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  • @anthonyyang6663
    @anthonyyang6663 День назад +2

    #1 Thaum peb tsis muaj txij nkawm lawm ces yeej xav tiaa yuav nrhiav ib tug txij nkawm thiaj yuav completed ib lub neej tab sis yog zoo li koj qhov situation no ces koj twb tau deal nrog teeb meem ua ntej koj yuav koj tus hluas nkauj lawm. Txiv tub loj ib yam thiab tsis yog koj yug ces nws tus tub yeej tsis hwm tsis mloog koj. Thiab ib qho yog nws tseem under age es ib hnub nws yuav tawm tsev mus ua nws lub neej ces kuj yog ib qho kev vam tab sis yog ib tug tub over age lawm tsis xav khwv noj khwv haus ces yuav los ua teeb meem rau koj ces tseem yuav nyuaj siab tshaj lub neej koj nyob koj ib leeg os brother aw. Yog neb sib hlub tiag ces seb koj tus nkauj nrab ouas kam xaiv koj los ua neej ua ke es neb mam hlub tej me nyuam xwb los yeej tau. Peb ua neeg nyob lawv piv lus tias yus yug ib leeg ces tuag ib leeg kuj ntseeb thiab, txij nkawm yog tau tus zoo sib hlub mus taus ces kuj zoo, yog yuav tau qhov muaj2 teeb meem nyuaj dua qub xwb ces nyob twj yam li ko tseem zoo dua thiab. Xav kom zoo thiaj tsis tau ua yawg nrauj zaum 2 nawb vim lub neej ib leeg muaj ib pab me nyuam los ua ke tsis yooj yim, muaj ib txhia me nyuam lawv twb tsis yog ntxub koj xwb tab sis tseem ntxub cov me nyuam koj yug nrog koj thiab os. Niaj hnub no muaj ib txhia neej ib nta ces xav tso cia los vim muab pib tau lawm es lam lawm thiab xwb. Es ua zoo xav mam ua es Good luck.

  • @visaylee5651
    @visaylee5651 2 дня назад +4

    Story #1 do not rush to get married. She always will be there for you if she really love you. About her son you have to make him trust you first, then take him out for dinner, lunch, fishing, also you have to know what is her son favorite thing he likes the most. Yog koj hlub lawv niam tiag li koj hais, yuav tau ua siab ntev rau tus tub li ob xyoos los peb xyoos saib nws tus tub puas kam except koj los ua nws txiv tshiab.

    • @angielo06
      @angielo06 День назад

      Yog tus minyuam no tseem me, yes what you say will work but the son is old so you cannot train an old dog a new trick so it won't work.

  • @hersilaher1126
    @hersilaher1126 2 дня назад +3

    Story #1, it's not all about the children. It's about how much the two of you love each other. How dedicated and welling to sacrifice to build this marriage together. I am letting you know that it's not going to be a smooth road, okay? The road will be so rough. Ua lub neej niam txai tog txiv txais nta ma nyuab tshaj plaws li nawb. Tabsis yog neb tuaj yeem koom saib sib hlub ces tej zaum yuav mus tau thiab. Tos sawvdaws sib2 nrauj mus2 los2 los vim thaum nyob ua kev lawm tsis zoo li thaum ib leeg nyob ib lub tsev os.

    • @zongyang6602
      @zongyang6602 День назад

      If she love u she will come but looks like she love her kids more then you....

  • @phaproduction3381
    @phaproduction3381 2 дня назад +5

    Just asked your girlfriend who will she stay with when her children had moved on with their life. she's will be left alone so she needs to make that decision to move on with her life. Her children will moved out someday and have their own family. If she don't go with you she'll be left alone by herself one day and then it'll be too late for her. She need to make her decision to move on with her life while she's still young. If she cannot make that decision to move on with you then leave her and go find someone else that's my opinion.

  • @philadelphialor732
    @philadelphialor732 День назад

    Niam tais aw vamyuj zoo li ntawd xwb ua cas koj ho xaiv nws thiab. Yuav tau ua siab ntev.

  • @missysmart8620
    @missysmart8620 2 дня назад +2

    Q1: if her kids are over the age of 18 years, they are capable of caring for themselves. Her son was just there taking advantage of your girlfriend. If she is gone, he will have no place to live and provide his needs. Worst is she’s allowing him to be lazy and being the way he is. I wouldn’t allow him to come live with you because for sure he’ll never move out or find a job. Worst, you two will eventually come to physical contact. Ask your girlfriend to see if she can marry you without bringing him. Otherwise, there are still many widows or divorcees out there.
    Q2: I say kick his butt out

  • @beethao4145
    @beethao4145 День назад +3

    1# my father pass away when I was 8 and I am acting the same way like that boy. My mom never got remarried and now she's by herself with my younger brother and doesn't matter what we kids love her and comfort her but is not the same as two person companionship for each others. I'm thinking back if I knew and wise what I am now, I won't encourage my mom to remarried but I would let her seek happiness. back then my father is everything to me and when he pass away, I am so close to my father and could never except someone else is going to take my father's place. I think it's normal feeling for the majority of the kids but a few are very troublesome and never grow out of it. I hope the boy comes and read my comments that if you love your mom, you should let her find happiness. It's normal feeling. if your mom stay single when she's old she's going to be by herself like my mom 😭😭 endless she doesn't want to. for this person, whatever you decided, go with your guts feeling, you know best. remember, every action, there's always a consequence and responsibility whatever the out come.

    • @beevang8107
      @beevang8107 23 часа назад

      U n ur girl friend probably have discussed but u didnt mention it. What doe she think about the situation, can she leave her son to marry u r wont marry u without her son coming with her. U eithet marru her without her son r u go find someone else.

    • @lubneejkhuamsiabhmoob7162
      @lubneejkhuamsiabhmoob7162 18 часов назад

      Thanks brother ua tsaug rau koj cov lus zoo koj yog ib tug kwv los tij txawj xav kawg thiab koj thiab kuv los xav sib thooj ib yam ua tsaug rau koj cov lus xav kom muaj ib tug phooj ywg zoo li koj

  • @MissPeachie
    @MissPeachie 2 дня назад +2

    She doesn’t have to choose between you and her son. He is over 18 and needs to get a life. She is not responsible for him anymore. If you marry her, tell her that he’s welcome but he can’t live with you if he doesn’t like you. You are not obligated to take care of another adult.

  • @nengxiong6991
    @nengxiong6991 2 дня назад +3

    Qt#1. Yog koj tus hluas nkauj neb sib hlub tiag ces nws los nrog koj nyob xwb txhob coj cov me nyuam vim tus tub tsis nyiam koj nws twb muaj 18 xyoo lawm American culture 18 birthday get out .

  • @kayingyang7268
    @kayingyang7268 2 дня назад +3

    Tso koj tus nkauj nrab tseg. Vim koj hlub tsis tau nws cov me nyuam. Koj tus nkauj nrab yuav 2 koj tseem yuav nug tus tub. Koj tsis tas yuav. Koj txawm yuav los kav tsis ntev. Mus nrhiav tus tshiab.

  • @fantasyboi6969
    @fantasyboi6969 2 дня назад +1

    Txawj piav ua luaj li o phauj, zoo nkauj los zoo, suab zoo los zoo li. Xav hais ntau los lus rau tus txiv ntxawm ntawv. Mloog ma koj siab zoo heev li. Tus nkauj nrab ntawv los kuj siab zoo kawg li. Tsuas yog nws tus tub siab thiaj li dub xwb. Kev hlub, sij hawm tsis tos leej twb, luam hnub thiaj li tsis kuv xim. Khoom lub weekend no ces kav tsij mus yuav nws los ua poj niam nawb. Hlub tus tub ntawv li yus tus, muaj ib hnub nws yeej yuav ua neeg zoo thiab. Thov kom neb sib tau ces sib hlub mus kom kawg nawb.

  • @nyobzoshavtaischannel9304
    @nyobzoshavtaischannel9304 2 дня назад +3

    Story #1 tsis txhob sib yuav, nws tus tub twb tsis nyiam koj, koj yuav tau koj yuav raug nws tus tub ua phem, mag ntaus mag khi mus nyob jail!

  • @minecraftboy2676
    @minecraftboy2676 2 дня назад +2

    1s: bro, you should forget about marrying her. Remember what you had said that you should think and pick your children no matter what, so you should listen to your own advice. You two are not married yet, there's a problem already. There will be many more to come once you two are. You two are not meant to be. She is not your soulmate. Just keep her as a friend or a companion. Love your children, if you don't no one will!

  • @maimoua616
    @maimoua616 День назад

    Beautiful song ❤❤❤❤

  • @maichang9158
    @maichang9158 День назад

    Brother aw.yog koj ua siab tsis thev . best txhob yuav lawv niam xwb .mam nrav tu new xwb os . Good luck.

  • @TygerByteBite
    @TygerByteBite День назад +1

    I believe kid’s opinions matter but what does the son really do like or why he doesn’t want his mom to be with the man? If he’s a good man and works and willing to accept her kids. Sounds like the son who’s lazy and dependent on his mom’s income doesn’t want a man in the house to make him go work and be a man on his own. I honestly feel that if the guys a good person and doesn’t have any ill intentions that the son’s opinion doesn’t matter. The son is grown he needs to be out of his mama’s house and go start his own life anyways.

  • @minamoua6546
    @minamoua6546 День назад

    You look pretty with that lipstick

  • @youavang5439
    @youavang5439 18 часов назад

    Ua txij nkawm nyob yog koj hlub koj pojniam npaum koj hais ko, luag yeej tsis khiav koj ibzaug. Txivneej feemcoob ces yeej tsis kam los lees nws txoj kev txhaum kiag li. Pojniam twb tsis kam yuav lawm los tseem qhuas tias, hlub hlub kawg. Yog pojniam tsis xav yuav nws lawm xwb.

  • @sunshineyang953
    @sunshineyang953 2 дня назад

    I like your Background design

  • @moualor7611
    @moualor7611 День назад +1

    Story # 1. If you want their mother you have to put up with the kid.

  • @douavang1087
    @douavang1087 2 дня назад +1

    Zay 1 koj yuav. Los tej mentuam yog koj hlub lawv ces lawv yuav hlub koj xwb

  • @beevang3377
    @beevang3377 2 дня назад

    Niam ncib npalb thov koj qhia lub collagen rau kuv saib os

  • @hlinagsiabhaam4169
    @hlinagsiabhaam4169 2 дня назад +1

    Story1: brother nrog nws tham sib tso puas tau nws tus tub tseg xwb. Vim tsis yog under age ib tug twb loj tsis ua hauj lwm. Thiab tseem tsis nyiam koj thiab Yog tau nyob ua ke ntshe tus tub no neb tseem yuav muaj teb meem nawb. Tsis li ces mam2 nrhiav teb chaws no poj nrauj poj tsuam muaj ntau es nrhiav tus cov menyuam nyiam koj nawb mog

  • @meganxiong3324
    @meganxiong3324 День назад +2

    Yog koj tseem mus yuav tus pojniam no ces kawg koj mag ntaus ib hnub twg xwb cov menyuam hmoob mekas nyob teb chaw no lawm heev li heev tamsim no twb g tau yuav es koj tus hluas nkauj tus tub twb g nyiam koj lawm ces koj li tso xwb koj thiaj li g mag ntaus

  • @XangYang-j3m
    @XangYang-j3m День назад +1

    Story #1 Lawv li kuv xav mas koj yuav tauj soj los yog taug seb qhov tus tub tsis mus ua haujlwm yog vim dabtsi? 1) feem ntau tej zaum nws muaj mental problem, like ADHD or Autistic. Ua nws puav kam tsav tsheb, yog hais tias tus tub no muaj mental issues, you will never be able to solve the problems, but if it is a mental issue, you can work with the son to see if you can resolve it before you marry his mom.

  • @houahyang8791
    @houahyang8791 2 дня назад +1

    For brother story #1.. if you two really love each other, then take a chance with her, her son is old enough to be on his own. Son is lazy and only want mom to take care of him, he is too old to depend on his mom. Is your life to be happy not the son… he can move out if doesn’t work after they moved in…

  • @RightPhalanges
    @RightPhalanges 2 дня назад +1

    Bro, I think the writting is on the wall. U need to walk away. That boy of hers will take u for all u have got. Just hook up for the occasional whatever u want to call it. Until she gets her adult son to become independent, u are headed for more trouble. Walk away!

  • @kvang533
    @kvang533 День назад +1

    Story # 1 I say ask your gf if she wants to live with her son for the rest of her life or have a life of her own. Her adult son needs to grow up and move out maybe go live with his dad.

  • @jongwaalee3282
    @jongwaalee3282 2 дня назад

    Nacy koj cov tea txiv neej siv puas tau?

  • @yoglis9321
    @yoglis9321 День назад

    What kind of tea is that name pleased?

  • @sunshineyang953
    @sunshineyang953 2 дня назад

    Lub neej ib tog ib nta ces nyuab2 kawg os brother awd zoo tshaj ces nyob kom taus2 xwb txhob phov2 kom neej tawg xwb os lub neej ib tog ib nta ces yeej tsis puv ib puas lawm nawb

  • @XuMongkone-u2d
    @XuMongkone-u2d 2 дня назад +1

    You don't get everything . You can pick one choice only . She should choose you or her son only . That son will never mix with you . If you don't belive me try and you will know .

  • @maivang8072
    @maivang8072 День назад +1

    Saib Koj uv puas tau xwb yog Koj uv tau ces Koj yuav xwb

  • @lubneejkhuamsiabhmoob7162
    @lubneejkhuamsiabhmoob7162 День назад

    Ua cas peb hmoob ib Leej niam ua tsis tau li meskas ne yom peb Yeej hlub peb tej mi nyuam mas tiam sis tej zaum peb muab peb tej mi nyuam ywj dhau lawm lawv twb tsis yog tus neeg zoo lawm los peb tseem muab Nyiaj rau lawv mus ua thiab es nov puas yog hlub tsis tas li xwb cov mi nyuam ntawd lawv muaj lawv lub xeem phem thiab zoo los lawv lub xeem yuav rov qab thaj tsob lawv tiam sis Leej niam ne xum ua pog nplas los. Thaum Leej niam tseem hluas thiab tau zoo Nyob Ces zoo thiab tiam sis thaum Leej niam muaj mob muaj nkeeg thiab ib pas nqus tsis tuaj lawm ne tus tub no Yeej tsis quav ntswg li muab xav zoo zoo os peb cov niam tsev

  • @tubhmoobhmoob2944
    @tubhmoobhmoob2944 2 дня назад

    Q1. Koj yuav tau nrog koj tus hluas nkauj tham es coj tus tub mus nrog tus txiv qub nyob zoo dua

  • @chiayang7846
    @chiayang7846 2 дня назад +1

    Yog koj tus hluas nkauj tsis ncaws nws tus tub tawm ces ib hnub twg koj thiab koj tus hluas nkauj yuav mag nws tus tub ncaws ntag hos

  • @lasameewang
    @lasameewang День назад

    Story #1 do not rush to get married. Give her sometimes..
    Story #2 that old man is funny 😁

  • @bchang227
    @bchang227 2 дня назад +1

    First story: If you both truly love each other, nothing, and I mean NOTHING, will stop you both from being with each other. If her son/s want to act that way, he/they are free to go live with their father. Some ppl are just beyond help. Especially if they don't want to work and better themselves. If your new wife and you take him in, you're both basically helping him be a lazy bum like his father. You're both just enabling him. Let him go. All you can do is pray for him. Going overseas is nothing to play with. Lawv hluas hluas lawv tsuas ntxias nej ua choj xwb. Tuaj txog, tau ntaub ntawv nyob ces luag khiav luag. Thaum ntawv koj mam khuv xim txog koj tus qub hluas nkauj ces lig lawm. Qhov zoo tshaj ces tsis txhob xav txog nplog teb kiag!!

  • @payang3701
    @payang3701 День назад

    Tus niam yuav tsum lawb tus tub mas thiaj yuav ho
    Yog tus niam yuav cov me nyuam mas yog kuv no kuv tsis kam yuav
    Tsam Lwm hnub nws tus tub muab yus ntaus tsis tsim nyog qhov yus hlub lawv
    Yus twb mob hlwb ib zaug txhob mob hlwb zaum ob.

  • @USAgrandma03
    @USAgrandma03 2 дня назад +1

    Me tub aw me nyuam hmoob melikas phem2 li ,yog koj thiab lawv niam sis hlub los tej tub loj2 ces tus niam yeej hlub tej me nyuam tsam ho muaj lus dab tsi koj hais tias yog los leej niam yuav tsum tuaj tus tub tog xwb lauj yog kuv, mam rhiav dua mog nyaj yuav muaj thiab tsam tom ntej nyuaj koj xwb

  • @kaothao-zk4hw
    @kaothao-zk4hw День назад

    Tsis work li os. Tuav tau ces yuav muaj ntshav siab thiab stroke xwb os.

  • @spittingcobra4560
    @spittingcobra4560 2 дня назад

    Let her go

  • @yl6270
    @yl6270 2 дня назад +1

    yog tias tsis tau yuav es nws tej me nyuam twb show qhov phem rau koj lawm mas tseg nawb tsis pom los yeej hnov dua lawm lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais nta ces ua zoo saib nawb tsam koj ho ua ob peb zaug yawg nrauj nawb

  • @leeyang26
    @leeyang26 День назад +1

    #1 The son is over 18, you or girlfriend not obligate to feed him. You marry the mom, not the adult son!
    #2 Why you worried about a handicapped husband who got no respect for you. Move on without him!

  • @musibsim2151
    @musibsim2151 2 дня назад +1

    Hoyo! Raws kuv xav mas koj tus hluas nkauj niag tub phem npaum koj txhob yuav nawb tsam lwm hnub koj yuav mag tsuj mag ntaus yog koj twb tsis tau yuav nws niam es ntsej muag dub ncia rau koj xwb txhob thab zoo dua kuv twb pom los lawm tsis work kiag

  • @lindseylor5431
    @lindseylor5431 2 дня назад

    Yog koj yuav ces koj yuav ntsib teeb meem aw...

  • @minecraftboy2676
    @minecraftboy2676 2 дня назад

    2S: sister, love, take care, respect, and put yourself first before a cheater who has none of those for you. Too much stresses and too much of caring for those that DO NOT do anything for you, it will kill you faster!!! Love yourself, sister!!! Go exercise and explore the world out there before you go!!!

  • @youashengtocu3350
    @youashengtocu3350 2 дня назад

    Tus.me.txiv.tsev.nws.tus.tub.twb.muaj.2o.xyoo.lawm.ces.tsis.txhawj.li.yog.koj.hlub.tiag

  • @fastcars2381
    @fastcars2381 День назад

    Story 1: Kuv xav tias yog kuv no kuv ua 1 siab tsis yuav rau qhov nws cov me nyuam tsis nyiam tsis nyiam kuv thiab lawv tsis kam lawv niam yuav kuv. Yog tias yuav ces lawv yeej yuav ua kom yus muaj kev nyiaj siab kom tas yus lub neej los yog txog thaum yus thiab lawv niam sib nraub.

  • @nai2673
    @nai2673 2 дня назад

    ruclips.net/user/shortsdEKgUFllpGc?feature=shared
    Mus saib qhov video no nej thiaj paub.

  • @kaonisvue3879
    @kaonisvue3879 День назад

    Story # 1 txhob nrhiav kev mob stroke, ua nkauj ua nraug xwb zoo dua, pem suab koj cov mam tha koj, ho yus cov mam tha yus xwb yuav zoo dua….

  • @pajrosedawb8047
    @pajrosedawb8047 20 часов назад

    #1- this is your life and you need to make your own decision. No one knows your relationship better than you and you should know yourself well enough to know what you can and cannot tolerate or do. Also, if she didn’t like one of you kids or all of them, would you choose between her and your own kids? Don’t ask anyone to do what you will not do yourself. You need so much more than just love to make a marriage or relationship work. Don’t get married because you don’t want to break her heart because you are not doing her any favors.

  • @chervang6550
    @chervang6550 2 дня назад

    Yog nws cov menyuam twb tsis nyiam koj ces txawm koj yuav lawm niam los yuav tsis work li os.

  • @nraughmoobyajsab8462
    @nraughmoobyajsab8462 2 дня назад

    I’m a single father myself. Don’t get marry, just play.

  • @lindseylor5431
    @lindseylor5431 2 дня назад

    Tus txiv tsev aw yog tias koj tus nkauj nrab ntawv nws tsi tso tus tub tub2 keeg ntawv tseg ces yog kuv ces kuv tsi yuav xwb os...

  • @kayouexiong8360
    @kayouexiong8360 2 дня назад

    This is a red sign. Let her go.

  • @ThePrincessWorrior
    @ThePrincessWorrior День назад

    Zaj2:
    Es yog twb npaum li koj hais tias los twb tseem tsis tau txaus koj ces kav tsij nyob twj ywm txhob yws yws os poj ruam aw. Qau tag lawm laiv😂
    Hnub twg txaus koj lawm ces mam yws nav

  • @synergy7903
    @synergy7903 День назад

    Story 1 : only marry the woman not her luggages. Wish you making the best decision and be happy with it.

  • @angie-gz4yg
    @angie-gz4yg День назад

    Story 1: When their kids don't like you, it will cause alot of stress in your relationship and life. I think you need to move on and find someone new

  • @dejsiab3595
    @dejsiab3595 17 часов назад

    Me nyuam tsis nyiam koj ce txhob yuav nawb. Txawm yuav los yeej yuav muaj teem meem ua ntus zus txog qhov rov sib nrauj duas xwb os.