What Are You Really Worth? Hot Seat w/ David Shands Ep. 54

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024
  • In this episode, Dave talks with Abeyon, a 23-year-old who works 2 jobs while pursuing her entrepreneurial goal of being a media personality.
    The question is - does she know her worth?
    Dave tries to explain to her how valuable time is and how trading it for such low amounts of hourly pay is a move that could lead to a life a regret. Things take a wild turn when he offers her a job working with him if she will call and quit her current job on the spot!
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    In this episode, Dave talks with Abeyon, a 23-year-old who works 2 jobs while pursuing her entrepreneurial goal of being a media personality.
    The question is - does she know her worth?
    Dave tries to explain to her how valuable time is and how trading it for such low amounts of hourly pay is a move that could lead to a life a regret. Things take a wild turn when he offers her a job working with him if she will call and quit her current job on the spot!
    Leave your thoughts and impressions in the comments in real time as you watch the show and don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell icon to stay updated with our latest episodes!
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Комментарии • 286

  • @ourbeautifuljourney1
    @ourbeautifuljourney1 3 месяца назад +62

    19 mins in and I have tears in my eyes. Sitting at this desk understanding that I don’t know my worth, that’s the reason I’m settling for this $16.00 an hour.

    • @sistahinscrubs
      @sistahinscrubs 3 месяца назад +13

      The audacity for someone to still be paying $16/hr. It’s time girl. It’s time.

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад +5

      Thanks for supporting the channel.

    • @ourbeautifuljourney1
      @ourbeautifuljourney1 3 месяца назад +1

      @@sistahinscrubs heyyy thank you so much ❤️

    • @mr.charlieo
      @mr.charlieo 2 месяца назад +4

      So what you gonna do?

    • @ourbeautifuljourney1
      @ourbeautifuljourney1 2 месяца назад +7

      @@mr.charlieo leaving

  • @ganonmaster
    @ganonmaster 3 месяца назад +61

    She's hungry and thinks/learns fast! Very bright future for Abeyon - one of the best hot seats! Please document her progress or do another hot seat in 30 days!

  • @Caseythecoach
    @Caseythecoach 3 месяца назад +29

    Yoooo this wasn't a hot seat, it turned into a coaching session. Very powerful information on knowing your vaule.

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад +2

      Yup. Thanks for watching!

  • @heathermoore7259
    @heathermoore7259 3 месяца назад +32

    I'm 39 years old and this woke ME TF up today!! Know your worth and this has been on me heavy, I walked out on my job yesterday in Debt Negotiation Salesman!! I close 25 Deals on average a month and make $5500 the company makes 200K just off if my deals!! The mental stress and micromanaging was overwhelming!!! Sis tired 💯

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад +7

      So, what's next?

    • @heathermoore7259
      @heathermoore7259 3 месяца назад

      ​@@hotseatspMy Desires is the Solution to my problems!! I will serve others, and my motto: Make More, Give More!! This world lacks solutions!!

    • @JHardyFlighter
      @JHardyFlighter 2 месяца назад +2

      You’re whatever you put that incredible mind too now go and snatch your dreams and goals

    • @heathermoore7259
      @heathermoore7259 2 месяца назад +1

      @@JHardyFlighter Thank you for the encouragement 🤎

  • @anitradavis_
    @anitradavis_ 2 месяца назад +18

    She’s going to grow tremendously through this experience. I’m overjoyed for where she is going!

  • @erikaharris7499
    @erikaharris7499 3 месяца назад +27

    THAT PHONE CALL!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾☺️😍Must have been tough! But Nick was awesome too!!👏🏾

    • @kylindseyy
      @kylindseyy 2 месяца назад +1

      Nick was great!

    • @LoveEvelynMarie
      @LoveEvelynMarie 2 месяца назад +4

      And his response says something about her. I feel like she’ll do a great job in her position with David.

    • @thesrobinson848
      @thesrobinson848 2 месяца назад

      Shout out to Nick fr!!

  • @dawgfacesoldier
    @dawgfacesoldier 3 месяца назад +22

    Good that Nick congratulated her on her new job. There are still some people out there who want to see you succeed.

  • @sthomas6672
    @sthomas6672 3 месяца назад +17

    When David said, Your just doing anything you can do at the moment to get what you need right now... Yooooooo that hit me.... Back to the episode! 💯

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад +2

      lol.. Thanks for supporting!

    • @sthomas6672
      @sthomas6672 2 месяца назад +1

      @@hotseatsp thank you for the content!

  • @ganonmaster
    @ganonmaster 3 месяца назад +16

    She's understanding leverage at an early age. Most people go their whole career working/staying the same without understanding value and leverage they can create with it. Good for her.

  • @beyergrad
    @beyergrad 3 месяца назад +19

    She’s gonna be so big! I can already see it.

  • @ourbeautifuljourney1
    @ourbeautifuljourney1 3 месяца назад +23

    “Everyone sees your value except you”

  • @joemincer8882
    @joemincer8882 2 месяца назад +5

    David is amazeballlzz for changing her lense on life. I love how receptive she was to his leadership. He increased her confidence, assertiveness, and challenged her to think proactively. She'll not only scale their businesses, she'll teach others to do it!
    I love it.

  • @naturallyvae8669
    @naturallyvae8669 2 месяца назад +4

    I love how you showed her she wasn’t valuing herself by quantifying it and telling her. I pray she and I learn to go after what we’re worth.

  • @CreativeGeniusCo
    @CreativeGeniusCo 2 месяца назад +5

    One conversation with Dave just changed this girls whole life. That’s powerful. I want to have to have this kind of impact on people

  • @HomeGrownKicks
    @HomeGrownKicks 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm just like this young lady. For years, I've been told I have talent, and I know I have something, but I just never understood my value. I wasn't taught to. I'm a grown ass man tearing up. I know what it's like being taken advantage of and thinking you have no choice. I'm extremely glad this young woman found you. Thank you for what you're doing. I NEED and Absolutely will find a way to join the morning meet up. Thank you again.

  • @Woman_Up
    @Woman_Up 3 месяца назад +7

    Omg! This is my favourite Hot Seat episode!! ❤ I loved everything about it & I was on the edge of my seat, it was basically a coaching session! 🙌🏽 She’s amazing, not surprised you hired her. ❤ I also needed to hear that message for myself & will definitely listen to that again! 🎤💥

  • @handmadewithchristiwade9693
    @handmadewithchristiwade9693 3 месяца назад +10

    I enjoyed her hosting. She did so well...very bubbly and engaging.

  • @erikaharris7499
    @erikaharris7499 3 месяца назад +13

    $1500 is too much. What's another number?
    Me: $1499 🤭🤭🤭

  • @kimberlyjanelle719
    @kimberlyjanelle719 2 месяца назад +5

    Jesus…to have this opportunity at 23 for someone to solidify my worth!!!!
    She will NEVER be in this space again!!!

  • @thedirtybagpodcast
    @thedirtybagpodcast 3 месяца назад +16

    She does the HBCU buzz page? Giiiiiirrrrlll!!!

  • @DarrylMayes
    @DarrylMayes 2 месяца назад +2

    This was a great episode 🔥🔥 this was legit a coaching session

  • @ourbeautifuljourney1
    @ourbeautifuljourney1 3 месяца назад +10

    David is such a blessing 🥹

  • @JWinston
    @JWinston 3 месяца назад +6

    Wow… I’m about 10 mins in…. I just wanna give her a hug! She’s brilliant and has so much joy ❤

  • @CrystalCrawford-x5e
    @CrystalCrawford-x5e 2 месяца назад +3

    21:56.....TEARS! I'm so proud of her for knowing her worth and quitting.

  • @AVIsionMedia
    @AVIsionMedia 2 месяца назад +4

    SHANDS!!! This was ANOTHER DOPE episode!! You gave sooooo much game and she was soaking it up!! Good stuff‼️

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад +2

    We in class! Niece was confident in that "they'll invite their friends to come next year" answer. ❤️

  • @SolidTruth
    @SolidTruth 2 месяца назад +1

    This episode literally just brought tears to my eyes. As a 52 yr old entrepreneur, I realize the value of my time and I’m excited for her to this journey with Social proof Podcast. She will be an asset to the community. Let’s go! 🤑

  • @bohosoul13
    @bohosoul13 3 месяца назад +2

    She's a beautiful and bright young lady. David I love the work you're doing out here being a blessing to others and in our community. God bless!

  • @anjalilydia3134
    @anjalilydia3134 3 месяца назад +6

    Word to the Wise💫 just because someone makes you an offer, that doesn't mean that it's a good one. AND this man clearly said "I'm taking advantage of you." Believe the truth immediately. Something should go off in your head.
    ❔️how do you determine your value? What standards do you go based off of?

  • @carlahudson8979
    @carlahudson8979 2 месяца назад +1

    She is very open to learning!!! She is definitely going places. I'm do glad she is seeing her worth. Kudos to you David for giving her this opportunity.

  • @mjblessed9969
    @mjblessed9969 2 месяца назад +1

    This is my favorite Hot Seat by far!!

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    I love that she is open to growth and coaching. Grateful she is in loving hands. 🤗

  • @elleepiphany1
    @elleepiphany1 2 месяца назад +2

    I LOVE THIS EPISODE SO MUCH!!!! Dave is such a G for this. Super happy for Abeyon!

  • @samarriaken
    @samarriaken 2 месяца назад +2

    This has grown to be one of my favorite podcasts!! I’m telling everyone to listen in

  • @yeverett4533
    @yeverett4533 2 месяца назад

    I can't wait to see Abeyon's transformation. Her future is BRIGHT! 💡 Thank you David for seeing her value and how she is being taken advantage of on a one-way street. Although this opportunity is taking advantage of her, it will teach her how to value herself and not be afraid to ask for her worth.
    This was truly educational for young people especially. THANKS!!!☺

  • @RobWill5864
    @RobWill5864 2 месяца назад +2

    Love these intros! IMO these are much better than the hook clips that everybody and their mom uses. 😄👏🏾🎯

  • @CrownAdditions101
    @CrownAdditions101 2 месяца назад

    This wasn’t a hot seat this was a life changing blessing! Loved this

  • @mr.charlieo
    @mr.charlieo 2 месяца назад +2

    Bro you snapped on this one! Whole section for a Master Class

  • @lashedbylisa8192
    @lashedbylisa8192 3 месяца назад +3

    David you have done it again! This is another great episode!

  • @Christystcyrallen
    @Christystcyrallen 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m a David Shands stan! This guy is so cool. 😂

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    Oh wow Nick is being lovely and supporting her. 🎉🎉🎉 This makes my heart smile!❤❤❤

  • @sistahinscrubs
    @sistahinscrubs 3 месяца назад +11

    A scarcity desperate mindset will have you settling for any job with any pay. Y’all gotta come out of that.

  • @leasteed3572
    @leasteed3572 3 месяца назад +2

    I absolutely loved this episode!!! She was so open to learn!!! I learned so much from this as well.

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      Thank you. Glad that you learned something.

  • @TrunxKraft3000
    @TrunxKraft3000 2 месяца назад +1

    Make sure you’re being truly honest with yourself.
    Sometimes we have an unrealistic perception of what our worth is when it comes to our professions.
    Some of us NEED to work a job we don’t like, for a short season, to learn and build disciplines and long suffering.

  • @alexiswatson367
    @alexiswatson367 3 месяца назад +3

    Another amazing episode ❤ got me looking at myself in the mirror

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      This is good.. thanks for watching!

  • @sherrandaivey7980
    @sherrandaivey7980 3 месяца назад +3

    Congrats I saw her on the live hotseat on Friday, 7/19/24! She was hyped and energetic. Luv it Shands. You are a true businessman. You blessed the community.

  • @brushworkbysuziebougie
    @brushworkbysuziebougie 2 месяца назад

    I got chills and I want to cry. This is so amazing for her omg.

  • @BieEsh
    @BieEsh 2 месяца назад

    This is the best Hot Seat to date. It was an eye opener for Abeyon and all of the viewers!!! I am proud of you Abeyon for being so receptive to the knowledge that was given to you. It was amazing to see the growth throughout the conversation. Please keep us updated on your transformation :)

  • @TheShatteredMindset
    @TheShatteredMindset 2 месяца назад

    That was so awesome! You not only showed her to herself, but you also put your money where your mouth is in a big way. Loved it!

  • @britneyjeter3455
    @britneyjeter3455 Месяц назад

    Currently balling!! I love this for her! Self worth is so important. Knowing and expanding on that is PRICELESS!

  • @SxyL3xii973
    @SxyL3xii973 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm so proud of her! Blessing in disguise! Wishing her all the Best, is up from here!

  • @DerrickStricklandMinistries
    @DerrickStricklandMinistries 2 месяца назад

    I’m happy she part of the team already.. good job Dave

  • @StopWastingYourTimeDrMEMiller
    @StopWastingYourTimeDrMEMiller 3 месяца назад +1

    She is on FIRE and GIFTED with the SKILLS and PASSION!

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      yup.. Thanks for tuning in!

  • @thejessicassmith
    @thejessicassmith 2 месяца назад

    This is the BEST training! This is helping me so much

  • @TerahDaBarber
    @TerahDaBarber 3 месяца назад +2

    Salute to this young lady for stepping out on Faith….. she’s already amazing…..

  • @cashbaby24
    @cashbaby24 3 месяца назад +4

    Man after he said “im taking advantage of you” i would have started negotiating my pay!

  • @LoveEvelynMarie
    @LoveEvelynMarie 2 месяца назад

    I’m about halfway through, but I LOVE this episode! So many gems dropped. She was ready to learn. You could see the lightbulbs going off. And she’s only 23?! She’s about to be lit! I’m really rooting for her.

    • @LoveEvelynMarie
      @LoveEvelynMarie 2 месяца назад

      Not me about to cry 😂 This is a lesson in her knowing her worth (in business, but it will translate to her personal life) and being confident in her abilities that is happening in real time.

    • @LoveEvelynMarie
      @LoveEvelynMarie 2 месяца назад

      I pray that she grows in this position. I know she will end up being able to quit that second job soon.

    • @LoveEvelynMarie
      @LoveEvelynMarie 2 месяца назад

      Yes, update!!!

  • @PrettyMamas
    @PrettyMamas 9 дней назад

    Yesss 17:12 that’s the biggest problem in our community today people don’t know their worth & they just go by life fulfilling the needs in the moment I felt thattt

  • @moxyinc7740
    @moxyinc7740 2 месяца назад +1

    Powerful 🔥🔥🔥
    This young lady is going to be a superstar

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    Y'all making this switch up with the quickness! Goodness! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @watchm3makeit24.7
    @watchm3makeit24.7 2 месяца назад

    She made a great decision!! You are giving her great wisdom

  • @thesavvyaccountant
    @thesavvyaccountant 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg her work ethic is amazing bc the way he said what he said you can tell!

  • @erikaharris7499
    @erikaharris7499 3 месяца назад +1

    Very thought provoking conversation! David is making me think differently!!!!

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      lol.. That's the goal.. Thanks for watching

  • @LikeILoveMyself
    @LikeILoveMyself 2 месяца назад

    This WAS AN AMAZING EPISODE! DAVID SHANDS You are CHANGING LIVES (including mine). This video was on time for where I am now!

  • @ev_outlaw.writer
    @ev_outlaw.writer 2 месяца назад

    I know that was so scary for her to just quit that job. But I know she is excited and relieved. That's awesome. ❤

  • @CareerCoachTish
    @CareerCoachTish 3 месяца назад +1

    I really appreciate the Hot Seat. Thanks, Shands.

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank for for supporting!

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    She has a great positive outlook on life. ❤

  • @thesrobinson848
    @thesrobinson848 2 месяца назад +1

    You dropped some game on this episode

  • @BLACKSTEELENT38
    @BLACKSTEELENT38 2 месяца назад

    This was an amazing episode!!! Definitely an eye opener!

  • @monicahodgson2949
    @monicahodgson2949 2 месяца назад

    This was really cool!!! Loved it!!

  • @2steppin2Vegas
    @2steppin2Vegas 2 месяца назад

    She is worthy of a part 2 follow up!

  • @Mindfulbanterofficial
    @Mindfulbanterofficial 3 месяца назад

    Came here straight after the live with Jay. Great dialogue and growth ❤❤

  • @Itspossiblepodcast1
    @Itspossiblepodcast1 2 месяца назад

    Call them right now. I feel like saying this to somebody. This is power right there.

  • @MyTrueOrigin
    @MyTrueOrigin 2 месяца назад

    My favorite episode thus far 🎉

  • @ronmanthechozen1611
    @ronmanthechozen1611 2 месяца назад

    I'm crying 😢 😭 she didn't get it everytime he said I'm taking advantage of you and he was looking for her to say "MY WORTH" IS so much more !

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    Aww her eyebrows squinched when she said "yes I know my value". 🤗 I wanna give niece a hug.

  • @saleadean93
    @saleadean93 3 месяца назад +1

    This is soooooooooooooooo Golden!

  • @vaughnbeckford6057
    @vaughnbeckford6057 2 месяца назад

    Best episode so far Sir Shands...she's gonna be a big deal in the future!

  • @brushworkbysuziebougie
    @brushworkbysuziebougie 2 месяца назад

    This was THE BEST HOT SEAT

  • @WinChampTV
    @WinChampTV 2 месяца назад

    I loved this whole episode!!! super dope!!

  • @GigiLee-p7f
    @GigiLee-p7f 2 месяца назад

    I am learning something. I am Taking notes.

  • @prettygirlprogression
    @prettygirlprogression 3 месяца назад

    I loved this episode 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾☺️☺️☺️ thank you for the one week update.

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      You are welcome... Thanks for your support!

  • @andreastarks7
    @andreastarks7 2 месяца назад

    Very valuable episode!!! Thank you

  • @AlchemyGuy3
    @AlchemyGuy3 2 месяца назад

    This content is so elite.

  • @THEVCM23
    @THEVCM23 2 месяца назад

    Nice 1 week update too! ❤

  • @Mindfulbanterofficial
    @Mindfulbanterofficial 2 месяца назад +1

    When she called I felt so happy ❤🎉🎉🎉.

  • @outhouseministries1718
    @outhouseministries1718 3 месяца назад

    I feel like this is the best episode ever

    • @hotseatsp
      @hotseatsp  3 месяца назад

      Awesome! Thank you for tuning in.

  • @marcelrandall584
    @marcelrandall584 3 месяца назад +1

    Love this for her!

  • @COACHADTV
    @COACHADTV 3 месяца назад +1

    Love this‼️‼️‼️

  • @The-Alexislewis
    @The-Alexislewis 2 месяца назад

    Let goo babyyy !! Love you abeyon 🎉❤

  • @jamalrobinson2704
    @jamalrobinson2704 Месяц назад

    Man, David is a good brotha. She's about to take off!!!

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 2 месяца назад

    Soooooo dope! Just amazing.

  • @panthony9990
    @panthony9990 2 месяца назад

    The best episode!!

  • @shameccafreeman
    @shameccafreeman 3 месяца назад +1

    Awww, happy for her!!

  • @ighomesrepair
    @ighomesrepair 3 месяца назад +1

    This is one of the best ones!!! Dave you are a role model

  • @danielleb1223
    @danielleb1223 3 месяца назад +1

    This was great!

  • @THEATLFLIPPERS
    @THEATLFLIPPERS 3 месяца назад

    Great interview David!

  • @TommieBrwn
    @TommieBrwn 3 месяца назад +2

    SOAR ROAR

  • @andalus1229
    @andalus1229 3 месяца назад +1

    That's called community!!!

  • @prettygirlprogression
    @prettygirlprogression 3 месяца назад

    Immediately I loved her eye contact 2 minutes into the conversation