chloe deserves so much it’s crazy i don’t understand how she’s only at 5.5k subs she’s so underrated, chloe has helped me through so much and i can’t thank her enough 🥺, her advice is genuine she helps EVERYONE, people need go notice her more she deserves it so much ♡ ily sm 🖤
and i met some of my best friends through twitter the one direction fandom and i’m forever grateful for them and it’s also how i found out about chloe ♡
I’m 21 (turning 22 this year as well) and I get told I don’t act my age either. People either think I’m younger or older. I just got my diagnosis last week. Your videos have been super helpful. Thank you. ☺️
I remember when I was 4 we had a pyjama day at kindergarten and when I went up to the teacher (who was also in pyjamas) she said "looks like someone forgot to get dressed". I full on cried for ages.
The self care part was great, I wish more people see the wise things you say. A lot of 'self care" suggested is for a short term problem & not for someone who has on going issues. I think a lot of people who give the advice to have a "rest day" do not understand the depths of the person's problem. A councilor told my sister to curl up with a blanket while gaming or watching a film to de-stress & when she felt overwhelmed... Which would literally be all the time! So she didn't wash, didn't tidy, didn't do school work etc. It did not help her anxiety & depression it made her more stressed because she would not get anything done, then feel guilty, then use "self care" as procastination. Rather than alter her life to prevent coming overwhelmed & working on issues & doing more than just curling up with a blanket & watching a film. My sister is a bit more functioning now but we have both found it disappointing how little experts understand autism, anxiety & depression. Learning from what has helped other people with the conditions has been incridably useful.
Ahhh! Love that you were helped by a musician too. I first went to a concert on my own and met friends as well. Fan groups are the best and are my home ❤
Another great video. I really like the point you made about parents not wanting a diagnosis for the kids and the it doesn’t help them because everyone needs and identify. I’m going to remember that for the next time it comes up on my page.
I've always been a very excitable person and I allowed the world to bore me. Thank you for reminding me that it's important to take care of myself and honestly, explaining how to!!! After becoming a mom I've especially struggled with how to take care of myself. It's really easy to lose yourself when taking care of another human. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Your skin isn't paper, so don't cut it Your body isn't a book, so don't judge it Your life isn't a film, so don't end it Remember, random person reading this comment, you are loved, you may not know it, you may think nobody gives a crap about you, but that's just your mind telling you those things. Don't let those negative feelings destroy you. If anyone reading this comment was to take their life tomorrow, it would make the world a darker place. We need your light random person, don't let it flicker out.
If your gonna die then die doing something great. Die in the process of achievement. We are all capable of it. Don't snuff yourself out just because your currently in a dark place.
Chole, I have learned a lot from you, even though I am not Autistic. Chole, you are an inspiration and an amazing person:)!! . It is hard for me to imagine "Autism being like on an Alien Planet", but I can understand loud sounds that are highly irritating as well as super bright lights that are highly annoying that can make one feel very anxious. I can understand being confused about what people are saying as much as being exhausted from doing way too much. Also, I have a Cousin who as a Child promised me to go with her to Connie Island in New York, U.S.A. and she never kept her promise. I too do not like it when people go back on their word. Chole, I also really LOVE all the pink and you look very pretty in pink:)!! It would be really awesome to do a Vegan Food You Tube Video:). I am not Vegan, but I can not digest milk any more so I would like to learn new tips for Dairy Free Desserts:). I am so glad that One Direction has given you so much happiness and they are a good group:)!!! I am a bit behind in watching videos, but I am looking forward to watching your next video:)!!
HowCaseySeesIt I’m actually only wearing the tiniest bit of highlighter, just on the tip of my nose and the littlest swipe across my cheek bones- good lighting and being happy haha! It’s an old sportsgirl highlighter x
I love you soooo much Chloe! You’ve helped me with my self esteem and I’ve learned so much about autism from you which is SO amazing because I got diagnosed when I was a kid but I’m still not sure if it’s a real diagnosis because another doctor said it was “false”. You’re so amazingly beautiful and kind and your positivity and bubbly personality always brightens up my day and I love watching you for comfort ❤️ I hope we can meet and become friends one day :-)
Chloe you are seriously the cutest human ever. I have never felt so connected to someone before 😭✨ Just a few weeks ago came across a video that made me question if I was autistic and spiraled me into doing more research. I found your channel about a week ago and I seriously can't tell you how healing and warming it is to finally feel understood and not alone. I wish that someone talked to me about autism when I was younger, but even at 23, I feel blessed to find my tribe on this weird alien planet 👽 THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUUUUUUU! 💘🧚♀️ You are SUCH an inspiration and I admire you tremendously.
I am a new subscriber and have been binge watching your channel now. I love your pastel aesthetics with the lights and the flower crowns. It is so pretty and cute.
I'm diagnosed dyslexic and I think I have dyspraxia, dysgraphia, autism ADHD, ADD and sensory processing disorders, insomnia and schizophrenia ( and possibly anxiety and OCD)
My grandma once said ‘I’m coming over for tea’ so at 6pm little 7 year old me rushed out the door to my grandmas car and asked ‘ do you want earl grey or normal tea, I’m boiling he kettle’ grandma looked puzzled then said ‘*my name*, I’m here for dinner?’ So yea. How did my family not realised until 5 years later I’m autistic, HOW???
Chloe I absolutely love your flower halo! Did you personally create that or did you purchase it? I'm still trying to find my own identity within my own autistic reality world!
Omg, I’ve never met anyone else that can’t use spoons!!!!!! They are so gross! So much metal or plastic in your mouth, the weird sharp edges and the roundy creepy center... gag. I get comments all the time: “are you eating that ice cream with a fork?”, “how can you eat soup with a fork?”, “is that a fork?!”.
I just like small silverware and big knives when I eat. Like feeling dangerously danty while eating my meals since I used to be in disordered eating land.... It helps. Large utensils, esp spoons, can't do it. Fork too big, nope, spoon too big, nope. Tiny spoons, are acceptable. I also went thru a phase where I ate EVERYTHING with chopsticks.
I find it funny that people complain at your speaking tempo, like; just adjust the video tempo if it's such a big deal. I'm out here watching in 1,25 spead or more cause my ADHD is too impatient
Just don't pull a me and get so drunk you end up not remembering that night and then your friends end up tellin you about all the insane things you said and did lol
1. Would you rather kill a cow or a plant? 2. If you genuinely are worried about the safety of plants, rather than just using it as a silly comment to defend eating living animals: if you would like to save the most plants, veganism is still the way to go. You eat less plants than a cow does. Regardless, veganism is the answer 😌
Princess Aspien I don’t really mind killing either as I’m a omnivorous. Just making a point as you said you did not eat living creatures. I’m very literal too. You might want to say you don’t eat animals as you do eat living creatures in fact :)
chloe deserves so much it’s crazy i don’t understand how she’s only at 5.5k subs she’s so underrated, chloe has helped me through so much and i can’t thank her enough 🥺, her advice is genuine she helps EVERYONE, people need go notice her more she deserves it so much ♡
ily sm 🖤
and i met some of my best friends through twitter the one direction fandom and i’m forever grateful for them and it’s also how i found out about chloe ♡
This is the absolute sweetest. Thank you 💞
Princess Aspien omg i love u so much 💕
OH MY GOD YOU ANSWERED MY QUESTION I'M FREAKING OUT I THINK I'M GOING TO CRY THANK YOU I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m 21 (turning 22 this year as well) and I get told I don’t act my age either. People either think I’m younger or older.
I just got my diagnosis last week. Your videos have been super helpful. Thank you. ☺️
“You can’t have too much pink” - Princess Aspien 2019
Amber Hancock iconic
Princess Aspien no you are and plus my favorite color is pink also so I totally agree
I remember when I was 4 we had a pyjama day at kindergarten and when I went up to the teacher (who was also in pyjamas) she said "looks like someone forgot to get dressed". I full on cried for ages.
Damn you amazing
I have autism i was diagnosed at age 2
But its so nice to have someone who actually you can relate to
The self care part was great, I wish more people see the wise things you say.
A lot of 'self care" suggested is for a short term problem & not for someone who has on going issues.
I think a lot of people who give the advice to have a "rest day" do not understand the depths of the person's problem. A councilor told my sister to curl up with a blanket while gaming or watching a film to de-stress & when she felt overwhelmed... Which would literally be all the time! So she didn't wash, didn't tidy, didn't do school work etc. It did not help her anxiety & depression it made her more stressed because she would not get anything done, then feel guilty, then use "self care" as procastination. Rather than alter her life to prevent coming overwhelmed & working on issues & doing more than just curling up with a blanket & watching a film.
My sister is a bit more functioning now but we have both found it disappointing how little experts understand autism, anxiety & depression. Learning from what has helped other people with the conditions has been incridably useful.
Ahhh! Love that you were helped by a musician too. I first went to a concert on my own and met friends as well. Fan groups are the best and are my home ❤
Another great video. I really like the point you made about parents not wanting a diagnosis for the kids and the it doesn’t help them because everyone needs and identify. I’m going to remember that for the next time it comes up on my page.
I've always been a very excitable person and I allowed the world to bore me. Thank you for reminding me that it's important to take care of myself and honestly, explaining how to!!! After becoming a mom I've especially struggled with how to take care of myself. It's really easy to lose yourself when taking care of another human.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Your skin isn't paper, so don't cut it
Your body isn't a book, so don't judge it
Your life isn't a film, so don't end it
Remember, random person reading this comment, you are loved, you may not know it, you may think nobody gives a crap about you, but that's just your mind telling you those things. Don't let those negative feelings destroy you. If anyone reading this comment was to take their life tomorrow, it would make the world a darker place. We need your light random person, don't let it flicker out.
The Autistic Unicorn+ Beautifully said:)!!! God Bless you:)!!
Thank you!
If your gonna die then die doing something great. Die in the process of achievement. We are all capable of it. Don't snuff yourself out just because your currently in a dark place.
i am at a loss for words..tysm..wow tytyty
You look cute in pink love your channel your beautiful nice video I was only diagnosed in 2017 love you princess your perfect the way you are
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATES TIM MINCHIN!!! Have you listened to the Groundhog Day soundtrack by him? INSANE!
Dude I’ve heard everything he’s ever created and always end up in a fit
@@chloeshayden OMG I'm seeing him in concert in October (UK) and it's my first concert ever and I'm so excited!!! He's a truly brilliant genius!
Thank you for answering me question. I'm autistic too.
Chole, I have learned a lot from you, even though I am not Autistic. Chole, you are an inspiration and an amazing person:)!! . It is hard for me to imagine "Autism being like on an Alien Planet", but I can understand loud sounds that are highly irritating as well as super bright lights that are highly annoying that can make one feel very anxious. I can understand being confused about what people are saying as much as being exhausted from doing way too much. Also, I have a Cousin who as a Child promised me to go with her to Connie Island in New York, U.S.A. and she never kept her promise. I too do not like it when people go back on their word. Chole, I also really LOVE all the pink and you look very pretty in pink:)!! It would be really awesome to do a Vegan Food You Tube Video:). I am not Vegan, but I can not digest milk any more so I would like to learn new tips for Dairy Free Desserts:). I am so glad that One Direction has given you so much happiness and they are a good group:)!!! I am a bit behind in watching videos, but I am looking forward to watching your next video:)!!
I love the pink!!
Loved this. What brand of highlight do you use? You’re glowing
HowCaseySeesIt I’m actually only wearing the tiniest bit of highlighter, just on the tip of my nose and the littlest swipe across my cheek bones- good lighting and being happy haha! It’s an old sportsgirl highlighter x
I love you soooo much Chloe! You’ve helped me with my self esteem and I’ve learned so much about autism from you which is SO amazing because I got diagnosed when I was a kid but I’m still not sure if it’s a real diagnosis because another doctor said it was “false”. You’re so amazingly beautiful and kind and your positivity and bubbly personality always brightens up my day and I love watching you for comfort ❤️ I hope we can meet and become friends one day :-)
Chloe you are seriously the cutest human ever. I have never felt so connected to someone before 😭✨
Just a few weeks ago came across a video that made me question if I was autistic and spiraled me into doing more research. I found your channel about a week ago and I seriously can't tell you how healing and warming it is to finally feel understood and not alone. I wish that someone talked to me about autism when I was younger, but even at 23, I feel blessed to find my tribe on this weird alien planet 👽
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOUUUUUUU! 💘🧚♀️ You are SUCH an inspiration and I admire you tremendously.
I am also like that about going out
OMG thank you for answering my question😁 and yesss I understand what you mean
I am a new subscriber and have been binge watching your channel now. I love your pastel aesthetics with the lights and the flower crowns. It is so pretty and cute.
MATILDA THE MUSICAL IS MY OBSESSION! I could talk about it for years too :)
You're so cute!!! I love you. HAPPY AUSTISM PRIDE MONTH!!! 💜💜💜I love you. You inspire me!!! 😙😙😙😙😙😁 Normal is Boring!!!! Be different...
I created a “Happy” playlist centered around Little Wonders. It is a delightful song.
It’s ok, 1D is still my favourite band as well 💞
Also I’m autistic and I love your channel because I can relate to a lot of it ❤️🦋🌸
I love you so much. You're inspiring and sparkly 🤗 I watch you everyday.
Barbie is too pink. This is subtle, it's nice. Well done. You're much more articulate in this vid. Intelligent w/ eloquence 'N elegance.
The Kmart jojo siwa joke thing was from my school , also your really funny and pretty❤️❤️
"Treat every moment as a party!" love that
I wish that I could have downtime after big social things so that I could actually deal with the downfall, instead of just pushing through and dying.
Your video was helpful, thank you.
I'm diagnosed dyslexic and I think I have dyspraxia, dysgraphia, autism ADHD, ADD and sensory processing disorders, insomnia and schizophrenia ( and possibly anxiety and OCD)
Happy birthday 🥳
I love you and I thank you for being here and I have see almost all of your videos and I am going to ask my mom for a whaited blanket
never too much pink princess
This is a beautiful video 🔥🔥⭐🌟
My grandma once said ‘I’m coming over for tea’ so at 6pm little 7 year old me rushed out the door to my grandmas car and asked ‘ do you want earl grey or normal tea, I’m boiling he kettle’ grandma looked puzzled then said ‘*my name*, I’m here for dinner?’ So yea. How did my family not realised until 5 years later I’m autistic, HOW???
not satire, just the best hail the princess pic i could find lol
Chloe I absolutely love your flower halo! Did you personally create that or did you purchase it? I'm still trying to find my own identity within my own autistic reality world!
I am 12 I got diagnosed with autism and I can’t go out in nature or I will have a sensory overload
Any advice on starting an aspie vlog
Hi 👋 please make a merch
Amyy Asif 🤐🤭
Princess Aspien did you say me to be quite
Amyy Asif She did- but in a nice way!
whispers: merch is coming!
Chloe have you yourself done a meditation to de stress or whatever you're experiencing at that particular moment as a self care moments?
Ahhhhhhhhhhh the second one is mine!!!! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee😅😭😭😁😁😁
HELLO YOU'RE WEARING THE JUMPER I GOT YOU SKSKSK YOU LOOK ADORABLE UWU LET ME DIE FOR YOU
Omg, I’ve never met anyone else that can’t use spoons!!!!!! They are so gross! So much metal or plastic in your mouth, the weird sharp edges and the roundy creepy center... gag. I get comments all the time: “are you eating that ice cream with a fork?”, “how can you eat soup with a fork?”, “is that a fork?!”.
Muppetjedi Sparklefeet 🤢
I like forks. Mini forks. Not the huge adult dinner forks. Lol.
Hey y’all are both like Liam he used to be Idk if he is or not but he used to be scared of spoons 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I just like small silverware and big knives when I eat.
Like feeling dangerously danty while eating my meals since I used to be in disordered eating land.... It helps.
Large utensils, esp spoons, can't do it.
Fork too big, nope, spoon too big, nope.
Tiny spoons, are acceptable.
I also went thru a phase where I ate EVERYTHING with chopsticks.
Us that who are on the autism spectrum after sensory overload after a social activities.
I don't think you talking about 1d was cringey. It's literally me with the Taylor Swift fandom
I find it funny that people complain at your speaking tempo, like; just adjust the video tempo if it's such a big deal. I'm out here watching in 1,25 spead or more cause my ADHD is too impatient
Like I don't Act May age ever
Happy Autistic pride day!! :-)
Just don't pull a me and get so drunk you end up not remembering that night and then your friends end up tellin you about all the insane things you said and did lol
What is one derection
Plants are living creatures tho 🤷🏼♀️
1. Would you rather kill a cow or a plant?
2. If you genuinely are worried about the safety of plants, rather than just using it as a silly comment to defend eating living animals: if you would like to save the most plants, veganism is still the way to go. You eat less plants than a cow does.
Regardless, veganism is the answer 😌
Princess Aspien I don’t really mind killing either as I’m a omnivorous. Just making a point as you said you did not eat living creatures. I’m very literal too. You might want to say you don’t eat animals as you do eat living creatures in fact :)