Communication Skills: Change Your Life Forever

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Комментарии • 1,8 тыс.

  • @ashleycastillo6037
    @ashleycastillo6037 5 лет назад +1516

    I want to learn how to speak with nothing but confidence. I'm always nervous and it makes me look like I'm lying at times. I HATE it.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад +69

      Thank you for sharing with us. You should check out our 254 unstoppable confidence series, I'm sure it will be helpful to you. It's in the description. #BTA1007 Luka

    • @Shootrnet_
      @Shootrnet_ 5 лет назад +36

      Me my entire life 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @Yasser.Abuharba
      @Yasser.Abuharba 5 лет назад +6

      Same thing with me.

    • @djkhalid291
      @djkhalid291 5 лет назад +38

      This is exact problem with me too.. I never lie but my honesty looks like a lie when I am just 😟

    • @fathallahawb8878
      @fathallahawb8878 5 лет назад +2

      Evan Carmichael h

  • @ryanpeavler1483
    @ryanpeavler1483 6 лет назад +1023

    These are the people who should be teaching children.

  • @HeatherGerhardt
    @HeatherGerhardt 5 лет назад +871

    Learning to listen to "hear and understand" instead of listening to respond will help communication every time!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад +11

      Thanks for sharing and thank you for watching :) #BTA937 Luka

    • @sanjeevshukla2871
      @sanjeevshukla2871 5 лет назад +10

      Easier said than done.

    • @anuratnraghuvanshi5626
      @anuratnraghuvanshi5626 5 лет назад

      Impractical

    • @marianworkman3120
      @marianworkman3120 5 лет назад +9

      Heather Gerhardt
      I agree, listening is the first key to communication. Second, is the ability to understand and follow through. Last, if you're not sure of what is being said, ask him/her to repeat it for clarification.

    • @jefferyc6557
      @jefferyc6557 4 года назад +7

      Some of us have an impulse to "cut off" or overtalk due to many mental matters. Most isn't due to habit but due to disability.... I can be very short in convo until the topic excites me and that's only due to the desire to connect yet you might not wanna play with me since you would end up feeling stupid due to the fact we technicality involved my interest and not yours.

  • @Minkagurl
    @Minkagurl 7 лет назад +849

    Definitely makes a lot of sense. I grew up in a hostile atmosphere. A lot of anger and negativity. I'm working on changing from negativity to being positive.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +10

      Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. Hope you'll push through! Be #Positive :) #Believe #BTA467 Luka

    • @Minkagurl
      @Minkagurl 7 лет назад +2

      Thank-you!

    • @gratefulforlifeandkindness
      @gratefulforlifeandkindness 5 лет назад +6

      @@Minkagurl same here hope your doing well

    • @brepre321
      @brepre321 5 лет назад +1

      E

    • @joeannmaillo
      @joeannmaillo 5 лет назад +10

      You definitely can do it redreticent7. The fact that you are on here searching for this content shows that. Don't ever stop trying! Blessings!

  • @theoysterknife8541
    @theoysterknife8541 4 года назад +6

    Language is everything...because not only are you speaking to the world but you’re also speaking to yourself...and influencing yourself. You’re shaping the new you every time you project your thoughts and ideas to the world.

  • @angelahagin4288
    @angelahagin4288 5 лет назад +39

    I am going to change the way I speak to reflect my leadership qualities rather than being a victim.

  • @colinjoconnell
    @colinjoconnell 4 года назад +9

    Speaking with not only confidence but, a purpose is the most important thing I’ve learned when it comes to communication.

  • @sohaibahmed226
    @sohaibahmed226 7 лет назад +383

    From now on I will speak more positively and look forward to the future instead thinking about the past.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +2

      Awesome! That's the way to go sohaib! :) #Believe #BTA534 Shine

    • @phillipstyles9258
      @phillipstyles9258 6 лет назад +8

      i have been living in the past for to long

    • @illshooghzzara7926
      @illshooghzzara7926 5 лет назад +1

      Good men help English

    • @itsmytubeme
      @itsmytubeme 5 лет назад

      sohaib ahmed great

    • @marcelabermudezdelatorre3441
      @marcelabermudezdelatorre3441 5 лет назад +1

      And you can also read the power of now by echarte tolleband it’s going to be easier than you think ... my experience which has made my life happy and easy

  • @amazingazn123
    @amazingazn123 7 лет назад +87

    #Beautiful quote: "I don't know how to think, until I write it down." Robin Sharma. Also, when you write things down, you solidify your thoughts.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +2

      Agree. :) Thanks for the comment and for watching The Howling Chihuahua. #BelieveNation #BTA443 Shine

    • @euniceryllefuentes2979
      @euniceryllefuentes2979 3 года назад +2

      Yeah.. me too I write it down, and it continuously flows.

    • @veronicacbueno8085
      @veronicacbueno8085 3 года назад +1

      @@euniceryllefuentes2979 I’m going to have to try this out

    • @cartergomez5390
      @cartergomez5390 2 года назад

      I have to remember to take notes when I read a book. I never thought about it until Jay Shetty talked about it.

    • @anthonydera4381
      @anthonydera4381 Год назад

      Taking note not an issue for but making out time to go through that and out them into practice a big deal for me I wish there is a solution in this

  • @seidylz936
    @seidylz936 5 лет назад +507

    I literally have the worse communication skills ever.. I always stay quiet even when i know they are trying to be nice and just have a normal conversation i make it so awkward to the point where ppl ask me if im ok that i act weird and i cant say nothing back bc i hold back so much by the time i know w to say its pretty much late and i just end up looking dumb

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад +9

      Thank you for sharing with us. I hope that the video is helpful to you. #BTA957 Luka

    • @MonPetitPois68
      @MonPetitPois68 5 лет назад +25

      Hi Seidy, I recognize something in what you're saying in how I am in my social life. I've been looking into how to get on top of anxiety on RUclips and it is helping me. Maybe it will help you too as I don't think it's down to communication skills: we've got them, we just need to get them out there!

    • @kayem3824
      @kayem3824 5 лет назад +3

      Maybe they think you are cute.

    • @joeannmaillo
      @joeannmaillo 5 лет назад +84

      You're just observant. You need to feel like you have something to contribute before you speak. Easy fix. Start filling yourself with knowledge. Read up on things that don't normally call your attention. Read about current events, things are happening all over the world. Next time your in a social setting, you have interesting facts you can recall about whatever it is that you did research on and the interaction will give you confidence. Just remember to breath and tell yourself "I got this" cause you totally do girlfriend. Start small, among people you already know, friends and family but about tough things like politics and religion. Use them as testers and you will eventually feel ready to talk to complete strangers about all kinds of things. Just take it slow. You got this mama.

    • @ms.1576
      @ms.1576 5 лет назад +17

      I can completely relate to you. Speaking with anyone I feel when I talk, what I'm thinking in my mind does not come out when I speak. I need to become better. This video is helpful

  • @magicfay
    @magicfay 3 года назад +1

    "use the language of leadership" definitively is a gold one

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад +1

      I agree. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts about the video ❤️😊 #Believe - Ahmed

  • @samestudiocreation9867
    @samestudiocreation9867 6 лет назад +256

    I’m transforming by watching such amazing videos. RUclips is a best place to learn new skills. I hope someday I’d also get chance to contribute for the betterment of our society.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад +4

      #Believe in yourself! :) #BTA852 Luka

    • @thestar_
      @thestar_ 5 лет назад +5

      Can you please help me? I have a fear of speaking jn public

    • @imchrstnvrgr05
      @imchrstnvrgr05 5 лет назад

      Me too

    • @annettefluit3496
      @annettefluit3496 4 года назад +1

      @@thestar_ have you considered Toastmasters? Its a fun place to learn & apply new skills.

    • @kwazirich8447
      @kwazirich8447 4 года назад

      Word.

  • @dannyflores6631
    @dannyflores6631 7 лет назад +234

    Using the language of leadership instead of using the language of the victim stuck out to me the most. I will be working on including positive phrases and words in my vocabulary instead of negative phrases and words. Thank you for the video Evan, helps a lot.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +4

      Awesome to know that you will include positive phrases and words in your vocabulary Danny and that the video is of help to you. Thank you very much for watching! :) Always #Believe in yourself. #BelieveNation #BTA271 Shine

    • @philluis7687
      @philluis7687 5 лет назад +4

      It's been 2 years since you said that so plz tell me what kind of improvement you got?

    • @alisalehi6991
      @alisalehi6991 4 года назад

      @@philluis7687 been 1 year sincr ypu saif yhat. Did you take any action and what was the result?

    • @user-cs6pr2kq9w
      @user-cs6pr2kq9w 4 года назад

      @@alisalehi6991 it's been 3 months since u watched the video what is your results?

    • @alisalehi6991
      @alisalehi6991 4 года назад +2

      @@user-cs6pr2kq9w forgot everything. If you haven't figured it out yet, youtube is just some mental masturbation as "we/us" call it. Really hard to remember to use them

  • @krystinadowdell2920
    @krystinadowdell2920 6 лет назад +460

    “I don’t know what I think until I write it down.”

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад +5

      Thank you for watching and for posting the quote. :) #BelieveNation #BTA721 Luka

    • @sethmachel5979
      @sethmachel5979 6 лет назад +2

      krystina dowdell

    • @davinkim7930
      @davinkim7930 6 лет назад +19

      That is true. I know how I feel about what I am thinking. But, I really dont know what I am thinking when I am thinking!

    • @marks7067
      @marks7067 6 лет назад +46

      I know what I'm thinking but can't find the words. any suggestions? I really want to improve my communication skills. in a social situation my mind wonders and I forget what people are talking about.

    • @krystinadowdell2920
      @krystinadowdell2920 6 лет назад +8

      mark salazar when I worked in sales I used to write my own scripts. that way when I practiced I was using my own words so that when I spoke it was easier to find them. I have the same problem with my mind wandering too, what helps me is asking questions about what they are talking about. For me if I give my mind an objective before hand like saying ok I need to be able to have a general understand this concept that they are talking about, then it sorta predisposes me to want to ask questions too. Hope that sorta helps :)

  • @createrjesus
    @createrjesus 5 лет назад +9

    Communication is one key to getting what you want out of life. I also learned that I gravitate to the people I'm most like or want to be like.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад

      Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching Darrielle :) #BTA1114 Luka

  • @dakurlzz21
    @dakurlzz21 3 года назад +2

    Starting a journal is the best first step to begin applying all of these techniques. There's so many thoughts in our heads, most of which aren't even our own. The thoughts in our head are not us, they're merely what happen to us. "I don't know what I am until I write it down."

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Awesome, thanks for sharing. #Believe - Feb

    • @anthonydera4381
      @anthonydera4381 Год назад

      @Ness thoughts in our head not ours..... I thought we are as a result of what is going in us which is our imagination and thoughts generated by our perspective about life, things, concept and the world in general

  • @krisztinajuhasz4537
    @krisztinajuhasz4537 5 лет назад +87

    1. Listening
    Trying to listen to the persons' thoughts. Maybe also after he finished the talk you are still listening and trying to obserb the other persons's point of view instead of giving immadiate reactions. After a time you will realise you already started to be interested in the other person's opinion and trying to understand the other people's thoughts instead of feeling an immadiate pressure tor prove your right. If you learn how to listen carefully you will realise people start to tell a bunch of things that would not be told even if you'd asked them about. This one has brought new perspectives to me and this is on of the most powerful one.
    2. Being interested in the other one
    We are not always interested in other's opinion. From practicing the first one you can build a constent persistent and conscious desire to understand and get to know the other person. If you are not interested in the other person it's better not start any conversation at all.
    3. Being interested in the topic
    When you don't feel connection between the topic and yourself, your speech, mood, face, and body will transmit it. How do you expect anybody to care about something what does not interest you at all? Don't react immadiately to questions. Think a bit. How do I connect to this thing? What interesting stories do I have about it? How do I feel about it? So for example: You have to talk about an apple and after you have to talk about your favourite movie. You will feel the difference, everybody will feel the difference. Find the connection, find interesting personal touch with it. Best tradesmans are expert in this 3rd topic because they can find the most attractive perspectives from a really usual object also in order to persuade you.
    4. Breaks
    Speak less but give more powerful thoughts. Slow down your speach insert breaks to emphasise things. Don't care if the others try to speed up the conversation. If you carry on you'll realise they will feel the pressure to slow down to you not the opposite way.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад +5

      Thank you for sharing with us, Krisztina. I love it! #Believe :) #BTA1015 Luka

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад +1

      hi krisztina,I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

    • @emari98_97
      @emari98_97 4 года назад

      Thank you for this! 👍🏾

    • @CyberLife3
      @CyberLife3 3 года назад

      Thanks 🙂

  • @michelleorocio6810
    @michelleorocio6810 3 года назад +8

    The way I talk to my self is one of the most important things to pay attention!

  • @edluisrivera3317
    @edluisrivera3317 5 лет назад

    We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. Best part.!

  • @enochchejieh4432
    @enochchejieh4432 3 года назад

    God bless you, Evan Carmicheal.

  • @ceciliacruz4884
    @ceciliacruz4884 7 лет назад +132

    Viewing all your uploaded videos each day was certainly lifted people..please, don't get tired helping people this way. Thanks Evan..more power!!!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +7

      Thank you very much for the support, love and appreciation Emma, for sure that makes us inspired to keep doing our best. :) Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA273 Shine

    • @maureenwernli1819
      @maureenwernli1819 7 лет назад +1

      Emma Gaceta

    • @ResurrectionUph
      @ResurrectionUph 7 лет назад +1

      😪

    • @lynnrose0418
      @lynnrose0418 7 лет назад +4

      I love this topic!

  • @checkyourownmirror9267
    @checkyourownmirror9267 6 лет назад +26

    Use the words and language of leadership and be yourself from the heart.
    Thanks evan!

  • @lindiwemaepa573
    @lindiwemaepa573 3 года назад +2

    Lesson for me was Connection. with people. Using the Leadership language rather than victim language. Building Rapoo

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад +1

      That's awesome! Thanks for sharing. 😊 #Believe - Feb

    • @lindiwemaepa573
      @lindiwemaepa573 3 года назад

      @@EvanCarmichael I Believe. I just Appreciate your Energy. Love & Light Always

  • @LOL13176
    @LOL13176 7 лет назад +44

    I don't know what i am thinking until i write it down.

  • @katrinauzzanti8092
    @katrinauzzanti8092 6 лет назад +3

    The victim language vs. Leadership language really resonates with me. I'm ashamed of how often I use "Victim" language and I had no idea. Since I have been watching your videos and those of other leaders I am definitely seeing a common theme of positivity and optimism. Not only in their language but in everything they do. It's really making me examine my internal and external dialogue and attitude towards things with my business and personal life. Thanks for compiling these talks.

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад

      hi Katrina,I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

  • @AdrianaGirdler
    @AdrianaGirdler 4 года назад +5

    Communicate AND connect. I love that perspective. Cheers!

  • @elizabethcruz7997
    @elizabethcruz7997 3 года назад

    Being present and not in our head is the most powerful way to connect with others, from a place where there is no ego therefore not judgement but understanding of the people’s world.

  • @tiklyspade5065
    @tiklyspade5065 4 года назад +1

    Most important life changing advice i have ever received. Bless you all who read this

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      Thank you Ferdinand #Believe :) #BTA1502 Veljko

  • @GhoshCompany
    @GhoshCompany 4 года назад +4

    I am blessed to discover this video. I am happy to talk on these principles as it is critical for the world to understand how we communicate with each other. And fundamentally, I feel excited to talk and every can do so by training. I think, with good communication - the world will be a great place to stay in.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      Agreed, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1537 Veljko

  • @siteenx
    @siteenx 6 лет назад +24

    This is AMAZING! Thank you for summarising how to communicate well!

  • @vikaskondabagil1741
    @vikaskondabagil1741 3 года назад

    Hi Evan. My name is Vikas. I am a citizen of India living in Bangalore city of India. As always, I will not miss watching any of your RUclips videos. This video of yours especially is very very exciting for me as I believe it contains a lot of useful information for me to learn about in life. Your videos are very encouraging for me both physically and mentally in order to be fit. I request that you keep making videos like this to inspire me and a lot of other people who get inspired from this! Thanks

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Will do Vikas, thanks for the support! #Believe :) #BTA1658 Veljko

  • @wondda.6516
    @wondda.6516 2 года назад

    The language of leadership plays a major role in our lives,i am very negative person and my choice of words are toxic. This video helped me to know the words to use in my daily life from now on

  • @malikathegoddess
    @malikathegoddess 6 лет назад +16

    Keep it up! The videos you make help our generation get ready for what is truly important for building personality and confidence. You are appreciated! 💞

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks for the love and thank you for watching. Much love! :) #BelieveNation #BTA667 Luka

  • @maryritz1676
    @maryritz1676 7 лет назад +3

    Excellent - I think what really stands out for me is the authenticity part. We can learn and improve communication skills - but we have to be true, it has to be from the heart. And I see you have it in you Evan, thank you.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +1

      Agree. It's best to be authentic...be yourself. :) Thanks for sharing your thoughts Mary. Much love. #Believe #BTA533 Shine

  • @jianzhongli1821
    @jianzhongli1821 3 года назад

    Communication is key to successful life. Totally agree with that

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Indeed. Thanks for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @1949824
    @1949824 7 лет назад

    God bless you and your gifts like this to us. Grateful thanks

  • @racquellepakutz5685
    @racquellepakutz5685 4 года назад +10

    Thank you so much for the amazing content! As an entrepreneur, it’s hard to find the right inspiration, but Evan you always hit a home run! Thank you! ❤️

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      Thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1474 Veljko

  • @najahwilliams9478
    @najahwilliams9478 5 лет назад +5

    Watching this just confirmed what I aready know...how you talk to yourself and the stories you tell yourself is very important!! Applying those lessons is a different matter,but we're all a work in progress!! Loved the excerise about changing your language from one of victim hood to leadership

  • @Storesdavidal
    @Storesdavidal 6 лет назад +1

    I agree being honest and authentic helps you build a good relationship.

  • @klbonnell
    @klbonnell 3 года назад +3

    You all have it in you to be great! Dont hesitate embrace yourself and become a leader in positivity

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Let's go Busta! #Believe 💪💪😊 - Dondon

  • @adeltata7457
    @adeltata7457 4 года назад +10

    Loved it! Thank you, Evan, for these videos I can't explain how they keep me going.

  • @marcelinepascalekeedikekoa2789
    @marcelinepascalekeedikekoa2789 7 лет назад +12

    Perfect 😌👌🏽 thanks Evan

  • @rosaruby757
    @rosaruby757 6 лет назад +2

    Yes sir ( The wrong one will find you in peace and leave you in pieces ,,,,The right one will find you in pieces and lead you to peace ....

  • @RiazMeghji
    @RiazMeghji 4 года назад +1

    Being more human is a message we can all benefit from right now. Breaking the pattern of formalities by actively listening and communicating with emotion are great takeaways. Thank you!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      Agreed, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1537 Veljko

  • @astambalto6766
    @astambalto6766 7 лет назад +10

    thanks a lot Evan, this was very giving and deeply interesting! I have been presenting stuff my whole life as a professor so I have experienced the meaning of what you put up of principles!.I love and appreciate the way you use others, the way you credit experts in the field of communication....

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Thanks for the appreciation and for watching Asta. :) #Believe #BTA473 Shine

  • @monicarosebounds9732
    @monicarosebounds9732 7 лет назад +11

    thank you. I have been looking for a simple and organized way to find my self and create a created way to make a successful life with it.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Thanks for sharing Monica. All the best to you! Perhaps this video might be helpful to you, in case you are not able to watch it yet: ruclips.net/video/DZZqv0ao068/видео.html :) #BelieveNation #BTA294 Shine

  • @adreamygirl1096
    @adreamygirl1096 3 года назад

    All what i want is be able to talk about anything, any issue and have enough informations about it its like a magic power for me

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for watching. ❤😊 #Believe - Ahmed

  • @WilliamTChilton
    @WilliamTChilton 7 лет назад +16

    I've watched this three times already, I Love it and appreciate it. Communication is a big deal for me, I'm currently a great communicator but I strive to be a master at it! Again Thank you man all of the videos are really helpful in my journey to my success! #Actionismyoneword

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +2

      Thank you very much for watching it three times William. :) Glad to know that you loved it and the videos are helpful to you, thanks for the appreciation. All the best to you! Always take #Action. Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA279 Shine

  • @Sam-jo5lu
    @Sam-jo5lu 5 лет назад +20

    This Video Really Teaches lots of good stuff and the intuition is you really working Extremely Good for Peoples who Really want to Develop Effectively Communication Skills.........

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад

      Glad it's helpful to you Sameer. :) #BTA996 Luka

  • @ambiguoustherapy9054
    @ambiguoustherapy9054 4 года назад +6

    I loved, "talk with feeling and just say how I feel" for my personal life . Thanks.

  • @rodelsaguian3500
    @rodelsaguian3500 3 года назад

    Be conversational. Language of leadership.

  • @karthikvempati3808
    @karthikvempati3808 6 лет назад +4

    I loved the last point of matching and mirroring. Its good for one to one communication.It's really important to know what the other person is like so that we can adjust our gestures and words which can influence them. Peace.

  • @rubendigital4786
    @rubendigital4786 6 лет назад +19

    Great advice, it is amazing how much more you can do when you are more positive.

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson 7 лет назад +5

    Great tips - currently working on being more assertive ( fourth pillar from Nathaniel Brandons bok The six pillars of Self-esteem) and having good social skills makes it soo much easier! Great work, as always. /Alexander

  • @vvivek9503
    @vvivek9503 5 лет назад

    You are great ! That's what I include it to be generous,kind and polite in my communication

  • @kosiskhosana7754
    @kosiskhosana7754 3 года назад

    I can't believe we actually paid people for such information. You guys are the best.

  • @damianavar9939
    @damianavar9939 7 лет назад +4

    Hi Evan! You are doing a fabulous job inspiring and motivating thousands of people globally. Just discovered your channel like a week ago now. And watching it every morning has become a ritual of some sort for me. Thanks for doing a great job!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Welcome to the channel and to #BelieveNation Damian. :) Glad to know you are inspired and motivated by our videos. I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. Thanks for the appreciation and for watching! Much love. #BTA294 Shine

  • @SpydiOne
    @SpydiOne 7 лет назад +5

    Evan I'd like to thank you for the daily inspiration and motivation. Your videos help me a lot bringing out the best out of me everyday.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Glad to hear that you're feeling inspired by our content, it means a lot. That's awesome! Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for the support. :) #BelieveNation #BTA421 Luka

  • @HowTo5min-co3ni
    @HowTo5min-co3ni 3 года назад

    communication style, stile, styles...great job.

  • @mahamemo1408
    @mahamemo1408 6 лет назад

    That's an amazing video i'v learnt so much from it ,that part which talks about being yourself and being your word really helped me in my interview with HR even though many have told me that i shouldn't be honest or be myself thank god I didn't listen to them.
    keep making more videos a lot will need this kind of help

  • @Barry88487
    @Barry88487 5 лет назад +4

    Thanks Evan, you're surely among the giants over there. Simply one of the best. Thanks for changing lives of so many.❤️❤️

  • @hanzlearningsolutions
    @hanzlearningsolutions 2 года назад +1

    Good communication skills is the ability to listen more, consistently being a better listener will allow you to become the best communicator because you are learning more than you are talking as well. That has been the one key I Have learnt for sure. Thanks for sharing.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  2 года назад

      You're welcome, much love. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb

  • @gastrobypasssurgerypatient9638
    @gastrobypasssurgerypatient9638 6 лет назад

    "Thank you for SHARING such valuable information"

  • @lancesamples9716
    @lancesamples9716 5 лет назад +21

    Robbin's story about the doctor that mirrored people was my favorite in this video... #majorkey

  • @user-fy1uj9nn9o
    @user-fy1uj9nn9o 7 лет назад +4

    keep up the good work Evan! Your channel is really awesome and helpful, Thank you a lot for all of your work that you put into your videos and they turned out so amazing!

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад

      Hi jessica, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

    • @estellelima-kitshoff9018
      @estellelima-kitshoff9018 3 года назад

      J

  • @zinemeki3017
    @zinemeki3017 3 года назад +1

    I have a difficult meeting with my doctor today and I am going to mirror and match my ideas with her. I hope it works today. I came here to solve a problem . It will work!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Good luck Zine. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

  • @dirkscholten9995
    @dirkscholten9995 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks Evan, be authentic, HAIl, Connect. Loved Tony’s take on repor and explaining why Milton Errikson was so great ❤️ by going to his client’s level.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      Thanks for sharing and thanks for the love, Dirk :) #BelieveNation #BTA911 Luka

  • @susanavargas9185
    @susanavargas9185 6 лет назад +5

    I like the HAIL and matching and mirroring ideas. Thanks for making this video.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      Thanks for watching :) #BTA852 Luka

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад

      hi susana,I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

  • @1979bojack
    @1979bojack 7 лет назад +21

    Evan all of the points were very good. The one that stands out the most for me: Tell Your Study. By doing so people can not just judge you for what they see on the outside. But if you tell them your study it leaves little room to judge. Thanks Evan

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for watching Jerome. :) #BelieveNation #BTA271 Shine

    • @edekineruanga991
      @edekineruanga991 6 лет назад

      This is good for me. My communication had been only 45%

    • @999vysakh
      @999vysakh 4 года назад

      @@EvanCarmichael ghcncbccccdjgdfugghjk

  • @susydyson1750
    @susydyson1750 3 года назад

    i'm glad i found this and as i will address the subject of communication i'll stick to the theme of authenticity... by telling about my experience to communication during various tricky moments of my life

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад +1

      Glad that it helped Susy. Good luck. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

    • @susydyson1750
      @susydyson1750 3 года назад

      @@EvanCarmichael give us another on the art of Listening attentively

  • @KaddyFeast
    @KaddyFeast 4 года назад +1

    Love this one!!!!! Great resources as ALWAYS! But your tag at the end...locks it in! YES! AUTHENTICITY! 💖

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching #Believe :) #BTA1479 Veljko

  • @romariasa9343
    @romariasa9343 6 лет назад +11

    Thank you so much for this amazing video. Today I'll do better than yesterday and tomorrow I'll do better than today and it will like this everyday.
    I am so glad to find your channel that I subscribed. Warm hug from Africa.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      Welcome aboard! Thanks for the love and support :) #BTA875 Luka

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад

      hi maria, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

  • @takaliteratop10maria
    @takaliteratop10maria 7 лет назад +57

    amazing video!

  • @angietorres4753
    @angietorres4753 3 года назад +1

    I have the hardest time to communicate with my parents. I asked my mother "what do you want to do for mother's day?" I asked her because she never likes any of my suggestions.
    Her response was "I don't know." My mother is not a planner. We are the type of family that plans Thanksgiving the day of. I hate this. I know hate is a strong word but I do.
    Anywho, today again I asked her the same question. She responds "Can you help me clean this?" I then told her "Listen, I asked you last week and I'm asking you again the same question, why can't you just give me a straight answer?"
    Honestly, because I was raised like this, I was like this. I'm now changing but it has been a difficult change.
    My mom finally responded only after I said I would help her clean something. When dealing with communicating with my parents it has taken A LOT OF PATIENCE & PRAYER.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад +1

      Appreciate you for sharing Angie. Thank you. 😊💛 #Believe - Feb

  • @paulbro2081
    @paulbro2081 6 лет назад

    Evan I think your the best communicator and that's authentic

  • @yosig2609
    @yosig2609 5 лет назад +15

    I REALLY needed THIS! Thank you

  • @pragnakiri8587
    @pragnakiri8587 6 лет назад +6

    I absolutely love watching your videos. I wonder if we have more videos about improving organising skills to create more time to get personal time to enjoy life

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      I'm glad that you enjoy them! Thanks for the love and thank you for watching. You should check out this video, it might be helpful to you: ruclips.net/video/DZZqv0ao068/видео.html Much love, Pragna. :) #BelieveNation #BTA755 Luka

  • @fxzeromasta
    @fxzeromasta 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video - I am trying to improve my communication skills and after watching this i feel motivated / encouraged.

  • @savibrooks914
    @savibrooks914 3 года назад

    I don't know what I think until I write it down. I believe it to be true. Thank you for this video

  • @foysetiawansetiiawan6961
    @foysetiawansetiiawan6961 6 лет назад +6

    Hearing the spekers said is one of my way learning english. I dont know how good my english, but i just want to improve it.

  • @cedricjones2625
    @cedricjones2625 5 лет назад +7

    Thank you, Evan. This was very insightful. Keep up the great work!

  • @bulbul1998
    @bulbul1998 6 лет назад

    Thanku so much.....got a positive vibe

  • @TxFw
    @TxFw 7 лет назад

    Stellar. Idk anything about your book, but even this short piece was enough to make me want it. The guy who talked about leadership language vs victim vocabulary spoke most meaningfully to me. Thank you.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Great to know that you resonated with Robin Sharma's words. As for Evan's book, you might be interested to check out: evancarmichael.com/oneword/ :) #Believe #BTA449 Shine

  • @sarouhong9084
    @sarouhong9084 7 лет назад +3

    Thank you for your doing this for us . I really appreciate. I am learning from yours a lot . #Believenation

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад +1

      Glad to know you are learning from the videos, it means a lot to know that they have #positive impact to you. :) Much love. #BelieveNation #BTA280 Shine

  • @richardfuture9616
    @richardfuture9616 6 лет назад +11

    this is wonderful,I learn alot from this thanks.

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC 6 лет назад +2

    LOVE THIS TED TALK BY Julian! LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!

  • @pradeepjoshi3798
    @pradeepjoshi3798 6 лет назад

    Thank You Evan for another good video. I like the point by Robin Sharma "keep your words right, Use Leadership language not victim's language"

  • @mikennabuo6757
    @mikennabuo6757 4 года назад +4

    Good stuff. I'd like to learn the language of leadership, improve my voice and non-verbal cues. Non-verbal cues definitely tops it!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  4 года назад

      You can do it! #Believe :) #BTA1488 Veljko

  • @rodeelynpc7327
    @rodeelynpc7327 6 лет назад +14

    Thank you very much for this awesome video Evan! You hit the bottom line of effective communication and I could feel your authenticity in doing so. I was just randomly browsing on you tube and found your video, now I'm going to subscribe and learn more from you. Keep it up!;-)

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад +1

      Glad you liked it Rodeelyn. :) Thank you very much for subscribing! Welcome to the channel and to BelieveNation. I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. #BTA578 Shine

    • @cyrusmudaliar9174
      @cyrusmudaliar9174 5 лет назад

      hi Rodeelyn, I am Cyrus from mumbai India .I am looking for a partner for practice my English.9836817922 this is my watsapp number ping me up.nd help me out..

  • @joanevladimarycruz377
    @joanevladimarycruz377 6 лет назад +1

    It’s all about being authentic. You’re right, Evan. I couldn’t agree more. :)

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      Thank you for sharing with us and thanks for watching. :) #BelieveNation #BTA655 Luka

  • @sakshirajput7070
    @sakshirajput7070 6 лет назад +2

    i learnt.. feel connected while u communicate.. your statement ultimately made me learn from this video.
    Thank you from rhe core of my heart.. i know i can do wonders wid this statemnt of urs..
    god bless u

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  6 лет назад

      Thanks for the love and thank you for watching. Much love! :) #BelieveNation #BTA759 Luka

  • @iexistunderkaeyasfeet3810
    @iexistunderkaeyasfeet3810 3 года назад +7

    I struggle to speak with other properly. My mouth says things I don’t even understand and there’s some other thoughts on my mind. Sometimes I get upset at myself for that. Then I see others especially my friends speaking so well. Meanwhile I just make a whole group awkward by just opening my mouth.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      Hello Asia Xian. Hope this video helps you. 💛😊 #Believe - Dondon

    • @sheeshee5083
      @sheeshee5083 3 года назад +2

      Hey same.. for that reason I stay quiet most of the time

  • @various-typical-classic-ar3614
    @various-typical-classic-ar3614 6 лет назад +5

    I don't know what I think until I flip a book and write it!!

  • @thanksinadvance.
    @thanksinadvance. 3 года назад +2

    The messages in this video gave me so much energy. I wrote down many things and I can’t wait to research more about this topic.
    I love it! Thanks for sharing this.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  3 года назад

      You're welcome Tia. Glad you liked it ❤️🙂 #Believe - Feb

  • @BobSalijeni
    @BobSalijeni 6 лет назад +12

    Brilliant, I have learnt a lot of stuff from both Anthony Robbins and Les Brown. The who are you, what do you have and why you? By Les Brown, then the match mirror by Anthony Robbins.
    Again the other three speakers are frankly great, think of it, how awesome one can be using ‘HAIL’ in his or her speech, what about using conversational language, wow powerful. Yes I did love this video. 👏👏👏

  • @khushbujenny
    @khushbujenny 7 лет назад +3

    Now this made a new connection :)Thanks Evan!

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Awesome to know that Khushbu. :) Thank you very much for watching! #BTA338 Shine

  • @claudiaaa4268
    @claudiaaa4268 3 года назад +1

    Great video! Im always quiet. I hate Speaking and attention. Lately its been worse. I read and enjoy learning. My boss yells at me and i feel stupider every day. I understand the words but when i speak i dont know how to speak i forget words. Im the happiest when im invisible but deep down i wish i was confident and smart.

  • @marshafisch
    @marshafisch 5 лет назад +1

    LOL - Embarrassed to say I am laughing at myself in ALL the wrong things I do daily in my communication! That's why I am here. Thank you for the video! I pray I will and can implement some of these suggestions presented here! I will be a better person if I do.

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  5 лет назад

      Glad it's helpful to you! Much love. #BTA1152 Luka

  • @kalenacarpentier7476
    @kalenacarpentier7476 7 лет назад +3

    Wow Evan, I just came across your account recently and couldn't stop watching your videos. So many helpful tips and information, so inspiring! Definitely taking notes for my business. Keep it up :)

    • @EvanCarmichael
      @EvanCarmichael  7 лет назад

      Glad you found our channel Kalena. Welcome to #BelieveNation and I hope you'll find more videos here that will be helpful to you. Stay inspired...always #Believe. :) #BTA415 Shine