May the Lord bless you from Zion! May you see Jerusalem prosper all the days of your life! May you live to see your grandchildren! Peace be with Israel
"THANK YOU FOR TRUTH, I'VE BEEN AWARE OF ALL THE LIES, ONE DAY EVERY KNEE WILL BOW AN EVERY TONGUE CONFESS THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD." "STANDING FIRM ON BIBLE TRUTH❤⚓️
I SOO WISH I would have understood this! You are SO Spot On!! I wish I would have had a Dad like you! My parents didn't raise me. They were not mentally mature enough. The Hurt I Feel! God/Jesus/Holy Spirit, is all I have to rely on. That is enough for Certain! I wouldn't trade having them for anything. However it would be SO NICE to have that one man, who Loves God first, to WANT TO Love me and Share life with me as God intended men and women to be for each other. If you read this, please pray for me. I'm 47 and now trying to overcome health issues ( CPTSD, fibromyalgia and all that comes with that) that are the product of not being raised and known love from family. Pray for me and for ALL like me who are products of unGodly living. Thank You!
You are describing my husband. I’m a lawyer…I started recording my husband and taking pictures. I’ve not showed them to anyone until I need to. Now my cat and I have a lovely apartment. I’m lonely and worried, which causes me to stay closer to Jesus than I have ever been in my life.
Thank you for revealing a simple clue but deep. It inspired me to make a plan to help youths being a abuser to other youths. God bless you with wisdom to keep on preaching . 😊
2024 your right pastor lutzer, my only son was very abusive to me his own mom, i tried to cover it things gotten explosive 🧨 one day he attacked me, my guest with a machete knife 🔪🔪😢 please pray God show him mercy
What is 'not' addressed in this sermon is the church helping and welcoming the abused wife who is alone, and helping her to find appropriate Christian counseling and/or doctor to get help with the damage that has been done. Exposing the shame within a group of women may not be the best thing to do, but cause more shame and physchological damage - timing is important. You may also put her in extreme danger if the husband finds out. Never tell her when to leave - women know when. It is during the leaving that she is in the most danger of being really hurt. --- Back in the late 70s and early 80s, because I had been married, and later not married, I was not welcomed. Abuse leaves psychological (ptsd) and emotional scars, and physical abuse leaves injuries that stay with the abused. - You cannot force forgiveness as this sometimes takes a long time, perhaps years, especially when the church isolates and rejects. Then, the woman must work through it all alone and must sesrch out a way to also forgive the spiritual abuse by the church. 😔🙏🏽📖
The problem with the way it’s addressed is he sees the abuser as needing to be understood. Since they are so good at fooling others, even if held accountable, they will feign repentance and continue the abuse until the poor wife goes crazy. It is spiritual abuse. Not only does she need to seek help, she needs to be completely separated from him along with the children and allowed to divorce without repercussions. These men don’t change. Maybe rarely if at all. They are hardened in their hearts and can do much harm and cause great fear which is why often a woman says nothing or if she does, she is not believed. She is never in greater danger than when she tries to leave and he figures it out. People need to believe her and help her escape while there’s still any hope of him not completely ruining her and her children.
Thank you for listening. Many have experienced what you're describing first-hand. There is a great danger when an abuser is completely hardened, only thinking about themselves. Pastor Lutzer's purpose in this message was to call abusers to stop living in denial and to come into the light to get help. The hope of redemption in Jesus Christ, highlighted in this message, doesn't always mean that the consequences of one's behavior will be absolved. Pastor Lutzer often says that the consequences remain even if the sin is forgiven before God. When our consciences are hardened, we become that impossible person. If you're looking for further teaching against the dangers of narcissism, check out this sermon: www.moodymedia.org/sermons/power-clear-conscience/becoming-impossible-person/. We are committed to offering resources to guide families towards a godly response to these real-life issues.
My ex husband was/is an abuser. In the end I lost the battle. Had to flee leaving children to him (he brainwashed them against me). Now my children are mentally ill. And he knows the Bible very well (back to front), a former missionary, 95% of church believed him and supported him. Years later when it became obvious one of the elders apologized to me, but too late. The irreversible has happened. Kids grew up hating and blaming me. And they are mentally very unstable, became as arrogant as him. We haven't seen each other for more than 10 years. And they still refuse contacting me.
@@MoodyChurchMediahow is your article helpful to anyone? It doesn’t shed light on the woman in the abusive situation. Narcissism breeds more narcissism. It’s an open door for Satan.
I can’t find his book managing your emotions: god's good gifts gone wrong I don’t know why I’m posting this but I’m gonna. My mom passed in 08 I never got my life together but I always believed In Jesus. From 21 I would say but granny used to take me to church back in Jamaica 🇯🇲. When I was 16 friends and I discovered pornography and that became my stronghold for decades. Plus weed and alcohol . I spent alot of time with the Lord still do. I attend church I am a member but my attendance has fallen off. Our God has freed me from pornography it’s still a huge temptation but i stay far away like Joseph. My mom house got forecloses because I didn’t have a job I used to get Cannabinoid hyperemesis syndrome where the weed makes you dizzy and throw up 🤮 I still smoked for decades i wanted to stop so bad I prayed i cried The lord took away the pain and dizzy and nauseousness I was a truck driver in training before all this in the time line I was waiting for my own truck and had a seizure praise Jesus before I got my truck I turned to crime briefly as a teen but it broke my moms heart so I just stayed broke and tried to make it honestly like any black teen. A Crack dealer lived next door to me in suburbia where my mom moved to get me away from that world as a kid You see what’s happening? We quickly became friends he was like my big brother and bought me burger king jr. whopper meals and smoke weed with me alot All the time I’m highly spending time with God. Praying leaving the scene to pray and read my Bible After mom passed i had no home no one i went to stay with my aunt a friend of moms I met a woman online I’m still here we are not equally yoked i do not have relations with her anymore or as much we fight alot she says she believes in God but she doesn’t spend anytime with Him, anyway i love her and her grandchildren i bring one to church with me. My Kare bear my baby girl I have to let Jesus save them from this world. But I can’t be with there grandmother She was sexually abused at 2 and her husband was highly abusive I had relations with her you already know where I’m going if you are a believer I have this rage and anger he was a huge alcoholic i never liked to drink alcohol but i did party When i met her i became a drunk Not saying it’s her fault not saying it’s her husbands demons or her pedophile father which I doubt was a Christian I don’t drink anymore or watch porn i still go to church the weed is a stronghold My therapist says it’s because I was bullied i am bi polor and the weed calms the rage I pray for help and deliverance I make music to Glorify God rap/reggae I feel like a huge hypocrite but I’m not stopping the doc says it’s good for my bi polor I am just able to pray for help because I don’t want to quit weed I believe that guy who sold crack used to put it in the weed I don’t know 🤷 My girlfriend comes along too to church and her granddaughter i hated God i cursed Him after my mom died I don’t anymore now i cry and thank Him for everything and if it’s His Will keep freeing me from these strongholds because I’m powerless against my flesh I think I found a customer service job My therapist said because of my bi polor thing it’s best Plus I don’t do well in the world I’m not afraid to go outside or anything I just see how it is now and I don’t go anywhere unless I have to I was homeless she kicked me out several times we just fight alot She got me my citizenship I am not using her I don’t think I can ever pay her back I’m sorry for my behavior I need to go to Jamaica and see if maybe I can spread the Word with my music The weed is a thorn in my flesh I’m not going to stop trying to stop I’m afraid I won’t be creative anymore because the weed keeps me normal because I have been smoking for so long I’m not saying it makes me creative you might beg to differ I’m saying my mind is normal and focused because my mind is pacified I need to stop though I’m like a crackhead without it I don’t smoke when I’m writing music or recording as much though I’m focused on finishing up the songs Anyway I’m still fighting the good fight Ohh yeah me and the thug went on a double date to watch Toby Maggiore Spiderman back in the day he got caught witha tynanol bottle full of crack i went on my face and prayed He went to prison again When the cop tried to take my finger print he said the machine stopped working And said I was free to go I have never had a criminal record minor burglary offenses as a teen my mom cried and I stopped I was an only child I have no one in Jamaica I don’t know where I would stay so I’ll try to figure it out here with the lords help in florida All my bullies are dead or in jail or on hard drugs I don’t know why I’m living in a golfing community working on my GED and my new customer service job Well we know why praise Jesus Weed is my stronghold but with the Lords help I’ll beat it God Bless Fam ❤
Thank you Pastor Lutzer. Standing in the need of prayer to forgive as I have been forgiven.
May the Lord bless you from Zion! May you see Jerusalem prosper all the days of your life! May you live to see your grandchildren!
Peace be with Israel
Safe the world from Abuse to help our dear children at all cost
"THANK YOU FOR TRUTH, I'VE BEEN AWARE OF ALL THE LIES, ONE DAY EVERY KNEE WILL BOW AN EVERY TONGUE CONFESS THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD." "STANDING FIRM ON BIBLE TRUTH❤⚓️
Children are precious in every respect so need both their parents love and protection at all cost
Children need our love and protection while growing up, or else they turn to drug abuse and damage their whole future
I SOO WISH I would have understood this! You are SO Spot On!! I wish I would have had a Dad like you! My parents didn't raise me. They were not mentally mature enough. The Hurt I Feel! God/Jesus/Holy Spirit, is all I have to rely on. That is enough for Certain! I wouldn't trade having them for anything. However it would be SO NICE to have that one man, who Loves God first, to WANT TO Love me and Share life with me as God intended men and women to be for each other. If you read this, please pray for me. I'm 47 and now trying to overcome health issues ( CPTSD, fibromyalgia and all that comes with that) that are the product of not being raised and known love from family. Pray for me and for ALL like me who are products of unGodly living. Thank You!
Ps: 128 - Happy are those who obey the Lord who live by his commands. Your work will provide for your needs; you will be happy and prosperous.
Critical message for this hour in time. People definitely have short fuses...
You are describing my husband. I’m a lawyer…I started recording my husband and taking pictures. I’ve not showed them to anyone until I need to. Now my cat and I have a lovely apartment. I’m lonely and worried, which causes me to stay closer to Jesus than I have ever been in my life.
Thank you for revealing a simple clue but deep.
It inspired me to make a plan to help youths being a abuser to other youths.
God bless you with wisdom to keep on preaching .
😊
Thanful
Well Done, thank you
Thanks for your encouragement! This is an important message to share.
Rita Kolnicky
9 minutes ago
I SURE "CAN" IDENTIFY WITH ALL THAT YOU SAID IN THIS MESSAGE !!!! SAD INDEED !!!!
The abuser will destroy the abused if they even t h i n k they will attempt to bring the abuse to the light, much less in public…
2024 your right pastor lutzer, my only son was very abusive to me his own mom, i tried to cover it things gotten explosive 🧨 one day he attacked me, my guest with a machete knife 🔪🔪😢 please pray God show him mercy
❤
What is 'not' addressed in this sermon is the church helping and welcoming the abused wife who is alone, and helping her to find appropriate Christian counseling and/or doctor to get help with the damage that has been done. Exposing the shame within a group of women may not be the best thing to do, but cause more shame and physchological damage - timing is important. You may also put her in extreme danger if the husband finds out. Never tell her when to leave - women know when. It is during the leaving that she is in the most danger of being really hurt. --- Back in the late 70s and early 80s, because I had been married, and later not married, I was not welcomed. Abuse leaves psychological (ptsd) and emotional scars, and physical abuse leaves injuries that stay with the abused. - You cannot force forgiveness as this sometimes takes a long time, perhaps years, especially when the church isolates and rejects. Then, the woman must work through it all alone and must sesrch out a way to also forgive the spiritual abuse by the church. 😔🙏🏽📖
The problem with the way it’s addressed is he sees the abuser as needing to be understood. Since they are so good at fooling others, even if held accountable, they will feign repentance and continue the abuse until the poor wife goes crazy. It is spiritual abuse. Not only does she need to seek help, she needs to be completely separated from him along with the children and allowed to divorce without repercussions. These men don’t change. Maybe rarely if at all. They are hardened in their hearts and can do much harm and cause great fear which is why often a woman says nothing or if she does, she is not believed. She is never in greater danger than when she tries to leave and he figures it out. People need to believe her and help her escape while there’s still any hope of him not completely ruining her and her children.
Thank you for listening. Many have experienced what you're describing first-hand.
There is a great danger when an abuser is completely hardened, only thinking about themselves. Pastor Lutzer's purpose in this message was to call abusers to stop living in denial and to come into the light to get help. The hope of redemption in Jesus Christ, highlighted in this message, doesn't always mean that the consequences of one's behavior will be absolved. Pastor Lutzer often says that the consequences remain even if the sin is forgiven before God.
When our consciences are hardened, we become that impossible person. If you're looking for further teaching against the dangers of narcissism, check out this sermon: www.moodymedia.org/sermons/power-clear-conscience/becoming-impossible-person/. We are committed to offering resources to guide families towards a godly response to these real-life issues.
@@MoodyChurchMedia my father is a narcissist. They destroy people's lives without feeling a thing
My ex husband was/is an abuser. In the end I lost the battle. Had to flee leaving children to him (he brainwashed them against me). Now my children are mentally ill. And he knows the Bible very well (back to front), a former missionary, 95% of church believed him and supported him. Years later when it became obvious one of the elders apologized to me, but too late. The irreversible has happened. Kids grew up hating and blaming me. And they are mentally very unstable, became as arrogant as him. We haven't seen each other for more than 10 years. And they still refuse contacting me.
@@emaus2011I don’t know if you see this but I’m so very sorry
@@MoodyChurchMediahow is your article helpful to anyone? It doesn’t shed light on the woman in the abusive situation. Narcissism breeds more narcissism. It’s an open door for Satan.
I can’t find his book managing your emotions: god's good gifts gone wrong
I don’t know why I’m posting this but I’m gonna. My mom passed in 08 I never got my life together but I always believed In Jesus. From 21 I would say but granny used to take me to church back in Jamaica 🇯🇲.
When I was 16 friends and I discovered pornography and that became my stronghold for decades. Plus weed and alcohol . I spent alot of time with the Lord still do. I attend church I am a member but my attendance has fallen off.
Our God has freed me from pornography it’s still a huge temptation but i stay far away like Joseph.
My mom house got forecloses because I didn’t have a job
I used to get Cannabinoid hyperemesis syndrome where the weed makes you dizzy and throw up 🤮
I still smoked for decades i wanted to stop so bad I prayed i cried
The lord took away the pain and dizzy and nauseousness
I was a truck driver in training before all this in the time line
I was waiting for my own truck and had a seizure praise Jesus before I got my truck
I turned to crime briefly as a teen but it broke my moms heart so I just stayed broke and tried to make it honestly like any black teen.
A Crack dealer lived next door to me in suburbia where my mom moved to get me away from that world as a kid
You see what’s happening?
We quickly became friends he was like my big brother and bought me burger king jr. whopper meals and smoke weed with me alot
All the time I’m highly spending time with God. Praying leaving the scene to pray and read my Bible
After mom passed i had no home no one i went to stay with my aunt a friend of moms
I met a woman online I’m still here we are not equally yoked i do not have relations with her anymore or as much we fight alot she says she believes in God but she doesn’t spend anytime with Him, anyway i love her and her grandchildren i bring one to church with me. My Kare bear my baby girl I have to let Jesus save them from this world. But I can’t be with there grandmother
She was sexually abused at 2 and her husband was highly abusive
I had relations with her you already know where I’m going if you are a believer
I have this rage and anger he was a huge alcoholic i never liked to drink alcohol but i did party
When i met her i became a drunk
Not saying it’s her fault not saying it’s her husbands demons
or her pedophile father which I doubt was a Christian
I don’t drink anymore or watch porn i still go to church the weed is a stronghold
My therapist says it’s because I was bullied i am bi polor and the weed calms the rage
I pray for help and deliverance
I make music to Glorify God rap/reggae I feel like a huge hypocrite but I’m not stopping the doc says it’s good for my bi polor
I am just able to pray for help because I don’t want to quit weed
I believe that guy who sold crack used to put it in the weed I don’t know 🤷
My girlfriend comes along too to church and her granddaughter
i hated God i cursed Him after my mom died
I don’t anymore now i cry and thank Him for everything and if it’s His Will keep freeing me from these strongholds because I’m powerless against my flesh
I think I found a customer service job
My therapist said because of my bi polor thing it’s best
Plus I don’t do well in the world
I’m not afraid to go outside or anything
I just see how it is now and I don’t go anywhere unless I have to
I was homeless she kicked me out several times we just fight alot
She got me my citizenship
I am not using her
I don’t think I can ever pay her back
I’m sorry for my behavior
I need to go to Jamaica and see if maybe I can spread the Word with my music
The weed is a thorn in my flesh I’m not going to stop trying to stop I’m afraid I won’t be creative anymore because the weed keeps me normal because I have been smoking for so long
I’m not saying it makes me creative you might beg to differ
I’m saying my mind is normal and focused because my mind is pacified
I need to stop though I’m like a crackhead without it
I don’t smoke when I’m writing music or recording as much though
I’m focused on finishing up the songs
Anyway I’m still fighting the good fight
Ohh yeah me and the thug went on a double date to watch Toby Maggiore Spiderman back in the day he got caught witha tynanol bottle full of crack i went on my face and prayed
He went to prison again
When the cop tried to take my finger print he said the machine stopped working
And said I was free to go
I have never had a criminal record minor burglary offenses as a teen my mom cried and I stopped
I was an only child
I have no one in Jamaica I don’t know where I would stay so I’ll try to figure it out here with the lords help in florida
All my bullies are dead or in jail or on hard drugs
I don’t know why I’m living in a golfing community working on my GED and my new customer service job
Well we know why praise Jesus
Weed is my stronghold but with the Lords help I’ll beat it
God Bless Fam ❤