I WISH I KNEW THIS BEFORE I HAD KIDS
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Today I had amazing conversations with @preston_n_perry & @wordsbyezekiel we talked about fatherhood in a way that edified and challenged each of us. We walked away wondering why we don’t do that more often. But the good news is we recorded the conversation for you to benefit as well. #BlackFathersDay follow my brothers so you don’t miss the videos!!!
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@beleafmel : What I Wish I knew Before Becoming a Father
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Today I had an amazing conversations with @preston_n_perry & @wordsbyezekiel we talked about fatherhood in a way that edified and challenged each of us. We walked away wondering why we don’t do that more often.
@preston_n_perry : Black Fatherhood in America www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWXLe...
@wordsbyezekiel : Did Kids Change Your Sex Life? ruclips.net/video/oJIhH6sIJr8/видео.html
@beleafmel : What I Wish I knew Before Becoming a Father
Beleaf In Fatherhood 1. Father’s of blended families and the lessons learned. 2. Evette interviewing/convo with mom’s and what they need from their spouses, and how that’s changed with children. 3. Parents where one one is experiencing incarceration-dialogues about how that is impacting the children. 4. Fathers of multiracial children (step/adopted/other)
You should talk with my husband, because his character as a father is life changing for both our children and for me.
Conversations with mother's and father's who've taken care of their children alone since their birth.
Great video, Beleaf!!! I look forward to your content on here. It's uplifting, inspiring, and transparent. You should interview LaGuardia Cross, Joe Lee of the MAZELEE crew, and Justin McClure (McClure Twins Family)!! They are also great fathers and would have great insight about their fatherhood journey. Happy Father's Day and I can't wait until your new bundle of joy arrives!! ☺️❤️
I'm not sure why comments are not allowed on your channel but its taking away from your earnings. Your family is beautiful but the only way I can show support is a like but I would love to engage with you. I'm a single mother trying to fulfill both roles...my family has been to see beauty in your channel.
The Henry family is booked, busy, and blessed. ❤
Alena: Glen, this is amazing!
ALL THESE BEAUTIFUL BLACK BABIES!!!!!! they are gorgeous!!!! This was a dope convo- thanks for sharing
I love this representation !!!! Collaborating with Kevonstage would be dope
!!Ten times yes!!
Yes!
Yes! Get KevOnStage please
YASSS
2 of my favorite youtubers
I am 17 about to turn 18 next month and i have never had a father figure teach and guide through my life. But seeing this family and beleaf warms my heart and it gives me hope and i am very thankful that GOD led me hear. The HENRY family please dont stop what you gies are doing and stay blessed.
Same! I’m 23 and even though I don’t have children and had two parents it’s so different how he approaches to his children. I hope to be apart of a great team like him and his wife, for real
Tony Baker
KevonStage
LaGuardia Cross
I love LaGuardia Cross.. His videos are excellent. I am a new subscriber of his channel.
Lagaurdia Cross
👇🏾👇🏾This BLACK FATHER IS DOPE! BLESSED! & FAVORED! #blackfatherKINGS 🖤🖤✊🏾✊🏾
These are the types of fathers that the government fears, deep rooted with their children.
This was awe inspiring.
I would love you to talk to Joe (MAZELEE) about being a father in blended family
Nichelle Lewis yes I was going to say him too 🙂
I support this!
Yes Joe was my first thought too. Also my uncle Pastor Brian but he is not a creative.
yep, my thoughts too
OMGOSH...so many beautiful black children!!!!!! This whole conversation was so enlightening and uplifting. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU...I think you get the point :-)
Did Beleaf say, "welcome bLack?!" 😂 really enjoyed this video, from the intro, to the commercial "I am strong." To the interviews with the other fathers and the rap at the end. Seeing black fathers continue to be there for their families truly blesses my soul. May God continue to pour His blessings on you, your family, these fathers and their families.
Would be great to also hear from:
Carrington Brown
Kevonstage
LaGuardia Cross
Voddie Baucham! Idk if you'll actually be able to get him but that dude is so full of wisdom!
Ooo that would be good!!!
Your intro is super nice btw!! 😊
Do a collab with LaGuardia Cross! 🙌🏾💯
They've done them in the past. There are two or three on LaGuardia's channel from a few years ago.
Talk to some daughters. How did their father being there or not effect them? Or other questions along the lines of how their father shaped them or events in there lives.
I'd love to see the wives (of the three of you) talk about fatherhood. AND a conversation WITH single moms would also be super cool! But I love seeing strong examples of fathers/men on the show. All the suggestions in the comments so far have been fire.
Man.... that rap at the end... run! Somebody!!!! Give this man a record deal!!!
I did not expect this collab, but I'm hype about it!
Danielle N same 💕
@@TheKerahaan loved it!
The new energy that this video started with is A1
And can we talk about this advert and how it hired a dark skin male with a dark skin child 🎉🎉🎉
I love love love INTENTIONAL parenting! I know it’s more time consuming and you might not feel like it all the time, but ALLLLLLLL of the Beautiful Chocolate Babies being parented by the Black Kings in this video will grow into exceptional adults because of it!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!’
This will always be my favorite RUclips channel. The conversations you post showing intellectual black fathers being open and transparent is great for our culture to know that black fathers being present in their children’s lives aren’t as uncommon as the world tries to portray. Y’all out there, and we see you, and I wanna keep seeing you. Much love to all families involved in this video. Stay blessed, brotha Beleaf. You’re very much loved.
The most beautiful thing on
the internet... thank you
I love that some of the black men I look up to as a young man made a series together. I also find it funny yall still got more kids that aint in the video.
1. La Guardia Cross
2. Joe Lee (from the side of blended family)
Beautiful Black babies! This video makes my heart happy
this is definitely one of my favorite vlogs ever
thank you for this
❤️💕💖the commercial was AMAZING. I loooove seeing advertising like that, the kind that represents the TRUTH of black fathers being active in their families lives!! That’s what I know to be the truth so it’s nice to see it actually represented. I got chill bumps seeing it because it’s so beautiful 😭
hearing how he spoke about having two little girls made me sad knowing my dad will never and has never felt that way about me. making me another statistic of a black girl without a dad. i'm glad those two little girls have a daddy, though! amazing video. 🙌🏽
Mommas and their Sons... Daddies and their Daughters!!! #DaddysGurl 💞
A convo with Kevonstage, please? ✊🏿😀
This was beautiful. Please interview TJ Davison. He and his wife are believers with 3 boys and a baby girl.
I sooooo needed this video! The week I've had with my oldest daughter (4 girls l, 1 boy) who is 8yrs old had me thinking I was talking to a teenager. 😩😩😩. She's very strong minded and willed that she debates everything. I personally reach to a point where my voice goes through the roof, repeating the same thing over and over again. I said to myself "no more will I do this". I had to change. The past few days of going over these repeated situations with my daughter I started to change (for her and myself) how and I approached her problems as well as staying calm so my thoughts are clear. I hate being the angry dad and I don't want to ever speak out of anger. Realized my approach always has to be with love. Even in discipline. It's something you know but easily forget when your kids test you. 😁
This intro is amazing!!!!
Welcome Black!!!
Congrats Henry family!!! You are amazing! All the babies and you and Yvette!!
LOVE IT
...lol...you just killed me....snapping your fingers...that's not yours, get away...DUDE! I had to pause and reverse to laugh some more! This is REAL parenting! Even when you are busy...you just have your eyes out for them....lol...
My heart sings for joy. I am so happy to see your relationship with your wife and children. And the whole family dynamic. Any dad could really benefit from watching you. I just came across your videos. As a fifty plus white woman. We all need to see this. Thank you. Happy Father's day.
KevOnStage (Kevin Fredericks) would be cool!
That rap at the end broke me all the way down. In proper tears. Especially the last line. I needed that. Thanks Beleaf.
Watching from Nairobi, Kenya. 🇰🇪
Beautiful children, beautiful fathers. Black is beautiful!
I enjoyed this discourse from a Male perspective. It's so refreshing to hear how you all think about family, children and life today. Vulnerability is so beautiful in all of you. This is important work. The great thing is it changes as they grow.
That's too cool! Congratulations!! I really thought I saw you all in a commercial today it was either for Universal studios or Disney world, I dont remember, but I do remember seeing who I thought were u and the kids.
You know Preston Perry?!?! I recently found them on RUclips most watching his wife, Jackie Hill Perry’s sermons. Then I saw their videos on marriages and it blessed me so much!!! Their transparency is amazing. Thanks for sharing this video!
This is so beautiful..what a beautiful site all of those chocolate babies and their Dads who love them! Amazing!
THIS! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 I love it ♥️
Happy #blackfathersweek!
Hi beleaf happy father’s day to you in advance in life we realize lessons taught through our children that we never knew before congrats on this commercial awesomeness 💪🏾💙 it’s great to have friends that are role models you can look up to and seek counsel😍❤️❤️❤️
I saw the fathers in this video and was like, "I know those faces..." THOSE ARE OG RHETORIC BROS! Wow! Amazing! Bless you all gentlemen! Happy Father's Day!
Okay... so I'm going to pull an Yvette... interviews with fathers suggestions:
Former PoTUS Obama
Ruslan
Lecrae
Prop
KB!!!
#shortlist
Would love to hear an interview with Cornelious Lindsey, Micheal Todd, Tony Evans, T.D jakes
You should talk to kevonstage and Iamdevale 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Iamdevale is a good one
Devale is dope🙌
Ohhh! Def Devale! That would be mad dope
Teach Kings!! Teach!
One of my top 5 shows in social media, period. BIF has so much positive vibes encouraging black families particularly black fathers staying involved and being in their kids lives.
Why did that last part of the video make me emotional? So so happy with what's being represented on this channel.
TOBE NWIGWE!!!!
It's funny to hear that it soften them to the core. Reflecting, I didn't see that much of a disparity between the way my brother and I were raised. I think that only limited my father's aggression was physical limits. I think I do hold a lot of regret seeing such tactful men in this video, but I am blessed to have a father.
But how y'all gonna come to Atlanta and not let your Atlanta internet cousins know?? 😒😒 #inmyfeelings
Congratulations to you and Theo for the commercial!
You gentlemen are such great examples of what fatherhood should look like. I’m so proud of you guys ☺️
I LOOOOOOOOVED THIS!!!!!! DO MORE OF THIS! I think doing this w. KevOnStage and Tony Baker (@tonybakercomedy) would be cool cos u all have 2 boys but they're at different ages/stages of life.
Riiiiiiiight. Excellent idea.
They were 2 of the dads I was thinking of!
Omg my favorite family with my favorite families!!😍 🙌
I’m not a parent but this gave me an interesting glimpse of what being a parent is like from a male perspective. I think you all are fine fathers because you are consciously aware that your children are more than an extension of yourself. They are their own individuals with different needs and wants, who require your curated love and care specific to their needs. I think that’s beautiful because it means each of your kids will have their own special relationship with you that is uniquely their own. Thanks for sharing 🧡
As a father- less daughter this touched me❤️ and recently the emotions I thought I had gotten over had crept back Up but this gives me hope for my future daughter. I’m 22 and it still hurts but it has shaped me in a way that I wouldn’t trade for anything. Thank you for this video and the conversation!!!!!!
This is a good conversation to have with T.J. Davidson w/ Daily Davidson Show. He is a man of faith with a strong character and I have not heard him talk on this subject. Also, he has three boys and just had a girl so his perspective would be good to hear.
Gotta do a talk with LaGuardia Cross of New Father Chronicles. Also, TJ of Daily Davidsons.
Beautiful guys. Gives me hope for our future.
Dope dad bless you brother!!!💯
Major moves. Thanks for sharing. I’m usually afraid for girls but seeing you three gives me so much hope. Hearing you talk about how having daughters changes you for the better and how you’ve accepted the challenge. I love this channel. Great parenting changes the world. ❤️
Very truthful moments. I think its so important to have these conversations. I think you guys are touching lives. its so important for mom and dad to BOTH be involved. watching the channel love how your daughter impacts your life. the snapping fingers cracks me up everytime.
That intro is lit it gets me pumped for the video everything I hear it.
Your an inspiration to my soul and walk with God as a husband and future father thank you for being you bro.
Good conversation about being a Dad too girls! Beleaf you keep doing your thing on topics about being a Dad.
I would like to see you do a video on Dads having that talk with their children about not bullying others and standing up to a bully, how to recognize or discern good people, and how to conduct themselves when they are at school, out in public or in the home with guest in the home or when they're not.
Im soo happy for the prosperity of your family. May the blessings continue to overflow.
Beautiful children! I enjoyed this video.
This is the best collaboration ever... would you guys maybe have a table talk with all your children together where they are asked questions about how you are as parents, Just to hear their own opinions and maybe you guys can monitor the conversation somehow.
I love that you guys give your children the opportunity to express themselves.
I’m in my early 20s and I pray to God everyday that my mom could understand when I’m expressing myself it does not come from a space of judgement but of care, but hey black parents 😂😂. You guys are doing an amazing incredible job
I'm a 25yr young black male hungry for being a better man in every area of my life. I'm so very grateful to God for the content in this video. You're blessing so many in the black community.
On a side note, where can I get your music???
Kevonstage
Carrington Brown
Cornelius Lindsay
Headkrack (just because y'all remind me of each other)
LaGaurdia of course
And KEVONSTAGE!!!!!!
Preston’s channel is amazing!
Man this was powerful!! What a blessing you men are to your families! And Beleeeeeaf your rap at the end gave me goosebumps!!!!
I saw y'all in a magazine here in Cumberland county NC. My 10 year old was so happy.
Dag! Now I’m in tears at the rap ending WOW 😮 Tears of Joy and appreciation, but it’s hard to type non the less 🤷🏾♀️
My Dad died when I was really young (like 4!) And my mother.... well, let’s just say that she wasn’t ready to parent. So not having a Father my entire life was tough. THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE EXAMPLES ALL OF YOU GENTLEMEN ARE TO EVERYONE YOU INFLUENCE 🙌🏾👑✊🏿🙏🏾♥️🖤💚💯
Nice to hear their perspectives. Happy Father's Day to you all.
Beleaf “goes hard in the paint.” That outro, though.
Great video, Beleaf!!! I look forward to your content on here. It's uplifting, inspiring, and transparent. You should interview LaGuardia Cross, Joe Lee of the MAZELEE crew, and Justin McClure (McClure Twins Family)!! They are also great fathers and would have great insight about their fatherhood journey. Happy Father's Day and I can't wait until your new bundle of joy arrives!! ☺️❤️
Big Ups #BLACKFATHERS of all walks, even the ones that can't be involved or won't, guess what you are STILL needed AND LOVED BY ALL WALKS OF LIFE!
Please Understand That This Miseducated World Sometimes Demonstrates Hate, When Really You Should Take It As A Sign Of How STRONGLY Loved You Are. #BlackMenFeelingsMatter Keep Pressing Foward Black Man!
#BlackCultureMatters
#ProtectYaCulture
#WeDuplicateTheyImaitate
PLEASE CONTINUE TO DEMONSTRATE THE MANY ASPECTS OF BLACK LOVE!
KEEP SPITTING THAT HOT DYLAN!
Happy Belated Father's Day to all you daddies out there :-)
The song is so so good. Thank you for your talents.
When your favorite youtubers link up🔥🔥
I love it! We need more of these authentic conversations!!
Wow!!! Im in tears for real...very moving. Happy for u guys😇
I emphasize what I’m saying with my hands but dang you have me beat lol 😂 #protectyourhandgestures
Congratulations. So proud of you
What a beautiful group of father's and children. I love this conversation.
Wow...the theme song...those words. Speechless
Love this!
Happy Father's Day Beleaf 😎
Propaganda & Ruslan.
Love this convo🔥❤️
You content is always appreciated. I'm single and no kids and still look forward to watching all the time. Don't even watch TV quite ever but this is way more positive and informative anyway. Thank you for your service.
Bars....*snaps fingers* My dad died in 2011. He was good one but God is sovereign. Keep loving your family. Great content.
I love it! My 3 favorite online black fathers
That is an amazing commercial!!! So positive!!🙏🏾🙌🏾✨
And such a beautiful video overall!! Praise God 🙌🏾✨
That was a wonderful song with a great beat and words
the commercial is beautiful, so glad y'all had this opportunity!
Good job dads, great video. Loved it.❤❤❤