This is a very interesting therapy. She is doing purposeful little things to bother him, like knocking the blocks over so hopefully he can learn to tolerate these small things that bother him and eventually bigger ones later.
I swear to God. people are going to come back psychologist and this is such research and this is just a way to literally make you understand what OCD is. You're such a great mother I cannot put it into words.
This child is absolutely gorgeous, smart, sympathetic, well spoken, loved, and a reflection of his parents upbringing. Much love, keep up the great work! Hugs from Toronto 🇨🇦
This boy reminds me of my son when he was that age. He was diagnosed at 6 years old with Asperger’s, he was very smart and set in his ways. He would have melt downs if I even drove a different route to or from school. That is only one example of many challenges we faced. The good news and the reason for my comment is to say my son out grew most of his OCD and is currently studying bio chemistry and molecular biology in a reputable university. I knew my son had potential, but the road was a long and emotional journey. I hope my words give hope to this family.
Your son might do well with design jobs! I have OCD and found it to be a positive outlet 😊 I am also very glad you're teaching him to manage it. I was not diagnosed properly as a child, (I was diagnosed with "behavioral"--yeah, just "behavioral"), and find it difficult to function as an adult. I don't think my level of OCD is as strong as Raphael's. Can't leave my house in under 15 minutes if no one is home, because I'll be checking if the door is locked, and that nothing is on the stove, and that the kettle isn't plugged. Etc. Leaving my bike is also a challenge, because I'm always unsure whether I've locked it. Total nightmare :/
Good day Sara! I was very hesitant about writing but I really wanted to know an opinion of someone who grew up with OCD. My child is 3. How can I make it better for her? And what difficulties are awating while growing up? Sometimes i get very exhausted and angry when she has a meltdown because I placed her cup on the wrong side of table, moved her toy, put on a wrong hat etc... it happens at least 2 times a day(used be like 8 times) When a child tries to talk to her on the playground she runs away crying and screaming, though later we talk and she agrees child was not doing anything bad she just got scared. Did your communication get better with age? Where do you find a happy place? What did your parents do to make you feel better? Thank you in advance and i am sorry i bothered you.
I am paranoid about locks to but I never thought of it as OCD. Even my car door lock. If I am sitting in my car it’s locked. I without thinking about it remind the people I am with “lock you door” or “lock your car door”. They kinda make fun of me “did you make sure you locked the door?” As soon as I walked into the house. I can’t sleep in a room if the door doesn’t have a lock. I make a point to check the door locks after everyone else is asleep for the night. I will add I don’t live in a bad area & never have. But I have always been paranoid about locks
so, when you are doing these things that are triggered by your OCD, do you realize you are consistently doing them and wish to stop but cannot, or is it a natural instinct, and you don't think much of it when you are doing it??
hey! I think it would be a good idea to find some sort of therapy (if you can), to help with your daughter's OCD. I'm saying this because they can specifically help your daughter based on how she reacts to different things. If it's not an option, I think, just as in the video, YOU find what triggers her OCD, and help her work from there. Your daughter is still very young, and has a lot of room to grow. With age, trust me, her communication will get better. So long as you practice communicating with her, then she should me perfectly fine. As for the meltdowns, please do be patient with her. I know it can be hard, but it is who she is, she cannot change how she reacts to certain things and at some times, can't control it. Don't think of her OCD as something that makes her abnormal, her OCD is a part of her and just like how everyone is born with their unique perks and parts to themselves, so is she, her OCD is a part of who she is and it will never change, but you can find different ways to build on it and improve it and coexist with it. It'll make it easier for the two of you. Hope this helps :)
@@pickingwilddaisies945 My mom leaves the key on the door when she is home all day, all night and I learned to live with that. One thing that's makes me feel very uncomfortable is not wearing a seatbelt.
Thank you so much for being his mother ... thank you for all that you do. I wish my partner had the same kind of support. ... 🥺💔💖 they have very severe ocd. The worst you can get and has not only no support , but is abu_sed as well. It's very sad and I hope everything will be okay . Never give up on your baby! You have a gorgeous family 💖
wow, that teacher has really great patience. If I was there i would have walked out the room out of irritation. Although irritating the kid is smart for a three year old. These parents are also great for helping their kid responsibly.
I don’t have OCD, but I have autism, ADHD, DMDD, and ODD, I was like that as a child, but I would get FURIOUS when I was frustrated like that. To this day I’m still watching and it’s triggering that part of the brain that tells you to yell because you can’t express yourself with words. I know how important it is
@@sparxy3487 Even with diagnoses ADHD tends to be overlooked in a lot of people because it’s not as “severe” as other things even though it can make your life feel impossible.. I have adhd and was suspected to have it at a young age by my mother but teachers brushed it off as a lack of interest in studies/chores and it took years for me to get a proper diagnosis from a specialist
Do it yourself then? What the therapist is doing is incredibly simple. You don't need to pay a therapist to do this for your child. You just need half a brain.
@@RocketdogandSeptembr you don’t have to insult her. You think you’re giving her constructive criticism or something, but you’re not. You’re just being rude.
Thank you very much for sharing with us, the viewers, your lives with this beautiful child. It's very interesting to learn therapy methods and to see his progress. I'm so glad that he has such wonderful parents and a very tolerant sister. I look forward to more videos.
You might have ocd….. because that was the point, she was doing that on purpose to bother him, to basically build his tolerance to things not always going the way he wants them to or thinks they should.
Ok 👍🏻 now let’s fix us big people like Get healthy lose Weight. Live Longer . 🙏🏻just being Real here . Then our kids will help Us . ✅And they choose were >we go once we old . 👌 💕
This reminds me of in science class they would teach us to be specific with hypothesis or step by step instruction and the teacher would play dumb and there would be like one student who got unbearably angry and anxious. I thought it was fun to try and show the teacher what to do but at least one student would be so so mad.
Exactly. Don't touch a child, especially if they are autistic. Infuriating. If you expect a child to use their words to get your attention, then you should figure out a way to use YOUR words to get their attention.
You’re recipe reminded me of something my family likes to call sauerkraut pie. You grease a large baking dish, place cut up brats on the bottom, cover them with sauerkraut and mashed potatoes mixed with a stick of soft butter and a package of room temp cream cheese. Top the brats and sauerkraut with the potato mixture, spray with butter flavored cooking spray or you can use melted butter and bake it in the oven like a casserole until the top is golden brown. So delicious!
OMG you nearly gave me a heart attack! So I clicked to see what sauerkraut pie is, but I’m British 🇬🇧and here a brat is a child! I’m hoping that brats to you means bratwurst sausages, otherwise you’re cooking children and possibly descended from the witch that was after Hansel and Gretel........
Diagnosed with OCD and autism. He was evaluated by a neurologist and a few other people who did a lot of testing. They diagnosed him first with OCD because the OCD was actually hindering his autism evaluation. It was a very big problem, but he's worked on it since then and hes doing really well. We still do exposure therapy with him for OCD.
@@FoolyLiving wow do you think a developmental evaluation will be good? My baby’s been seen for that and he dosent have primary characteristics just secondary ones and the dr said he can’t be diagnosed with Austin without the primary characteristics.
I know this, is super late but the lady should have said “that was very difficult! You did such a great job walking me through building the buildings! “
I'm enjoying your channel. As I liked your content and I've been studying English for one year, the videos have been amazing to practice and learn new words. 👏
I also have a little bit of OCD as well as autism, bipolar and anxiety disorder, it's hard when you can't get something perfect which is probably why I'm struggling in art to do my self portrait, I go to a regular school but sometimes just needs a little extra help on work, rather than that, unless I tell someone my disabilities, no one would know
After the word "disorder", there should be a period followed up by a capital I. Btw you also have an extra space between "that," and "unless". Oops, I almost forgot the period at the end of "portrait" and at the end of the paragraph
I could've skipped a grade in Elementary but I have horrible social skills, so they thought it'd be too hard socially for me. I'm 13 now and I'm determined to skip a grade without changing my social skills because I can't. I'm autistic. It's too easy for me here in 7th grade.
This is great, I hope you share more of therapy sessions. I want to apply some of this to one of my PK students. She has excellent vocabulary, but sometimes cant deal with her frustration and cant verbalize. just pointing, screaming and hitting. maybe I can try this
Wow, you are a phenomenal mom. This can NOT be easy, day after day after day. I see you and all that hard work you’re doing. Also TWO different cooked dinners (not counting the baby, I assume???) is PLENTY, Dad! Did your hands break? You want chicken, you make chicken yourself 😅😂💪🍗 Or order takeout after that rough day 💜💜💜
Oh bless you, that's hard work and I congratulate you on the strength to share. This will help so many people to learn more about what to look for, or how to cope, and the type of help to request.
Can you please share the name of this particular KIND of communication therapy? I would like to search for a therapist who uses these strategies. Thank You.
In Israel this is simply called "communication therapy for autism" and it was readily available after a very long wait in line! They need a LOT more therapists there for sure! In America he is in speech therapy with the emphasis specifically in communication - so he studies things like parts of speech - idioms, pragmatic speech, similes and things like that, so he can hold a conversation and understand different ways of speaking that people will use. Autism brains are very black and white - facts only. He has to learn that many people speak with different meanings - saying one thing but meaning something else. For instance - its raining cats and dogs does not mean that factually, but he has to learn what it means and he can get in an argument with someone because they aren't being factual! It helps him to understand what people could be talking about. Literal and non-literal phrases etc. If you were to get a referral for this type of communication, they would have to be diagnosed with a language processing disorder or autism or some type of communication or learning disability, then they would get evaluated for this therapy and insurance will pay for it.
@@FoolyLiving interesting but I think that neurotypical’s need to realize that the words they use aren’t going to be understood by everyone so people should just explain what they’re meaning instead of using metaphor’s which are just confusing. I’m autistic and find the use of metaphors annoying, people should say what they’re actually meaning instead of what they aren’t meaning. I’m not trying to be ignorant. I just wanted to say my thoughts on your reply I’m autistic myself and find it rather funny that neurotypical’s I.e non autistic people have the same social difficulties when put in a room full of just autistic people. These results were found, in a study that was done that they did exactly what I said they put non autistic people in a room full of just autistic people and found that Neurotypical’s aren’t taught to value different ways of communication and neurodivergent’s in general.
Sighhh,,, unfortunately, our people are gonna have to go through SOOOO many generations of abuse still T~T No hate to the adults here! I have childhood trauma which my parents played a role in, but I could never hate them. They meant well, but society is to blame. Such a close-minded world, where power is equated to knowledge...
@@xxxoddie..groupxxx8923 he was diagnosed with OCD and autism. Going to therapy helps him learn how to deal with that in the real world. If you watch their newer videos, his OCD is much better now. If he weren’t in therapy, his anxiety would be much higher.
@@hayleymarse2853 Is it truly? Or is it less visible? There is a difference between improvement and masking. I want to know if HE feels improvement, or if he's just stuffing it all down. P.S. if he agrees that doesn't always mean he feels that way lol. I was proud of stopping my meltdowns, only to realize later on I struggle to cry when needed unless deeply provoked, and otherwise I... internalize... my misery. It ain't pretty, I'll say that much.
I have ocd and we are extremely analytical, with a visual geometry that we see, things must be symmetrical, balanced, organised, correct, the list goes on,
this teacher would annoy me, shes making it harder by saying these weird phrases. just say "ok where does this go, now what, where does this go, how m any blocks needds to go on this one". like jeez its not that hard
@@subtobearplayzs7717 what part of the therapy is making you mad? He needs to be specific to learn proper communication for when he's older. Otherwise normal life will frustrate him more.
@@tomsaww7516 He's 3 and it seems like he doesn't even have the words like next to, beside, touching, to the right, to the left. How about give him those words, or model them for him... otherwise, his communication FOR A 3 YEAR OLD is perfectly fine.
@@sheabae8315 He's 3 and it seems like he doesn't even have the words like next to, beside, touching, to the right, to the left. How about give him those words, or model them for him... otherwise, his communication FOR A 3 YEAR OLD is perfectly fine. I would get angry too if I only knew certain words and was using them to the best of my ability but someone was still not responding. He's 3! If you want him to be more descriptive, you should probably teach him how to be descriptive in the first place 🤦
I am no doctor, but I think my little cousin might have OCD. Again I’m not a doctor he just shows symptoms. He gets suppperrr angry if something like messes up or if it isn’t perfect. He was drawing and I took a paper from the thing and he screamed threw his pens on the ground then ripped his paper and said he wants a new one. Then we were making crafts and he kept wanting to re start. We would make it then hed rip it all up and get mad because it wasn’t perfect then he wanted me to help him, oover and over, until it was perfect. He’s a cute kind boy but he came up to me and my cousin janice and said “I want to poke your eyes out with needles” then he said “and smash you with a hammer”. He loves me and my cousin janice a lot. This wasn’t normal but it could just be a kid being a kid. He’s a toddler. I’m probably wrong but idk 🤷♀️. Tell me what you think.
I would be concerned with the violent talk. The threats are very specific when expressed. It could be more than simple statement of frustration. Talk to the parents about your concern.
He is doing great 👍. I would have stormed off. It's getting on my last nerve. I could not bear it. I seriously have quit a job. Because some barbarian kept taking my pen. I had enough reasons to quit but taking the pen was it for me. It was the push I needed to write my resignation.
I once had a manager who would absentmindedly take people's pens and chew on them. I lost a lot of high quality pens before I learned to keep them either in a drawer or in my pocket. Now I'm thinking I should have coated a few with hot sauce.
honestly sauerkraut and mashed potatoes sounds AMAZING. also my heart absolutely melts watching Rafael, I can tell he has the biggest heart ever. what a lovely kid
The baby can make things more difficult i think. Yah hes use to it. But this is when he needs to give his full attention. Baby cries will always have an effect on everything around it that can hear. Its how brains are wired.
This video is my son and I've taken him to be evaluated and he has never been diagnosed with anything. They tel me he is fine. He would of done the same yelling and all. Every video of this child is just like my son except add in food aversions.
My best advice is to make your child happy You don't want an angry child trust me My son got angry once and i learned from it he is 5 Don't try to fight his disabilities except them and be the best mom you can be
he needs to learn to deal with his disabilities. in the real world no one cares. and someday that little boy is gonna be 18, and his momma will have prepared him.
@@aquzzl Conversely, I believe the world should have to learn to deal with his disabilities. People will exist. As much as society encourages us to take it upon ourselves to cease existence, we must stand strong and point out that a lot of the rules SUCK and are just abusive to folks like us. ...Of course, it does depend on the situation. You don't want to spoil him, but that goes for any kid. If his needs are different, LET HIS NEEDS BE DIFFERENT. We're not performers for the neurotypical majority. We're people and we're not gonna pretend we AREN'T people. THAT’S THAT.
This is a very interesting therapy. She is doing purposeful little things to bother him, like knocking the blocks over so hopefully he can learn to tolerate these small things that bother him and eventually bigger ones later.
It’s exposure therapy and it does work, I know because I have OCD and it greatly helped me in the past
that doesn't work and is only going to distress the kid even more, to the point of him masking his traits instead of being open about them like now
@@bromineblood4453 it actually helps with ocd
@@beezmemez9623 glad it helped you!
@@bromineblood4453 bruh did u not even read my comment
If he's 3 and talking like that he's going to be really damn smart. Just has to learn the social side as best as he can.
Dude for 4 years this video was pure with a million views but noooo all of you posting your cringe unwanted comments really ruined it
I was 1, nearly 2 and I could read the names of the radio stations and I could almost walk
@@-Sam69 then don’t read the comments you dingle berry
@@-Sam69 I’m sorry but your comment here is unwanted. Pls be positive! :)
@@fsxsickle I could walk at 5... 5 months old and count and memorize a lot of stuff at age 1
I swear to God. people are going to come back psychologist and this is such research and this is just a way to literally make you understand what OCD is. You're such a great mother I cannot put it into words.
He was 3 and now 1 year ago he was 7 now he actually 8
Lol it's not the mom teaching him and doing that it's a therapist who is trained and specialized
@@user-pd8nk7oc8o Still, the mom even taking him to therapy to learn how to cope is more than most parents would do.
this is such a beautiful family. thank you momma and papa for being so strong, and good job for Rafael for being so patient
This child is absolutely gorgeous, smart, sympathetic, well spoken, loved, and a reflection of his parents upbringing. Much love, keep up the great work! Hugs from Toronto 🇨🇦
That there is what we like to call pity
He looks like a normal child of his age. Where all these things about autism come from? Can someone explain please.
I don’t even have OCD and this makes me upset😂 I could only IMAGINE what people with OCD go through
Same
ill tell you
THEY GO THROUGHT MORE TRIGGER THEN A CAT If U STEP ON ITS TAIL
They go through a lot, trust me i'd know
I was about to comment that 😂
Her repeatedly saying tell me with words was triggering me 😂
@@kylehall-in6xj entbrat
This boy reminds me of my son when he was that age.
He was diagnosed at 6 years old with Asperger’s, he was very smart and set in his ways. He would have melt downs if I even drove a different route to or from school. That is only one example of many challenges we faced. The good news and the reason for my comment is to say my son out grew most of his OCD and is currently studying bio chemistry and molecular biology in a reputable university. I knew my son had potential, but the road was a long and emotional journey. I hope my words give hope to this family.
I can tell he genuinely cares and doesn't mean to yell . He's Awesome 👌
Yeah
Your son might do well with design jobs! I have OCD and found it to be a positive outlet 😊
I am also very glad you're teaching him to manage it. I was not diagnosed properly as a child, (I was diagnosed with "behavioral"--yeah, just "behavioral"), and find it difficult to function as an adult. I don't think my level of OCD is as strong as Raphael's.
Can't leave my house in under 15 minutes if no one is home, because I'll be checking if the door is locked, and that nothing is on the stove, and that the kettle isn't plugged. Etc. Leaving my bike is also a challenge, because I'm always unsure whether I've locked it. Total nightmare :/
Good day Sara!
I was very hesitant about writing but I really wanted to know an opinion of someone who grew up with OCD. My child is 3. How can I make it better for her? And what difficulties are awating while growing up? Sometimes i get very exhausted and angry when she has a meltdown because I placed her cup on the wrong side of table, moved her toy, put on a wrong hat etc... it happens at least 2 times a day(used be like 8 times) When a child tries to talk to her on the playground she runs away crying and screaming, though later we talk and she agrees child was not doing anything bad she just got scared.
Did your communication get better with age? Where do you find a happy place? What did your parents do to make you feel better? Thank you in advance and i am sorry i bothered you.
I am paranoid about locks to but I never thought of it as OCD. Even my car door lock. If I am sitting in my car it’s locked. I without thinking about it remind the people I am with “lock you door” or “lock your car door”. They kinda make fun of me “did you make sure you locked the door?” As soon as I walked into the house.
I can’t sleep in a room if the door doesn’t have a lock. I make a point to check the door locks after everyone else is asleep for the night.
I will add I don’t live in a bad area & never have. But I have always been paranoid about locks
so, when you are doing these things that are triggered by your OCD, do you realize you are consistently doing them and wish to stop but cannot, or is it a natural instinct, and you don't think much of it when you are doing it??
hey! I think it would be a good idea to find some sort of therapy (if you can), to help with your daughter's OCD. I'm saying this because they can specifically help your daughter based on how she reacts to different things. If it's not an option, I think, just as in the video, YOU find what triggers her OCD, and help her work from there. Your daughter is still very young, and has a lot of room to grow. With age, trust me, her communication will get better. So long as you practice communicating with her, then she should me perfectly fine. As for the meltdowns, please do be patient with her. I know it can be hard, but it is who she is, she cannot change how she reacts to certain things and at some times, can't control it. Don't think of her OCD as something that makes her abnormal, her OCD is a part of her and just like how everyone is born with their unique perks and parts to themselves, so is she, her OCD is a part of who she is and it will never change, but you can find different ways to build on it and improve it and coexist with it. It'll make it easier for the two of you. Hope this helps :)
@@pickingwilddaisies945 My mom leaves the key on the door when she is home all day, all night and I learned to live with that. One thing that's makes me feel very uncomfortable is not wearing a seatbelt.
Thank you so much for being his mother ... thank you for all that you do. I wish my partner had the same kind of support. ... 🥺💔💖 they have very severe ocd. The worst you can get and has not only no support , but is abu_sed as well. It's very sad and I hope everything will be okay . Never give up on your baby! You have a gorgeous family 💖
omg Rafael is so so cute and smart🥺 I hope that you guys are always happy and he’s doing better now💗
This little kids vocabulary is so impressive!!
wow, that teacher has really great patience. If I was there i would have walked out the room out of irritation. Although irritating the kid is smart for a three year old. These parents are also great for helping their kid responsibly.
Same
That precious child is more intelligent than you actually know...many grow up managing successful business
He is definitely a brilliant child! Thank you so much for recognizing =)
Poor kid! I felt his frustration the whole time with those blocks!
Same
The whole tower situation reminds me of how I feel when I'm coding a program and it keeps returning error codes 😅
do you get obsessed too with variable names and coding architecture just not feeling right.?
When you change something and it produces a different error code, you know you're making progress. : )
I don’t have OCD, but I have autism, ADHD, DMDD, and ODD, I was like that as a child, but I would get FURIOUS when I was frustrated like that. To this day I’m still watching and it’s triggering that part of the brain that tells you to yell because you can’t express yourself with words. I know how important it is
So when you get mad do you just yell or smth
What’s DMDD and ODD
Communication therapy was interesting to watch. That type of game could easily benifit all young children.
I wish I had a family like this to help me with my ADHD 😞
@@notaghere I think he’s self diagnosed after Googling the definition, and taking a RUclips ADHD “test” 😂
@@notaghere what does this even mean? are you saying that only families that help their kids can be diagnosed with ADHD??
Are you diagnosed?
@@sparxy3487 Even with diagnoses ADHD tends to be overlooked in a lot of people because it’s not as “severe” as other things even though it can make your life feel impossible.. I have adhd and was suspected to have it at a young age by my mother but teachers brushed it off as a lack of interest in studies/chores and it took years for me to get a proper diagnosis from a specialist
Same 😞
I can see where his frustration is coming from
My daughter needs this communication therapy! She is 8 years d, but gets so frustrated at times!
Do it yourself then? What the therapist is doing is incredibly simple. You don't need to pay a therapist to do this for your child. You just need half a brain.
@@RocketdogandSeptembr how can the mom do it if you’re not encouraging her? You’re shaming the mom. You’re not helping her.
@@RocketdogandSeptembr you don’t have to insult her. You think you’re giving her constructive criticism or something, but you’re not. You’re just being rude.
Thank you very much for sharing with us, the viewers, your lives with this beautiful child. It's very interesting to learn therapy methods and to see his progress. I'm so glad that he has such wonderful parents and a very tolerant sister. I look forward to more videos.
Thanks very much
So adorable. He's doing a great job
I was getting so mad when he kept saying to put them into a tower and she just kept holding on to them.
You might have ocd….. because that was the point, she was doing that on purpose to bother him, to basically build his tolerance to things not always going the way he wants them to or thinks they should.
He’s so sweet! I absolutely fell in love with him.
This is a great.learning experience .Raphael is a good teacher.
Ok 👍🏻 now let’s fix us big people like Get healthy lose Weight. Live Longer . 🙏🏻just being Real here . Then our kids will help Us . ✅And they choose were >we go once we old . 👌 💕
This reminds me of in science class they would teach us to be specific with hypothesis or step by step instruction and the teacher would play dumb and there would be like one student who got unbearably angry and anxious. I thought it was fun to try and show the teacher what to do but at least one student would be so so mad.
At 4:05 I wish he would have said," You don't have to touch me. Why don't you use your WORDS!"
Exactly. Don't touch a child, especially if they are autistic. Infuriating. If you expect a child to use their words to get your attention, then you should figure out a way to use YOUR words to get their attention.
@@Sunset1705 I don’t know a lot about autism, so I’m just wondering why is it not ok to touch an autistic child?
4:59 that stare
I didn’t like the caption but I see the video is different then I expected. You are doing an amazing job with him! Much love xx
You’re recipe reminded me of something my family likes to call sauerkraut pie. You grease a large baking dish, place cut up brats on the bottom, cover them with sauerkraut and mashed potatoes mixed with a stick of soft butter and a package of room temp cream cheese. Top the brats and sauerkraut with the potato mixture, spray with butter flavored cooking spray or you can use melted butter and bake it in the oven like a casserole until the top is golden brown. So delicious!
OMG you nearly gave me a heart attack! So I clicked to see what sauerkraut pie is, but I’m British 🇬🇧and here a brat is a child! I’m hoping that brats to you means bratwurst sausages, otherwise you’re cooking children and possibly descended from the witch that was after Hansel and Gretel........
What a cutie. What helped diagnose him? My baby is barely starting to talk I’m worried.
Diagnosed with OCD and autism. He was evaluated by a neurologist and a few other people who did a lot of testing. They diagnosed him first with OCD because the OCD was actually hindering his autism evaluation. It was a very big problem, but he's worked on it since then and hes doing really well. We still do exposure therapy with him for OCD.
@@FoolyLiving wow do you think a developmental evaluation will be good? My baby’s been seen for that and he dosent have primary characteristics just secondary ones and the dr said he can’t be diagnosed with Austin without the primary characteristics.
kids dont talk till 2-4 years old
My brother has autism and he’s 3/5 but he acts like a 2 year old it’s weird i know?
@@luckybulldog6191 I believe that's actually common in people with severe Autism, its not bad or weird, just different :)
I know this, is super late but the lady should have said “that was very difficult! You did such a great job walking me through building the buildings! “
Mom!!!! This class is very interesting!!!!!
I love the interaction and learning
Process!????
What
I'm enjoying your channel. As I liked your content and I've been studying English for one year, the videos have been amazing to practice and learn new words. 👏
Thanks so much, I am glad you are enjoying! Good luck, you're doing a great job with English!
Wow, you are doing a wonderful job.
I also have a little bit of OCD as well as autism, bipolar and anxiety disorder, it's hard when you can't get something perfect which is probably why I'm struggling in art to do my self portrait, I go to a regular school but sometimes just needs a little extra help on work, rather than that, unless I tell someone my disabilities, no one would know
Wow ur smart
After the word "disorder", there should be a period followed up by a capital I. Btw you also have an extra space between "that," and "unless". Oops, I almost forgot the period at the end of "portrait" and at the end of the paragraph
@@solanaceous why do people like you exist , he just wanted to share his experience , he isn't in an exam writing comprehension
dont worry dude you will be fine :-)
@@solanaceous TF is wrong with you?? Go get a proof reading job if you're that pressed about grammar. what a pos.
i love dedication of yours and his
I could've skipped a grade in Elementary but I have horrible social skills, so they thought it'd be too hard socially for me. I'm 13 now and I'm determined to skip a grade without changing my social skills because I can't. I'm autistic. It's too easy for me here in 7th grade.
Damn so u get straight A’s uh?
I like what you're doing here
EDUCATING.
Thank you
This is great, I hope you share more of therapy sessions. I want to apply some of this to one of my PK students. She has excellent vocabulary, but sometimes cant deal with her frustration and cant verbalize. just pointing, screaming and hitting. maybe I can try this
His communication is great
Wow, you are a phenomenal mom. This can NOT be easy, day after day after day. I see you and all that hard work you’re doing. Also TWO different cooked dinners (not counting the baby, I assume???) is PLENTY, Dad! Did your hands break? You want chicken, you make chicken yourself 😅😂💪🍗 Or order takeout after that rough day 💜💜💜
Exactly
Your kid is actually really smart
Oh bless you, that's hard work and I congratulate you on the strength to share. This will help so many people to learn more about what to look for, or how to cope, and the type of help to request.
I have no ocd but this triggers me bad 😭 I can’t stand it
That teacher is great!
I loved this activity so much. Going to try this on my students
his english and speech is amazing! I'm like 7 years older then him and my voice always been the same sense I was 5 and I sound like I speak gibberish
I just saw a couple things and my heart started racing😂😂
Can you please share the name of this particular KIND of communication therapy? I would like to search for a therapist who uses these strategies. Thank You.
In Israel this is simply called "communication therapy for autism" and it was readily available after a very long wait in line! They need a LOT more therapists there for sure! In America he is in speech therapy with the emphasis specifically in communication - so he studies things like parts of speech - idioms, pragmatic speech, similes and things like that, so he can hold a conversation and understand different ways of speaking that people will use. Autism brains are very black and white - facts only. He has to learn that many people speak with different meanings - saying one thing but meaning something else. For instance - its raining cats and dogs does not mean that factually, but he has to learn what it means and he can get in an argument with someone because they aren't being factual! It helps him to understand what people could be talking about. Literal and non-literal phrases etc. If you were to get a referral for this type of communication, they would have to be diagnosed with a language processing disorder or autism or some type of communication or learning disability, then they would get evaluated for this therapy and insurance will pay for it.
@@FoolyLiving interesting but I think that neurotypical’s need to realize that the words they use aren’t going to be understood by everyone so people should just explain what they’re meaning instead of using metaphor’s which are just confusing. I’m autistic and find the use of metaphors annoying, people should say what they’re actually meaning instead of what they aren’t meaning. I’m not trying to be ignorant. I just wanted to say my thoughts on your reply I’m autistic myself and find it rather funny that neurotypical’s I.e non autistic people have the same social difficulties when put in a room full of just autistic people. These results were found, in a study that was done that they did exactly what I said they put non autistic people in a room full of just autistic people and found that Neurotypical’s aren’t taught to value different ways of communication and neurodivergent’s in general.
Three only thing that happened here is that she triggered her husband. "Stop filming me"...
I was diagnosed with OCD and Anxiety and I dont lnow if I love or I hate this video
I also have autism and ocd
he litterally said the right think and shes like what what tell me with words when he is i think she needs to learn
I was diagnosed with mild anxiety at a young age and I really relate to rafael
“No.” “Tell me with words.”
AGHGGHGHGHGHG
Sighhh,,, unfortunately, our people are gonna have to go through SOOOO many generations of abuse still T~T
No hate to the adults here! I have childhood trauma which my parents played a role in, but I could never hate them. They meant well, but society is to blame. Such a close-minded world, where power is equated to knowledge...
The cat picture in the intro looks like a 1 to 1 recreation of my cat (my pfp is my cat at 1 year old hes bigger now)
I love this bless you and your family ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This gives me anxiety.
Same
Same I’m never doing the same to my child
@@xxxoddie..groupxxx8923 he was diagnosed with OCD and autism. Going to therapy helps him learn how to deal with that in the real world. If you watch their newer videos, his OCD is much better now. If he weren’t in therapy, his anxiety would be much higher.
@@xxxoddie..groupxxx8923 inform yourself
@@hayleymarse2853 Is it truly? Or is it less visible? There is a difference between improvement and masking. I want to know if HE feels improvement, or if he's just stuffing it all down.
P.S. if he agrees that doesn't always mean he feels that way lol. I was proud of stopping my meltdowns, only to realize later on I struggle to cry when needed unless deeply provoked, and otherwise I... internalize... my misery. It ain't pretty, I'll say that much.
I have ocd and we are extremely analytical, with a visual geometry that we see,
things must be symmetrical, balanced, organised, correct, the list goes on,
The sheer irony of ending that comment with a comma... It's like omitting the last closing parenthesis in a Lisp program. Syntax error.
Definitely best to step in and help early as they haven't got a whole lifetime of thoughts and patterns etc to contend with!
...
but...
PUT IT CLOSER!
I have autism myself and this is driving me crazy lol
this teacher would annoy me, shes making it harder by saying these weird phrases. just say "ok where does this go, now what, where does this go, how m any blocks needds to go on this one". like jeez its not that hard
Her objective is to get him to use words without guiding him to make him better with communication.
that shit would annoy me too bro
0:35 I mean, if it's a fresh saw, it would probably work pretty well! 😂
He's telling you lady, he is telling you
ikr it's kinda making. me mad
He needs to control his anger and be more specific that’s why she’s acting like she doesn’t understand, he’s literally doing therapy…
@@subtobearplayzs7717 what part of the therapy is making you mad? He needs to be specific to learn proper communication for when he's older. Otherwise normal life will frustrate him more.
@@tomsaww7516 He's 3 and it seems like he doesn't even have the words like next to, beside, touching, to the right, to the left. How about give him those words, or model them for him... otherwise, his communication FOR A 3 YEAR OLD is perfectly fine.
@@sheabae8315 He's 3 and it seems like he doesn't even have the words like next to, beside, touching, to the right, to the left. How about give him those words, or model them for him... otherwise, his communication FOR A 3 YEAR OLD is perfectly fine. I would get angry too if I only knew certain words and was using them to the best of my ability but someone was still not responding. He's 3! If you want him to be more descriptive, you should probably teach him how to be descriptive in the first place 🤦
Raphael is a gem i adore him
I love him so much!!
Not
The
Saurkraut 😭😭
Ocd Gang where are y'all at
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I am no doctor, but I think my little cousin might have OCD. Again I’m not a doctor he just shows symptoms. He gets suppperrr angry if something like messes up or if it isn’t perfect. He was drawing and I took a paper from the thing and he screamed threw his pens on the ground then ripped his paper and said he wants a new one. Then we were making crafts and he kept wanting to re start. We would make it then hed rip it all up and get mad because it wasn’t perfect then he wanted me to help him, oover and over, until it was perfect. He’s a cute kind boy but he came up to me and my cousin janice and said “I want to poke your eyes out with needles” then he said “and smash you with a hammer”. He loves me and my cousin janice a lot. This wasn’t normal but it could just be a kid being a kid. He’s a toddler. I’m probably wrong but idk 🤷♀️. Tell me what you think.
I would be concerned with the violent talk. The threats are very specific when expressed. It could be more than simple statement of frustration. Talk to the parents about your concern.
As a New York, that "pizza" was utterly horrifying 😂😂🤣🤣
Mashaallah.. you are good mum..
i have autism too and he comunicates better than me when i was his age!
Ok caring parents but why is the title TRIGGERING MY KIDS OCD AND AUTISM that like saying MAKING TED BUNDY GO ON A KILLING SPREE
He is doing great 👍. I would have stormed off. It's getting on my last nerve. I could not bear it. I seriously have quit a job. Because some barbarian kept taking my pen. I had enough reasons to quit but taking the pen was it for me. It was the push I needed to write my resignation.
I once had a manager who would absentmindedly take people's pens and chew on them. I lost a lot of high quality pens before I learned to keep them either in a drawer or in my pocket. Now I'm thinking I should have coated a few with hot sauce.
tbh your son is very smart talking like that at 3 y.o
Teacher is confusing the child and making him angry.
For the blue he said pit the blue closer to a tower
honestly sauerkraut and mashed potatoes sounds AMAZING. also my heart absolutely melts watching Rafael, I can tell he has the biggest heart ever. what a lovely kid
This makes me nervous.
Why, the therapist?
Hey tip for the hotdog and sourcrot use Sausage cut up it makes a huge difference
Poor baby my mother was like that it doesn't work please don't be mean
I think anyone would get frustrated with someone so deliberately obtuse as this smh
What therapy was that ?
It's communication therapy in Israel, for Autism.
The baby can make things more difficult i think. Yah hes use to it. But this is when he needs to give his full attention. Baby cries will always have an effect on everything around it that can hear. Its how brains are wired.
the trigger could really triggers LOL
HES SO CUTEEE❤️❤️❤️❤️
This video is my son and I've taken him to be evaluated and he has never been diagnosed with anything. They tel me he is fine. He would of done the same yelling and all. Every video of this child is just like my son except add in food aversions.
He's a genius
is that aba therapy ?
He’s an awesome kid
He speaks well but no one corrects him when he says ‘pit’ instead of ‘put’... ??? 🤷🏻♀️
I have autism sad days 😞
My best advice is to make your child happy
You don't want an angry child trust me
My son got angry once and i learned from it he is 5
Don't try to fight his disabilities except them and be the best mom you can be
he needs to learn to deal with his disabilities. in the real world no one cares. and someday that little boy is gonna be 18, and his momma will have prepared him.
@@aquzzl Conversely, I believe the world should have to learn to deal with his disabilities. People will exist. As much as society encourages us to take it upon ourselves to cease existence, we must stand strong and point out that a lot of the rules SUCK and are just abusive to folks like us.
...Of course, it does depend on the situation. You don't want to spoil him, but that goes for any kid. If his needs are different, LET HIS NEEDS BE DIFFERENT. We're not performers for the neurotypical majority. We're people and we're not gonna pretend we AREN'T people. THAT’S THAT.
When he does grow up and get older
When he screams it’s so funny
He knows all shapes what's a pentagon or hexagon parallelogram 😅