Man. The way these girls’ minds work is just something to behold. Been single & healing intentionally for 2 years after a 15 yr relationship ended. Have now opened myself to men for the last few months & the comment I keep getting is your intelligence scares me. I don’t think I can keep up. Who knew that was even a thing. Now, imagine these girls!! 👀
Influencer culture is such a fan to the flame of consumerism. Even in small things like, Why do you need a new outfit for every event? It’s okay to repeat the dress. It’s proof that it’s yours. 😅. I’m mostly talking to myself. Chile. We’ve got work to do.
And also I legit gave up on the lux girl aesthetics. It felt like no matter how hard I tried I never quite get the baddie, high quality pic aesthetic down. Now I realized it’s because it is not who I am. Why would I be good at trying to be something (or someone) I’m not? I’m glad the social media veil is lifting and people are now starting to become okay with who they are.
You guys should do a dilemmas edit video of all the dilemmas you've ever answered. Something like a yearly round up, could be really cool. I would definitely watch
For the sister from the dilemma, Last year I felt very similar to you. I was in a job that I was good at and, while it wasn't bad, the pay wasn't great and it bored me. I also knew it wasn't the field that I needed to be in. Like you, I had also never dated, and I work from home so I just felt so lonely and unfulfilled all the time. This year I have made strides to change things and while the details haven't changed (I'm still single and working at the same job), I feel so much more fulfilled with my life because I started to fill it with things that I love. As Courtney suggested, I started doing creative projects (just for fun), which has given me something challenging that I'm passionate about to focus on. I also prayed a lot about how I felt about my current job and how I wasn't sure what I was looking for, and God recently put the idea of a new career path into my heart. I only just started applying so I don't know what the process of starting this new career path will be like but just having this (honestly vague) idea/dream has brought me so much joy and given me something to be excited about. Finally, I have been filling my life with community more: I've been more diligent about reaching out to friends and spending time with them, and I also started volunteering which has given me a purpose outside my job. (Maybe I'll also actually meet someone now that I leave my house 😂) I don't know if any of these things will help you but I do strongly suggest them. If nothing else, I'm a testimony that the feeling of hopelessness and the idea that you have nothing to offer can (and WILL) leave.
Courtney was preaching at the end about the prosperity gospel! It really convicted me about my heart posture towards God and my relationship with Him! My earthly dad only really shows his love for me by giving me money and gifts so I subconsciously started seeing my Heavenly Father this way when it's completely different! Thank you so much for this wake-up call and happy birthday!!! You're like an internet big sister and I really appreciate your advice! God bless both of you beautiful and wonderful ladies! 💞
I JUST LOVE HOW INTELLIGENT YOU BOTH ARE. I’m always astounded by this but I can’t say I’m surprised anymore, every episode you give us more and more 🤩
I was in this position job wise a few years ago. My biggest piece of advice is be willing to move. For the relationship, men generally don't care that much about how much you are actually making but more about what you have to bring to the table overall including your degrees, experiences, attitude and looks. You have a lot to offer so stay confident in that and what is meant to happen will happen.
Happy early Birthday Courtney! Also, go off ladies!! I love this conversation about how many of us think we can outwork structural inequalities without collective or communal change.
When we fall into the mindset of believing that what we accumulate equates to our self-worth, it can be such a dangerous way to function. Yet, so many of us do that. We rate and judge others based on their clothing. This is not to say that you should not be decent in public. However, our value is not based on what we can acquire but our self-worth comes from us. Knowing who we are, valuing ourselves for our own individual journey and that aspect of all being children of God which makes us all worthy.
Hey sisters thanks for slapping sense it to my life it’s been sometime and I’m finally realising I’ve been programmed to some beliefs and standards and just accepted them as mine thanks a million
That “I am a vessel, I am nothing, do with me whatever you please” talk Christians use has always rubbed me the wrong way but I couldn’t really put into words why. Glad you ladies brought it up.
Just watched this for the second time because I needed it to simmer in my spirit. The impact that you two have had on my life is beyond what words can describe. Thank you, ladies lol I hardly comment cause I'm always at a loss for word.
Currently something I'm struggling with as I grow spiritually this something I realized I really need to work on. I didn't think this would be something that I would be struggling with but when you are no longer living for self it's challenges like these that help you build a stronger relationship with Jah but all strengthen your faithful so that you can be faithful in other areas in your life along the road to life.
Oh this episode was phenomenal, I loved every bit. I say that to myself every episode but had to leave a comment on this one bc WOW. Yah is really using you both, Glory be to His Name. I love you both and thank you so much for being here, and for this platform. Major growth and CRAZY blessings to you, DEMONS NOT INCLUDED PERIOD. 💌
See this is why you guys are my favs ! Because that part about prosperity gospel !!?!? This seems to be a trend right now with many pastors and preachers making luxury lives and material things are at the core of their sermons and teachings. Be careful out there ! Great episode ladies. 🎉
happy birthday 🎉 I loved this episode so much! Its really relevant to the wound around us now I love to hear how other people stay grounded through it all. Thank you for creating a community like this ❤
Another amazing episode🙏🏿💓 Happy Birthday Courtney🎉🥂💕 May God continue to bless and guide you! I love you because of how inspiring and impactful you are in general and to me specifically 🙏🏿
What an amazing episode!!!!! Much love from Jamaica 🇯🇲!!!! Also, Courtney, that lip combo gets me EVERYTIME!!!!!!! Looooooooooooooovvvvvveeeeeeee!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ DRY LIPS WHERE??????? Nevaaaaa!!!!!!
This was such an amazing episode, I literally shed a tear. Both of you always speak to the parts of me I feel I'm not able to reach by myself and constantly give me new things to reflect on and explore within myself. Thank you🤍
So Good ! This reminds me of *"The Parable of the Rich Fool"* in the bible *(Luke12)* : 14 Jesus replied, “Friend, who made me a judge over you to decide such things as that?” 15 Then he said, “Beware! Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own.” 16 Then he told them a story: “A rich man had a fertile farm that produced fine crops. 17 He said to himself, ‘What should I do? I don’t have room for all my crops.’ 18 Then he said, ‘I know! I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger ones. Then I’ll have room enough to store all my wheat and other goods. 19 And I’ll sit back and say to myself, “My friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Eat, drink, and be merry!”’ 20 “But God said to him, ‘You fool! You will die this very night. Then who will get everything you worked for?’ 21 “Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.”
"People are not upset at structure inequality because they envy the position of the oppressor." Wheew 🔥🔥
Facts
Man. The way these girls’ minds work is just something to behold. Been single & healing intentionally for 2 years after a 15 yr relationship ended. Have now opened myself to men for the last few months & the comment I keep getting is your intelligence scares me. I don’t think I can keep up. Who knew that was even a thing. Now, imagine these girls!! 👀
this applies to so many structures too 😭
Influencer culture is such a fan to the flame of consumerism. Even in small things like, Why do you need a new outfit for every event? It’s okay to repeat the dress. It’s proof that it’s yours. 😅. I’m mostly talking to myself. Chile. We’ve got work to do.
That's why we wash clothes sis! Haha, we're all working on it!
You’re very right! But I think a lot of them rent their clothes/return them after a photo tbh. There’s no way they keep all of that
That first class thing is FACTS! I had a debate with people that couldn’t believe that flying is a luxury. Hopping on any flight is a LUXURY!
And also I legit gave up on the lux girl aesthetics. It felt like no matter how hard I tried I never quite get the baddie, high quality pic aesthetic down. Now I realized it’s because it is not who I am. Why would I be good at trying to be something (or someone) I’m not? I’m glad the social media veil is lifting and people are now starting to become okay with who they are.
You guys should do a dilemmas edit video of all the dilemmas you've ever answered. Something like a yearly round up, could be really cool. I would definitely watch
That's a great idea! Thank you for the suggestion ♥
For the sister from the dilemma,
Last year I felt very similar to you. I was in a job that I was good at and, while it wasn't bad, the pay wasn't great and it bored me. I also knew it wasn't the field that I needed to be in. Like you, I had also never dated, and I work from home so I just felt so lonely and unfulfilled all the time. This year I have made strides to change things and while the details haven't changed (I'm still single and working at the same job), I feel so much more fulfilled with my life because I started to fill it with things that I love.
As Courtney suggested, I started doing creative projects (just for fun), which has given me something challenging that I'm passionate about to focus on. I also prayed a lot about how I felt about my current job and how I wasn't sure what I was looking for, and God recently put the idea of a new career path into my heart. I only just started applying so I don't know what the process of starting this new career path will be like but just having this (honestly vague) idea/dream has brought me so much joy and given me something to be excited about. Finally, I have been filling my life with community more: I've been more diligent about reaching out to friends and spending time with them, and I also started volunteering which has given me a purpose outside my job. (Maybe I'll also actually meet someone now that I leave my house 😂)
I don't know if any of these things will help you but I do strongly suggest them. If nothing else, I'm a testimony that the feeling of hopelessness and the idea that you have nothing to offer can (and WILL) leave.
Thanks for this 😊
Courtney was preaching at the end about the prosperity gospel! It really convicted me about my heart posture towards God and my relationship with Him! My earthly dad only really shows his love for me by giving me money and gifts so I subconsciously started seeing my Heavenly Father this way when it's completely different! Thank you so much for this wake-up call and happy birthday!!! You're like an internet big sister and I really appreciate your advice! God bless both of you beautiful and wonderful ladies! 💞
I JUST LOVE HOW INTELLIGENT YOU BOTH ARE. I’m always astounded by this but I can’t say I’m surprised anymore, every episode you give us more and more 🤩
Thank you so much lovely, and thank you for your continued support! 💕
I was in this position job wise a few years ago. My biggest piece of advice is be willing to move. For the relationship, men generally don't care that much about how much you are actually making but more about what you have to bring to the table overall including your degrees, experiences, attitude and looks. You have a lot to offer so stay confident in that and what is meant to happen will happen.
Happy early Birthday Courtney! Also, go off ladies!! I love this conversation about how many of us think we can outwork structural inequalities without collective or communal change.
Man, you ladies are so hilarious and intelligent. Happy early birthday Cortney; I love you because you are an insightful and beautiful soul.
Intelligent and silly. My favorite combo!
When we fall into the mindset of believing that what we accumulate equates to our self-worth, it can be such a dangerous way to function. Yet, so many of us do that. We rate and judge others based on their clothing. This is not to say that you should not be decent in public. However, our value is not based on what we can acquire but our self-worth comes from us. Knowing who we are, valuing ourselves for our own individual journey and that aspect of all being children of God which makes us all worthy.
This is literally what our young girls need to hear. 😭so good!!!!!!!!
Happy birthday Courtney 🥰😘😘😘 I love you because you're the big sister i've never had your advice has helped me a lot in my teenage years!!!!!
Hey sisters thanks for slapping sense it to my life it’s been sometime and I’m finally realising I’ve been programmed to some beliefs and standards and just accepted them as mine thanks a million
That “I am a vessel, I am nothing, do with me whatever you please” talk Christians use has always rubbed me the wrong way but I couldn’t really put into words why. Glad you ladies brought it up.
Courtney's face when Renee said MLM scheme at 58:47 looool - great analogy 🤣
Just watched this for the second time because I needed it to simmer in my spirit.
The impact that you two have had on my life is beyond what words can describe. Thank you, ladies lol I hardly comment cause I'm always at a loss for word.
That convo is gems on gems. Thank you ♥️
You two ladies are so wise! I love this conversation 💕
Currently something I'm struggling with as I grow spiritually this something I realized I really need to work on. I didn't think this would be something that I would be struggling with but when you are no longer living for self it's challenges like these that help you build a stronger relationship with Jah but all strengthen your faithful so that you can be faithful in other areas in your life along the road to life.
This changed so much for me. I am so blessed to have came across this video. Thank you ladies❤!
Oh this episode was phenomenal, I loved every bit. I say that to myself every episode but had to leave a comment on this one bc WOW. Yah is really using you both, Glory be to His Name. I love you both and thank you so much for being here, and for this platform. Major growth and CRAZY blessings to you, DEMONS NOT INCLUDED PERIOD. 💌
I really love you ladies....i truly beleive more women should strive to be like you
Sorry but Miss Reneee looks real good in this video! Everything is just colour coordinating 🤎 Same as Miss Courtney, I see the bayang 😍
Right? They look great! 🙌
Thank you so much! Hehe, we tried for this one! ❤
Happy Birthday Courtney 💖. My birthday falls on 3rd May .A pleasure to be celebrating with you almost twin🤭
See this is why you guys are my favs ! Because that part about prosperity gospel !!?!? This seems to be a trend right now with many pastors and preachers making luxury lives and material things are at the core of their sermons and teachings. Be careful out there ! Great episode ladies. 🎉
Y’all are preachinggggggg the gospel. Wowwwww! I love youuuu guys so much!!!!
Courtney 1:06:25 ! I rewinded this so many times because wow! what a word
happy birthday 🎉 I loved this episode so much! Its really relevant to the wound around us now I love to hear how other people stay grounded through it all. Thank you for creating a community like this ❤
The piece on our warped view of God spoke directly to me! Definitely something I want to work on for improved intimacy with Jesus
Happy early birthday Sis Courtney ❤🎉
Thank you ladies for blessing us again with your humour and wisdom! 😍👏🏿
Happy Birthday Courtney, I have just gotten to the birthday advertisement part. God bless you. Thank you both for the videos.
Me and Court share the same bday 💙 Have a blessed 26th :) !
Twinning! Happy birthday ♥
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 I can't wait for you guys to come to South Africa
You’ve got a new subscriber!! This was such a great conversation! Really spoke to me.
Welcome! Hope you enjoy and stick around ❤
Another amazing thought-provoking message ladies. God bless ♥
This channel has been a blessing.
Another amazing episode🙏🏿💓 Happy Birthday Courtney🎉🥂💕 May God continue to bless and guide you! I love you because of how inspiring and impactful you are in general and to me specifically 🙏🏿
Happy birthday Courtney!❤🎉
You’re inspirational and wise❤️
Happy birthday beautiful Courtney! May the Lord bless you abundantly on your 26th year! xx
'the pursuit of money has even been commodified' whew 👏
i haven’t even pressed play yet, but the notification of this coming to my phone and the title lets me know i’m finna get my ass HANDEDD TO MEEEEE
Handed with a side of fries and dip! LOL 😂 hope you enjoyed sis! ❤
What an amazing episode!!!!! Much love from Jamaica 🇯🇲!!!! Also, Courtney, that lip combo gets me EVERYTIME!!!!!!! Looooooooooooooovvvvvveeeeeeee!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ DRY LIPS WHERE??????? Nevaaaaa!!!!!!
Miss Jamaicaaaaa one of our FAVE countries! Thank you lovely! ❤❤❤
Congrats on the 50k subs!
Happy Birthday Courtney!
I love your videos and the quotes I get from them. You ladies definitely spit fire. 🔥
Happy birthday Courtney!! Best wishes 🎉 🧁 🥳
Happy birthday in advance Courtney 🎉🥰❤️
This episode is soooooooo GOOD! 🥲🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
Happy birthday Courtney 🎉 May God continue to bless you. I look forward to seeing you both for Detty December!
and also happy birthday courtney 🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿
great talking points and happy birthday
I feel attacked 💀 but wow great talk as always ladies ❤🥂
Happy sisday Courtney 🎉❤ !
Y’all went in on this one 🎯🎯🎯
Wow, so excited for this
On a side note you both look good! Can u share with us your makeup 😊
This was such an amazing episode, I literally shed a tear. Both of you always speak to the parts of me I feel I'm not able to reach by myself and constantly give me new things to reflect on and explore within myself. Thank you🤍
Sheesh Rene ✨ Talk to somebody!
Happy birthday!
So Good ! This reminds me of *"The Parable of the Rich Fool"* in the bible *(Luke12)* : 14 Jesus replied, “Friend, who made me a judge over you to decide such things as that?” 15 Then he said, “Beware! Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own.”
16 Then he told them a story: “A rich man had a fertile farm that produced fine crops. 17 He said to himself, ‘What should I do? I don’t have room for all my crops.’ 18 Then he said, ‘I know! I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger ones. Then I’ll have room enough to store all my wheat and other goods. 19 And I’ll sit back and say to myself, “My friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Eat, drink, and be merry!”’
20 “But God said to him, ‘You fool! You will die this very night. Then who will get everything you worked for?’
21 “Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.”
this podcast is too damn good to be only for women🤣🤣
Preahinggggggg
COURTNEY'S BIG 26 SOONNNN
(Selah)
Happy birthday Courtney!! Best wishes 🎉 🧁 🥳
Happy birthday Courtney!! Best wishes 🎉 🧁 🥳