Thank you, so, so much. How we are represented in this industry has been weightibg sm on my mind recently. To see someone kinda like me (another mixed asian looking trans guy) is a blessing.
They're not dating, they deleted a bunch of pics of each other and MaryV was seen being handsy with a cis-man. I believe Chella and Mary are still friends but it's not romantic anymore as far as I can tell (unless it's an open relationship). Either way, not surprised. In my experience, if a woman is attractive she doesn't tend to stay lesbian for long - they inevitably end up with a man. The only hardcore lesbians I've seen aren't very good looking and probably had trouble getting and keeping the men they desired.
@@goodluckwiththatonelol This is the biggest bullshit I ever read. By saying that, you're 1. automatically implying that who you love isn't about sexuality but about attractiveness. And that sexuality doesn't exist. And 2. that men are generally speaking hotter than women because attractive women always go for men. Holy fuck? So just for your information: Nobody "stays lesbian" or "decides to change", it's NOT a decision for god's sake. And an attractive person isn't automatically going for men because women are just as hot ;) And on top of all, nobody with a brain chooses their partners only by their appearance.
Chella kinda passes at first glance but it very quickly becomes obvious what she is. She has very wide hips, feminine eyes, and tbh her voice sounds like that of a wiry little teen boy, not a man. That brings me to my next point, what is the point of "transitioning" when you're not actually a man? She doesn't have a penis and testicles, which are honestly a huge part of being a man. I mean, a lot of men would rather be dead then live life without them. I found some pics of her pre-transition and pre-test and honestly, she was very, very pretty. Yet she threw it all away and mutilated herself into what she is now - neither a man nor a woman, just some strange in-between. It's interesting when trans people talk about loving and accepting their bodies. Clearly you couldn't love and accept your body as you were born, so you got surgery to "fix" it. How is that love and acceptance? Gender dysphoria is a legitimate mental illness, yet these days people applaud them and the medical industry eagerly snaps them up for a quick buck.
So now, eye shapes are feminine or masculine? Men can't have wide hips? Can't grown men have a different tone of voice? I had seen men with what you call feminine traits and yet they are cis-men. I had seen women with broad shoulders, narrow hips and yet they are beautiful and amazing woman. Your body doesn't defines you nor restricts you from being a man or a woman... Sometimes features don't make it a big deal and don't make people less attractive... Chella might have been pretty in your eyes before but that doesn't really matter anyway, don't you think? And he's really, really handsome right now, although our opinions on his apparence don't matter because he's not supposed to appeal to anyone but himself and himself alone... What matters is that he learns to love himself, he helps poc people feel seen and healthy, he shares love and awareness and that really matters, I think deeply... and please stop mistreating him. He defines himself as he/they, so please respect those boundaries even if you don't understand. Sorry for any misspelling in English (I'm native French). Have a nice day and i hope you find love and understanding.
As long as your alive and has not changed or removed your body parts you can change and ask God to forgive you for your sins. Once dead there is no forgiveness
Hello, I used to be gay and I just want to tell you that Jesus loves you. Jesus wants a relationship with you and he can help you like he has helped me. He saved me from the path of destruction I was on and helped me to the path of salvation. I’ve seen you have been transgender for so many years and I just pray that you seek the truth of Jesus Christ and seek the gospel. I pray that Jesus opens your eyes and you seek our fathers love. I pray you have a hunger for the Bible and get curious. I was gay for as long as I could remember at a young age till I seeked after Jesus. God showed me I wasn’t supposed to be in the relationship I was in. He also showed my partner at the time as well. He showed her kicking the Bible in a dream while he showed me a message on the moon for me to basically end the relationship. We are now on the path of God and have never been happier. I hope you can read this message. God saw you in his perfect image and he will show you what he saw in you. God bless you ! 💙
You do know that this isn't a "decision"? :) People simply ARE. They don't decide to be. And people who are trying to hide their true self, live a miserable life, mostly get severe depression and kill themselves. This has happened way too often. And thats EXACTLY what you are promoting, nothing else. If somebody simply LOVES another person (love, you get that?), there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with love. How could there be? Tf.
@@_leni it is a decision because you’re choosing to pursue a relationship with the same gender, people who are trying to fill a void and are miserable and stuff is because they never felt true love before they never met Jesus. Jesus fills that void and helps you find your true self, the one that God made. God knows every single one of us inside and out. He knows what people want and knows what they need even if they don’t know what they need. I’m not promoting people to kill themselves I would never say that. You can love the same sex yes but not in a way that only a man and a woman can love each other. Look we don’t even have to go towards what the Bible says, but biologically, a man and a woman only go together not the same sex . That’s why the same sex can’t have kids together or their parts don’t go together.
![Jim & Whetu | Their full story [PUNCH]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/7X1GKFHZlVI/mqdefault.jpg)
![Jim & Whetu | Their full story [PUNCH]](/img/tr.png)
I was thinking of Chella and Mary V for a long time. As for this video, it is love ❤
Did they already break up?
This felt so safe. Thanks for sharing this lovely conversation. 💛
Thank you, so, so much. How we are represented in this industry has been weightibg sm on my mind recently. To see someone kinda like me (another mixed asian looking trans guy) is a blessing.
Honestly, you guys are so brave. Salute 🤧
Does anyone know where we can watch the whole film? I desperately want to see it
It’s on the channel called nowness
thank you for sharing your story and that of many others. it's beautiful!
The short film was touching and great thank you Chella for this
I love this. Thanks so much for sharing. It means a lot to hear this. I needed to hear this :)
Him and MaryV are not dating anymore, right?
damn, love is dead.
@@kusohkuso7165 How do you know?
They're not dating, they deleted a bunch of pics of each other and MaryV was seen being handsy with a cis-man. I believe Chella and Mary are still friends but it's not romantic anymore as far as I can tell (unless it's an open relationship). Either way, not surprised. In my experience, if a woman is attractive she doesn't tend to stay lesbian for long - they inevitably end up with a man. The only hardcore lesbians I've seen aren't very good looking and probably had trouble getting and keeping the men they desired.
@@goodluckwiththatonelolI really don’t think it went like this and it’s very disrespectful to speculate.
@@goodluckwiththatonelol This is the biggest bullshit I ever read. By saying that, you're 1. automatically implying that who you love isn't about sexuality but about attractiveness. And that sexuality doesn't exist. And 2. that men are generally speaking hotter than women because attractive women always go for men. Holy fuck?
So just for your information: Nobody "stays lesbian" or "decides to change", it's NOT a decision for god's sake. And an attractive person isn't automatically going for men because women are just as hot ;) And on top of all, nobody with a brain chooses their partners only by their appearance.
Wheres mary v. What happened?
this is fucking beautiful
After 2 years 😮
Im so sorry for asking this but i do wonder what happen between u and mary v such sweeet sweet love 🥺😭
Missed you chellaaa
Miss your energy!
So beautiful ❤
wtf is this? and how is it ok?
And now look at you mf
👍
In a positive way
Quedé asi😮
love u both
💕
Wake up!
Chella kinda passes at first glance but it very quickly becomes obvious what she is. She has very wide hips, feminine eyes, and tbh her voice sounds like that of a wiry little teen boy, not a man. That brings me to my next point, what is the point of "transitioning" when you're not actually a man? She doesn't have a penis and testicles, which are honestly a huge part of being a man. I mean, a lot of men would rather be dead then live life without them.
I found some pics of her pre-transition and pre-test and honestly, she was very, very pretty. Yet she threw it all away and mutilated herself into what she is now - neither a man nor a woman, just some strange in-between.
It's interesting when trans people talk about loving and accepting their bodies. Clearly you couldn't love and accept your body as you were born, so you got surgery to "fix" it. How is that love and acceptance? Gender dysphoria is a legitimate mental illness, yet these days people applaud them and the medical industry eagerly snaps them up for a quick buck.
So now, eye shapes are feminine or masculine? Men can't have wide hips? Can't grown men have a different tone of voice? I had seen men with what you call feminine traits and yet they are cis-men. I had seen women with broad shoulders, narrow hips and yet they are beautiful and amazing woman. Your body doesn't defines you nor restricts you from being a man or a woman... Sometimes features don't make it a big deal and don't make people less attractive...
Chella might have been pretty in your eyes before but that doesn't really matter anyway, don't you think? And he's really, really handsome right now, although our opinions on his apparence don't matter because he's not supposed to appeal to anyone but himself and himself alone...
What matters is that he learns to love himself, he helps poc people feel seen and healthy, he shares love and awareness and that really matters, I think deeply... and please stop mistreating him. He defines himself as he/they, so please respect those boundaries even if you don't understand.
Sorry for any misspelling in English (I'm native French). Have a nice day and i hope you find love and understanding.
@@myulovesyou Don't feed troll. Let it sit in the swampy dark. Chella's a stunning guy; it's common knowledge.
@@KhymeiraPERIOD!!!!
As long as your alive and has not changed or removed your body parts you can change and ask God to forgive you for your sins. Once dead there is no forgiveness
Hello, I used to be gay and I just want to tell you that Jesus loves you. Jesus wants a relationship with you and he can help you like he has helped me. He saved me from the path of destruction I was on and helped me to the path of salvation. I’ve seen you have been transgender for so many years and I just pray that you seek the truth of Jesus Christ and seek the gospel. I pray that Jesus opens your eyes and you seek our fathers love. I pray you have a hunger for the Bible and get curious. I was gay for as long as I could remember at a young age till I seeked after Jesus.
God showed me I wasn’t supposed to be in the relationship I was in. He also showed my partner at the time as well. He showed her kicking the Bible in a dream while he showed me a message on the moon for me to basically end the relationship. We are now on the path of God and have never been happier. I hope you can read this message. God saw you in his perfect image and he will show you what he saw in you. God bless you ! 💙
You do know that this isn't a "decision"? :) People simply ARE. They don't decide to be. And people who are trying to hide their true self, live a miserable life, mostly get severe depression and kill themselves. This has happened way too often. And thats EXACTLY what you are promoting, nothing else. If somebody simply LOVES another person (love, you get that?), there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with love. How could there be? Tf.
@@_leni it is a decision because you’re choosing to pursue a relationship with the same gender, people who are trying to fill a void and are miserable and stuff is because they never felt true love before they never met Jesus. Jesus fills that void and helps you find your true self, the one that God made. God knows every single one of us inside and out. He knows what people want and knows what they need even if they don’t know what they need. I’m not promoting people to kill themselves I would never say that. You can love the same sex yes but not in a way that only a man and a woman can love each other. Look we don’t even have to go towards what the Bible says, but biologically, a man and a woman only go together not the same sex . That’s why the same sex can’t have kids together or their parts don’t go together.
quality of video is so bad (only 360) 🥲
It’s up to 2k now, try again