@@ERROR_SCAMLIKELY oh my god, y’all REALLY be thinking all women spend child support on themselves? That wasn’t even what the poster of the comment was saying, they are saying it takes more than your bank account to be a FATHER. Actually raising your children, putting in time, teaching morals, emotional and moral support, love, affection and caring for your children makes you a father.
@@xMUNECAx who tf is YALL?! 🧐🤨 yall hoes really be thinking that men dont take care of their kids, these are GROWN ADULTS, lets stop referring to them as kids🥱😴 it takes more then Collecting child support money to be a MOTHER 🧐 NOWHERE did his kids say he didnt do all them things YOU listed, EVERYONE CLEARLY noted that it was AFTER they turned 18 that things went bad, they even said he used to bring them on stage with him and performed with him before 18, so how was he NOT doing those things?! 🧐🤨 was the picture evidence not enough for YOU?! 🤡 one of the sons even said they lived with him til they were 18. I dont know what video you were watching cuz youre clearly delusional. I bet you even feel bad for 50cent grown ass adult son who was brainwashed by his mother 🧐🤨🤡
Imagine being married to someone for 13 years and have that person say, I never loved anybody before my current wife. Not only did he cheat on her twice and now saying this…
@@zinhle_dladla Sadly he won’t , he don’t respect black women that’s why he’s doing what he’s doing . He’s gonna kiss his current wife’s butt until she dies simply because she’s not black .
What kind of parent disclose sexual allegations to the media about their daughter. He is disgusting. I loss a lot of respect from him. I understand why the daughter tried to sue him.
He thinks he did nothing wrong because the allegations are true according to him. I don't think he has a conscience. Probably a narcissist and sociopath, but that's for a healthcare professional to determine.
This is the most disgusting part of this whole story! This isn’t about money but lack of love protection and abandonment! And this nasty piece of work is sick to do his daughter like that!
@@popizza_zn He likes to hurt his biological kids for some reason by talking about bad about them on social media while giving praises to his new family.
This really upsets me. Being a father is more than just being there financially. You have to be there mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. ALL OF THAT MATTERS. You can’t expect anything from a child when they are older if they were not taught while young. SMFH.
@@whitneyscott4781 Brian had an amazing relationship with the kids to his first wife. He taught the boys how to sing and play instruments and even took them on tour with him to perform. The issue came when he stopped giving them money. If you were his new wife you'd want him paying attention to you and the new family and not chasing adult children who don't want to grow up....forget the fact that the boys broke into his house and he didn't press charges..People always want to attach a successful black man and black women hate to see a black man with a different race.
@@jmoosic One of his boys stated that Brian had him cleaning his used condoms when he was 15. We don't even know that to be true we're on the outside looking in. These are still people with money going through things humans go through. My first comment was just letting you know that they were kids when this started I'm not sure why I got the long message.
I’m glad ppl can see right through him. We’ve all known or witnessed men like him, speak well, present well, but lack accountability, play the victim & throw rocks while hiding their hands. This is so sad. Smh
Even though his biological kids are adults, I feel bad for them because just because they're grown doesn't mean you can dismiss them and call them "the past". And to call his newborn baby his "new legacy" is something else too.
@@anthonyjones2392 Because of Mustangs, Range Rovers and doting post online how much he LOVES them! I would value him too, but trust I bet you since the world knows what's going on and he's putting this online, BW which is probably most of his fan base stop going to concerts... let's see how much the Asian and those kids, love, value and appreciate him. We just had this convo about Daniel Cesear, he told the BC to cancel him over a ww, and we did...he's now online apologizing to the BC.... don't underestimate the POWER we hold!
yup rightfully so. what else should he do to ungrateful children that don't understand. they will have their own children one day and then they will get it.
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker why are you so determined to defend this man who is practically telling us from his own mouth that he's trash? are you fucking him? 😂😂😂
I can understand not giving ungrateful children anymore money but to pretend as if they don’t exist and to make it known you changed your will is psychotic behavior and makes him look like the problem he is
He is definitely flaunting his new life, and basically taunting them. All because the wife didn’t want to stay in an abusive marriage Brian is mad🙄🤦🏽♀️🤬 ~OAN Brian is probably hearing that shut out if this new wife, all them “happy pictures/family outing” is a facade.
head scratcher on this one!! smh, didn't his previous kids already do that to him?? they were supposed to be his legacy and they fumble the family bag what you mean?!!
Right?!? Me either like HOW can you deal with someone who is doing that. I would never be friends let alone romantically involved with someone who does this......Wild thing he will end up dogging his current wife and Brian the 3rd the same in a few years
@@bluuberry5639 fareal! I cut off 2 friends years ago once I found out they had secret children that they didn’t take care of. How is that appealing in a partner??
I feel him on supporting them financially to an extent.. but why have children with women you apparently NEVER loved or planned to stay with…that makes you a bad father imho, especially since you clearly resent them for it. And he can’t blame anyone else for that..at the end of the day..he is their father. Some ppl are so self absorbed. I liked one of his songs at most..and now to find out that there was no soul behind it?! Lmao bye there are plenty of singers out there that actually have some soul behind their music and aren’t gonna double back and contradict themselves. Ima be honest..he’s so proud of the children that are truly in no way his…who is to say he won’t disown the newborn with time? Lol MESSYYYYY
For a man who sings such beautiful touching songs,he seems cold as ice. I had no idea he was this broken. A woman standing by and watching a man treat his OWN biological children this way and is happy with it because he is treating your kids right is just terrible.
My dad used to do this SO much! He started four families and left every time someone did something he didn’t like. He would disown his old children and put his new family on a pedestal until the cycle repeated. Toxic is not even the word. This is mental! Please don’t do this it’s so damaging
My husband already had a son named after him when I met him. There's no way he could've convinced me to give our son his name, knowing he already had a Jr. That says a lot about his wife.
You know what they say if you are in a relationship with a narcissist and if u don’t see anything wrong with them you must be one yourself! She’s just as bad!
My husband lost his mother at 33. I lost my father at 33. Hurt me to hear him say they were 30 as if they don’t still need a father 😢You’re always a parent even when the roles reverse and we have to take care of you.
If he is at any way mistreating their mother, they're going to take care of him like Kimberly Elise did her ex-husband in Tyler Perry's movie "Diary of a Mad Black Woman"
As a bonus mom I would never let my husband talk about his kids like this. It’s hurtful, rude and disrespectful. U can have disagreements like mature adults but the back and forward on the internet…ggrrr…like Brian how old are u….. geez stfu
It's not unbelievable! A LOT of men do this all the time! How many times have we seen a man abandon his kids? This is so common from blck men, we need to stop being surprised by their audacity! THIS IS WHO THEY ARE
It’s so important that us black males work on our traumas and stop bringing out our insecurities on black women. Getting sick of seeing the repetition of generational trauma. I am Sorry to all the black women who have been let down by insecure men.
Ya unfortunately they don't want to understand the contribution of their abandoned to dysfunctional families and emotional damage to the mothers and their kids. It's a never ending circle, most women are destroyed by the behavior of these men who usually date them while the are still young some even get pregnant while they are teenagers. They then have the guts to compare a person who's parents were all present in their upbringing to the women they abandoned, i don't understand how they fail to see that they are the main contributors to the failure of black families because they are refusing to be present fathers.
I have no respect for any parent that doesn't take care of their children. A parents job is never done it's a lifetime commitment. Brian McKnight is going out sad, and there is no excuse he can make to justify him abandoning his children. He's a Narcissist at it's finest, and his children deserve better. 💯
Neither do I. I have no respect in general for any person who doesnt raise the kids they made especially not when its people who are rich af and have the privilege to make as much time for their kids as they possibly can. Literally choosing to be shitty parent when you have all the ressources to be the best parent in the world
@@marktaylor4977 Right. I hate how he humiliates them, and blames them for him being a absent father. It's fine that he takes care of his step kids, but he needs to be there for his biological kids too. It's not like he has any obstacles in his way that prevents that. He needs to take some accountability for his actions. 💯
This man is toxic. He doesn't seem like a healthy person to be around. Yes, he has money, and maybe his kids want some of it, but what they need to do is grow up and forget about their Dad and set about creating their own lives.
Them being in their 20’s and 30’s doesn’t mean that they don’t need their parents. I am 32 and both of my parents are still active in my life. The magnitude of their activity has changed but they’re still there. This is truly sad.
I am in awe😮😮. How in the world can he justify dismissing his biological children for his step children. The fact that he put this in writing and verbally saying this, this is the lowest of the low. My entire perception of Brian has changed😢
@@kadeenhayles2170 BM is attacking his kids online. Good Parents shield their kids from being attacked, instead it's their parent doing the attacking. Where is the love for the daughter he created while cheating on his 1st family.
Financial support has been a socially acceptable substitute for a father in children's lives and it's never been ok. Child support is not visitation, is not quality time, is not coming to events or occasions, is not being there when kids are sick, is not helping with homework or broken hearts, it's not setting a good example. I'm tired of society saying it's ok for men to be a paycheck and women to be everything.
It's become acceptable because people are just trying to preserve their sanity and peace of mind. You can't force a grown man to do what he doesn't want to do. He won't come & he won't participate no matter how much you beg, nag or guilt trip him. A lot of them don't even provide that financial support you speak of😢
Bingo! A check doesn't matter to a kid. Time, affection, and support are all that we want growing up. And it's not like they have to spend any money to spend time with us. Going to the park or playing in the front yard would be cherished. But they can't do that, then wonder why we resent them when we grow up. Those hurt little kids never go away. He's a clown like the majority of these other deadbeats that just throw money at their "problems," the only difference he had more money to throw.
Its seems certain men dont know how to multitask. Its either throw money at the kids but dont raise them at all, or dont raise them at all and also dont financially support them or live in the same home as them but dont be an active parent aka the "ask your mother" parent
Very true about our community. Paying child support is NOT being a father. This man is filth for what he did to his daughter and she should sue his a- again for defamation.
I am 53 years of age and had been a Brian McNight fan since 1990 up until the day that I saw this! He is shameful! All I heard was what money he gave his children & nothing else. I am so glad his children have taken the high road unlike himself acting like a fn kid! The reason why he even have the current wife today is because of his status & money. Regardless of what he has gone through with his children, he should've never went public with his spiteful intentions against them! It doesn't matter how old they are! Young adult children go through various phases in their life. I know because I have 3 of them. Of Course it's difficult! & Yes! They are difficult to deal with! You be by their side through thick and thin because you are their father & you're suppose to love them! This is just so sick on so many levels. I'm done.
it's wild. The concept people have that once your children hit 18 they're adults and your job is done is INSANE. People need help their entire lives! lol. the parents help the children, the children help the parents. i don't understand how he doesn't get this?!
As someone who had a chance to hang out with his sons and him back in the day… this just breaks my heart to see all of this unfold. Def has narcissistic vibes. But not surprised after what he did to my friend who was opening for him for a show back in the day where I was singing back up. I resonate with his daughter’s pain too…
His whole conversation was about money. Nothing about love. Nothing about repairing the family as the head of it. This has A-hole written all over it. He has conditions with his love. What woman will stand by a man who denies his children?
Some women don’t care, as long as they’re benefiting. It’s interesting, how he’s taking jabs at the biologicals, while publicly love bombing the step children with gifts. Are the steps not adults?
My wife's father did the SAME exact thing as Brian. My wife is the only BIOLOGICAL child that he had with his ex-wife (my wife's mother), whom he was married to for over 20 years. His new wife has four kids which he claims as his own and completely never claims my wife. However, my wife and I have been married for 10 years and have two beautiful boys. Recently, he has come crawling back to my wife, because he wants a relationship with his grandchildren. Now he is going through a depression episode because he chose to make his bed and lay in it. 🤷🏾♂️
My biological father is the same as Brian. I grew up thinking that my step father was my real dad. Him and my mom died when I was 8 years old. Meanwhile my biological father knew he was my dad and kept raving about this to my adoptive family at taverns. These narcissistic fathers are cruel to say the least. His dysfunction is horrible and i relate with this.
I remember meeting him. I was a freshman in college working at Courtyard Marriott. It was just a small college town but Brian did a concert in the city. I was working night audit so I saw him and his crew check in during the beginning of my shift. Imagine being a vocal music performance major & singing all your life and Brian McKnight walks into your job. I couldn’t believe it. They of course went straight up to their rooms. When it was time for breakfast, his entire crew came down for breakfast. I heard them joking about how he’d never come down to a lobby to eat with them. So, me being me, I prepared a tray of food with fruit, tea, water and juice and took it to his room. When he opened the door, I simply said good morning and that I brought breakfast to him. He scoffed and slammed that door in my face. I felt TERRIBLE and couldn’t believe he would do that. I mean, I wasn’t just staff, I was just a kid. I wasn’t asking him for an autograph, a picture or trying to sing for him. I’d been around so many celebrities but that point that I wasn’t some crazed fan. I just wanted to show him some hospitality. From that day on, I never liked him and I understood why his crew mocked him the way they did. His reputation has never been one of kindness or humility (check out Jamie Foxx’s interview on R&B Money). I’m further disgusted by his treatment of his children. Also, I find it so strange that while we are at this amazing place in the BC where we are finally able to build generational wealth, most bm celebrities don’t understand what that means. Y’all can’t take the money with y’all. And as far as wanting your sons to grow up and be men, did you teach them what that means? How could he have? He clearly is missing what manhood and fatherhood is within himself. It sounds like his sons have figured out a lot more about this life than he has and he will reap what he sows. And just for giggles, I couldn’t help but wonder if his preference wife and step kids are playing him and will leave him high and dry in the end. Now wouldn’t that be something? Lol In any event, I pray his children are able to find healing and peace. I hope they feel the love and support from so many around the world. I know it’s not their father’s love, but some of us are better off without it.
You took it upon yourself to go knock on the door of a guest who you wanted to meet? I bet he had the “Do not disturb“ on display too. He could’ve been nicer though.
@@Starz69 Lol no. You obviously don’t understand the hospitality industry. We do things all the time to enhance guests’ experiences. I didn’t want to meet him. I’m literally the niece of Motown royalty and spent my entire life around celebrities and 95% of them are nothing special 😂😂😂😂 He ain’t no Luther Vandross 💯💯💯 I did it bc it was a nice thing to do. It wasn’t even that serious. I’ve helped guests set up rooms for their significant others, washed and ironed stained pants overnight, put a Pepsi in a guests room bc I know it’s their favorite before they arrived, all sorts of nice gestures. It’s just taking care of someone and being nice. Everybody isn’t drunk over fame. Some people are just genuinely nice. Sorry you don’t experience that much. That sucks 🤷🏽♀️
@@Starz69 And yea, I couldn’t believe he was there bc it was just this random small town. Like, wtf is he doing here type of moment. I wasn’t being all weird asking for an autograph, photo, screaming or anything. It was just random so I was shocked.
His lack of self awareness is terrifying! Not him doubling down on his mess!? Plus him equating giving money to 'being there' is sad. You have to be emotionally available sir! You can cut them off financially while STILL being THEIR FATHER and a grandfather to their children. What he did to Brianna is simply disgusting. Absolutely gross!
Yup and if the current wife does anything he doesn’t like her children will be discarded too. No more ig post with long captions, no more gifts, no more #girldad.
He's giving abuser vibes as well. People are saying in the comments that he'd been seen abusing his first wife in public. He has an evil soul, and I hope all his wealth dries up. We'll see if that woman and kids stay his legacy after that.
Many narcs walk amongst us. Don't believe the stats. Narcs aren't exactly running to get diagnosed so how do they know how much of the population are. Besides if you do the math of the percentage they say it's still a lot given the amount of people in the world.
This is disturbing, but it’s very telling that he is so comfortable putting defaming information out about his daughter, it goes to show he didn’t want to protect her. What kind of father does that? He could have just left that out of the public eye regardless if it was true or not. So disloyal!
And if it's true it means she was SAed as a minor and he showed zero empathy for her and what she might have been through? How can he defend his behavior with a straight face regardless if he thought the story was true or not?
@@sonyap8253 how? Incest is weird af but it ain’t assault unless one of them was forced which Brian never claimed. I guess y’all want his daughter to be a super victim so it makes him look worse. I don’t agree with him exposing that to the world by the way that’s fucked up.
@Young Ma.n a minor cannot give consent legally. Assault is ANY physical contact without consent. Which like I said, a minor cannot give. Stop fucking your lil cousins. Your arguing this is bout to make me call the cops. Pervert.
He has an attitude like "LOOK. Your moms made me take care of y'all, now I'm DONE taking care of y'all, now I can live life on MY terms and choose who I REALLY wanna be with and have a baby with a woman I TRULY want to have a child and a family with." I'm disgusted.
The fact you was comfortable putting out your daughter sexual experience says everything I need to know about this disgusting man! True or false what kinda of dad tries to humiliate there own child like this! She had every right to sue you as you made it very clear BRIAN that you do not love her or willing to protect her! This is not about money but maybe years of abandonment 😢
yea he is that's how you remove toxic people from your life, his daughter wanted the money so she got it didn't she?. i'm so proud of brian man amazing example of not letting your blood control your heart but doing what is right.
He publicly shamed his daughter and said she was having an incestuous relationship with her cousin! How is she only going after the money? He damaged her image @@DreamstaAnkleBreaker
@@PrettyBrownEyes91 bro you are a fine example of folks that don't listen. he never said he lied nor did he have to take down that post. she agreed to the money because that's all she wanted she don't care that he never recanted nor saying he lied about it.
Brian McKnight is THE PERFECT EXAMPLE of why people NEED to STOP 🛑 🙅🏽♂️ IDOLizing artists❕He has the voice of an angel 😇 but he’s also got some trifling azz toxic traits and character flaws, and let’s just say that he’s not winning any Father of The Year 🏆awards “🎶Anytime” soon. 🥴🤷🏽♂️😩🤭
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker You don’t have a right to ABANDON your children. Anybody who feels that way SHOULD NEVER have kids❕And what exactly is the justification for Brian doing this? 🤷🏽♂️
I'm still amazed that this man is speaking about his daughter this way she more than likely was abused or he could have lied I don't know but the fact that she was underage when this situation happened and he has no empathy for her. Is disgusting
That tells me everything I need to know. Even if the story he told was true it was not his place to tell it to the public and he told it with absolute no empathy or acknowledgement that she was a child!
I’m starting to see Brian McKnight Sr. for who he really is. At this point, Brian’s biological children should just move on and let Brian be with his so called new family if that’s how Brian wants to behave and move. What Brian has done to his biological children is beyond messed up and he’s gonna reap what he sow. I understand cutting them off financially because they’re now grown but to behave in a cruel manner by not acknowledging all his children and announcing that they’re cut out of the will is beyond tacky like he’s trying to really hurt them more but really it’s just showing his true nature. He’s gonna need them one day at some point. Alexa, play Alicia Keys Karma.
"I never even liked anyone before I met her" is not even a flex on his wife's part. If your partner has "never liked" anyone, a man that has parents, maybe siblings, cousins, an ex-wife, and children, then they are a whole Soviet Union of red flags. Best believe when he's not on good terms with you, he will treat you as meaningless to him. That was very clearly aimed at his past. He emphasised it a bit too much
Then he went out his way as usual to try to trash,hurt those whom have been in his life like his ex wife.This man had the Herve to say he did not love her,she git pregnant an did not want her to have the baby ,she did anyway and he married her.Again it was to take digs at her ,his oldest namesake Brian Jr.Then add to prove this he had a affair on her leading go the birth of his oldest daughter ,so if he did not want any kids why would he risk having one by who he called a groupie .Again he was blaming her also, and that child by acting like she did not exist,saying vile things about his daughter to hurt her.Then have his youngest daughter doing the same behavior of acting like she did not exist,doing the same to his grandkids by Jr.This msn has proven time and again who he is ,even in his postings .
He had four kids with 3 other women before his current wife. So in short he has no problem putting his dingdong inside women he don't even like.....he's garbage. I was a big fan. Have gone to two concerts and bought his CDs back in the days.
The fact that this man only listed the materialistic things he’s done for his children is outrageous! He is canceled!!! Just because your kids are grown, does not mean you stop being a parent Brian! I’m confident karma will get the best of him though, and I pray his children find peace.
best comment on here so far hands down!!!, brian is now a black man with an asian family so he's not hurting from all this at all. 3 of his kids u think he's not hurt.
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker he wanted his children to be independent and have them move out so he can enjoy his new marriage and they disrespected and crossed every boundary to a point of nailing his marriage pictures (vandalism). He's hurt and responding in a point that will only devestate their entire life including their identity. Making sure that he destroy everything including the ex wife who might be a muster mind of this kids misbehaver because of jealous. Everyone is hurt. But God love is beyond all this drama. Wishing them true healing
I would never as a parent respond to my children on social media. Never! He refers to them as ‘those kids’. If you don’t want to be a father to them, cool but don’t hurt them in the process. It’s going to be a sad day when those same beloved step kids turn on him. BM is the type of person to put a hit in someone but tries his hardest to play nice guy to the public.
Why are his step children going to turn on him? Do your research and you will be surprised to discover that a lot of step children are more loyal to their parents than the biological ones.
If y’all watch interviews with Chris Watts (murdered his daughters and ex wife to be with his new girlfriend) he would refer to his daughters as “the kids.” It’s a way of dissociating and avoiding guilt.
He is a villain and his wife is a villain too. His wife doesnt care about whats going on nor his character. Shes in it for her own selfish gain. Karma is REAL and will hit them both hard. What goes around, comes right back around 🤷🏾♀️
nah that's a blessing, yea you a villain in this world when you do something right. but what if those greedy @s kids had set him up and killed him for his money then what would people say? ya'll mad cuz he with a asian woman. miss me with the bs
@GamingWithChipmunks you've been throwing tantrums under virtually every comment. You ok boo? Who are you trying to convince, yourself or us? Find something to do and pick up a therapist along the way.
Julie McKnight is one of the most sweetest people on the earth. The fact that he cheated on her while married to her & got a woman (Briana’s Mother) pregnant and raised Briana as if it was her own shows just how graceful she is. Not to mention she’s SDA. Brian has been a well known abuser even before he was famous… it just shined a light on his abuse
He's the definition of a narcissist...wow! He's disgusting and scary. Like he sees nothing wrong with what he's doing. I hope his precious Lalani dogs him out and takes him for what he's worth! It's pure evil what he's doing!
yes you can it ain't just about blood. it's about principle and standards, those kids needs to humble themselves and see what he did for them to make them strong
@@DeeDiamond2981 grown men and woman ??? miss me with the bs. there are kids out there that are going through so much and i was one of those kids. these are spoiled brats that got what they deserved.
A few things I took away from this whole messy situation is that not everyone with a child or children is a mother or a father, biologically or otherwise. A lot of people don’t really get how serious being responsible for an entire being is. And also everything is not for public consumption, some things should kept and dealt with properly and privately, regardless. I hate this type of nonsense.
I don’t think we should paint Brian as the only villain but his new wife too. Both are villains and we only focusing on one Brian. His new wife is a mom, I’m sure she should be encouraging Brian to try and build a relationship with his other kids but what does she do does the same as Brian. Both are villains. Imagine if this was Happening to her kids maybe Brian at some point will do the same. Good luck to her and villain husband opps both are villains
When he said all of his money will go to the newborn child, I called him a FOOL. Because that's exactly what his new wife wants. He better sleep with one eye open.
If I was his new wife, I wouldn't be dazzled by the whole, "I never liked anyone until you." All that proves is that he was incapable of forming solid attachments with others. I mean, you didn’t like or love ANYONE? We all have loved someone at some point, so that indicates something deep and disturbing to me.
A lot of guys do this, when they remarry their preference. I just don't think Brian McKnight is all there mentally. Some of the things posted online, he said, just aren't good things, to do or say to his ex wife or kids. It's just better to not say such things publicly as a celebrity, because it will make people dislike him and boycott his music. He's a good singer, and a handsome man, but that's pretty much it.
My father is a Gemini too and he did this to his grown kids. He basically ghosted us and is closer to his current wifes kids. I realize that I am grown but I still need a relationship with my dad. I can totally relate to what these kids are saying.
When a man gotta bring up their financial contribution to defend themselves or justify any wrong doing just know that’s all they gotta bring up to the table and they are guilty 100%
It pains me to say that I know what those kids are going through. I send them love, i hope they'll find a way to love themselves and move on. Toxic parents are real.
10:21 that comment about "he should've dropped your butt off at 18-20 years old" is horrible. We do this far too often in our community, which leaves many of our children unprepared. Wendy talks about this man for years bc he treated his first wife so horribly! His second wife is insane to marry a man with such a low moral compass
My dad met him in the early 2000s, was so excited to meet him and Brian was extremely rude to him. My dad never looked at him the same again. Brian you are VERY rude!
He never liked anyone until he met his non black wife- a father of 4, ex husband, a son, maybe a brother, and of course HIMSELF smh. Now this woman is enjoying the pedestalizing when she should be taking notes of what he is capable of. Her and her child’s discard is inevitable but you can’t tell them that smh
That fall from grace for that new wife may be ROUGH, she's sitting back lavishing in the online praising he's doing, and don't know how this could actually turn out for her and her kids - it could get 100 times worse for her!
@@brownsugako7772 It's called love bombing. As soon as she disagrees or is anti anything he says or does comes the discard. Narcissism 101. She'll see soon!
@@jzloveinfinite Oh I know, I was love bombed by about 3 men until I smartened up, all the I need talk to you all day regardless of what I got to do, I need to see you regardless of both of us having responsibilities, then it turns cold once you give in to the madness.... it's a whole mess !!
Parents/ older people within the family will do what they want and treat you how they want all while you’re a child, but when you get into adulthood, they try to place blame on you. Imagine being a grown ass man acting like this. It’s disgusting. This is new level of dead-beatery.
That baby may hold the key to his future heartache if he's not careful. Is he planning to throw this child out of the house once he turns 18? Probably not. This is so heartbreaking. As others have stated, you don't stop being a parent once the child turns 18 or 21!
My dad does this same thing when he's in a new relationship. Whichever woman my dad is with, and if she has kids becomes the top priority - no one else matters. I haven't spoken to my dad in 7 years, and it hurts, but protecting my peace means more. I hope everything gets better for them, but kids of BM - as long as he thinks and feels like this it's not going to get better at all. Prayers!!!!
Paying child support doesn’t exclude you from still being a dad.
What is the MOTHER doing with said "CHILD" SUPPORT?! 🧐🤨
@@ERROR_SCAMLIKELY oh my god, y’all REALLY be thinking all women spend child support on themselves? That wasn’t even what the poster of the comment was saying, they are saying it takes more than your bank account to be a FATHER. Actually raising your children, putting in time, teaching morals, emotional and moral support, love, affection and caring for your children makes you a father.
@@xMUNECAx who tf is YALL?! 🧐🤨 yall hoes really be thinking that men dont take care of their kids, these are GROWN ADULTS, lets stop referring to them as kids🥱😴 it takes more then Collecting child support money to be a MOTHER 🧐 NOWHERE did his kids say he didnt do all them things YOU listed, EVERYONE CLEARLY noted that it was AFTER they turned 18 that things went bad, they even said he used to bring them on stage with him and performed with him before 18, so how was he NOT doing those things?! 🧐🤨 was the picture evidence not enough for YOU?! 🤡 one of the sons even said they lived with him til they were 18. I dont know what video you were watching cuz youre clearly delusional. I bet you even feel bad for 50cent grown ass adult son who was brainwashed by his mother 🧐🤨🤡
@@ERROR_SCAMLIKELY are you slow or stupid ?????
@@xMUNECAx ppl really are slow smh
Imagine being married to someone for 13 years and have that person say, I never loved anybody before my current wife. Not only did he cheat on her twice and now saying this…
He's a very sick narcissistic man.
Yeah he not shit
He will do the same to her. She shouldn’t get too comfortable
@@zinhle_dladla Sadly he won’t , he don’t respect black women that’s why he’s doing what he’s doing . He’s gonna kiss his current wife’s butt until she dies simply because she’s not black .
This is why BW shouldn't even any men a chance to build up.
What kind of parent disclose sexual allegations to the media about their daughter. He is disgusting. I loss a lot of respect from him. I understand why the daughter tried to sue him.
He thinks he did nothing wrong because the allegations are true according to him. I don't think he has a conscience. Probably a narcissist and sociopath, but that's for a healthcare professional to determine.
Like, who's business is it who her daughter is sleeping with and for him to talk about it on the the internet like this
She needs to sue him again.
This is the most disgusting part of this whole story! This isn’t about money but lack of love protection and abandonment! And this nasty piece of work is sick to do his daughter like that!
@@popizza_zn He likes to hurt his biological kids for some reason by talking about bad about them on social media while giving praises to his new family.
This really upsets me. Being a father is more than just being there financially. You have to be there mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. ALL OF THAT MATTERS. You can’t expect anything from a child when they are older if they were not taught while young. SMFH.
Dude his biological kids are all over 30
@@jmoosicThey have to be kids before becoming adults. I mean seriously, it clearly started while they were children.
@@whitneyscott4781 Brian had an amazing relationship with the kids to his first wife. He taught the boys how to sing and play instruments and even took them on tour with him to perform. The issue came when he stopped giving them money. If you were his new wife you'd want him paying attention to you and the new family and not chasing adult children who don't want to grow up....forget the fact that the boys broke into his house and he didn't press charges..People always want to attach a successful black man and black women hate to see a black man with a different race.
@@jmoosic One of his boys stated that Brian had him cleaning his used condoms when he was 15. We don't even know that to be true we're on the outside looking in. These are still people with money going through things humans go through. My first comment was just letting you know that they were kids when this started I'm not sure why I got the long message.
M@@whitneyscott4781
I’m glad ppl can see right through him. We’ve all known or witnessed men like him, speak well, present well, but lack accountability, play the victim & throw rocks while hiding their hands. This is so sad. Smh
Well damn, isn’t this most at some point😮
His wife not calling him out for disowning his biological kids is VERY telling.
She’s a single mother she really has some nerves.
Where is her baby daddy? How can Brian just claim her kids as his own? This weird.
Watch when he gets older and need someone to care for him I bet the step children won’t come around let alone his biological children
He’s probably laying hands on her
He gonna dump the new one. Watch
Even though his biological kids are adults, I feel bad for them because just because they're grown doesn't mean you can dismiss them and call them "the past". And to call his newborn baby his "new legacy" is something else too.
His step kids love, value and appreciate him.
Karma is going to bit him in his assss very soon.
@@anthonyjones2392 Because he spoils his adult step kids. They love and respect the gifts ad money they get
@@anthonyjones2392 Because of Mustangs, Range Rovers and doting post online how much he LOVES them! I would value him too, but trust I bet you since the world knows what's going on and he's putting this online, BW which is probably most of his fan base stop going to concerts... let's see how much the Asian and those kids, love, value and appreciate him. We just had this convo about Daniel Cesear, he told the BC to cancel him over a ww, and we did...he's now online apologizing to the BC.... don't underestimate the POWER we hold!
And as soon as that baby grow up he going to hate him to for being “spoiled” too 🥴
For him to simply move on from his children and not have any relationship is really sad. It seems like he is flaunting his new family in their faces
yup rightfully so. what else should he do to ungrateful children that don't understand. they will have their own children one day and then they will get it.
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker why are you so determined to defend this man who is practically telling us from his own mouth that he's trash? are you fucking him? 😂😂😂
I can understand not giving ungrateful children anymore money but to pretend as if they don’t exist and to make it known you changed your will is psychotic behavior and makes him look like the problem he is
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker The way y'all h8 children and always elevate terrible parenting never fails to shock me.
He is definitely flaunting his new life, and basically taunting them. All because the wife didn’t want to stay in an abusive marriage Brian is mad🙄🤦🏽♀️🤬 ~OAN Brian is probably hearing that shut out if this new wife, all them “happy pictures/family outing” is a facade.
Him blaming his daughter for what her mother supposedly did is horrifying especially with the allegations he said happened to her
The child hes placing all of his faith in and bestowing his entire legacy upon will be the child who will end up embarrassing him the most..
THIS PART! The stories I could tell. You gotta be careful what you do to people!
Lol THISSSSSS 😂
head scratcher on this one!! smh, didn't his previous kids already do that to him?? they were supposed to be his legacy and they fumble the family bag what you mean?!!
Yep. Always happens that way
9:46 @@DreamstaAnkleBreaker I can tell you’re a narcissist like Brian. What daphuck happened to you?parents are suppose to
I never understood women that date/marry men that don’t take care of or acknowledge their children. That’s extremely problematic
Right?!? Me either like HOW can you deal with someone who is doing that. I would never be friends let alone romantically involved with someone who does this......Wild thing he will end up dogging his current wife and Brian the 3rd the same in a few years
Exactly! If a man can't love his own creation, how the hell is he gonna love me.....
@@bluuberry5639 fareal! I cut off 2 friends years ago once I found out they had secret children that they didn’t take care of. How is that appealing in a partner??
@@DeliciouslyFierceMedia facts!
His kids had beef their dad , he tried be there life they just wanted him to support them
The nerve to name your son after yourself and not claim him!
I feel him on supporting them financially to an extent.. but why have children with women you apparently NEVER loved or planned to stay with…that makes you a bad father imho, especially since you clearly resent them for it. And he can’t blame anyone else for that..at the end of the day..he is their father. Some ppl are so self absorbed. I liked one of his songs at most..and now to find out that there was no soul behind it?! Lmao bye there are plenty of singers out there that actually have some soul behind their music and aren’t gonna double back and contradict themselves. Ima be honest..he’s so proud of the children that are truly in no way his…who is to say he won’t disown the newborn with time? Lol MESSYYYYY
@alelujahtysm4867 Right! bloody cheeky
George Foreman named many of his kids George Foreman.
@@Kitkat-wu3ow and that makes it ok ? Lol
I’m a Jr.
My Fathers doesn’t claim me. And we haven’t talked in 3 years. When we did speak it was once a year
For a man who sings such beautiful touching songs,he seems cold as ice. I had no idea he was this broken. A woman standing by and watching a man treat his OWN biological children this way and is happy with it because he is treating your kids right is just terrible.
Your comment is on point this guy is BROKEN and vindictive, what a cold hearted person to say this publicly.
My dad used to do this SO much! He started four families and left every time someone did something he didn’t like. He would disown his old children and put his new family on a pedestal until the cycle repeated. Toxic is not even the word. This is mental! Please don’t do this it’s so damaging
Papa was a rolling stone 🎵🎶
@@mrsx7944 frfr now he lonely
@@KeshondaJackson I believe it. Men like that always end up alone.
My husband already had a son named after him when I met him. There's no way he could've convinced me to give our son his name, knowing he already had a Jr. That says a lot about his wife.
Right?! I'm definitely side-eyeing the wife.
You know what they say if you are in a relationship with a narcissist and if u don’t see anything wrong with them you must be one yourself! She’s just as bad!
Yes!! He’s trying to erase his first set of kids & she’s fine with that. Its shameful
@@Dayday-xj3hcnot necessarily
Agree
My husband lost his mother at 33. I lost my father at 33. Hurt me to hear him say they were 30 as if they don’t still need a father 😢You’re always a parent even when the roles reverse and we have to take care of you.
I wonder if those step kids are gonna take care of him when it’s time for the roles to reverse.
@@evaphillips2102 will be interesting to see for sure lol usually they take the money and dip
If he is at any way mistreating their mother, they're going to take care of him like Kimberly Elise did her ex-husband in Tyler Perry's movie "Diary of a Mad Black Woman"
As a bonus mom I would never let my husband talk about his kids like this. It’s hurtful, rude and disrespectful. U can have disagreements like mature adults but the back and forward on the internet…ggrrr…like Brian how old are u….. geez stfu
Unbelievable that a father could do this to his Children 😡
I'm honestly not shocked seeing a BM act like this. Most lack empathy and compete with BW and each other
It's not unbelievable! A LOT of men do this all the time! How many times have we seen a man abandon his kids? This is so common from blck men, we need to stop being surprised by their audacity! THIS IS WHO THEY ARE
Ikr.Thank God for my father
It gets worse and
I wonder if he physically hurt them as well. It can a harsh cycle
Not unbelievable that a black man would do this to his children. This is the norm, not the exception.
I feel for his daughter because she was the product of infidelity and her entire life has been affected by it
It’s so important that us black males work on our traumas and stop bringing out our insecurities on black women. Getting sick of seeing the repetition of generational trauma. I am Sorry to all the black women who have been let down by insecure men.
Ya unfortunately they don't want to understand the contribution of their abandoned to dysfunctional families and emotional damage to the mothers and their kids. It's a never ending circle, most women are destroyed by the behavior of these men who usually date them while the are still young some even get pregnant while they are teenagers. They then have the guts to compare a person who's parents were all present in their upbringing to the women they abandoned, i don't understand how they fail to see that they are the main contributors to the failure of black families because they are refusing to be present fathers.
I have no respect for any parent that doesn't take care of their children. A parents job is never done it's a lifetime commitment. Brian McKnight is going out sad, and there is no excuse he can make to justify him abandoning his children. He's a Narcissist at it's finest, and his children deserve better. 💯
I definitely agree it’s lifetime agreement
Neither do I. I have no respect in general for any person who doesnt raise the kids they made especially not when its people who are rich af and have the privilege to make as much time for their kids as they possibly can. Literally choosing to be shitty parent when you have all the ressources to be the best parent in the world
His kids are Grown Ass men in their 30s!!! These aren’t little kids, these are grown Men!!
@@marktaylor4977 Right. I hate how he humiliates them, and blames them for him being a absent father. It's fine that he takes care of his step kids, but he needs to be there for his biological kids too. It's not like he has any obstacles in his way that prevents that. He needs to take some accountability for his actions. 💯
Yeah, he is a narcissist
So, he thought his daughter was being molested and he let it go because her mother blocked him?
What kinda sense does that make as a parent?
This man is toxic. He doesn't seem like a healthy person to be around. Yes, he has money, and maybe his kids want some of it, but what they need to do is grow up and forget about their Dad and set about creating their own lives.
I think one of his sons has kids
YOU dont KNOW him, and he doesn't know YOU...seems like hes very HEALTHY with his new family 😌
@CJ Joseph The way he speaks about his previous relationships both with his ex-wife and kids says everythingthing i need to know.
@@ERROR_SCAMLIKELY the same thing goes for your observation..
@@TR-im2bs observation?! 🧐🤔 its CLEARLY FACTS, his family is backing everything he said 🥱😴🤡
Mark my words, this will not end well for Brian.
Baby that preference is going to use the court system to wipe him out, give it about 10-20 years
Them being in their 20’s and 30’s doesn’t mean that they don’t need their parents. I am 32 and both of my parents are still active in my life. The magnitude of their activity has changed but they’re still there. This is truly sad.
I am in awe😮😮. How in the world can he justify dismissing his biological children for his step children. The fact that he put this in writing and verbally saying this, this is the lowest of the low. My entire perception of Brian has changed😢
There is two side to a story tho
@@kadeenhayles2170 I mean that true but I doubt the other side of the story can justify his actions
@@kadeenhayles2170 But the FACT of the matter is that no matter how you slice it this is ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE on Brian’s part❕🤦🏽♂️
Facts!
@@kadeenhayles2170 BM is attacking his kids online. Good Parents shield their kids from being attacked, instead it's their parent doing the attacking. Where is the love for the daughter he created while cheating on his 1st family.
Financial support has been a socially acceptable substitute for a father in children's lives and it's never been ok. Child support is not visitation, is not quality time, is not coming to events or occasions, is not being there when kids are sick, is not helping with homework or broken hearts, it's not setting a good example. I'm tired of society saying it's ok for men to be a paycheck and women to be everything.
It's become acceptable because people are just trying to preserve their sanity and peace of mind. You can't force a grown man to do what he doesn't want to do. He won't come & he won't participate no matter how much you beg, nag or guilt trip him. A lot of them don't even provide that financial support you speak of😢
Bingo! A check doesn't matter to a kid. Time, affection, and support are all that we want growing up. And it's not like they have to spend any money to spend time with us. Going to the park or playing in the front yard would be cherished. But they can't do that, then wonder why we resent them when we grow up. Those hurt little kids never go away. He's a clown like the majority of these other deadbeats that just throw money at their "problems," the only difference he had more money to throw.
Its seems certain men dont know how to multitask. Its either throw money at the kids but dont raise them at all, or dont raise them at all and also dont financially support them or live in the same home as them but dont be an active parent aka the "ask your mother" parent
@@omphilemoerane2569 I don't understand your point.
Very true about our community. Paying child support is NOT being a father. This man is filth for what he did to his daughter and she should sue his a- again for defamation.
We also have to fix our definitions of parenting, buying them things isn’t parenting. You have to be there.
PARENTING = Be present & & & make provisions
Yes! I think you need to take some responsibility if he thinks they're spoiled and ungrateful.
Only deadbeat parents with money think paying child support = parenting. The rest of us know that there is soooooo much more to raising a child well.
I am 53 years of age and had been a Brian McNight fan since 1990 up until the day that I saw this! He is shameful! All I heard was what money he gave his children & nothing else. I am so glad his children have taken the high road unlike himself acting like a fn kid! The reason why he even have the current wife today is because of his status & money. Regardless of what he has gone through with his children, he should've never went public with his spiteful intentions against them! It doesn't matter how old they are! Young adult children go through various phases in their life. I know because I have 3 of them. Of Course it's difficult! & Yes! They are difficult to deal with! You be by their side through thick and thin because you are their father & you're suppose to love them! This is just so sick on so many levels. I'm done.
Wow!! All his music is coming off of my playlist! 50 cent jr.
I’m 30 years old and my mother STILL helps not just myself but my siblings IF we are in need, he sounds so stupid.
Facts both my parents and I have kid they always volunteer too help 😂 but I’m grateful for them cause we could have Brian McKnight as parents 🥴
@@tommesiacooper1258 Absolutely, it’s so sick how off people moral compass is.
it's wild. The concept people have that once your children hit 18 they're adults and your job is done is INSANE. People need help their entire lives! lol. the parents help the children, the children help the parents. i don't understand how he doesn't get this?!
@@stringybeanss exactly!
Right
I have LOST ALL RESPECT for Brian McKnight!!!😡😡
Me too
ALL!
Let’s judge his talent and not his personal life! His kids are ungrateful and jealous that he’s spoiling the new kids they had they turn
Same!!
@@jamesgunz5970 how much is he paying you?
His wife and step- kids are all garbage 🗑 too for condoning Brian McKnight’s behavior. How do they stand by and think he’s acting right 🧐
Her kids dad has nothing to do with them…she protecting her kids money 🙄 Brian gone loose it all dealing with her.
Yes exactly.
@@tommesiacooper1258How you know this?
Because they are benefitting from his trash behavior.
Their the ones truly using him. You can’t treat people bad on my account and I go with it it make equally as wrong as you are.
As someone who had a chance to hang out with his sons and him back in the day… this just breaks my heart to see all of this unfold.
Def has narcissistic vibes. But not surprised after what he did to my friend who was opening for him for a show back in the day where I was singing back up.
I resonate with his daughter’s pain too…
👀
What did he do? (if you don't mind me asking)
What did he do??? Don't do that. Tell the story.
Wow this was a BIG shocker! How does someone treat their own kids like that? What in the narcissism?
His whole conversation was about money. Nothing about love. Nothing about repairing the family as the head of it. This has A-hole written all over it. He has conditions with his love. What woman will stand by a man who denies his children?
Some women don’t care, as long as they’re benefiting. It’s interesting, how he’s taking jabs at the biologicals, while publicly love bombing the step children with gifts. Are the steps not adults?
When you go to court do people argue about love or money?
Well money is the reason the new wife is with him, her and her kids benefit from it, let that money run out and see if the Mrs. sticks around!
My wife's father did the SAME exact thing as Brian. My wife is the only BIOLOGICAL child that he had with his ex-wife (my wife's mother), whom he was married to for over 20 years.
His new wife has four kids which he claims as his own and completely never claims my wife. However, my wife and I have been married for 10 years and have two beautiful boys.
Recently, he has come crawling back to my wife, because he wants a relationship with his grandchildren. Now he is going through a depression episode because he chose to make his bed and lay in it. 🤷🏾♂️
It's time for him to lay in his depressed bed 😢
"It be that way sometimes." 🤷🏾♀️
Don't let him near those kids! He doesn't need to harm them. He's not the kind of man they need as an example anyway!
Beyond pathetic. Absolutely not.
Continue to not let him be near your love ones without supervision. Blessings to y’all.
Extremely disgusting behavior. Not surprised though 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Not surprised at all smh
I am very surprised , I thought he was a good guy!? Why isn’t this surprising to y’all?
@@cocokholl7005
He’s Steve Harvey 2.0
@@cocokholl7005How is he NOT a GOOD guy?! 🤔🤨🧐
@@ERROR_SCAMLIKELY ?
My biological father is the same as Brian. I grew up thinking that my step father was my real dad. Him and my mom died when I was 8 years old. Meanwhile my biological father knew he was my dad and kept raving about this to my adoptive family at taverns. These narcissistic fathers are cruel to say the least. His dysfunction is horrible and i relate with this.
I remember meeting him. I was a freshman in college working at Courtyard Marriott. It was just a small college town but Brian did a concert in the city. I was working night audit so I saw him and his crew check in during the beginning of my shift. Imagine being a vocal music performance major & singing all your life and Brian McKnight walks into your job. I couldn’t believe it. They of course went straight up to their rooms. When it was time for breakfast, his entire crew came down for breakfast. I heard them joking about how he’d never come down to a lobby to eat with them. So, me being me, I prepared a tray of food with fruit, tea, water and juice and took it to his room. When he opened the door, I simply said good morning and that I brought breakfast to him. He scoffed and slammed that door in my face. I felt TERRIBLE and couldn’t believe he would do that. I mean, I wasn’t just staff, I was just a kid. I wasn’t asking him for an autograph, a picture or trying to sing for him. I’d been around so many celebrities but that point that I wasn’t some crazed fan. I just wanted to show him some hospitality. From that day on, I never liked him and I understood why his crew mocked him the way they did. His reputation has never been one of kindness or humility (check out Jamie Foxx’s interview on R&B Money). I’m further disgusted by his treatment of his children. Also, I find it so strange that while we are at this amazing place in the BC where we are finally able to build generational wealth, most bm celebrities don’t understand what that means. Y’all can’t take the money with y’all. And as far as wanting your sons to grow up and be men, did you teach them what that means? How could he have? He clearly is missing what manhood and fatherhood is within himself. It sounds like his sons have figured out a lot more about this life than he has and he will reap what he sows. And just for giggles, I couldn’t help but wonder if his preference wife and step kids are playing him and will leave him high and dry in the end. Now wouldn’t that be something? Lol
In any event, I pray his children are able to find healing and peace. I hope they feel the love and support from so many around the world. I know it’s not their father’s love, but some of us are better off without it.
You took it upon yourself to go knock on the door of a guest who you wanted to meet? I bet he had the “Do not disturb“ on display too. He could’ve been nicer though.
@@Starz69 Lol no. You obviously don’t understand the hospitality industry. We do things all the time to enhance guests’ experiences. I didn’t want to meet him. I’m literally the niece of Motown royalty and spent my entire life around celebrities and 95% of them are nothing special 😂😂😂😂 He ain’t no Luther Vandross 💯💯💯
I did it bc it was a nice thing to do. It wasn’t even that serious. I’ve helped guests set up rooms for their significant others, washed and ironed stained pants overnight, put a Pepsi in a guests room bc I know it’s their favorite before they arrived, all sorts of nice gestures. It’s just taking care of someone and being nice. Everybody isn’t drunk over fame. Some people are just genuinely nice. Sorry you don’t experience that much. That sucks 🤷🏽♀️
@@Starz69 And yea, I couldn’t believe he was there bc it was just this random small town. Like, wtf is he doing here type of moment. I wasn’t being all weird asking for an autograph, photo, screaming or anything. It was just random so I was shocked.
@@ljackson24that's horrible that he did that. But I definitely wouldn't have knocked on his door without being told or asked to.
@@ljackson24this is why they say "never meet your heros".
They'll disappoint you Everytime.
His lack of self awareness is terrifying! Not him doubling down on his mess!? Plus him equating giving money to 'being there' is sad. You have to be emotionally available sir! You can cut them off financially while STILL being THEIR FATHER and a grandfather to their children. What he did to Brianna is simply disgusting. Absolutely gross!
I don’t like to use to use the term narcissist as I think it’s overused by people, but this man is giving me strong narcissist vibes.
That's because he is a textbook narcissist. His current family is his "supply".🤷
Yup and if the current wife does anything he doesn’t like her children will be discarded too. No more ig post with long captions, no more gifts, no more #girldad.
@@fhxs That part!
He's giving abuser vibes as well. People are saying in the comments that he'd been seen abusing his first wife in public. He has an evil soul, and I hope all his wealth dries up. We'll see if that woman and kids stay his legacy after that.
Many narcs walk amongst us. Don't believe the stats. Narcs aren't exactly running to get diagnosed so how do they know how much of the population are. Besides if you do the math of the percentage they say it's still a lot given the amount of people in the world.
This is disturbing, but it’s very telling that he is so comfortable putting defaming information out about his daughter, it goes to show he didn’t want to protect her. What kind of father does that? He could have just left that out of the public eye regardless if it was true or not. So disloyal!
And if it's true it means she was SAed as a minor and he showed zero empathy for her and what she might have been through? How can he defend his behavior with a straight face regardless if he thought the story was true or not?
@@7Mushrooms7 He said it was an older relative not that the relative was an adult
@Young Ma.n it is still se xual as Sault even if it is between 2 minors.
@@sonyap8253 how? Incest is weird af but it ain’t assault unless one of them was forced which Brian never claimed. I guess y’all want his daughter to be a super victim so it makes him look worse. I don’t agree with him exposing that to the world by the way that’s fucked up.
@Young Ma.n a minor cannot give consent legally. Assault is ANY physical contact without consent. Which like I said, a minor cannot give. Stop fucking your lil cousins. Your arguing this is bout to make me call the cops. Pervert.
He has an attitude like "LOOK. Your moms made me take care of y'all, now I'm DONE taking care of y'all, now I can live life on MY terms and choose who I REALLY wanna be with and have a baby with a woman I TRULY want to have a child and a family with." I'm disgusted.
He's sick.
The fact you was comfortable putting out your daughter sexual experience says everything I need to know about this disgusting man! True or false what kinda of dad tries to humiliate there own child like this! She had every right to sue you as you made it very clear BRIAN that you do not love her or willing to protect her! This is not about money but maybe years of abandonment 😢
Dude is heartless
yea he is that's how you remove toxic people from your life, his daughter wanted the money so she got it didn't she?. i'm so proud of brian man amazing example of not letting your blood control your heart but doing what is right.
He publicly shamed his daughter and said she was having an incestuous relationship with her cousin! How is she only going after the money? He damaged her image @@DreamstaAnkleBreaker
@@PlantyOfBlessings lol is he lying? do condone this type of behavior?
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker if he was telling the truth about his daughter then why did he settle???
@@PrettyBrownEyes91 bro you are a fine example of folks that don't listen. he never said he lied nor did he have to take down that post. she agreed to the money because that's all she wanted she don't care that he never recanted nor saying he lied about it.
He abandoned those kids and it’s so disgusting how he talks about his children. I wish those children nothing but success, love and happiness
Brian McKnight is THE PERFECT EXAMPLE of why people NEED to STOP 🛑 🙅🏽♂️ IDOLizing artists❕He has the voice of an angel 😇 but he’s also got some trifling azz toxic traits and character flaws, and let’s just say that he’s not winning any Father of The Year 🏆awards “🎶Anytime” soon. 🥴🤷🏽♂️😩🤭
Best comment of the year🎉
@@DeeVine999 Thanks. 😌🤪
did he abandon his kids? No!! he raised them into men and women. they grown so he let them be in order to have peace in his life bravo
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker You don’t have a right to ABANDON your children. Anybody who feels that way SHOULD NEVER have kids❕And what exactly is the justification for Brian doing this? 🤷🏽♂️
@@Forever20young what kids???...... i see grown folk!! what kids???
I couldn’t finish watch this. This man’s inner demons disturbed my inner peace. I’ll never look at him the same, and I mean that.
“Ive never been a deadbeat dad… I’ve never missed a day of child support.”
Wow… just wow
I'm still amazed that this man is speaking about his daughter this way she more than likely was abused or he could have lied I don't know but the fact that she was underage when this situation happened and he has no empathy for her. Is disgusting
That tells me everything I need to know. Even if the story he told was true it was not his place to tell it to the public and he told it with absolute no empathy or acknowledgement that she was a child!
He is a sick son of a biiii
@@7Mushrooms7 what worse that he emphasized that she was underage and the guy was over the age of 18 😢
As a girl who was abandoned by her father, Brianna’s message hit hard 💔 they deserve so much better
@Day 💔
Why didn't he love you? 🤣
Me too. I was holding back tears.
SHE WAS PROBABLY THE DADS FAVOURITE BUT SHE SIDES WITH MOTHER TO HURT BRIAN. I KNOW HOW SELF RIGHTEOUS BIRTHING HUMANS CAN BE
I’m starting to see Brian McKnight Sr. for who he really is. At this point, Brian’s biological children should just move on and let Brian be with his so called new family if that’s how Brian wants to behave and move. What Brian has done to his biological children is beyond messed up and he’s gonna reap what he sow. I understand cutting them off financially because they’re now grown but to behave in a cruel manner by not acknowledging all his children and announcing that they’re cut out of the will is beyond tacky like he’s trying to really hurt them more but really it’s just showing his true nature. He’s gonna need them one day at some point. Alexa, play Alicia Keys Karma.
"I never even liked anyone before I met her" is not even a flex on his wife's part. If your partner has "never liked" anyone, a man that has parents, maybe siblings, cousins, an ex-wife, and children, then they are a whole Soviet Union of red flags. Best believe when he's not on good terms with you, he will treat you as meaningless to him. That was very clearly aimed at his past. He emphasised it a bit too much
Exactly
Periodt
Then he went out his way as usual to try to trash,hurt those whom have been in his life like his ex wife.This man had the Herve to say he did not love her,she git pregnant an did not want her to have the baby ,she did anyway and he married her.Again it was to take digs at her ,his oldest namesake Brian Jr.Then add to prove this he had a affair on her leading go the birth of his oldest daughter ,so if he did not want any kids why would he risk having one by who he called a groupie .Again he was blaming her also, and that child by acting like she did not exist,saying vile things about his daughter to hurt her.Then have his youngest daughter doing the same behavior of acting like she did not exist,doing the same to his grandkids by Jr.This msn has proven time and again who he is ,even in his postings .
He had four kids with 3 other women before his current wife. So in short he has no problem putting his dingdong inside women he don't even like.....he's garbage. I was a big fan. Have gone to two concerts and bought his CDs back in the days.
The fact that this man only listed the materialistic things he’s done for his children is outrageous! He is canceled!!! Just because your kids are grown, does not mean you stop being a parent Brian! I’m confident karma will get the best of him though, and I pray his children find peace.
Julie McKnight has a memoir coming out called, "Mamabear!" I'm here for it!
Wishing this family healing. All of this sounds toxic and heartbreaking.
best comment on here so far hands down!!!, brian is now a black man with an asian family so he's not hurting from all this at all. 3 of his kids u think he's not hurt.
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker he wanted his children to be independent and have them move out so he can enjoy his new marriage and they disrespected and crossed every boundary to a point of nailing his marriage pictures (vandalism). He's hurt and responding in a point that will only devestate their entire life including their identity. Making sure that he destroy everything including the ex wife who might be a muster mind of this kids misbehaver because of jealous. Everyone is hurt. But God love is beyond all this drama. Wishing them true healing
I would never as a parent respond to my children on social media. Never! He refers to them as ‘those kids’. If you don’t want to be a father to them, cool but don’t hurt them in the process. It’s going to be a sad day when those same beloved step kids turn on him.
BM is the type of person to put a hit in someone but tries his hardest to play nice guy to the public.
I noticed that! He doesn’t say “my children” he called them “those kids” 😒 what a POS
Why are his step children going to turn on him? Do your research and you will be surprised to discover that a lot of step children are more loyal to their parents than the biological ones.
A lot of public entertainers and people who love attention are con artists
@@UnpopularAdvisor true
If y’all watch interviews with Chris Watts (murdered his daughters and ex wife to be with his new girlfriend) he would refer to his daughters as “the kids.” It’s a way of dissociating and avoiding guilt.
He is a villain and his wife is a villain too. His wife doesnt care about whats going on nor his character. Shes in it for her own selfish gain. Karma is REAL and will hit them both hard. What goes around, comes right back around 🤷🏾♀️
nah that's a blessing, yea you a villain in this world when you do something right. but what if those greedy @s kids had set him up and killed him for his money then what would people say? ya'll mad cuz he with a asian woman. miss me with the bs
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker ......are you done with your tantrum or do you need to get more off of your chest? You choose 🙃
@GamingWithChipmunks NutzIncluded so you just going around trolling huh 🤔 you have the same response for EVERY comment 🙄 go pick ya nose Goober 🤨
@@VirgoShxt they are clearly a delusional troll, let them stay in their sad delusion 🤣
@GamingWithChipmunks you've been throwing tantrums under virtually every comment. You ok boo? Who are you trying to convince, yourself or us? Find something to do and pick up a therapist along the way.
Julie McKnight is one of the most sweetest people on the earth. The fact that he cheated on her while married to her & got a woman (Briana’s Mother) pregnant and raised Briana as if it was her own shows just how graceful she is. Not to mention she’s SDA. Brian has been a well known abuser even before he was famous… it just shined a light on his abuse
Brian is no different then Steve Harvey.... they want to show their current wives that their kids come first because the current wife does....
He's the definition of a narcissist...wow! He's disgusting and scary. Like he sees nothing wrong with what he's doing. I hope his precious Lalani dogs him out and takes him for what he's worth! It's pure evil what he's doing!
Yes, he is a total narcissist
Yea he's a narc
Brian McKnight needs to understand that he can’t deny DNA.
yes you can it ain't just about blood. it's about principle and standards, those kids needs to humble themselves and see what he did for them to make them strong
@@DreamstaAnkleBreakerwat he do? Traumatized them
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker what did he do?
@@DeeDiamond2981 grown men and woman ??? miss me with the bs. there are kids out there that are going through so much and i was one of those kids. these are spoiled brats that got what they deserved.
@@DreamstaAnkleBreaker Clearly. This man is torturing his children mentally
And he had enablers like u. DO BETTER
I was thinking, he sounds like a Gemini.
Googles “Brian McKnight’s birthday”
Result “June 5”
😭🤣🤣🤣
This is so sad. I would never listen to his music again .. these are your kids. 😢
He could have kept those empty words to himself! Bye 👋🏾 Brian
Wow disregard his black children for his new children SMH. Narcissistic at its finest.
Brian has always been unkind. He was just able to hide it for a very long time. I am happy his true character is finally getting exposed.
Sociopathic self said he had never even LIKED anyone before he met the current wife. That speaks for itself.
The songs that he wrote prior to meeting his current wife were his best music.
Omg 🥲 he is literally gaslighting his older children with these captions. I'm shocked smh, why does he still have a following smh 🤦
There is something wrong with Brian McKnight. I also question a woman that would be with a man that treats his children like that.
They think for them are special
She is marrying up and doing well by her current children
He’s a true narcissist and manipulator
And the fact he said “Those kids and I”
As the elders used to say, "There's no fool like an old fool." Brian McKnight is certainly proving that adage to be spot on.
He is a psychopath. He's smiling now but he will cry later.
A few things I took away from this whole messy situation is that not everyone with a child or children is a mother or a father, biologically or otherwise. A lot of people don’t really get how serious being responsible for an entire being is. And also everything is not for public consumption, some things should kept and dealt with properly and privately, regardless. I hate this type of nonsense.
This is sad, it's hard to even listen to him speak. He's destroying his own legacy with every word, regardless of the "he said, she said." Heartless.
All of this explains why he looks older than he actually is. He's not only a terrible father but a terrible person as well.
Omg 😱… I have no words
He said he doesn’t live in the past when referring to his children 😭… I didn’t know it was that easy to erase humans you created
I don’t think we should paint Brian as the only villain but his new wife too. Both are villains and we only focusing on one Brian. His new wife is a mom, I’m sure she should be encouraging Brian to try and build a relationship with his other kids but what does she do does the same as Brian. Both are villains. Imagine if this was Happening to her kids maybe Brian at some point will do the same. Good luck to her and villain husband opps both are villains
She is about her bag. She doesn't care about BK or his kids
@@kristiemao4275 that part. Self preservation
When he said all of his money will go to the newborn child, I called him a FOOL. Because that's exactly what his new wife wants. He better sleep with one eye open.
She was a single mom at that 🥴🤷🏾♀️
Exactly, how do you willingly get pregnant by a guy that does not take care of his own biological children. No good man does that.
If I was his new wife, I wouldn't be dazzled by the whole, "I never liked anyone until you." All that proves is that he was incapable of forming solid attachments with others. I mean, you didn’t like or love ANYONE? We all have loved someone at some point, so that indicates something deep and disturbing to me.
She doesn't care. It's all about the money for her.
Cuz once he get something whiter shes a goner
I grew up never having my father in my life, which hurts, but this seems even worse.
Having a father a horrible father is worse...trust me
It is worse.
A lot of guys do this, when they remarry their preference. I just don't think Brian McKnight is all there mentally. Some of the things posted online, he said, just aren't good things, to do or say to his ex wife or kids. It's just better to not say such things publicly as a celebrity, because it will make people dislike him and boycott his music. He's a good singer, and a handsome man, but that's pretty much it.
My father is a Gemini too and he did this to his grown kids. He basically ghosted us and is closer to his current wifes kids. I realize that I am grown but I still need a relationship with my dad. I can totally relate to what these kids are saying.
When a man gotta bring up their financial contribution to defend themselves or justify any wrong doing just know that’s all they gotta bring up to the table and they are guilty 100%
It pains me to say that I know what those kids are going through. I send them love, i hope they'll find a way to love themselves and move on. Toxic parents are real.
Brian is a textbook narcissist.
Yep
It's terrifying!
Facts
10:21 that comment about "he should've dropped your butt off at 18-20 years old" is horrible. We do this far too often in our community, which leaves many of our children unprepared. Wendy talks about this man for years bc he treated his first wife so horribly! His second wife is insane to marry a man with such a low moral compass
What community? You do realize black people hav many nationalities, cultures, and communities?
@Nedu Nedu Afrikan ppl globally. We are still one. If you don't know that, then oh well 🤷🏾♀️
My dad met him in the early 2000s, was so excited to meet him and Brian was extremely rude to him. My dad never looked at him the same again. Brian you are VERY rude!
He never liked anyone until he met his non black wife- a father of 4, ex husband, a son, maybe a brother, and of course HIMSELF smh. Now this woman is enjoying the pedestalizing when she should be taking notes of what he is capable of. Her and her child’s discard is inevitable but you can’t tell them that smh
That fall from grace for that new wife may be ROUGH, she's sitting back lavishing in the online praising he's doing, and don't know how this could actually turn out for her and her kids - it could get 100 times worse for her!
Just wait until she get the Cyn Santana treatment
@@brownsugako7772 It's called love bombing. As soon as she disagrees or is anti anything he says or does comes the discard. Narcissism 101. She'll see soon!
@@jzloveinfinite Oh I know, I was love bombed by about 3 men until I smartened up, all the I need talk to you all day regardless of what I got to do, I need to see you regardless of both of us having responsibilities, then it turns cold once you give in to the madness.... it's a whole mess !!
I won't be spending another penny to see this man perform
Please don’t
He's here in my country for mother's day show. Urgghh
He was supposed to come to Okinawa in February, before his wife gave birth and he ended up canceling I was happy he didn’t come lol.
That part. Imma delete any song that I have on my playlist.
Let the asian community aka is new familly to support him🙌
Parents/ older people within the family will do what they want and treat you how they want all while you’re a child, but when you get into adulthood, they try to place blame on you. Imagine being a grown ass man acting like this. It’s disgusting. This is new level of dead-beatery.
You are so right!! They are the ones who are supposed to be teaching us how handle bad things that may come up in our lives the right way. 😢
Exactly!!!
That baby may hold the key to his future heartache if he's not careful. Is he planning to throw this child out of the house once he turns 18? Probably not. This is so heartbreaking. As others have stated, you don't stop being a parent once the child turns 18 or 21!
BM will eat his words. Karma is a dish best served cold
It’s undeniable that he’s a super villain.
My dad does this same thing when he's in a new relationship. Whichever woman my dad is with, and if she has kids becomes the top priority - no one else matters. I haven't spoken to my dad in 7 years, and it hurts, but protecting my peace means more. I hope everything gets better for them, but kids of BM - as long as he thinks and feels like this it's not going to get better at all. Prayers!!!!
Same as mine. It’s like he divorces the wives together with the children. I have no relationship with him and don’t even bother.
Wow he’s a weirdo for sure! Can’t even separate the man from the music chi
Especially not after this whole "none of my old songs mean nothing " energy 😮
@@juicyparsons even the interviewer was like uhhh yeah ok lol
I am so disappointed in him. He is a manipulator and bad parent. I see him in a wholeness light.
Not surprised! 🤦🏾♀️
You can tell that there’s no love for his biological children, so sad