breath, like to die in his/her lap. In my opinion, that person doesn't need the same level of education you have, you just need to be able to lay your head in that lap and know it is safe, true, and full of love.
Thank you. I needed to read this. I guess i was scrolling through the comments to find something like this. I am in a very similar situation. Infact the first paragraph literally could not have described my partner better :)
I have friends and relatives who think i have "settled" below my intellectual level.
I used to get all my "intellectual stimulation" through friends, books and internet even before i met him , right? so what has to change after getting a partner? why does the partner have to be a source of everything and has to be superior than you in every aspect?
He is the source of emotional security, warmth and intimate connection for me which, by the way , i was definitely not getting from friends, books and internet. That is more valuable for me than the intellectually fulfilling debates over books, current affairs and all. Like you said, he's good enough, for me.
I feel validated with your comment :)
It is good to see someone happy and content in a situation like mine.
Thanks I'm glad to share my perspective to you all :) I couldn't agree more a spouse doesn't have to be everything; such expectations will always drive us mad since no one is ever perfect.
I hope couples in similar situations stay happy for a long time!
Piriya Jumnongprasatporn that's amazing
Piriya Jumnongprasatporn what you write is so true. My hubby and I are both educated. He got his IT diploma (cum laude), and I am law graduate though not cum laude but I finished my postgraduate degree. Things are we both are stubborn and mostly think ourselves are smarter than each other. And you can guess, we always have fights even because of small things. 😂
"But for me he's good enough" ouch!.
I hope you really are truly happy. I think it's definitely conceivably possible but FOR ME (we are all different) it would be so unfulfilling. Your first paragraph is beautifully written and the reason I have ended relationships. I used to feel guilty (for feeling like I was judgmental/close minded) and stay with partners who were less educated and frankly just generally less intelligent than I. But I always ended up feeling so unsatisfied. There was this part of me these partners could never see or understand. I wanted them to come into my world but they felt so uncomfortable in it. And i felt incomplete outside of it. I want a partner who wants to discuss literature and engage in a heated debate about politics and world events. I want a partner that has travelled the world in search of the best museums. One who wants to continue this search with me by their side. I don't ever want to settle for anything less again. We are all unique in our needs and I no longer feel guilty for knowing exactly what I want. I don't think it's judgmental. It's just honest to who I am and what will make me happy. We all deserve that.
Ehh I don't see them as a good match. They were both nice but I didn't see that spark, you know?
ghostie7790 I did, they seem to like each other a lot
I don't think you need to see the spark... they do *haha
You dont know someone until you spend time with them; it was worth a try though
I personally do not think that education is the most suitable measurement to determine your life partner. I've been living in this world for many many years now, and I've met people who claimed that they received high quality education, but the things that came out of their mouth made them alike those cavemen from 2000 B.C. Have you seen the news about those Harvard students who spew preposterous racial jokes in group chat? It's rather appalling. High education does not guarantee a person's emotional maturity, intelligence and humility as a human being.
Alan Rover But it does increase the chances of being mature and humble.
Had I been born in a better place, I would've agreed with you. Sadly from where I'm from, many of the privileged and educated saw the flaw of the system, exploited the poor and treated them poorly. Their minds brilliant, their hearts rotted with greed... which is a terrible combination. The young and hopeful had ideas and aspirations, all but silenced by their budding age. The young and educated have no voice and place here. Perhaps indeed what you said is true, but I also think the environment in which we grow also come into factor. When youth is surrounded by the prideful, then that's what he or she will become.
Alan Rover There is this saying from where I'm from, translated it goes something like this, The tree laden with fruits always bends to the ground. Which means that those who are educated and I'm not talking about poems and equations but ideas which builds character. The truly educated are naturally kind and humble. It comes with education it should not have to be additionally taught. These boys and girls can be called intelligent but not educated.
" I studied more than i should have" - hum..cant relate...
😂😂😂😂Same 👀🥴
I also thought her name was Jenny😂
Gtwarrior Llama I thought her name was Mary oops 😬
Gtwarrior Llama me too
Jenny is such an Asian girl name. So is Jessica. So is Sunny.
lalakuma9 whoa, I met a Asian girl named jenny.
I said camilla
He’s so handsome 😍
jordan_afk lol hello😊🥀☕️
Damnnnnnn Andrew
what’s ur snap or ig mine is @filippo.dc for ig and FilippoD.C for snap
Right? I would have been smitten right away.
Ikr he's lowkey hot
Lana Simak am I the only one who doesn’t find him hot
Renji Ripon i am white just no
ok, when you say less educated. I was imagine a doctor with a stripper. student vs car saleman is not that different haha
The breakdown is probably degreed vs. non-degreed.
😂I’m dating a doctor and I’m a bartender but also a student so I dont graduate with debt in the future lol
Yeah but once she graduates, she will have a degree and will most likely pursue higher education, while he's still a car salesman. lol
Who said all strippers are uneducated?
😂😂😂
Has anyone ever gotten the name right though
I guess it right :D lol he looks like an Andrew lmao
@@tinktink5592 I guessed he was an Andrew too !
Sam R I SAID ANDREW TOO
I guess nothing
I want to see an episode where someone guesses the name correctly
4:50 100% agree!! Yes, getting a college education is wonderful but not everyone has that chance or can afford to go! You can still have a great job without a degree that you love and make excellent money doing it! Their hard to come across but they are out there! Regardless, work hard and do what's best for you!!
This was so pleasing to see them have similar views yet different ones. The girl was very open minded and recognized the possibility that his career choice didn’t need a college education. Although I feel that the videos title was a tad misleading in the sense that “dating someone less educated” doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re not intelligent. For example: the man in this video clearly handled himself well and acquired knowledge from his family rather than spending thousand of dollars on a degree that wouldn’t help him excel in his career of choice. In a way, I would consider him very smart in the fact that he recognized that and took that opportunity to invest his money elsewhere.
hanna hello 😊☕️🥀
She does not look 22!
Asians can either look 11 or 50
I agree lol. Hello😊🥀☕️
@@smartwater598 ok asshole.
smart water *typical
@@smartwater598 you're not even that smart... lol
I was shocked to hear him say he's portuguese........ well.. same
psilva I totally get you!
Eu também :D
hahaha também😂😂✌✋
Onde está o típico " PORTUGAL CARALHOOOOOOOO"
Eu também 😂😂
I mean, tbh her voice is kind of like ashley's from until dawn
Jessica Walton but looks like Emily
AI LIN omg totally does! Kinda sounds like her too.. probably more than ashley actually... man i love that game
Jessica Walton Yeah! haha Me too! it's a pretty good game tho
Just what I thought when watching this
That's EXACTLY what I was thinking!! xD
He looks like a vet
this is weirdly specific but so true 😂😂😂
There’s no way that her parents would let her date him lol
He's out of her league anyway imo
@@joesheridan9451 idk I think they both attractive. Didnt know there was leagues cuz I've seen a ton of pretty girls w ugly dudes. It's almost like beauty is subjective 😂
Correct huh
They looks so freaking cute together omgg!!
Nah. They look bored out of their minds. You can see they both want to get the hell out of there.
He is hot as she is blah!
when you're persian and the only way other people can tell is by how hairy you are 😫
Saya N Don't forget latinas...
Jimenez Latinas are supposed to be hairy?
I'm latina and I'm very hairy lol
screams internally bc im indian
Portuguese and other Latino are very hairy lol
Who's watching this without socks on scrolling through the comments ?
Damn it! I'm wearing socks..
Why is this so specific,,, yes i am, and i rarely don't wear socks so you got me
Dawnxtr me
Chrono not too much extra information
Are you staking me?
Few years ago my ex dumped me cause I didn’t want to go on further studies and was happy with what I’m working as a sales person too. You can be book smart and talk with no sense. You can be street smart and talk with sense. Higher Educational level doesn’t mean it defines you.
College is a waste of time if you don't get the right degree. The best education is experience.