Surviving Separation: ​⁠Danny’s Story of Depression, Despair, and Hope

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Welcome to AREA69: After Dark! The podcast where you can lay back and relax, share some laughs together and maybe even shed a tear from time to time. I want to take this opportunity to really reconnect with my alien bb's and share experiences that I don't necessarily share through my videos.

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  • @_iamsarahi
    @_iamsarahi 4 дня назад +126

    I’m so happy Danny decided to stay. 🤍🫶🏼🙏🏼

    • @issaabbel__1067
      @issaabbel__1067 4 дня назад +3

      Me too I love him so much he’s so relatable and Intune with who he is ❤🙏✨ thank you Danny

  • @marleneromero4162
    @marleneromero4162 4 дня назад +74

    This is by far my favorite guest you had in your podcast, Danny is so brave for opening up about his past ❤ I’m glad he was able to get the help he needed

  • @bamfnathalie
    @bamfnathalie 4 дня назад +12

    I completely agree with Dani and venting to people who say “that sucks” Annette is a compassionate and considerate friend. They balance each other out very harmoniously. Dani , you just took a heavy weight off yourself that you were never meant to carry alone. You were a baby, learning and growing and surviving best as you could ❤

  • @aliesesh
    @aliesesh 5 дней назад +45

    OKAYYYY I put my little boy to bed and now its time to ssshhhhmoke and watch this.
    Ily queen

    • @angelinaponce512
      @angelinaponce512 5 дней назад +6

      ❤Sameee but i had to put 4 down😅

    • @aliesesh
      @aliesesh 5 дней назад +4

      Woww! Super mom frfr
      Enjoy your night!💚💚

    • @Blessed_betsy
      @Blessed_betsy 3 дня назад

      Lmao same ❤

  • @meeehell
    @meeehell 4 дня назад +12

    Danny still has a lot of healing to do, but he’s young and resilient. Keep going and try to work on taking blame off yourself. There were a few scenarios he shared where he blames himself. Nothing was his fault. That’s all ❤

  • @Biancqua
    @Biancqua 4 дня назад +3

    Danny your hopes weren’t too high. Sometimes things happen to see someone’s true character it hurts because your dad let you down and that’s ok to feel that anger and disappointment 🫶🏼 wishing you happy healing.

  • @elizafavg
    @elizafavg 4 дня назад +4

    This is an example of why building community is so important!!! You heal together, you help each other but most important of all you build something healthy together 🥰🥰 Hopefully lots of blessings come your way 💞

  • @AlinaCeliine
    @AlinaCeliine 4 дня назад +12

    Thank you guys so much for talking about mental health. I think about my mental health but I never took it seriously until yesterday because me and my baby daddy were going through some things and I never been talked to or treated so bad in my life before. I needed this reminder that I need to make sure my mental state is okay. For me and my daughter. Love you guyssss ❤

  • @KatrinaArellano-p7h
    @KatrinaArellano-p7h 5 дней назад +30

    Thank you for your vulnerability and opening up about your story Danny... We can't change the past, but the future can be shaped however we want. Annette, your respect and care whilst listening was such a beautiful example of a host and I respect the growth you're both able to demonstrate, being online and sharing your lives XOXO

  • @Liz40_
    @Liz40_ 4 дня назад +3

    I love this side to you Danny!! You were was so chill and not your usual comical theatrical self. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing these intimate experiences! Absolutely can agree with your mindset on how & why you got to where you are. Blessings of continuous mental healing to you!! ❤

  • @bmonay999
    @bmonay999 4 дня назад +4

    I love watching Danny. He is soo funny and I get his humor lol. I learned so much about him

  • @alovesayslove
    @alovesayslove 4 дня назад +10

    Thanks for sharing your story Danny! So sad to hear what you and your mom went through with your step dad, I wish them a lifetime of love and happiness and for you to see yourself the way the people who love you see you. Find the peace within ❤

  • @lorenabowlin3443
    @lorenabowlin3443 4 дня назад +4

    🤗I’ve been waiting for him to show up on here forever. Love this, love you guys 💜

  • @glamzbyjocelyn
    @glamzbyjocelyn 4 дня назад +7

    this was such a great episode! thank you danny for opening up to us❤

  • @mariagarcia-gomez7895
    @mariagarcia-gomez7895 4 дня назад +2

    I’m so glad Annette told him about him blaming himself about so many things, I noticed that while he was talking and I felt so bad 💔 kids normally blame the mom when the dad leaves but he blamed himself. Danny is so misunderstood 😢

  • @edihtgudino5033
    @edihtgudino5033 5 дней назад +3

    Aww Danny im sorry, I went through the same situation 😢 when I was 14yrs old depression and cutting myself to my body. I completely understand that you was suffering and looking for an ending and its frustrating. I got help with therapy and a mental facility and came out with a better mindset and was a different person. Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ be strong life is difficult and all we can do is live through it day by day ❤😊

  • @kimberlygutierrez8669
    @kimberlygutierrez8669 4 дня назад +4

    I gotta say that im usually the viewer that never says anything and being a fan of all of them (alan, danny, Anette, irma) for YEARS!
    I just wanna say that minute 28:23
    The way Anette was just quiet I literally feel her pain as a mom because throughout this whole video I couldn’t stop seeing Dannys inner child still hurting.
    And it sucks because as a single mother myself I hate that imma have to watch my kid have the same pain as Danny only cause I couldn’t give him a solid family and it’s all gonna be my fault because I didn’t try enough 😭😭

    • @Biancqua
      @Biancqua 4 дня назад +1

      Girl as a mom going through the same thing don’t blame yourself for not trying hard enough. Whatever the reason for you leaving was reason enough. It doesn’t need justification or validation. It’s better to be separated and raising your child as best as you can then to stay and be unhappy and your child to witness that. It’s hard enough as it is don’t be so hard on yourself 🫶🏼

    • @valeriita
      @valeriita 3 дня назад +2

      I relate too much to this comment 😢 It's such a different feeling of course hearing the story from Danny's inner child. We hear and witness everything a single mom or in some cases a single dad, in similar or same situations. Rarely or maybe hardly ever is it heard from the child who has gone through it. I hope I made sense. I have teens and it sucks so bad for any age to blame themselves as a kid. 😢. I can't believe I cried.

  • @laural794
    @laural794 5 дней назад +8

    Danny and Anny my favorites ❤❤❤❤

  • @iloveicedcoffeemuah
    @iloveicedcoffeemuah 4 дня назад +1

    This was such an amazing podcast to watch. I really always wondered many things about Danny and I’m so sad to hear everything that he went through but also glad that he’s still here speaking about it❤

  • @karlabecerra6541
    @karlabecerra6541 4 дня назад +2

    Danny, your stories are so relatable. Honestly though the story about your step dad and everything that happened. Honestly you stopped your cousin (friend) from possibly getting raped or something.. or even killed. If he had a knife his intention wasn’t good. You are a good person but are like me.. we need to learn to forgive our selfs.

  • @blindhousewife8866
    @blindhousewife8866 4 дня назад +4

    His personality is everything! Ur hella funny!

  • @alejandrachavez28
    @alejandrachavez28 4 дня назад +1

    I'm so happy you are here Danny ur such a vibe hunny ❤

  • @taniapinedo4905
    @taniapinedo4905 4 дня назад +2

    Danny really has gone through some crazy childhood trauma!

  • @jacklynnkaelin3408
    @jacklynnkaelin3408 4 дня назад +1

    I can relate to the blame that Danny places on himself. I always blame myself for things and it's so toxic. I'm glad he's working on it, its a big struggle.

  • @MarlenDiaz-qp4bn
    @MarlenDiaz-qp4bn 4 дня назад

    I loved this guest so much!!! His personality came through and i love to see it!

  • @vivianachavez4688
    @vivianachavez4688 4 дня назад +1

    Bring Danny back love y’all together ❤

  • @angie_0824
    @angie_0824 4 дня назад +3

    The microphone holders are soooo cute! Need an up close look

  • @elianalanderos
    @elianalanderos 4 дня назад +4

    Danny you weren’t blessed with the greatest dad but you sure are with the amazing support system you currently have!

  • @iamczcz
    @iamczcz 4 дня назад +3

    señor im about a work in the garage vibes has me SO 💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @lexytapia9810
    @lexytapia9810 5 дней назад +3

    Yayye now my night is made watching your podcast the bestie Danny beautiful 😍 as always one of favorite episode love the vibes have a great day

  • @angelinaponce512
    @angelinaponce512 5 дней назад +3

    Welcome back dannyyyy❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @ireneramirez3484
    @ireneramirez3484 4 дня назад +1

    I’m obsessed with your mic holders , it looks super cute together 💞💚

  • @El_Chisme530
    @El_Chisme530 4 дня назад +1

    I love Danny ❤ fav episode! Along with the ones with your mom

  • @ConnieAlaniz-bj9dq
    @ConnieAlaniz-bj9dq 4 дня назад

    Thank you Danny ❤❤ for opening up to everyone .❤❤

  • @IsabellaGarcia-d4q
    @IsabellaGarcia-d4q 4 дня назад +24

    Is it just me, or does Danny act really different with Annette compared to Irma? You can totally tell the vibe is not the same

    • @angie_0824
      @angie_0824 4 дня назад +9

      I think it’s because their relationship is different. With Irma it’s more of a sibling friendship.

    • @Lalalala99056
      @Lalalala99056 4 дня назад +7

      The insults disguised as “jokes” that he throws at Irma would never fly with Annette because she would actually get mad. But In past videos where he makes fun of Irmas looks and other stuff Annette is just there laughing along like a mean girl, And Irma acting like she’s okay with it lmao

    • @laural794
      @laural794 4 дня назад +6

      To be fair they are both different people, different personalities. I personally would feel more comfortable talking to Anny because Irma is a pick me and just says what you wanna hear.

    • @Issamissastar86
      @Issamissastar86 4 дня назад +2

      Different people 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @angie_0824
    @angie_0824 4 дня назад +1

    So excited for this episode!!!

  • @valeriaguapo603
    @valeriaguapo603 4 дня назад

    DANNY WE LOOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU! stay strong and remember you’re are doing everything you can to be successful and better. Que dios te bendiga siempre! Sending hugs and best wishes ❤❤❤❤

  • @Divina.28
    @Divina.28 3 дня назад +1

    We love you Danny💐🤩🫂🥰🎊🎉🎉🎊🎉🎉🎊🎊🎉

  • @vnaluvsu
    @vnaluvsu 4 дня назад +1

    Cute ❤❤ we need Danny back again soon

  • @alyssamelody
    @alyssamelody 4 дня назад +1

    Danny 🥹 I like y’all’s matching fits 💞

  • @kyleanderson9113
    @kyleanderson9113 4 дня назад +1

    BEST EPISODE 💚🫶🏽

  • @d2kizme1
    @d2kizme1 4 дня назад +3

    Danny if I was ur mom I would have filed for a visa U so you guys could have become legal what you guys went threw was domestic violence. to a point of life trauma.. that’s what you have

  • @melissahernandez5528
    @melissahernandez5528 4 дня назад +1

    I love Danny ❤

  • @LifeOfT24
    @LifeOfT24 4 дня назад +1

    We need Jenny! Loved this ❤

  • @DianeMartinez-d1u
    @DianeMartinez-d1u 3 дня назад

    I love love love you Danny. Ever since alannized introduce you to us I loved you since then. You've been through so much and you came out even stronger I totally respect you and I look up to you I know I'm a lot older but I looked up to you and thank you so much for your story it brought me to tears but at the end of the day you're still Danny keep up the good work and always have faith in yourself who cares what other people think of you I love you and I always will I'm a big huge fan of your podcast and I'll keep watching❤❤😊 I hope you read this comment and if you can put a like on it it would mean so much to me

  • @lizetgomez9020
    @lizetgomez9020 4 дня назад +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @Issamissastar86
    @Issamissastar86 4 дня назад +1

    Idk Danny really but he sounds a lot like Louie! 💜 are they all friends? Maybe they pick up their voices from each other….

  • @vivianmateo4078
    @vivianmateo4078 4 дня назад +1

    I Love Danny 😀🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @looneykt912
    @looneykt912 4 дня назад

    Me already drunk watching this late at night 🤣🤣 shots, shots, shots!! 💪🏽👏🏽🥳🤣

  • @nacyd74
    @nacyd74 4 дня назад

    This episode was so good!!!

  • @thelifeofcat1933
    @thelifeofcat1933 4 дня назад +3

    What are those drinks called 👀

  • @187babee
    @187babee 4 дня назад +1

    I miss blue haired Danny 🩵💙

  • @melissacampos4323
    @melissacampos4323 5 дней назад +2

    Annneeeeeetttiiie ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jocelynsoriano832
    @jocelynsoriano832 4 дня назад

    Loved this episode ❤

  • @estefani-fc7fy
    @estefani-fc7fy 4 дня назад

    Now this month went by fast for me ion

  • @1420miriam
    @1420miriam 5 дней назад

    Babe saaaamme! we are literally in the last quarter of the year! Ay Dios Mioooo😅

  • @monicaesqueda7034
    @monicaesqueda7034 4 дня назад

    Your my favorite RUclipsr

  • @berymata91016
    @berymata91016 4 дня назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @davidres212
    @davidres212 4 дня назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @krystalgiddings3431
    @krystalgiddings3431 5 дней назад +1

    🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @Laannabanann
    @Laannabanann 5 дней назад

    First

  • @sameroski
    @sameroski 4 дня назад +1

    just in time for the limpiesa🤣🫶🏼

  • @y_flowers
    @y_flowers 4 дня назад +1

    Those drinks look good but I’m in my sober era 😂🤍

  • @bethcooper6125
    @bethcooper6125 5 дней назад +30

    I LOVE DANNY ever since Alannized introduced him to us, he’s straight forward, and smart ❤❤❤❤

  • @yunsun_yee3
    @yunsun_yee3 4 дня назад +24

    It’s so crazy how as humans our bodies take forever to process some trauma. All of my childhood trauma I processed it at 20 years old to 23 and it was dark . I was so depressed and suicidal . Post partum also happened to affect me super bad. All of these memories started flooding in and I just couldn’t deal with the emotional pain. 2024 I have gotten so close to god. 2023 I completely stopped drinking. & started bulking. Started healing and processing my trauma.

    • @lupeor6645
      @lupeor6645 4 дня назад +1

      I agree same thing happened to me all my childhood trauma hit hard in my 20s and I was in a dark place I was like I don’t want to feel like this any more and 2024 I decided to get therapy I hope you get the heal you deserve ❤

    • @yunsun_yee3
      @yunsun_yee3 3 дня назад +1

      @@lupeor6645 thank you so much hun, i am so sorry you had to feel all of that pain. it is so horriible. you should listen to promises its a worshipping song. super nice (:

    • @lupeor6645
      @lupeor6645 3 дня назад

      @@yunsun_yee3 okay I will thank you 🙏🏽

  • @briannaromero2760
    @briannaromero2760 4 дня назад +8

    This episode is soooo BOMBBB I love how Danny is very comfortable and communicative. Thank u for this episode 🫶🏽🫶🏽💙

  • @foxwithin
    @foxwithin 4 дня назад +6

    oh Danny 🤍😓😢I just want to give you a huge hug

  • @laural794
    @laural794 4 дня назад +5

    Danny you deserve all the happiness 🩷🖤🩷🖤

  • @Girlygirlll
    @Girlygirlll 4 дня назад +3

    Danny trying Annette’s drink is mee with whiskey 😂 that shit looked like it hurt!!

  • @KIMMMY00
    @KIMMMY00 3 дня назад +1

    I'm going to be 💯, I didn't like Danny for a long time. TO ME, tiene la sangre pesada BUT hearing his story today made me change my perspective of him 🙏🏻. He's still that little boy inside dealing with grown up problems 😭🫂

  • @nayeliescobar8908
    @nayeliescobar8908 2 дня назад +1

    So sad when he said his parents would go to the bedroom together...so wrong for adults to not find time to be intimate without the kids noticing. So wrong.....

  • @flor6392
    @flor6392 3 дня назад +1

    As a mommy listener Danny's story broke my heart. Your mom and you have grown so much and have gone through so much. Definitely contuine therapy and heal danny

  • @jessiluv9883
    @jessiluv9883 5 дней назад +3

    yay!! i just made food so excited to sit and watch

  • @CaliNana_559
    @CaliNana_559 5 дней назад +4

    So excited to watch this

  • @strawberrymilk-dt8us
    @strawberrymilk-dt8us 4 дня назад +2

    Wow this made me see danny in a different way 😮😢😢

  • @jazminhinojosa9137
    @jazminhinojosa9137 3 дня назад +1

    What's the name of that drink 🍸 😯?

  • @claudiahcabral1701
    @claudiahcabral1701 5 дней назад +3

    My favorite people ❤

  • @puplover1011
    @puplover1011 4 дня назад +2

    Danny is so misunderstood 🥹

  • @rayeannelesliemcauley
    @rayeannelesliemcauley 3 дня назад +1

    Dude my mom really is ky bestest friend in the whole wide world ❤❤ that woman knows me inside out & I tell my mom everything and anything even if I don't want too I still tell her ❤ I love her unconditionally

  • @Divina.28
    @Divina.28 3 дня назад +1

    Love y’all friendship 🥰

  • @gilbertmendoza5795
    @gilbertmendoza5795 4 дня назад +1

    I didn’t expect Danny!!!! I love him even more does he have a RUclips acount? Or any other acct i can follow him on?

  • @johanadiaz3982
    @johanadiaz3982 5 дней назад +2

    Loved this episode 🥹

  • @Leannababe
    @Leannababe 5 дней назад +2

    Early gang ❤

  • @sarahrenteria01
    @sarahrenteria01 4 дня назад +1

    I feel like life goes by faster as you become a mom and as they become older 😮

  • @stephanie9226
    @stephanie9226 4 дня назад +1

    I love Danny opening up! I related to a lot of it & had been through similar things!
    Thankyou to the both of you ❤

  • @angie_0824
    @angie_0824 4 дня назад +1

    Danny gagging 🤣🤣

  • @carolpineda5527
    @carolpineda5527 День назад

    Danny is such a STRONG human being ❤ I love this episode. Touched my heart ♥️

  • @DaisyOlvera-pt9ou
    @DaisyOlvera-pt9ou 3 дня назад

    I went through something like this as well, literally my dad tight us up me my sister and my mom together with a rope and he had gasoline ready to burn us , thank God my grandma had came on time to prevent him.

  • @Scorpioprincess99
    @Scorpioprincess99 2 дня назад

    It’s not ur fault Danny . A lot o those situations u were only a child . I hope therapy does help you and help u let go of all resentment

  • @victoriap8051
    @victoriap8051 2 дня назад

    I can relate sooooo much. Thank you for sharing 💜 I love this vid

  • @Blessed_betsy
    @Blessed_betsy 3 дня назад

    Im dead when danny started gagging because we have all been there 🤣🤣

  • @Ri-Ri-Ri1
    @Ri-Ri-Ri1 4 дня назад +1

    🖤🖤🖤

  • @soahsmith1995
    @soahsmith1995 23 часа назад

    Baddie baddie shot O clock 🙌

  • @username-jp7qs
    @username-jp7qs 4 дня назад +1

    ILY and dannyyy

  • @glamzbyjocelyn
    @glamzbyjocelyn 4 дня назад +1

    🎉❤

  • @7celeste
    @7celeste 3 дня назад

    I love this duo ♥️

  • @dandelion7313
    @dandelion7313 5 дней назад +1

    I was literally watching old videos of you guys today

  • @matto1150
    @matto1150 4 дня назад +1

    🤰🏻

  • @ymartinez0202
    @ymartinez0202 5 дней назад +1

    💚

  • @juanabarroso
    @juanabarroso 5 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤