Thank you! Long time follower, reader. Married 32 years very unhappy, struggling with leaving,, scared of having to date & also being alone,, never dated, -u hit many of my struggles, fears, hopes BUT such a better person now-u have been a support
Rachel, men have a hard time being alone. They are so different from us. They’re wired differently. If they can find someone immediately, then they don’t need to process the pain. It does catch up. Having time to be by yourself and work on the relationship with you is really important. Good for you! I appreciate your sharing. My friend broke up and her ex was attached 2 weeks later with someone else. Then, engaged in months. Positive his issues continued with the new gal. My friend is still single, but healed, and clarity is better than ever. (LOL. My husband hates wind chimes.)
I met my ex when I was 19 and we were together for 32 years he cheated on me throughout those years. After my kids were grown because I stayed because of my kids because my parents divorced when I was 7 and my life was not good because I lost so many people in my life that I thought cared about me. And I didn’t want my kids to go through what I’d did. Anyway back to what I was saying I found out he cheated again I was 52. I knew I was done and l left and filed for divorce shortly after that. I had never lived by myself and I really struggled with that. I’m talking 3 to 4 years. Being alone doesn’t bother me anymore. It’s been 8 years now and I’ve been working on myself the last 4 years and I’m not quite who and where I wanna be yet. It’s been a tough journey but it definitely was the right decision for me. Sorry for such a long post.
I think the other podcast did so well because so many people are in that “before place” and are having a hard time being honest about what their relationship currently “is” covid gave us what most of us didn’t have -time to think 🙌it’s hard to really imagine there is “better” out there so it’s safer to settle. But for anyone reading this you are truly worthy of peace, of joy and of course love ❤️ I love your work and your journey keep sharing. Love & light
Absolutely loved this!!!!! Thank you sooooo very much!!!! I needed this - divorced after 30 years and yes I’m finding my way and living such a better life BUT when you said I’m still emotionally connected!!! Yessss I need to get to the indifference stage to grow even more
Yes!!! My husband and I separated for 6 months. It was the greatest learning opportunity for me as a person. It can be so easy to slip back into the rut of being a wife/mom, and not being your true self or person you aspire to be.
Rachel you're so right! Filed for divorce on my 19th anniversary & it ripped my heart to pieces! Almost a year later, taking the time to heal has been the best gift I have ever given myself. I have never felt so free!! Trying to hold our family together for so long only to be the one to light the match at the end.... Wow! I never thought I would be where I'm at but am so thankful bc I am already "reaping the rewards " from all of my hard work
Thank you for posting this. I just went through a break up with my bf of a year and a half. It has been hard because most people around me haven't been through a break up. Thank you for caring about us.
Oh and thanks for giving us hope from the other side, one of my favorite writers once said something about lighting the way for those behind her, cheers to continuing to be that torch 💡
I discovered your work very recently through your interview with Ed Mylett, so I’m new to your story…and I so appreciate your honesty about your journey and its highs and lows. Thank you and I believe in you and your healing.
I’ve listened to this twice - incredible stuff!! There are so many similarities with us. The part though you said I’m emotionally connected is sooo true!! I need to break but it’s hard!! Also I’ve been struggling recently and while I was listening to you - you mentioned Taylor Swift’s song. I stopped played the song 3 times; and danced and got my movement in, then went outside and laid out in the sun for an hour and all of that happened because I listened to your encouragement. You helped change my day THANK YOU
I can totally relate to giving up parts of myself for my past relationships. I've been working on trying to find me and relearn myself. It's a journey for sure and takes time but I have to be patient with myself and trust that God is with me always.
It would be super awesome if RH could make a list of all the therapies etc she tried!! She mentioned in the first podcast about red flags that she went to a one intensive therapy session and I would love to know what that was. In 2017 my mom was arrested for beating me and putting me in the hospital. (In case that seems odd…I have cerebral palsy and a chronic illness so i had to live at home) I didn’t get justice and had my life uprooted and I’m struggling to find my equilibrium in this new chapter. I’m angry and I’m broken down and I want to go on similar to journey to get to know who I am now
You were single for longer than Dave, but barely. You wasted no time hitching your horse to the first man you found. Don't sit there and tell me how amazing single life is.
You literally jumped into all the escapism and jumped into a relationship, you're acting like it's been years since your divorce, it was just 2020 since your divorce.
Time works differently for different people. Two (almost three years) isn’t a short period of time, either. She said she’d been trying to save their relationship for the past 5/7 years so when you push that hard to make something work that clearly doesn’t, a part of you is already over it but another part that feels guilty and obligated to keep trying, makes you stay and fight for it. I sure know what it feels like because my ex and I had a rocky relationship and it got so bad that when it was finally over I realized it’d been over for me for a long time because of the way he treated me and how I was the only one who kept trying to work it out. So literally not even a year later I was completely done and ready to move on. Instead of judging or wondering if she does or doesn’t have the right to say what she’s saying, why don’t we just take what we can use for our own healing?…
Its like a Snapple cap decided to come alive. Good lord. Say SOMETHING. A full sentence that actually means something. And YOU are involved in beauty products? They don't work or youre not applying enough.
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Thank you! Long time follower, reader. Married 32 years very unhappy, struggling with leaving,, scared of having to date & also being alone,, never dated, -u hit many of my struggles, fears, hopes BUT such a better person now-u have been a support
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.
➕2348050772031♻️♻️🎦🚻你好，親愛的現在.
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Rachel, men have a hard time being alone. They are so different from us. They’re wired differently. If they can find someone immediately, then they don’t need to process the pain. It does catch up. Having time to be by yourself and work on the relationship with you is really important. Good for you! I appreciate your sharing. My friend broke up and her ex was attached 2 weeks later with someone else. Then, engaged in months. Positive his issues continued with the new gal. My friend is still single, but healed, and clarity is better than ever. (LOL. My husband hates wind chimes.)
I do appreciate your honest talk about your breakup. I do believe that people were really insensitive about your divorce. Thanks!
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together...
➕2348050772031♻️♻️🎦🚻你好，親愛的現在.
Contact him.
I met my ex when I was 19 and we were together for 32 years he cheated on me throughout those years. After my kids were grown because I stayed because of my kids because my parents divorced when I was 7 and my life was not good because I lost so many people in my life that I thought cared about me. And I didn’t want my kids to go through what I’d did. Anyway back to what I was saying I found out he cheated again I was 52. I knew I was done and l left and filed for divorce shortly after that. I had never lived by myself and I really struggled with that. I’m talking 3 to 4 years. Being alone doesn’t bother me anymore. It’s been 8 years now and I’ve been working on myself the last 4 years and I’m not quite who and where I wanna be yet. It’s been a tough journey but it definitely was the right decision for me. Sorry for such a long post.
I think the other podcast did so well because so many people are in that “before place” and are having a hard time being honest about what their relationship currently “is” covid gave us what most of us didn’t have -time to think 🙌it’s hard to really imagine there is “better” out there so it’s safer to settle. But for anyone reading this you are truly worthy of peace, of joy and of course love ❤️ I love your work and your journey keep sharing. Love & light
Absolutely loved this!!!!! Thank you sooooo very much!!!! I needed this - divorced after 30 years and yes I’m finding my way and living such a better life BUT when you said I’m still emotionally connected!!! Yessss I need to get to the indifference stage to grow even more
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
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Yes!!! My husband and I separated for 6 months. It was the greatest learning opportunity for me as a person. It can be so easy to slip back into the rut of being a wife/mom, and not being your true self or person you aspire to be.
Rachel you're so right! Filed for divorce on my 19th anniversary & it ripped my heart to pieces! Almost a year later, taking the time to heal has been the best gift I have ever given myself. I have never felt so free!! Trying to hold our family together for so long only to be the one to light the match at the end.... Wow! I never thought I would be where I'm at but am so thankful bc I am already "reaping the rewards " from all of my hard work
Thank you for posting this. I just went through a break up with my bf of a year and a half. It has been hard because most people around me haven't been through a break up. Thank you for caring about us.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together...
➕2348050772031♻️♻️🎦🚻你好，親愛的現在..
Contact him..
Oh and thanks for giving us hope from the other side, one of my favorite writers once said something about lighting the way for those behind her, cheers to continuing to be that torch 💡
I discovered your work very recently through your interview with Ed Mylett, so I’m new to your story…and I so appreciate your honesty about your journey and its highs and lows. Thank you and I believe in you and your healing.
I’ve listened to this twice - incredible stuff!! There are so many similarities with us. The part though you said I’m emotionally connected is sooo true!! I need to break but it’s hard!! Also I’ve been struggling recently and while I was listening to you - you mentioned Taylor Swift’s song. I stopped played the song 3 times; and danced and got my movement in, then went outside and laid out in the sun for an hour and all of that happened because I listened to your encouragement. You helped change my day THANK YOU
My husband and I are seperated right now. I related to a lot of things you said. Plus he hated wind chimes too!!
I can totally relate to giving up parts of myself for my past relationships. I've been working on trying to find me and relearn myself. It's a journey for sure and takes time but I have to be patient with myself and trust that God is with me always.
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You are soo amazing ... keeping it real as always!
Yep, facts. Thanks Rachel, well said.
This!!! Love your Talks so much!! Also I had to go back and make sure you said "all the chisme" lol!!!
After A Break up
I sit Through The pain & cry
Thank you, Needed to hear this today!!💜
This is freaking amazing advice!!! TY!~~
Shared this with one of my best girlfriends yesterday who needed it just as bad as I did!
God bless you and the good work you''re doing.
hard because it becomes a habit....habits are hard to break...make good habits
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.
➕2348050772031♻️♻️🎦🚻你好，親愛的現在.
Contact him.
Thank you for this…
Loved this! Thank you!
Completely agree with everything said :)
My 5 year old is totally obsessed with JOJO. I'm working on decorating her JoJo room. My daughter is obsessed too. JoJo's songs are pretty catchy.
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It would be super awesome if RH could make a list of all the therapies etc she tried!! She mentioned in the first podcast about red flags that she went to a one intensive therapy session and I would love to know what that was. In 2017 my mom was arrested for beating me and putting me in the hospital. (In case that seems odd…I have cerebral palsy and a chronic illness so i had to live at home) I didn’t get justice and had my life uprooted and I’m struggling to find my equilibrium in this new chapter. I’m angry and I’m broken down and I want to go on similar to journey to get to know who I am now
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
➕2348050772031♻️♻️🎦🚻你好，親愛的現在.
Contact him.
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It’s hard
It's true. She really is unrelatable AF.
You were single for longer than Dave, but barely. You wasted no time hitching your horse to the first man you found. Don't sit there and tell me how amazing single life is.
You literally jumped into all the escapism and jumped into a relationship, you're acting like it's been years since your divorce, it was just 2020 since your divorce.
Time works differently for different people. Two (almost three years) isn’t a short period of time, either. She said she’d been trying to save their relationship for the past 5/7 years so when you push that hard to make something work that clearly doesn’t, a part of you is already over it but another part that feels guilty and obligated to keep trying, makes you stay and fight for it. I sure know what it feels like because my ex and I had a rocky relationship and it got so bad that when it was finally over I realized it’d been over for me for a long time because of the way he treated me and how I was the only one who kept trying to work it out. So literally not even a year later I was completely done and ready to move on.
Instead of judging or wondering if she does or doesn’t have the right to say what she’s saying, why don’t we just take what we can use for our own healing?…
Its like a Snapple cap decided to come alive. Good lord. Say SOMETHING. A full sentence that actually means something. And YOU are involved in beauty products? They don't work or youre not applying enough.