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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

Комментарии • 67

  • @KaySaOnline
    @KaySaOnline Год назад +17

    I think people need to live with more depth. So many people are wrapped up with surface level understanding of things it perpetuates internal degradation. I like how this man is capable of reflecting and thinking through his own identity as a man.

  • @hughlowe4431
    @hughlowe4431 Год назад +9

    This is the real , genuine message that every man needs to hear

  • @zamikhayajonas
    @zamikhayajonas 3 месяца назад +1

    Nation need this massage

  • @odette.p.shongwe8408
    @odette.p.shongwe8408 Год назад +2

    Food of the soul.we give thanks Abba❤.

  • @amolemomhlauli1773
    @amolemomhlauli1773 Год назад +5

    How I wish this platform could bowl up....Our brothers need to hear this.
    Thank you, ABBA,for the teachings 😊😊

  • @eyenavy1711
    @eyenavy1711 Год назад +1

    this podcast needs more recognition

  • @DingiNqaba
    @DingiNqaba Год назад +4

    Very deep, people do not understand why I want to go back to the EC and be closer to my kids

  • @cathrinenzimande8906
    @cathrinenzimande8906 Год назад +4

    Beautiful message, we need more men like you. Priests and fathers of the home.

  • @alwandekhumalo174
    @alwandekhumalo174 Год назад +5

    This guy is the best

  • @younesr2183
    @younesr2183 Год назад +2

    We miss the foundation that's why we keep falling. Great message, thank you and peace

  • @Balance-222
    @Balance-222 Год назад +21

    Heavy stuff you talking about there ABBA. The way I see it ,we sometimes expect the impossible from our kings we are busy turning them into living corpses,they can hardly breathe. They are not even allowed to express their emotions without being shamed about it. You see these monsters whom are devouring us right now they were created by all of us unfortunately, we have wounded our devine masculine and denied him his femininity which allows him to feel an express all that he wants to express. After all those repressed feelings, emotions,as well his playful nature he becomes a monster. Before we judge men about all his failures to become indoda , let first take responsibility for the part we have played in turning him the way that he is today . One love my people ❤

  • @sihart
    @sihart Год назад +1

    Great teaching high priest. Thankyou very much for the enlightenment. Uyasivuselela🔥

  • @mxcury3472
    @mxcury3472 Год назад +1

    Masibuyele ebu dodeni ❤ i love this thought provoking conversations we need

  • @masemolampho7564
    @masemolampho7564 Год назад +1

    Thanks Abba I been looking for this episode

  • @matondoalexandre
    @matondoalexandre 2 месяца назад

    this is the time that i need to learn some zulu so i can get the full message!
    Blessing to you!

  • @buntun3670
    @buntun3670 Год назад +2

    Give thanks Abba - here is my little unpopular opinion(borrowed really). I agree 100% ubudoda is communal, it starts from within but confirmed by our actions and in how we manage our environment as PEOPLE. Its a pitty we have the expected group(males) not living up to this as leaders of households.
    I stick to leadership and households because therein lies the issue, we no longer have households led by amadoda, we have deregulated society and a deregulated consumer lifestyle where even sex is a commodity. And its getting cheaper and cheaper by the day. It used to cost the commitment of marriage but now it costs close to nothing as you point it out. Men and women think they are outsmarting each other in this trade but really they are fooling themselves.
    NB: The West is in a difficult time where they no longer have "men and women" defined by what'd between your legs.

  • @kappawam
    @kappawam 5 месяцев назад

    Profound information for the current shape of society.

  • @katlegomothwa49
    @katlegomothwa49 Год назад

    Abba , thank you very much

  • @MarksmanKnowsIt
    @MarksmanKnowsIt 5 месяцев назад

    Deep and well-articulated message.

  • @primorantso7128
    @primorantso7128 Год назад +9

    The Man or Woman in the mirror knows only Truth. Therefore, one cannot claim to be iNdoda by any physical attributes. Likewise with A Woman.
    Bua Monna

  • @Fezile580
    @Fezile580 Год назад +1

    I like your analysis of things bhuti wam.

  • @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo
    @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo Год назад

    👏 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I am so happy you get to use this platform this way, as it will allow you to reduce your injections when having a guest. preach Leader❤

  • @MandlaBonene-ov4tg
    @MandlaBonene-ov4tg Год назад

    Give thanks for your Enligthment.

  • @zamikhayajonas
    @zamikhayajonas 3 месяца назад

    Keep educating our brothers they forgot it what it mean

  • @Nawal_SA
    @Nawal_SA 4 месяца назад

    Ndavela nda like before watching❤🎉

  • @nyashamahleko7007
    @nyashamahleko7007 Год назад

    This was Deep my Brother. Even me i have Self-reflect on me

  • @awomanmadeyou
    @awomanmadeyou Год назад

    Abba the conversation as usual has only just begun...

  • @tsebolator777
    @tsebolator777 Год назад

    Respect to brotherman u always drops teachings every aiwa siter di show I gain knowledge

  • @bbygzas7990
    @bbygzas7990 Год назад

    As always....much more love than much love......respect. 😢😢😢

  • @Tefl-Tesol-teacher
    @Tefl-Tesol-teacher Год назад

    Great one Abba, keep doing the great work ❤❤❤

  • @KhweziNombembe
    @KhweziNombembe Год назад

    Beautiful message makwande

  • @uchihagamer.4867
    @uchihagamer.4867 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen❤

  • @snapper2186
    @snapper2186 2 дня назад

    I totally agree.

  • @tumishangwina848
    @tumishangwina848 Год назад +1

    Can we please get more information on this topic, especially on relationships. I am a teenager going into my adolescent era, and I am being exposed a lot with what you stated, even more. And my gut feeling always feels weird when I encounter these situations, especially when it comes to a man having a high number of woman, etc. Because that's not me as a person. I would really appreciate it if you'd touch on the topic of relationships and how we are supposed to treat each other, the native African way from the male's perspective and the female's perspective. I'd really appreciate it if you do touch on it.

  • @africanliberationstationwi2594

    Greetings My brother. I agree with you 💯 💯💯

  • @thekword5885
    @thekword5885 Год назад +3

    He needs to have a show discussing the mind and semen ejaculation connection.

  • @9twelve
    @9twelve Год назад +1

    we said✊🏽

  • @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris
    @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris Год назад

    Preach 🙌🏾

  • @sibusisomotha7145
    @sibusisomotha7145 Год назад

    May we please get on episode talking and explaining about izithunywa zikamenzi🙏🏽 Give thanks

  • @hlogingwenyama8860
    @hlogingwenyama8860 Год назад

    More videos like this specifically for teenage boys please

  • @tulininefor
    @tulininefor Год назад

    felt like you dropped it too soon....we need more of this I!

  • @100KMKHULUNTSHEBE
    @100KMKHULUNTSHEBE Месяц назад

    Can you please talk about isiphiwo / talent

  • @OwethuIDyan-ht5ic
    @OwethuIDyan-ht5ic 3 месяца назад

    🙏🙏

  • @lehlohonolomogadime6161
    @lehlohonolomogadime6161 4 месяца назад

    🖤

  • @masixolemphati408
    @masixolemphati408 8 месяцев назад

    So should i as indoda make the effort to go back to a father that did not raise me, its personal but its a genuine question?

  • @isaacmayieka8758
    @isaacmayieka8758 Год назад +1

    give thanks . wish words indeed .a people without there history and culture is like a dead community

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Truly_Unbreakable
    @Truly_Unbreakable 10 месяцев назад

    Those are the same principles of a man.

  • @leratomonegi3337
    @leratomonegi3337 Год назад

    🙌

  • @thewolfshowZA
    @thewolfshowZA Год назад

    Monna le Ndoda or Indoda, not the same. Nna ke monna cause I have learned.

  • @darianclery4455
    @darianclery4455 Год назад

    Ok yes

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Год назад

    What is your opinion on the sudden surge of men claiming to be polygamists as a way to disguise promiscuous behavior?

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Год назад +2

      Hi Lerato, you want to miss the next Episode. We feel you will have some thoughts to share afterwards. Thank you for watching as always 🌍🤎

  • @El_royDlamini
    @El_royDlamini 9 месяцев назад

    😂😂😂it's always Dlamini what did I do every topic is Dlamini

  • @GSMMbizana
    @GSMMbizana Год назад

    🕯️🥋

  • @thaboshikwambane
    @thaboshikwambane 3 месяца назад

    Athi joligamy 😂😂

  • @shaunwordplay3111
    @shaunwordplay3111 Год назад

    I love this. Lol why did you have to say uDlamini. Anyway women are born women, men become men but unfortunately not all men become this.

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 Год назад

    Re nna monna when the concept was destroyed. Secondly the concept has been sold that a man is just a provider due to his economic availability. Thirdly it's his sexual standing. We must go back to the Ntu and redescover the meaning to what it means to be a men. Finally let me say this the concept of a man has been dictated by women whom themselves do not know keng monna. Pula

  • @RainEmpress888
    @RainEmpress888 Год назад

    I've heard someone say "a re sana bo Ntate, ke banna fela...ba nna" basically translating to everything you are speaking to in this video. Men are really sleeping on themselves therefore sleeping on us as women and daughters. Go senyegile ka nnete

  • @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i
    @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i Год назад

    Wena TshayiNgwe kudala ndiyilindele lencoko and andikayimameli yonke

  • @ngakabulelani2682
    @ngakabulelani2682 9 месяцев назад

    Camagu

  • @brownzhou1636
    @brownzhou1636 Год назад

    Sbonge ayah

  • @thelionofjudahfakenews9456
    @thelionofjudahfakenews9456 Год назад +2

    Am a from the Caribbean i dont understand the African language parts..wish i good get a translation r a sid of wall u all saying.. respect to the Chanel

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Год назад

      Thank you for taking your time and watching. We are working on adding subtitles on episodes more consistently. We hope to have funds to get someone to do these full-time, we will get there soon.