i still get misgendered by my family members too. It has been three years, I look 100% feminine and almost no one knows im trans at my university and guys I date. It doesn't bug me extremely being misgendered though, since I only visit my family 2-3 times a year and my extended family once or twice a year, but it does somewhat since even though I correct them they forget to say it or will only say it in public and more "forgetful" in private. This ofcourse makes sense since I see my family only a couple times a year so they just easily revert to saying my old name when im not around.
I haven't socially transitioned yet due to the wonderful unsupportive world I currently live in, however my girlfriend and my friends on the internet all use my pronouns and name. So after a good weekend of gaming and being myself, it really does suck to back to work or talk to my real world friends who can't be bothered to try. So I can relate a bit to you
Gage: Maybe being in a Gender Studies faculty skews your perspective of the real world somewhat. They certainly want you to believe that anyone not of their SJW Cultural Marxist mindset is your enemy. But let me say this: I’m a right leaning libertarian. One of the folks your lecturers would delight to send off to a re-education camp or worse. But they know nothing whatever about me or the millions of people that view the world in a similar manner. I fully respect your very personal decision concerning your self identity. How you got to where you are is your life’s story and a consequence of your decisions. It’s no one’s business but yours, and those with whom you choose to share it. You’re an engaging person on video and your experience should be valuable to others on a similar path. But don’t ever think you need to justify yourself or indulge in special pleading. There is quite obviously far more to you than your gender! Don’t be defined by anything that serves to limit your power and effectiveness as a free human being. You’re a beautiful, smart woman with, I hope, a wonderfully fulfilling life ahead. Please don’t stress about what small minds think (families are a problem for everyone to some degree), and don’t play along with an agenda imposed upon you. You’ve chosen to be who you truly believe you are. Resist with all your strength any and all forces that want you in a box that serves them rather than you, or that would make you fearful about the everyday process of living. Be you. Be free. The world of real people will take you as you are without the slightest concern for your history. Most people will be kind. Some won’t be. But whether respectful or disrespectful, it will depend on them and not you. Don’t let anyone engender paranoia in you: as though you’ve anything to apologize for or be ashamed of. You can really help a lot of people, and I’ve no doubt you will. But don’t make yourself a laboratory “specimen” in the process. Maintain boundaries. You have a right to protect your privacy. And may God bless you.
I get misgendered a lot by my family and it's hard for them to keep up with the pronouns since they don't usually speak English. I do get upset about it but they misgender me less and less as I keep reminding them.. which is good! I usually never get misgendered by the public at this current point in my life but there are certain people other than family who do it on purpose and honestly I just avoid them 'cause they ain't worth my time!!
Hurt people, hurt people. Knowing that, we are better prepared to simply laugh them off, because their issue is that they don’t accept themselves, and it has nothing to do with us. Cheers girl! 💎🌹🙏🏼♥️
Gage i need some advice me and my mom keep fighting about me transitioning to female and she keeps trying to take my pills and she did once and dumped them in the sink, I just wanna leave my house But I can't.
It's all like water, grease in a sink and add a drop of dish soap! You are the soap and pretty much all your family/siblings and relatives are the water and the grease are just people in general. Do a little elementary experiment... after you've wash the dishes in a sink and leave the water and grease and let sit for awhile then you drop a dish soap and watch what happens. Once you drop a a dish soap the grease distract away from you and you still got your family to support you but this when you retrain/readjust your family to you...and yes it will take awhile for them to sink in ..into your lifestyle.
I must be stupid because i can't Imagine you getting misgendered by the general public. But comming from your grandmother after a stroke,....i get, it sucks, but i get it.
Somehow I fell off on you channel and just can't get enough watching you. You're so damn pretty. And you do look very feminine girl, your hair stunning even better your skin. Kisses of light
idunno yeah not all gay men are accepting of trans women. Maybe it’s because of jealousy and insecurity lol. And a lot of girls who claim to bisexual use homophobic slurs towards men haha. Closeted gay guys don’t like the flamboyant feminine ones, trans women are competitive towards one another. It’s just a mess lol.
i still get misgendered by my family members too. It has been three years, I look 100% feminine and almost no one knows im trans at my university and guys I date. It doesn't bug me extremely being misgendered though, since I only visit my family 2-3 times a year and my extended family once or twice a year, but it does somewhat since even though I correct them they forget to say it or will only say it in public and more "forgetful" in private. This ofcourse makes sense since I see my family only a couple times a year so they just easily revert to saying my old name when im not around.
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You're amazing Gage. Thank you for another great video. ❤️
Your hair has grown so much I love it I'm jealous 😍💓💜
You are such a queen omg
I haven't socially transitioned yet due to the wonderful unsupportive world I currently live in, however my girlfriend and my friends on the internet all use my pronouns and name. So after a good weekend of gaming and being myself, it really does suck to back to work or talk to my real world friends who can't be bothered to try. So I can relate a bit to you
Gage: Maybe being in a Gender Studies faculty skews your perspective of the real world somewhat. They certainly want you to believe that anyone not of their SJW Cultural Marxist mindset is your enemy.
But let me say this: I’m a right leaning libertarian. One of the folks your lecturers would delight to send off to a re-education camp or worse. But they know nothing whatever about me or the millions of people that view the world in a similar manner.
I fully respect your very personal decision concerning your self identity. How you got to where you are is your life’s story and a consequence of your decisions. It’s no one’s business but yours, and those with whom you choose to share it.
You’re an engaging person on video and your experience should be valuable to others on a similar path. But don’t ever think you need to justify yourself or indulge in special pleading. There is quite obviously far more to you than your gender! Don’t be defined by anything that serves to limit your power and effectiveness as a free human being.
You’re a beautiful, smart woman with, I hope, a wonderfully fulfilling life ahead. Please don’t stress about what small minds think (families are a problem for everyone to some degree), and don’t play along with an agenda imposed upon you.
You’ve chosen to be who you truly believe you are. Resist with all your strength any and all forces that want you in a box that serves them rather than you, or that would make you fearful about the everyday process of living.
Be you. Be free. The world of real people will take you as you are without the slightest concern for your history.
Most people will be kind. Some won’t be. But whether respectful or disrespectful, it will depend on them and not you. Don’t let anyone engender paranoia in you: as though you’ve anything to apologize for or be ashamed of.
You can really help a lot of people, and I’ve no doubt you will. But don’t make yourself a laboratory “specimen” in the process. Maintain boundaries. You have a right to protect your privacy.
And may God bless you.
I love your videos!! Keep up the great work girl🙂🌺
Your hair is so beautiful!!
I get misgendered a lot by my family and it's hard for them to keep up with the pronouns since they don't usually speak English. I do get upset about it but they misgender me less and less as I keep reminding them.. which is good! I usually never get misgendered by the public at this current point in my life but there are certain people other than family who do it on purpose and honestly I just avoid them 'cause they ain't worth my time!!
I fucking hateeeee it when my family misgender me like how do you even look at me as a boy😩 it’s so depressing
I know how you feel girl!
Are you somehow related to TheyLoveArii? Lmao you 2 really look alike😍💕
I get misgendered by my family on purpose as well girl! It’s so irritating lol. I love you skinny legend! 💕
Hurt people, hurt people. Knowing that, we are better prepared to simply laugh them off, because their issue is that they don’t accept themselves, and it has nothing to do with us. Cheers girl! 💎🌹🙏🏼♥️
Gage i need some advice me and my mom keep fighting about me transitioning to female and she keeps trying to take my pills and she did once and dumped them in the sink, I just wanna leave my house But I can't.
Josue Cameros find a better place to hide your pills
Can you do a video please on voice training? :3
How do your neighbour's react to you and your transition?
It's all like water, grease in a sink and add a drop of dish soap! You are the soap and pretty much all your family/siblings and relatives are the water and the grease are just people in general. Do a little elementary experiment... after you've wash the dishes in a sink and leave the water and grease and let sit for awhile then you drop a dish soap and watch what happens. Once you drop a a dish soap the grease distract away from you and you still got your family to support you but this when you retrain/readjust your family to you...and yes it will take awhile for them to sink in ..into your lifestyle.
Do you think a little make up will make a differance in people miss gendering you ,a little lip stick .makes a difference,
FIRST COMMENT I LOVE YOU GAGE ❤️❤️❤️
awwww you are totally kind
i would not br so kind
Gage? May I ask you a question please? At what age have u started using hormones? And have u ever been on any plastic surgery? Ty so so much 💎💎💎
wow amazing trasfrormation result
young lady, when I see u, I see a very pretty and amazing young woman.
I must be stupid because i can't Imagine you getting misgendered by the general public. But comming from your grandmother after a stroke,....i get, it sucks, but i get it.
Somehow I fell off on you channel and just can't get enough watching you. You're so damn pretty. And you do look very feminine girl, your hair stunning even better your skin. Kisses of light
I like this girl 😎
Saludos Desde Argentina Sos Hermosa . 😍
Love you
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Gage you've helped me figure out who I am xx
You have so many memories as a young man your permanently scared face it , you are who you are a boy yu just look like a girl slightly ...it’s sad 😔
idunno he’s probably just a transphobic homosexual lol. Not a thug at all haha.
idunno yeah not all gay men are accepting of trans women. Maybe it’s because of jealousy and insecurity lol. And a lot of girls who claim to bisexual use homophobic slurs towards men haha. Closeted gay guys don’t like the flamboyant feminine ones, trans women are competitive towards one another. It’s just a mess lol.
idunno no problem! 🤗
Judge me off me pic lol a pretty boy not a thug was raised different dreams of having a wife and kids .... your wrong drop and give me 50 push-ups
Lol you expect the world so swallow up your new fuccing trend issues niggas don’t know about your pronouns or care
Brush your hair poohead har har har
You are right on some points, but some are hopelessly transphobic, regardless of the fact that you keep reminding them.