8yrs I Haven’t Seen My Kids But I Pay Child Support, My Ex Planned To Destroy Me Before Divorcing Me
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I am 32 year old man, Grad with Engineering career in the US, I make good money my biggest fear is marriage. This kind of nonsense makes me hate marriage with passion.
For me the person I want to marry is in Belgium and I am here in Canada as a student. Everyone’s story is different and I know God will see us through. 🙏🏽
@@Chopper1zI am in the UK, bought a 3 bedroom house nearly £300,000 but I live there alone, because of madness like this 😂😢
@@maximusfootball6266 I live in 4 bed room 3 bathroom house in Texas all by myself. No argument no wahala 😂
Don't you dare get married. You can get sex without marriage, you can make babies without marriage. You can actually live longer and happier together with someone you love without marriage. Stay away from women who pressure you to marry them. Red flag.
@@maximusfootball6266I see you Bro😊
DJ.. You don’t know how wicked some woman are. I had a similar case. I live with my woman for six years when I found out she was cheating. I sat her down and advise her.we not married though but paid some money and drinks for the family because I got her pregnant before.She started going through my phone to also fine out if I am also cheating. She found out nothing. And started creating problems for me.A whole lot of things happened in our six years . Now with her mom’s advice. She left and regretted in 6months time .She wanted want me back and I turned her down because I love my life and peace of mind. She has become bitter cus I don’t want the relationship anymore.If I want to take the child for medical check. She refuses anytime . I have stopped asking her about that.And the only thing I tell her is how long will she continue to bitter. As at now the .I am at peace with myself.
Good, bless you
This thing called marriage eerr.....it is better to stay single than to get marriage to ur enemy
Some women are evil 😈
You did well, never allow second chances to people who have shown they want to hurt you👍
A Very matured conversation. He is very hardworking and gifted with wisdom. Thank you SVTV.
🚨You were not soft hearted, you were simply too ignorant not to know you married your enemy!!!! Glad you have learned
It looks like the brother got one of those narcissistic Jezebel's from hell. I'm glad he's moved on and seem to be doing well. People, please do NOT ignore red flags, especially during the courtship. You do so at your own peril!
I feel the lady was very narcissistic as u are saying . A lot of manipulations .
myself.., i only saw serious red flags when my girl got pregnant.., the rest be history
There are 2 sides to every story, personally his side sounds too sweet. I will entreat him not to talk too much because of the kids and the fact that they married before. Karma will fight for him if what he is saying is nothing but the truth.
DJ if the woman is a liar the man must be careful she can even accuse him of rape or attempted rape and go to prison.If he try to see the kids in her house so tiny child support is enough.I am happy he move on now she can't use him for sex.
❤ DJ, stop pushing and advising your guests because of the kids. Do you know what can happen to them just because they want to see their kids. The laws doesn't favor men
From what he said I concluded he acted like fool to the wife for love.
It appears he loves her more than she does for him.
He allowed himself to be tossed around by the wife.
Out of greediness and bitterness, these children are going to suffer. Marriage abroad wahala. God help us.
Well done John for been strong and moving on and not waiting your time.
God will bless you for being a good Man
Thanks so much DJN RIGHT God bless you paaaaaaa
Hmmmm!!! Well done
I pass through a lot but from what you have narrated today
Take good care of your new wife
May God bless you
Thanks so much Bro will spoken
Thanks so much Bro God bless you ✌☝️👋😗
A lot of men suffering from mental health because of these types of situations, i know some men who have committed suicide because of these situation.
Oh hmmm, so sad oooo. Hope people will take heed of this man’s advice and experience
Wow, what a stressful prior life but I truly thank God for your beautiful new life. It’s been a struggle but through it all God has been faithful. Thanks for sharing your experience. Best wishes in all your endeavors
Wow … This guy married his enemy … hmmmm
*This man has been through it. The moment you see the signs, you should remove your shoes and run as fast as you can.*
*It's hurtful to show true love to someone and all they do is hurt you in every way possible.*
Is the shoes for me 😂😂😂😂😂
Expose the woman. That is sick! I hope the kids finds this video. I understand this guy. Bceause the syatem wont allow you see the kids if the woman fights it
Will rather bring the poor kids with no parents instead of bringing a woman in abroad never and ever Amen
Wise saying 👏
NEVER GIVE TOO MUCH OF YOURSELF TO ANYONE,
Thats it,too much will be taken for granted
I can relate with what this man is saying.
This man has suffered, sorry senior
Sometimes, it's better "to put on a silent treatment" than to try to solve issues in the heat of an argument. What I have learned in marriage is that:- 1. Is my man an angel? Ans is NO. 2. Do I, at least, like him about 50%? If the answer is YES, then it's worth fighting for. There's nothing called "perfect" marriage" anywhere, but it's all up to you. Remember, as the saying goes, "it takes two to entango." It takes two to argue. This means that if one person keeps yepping to herself or to himself without any response from the other, what harm can be done?
@SVTVAfrica, you see eh, the real truth about relationship leading to marriage eh, it doesn't matter the level of journey embarked in it, once you spot any red flags, STOP the relationship. That is who that person is, you are the one going into it and not friends, family or society. It is a must to stop it so stop it. You will find the right person. Yes when families don't accept you, back out immediately.
I thought he said abroad is heaven. Why do you now have a problem. Would you tolerant this nonsense in Ghana?
The fact that he says he's very comfortable abroad doesn't mean he's got no problem. Who doesn't have problems, even akuffo addo, the royal family, everyone has got their own problems.
don't mind him 😂God even had problems with some of his Angels in heaven where we got Satan 😂😂
It's only a foolish entity who believe God can be mocked by saying; the all knowing God has got a problem to deal with. No wonder you've all got a slavery mentality. Shallow minded...would defend this. The God I know doesn't even have challenges let a lone a problem. Choose your words wisely. Instead of being you're in heaven take the opportunity to learn rather than doing piggery jobs which will lead you into your early grave. Most of you don't have a shame!
Hmmm, ask again.
Aww this man has gone through a lot from that ungrateful woman. But this is what happens when a woman doesn't love u and the man refuses to see. Bcos if a woman doesn't love u, u will surely see some red flags in the relationship.
I need this kind of man😊😊😊
GOD BLESS YOU Bro wow
That is my fear now to get married again
John appears to be a good man. 👍🏾 and 😊
Go to the courts and file for joint custody
Thank you, it always surprises me when some men living abroad keep complaining about their exes preventing them from seeing their kids, l don't know if they don't have knowledge about family law, or they just don't want to go to court, or they just feel like just complaining about the situation over and over without taking action.
Courts are weighted in favour of women in uk. Joint custody for men is nearly in possible.....
1. lawyers will be chopping your money everyday.
2. If you are not working how do you fight your case in court as a man
3. Even if you get court papers...i woman will frustrate with silly excuses when its your visitation such as child is sick today, we are not available , we are out and busy, we are not at home.
Best for two families to resolve it on that level.
@@ginglesgiant8866 well l don't know much about how family laws work in UK, but in Canada, the laws clearly says joint custody if there are no history of neglect, abusive behavior from any of the parents towards the kids, and if it's your visitation, the woman cannot be making any unnecessary excuses, if she does, you just go back to the court or report her to the appointed children's Lawyer, if both Parent did agree to that, and she's going to be warned of violating the court order, if she continue to do that, then the court can even decide to let the kids move in with the father, but all of this depends if the father want the Laws to work for him, cause some Fathers will just give up and be complaining the laws work in favor of women, which is never true, there are no laws that's gender base, the laws works for both genders, it's up to you the man to pursue your case until all options are exhausted.
Ooh so sorry man
I'm a woman but my children are in my blood group. Children can take their mothers blood group
All is well
Wicked woman eiiii hmmm it's not easy to get HUSBAND like you 😍
Dj in this mans case is even dangerous for the man to go to meet this woman she can go to jail
Very smart guy
Don is perfectly right
My brother, your wife must be registered with a professional body where she needs to conform to the professional standards, responsibilities and accountability. Pls report her. And they will investigate. I’m a senior manager in the UK and I know how these things work
This marriage thing eerr. Mercy to overcome the fear to get married.
Oh i have passed this type of situation before br
Hummmm I went through the same 16 years in police cell now am out having peace of mind. Some men and women are Narcissistic we just have to pray
Now I know education is not intelligence,this man paaaa ,s3 soft heart,women don’t need good things in life ooo.
There’s a saying in our Akan language that there’s a little bitterness around every sweetness. The western world is sweet but let enjoy the bitterness like that, my biggest worry is the health implications
Say that again ooo bro
I wish someone can say it proper in our Ghanaian language lol . Thats same proverb is so related to raising your children in western countries
@@KofiOsei_Double88CLOTHINGS”enam biara ey3 d3 no, b)yono bata ho” / “there is bile attached to every tasty meat
God bless you …. The devil’s real .
I don’t understand this man … he said he gave the woman the option to go.
Why did he ask the wife to decide when he can also take the same option to leave the marriage?
Conclusion:
It could be the wife who dumped him not the other way round.
Ah how’s this relevant, whether he left or she left, how’s that important
DJ he is right to stay away trust me .
DJ the abrokyire system is different. Don is right!!!
Hmmmm God help us 🙏🥺
Don't worry Bro God will never forgive her if your Husband or ur wife help you and you did this to the person one day you will get it back some day three is God 🤞☝️✌
Eiiiii Bro hmmm this is bitter truth 😗😍👋🤣✌
Hmmm. Something sweet gone all bitter. That's life. Some women think men will brainwash the children, that's what I think it's the main issue. This I think can easily be discussed extensively and then allow fathers to get involved positively ooo.
Some women are wicked
Some people are just evil keke
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 what love took from me i was in tne.same.situation.i.pray one.day my daughter will understand me.. i know.the truth ...
Same bro
God will see you through
@ charleslistowel2124, I'm here oooh, marry me la😅
@@victoriaappiah2525 So that you will run away when you get to UK right? Smh
@@EnKaySciFi I'm a British citizen wai
Very inspiring and intelligent man.. U are a real Don ….
DJ will never understand this situation until you experience it yourself,I joyfully left home in Dec 2023 and I ve not been allowed to see my 3 girls since but iam paying my due,, I can relate very well to the gentlemans dilemma,a lying deceitful woman and the toxic families that we marry into is like living in the household of the devil,may God help us all.
Reason why koum koum will not finish in abroad.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
This type of situation is uncomfortable
Wanting no get, getting no want hmmmmm this world us not balanced
Men u should know the type of woman u have to marry. . How can u forget ur mum because of a woman. Some women are really crazy and they have forgotten that someone brought ur husband up before he grew to be a man to marry . U know ur husband comes from a family , he was helped by someone and his parents brought him up for u to marry.
court of public opinion
Even as he is saying all this cautiontizing story of his marriage,, there are hundreds of people speedily processing for another CHAFF into abrokyre!!!!😮
This man has suffered paa eii,sorry wati hmmmm
Its not that money only. Its the housing benefits and so on. It all turns round though to bute the women badly
There is a financial reward for women who are abused so she has to create physical and emotional abuse for that financial reward.
You free from such women with such behavior and never have anything to do with such character. File for joint custody you can be part of for children life. Let that woman be another man's headache. Trust me there are better and more peaceful matured grateful options out there. You was married to your enemy massa.
Ei hmm so me now my fear is, will i be able to marry some?😳 Cos nsem no dccso ooo hmm. So i can't even quit if i want to 😂then wahala boi hmmm
Marriaaaaage oo hmm
Bto. don't worry the kids will one day come back. Mine one their father told them I got juju in my house but mother's day the kids 18 and 15 years came to visit me with cake which the kids said their father gave them money to buy me cake. So just relax brother.
This guy IS very real
Dj what ever he said is so factual western marriages are particularly arranged that way on purpose. He only has 10% chance of getting his kinds and that % requires millions$£ to fight for that chance. Is not just Ghanaians or blacks but is the women empowerment and feminism
"Council Flats"....Never...?? LESS IS MORE....🤔🤔
Eiiiii Bro sorry 🤣
It is so sad when educated people let foolish pastors deceive them
Hmmmm some get the ooopportunity then misuse it aahhhhh
Exactly what I was also saying to my self .
Say it again ooo
She has destroyed the man's heart for future relationship oooo
I dont agree with dj nyame why are u forcing him to meet the kids whiles it can land him in jail .....hes equally human too
Lesson life: Don't be a soft guy!
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put Asunder, Mark.10:9
Do you want someone to go in and out of jail?
Dj,ls not good to bring women from ghana to over seo
Your ex wife was evil.
Your ex was very dramatic paaa
The $10,00 I will use to bring a woman from Ghana to aboard I will use that to feed the street
My case was a bofrot case. This is the real deal
Hahaha hmmm
Why are some women like that, always remember that whatever we do on this earth, we will surely pay for it, always remember that if you love your children as you claim, never do anything bad to their father, no matter what may happen never do anything badd for the sake of the children
Your take on blood donation is wrong
If a scientist can disprove science to believe in superstition de3a then the education system in Africa is flawed, cus me a literature student can never get to a stage where I will say autism is caused by a witch.😂😂😂
You why women are jealous on the little money they earn 25,00 annually
I have been through dis situation before and by Gods grace I came out victorious. I went to court for almost a year, lies upon lies, force report to the police but in the end after we did what is called FACTS FINDINGS, all her allegations were proven to be nonsense. It cost me a fortune( paying £600 per representation n £600 just for writing a statement to the court ),I went through a lot ,but today I can see my son, take him to school n sports activities as well. Happily bonding with him. A lot going on in the UK
Hmmmm
I'm glad you fought for your son 💪🏿He'll live to appreciate you for that. Well done!
@@tommykta thanks a lot am all happy now 👌🏾
Its not easy. Well done for bonding with your son considering the circumstances.
@@ginglesgiant8866 thanks a lot brov 🙏👌🏾
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You we’re playing with fire and it would surely burn you
Women, we should be careful with the way we treat men these days. 😮😮😮
Exactly
Some women will give you criminal record to secure their papers
Give ur new children same names as the old ones and move on big bro