Thanks Kevin for being so open and upfront and sharing parts of your life with Traci. My prayers go out to you and your son. I don't understand how the sisters could treat Traci like that. She was someone you could see had a very loving heart and compassionate and sweet spirit. She was the whole vibe and life of the party. Hearing you explain the Hummingbird tattoo and the story behind it and the sisters reaction or lacking disrespectful reaction to it, made my heart break all over again for Traci. They didn't deserve her as a sister and never really did. I am the oldest of 3 sons and never had a sister, I would have loved and rocked with Traci if she were my sister and cherished every second. Man, that is a lot to take in what you said, so I can only imagine how you both felt as it was happening.
Not surprised to hear they did not give a eff about that hummingbird tatoo when she was living - all they did was mock her. But now they all crying crocodile tears and wearing the hummingbird necklace. Its all fake!
💯💯💯and even Jr. Used that to get Tamar🤣. You know he was lying to her when he was telling his story about the hummingbird to her on that show. He had that information about the hummingbird and Traci and her sisters, and used that on Tamar to pull her in. And it worked. They are so phony is sickening! It was sickening how they treated Traci when she was living, and it’s sickening now, how they using her and her family for their benefit. They didn’t want her to do the show without them, but here they are using her to get money!! I hope they don’t get another season. They don’t need one. They shouldn’t have go this one! The whole time Traci was alive , all they did was put her down and talk junk about her and her husband. Now all sudden they concern about Kevin Jr., but never been there for him, when Traci wanted they to. Using that boy, while he is in all this pain!! They going to get it! They will pay for what they doing!! I have to stop typing! I always get upset when I talk about how they treated Traci when she was alive, and I don’t even watch the show, cause of how they using her! I truly wish I had had Traci as my sister. I don’t have one, but I always wanted one, and I would have loved to have Traci as my sister. I think about her often, because she was the reason I watched the show in the first place. If it wasn’t for Traci, that show wouldn’t have been boring! Traci brought realness, laughter, fun, love, true feelings, but she always showed her pain. The pain they were causing her, not her husband!! And they still causing her pain. They better not get another season! They don’t need it, nor deserve it!! Using Traci for money! I guess Traci was the Important One after All!! Cause they are going far and beyond to keep her and her family in their storyline! It was suppose to be the Braxtons, not the Traci and the 2Kevins Show!! I guess you were the Star after All Sis😂!! Miss you so much Tra❤❤❤
For those of you asking why Michael Jr. Isn't talking. Please remember that Michael is a nurse and works for a prestigious hospital. We dont know what policies the hospital has for employees and engaging in certain things.
He’s never been in their mess and I don’t blame him one bit. I don’t think it has anything to do with his job. He’s always stayed away from their mess. Not too many brothers of sisters will get involved like that imo.
Anyone else feel like Traci would have lived a longer life if she had just kept her distance and didn't get caught up with her sisters and that show? Esophageal cancer in most cases is a result of Barretts Esophagus which is caused by GERD/Acid Reflux Disease. Everyone that has GERD/Acid Reflux knows that it flares up like crazy when you're stressed and/or upset. I feel like her family stressed her out like crazy, especially with the way they treated her. From being labeled the "Wanna Be," to being pushed to the back and ignored... it's all just stressful! There were times when they wouldn't even want Traci to speak smh. It was like they were ashamed of her. Idk, I just feel like she would have been better off keeping her distance. They all are complicit if you ask me, aint no way ima be an executive producer on a show and allow the higher ups to label one of my family members as a "wanna be!"
Totally agree! Especially with black folk. That GERD and Acid Reflux is a beast when you are stressed. I think she always wanted them to validate her and she never got it. Maybe from Trina but that's it. The Iyanla show was her last attempt and I think she was done at that point but the stress had taken over.
@@gremlin7264 ion know about Trina. She would be laughing at Traci just like the rest of them. Do you know how humiliating it is for EVERYONE to laugh at you when you're simply trying to express yourself and/or get your point across? I still remember that reunion they had that was hosted by Wendy Williams. I cringe whenever I see clips of it. Tamar-"Everyone knows Traci acts like she was raised by a pack of rats, hood rats!" smh.
I definitely agree, and I also believe had she not gotten sick the last season of BFV would have been her last season. Period. Traci was getting to a place of acceptance when it came to her family. She did an interview with DJ Ritchie Skye after the episode of Trina's wedding aired and she pretty much explained that the blowup at the reception was the straw that broke the camel's back. Even if Traci overreacted, she was at a place where she could no longer accept the bs. She just couldn't. Traci remaining around them was accepting bs for the most part. I knew the jig was up when she said that it had been almost a year since the Napa blow up and she hadn't really spoken to any of them, Evelyn included.
As I was reading your comment my heart very heavy because I hurt for Traci because I have five sisters that treats me the same way all my life for now I just stay away but I cry a lot about it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Virgohorrorqueen1980her mother what's the one who started it why you say that because she allowed that to happen even though all of them is her daughter that's why I call her evil Evelyn that man that went on and and and and got married and she still angry 😡😡😡😡😡 it's just sad and she said that that she's a pastor and I say stop playing Church
This is so sad. I have 4 sisters and I’m currently in isolation, in other words solitude.At times you have to disconnect your self from family to save your self. I feel no one cares. So I’m going to love all of me because God loves me unconditionally always did. Less people-more self that includes FAMILY they will hurt you and act like they love you. You don’t need them. You can love them. Pray for them but you have to put you first ALWAYS
I am so glad that Kevin is telling the story the way many of us see it! Those Braxtons sisters treated Traci bad. See I know how that goes! And at the end of the day they want to act like they were always there for her. Kevin shouldn’t have any regret because guess what he and Traci was a married couple. They went through things that married couples go through.
Wait, so Kevin had to tell them what the hummingbird's represented?! How much did they really know about adult Traci? It seems like they hardly knew a thing!
Traci dancing with her husband she seems so happy at that time she love her husband even though she was unhappy with her sisters and her mother that mother should have been with her she knew that they did not care they did not respect her and return the love ❤️ she gave them she love her family and husband son 👶
Let him stay away bc I don’t blame him. He stayed away from the beginning for a reason. A man with sisters most of the time don’t be in the mess with their sisters. Just too messy for an upstanding man like himself.
@@elles.6768 You think Ms. E really told her that lol?! Now that is COLD! But now that I'm thinking about it you might be right because Traci definitely had some animosity towards her mother! I remember that scene when they were at lunch and Traci was about to get Ms. E all the way together lmao!
@@tell_em1522 I ABSOLUTELY believe it was Evelyn. Look at how they behaved on that show. They didn't move unless MOMMY said they could. For the most part she sat back and watched as the sisters went at one another, however I noticed that she only intervened when it was about Tamar and Toni. Trina, Towanda and Traci have spoken on how mum Evelyn gets when it involves the other two girls. Tamar didn't show up to Diezel's event because Toni had a guy she didn't like there. Evelyn? Crickets. Traci doesn't show up to Tamar's Big Brother celebration because of multiple things including really bad friction with Tamar's assistant and Evelyn speaks on the fact that no outsider should stop you from being with family. And this is just one example. Traci became the enemy the moment she chose to maintain a relationship with their father after the divorce. Period. Traci mentioned talking with her father every single day and hardly speaking to her mother for an entire year. Traci also admitted that she did not have the same relationship with her mother that her sisters had. I stand on Evelyn being the sole reason why they are the way they are with one another, and funny enough I believe that it is Tamar who realizes it. Tamar does feel guilt after Traci passed and in no way did she ignore the complicated relationship that they had. She's being honest with herself.
See people blaming him for cheating but Traci said she did too, They worked it out. Wow now they representing the hummingbirds, they got ALOT of guilt, specially Tamar.
SMH I knew they didn’t know about the hummingbirds when I saw video I think Tamar posted looking at the hummingbirds and saying wow I didn’t know they were of us my words may not be correct but it let me know and broke my heart that they didn’t know about the hummingbird’s meaning to Traci.
I will no longer watch reality TV. Real housewives have been off my screen.....but NOW....knowing that Traci's was shown at her worst...the wannabe....not telling the truth about how often Traci DID ACTUALLY SING WITH TONI OH YEAH....and portraying Traci as if she couldnt dance, when IN ACTUALITY she did choreography FOR THEM in the beginning. TRINA WAS THE ONE WHO COULDNT DANCE. TOO MANY LIES FOR LINES.....storyline Lies🤔🤨😠😡
they did act like they were embarrassed by her… they act like they weren’t proud of where they come from, and it shows… I remember Towanda mentioned something about Traci having a “big back tattoo” the way she mentioned it you could tell she was throwing shots… you can tell that the Braxton sisters are hurt deep down… only hurt ppl hurt ppl and they hurt each other … Traci just wasn’t with it
I hope they cancel the show after this season because the only reason why they had a show this season was because of Tracy the whole storyline was about her They are so fake and I hope they get canceled. Nobody cares about the Braxton. They don’t get along and I think it’s a damn shame. My parents had five daughters and we were raised to be close and no matter what we are close so I disagree with miss E you did not raise them to be close because if you did they would be close
Kevin Sr why isn't Mr Braxton and brother Michael telling their side of the story I am sure they know a lot about what's going on as well she was very close to them.
@tell_em1522 right. I knew when that title changed, they were bringing in more of the family to film. This is about money, and Towanda, the brokest and least relevant of them all needs it. I really used to like them before this season. I'm starting to see where Tamar is coming from now.
@MiamiPush2theLimit but when have you seen his kids and their families? Only Ashley was on the show previously. Trina's daughter in law. I think they're opening it up to more of the family. I don't think it's a bad idea. I just think they're being strategic this go round. Especially the way Towanda always spoke on how unfairly compensated they were.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit and I wonder if they're encouraging Lil Kev to do more interviews to help the show. Sean was all in the comments saying they're helping the ratings. I see why Traci didn't like him.
We can already tell you don't pay attention to details. The estate was both his and Kevin Jr. Traci placed the naming and imaging in her son's hands bc it would only stand the reason that if Kevin Sr. were to pass away, the son would be in charge in general. Kevin Sr. was left the marital assets which ALL spouses are entitled to. Try thinking like an adult, not a kid...😂😂😂
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Thanks Kevin for being so open and upfront and sharing parts of your life with Traci. My prayers go out to you and your son. I don't understand how the sisters could treat Traci like that. She was someone you could see had a very loving heart and compassionate and sweet spirit. She was the whole vibe and life of the party. Hearing you explain the Hummingbird tattoo and the story behind it and the sisters reaction or lacking disrespectful reaction to it, made my heart break all over again for Traci. They didn't deserve her as a sister and never really did. I am the oldest of 3 sons and never had a sister, I would have loved and rocked with Traci if she were my sister and cherished every second. Man, that is a lot to take in what you said, so I can only imagine how you both felt as it was happening.
Not surprised to hear they did not give a eff about that hummingbird tatoo when she was living - all they did was mock her. But now they all crying crocodile tears and wearing the hummingbird necklace. Its all fake!
That's just their guilt! I'm not for their crocodile tears. And the fact that they showed her like that on the show. I dislike that
#TheyUsedTraciForTheirStorylineThisSeason
I don't think Toni or Tamar were with the nonsense of this new show.🤔
#TraciForeverMissed❤💔❤️
And let's not forget that no one wanted to do the show when she was alive...
💯💯💯and even Jr. Used that to get Tamar🤣. You know he was lying to her when he was telling his story about the hummingbird to her on that show. He had that information about the hummingbird and Traci and her sisters, and used that on Tamar to pull her in. And it worked. They are so phony is sickening! It was sickening how they treated Traci when she was living, and it’s sickening now, how they using her and her family for their benefit. They didn’t want her to do the show without them, but here they are using her to get money!! I hope they don’t get another season. They don’t need one. They shouldn’t have go this one! The whole time Traci was alive , all they did was put her down and talk junk about her and her husband. Now all sudden they concern about Kevin Jr., but never been there for him, when Traci wanted they to. Using that boy, while he is in all this pain!! They going to get it! They will pay for what they doing!! I have to stop typing! I always get upset when I talk about how they treated Traci when she was alive, and I don’t even watch the show, cause of how they using her! I truly wish I had had Traci as my sister. I don’t have one, but I always wanted one, and I would have loved to have Traci as my sister. I think about her often, because she was the reason I watched the show in the first place. If it wasn’t for Traci, that show wouldn’t have been boring! Traci brought realness, laughter, fun, love, true feelings, but she always showed her pain. The pain they were causing her, not her husband!! And they still causing her pain. They better not get another season! They don’t need it, nor deserve it!! Using Traci for money! I guess Traci was the Important One after All!! Cause they are going far and beyond to keep her and her family in their storyline! It was suppose to be the Braxtons, not the Traci and the 2Kevins Show!! I guess you were the Star after All Sis😂!! Miss you so much Tra❤❤❤
Looks like Towanda and Trina were the aunties with the mess @@lb1798
For those of you asking why Michael Jr. Isn't talking. Please remember that Michael is a nurse and works for a prestigious hospital. We dont know what policies the hospital has for employees and engaging in certain things.
He’s never been in their mess and I don’t blame him one bit. I don’t think it has anything to do with his job. He’s always stayed away from their mess. Not too many brothers of sisters will get involved like that imo.
Traci is like me: I shut down so as not to be misconstrued when folks act ignorant I e. the hummingbird scenario
I’m known to shut down when things start going left. My peace is more important to me than anything.
Thanks for sharing Kevin. I hurt for Traci. 💔
Anyone else feel like Traci would have lived a longer life if she had just kept her distance and didn't get caught up with her sisters and that show? Esophageal cancer in most cases is a result of Barretts Esophagus which is caused by GERD/Acid Reflux Disease. Everyone that has GERD/Acid Reflux knows that it flares up like crazy when you're stressed and/or upset. I feel like her family stressed her out like crazy, especially with the way they treated her. From being labeled the "Wanna Be," to being pushed to the back and ignored... it's all just stressful! There were times when they wouldn't even want Traci to speak smh. It was like they were ashamed of her. Idk, I just feel like she would have been better off keeping her distance. They all are complicit if you ask me, aint no way ima be an executive producer on a show and allow the higher ups to label one of my family members as a "wanna be!"
Totally agree! Especially with black folk. That GERD and Acid Reflux is a beast when you are stressed.
I think she always wanted them to validate her and she never got it. Maybe from Trina but that's it. The Iyanla show was her last attempt and I think she was done at that point but the stress had taken over.
@@gremlin7264 ion know about Trina. She would be laughing at Traci just like the rest of them. Do you know how humiliating it is for EVERYONE to laugh at you when you're simply trying to express yourself and/or get your point across? I still remember that reunion they had that was hosted by Wendy Williams. I cringe whenever I see clips of it. Tamar-"Everyone knows Traci acts like she was raised by a pack of rats, hood rats!" smh.
I definitely agree, and I also believe had she not gotten sick the last season of BFV would have been her last season. Period. Traci was getting to a place of acceptance when it came to her family. She did an interview with DJ Ritchie Skye after the episode of Trina's wedding aired and she pretty much explained that the blowup at the reception was the straw that broke the camel's back. Even if Traci overreacted, she was at a place where she could no longer accept the bs. She just couldn't. Traci remaining around them was accepting bs for the most part. I knew the jig was up when she said that it had been almost a year since the Napa blow up and she hadn't really spoken to any of them, Evelyn included.
As I was reading your comment my heart very heavy because I hurt for Traci because I have five sisters that treats me the same way all my life for now I just stay away but I cry a lot about it😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Virgohorrorqueen1980her mother what's the one who started it why you say that because she allowed that to happen even though all of them is her daughter that's why I call her evil Evelyn that man that went on and and and and got married and she still angry 😡😡😡😡😡 it's just sad and she said that that she's a pastor and I say stop playing Church
These are way too short big kev, don’t do us like that lol
They could always string the disparate clips together in the end; it would be a sizable and informational video!
This is so sad. I have 4 sisters and I’m currently in isolation, in other words solitude.At times you have to disconnect your self from family to save your self. I feel no one cares. So I’m going to love all of me because God loves me unconditionally always did. Less people-more self that includes FAMILY they will hurt you and act like they love you. You don’t need them. You can love them. Pray for them but you have to put you first ALWAYS
I agree with you and had to cut mine off, too. 💯
Me as well
Really glad n Appreciate that Kevin Sr. is getting a Chance to Tell His Story🔥🔥🔥👍n Continued Blessings 4 Him, Kevin Jr. n Their Family💜💐🙏!!!….
I am so glad that Kevin is telling the story the way many of us see it! Those Braxtons sisters treated Traci bad. See I know how that goes! And at the end of the day they want to act like they were always there for her. Kevin shouldn’t have any regret because guess what he and Traci was a married couple. They went through things that married couples go through.
We need more and longer!!!
Wait, so Kevin had to tell them what the hummingbird's represented?! How much did they really know about adult Traci? It seems like they hardly knew a thing!
Ugh. The ending about the hummingbirds. Ughhh 😩 when I tell u!! And for them to show her like that on that show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't watch it. From the clips I couldn't do it 😢
I'm so glad she had him! They shared a lifetime of Love
Good for you. Tell your truth
We love you Traci keep resting in peace sweet angel🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
Can you guys please stop making the video soooo short. We want to hear from Kevin . We love Kevin
I pray that you are doing well. God will take care of them
Traci dancing with her husband she seems so happy at that time she love her husband even though she was unhappy with her sisters and her mother that mother should have been with her she knew that they did not care they did not respect her and return the love ❤️ she gave them she love her family and husband son 👶
Big Kevin, with you Brotha💯✌🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾
I truly believe Kevin, Sr.
Why would the sisters not realize how she felt when she was at her lowest.
Tracy could sing!!!!
Aww that’s so sad. I understand why she was so angry. That’s very hurtful to hear.
It was a shame do that our friend Traci Almighty YAH precious service Traci Suratt ❤
That's why she had cancer of the throat, she had no voice. They never acknowledged her. Shame on them.
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She also smoked cigars so it could be that both contributed to getting the disease.
She smoked and drank. wtf. It’s her responsibility to express herself.
Wow! You're probably right.
The oesophagus and the throat aren’t the same thing.
I want to hear from the brother... he stays out the way...I'm assuming he's happily married like Traci
Let him stay away bc I don’t blame him. He stayed away from the beginning for a reason. A man with sisters most of the time don’t be in the mess with their sisters. Just too messy for an upstanding man like himself.
I needed him to go into detail about the tattoo. Like how did she present it to them and what did they say to make her feel bad.
right, if you gonna tell it, then TELL IT.
@@tell_em1522thank you!!! And who told her she couldn’t speak to her sisters
@@SoulSearch11110 probably Ms Evelyn.
@@elles.6768 You think Ms. E really told her that lol?! Now that is COLD! But now that I'm thinking about it you might be right because Traci definitely had some animosity towards her mother! I remember that scene when they were at lunch and Traci was about to get Ms. E all the way together lmao!
@@tell_em1522 I ABSOLUTELY believe it was Evelyn. Look at how they behaved on that show. They didn't move unless MOMMY said they could. For the most part she sat back and watched as the sisters went at one another, however I noticed that she only intervened when it was about Tamar and Toni. Trina, Towanda and Traci have spoken on how mum Evelyn gets when it involves the other two girls. Tamar didn't show up to Diezel's event because Toni had a guy she didn't like there. Evelyn? Crickets. Traci doesn't show up to Tamar's Big Brother celebration because of multiple things including really bad friction with Tamar's assistant and Evelyn speaks on the fact that no outsider should stop you from being with family. And this is just one example.
Traci became the enemy the moment she chose to maintain a relationship with their father after the divorce. Period. Traci mentioned talking with her father every single day and hardly speaking to her mother for an entire year. Traci also admitted that she did not have the same relationship with her mother that her sisters had. I stand on Evelyn being the sole reason why they are the way they are with one another, and funny enough I believe that it is Tamar who realizes it. Tamar does feel guilt after Traci passed and in no way did she ignore the complicated relationship that they had. She's being honest with herself.
Sad 😔
This is so sad and heartbreaking!! Lord Have Mercy!!
They treated Tracey like garbage or a “hood rat “ per Tamar. Watch Braxton Family Values. Proof is on the show
Kevin, please do a longer podcast. Sorry, eight minutes is too short
They talk about the tat like they were there when she got it 😢
We knew it all along. Hes right to show that tattoo at her worst was so tasteless and tacky. They shoud have protected her better than that.
She wanted her sisters to do that she was still in her right mind
Please ask him if ahe was closer to Michael Jr. Than the other siblings
Was the niece who passed away Michael Junior's daughter? Traci grieved her HARD. It was always strange that she seemed to be the only one.
@@misst3016yes the niece was the brother’s daughter.
See people blaming him for cheating but Traci said she did too, They worked it out. Wow now they representing the hummingbirds, they got ALOT of guilt, specially Tamar.
All women who stay with a man who cheats always say that even if they never cheated on their husbands 😂
@@KassieP-sf6nzNot true
They’re women, and they’re her sisters, he’s always going to be wrong in their eyes.
SMH I knew they didn’t know about the hummingbirds when I saw video I think Tamar posted looking at the hummingbirds and saying wow I didn’t know they were of us my words may not be correct but it let me know and broke my heart that they didn’t know about the hummingbird’s meaning to Traci.
I will no longer watch reality TV. Real housewives have been off my screen.....but NOW....knowing that Traci's was shown at her worst...the wannabe....not telling the truth about how often Traci DID ACTUALLY SING WITH TONI
OH YEAH....and portraying Traci as if she couldnt dance, when IN ACTUALITY she did choreography FOR THEM in the beginning. TRINA WAS THE ONE WHO COULDNT DANCE.
TOO MANY LIES FOR LINES.....storyline Lies🤔🤨😠😡
they did act like they were embarrassed by her… they act like they weren’t proud of where they come from, and it shows… I remember Towanda mentioned something about Traci having a “big back tattoo” the way she mentioned it you could tell she was throwing shots… you can tell that the Braxton sisters are hurt deep down… only hurt ppl hurt ppl and they hurt each other … Traci just wasn’t with it
How about at least 20 minutes of information
I hope they cancel the show after this season because the only reason why they had a show this season was because of Tracy the whole storyline was about her They are so fake and I hope they get canceled. Nobody cares about the Braxton. They don’t get along and I think it’s a damn shame.
My parents had five daughters and we were raised to be close and no matter what we are close so I disagree with miss E you did not raise them to be close because if you did they would be close
Kevin Sr why isn't Mr Braxton and brother Michael telling their side of the story I am sure they know a lot about what's going on as well she was very close to them.
You really think those men are going to turn on the sisters? Not happening, they getting paid off of that show too! They aint finna mess that up smh.
@tell_em1522 right. I knew when that title changed, they were bringing in more of the family to film. This is about money, and Towanda, the brokest and least relevant of them all needs it. I really used to like them before this season. I'm starting to see where Tamar is coming from now.
@@elles.6768Michael Sr and Jr have been on this season less time than any other season.
@MiamiPush2theLimit but when have you seen his kids and their families? Only Ashley was on the show previously. Trina's daughter in law. I think they're opening it up to more of the family. I don't think it's a bad idea. I just think they're being strategic this go round. Especially the way Towanda always spoke on how unfairly compensated they were.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit and I wonder if they're encouraging Lil Kev to do more interviews to help the show. Sean was all in the comments saying they're helping the ratings. I see why Traci didn't like him.
I believe every word Kevin Sr is saying. They wrong 🤦🏽♀
I think Kevin you, Andre, and your son can make a reality show by yourselves❤
Have he been drinking since Traci death
I did not like seeing that video Tamar recorded of the humming birds on her back. It felt intrusive and disrespectful.
Smh but karma Tawanda broke
Trina living with her daddy husband toni sick god bless and Tamar getting dragged and played by white chocolate
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omg wth lol
They are a trip
They wanted to bring harm to your family
Just awful 😖
And this is why you didn't jhave control of the estate... heka.
what?
We can already tell you don't pay attention to details. The estate was both his and Kevin Jr. Traci placed the naming and imaging in her son's hands bc it would only stand the reason that if Kevin Sr. were to pass away, the son would be in charge in general. Kevin Sr. was left the marital assets which ALL spouses are entitled to. Try thinking like an adult, not a kid...😂😂😂
Kevin speak on you and your son! Why were you more supportive to him instead of physically attacking him???? IDU!!!
Did you just say you promise traci not to take her to a nursing her and you did? You are terrible.