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  • Опубликовано: 3 май 2023
  • Yeah you don’t ignore your “best friend” when their mom is in the ICU just bc you had a “bad day”

Комментарии • 45

  • @allxii.17
    @allxii.17  Год назад +85

    Guys please read the description or my responses to comments...I'm not a horrible person I swear
    It’s been more than 5 days now and she still hasn’t said anything besides play the victim card 💃

    • @dark_Angel-69
      @dark_Angel-69 Год назад +9

      That's just wrong 😕

    • @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes
      @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes Год назад +5

      @@dark_Angel-69 fr it’s rude

    • @-reah
      @-reah Год назад +6

      Damn
      I would be pissed too

    • @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes
      @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes Год назад +2

      @@_Taii_ Damn, are you okay now?

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад +3

      ​@♡ 𝒯𝒶𝒾 ♡ She did that to me as well. One time I was sitting next to one of her other friends and I could see she was active on Instagram through her friends phone (I have my activity turned off and me and her friend are close ish-) and I texted her before she did and she didn't even open my message until over a week later 💃

  • @deonvidw
    @deonvidw Год назад +61

    She shouldn't have ignored you for FIVE days.. That's such a long time.. You guys are best friends, and best friends are friends who comfort the other when one needs them..

  • @cornwrench
    @cornwrench Год назад +38

    she shouldve responded, yes, but pls dont downplay someone else's mental health:( idk what her situation is but personally with I said I have a bad day, I mean I've been, crying, sobbing, on the floor trying to gather myself up to even breath
    I'm probably reading too much into it

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад +24

      My mom was in the ICU. That's what I was pissed about. Mental health is important but it's no excuse. We all have bad days, but she was downplaying MY feelings for hers. That's not fair. More happened than what I showed in the video. She had a week to talk to me but she never said a word to me until I confronted her and she blamed 1 bad day for 5 days of not talking to me at all. It's different then just "downplaying her mental health."
      I mean this in the nicest way possible, no disrespect. I'm just not going to downplay my mental health for someone who won't even talk to me one on one

    • @cornwrench
      @cornwrench Год назад +17

      @@allxii.17 oh im so sorry! :( that's terrible of her, and honestly you deserve all the comfort and support in the world
      friends are meant to support each other and her not supporting you at your lowest really shows her character
      and the fact that she only responded when confronted means that she saw you messaged her, and chose not to respond

  • @ibukunowolabi3965
    @ibukunowolabi3965 Год назад +9

    This is Amazing!!

  • @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes
    @TLOUeditsandmoresometimes Год назад +4

    Fr tho- I get they have a life but they need to at least respond in the week some people can’t even do that

  • @isabellalipp2639
    @isabellalipp2639 Год назад +3

    LOVE ITTTTT

  • @kwithhh
    @kwithhh Год назад +9

    The way I was listening to this song when you posted this 😨

  • @asimpleperson2593
    @asimpleperson2593 Год назад +2

    It really cool

  • @kayyryLyna
    @kayyryLyna Год назад +1

    I've been friends with my friend for 8 years and we legit go more than 5 days without talking to eachother

    • @Love_Bug21
      @Love_Bug21 10 месяцев назад

      The people here even the creator are acting like the friend is the bad person
      Everyone has bad days and would want to take a break from social media but the creator is acting like she's the only one the world only revolves around herself.

    • @kayyryLyna
      @kayyryLyna 10 месяцев назад

      @@Love_Bug21 yh, up to now [which is 2 months] me and my friend haven't talked since June or July, I think, but we're still friends

  • @blank7572
    @blank7572 Год назад +1

    I'm also beinf ignored for days at a time rn
    By the same guy
    Who I said I was finished taking to

  • @keiraswrld
    @keiraswrld Год назад +1

    i hope the best for your mom, and that's terrible omg. take care of yourself!

  • @fightingknight2360
    @fightingknight2360 Год назад +1

    I’m sorry about your mother, Hon(/p). Do you want a hug? I can give you a virtual one!

  • @princessqueen6881
    @princessqueen6881 Год назад +1

    Now I would respond if your mom's in the Icu or if somethings wrong but you can be my best friend in the whole wide world and I still won't respond to anything thats not threat based
    But don't play the victim card if you are aware that your friend is going through something like what is wrong with you especially if there trying to reach out to you that's just cruelty.

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад

      I can't tell if this is target towards me or not. If you're saying IM playing the victim, I'm not. She never came to me for anything, I had to find out through other friends of hers. My mom was in there because she was at risk of death or permanent injury. I told her this and she ignored me. SHE played the victim card after I confronted her. I may seem like a heartless bitch, but I'm not. I understand she's going through things, but one bad day doesn't justify over 5 days of not speaking a single word to me. I gave her a chance many times before this event. I'm not that cold of a human being to undermine her feelings, but I'm not going to let her actions make mine seem so small when they're not

  • @-wandering.lost..
    @-wandering.lost.. Год назад +7

    I can understand 1 day, but 5? Rly?💀

    • @Love_Bug21
      @Love_Bug21 10 месяцев назад

      Are you serious? Everyone here is acting like people can take a five day break from social media
      The title should be changed the world doesn't revolve around me
      Since the creator is acting like the friend is horrible
      I had days off from social media and just doing art whenever I had panic attacks
      No one called me a bad friend

    • @-wandering.lost..
      @-wandering.lost.. 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Love_Bug21but not social media, a direct text. I understand things happen, but come on. Not responding for 5 days to one of your friends is a bit rude and can make it seem like they don't care enough to respond to you.

  • @nabilahhaurap.4451
    @nabilahhaurap.4451 Год назад +1

    Hi👋

  • @juniperye
    @juniperye Год назад +2

    Maybe she just had a bad day 🤷

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад

      Read the description to understand why I was pissed. I'm not that horrible of a person. People can have bad days, but what I needed her for was bigger than just a bad day. Plus it's been over 5 days now and still nothing about the event. Idc if it was a bad day, I needed my "best friend" and she wasn't there 🤷‍♀️

    • @juniperye
      @juniperye Год назад

      ​​@@allxii.17 you can't just force someone to hang out with you, everyone has a life Yk you can't control Ur bsf situation, if u want to vent to Ur bsf abt your mom going to the ICU consider thinking if she's comfortable

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад +1

      @@juniperye I never said once I wanted to hang out with her. I didn't want to hang out with anyone. I wanted my best friend to be there for me and act like she cared at all. She NEVER came to me about her situation, if she did I would've been there for her. Do you understand how serious the ICU is?? Clearly not bc it's not something to just brush off like dogs shit. You don't have to like this video, but at least have common decency to at least understand the situation fully.

    • @juniperye
      @juniperye Год назад

      @@allxii.17 that's what I meant you can force people to like you nor spend time with you i don't know what problems your in but hopefully it gets better but really you can force someone you care or not be with you all the time, idk people change

    • @allxii.17
      @allxii.17  Год назад +4

      @@juniperye I don't care if she doesn't like me. I wasn't forcing her to do anything. I honestly couldn't care less if she doesn't want to be there for me. It's just the fact she wasn't when I needed a friend, or someone in general, that pissed me off. Especially when she was there for other friends at the same time I needed her. She also tried to guilt trip me into taking her side by playing the victim. THATS what I was upset about. I'm not arguing it anymore, if you take her side, idc. Do whatever. I'm just saying I had a right to be upset because it wasn't fair of her to do it. End of story

  • @Zerouu.
    @Zerouu. Год назад +3

    Little vent here! (will delete if requested)
    My best friend has been avoiding and ignoring me for abt a month now and if I try to ask her why in school she just walks away from and talks to someone else, apparently she also told one of my other friends that I said bad thing abt her behind her back which I did not. I’m just so fed up with everyone rn.

    • @fightingknight2360
      @fightingknight2360 Год назад +1

      I’m sorry, you deserve someone better than that 🫂

    • @Zerouu.
      @Zerouu. Год назад +1

      @@fightingknight2360 thank you! I recently started talking to a new person and she’s much more supportive. I love her sm

    • @fightingknight2360
      @fightingknight2360 Год назад

      @@Zerouu. well that’s fantastic! Good for you!

  • @Ghost-ce9tw
    @Ghost-ce9tw Год назад +3

    FIVE DAYS??? That's such a long time to ignore someone...

    • @kayyryLyna
      @kayyryLyna 10 месяцев назад

      Not really..

    • @Ghost-ce9tw
      @Ghost-ce9tw 10 месяцев назад

      @@kayyryLyna if you're really close to that person it could be, like if you originally texted everyday and they ignore you for 3 three days, it's a pretty long time

    • @kayyryLyna
      @kayyryLyna 10 месяцев назад

      @@Ghost-ce9tw oh ok

  • @iitzaxraa
    @iitzaxraa Год назад

    Y'all, it's a vent... Don't say "Love it!" or stuff like that. And please read the desc, the creator already explained. That aside, I hope it gets better. Your friend doesn't deserve you.

  • @user-sw1xq4hc5n
    @user-sw1xq4hc5n Год назад

    Does anyone know the song?

  • @wocgachalife7236
    @wocgachalife7236 Год назад

    Y’all look closer, she said:
    “I’m sorry, I had a bad day”
    ……………………………….
    It’s been 5 days…..

  • @cherribxmb
    @cherribxmb 11 месяцев назад

    Well, YES, having a bad day is reasonable, but a bad day doesn't last 5 days 💀💀