I was a maintenance worker at The University of Oregon for 25 years. I worked on the locker room a lot in the 90’s and early 2000’s. You wouldn’t believe how many times I caught players in there getting it on!
I worked in an office with a girl from Belfast who said she had never known a gay guy growing up and had never seen or heard of one in the city. Then someone opened a gay disco on the outskirts of town and the place was packed to the rafters every weekend.
Jacob seems to be comfortable answering your questions. Not every straight guy from a small midwestern town would be. I would watch another interview with him, focusing on how he decided to start an OF. Also, how does he respond to some of the more explicit comments he must get on OF and Insta. Very good interview, Art. 👍👍👍👍👍
He's also enjoying the attention and the money that comes with it. Some dudes are just like that. They thrive from the attention, with most being fine with it so long as there's no touching involved.
I've also seen his IG about how he brags about gays chasing him. He likes the attention and the money that comes from said attention. It feeds the ego for some.
The funniest thing is when my straight friends ask me the most awkward questions about me being gay and when I answered, their questions, the look on their faces, is priceless. 😅 #gaycowboy
😂 well, the question I always get asked, don't you hurt doing butt stuff? Another question is how can you kiss a guy, and I always tell them how can you kiss a chick. Don't knock it till you try it ❤😊
I'm a straight female and used to be the same with my lesbian friends. It was so intriguing to me. When I was younger and pretty ignorant about sexualities I found it so hard to wrap my head around them as females being only attracted to females and not interest in guys. Most of my female friends were and are straight, aswel as my sisters so it seemed like it was just a natural thing for every female to like males. because that was the extent of my understandin g of other females, it was more projection than anything. I thought they had to be lying..and don't even get me started on bisexuality, I was supper ignorant about that and didn't think it existed and it was just gay men or lesbian women too afraid to say they were fully homosexual. I've educated myself a bit since then. Sometimes when we have a certain orientation to the world it can be supper hard to relate or understand a different way to be. Another example is when I first found out about pathological narcissism(people who have no empathy) it was supper hard for me to understand their world view and how other people are viewed as objects to them. They have no more feelings, connection, kinship or understanding to another human being than you would have to a chair or table. They could kill a person as easy as you could step on a bug. Having empathy is not in their orientation to the world at all. Even though I can understand it intellectually, emotionally it's still a mistery how they can just not care or feel for other people at all. Empathy is something I've always had without even thinking about it and it's hard for me to imagine not having it. I think it's kind of similar for people who are monosexual because they just dont have that experience. For them being sexually attracted to one sex cancels out the other, so it's hard for them to understand being sexually attracted to both sexes.
I live in Seattle and know more straight people like Jacob than not. Open-minded, open-hearted and are not that interested in judging or assessing people based on who they are, especially if they are different from them. They are not defensive or violent. Instead, they are accepting and curious.
When you have a straight friend, in a gay bar they are your best wingman ever... and a gay friend in a straight bar, is the straight friends best wingman. Think about it.
Wow...he hails from a place less than 2 hours from me. And in many ways, he reminds me of a close, straight friend of mine, very relaxed, very open, very comfortable with himself. I don't think either would cross over to the dark side, but both definitely are flirty and fun!
I have been to Santa Claus IN, yes, it is,a super small town, very nice, so I can understand a bit about Jacob's origins. Jacob, thank you for participating in Art's video world. Best to you. 👍
Art should do a vid where he's the camera man and his straight buddies are the main characters running around being chaotic. Like Jacob, Calisaws, Brigham, "str8 but super zesty spring breakers" , Mario Adrion's dad
@@whatever3041 regular guys can just tell. I'm a regular guy, a closeted "mostly gay" guy. It has nothing to do necessarily with detecting effeminacy, it's just a natural vibe, an instinct, and eye contact in a certain way. It's the same with male/female interactions.
Great interview with good questions! Loved the “fully straight for now” in the beginning 😂 I like Jacob , it would be great to see more videos with him ! I have a typical straight friend but he’s my best friend so we come along very well 😊
Honestly I have quite a few straight friends. I came out at 15 and most of my friends at the time were women. I had a few straight friends. But found I just enjoy being around straight guys more. There is less pressure. And I am able to do things that I like, in which I have a difficult time finding gay guys who are willing to do them. Such as camping, rock climbing, etc...
Now that you have become so much more successful, I hope you can buy a two mic set up for these interviews or maybe even do a podcast set up where you have mics on a table.
@@warrenpainenewsflash...most gay and bi men are closeted. You must be a queen who is homophobic, want to pretend masc gay and bi men are "straight", so you can feel like a real "woman" with us, and think only effeminate ones are gay. Most of us are regular guys and run the spectrum from fem to masc.
@@transp0rter1 I'm a closeted bi man myself. He's my people. I can recognize a masculine, in denial, or just closeted bi guy a mile away...we're everywhere. We're the "straight" identified, masculine guys you lust over.
Many years ago, when I was in my early 20’s, I worked at a very popular restaurant in my area. The wait staff was made up of everyone you could think of. A small group of us would go for happy hour after our lunch shift, or after working in the evening visit the gay clubs. 2 straight couples worked with me, we were all the same age. The straight guys had no problems about going to the gay clubs with their girlfriends. We all had great times together. One night, early in the evening, I was at a club popular on a Sunday night. As I mentioned, it was early, so I was by myself, enjoying watching the light show on the dance floor and looking at the few couples who were dancing. I looked over my shoulder to the bar and noticed my two straight coworkers, standing next to each other, dinking beers. I thought “where are the girls”. They saw me, smiled and waved at me. I didn’t wave back. I gave them a “one raised eyebrow stare”. They looked at me confused, looked at each other, their smiles disappeared, they immediately knew what I was thinking. They started yelling “THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM! THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM!”. I approached them and yelled “I’LL BE RIGHT BACK!!!”. I walked into the ladies room yelling the girls names. Both of them started yelling “JOHN, IS THAT YOU?”. I was happy I found them. The three of us came out of the ladies room together, we ended up laughing about my suspicions all night long, and some 30 years later too.
It definitely seemed like he was trying to insinuate that being gay/not straight was something that a straight person could just become at some point in their future. Like…what? (3:26)
What's funny is it's the complete opposite for me. I HATE straight bars cause the guys were always jealous of me and would try to start shit with me for no damned reason. ALL THE TIME!! Too much test. mixed with closeted haters.
Stelle diese Frage einem yungen Europäer, ich denke manch Antwort wäre anders.Man merkt diese Typische amerikanische shei Verhalten bei dem yungen Mann. Aber Hut ab das er mitgemacht hat.
since my childhood, i've never had a bestfriend maybe because of my sexuality, until when i worked somewhere far from my town..i have a bff, a straight one, he is quite good looking to be honest..not that im romanticising that, but just to share gays and straights could be real bestfriends too...he's super kind and "makulit" in tagalog
Tbh it’s wrong to assume just because guys who had girlfriends were hitting on him that they’re automatically gay, they might be bisexual 🤷♂️ also, I’m not sure whether it has anything to do with sexuality or if it’s just social anxiety, but as a bi guy, I can’t pee in front of other people. It’s not a self-confidence issue, as I’m above average in size down there, it’s just that I can’t relax in that situation (unless I’m really drunk/high and I really have to go), and then I go into a vicious cycle of thinking that other people are gonna think I’m weird or a perv for just standing there with my d*ck out and not peeing, which makes me even more unable to relax to start peeing. So basically I only pee in public if I know that I’m alone or if there’s a bathroom stall, I should probably have cognitive-behavioral therapy at some point to try to work through this. The medical term for it is paruresis and I think somewhere around 10% of people have it.
I know two people who have girlfriends and are in relationships. At the same time they hug and kiss and possibly have sexual encounters with their male friends too.
Развлечения
I was a maintenance worker at The University of Oregon for 25 years. I worked on the locker room a lot in the 90’s and early 2000’s. You wouldn’t believe how many times I caught players in there getting it on!
Not surprised at all.
@@nickbarcheck1019It's certainly not a new thing at all!
How many times?
I worked in an office with a girl from Belfast who said she had never known a gay guy growing up and had never seen or heard of one in the city. Then someone opened a gay disco on the outskirts of town and the place was packed to the rafters every weekend.
Seems Jacob's parents did a good job raising him.
Jacob seems to be comfortable answering your questions. Not every straight guy from a small midwestern town would be. I would watch another interview with him, focusing on how he decided to start an OF. Also, how does he respond to some of the more explicit comments he must get on OF and Insta. Very good interview, Art. 👍👍👍👍👍
Yeah, he's weirdly cool about the topic for someone who wears such a conspicuous crucifix.
He's also enjoying the attention and the money that comes with it. Some dudes are just like that. They thrive from the attention, with most being fine with it so long as there's no touching involved.
I've also seen his IG about how he brags about gays chasing him. He likes the attention and the money that comes from said attention. It feeds the ego for some.
Is his only fans just solo work or does he mess around with guys?
The funniest thing is when my straight friends ask me the most awkward questions about me being gay and when I answered, their questions, the look on their faces, is priceless. 😅 #gaycowboy
What they ask ? 😂😂😂
😂 well, the question I always get asked, don't you hurt doing butt stuff? Another question is how can you kiss a guy, and I always tell them how can you kiss a chick. Don't knock it till you try it ❤😊
I'm a straight female and used to be the same with my lesbian friends. It was so intriguing to me. When I was younger and pretty ignorant about sexualities I found it so hard to wrap my head around them as females being only attracted to females and not interest in guys. Most of my female friends were and are straight, aswel as my sisters so it seemed like it was just a natural thing for every female to like males. because that was the extent of my understandin g of other females, it was more projection than anything. I thought they had to be lying..and don't even get me started on bisexuality, I was supper ignorant about that and didn't think it existed and it was just gay men or lesbian women too afraid to say they were fully homosexual. I've educated myself a bit since then.
Sometimes when we have a certain orientation to the world it can be supper hard to relate or understand a different way to be. Another example is when I first found out about pathological narcissism(people who have no empathy) it was supper hard for me to understand their world view and how other people are viewed as objects to them. They have no more feelings, connection, kinship or understanding to another human being than you would have to a chair or table. They could kill a person as easy as you could step on a bug. Having empathy is not in their orientation to the world at all. Even though I can understand it intellectually, emotionally it's still a mistery how they can just not care or feel for other people at all. Empathy is something I've always had without even thinking about it and it's hard for me to imagine not having it. I think it's kind of similar for people who are monosexual because they just dont have that experience. For them being sexually attracted to one sex cancels out the other, so it's hard for them to understand being sexually attracted to both sexes.
I live in Seattle and know more straight people like Jacob than not. Open-minded, open-hearted and are not that interested in judging or assessing people based on who they are, especially if they are different from them. They are not defensive or violent. Instead, they are accepting and curious.
Dude is bi, like myself, and he is in denial or just closeted. He's NOT straight. Stay in your lane, gay man.
Seattle also has a ton of heteroflexible guys. Lots of fun!
@@oscarlugo8126 bi and gay men all over the world who are closeted. I'm a closeted bi man.
@@Robert-vf6ny Bi, gay, pan, heteroflexible…so many options!
@@oscarlugo8126 only if I remain a closet case bisexual man like all the other ones, sure.
When you have a straight friend, in a gay bar they are your best wingman ever... and a gay friend in a straight bar, is the straight friends best wingman. Think about it.
Straights can be pumpkins too.
What does mean? I don't understand@@Jackaroo.
Thank you Art for sharing these interesting perspectives and videos and bringing a wide variety of people to your channel.
Wow...he hails from a place less than 2 hours from me. And in many ways, he reminds me of a close, straight friend of mine, very relaxed, very open, very comfortable with himself. I don't think either would cross over to the dark side, but both definitely are flirty and fun!
Why does it have to be the "dark side"?
There are definitely a lot of “straight” guys who hit on you at the gym and locker rooms. It’s definitely not subtle sometimes 😅
Awesome interview Art. Jacob seems like a really nice, down-to-earth type of guy. ❤❤❤
He seems very comfortable in his own skin.
so gorgeous and even more coz he's so chill
Nice to hear that he is openminded 😊. Nice vid bro. ❤ as always ❤ .
Great interview with your friend Art. Great live stream. Jacob looks great.❤
Omg I’ve been following him for a while now didn’t think art would know who he was though 😂
Art, you drug him out of the closet and walked him up and down the street and he never saw it coming. LoL
Great interview. Loved Jacob's relaxed honesty answering the questions.
I have been to Santa Claus IN, yes, it is,a super small town, very nice, so I can understand a bit about Jacob's origins. Jacob, thank you for participating in Art's video world. Best to you. 👍
all my male friends are straight and they quite chill
I love this interview Art. Jacob is a hottie for sure. I love his personality!! Such a nice guy.
Art should do a vid where he's the camera man and his straight buddies are the main characters running around being chaotic. Like Jacob, Calisaws, Brigham, "str8 but super zesty spring breakers" , Mario Adrion's dad
Interesting interview with Jacob..thanks artiom boy xxx😊😊😊😂😂😂❤
ur reactions art 😘
New to your channel. Loving that more lgbt youtubers are coming out.
He's sooo handsome 😍
Art is a really funny guy. That’s not easy to do in two different languages.
Straight my tush!!!..He'll do great in Sean Cody or Chaosmen!..
100%. I knew instantly. Just closeted. People aren't stupid, even real straight people are noticing the signs of us discreet/dl guys these days.
How can you tell?
@@whatever3041 regular guys can just tell. I'm a regular guy, a closeted "mostly gay" guy. It has nothing to do necessarily with detecting effeminacy, it's just a natural vibe, an instinct, and eye contact in a certain way. It's the same with male/female interactions.
I know the same thing. Masculine and "normal" means nothing.
@@Robert-vf6ny you are right, I checked his Instagram, didn't appear very straight to me.
More Jacob would be fun to watch
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
and lovely over-use of exclamation marks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great interview with good questions! Loved the “fully straight for now” in the beginning 😂 I like Jacob , it would be great to see more videos with him !
I have a typical straight friend but he’s my best friend so we come along very well 😊
sexuality is fluid and on a continuum, not set in stone for a lifetime (for most).
is he boring too?
he's weirdly cool about the topic for someone who wears such a conspicuous crucifix.
Santa Claus, Indiana represent! Holiday World!
Honestly I have quite a few straight friends. I came out at 15 and most of my friends at the time were women. I had a few straight friends. But found I just enjoy being around straight guys more. There is less pressure. And I am able to do things that I like, in which I have a difficult time finding gay guys who are willing to do them. Such as camping, rock climbing, etc...
I'm more like u lol same predicament.
I can see Jacob being attracted to Timothée Chalamet.
He seems straight but open to "exploring." Just my impression.
Jacob and Art good watch
Nice video, very entertaining
Santa Claus, IN home of Holiday World!
Gorgeous Men
What is Jacob's Only Fans?
I must be missing something. What does he do on his only fans channel? Who is his audience?
His audience is anybody who wants to see him take his clothes off. Like most of that website, he makes sex videos.
Now that you have become so much more successful, I hope you can buy a two mic set up for these interviews or maybe even do a podcast set up where you have mics on a table.
Passing the mike back and forth adds to the fun.
6:55 Me "say Art!"
What’s the only fans link?
Jacob wetzel
The video description links to his IG which then has link tree to all his sites. Pretty standard.
Santa Claus Indiana?! Missed opportunity there....like how did that town get named Santa Claus? Im sure I cant be the only one.
I think Jacob said he is definitely straight one too many times. lol
I agree, he was definitely trying to convince himself!! 😂 I didn't believe him, I wonder if he believed himself. 😂
😜
If you want people to respect you when you say you're gay, you should respect people who say that they're hetero.
@@warrenpainenewsflash...most gay and bi men are closeted. You must be a queen who is homophobic, want to pretend masc gay and bi men are "straight", so you can feel like a real "woman" with us, and think only effeminate ones are gay. Most of us are regular guys and run the spectrum from fem to masc.
Are you sure it’s not just wishful thinking on your part?
3:32
I am not gay but the Future is the Future
I want this on a T-Shirt! lol
Nice. ❤
art is hot bye
his come still in u art? xox
Omg like Art is good looking . What the hell , doesn't he do gay 4 pay ?
I'm a U.C BEARCAT as well as a CINCINNATI BENGAL FAN!
More w Jacob!
Kept hoping he would take his shirt off
yes sisters!
LOL...
Wonderful 😊
Ask him HOW the DL guys hit on him, duh! What do they SAY/DO??!?! That's the real tea!
He's a dl guy he's not fooling me
@@Robert-vf6ny haha ur an optimist. Not me. I'm a pessimist. I hope ur right tho lol
@@transp0rter1 I'm a closeted bi man myself. He's my people. I can recognize a masculine, in denial, or just closeted bi guy a mile away...we're everywhere. We're the "straight" identified, masculine guys you lust over.
1:16, oh, sounds demonic
Whats his OF link
Спасибо? Вы русский?
I like him
What's his OF?
😊
Jacob looks so cute, didn´t u felt bit attracted to him, Art?
What's Jacobs last name
Art those hairy forearms are handsome. Will you grow body hair elsewhere?
Jacob is hot
What’s his OF anyone know?
The next interview trying subtitles in Spanish
This guy on the left reminds me of my mate
what's his full name?
Jacob wetzel 😉 enjoy guys
What's the insta for Jacob?
Link is in the description like it always is.
Jacob is a great guy ❤😊
The best friend of a Gay man is another Gay man ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Gay men together forever 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Fergus Dublin Ireland European Union is E.U
Typo Jacobs Gr8 Art
Many years ago, when I was in my early 20’s, I worked at a very popular restaurant in my area. The wait staff was made up of everyone you could think of. A small group of us would go for happy hour after our lunch shift, or after working in the evening visit the gay clubs. 2 straight couples worked with me, we were all the same age. The straight guys had no problems about going to the gay clubs with their girlfriends. We all had great times together.
One night, early in the evening, I was at a club popular on a Sunday night. As I mentioned, it was early, so I was by myself, enjoying watching the light show on the dance floor and looking at the few couples who were dancing.
I looked over my shoulder to the bar and noticed my two straight coworkers, standing next to each other, dinking beers. I thought “where are the girls”. They saw me, smiled and waved at me. I didn’t wave back. I gave them a “one raised eyebrow stare”. They looked at me confused, looked at each other, their smiles disappeared, they immediately knew what I was thinking. They started yelling “THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM! THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM!”. I approached them and yelled “I’LL BE RIGHT BACK!!!”. I walked into the ladies room yelling the girls names. Both of them started yelling “JOHN, IS THAT YOU?”. I was happy I found them. The three of us came out of the ladies room together, we ended up laughing about my suspicions all night long, and some 30 years later too.
That is SO Funny.
Love your story. It felt like you were relieved nothing ‘funny’ was going on. Who needs cheated girlfriends and DL gay guys. 😂 💕
Ask him if any of his coaches have eyed him??
He’s cute.
Whats his only fans
So he's "straight" which means that must also be his real hair Goo Tube is really becoming one gigantic joke
How unusual to know a straight guy
What is Jacob’s last name? I want to check out his ONLY FANS.
Lmk too pls
It definitely seemed like he was trying to insinuate that being gay/not straight was something that a straight person could just become at some point in their future. Like…what? (3:26)
“I stopped pooping in 2015” 😂
What's funny is it's the complete opposite for me. I HATE straight bars cause the guys were always jealous of me and would try to start shit with me for no damned reason. ALL THE TIME!! Too much test. mixed with closeted haters.
Stelle diese Frage einem yungen Europäer, ich denke manch Antwort wäre anders.Man merkt diese Typische amerikanische shei Verhalten bei dem yungen Mann. Aber Hut ab das er mitgemacht hat.
What’s with the hair?
since my childhood, i've never had a bestfriend maybe because of my sexuality, until when i worked somewhere far from my town..i have a bff, a straight one, he is quite good looking to be honest..not that im romanticising that, but just to share gays and straights could be real bestfriends too...he's super kind and "makulit" in tagalog
Tbh it’s wrong to assume just because guys who had girlfriends were hitting on him that they’re automatically gay, they might be bisexual 🤷♂️ also, I’m not sure whether it has anything to do with sexuality or if it’s just social anxiety, but as a bi guy, I can’t pee in front of other people. It’s not a self-confidence issue, as I’m above average in size down there, it’s just that I can’t relax in that situation (unless I’m really drunk/high and I really have to go), and then I go into a vicious cycle of thinking that other people are gonna think I’m weird or a perv for just standing there with my d*ck out and not peeing, which makes me even more unable to relax to start peeing. So basically I only pee in public if I know that I’m alone or if there’s a bathroom stall, I should probably have cognitive-behavioral therapy at some point to try to work through this. The medical term for it is paruresis and I think somewhere around 10% of people have it.
I know two people who have girlfriends and are in relationships. At the same time they hug and kiss and possibly have sexual encounters with their male friends too.
What’s his of?
Description has link to IG which then has his link tree.
Nice interview. Good straight guy.
Travis Kelce has small arms
yeah. he is straight for now as he said it. But the way he looked at Art, i mean, it looked like they are lovers
"straight" meaning closeted obviously.
I dont like that straight dude's hair. It looks messy. If he got a decent haircut, he might look ok.
❤❤❤🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 Art is Iconic
💯💯💯🎯💟💟💟💟💟💟💟
This guy’s too much in love with his looks, which are only average.
Shes giving power bottom vibes
1:00 WHY! so hot!