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Waleikum salaam warahmatullahi wabarakatu. Personally I think the older you get the harder it becomes. It's unimaginable how the bond between husband and wife gets stronger. Yes its not an easy journey but once you get hold of the little bundle of joy it's all worthy. May Allah bless you with healthy pious children.
Salam Farhana! I truly understand your worry! It’s totally normal! From someone who has 3 little ones, they truly are a blessing. From waking up to their jumping on the bed, or them roasting you or saying something funny, and to the i love you mama before bed, truly melts my heart. And your relationship doesn’t get worse with your spouse, if anything, it’s becomes more beautiful. You seeing your husband with the baby, or vice versa, allows you both to cherish each other even more. I hope this helps! May Allah make it easy for you and bless you with whatever your heart desires 🤲🏼
As someone who struggles with infertility I just want to advice you dear GO FOR IT 🫶🏼Allaah is with you ,you never know maybe that child will add some love & affection in your relationship in shaa Allah..♥️sending you lots of baby dust your way
I needed to read this. Thank you so much for the love xx ❤ May Allah make it easy for you as well
I pray Allah answers your duas habibty and give you a child who is of alot of kheir to you sending u hugs and duas @Fatma Hardy
Fatma!fancy meeting you here💕was reading the comments so I can make a decision with that as well. May Allah Azza wa jal grant you a waladun salih Fatma. I looooove your vlogs,very very classy barakAllah. I have learnt n keep learning alot from you. Your infertility is a test,Allah is raising your ranks and He has told us to NEVER loose hope in HIS infinite mercy. He is the best of planners and good things will come your way. Tests are NOT permanent. We go through hardship and then ease. Nothing is impossible for Allah,keep your trust and faith in HIM.see Quran 21:89.Thanks for this Farhana,it was much needed. Make istikhara in everything and let Allah guide you to what is the best for you💕
Hi Farhana!! Very nice. So I'm in my 40s,, single and no kids, thank goodness. Im not ready and still have lots of time. My advice is take your time. If you're uncomfortable right now then don't do it my friend. Bringing a child into the world is a serious thing. Definitely listen to the gut. First feeling is the correct one. You'll know when you are ready. Continue to enjoy life. Very very nice. Please keep coming out with more vlogs!!
Being scared for pregnancy is so normal, was so scared of it mpaka I stayed 4years in marriage with no kids and I enjoyed it as I got to do stuff I wanted before kids came. When I found out I was pregnant I was happy at the same time I heard tears of fear and worry of the pregnancy. Guess it's a normal feeling.
Asalaam Alykum, it's like your telling my story my husband & I will be celebrating our 3 year anniversary In sha Allah on March. We got married in 2020 and just after the wedding covid came to Tanzania. My husband and i planned to settle ourselves first then when were all settled In sha Allah but it's hard to us sometimes, Cause some people think it's weird to be married more than a year and not having a baby but people don't know what other people are going through. So just go with your heart if your ready to have babies just pray to Allah to give you faith and remove all the worries you have. And always remember Allah is the best planner. ❤
Its nice to know that someone relates. Thank you for your comment. Im sending you so much love !
Kids are blessings and every kid come with a blessing.
Hi Farhana. I kinda agree with you, the first thought about being pregnant, being a good mother and above all your relationship with husband changing is really overwhelming. I really hope you find the courage and blessings in everything you do ❤
Thank you for your kindness 🥺♥️
Having a baby is another thing u must first take care of urself and make ur marriage stronger
May Allah gives all of us children to the coolness of our eye.ameen
We are many in that boat. The fear of having a child and not doing right by them is real, esp if I'm not in the mind space to have a child. I read somewhere give your children a childhood they don't need to recover from as adults and it stayed with me. So don't feel pressured, when it happens it'll be a beautiful journey. All the best ❤❤
Your sooo special to us and a beautifully human being 🫀✨
You’re so kind ! Thank you 💕
You never are really ready and dont really know what you are in for but its a wonderful experience. Children are a blessing and bring so much joy in your lives. Its not easy, no manual is available on how to do it right but you just do what is best for them. It brings couples to a new level and experiences. Good luck to you my dear but you will be great mom❤
The child will come when Allah wills it. No matter your planing. May the almighty bring you calmness Insha Allah Ameen 🙏
Having kids is great adventure and nice experience trust me no regrets at all 💯%
Hi Farhana, I enjoyed the vlog.
You know regarding pregnancy it's totally normal to have those thoughts being scared and all of that. But one thing I assure you is pray, just pray and let Allah's will be done.
Let me share my story, so I got married and moved to the U.K you know same I don't want to get pregnant now and I want to know my husband a lil bit before conceiving and being scared in a new country, no family just you and your husband and the fear of pregnancy, birth and all. But I prayed and am like you know what I gat this Insha Allah, Allah will make it easy and by Allah's will here we are.
Insha Allah khair, May Allah make it very easy for you.
And again taking pre conceiving vitamins helps alot
You totally understand what I am going through. The no immediate family part also just makes it more scary. Thank you so much for your encouragement and support. Honestly my heart is full reading everyones comments. Lots of love Maryam. May Allah reward you abundantly Ameen 💕
Ameen thank you💕💕
My advice as a student of Tafsir and a memoriser of the Qur'an. Generally, delaying pregnancy is allowed for certain reasons but it is absolutely haram to delay pregnancy because of finances. Allah makes it extremely clear to us in the Qur'an that He provides for us and our children. And biologically speaking, A woman's peak reproductive years are between the late teens and late 20s. By age 30, fertility (the ability to get pregnant) starts to decline. This decline becomes more rapid once you reach your mid-30s. By 45, fertility has declined so much that getting pregnant naturally is unlikely for most women. May Allah guide you on your journey. Ameen
Ameen ya rabb.
Hi, Assalamualaikum
Don't be soo scared you are a beautiful soul... Your family will be more beautiful... I have been going through infertility for 5 years ,I get scared too sometimes but I know I want kids soo bad 😔
About pregnancy go for it and tawakal it will be soo easy no worries dear your bond with shall remain covalent till the end and niw u are 29 cz most prefferable to give birth in your 20's is better than 30s.Go go for it and remember Allah will guide throgh this
I think the best thing I would say is keep an open mind and trust Allah's timing. If it is to be, it will happen, and if not, something better will be coming. The same thing applies to having kids. I wish you all the best.
I have been married for 6years now and out of those six i had such s blast with my hubby and our realtionship but when i had my daughter i had so much fear anxiety and worry for how our lives would change but am telling you i wish i had her sooner omg its a something i have never experienced before . My connection to my spouse feels more deep and rich its hard to find the right words but all your fears and worries will become meaningless once you hold your own child the fruit of your love the blood that runs through your children is your and ur hubby tht gts me everytime . You will forgt everything and time will seem to stop and the joy will flow . May Allah make it essy for all to have healthy children who will be the coolness of our eyes .
I love your beauty tips ALWAYS!! and ANY beauty procedures or perfumes recommended
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Thanks for being honest about the Floris scent. Most of influencers will “love” everything they are gifted they just can’t give their honest opinion
The one and only love and happiness that you can ever have is when you get baby
I was thinking of you while cooking, I sat down to eat and yaaayy I saw your video😍😊 So so haaappppyyy🫶🏾
It was meant to be. Enjoy the vlog lovely 🤩
I feel that you can do it we women are able to handle every situation your heart knows what you want and trust me your relationship will change but you be strong and happy just by looking at your mini version of you although always tell your self I can do it and always thank GOD for everything alhamdulilah
Hi rafiki u will make such a beautiful mother InshaAllah if u are ready why not with hubby by ur side and Allah to guide u all shall be well all the best ❤
Alhamduliah finally your gonna be a Mum soon inshaa'Allah 🎉
I love watching your videos, but I never comment. I used to be just like you back in the days. When I was a university student worrying about getting married, maybe I would drop out of school. Now I have everything Alhamdulillah; nice career and beautiful life but the problem is I am still single! don’t wait to get pregnant. Life is short money and career is nothing but it’s nice when you're young and have children. Just have faith in Allah!
Assalamu alaikum Farhana... currently am pregnant with my first child... all that you said i feel like you get me😅... Am scared but at the same time I console myself that Allah is there with me♥️
Alf mabrook to youuu. May Allah make it easy for you and remove all your worries 💗 Allah indeed is with you
Such a beautiful Soul Allahumma Barik🥺❤️ I pray you find courage in this journey 💕
Thank you lovely 🥰
I was super excited for this ❤
glad you enjoyed it x
Ma sha Allah I love you and your vlogs❤
Sending you Lots of love right back 🥰
Hey dont stress about having or not having kids. Take your time until you are ready, and its also ok if you decide not to have them. We should normalise being married and not having kids right away or even ever. Choose the path that makes you most happy. Much love from sunny (literally a jiko) Nairobi.
There is thus place I need to give it a visit when u go to Mombasa
YAYYYY HAPPY UR BK U JUST MADE MY DAY😭💯❤💕🤩
Thank you so much lovely. I also posted another vlog last week.
@@FarhanaOberson yea i finished tht vlog already🥰
ur 29 u look younger masha allah
BismiLLAH, I think it was right for you to wait a little bit to get to know your husband before starting a family. Unfortunately we can't know people enough, there are couples who have been married for 30 years and later on ended in divorced, nothing is in our hands no matter how smart we are, Just Tawakal aaala LLAH, start your family in hope that will last forever and . Another thing being an immigrant in a foreign country sometimes is hard, especially if you want to be a working mother, child care is very expensive especially in London, but the good thing is you are self employed. Go for it dear and may Allah grant you His blessings, Amiin
I got married at 24 and had my first child at 27 and even at that I feel like it was too soon. I love my daughter but motherhood limits you, traveling needs more planning, you find yourself letting go of some career advancements for the betterment of your family. Travel, make your big moves then have a child. Don't let society stress you mama
Mashaallaah love you farhana❤❤
Love you back Awatif 💕
I'm not married and I'm not a mother but what i know for sure that you can ask your self am i ready to bring a child in this world?! And before that ask Allah to help you to decide what best for you and ask people that you trust for an advice
And i know that Allah will never leave you alone
Every Muslim woman it will be a good mother for her children and absolutely you are one of them insha'Allah
And I'm not lying I'm scared of getting marriage in general.😅🌹
Love ur Vlogs😍✨️
Thank you so much 💕
A. A. Its high tyme Farhana for you to have a baby Wallahi. Wakati ukuta Please baada ya marriage nibaby and itll open up your channel more. Lets start the family please and itll b more interesting. InshaAllah heri
Hello beautiful how is your afternoon rafiki Salam
♥️
Nice vlog
Hi farhana😊
Hi Aisha 🤩
Farhana my darling , you do what’s good for you! Do not listen to anyone’s shit about saying you don’t have a child. I’m literally the same as you, I got married at 25 it’s going to be a year next month but I need to travel and establish an career and be somewhat financially stable.. you know you want to bring up children with the best means! ❤️ anyways you do what makes you happy only you know who you are
Cheers to us doing what we want and providing the best for our future kids 😍🤗thank you for the love
Assalam aleykum Farhanaaa
Waleikum salaam
❤❤mashallah
Aa
waleikum salaam