imma start doing that. my parents don't apologize at all im tired of them already. i promise to my future kids that i’ll have to apologize but i’ll get on to them to make sure they better right
The part when she hands the phone back and changes her mind about Nana taking the grandkids to the movies. Translation: She called her mom to complain about these badass kids and how she grounded him and Nana said she needs to pick her battles and offers to talk to him about respect instead and you get to have a break.
Same!!! My dad would lose his shit over something silly and the next day there would be an extra quarter for my lunch money. Little did he know that my lunch money budget didn't quite cover my lunch and the quarter didn't change anything but I understood the meaning behind the extra quarter...and I still find it sweet and funny. I love these videos. Really shows the similarities in how some of us were raised. I wish we could have a gathering of those of us raised this way. I wonder if there are major similarities in our personalities as adults.
My mom apologized only twice. Once for wrecking the car with dad and me in it and once for making me feel like bad blood by berating my father after he left.
Parents genuinely apologizing to their children strengthens the bond. It lets the child know that the parent is human & they make mistakes too. I wish all parents knew that the trade off for a good relationship with your child is a little accountability from the parent. Such a small trade off that most parents don’t learn. These parents deserve the respect cuz it’s not easy to hold yourself accountable especially to your children.
Exactly. I’m 46 and me and my hubby apologize when we wrong to our boys. My mom do and did those back hand apologies. Those aren’t sincere. It does teaches your children. They learn what they are taught.
My French-Canadian stepmom & Portuguese-Anglo dad were like this - indirect niceness with a little softening-up, but no apologies! My mom was more of a flip-flopper - either lots of rules or totally giving in, with minimal rules. She had us pretty young & didn't really read-up enough on parenting at the time, probably. We were born in the early 60's, so there weren't that many parenting books back then - just Dr. Spock & stuff like that. She knows a lot more about communication & psychology now, so that's what really matters, right? My stepmother & dad - still pretty much the same!
My Mother NEVER apologized. She would just suddenly sign me up for something she new I liked happening in the neighborhood or city. I’d be doing chores and she’d come to me talking about, get ready before we’re late😮.. I was like Mom, you didn’t tell me we were going anywhere… she’d reply… yes I did and you’d better come on . She knew good and well, she didn’t tell me about the fun activity/event 😅
Mama gets you everytime with that"I don't feel like cooking" and you only get your phone back cause she couldn't text you to tell you to take the chicken out the freezer😂😂😂
Lol. When my mom did something she was sorry for you would know when she'd open your door and ask you what you wanted from the store. She would then say, "Come on and ride with me because I can't remember that." When you got to the store you could have anything you wanted. It was so cute to me. God rest her soul. She was one hell of a wife and mother ❤🎉😊
My mom, too. Her apology (especially when I got grown)was preparing my favorite food items and saying, "You better sit down and eat it cuz I don't know when I am fixing all this food again! Come on, Now, Girl!" Lol😂 Check this out! This is how she apologized to my son, her grandbaby- "Granny is Sorry! What do you want me to do for you? Let's go to the dollar store. " 😅😂😂😂 Do you see a difference? Hilarious!!😅😂😂😂
My mom doesn't apologize often, but sometimes I don't let it go until she does. Usually her apology is given in a sarcastic tone with an eyeroll and a sigh, then followed by several excuses. The conclusion is usually "I'm trying my best!"
I wouldn't attempt to make someone apologize. That is something that needs to be authentic and genuine. You don't want to attempt to operate from a place of control. Because that isn't a form of love either. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.
@@ladennayoung2939true, but if someone can’t apologise authentically, then they aren’t really sorry, and so you shouldn’t accept their substitutes for an apology either
I felt very fortunate even as a child that both of my parents were willing to apologize when they felt guilty about something. An actual, "I'm sorry." They also would ask to eat food they knew I bought with my own allowance if they wanted it. Of course I would never tell them 'no.' They were accountable for what they did. I am grateful.
This was my mom growing up. It's why no matter how uncomfortable it may be for me, I apologize to my kids when I'm wrong. It's important for your kids to know you make mistakes too. Once I realized my mom wasn't perfect, it changed my whole perspective.
Let me guess.. you want to be a mom and be a friend with your kids? And you think you are a better parent? Haha.. I am happy that my mom being my Mom and not my friend. (My opinion)..
@@marcvu4379 Not at all. I don't even think the idea of being my kid's friend plays into this at all. I want to be a mom that teaches my kids what accountability for one's self looks like by being a model of that. I want my kids to understand that the rules I put in place for them are to keep them safe and help them become the best people they can possibly be, but sometimes I get it wrong, because I'm human and that's OK. But then as a decent human being who can learn and grow from their mistakes, I should be able to acknowledge when I'm wrong and be accountable. And do better next time. I don't know about you, but that's a lesson I want my kids to learn. As parents, we sometimes make the mistake of thinking we can teach just by speaking, but kids watch what we do and that's more likely what they pick up. So I try to be the person I want my kids to grow up to be. But hey to each his own. 🤷🏾♀️
@@annagarcia1527 We all do. If you're a mom who doesn't lose her cool sometimes I want your secret! Lol. All we can do is our best, sounds like you're an awesome mom. ♥
@@tiffanylawson9551 AMEN and I fully support this message! I apologise to my children too - they respect you more and learn humility, how to apologize themselves and that no one is without fault. It also teaches them to know they are valuable and their feelings count so they are then able to empathize with others. You are doing it well Mama👈🏽💯💜
The Only Bad Thing About That Is It Makes Them Soft So The Next Time They Get Yelled At It'll Hurt Worse, When Apologizing Like In The Video It Keeps A Balance Toughing Them Up But Disciplining Too
He is a genius. He manages to grasp the essence of what went on daily in many of our households as kids. The good and the bad. Looking back as an adult, I have realized we got use to a lot of negative toxic behaviors from our family as kids.
I lived in an Hispanic household. My stepdad was cuban mom Dominican, Iykyk smh. But i was always in trouble for some reason and we had real punishments no tv and in your room. Well i used to grab a book and go sit on the hallway stairs and sometimes they would just walk right pass me but their forgiveness was go watch tv. I used to hop up so fast. Worked every time lol
As A Black Mother when I was wrong I sincerely apologized to my children, and then did what I could to make it right. Being human, I understood that I could be wrong and or mistaken.
I apologize to my son, because i needed to hear it back then. My mom apologizes now, she’s truly grown in Christ and it helps me be a better believer and person every day.
Same as South African mums 🤣🤣🤣 here's that thing I saw at the mall it was on sale.....we goin to get groceries are u staying behind all bored come with us..... absolutely no " Im sorry" 😂😂😂😂😂
My Kenyan mom apologizes in the same pattern. She couldn't work out a proper apology to save her life😊. But her way of saying sorry was to cook your favorite food or buy you something. We learnt her emotional cues like computer codes.
Same here! I think it's an African thing. Usually it's food. The apology can last for a day or two. Like food and maybe asking what you want and being nice to you but you're still careful what you say and do so you don't make them mad.😂
probably true about our moms, no matter where in the diaspora our family lines landed.😄 & yours is one of the best replies ever! got u a thumbs up from me! 🤗🧚🏾♀️
This is my Italian Mum. Apologising by not really apologising but offering to feed you your favourite by way of apology. The dialogue on this clip is scarily accurate, as is the passive-agressive slip-slap of the slippers.
@@deamorebeaute2412 Abeg, chill. Let people be. Black people don't have sole ownership of this experience. Oh, and this is coming from a black person who DID NOT experience this kind of behaviour from my parents.
😂😂😂 LOL yes both are truly black moms way to say I'm sorry just beat your ass you just stopped crying now she walk upstairs talking about "You hungry you ready to eat..." 😂
@@bartbullock9742 because actual movies don't have a bunch of takes? guess those Hollywood movies be getting it right everytime on the very first take eh...
@Donna Thedead That's right! If I had movie producer money, I would too. This guy is talented AND has got some range, yes? (I was in Theater Club in high school, back in the early 80's - went they spent $ on that stuff. Hope most public high schools still have it! That's how I knew that phrase "range" - Now I wish I took Computer classes/club!
Omgggg this really is true, as a black mom I must say you have to make it normal to Apologize to your child when you are wrong or over reacted. 🥰🥰🥰💝💝💝💖
My mum would take me to the local bakery and get me whatever I wanted. But her entire demeanor was very similar to what he shows in this video 😂😢😭 I did appreciate the gesture tho… a lot. My best memories with her are our bakery breakfasts. We would just stay quiet and eat, and you could see that it made her feel better to see me really enjoy the food and the moment.
As mom of a now 17 year old and 11 year old learning to apologize to my kids when I mess up has helped heal my inner child in ways I never thought possible. And it also helps them to know that no matter how old you are no one’s perfect we all make mistakes and admitting that helps you grow. It starts with the example we set as parents. Love these skits
Reaching hew levels of enlightenment ❤ I fully agree. I too have a 17 year old son and 11 year old daughter, an I'm not afraid to get my knees a little dusty when I do something wrong.
I had a white mom growing up, but I also had a black step mom growing up, I was a sensitive child and didn't understand why my step mom was the way she was, but as an adult, I now know that it wasn't nothing against me, it is just the way she was and I was like her own! God bless my dad's widow.
@ashleyen3 : In spirit ✨️ Yes, she's in the spiritual realm now. A mother's love ❤️ will last you a lifetime. I works with Geriatrics. And there are many who can remember their Mother's, if nothing else Stay sweet. Love you.
My mother passed in a car accident and my young nana raised me, these skits are so friggin good, the "life alert" one was absolutely a riot, they're all good. My nana was from Riverton Park in Portland Maine, poor, most of her younger DayZ and she had that attitude- her way or the highway, she tell you to jump, you say, "how high??" Now a DayZ the whole family has emotional intelligence because of tradejeds bringius together and DBT classes and she's still badass at 76, but last week she came out with, "Davie can't fight his way out of a wet paper bag" lmao. I've always enjoyed light funnies about black culture and the makers of this content are brilliant. Well done. Very well done. Creative & classy.
It's Not that serious we knew they humbled themselves and were being extra nice because they were Sorry. _That was a whole other Generation_ that raised kids with Manners & God. *Too bad Today's Generation is being raised by their Soft-Azz Best Friends* who they talk back to. Parents shouldn't be as tough as the previous Generation but my Goodness. They are messing up Big time Today. *It shouldn't go from one extreme to the next.*
@@TheBrownIsland Not all parents I have a little old school mixed with the new school you can't fully be old school because you can't lie to these kids now of days with all this technology and kids that isn't been raised right so you have to do 50/50 to get better results and my child has had God in her life since the womb I got Baptist all over again
*This is so freaking Accurate!* Being all nice with a soft voice and allowing you to do things & go places you were told NO you can't go and the ride along to get you something to eat.
I’m kinda glad he didn’t show up to share the explosion before that.. that we’re apologizing for!🤣 filipina/white Mom of 5… living that life!😘 ~Sheeara, Alaska
@Shii Wak I think Mum's in Britain need to go back to a little more of this. Family parenting ❤️. Fascinating cultural history you must have. Mum's know it's tough
.. not just in black families but this right here is grade A narcissism and most of us in black families don’t even realize this is dead wrong to do to your kids. Smh.. never will treat my kids this way. This reenactment was so spot on that it hurt lol
First of all she punished him because he did something he shouldn't have done. She's giving him privileges back early because she felt bad. Now, that's a mistake because parents should stick to the punishment. But to call her a narcissist is absolutely wrong. A narcissist doesn't feel bad about anything, doesn't have remorse, and does not feel empathy. Your judgment is harsh and wrong.
So true then as the kids get older they get mad about how they are. I wonder where it came from. That was not an apology. Messed up adults can raise messeds up kids and sometimes turn into messed up adults. Break the cycle.
@@karmakat7710 We don’t know the backstory of the skit, but not all narcissists are so cut and dry like that … Some have narcissistic tendencies, but aren’t full blown “narcissists”. My white mother was extremely narcissistic in her parenting, but possessed certain qualities outside that textbook description … The point here is that a parent should lead by example, which means humbling themself to apologize, without passive aggression and ego.
Mom getting irritated while attempting to make it right is so accurate 🤣
My mom all the way. 😅😅😅😅😅
😂😂🤣🤣😭 me lol
Exactly!!!😂😂😂
It’s me lmaooooo
For real we can't win with our moms 😅
Mama apology is either food, money, activities or clother
My mom used to work at a clothing store when I was a teenager. When she was sorry I’d a have a cute new outfit for school the next day.
@@misscleo378 💯
Ok that's just what we do gotta love us !!!!!
So right 😂
🙏 AMEN ♥️ ONE time my mother got me an IPad for breaking up me & my boyfriend so we couldn't get married.
That's my mom, she never apologize...love her though, but she didn't know better. I do however, apologize to my kids. Breaking that generational cycle
Thank you ❤
Same. My mama never apologized to us and still don't, but at least she apologizes to the grandkids 😂😂😂
I apologize to mine too. My dad apologized once and it taught me how to apologize.
Absolutely 🥰 everyone makes mistakes. Even mommas
imma start doing that. my parents don't apologize at all im tired of them already. i promise to my future kids that i’ll have to apologize but i’ll get on to them to make sure they better right
I know this is comedy. My mom is deceased. This skit brought back so many memories. I'm in tears. This one made me miss her.
Same. I miss her so much💔
God bless you sorry for your loss
Stay strong ❤
The part when she hands the phone back and changes her mind about Nana taking the grandkids to the movies. Translation: She called her mom to complain about these badass kids and how she grounded him and Nana said she needs to pick her battles and offers to talk to him about respect instead and you get to have a break.
I concur! ❤
You got it🎉
😊 🎉 ding ding ding!
Is right……🇯🇲🇬🇧
Yasssss!!!! 😂 Translated perfectly! 😂
My mother never apologized under any circumstance but my Dad would leave money for you if he was wrong.
Awwww ❤
Same!!! My dad would lose his shit over something silly and the next day there would be an extra quarter for my lunch money. Little did he know that my lunch money budget didn't quite cover my lunch and the quarter didn't change anything but I understood the meaning behind the extra quarter...and I still find it sweet and funny. I love these videos. Really shows the similarities in how some of us were raised. I wish we could have a gathering of those of us raised this way. I wonder if there are major similarities in our personalities as adults.
Your Dad literally paid for his mistake💎
My mom apologized only twice. Once for wrecking the car with dad and me in it and once for making me feel like bad blood by berating my father after he left.
@@deeleigh1626
A quarter. We're you in kindergarten?
My mama used to actually apologize and say she was sorry. I respect her so much for that.
Parents genuinely apologizing to their children strengthens the bond. It lets the child know that the parent is human & they make mistakes too. I wish all parents knew that the trade off for a good relationship with your child is a little accountability from the parent. Such a small trade off that most parents don’t learn. These parents deserve the respect cuz it’s not easy to hold yourself accountable especially to your children.
Your comment made my day. I apologize to my child when mistake is on my side. But sometimes I do wonder if she understands the value behind it.
my mom too apologize i looove her even more for that
I wish I had a mom like yours
Exactly. I’m 46 and me and my hubby apologize when we wrong to our boys. My mom do and did those back hand apologies. Those aren’t sincere. It does teaches your children. They learn what they are taught.
Brooo the food cuz “they tired “ is 100 percent 🤣🤣😭
It’s so real though. Parenting and especially being a mother seems like a lot of hard work
It’s the robe, the hand mannerisms, the McDonald’s ❤ it’s perfection
And that house wig!!🤭
Lmfao
@@chicksummer3578 the “ house wig “ 😂😂everyone’s mother has one
@@supernova7848 oh hell yeah!! Moms keep a house wig now!!🤭
Facts lol
That is a f’ing Oscar worthy performance. That was REALLY good.
Absolutely 🥂👑🏆
It was perfect
I agree 💯 the acting is so believable it's easy to see all the scenarios she mentions. It's more like it's documentary, wow.
And so true of the mothers I grew up with when I was a kid. 😅😂😊
Yes! He should have done had one for every skit!
Then they be like, “ you know I love you right? Right?” 😂
And get mad if you don't say "Yes/Yes ma'am"
😂😂😂
This lines a little to accurate 😂
😊❤
Then they are like
😭😭😭😭 “which one do you want” so aggressively 💀
Am I watching this, or receiving therapy? This guy is spot-on
We're receiving therapy too, girl. 😂
I thought that I was the only one who felt like this.
It's both. I have memories and jay is a poor woman's therapist.
Both
It’s the voice and tone for me. Calming even if there’s a slight chance of getting popped. 😅
The accuracy of this!!!!! Wow!!!
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times- this man is Oscar worthy.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Yes, got every genre of a black female down pac and to a T
@@denisebrown2622 but not black man
I love him baddddd❤
Facts, Katt Williams baby cousin(new age).
If I had a damn nickel for everytime my mama said "... hurry up before I change my mind again" I'd be rich! 😂😂😂
I find myself saying the same thing to my daughter now 😫
Bro! You are amazingly talented👍💯
Me too 😂😂
Me too
😂😂😂
Opening with the slipper walk ☠️☠️ All the little details are so perfect
It's the sound of the dragging slippers for me! CLASSIC!!!🎉😂
Yes!!
HahHhaha
And the house wig!😂
ahahahahahaha!! as I was reading your comment, I heard them dragging!! LMMFBAO!!
😂
I am Latino, and that's my mother. Dead ass. They apologize lowkey by being "Nice" and mean at the same time. I felt that.
I have the type of Latina mom that apologizes by cutting fruit
My French-Canadian stepmom & Portuguese-Anglo dad were like this - indirect niceness with a little softening-up, but no apologies!
My mom was more of a flip-flopper - either lots of rules or totally giving in, with minimal rules. She had us pretty young & didn't really read-up enough on parenting at the time, probably. We were born in the early 60's, so there weren't that many parenting books back then - just Dr. Spock & stuff like that. She knows a lot more about communication & psychology now, so that's what really matters, right?
My stepmother & dad - still pretty much the same!
definitely mean at the same time .my family Portuguese they the same way so I'm thinking it's most moms tbh lol
😄😃😀
@@beezar113 Ha!
My Mother NEVER apologized. She would just suddenly sign me up for something she new I liked happening in the neighborhood or city. I’d be doing chores and she’d come to me talking about, get ready before we’re late😮.. I was like Mom, you didn’t tell me we were going anywhere… she’d reply… yes I did and you’d better come on . She knew good and well, she didn’t tell me about the fun activity/event 😅
Right 😂my mom did the same dag on thing😂
It’s the fun activity that had me rolling 🤣
🤣🤣
That's so sweet. 🥹
Not your mama slidin' mystery activities in 🤣💀
😂😂right
Definition of "actions speak louder than words" 😂😂
He nails it...EVERY TIME! The mannerisms, the tone, the perfect lines...AMAZING talent.
…the hair😂. I’m jealous.
Yaaaas!!! He has been paying attention & his characters are soooo relatable to women I know, including myself😂😂!!
🙌🏾Down to the slippers across the floor walking in🤣🤣🤣
Yesss
I mean EEVVERYTHING! ITS surreal.
Mama gets you everytime with that"I don't feel like cooking" and you only get your phone back cause she couldn't text you to tell you to take the chicken out the freezer😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣👏🏼👏🏼Yesss!!!💯😂😂
☠️😂😭😂😭💯🎯👏👏
😂😂😂😂
Omg!!!!!!😂
I have a beautiful black mother, and she taught my sister and me to apologize the right way. If you did something wrong, own it.
Protect your mom at all costs.
That's something so many people don't do these days. Accountability is a big deal in relationships.
Mine too, baby. Saying "Im sorry" ain't that difficult
Yup yup
Yep. Being wrong isn’t that bad, it’s how you behave after you realize you’re wrong that matters even more.
Of all your videos, THIS was so touching...I see that I am not alone in my experience with my mom.
Ok but the little kid is so grateful and respectful😭
Yea because that child gonna get slapped into a coma if he talk wrong 😂🤣
😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂
@@takiyaanderson347 The fact that I understand exactly what you mean, though 😂
😂😂😂 they better be! Get it taken again 😂
Little kid? That’s a grown ass man!!
Lol. When my mom did something she was sorry for you would know when she'd open your door and ask you what you wanted from the store. She would then say, "Come on and ride with me because I can't remember that." When you got to the store you could have anything you wanted. It was so cute to me. God rest her soul. She was one hell of a wife and mother ❤🎉😊
Awwww bless her soul! ❤
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My mom, too. Her apology (especially when I got grown)was preparing my favorite food items and saying, "You better sit down and eat it cuz I don't know when I am fixing all this food again! Come on, Now, Girl!" Lol😂 Check this out! This is how she apologized to my son, her grandbaby- "Granny is Sorry! What do you want me to do for you? Let's go to the dollar store. " 😅😂😂😂 Do you see a difference? Hilarious!!😅😂😂😂
Thats Gold. ❤
❤❤❤yes my Mama too
The feet draggin' in the beginning was on point❣️🤣🤣🤣 Beautifully done! Loved it❣️
Lmao this is gold. Trying to make amends but on an impatient vibe 😂
😅😂
i.e. passive aggressive
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
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“ I changed my mind, you better hush up before I change it again”…that’s CLASSIC!!
*and on Point!* That's how they do it.
Like a Panasonic REMOTE 😅😂!!
I too am white and those were words taken right out of my mother’s mouth LOL!
That's the part that hit me the hardest. LOL!! Hush up befo' I change my mind.
My moms apology was always two words " Yuh hungry?"
Lol 😂 mines too that's why I'm fat now hahaha 😂😂😂
Oo! You’re lucky! My family would always be like “you still upset”? As if i was the one who did something.
😂
How you going to ask me if I want food after you just whooped my ass
This fuckin comment. We are clearly siblings lmao. I can hear my mama now, U HUNNGREE? 😅😂😂😂
My mom doesn't apologize often, but sometimes I don't let it go until she does. Usually her apology is given in a sarcastic tone with an eyeroll and a sigh, then followed by several excuses. The conclusion is usually "I'm trying my best!"
I wouldn't attempt to make someone apologize. That is something that needs to be authentic and genuine. You don't want to attempt to operate from a place of control. Because that isn't a form of love either. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN.
@@ladennayoung2939true, but if someone can’t apologise authentically, then they aren’t really sorry, and so you shouldn’t accept their substitutes for an apology either
The “I changed my mind you better hush up before I change again.” Hits the same in English or Spanish 😅
Facts 😂😂😂😂
Jajajajajaja
Now as an adult, my mom still does this. I don't get an apology, I get food.
I'm raising her grandkids, and she still regresses to apology by food... Smh
I guess it's old people pride....like they know they wrong, but don't wanna show.
Sounds like you are on to a good thing😂 free food 👍
Say thank you Bri.. 😂
I get asked to do favors instead of an apology 😂
I apologized and was blessed with a mother that apologized. My dad apologizes, too, after a long while.
'After a long while'😂
@@sherei9530 That got me too. Lol
So so true I’m guilty of doing this with my son 😂😂
You’re so lucky. My parents have never apologized to me for anything.
@@sherei9530 That made me crack up too😂
TOTALLLLY ACCURATE.. You hit that one on the Mark!!!loved it..😂😂👌🏽👍😁
❤ the wig on point, and I love the calmness with 98% rude. Lmao
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Accurate. My mom used to come in the room with a plate of food she had fixed and be like "do you want this?" In a real sassy tone.
Wow I literally just had 10 piece chicken nuggets from McDonald's 5 minutes ago
@@jenniferoviawe 🙄
😂😂😂😂
@@calired2473 ?
Facts 😂
"I changed my mind, you better hush up"... I'm dying. 😂
I thought u said I couldn't go....
😂
Tha was my Mum!
My daughter with her 3 boys and daughter she stay taking her daughter iPhone.😂
😂😂😂
It’s the foot dragging in the beginning for me lol😂😂😂😂😂😂
My mom always admits to her wrongs and don't mind apologizing. I am so grateful for her and her teachings.
May God bless you and your mother. Amen.
you are so lucky my moms holds grudges talks about me to every family member calls me out my name and then wants to put me out in the cold
I cant even imagine what that would be like 😂
This is me to my kids 😊
@@khasper_theghost ❤😊
As a mother, I apologize to my children and hold myself accountable, but I'm also the queen of don't open your mouth and block your blessings.
That is literally my mom.
bam bam😂
Thank you for that. Mine never does and it hurts so bad
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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🗣 No fault will EVER be admitted 😅 you better take that food and the phone and be happy
Don't question why she being nice either. Or she'll take it back 😅
😂😂😂
EXACTLY!
I’m surprise she didn’t tell you to clean anything up because she was looking around😅
She is saving that for tomorrow 😂❤
He’s a really good actor. Subtle, nuanced genuine.
And his music parodies are amazing, too!! Guy truly has talent in spades
He is truly gifted 😊
YES YES THAT IS IT
Jay is a new comedy star!
Fr
“McDonald’s chicken nuggets”✋😭❤️
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Ya better keep it simple 😅
@@CourtneyCastle7774you right about that 😅
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@@CourtneyCastle7774 no playin lol!
That head-rub with that weak explanation means = I was dead wrong, that wasn’t about you but I’m allergic to saying “I’m sorry” to a child 😂
😂😂😂😂... 🤣
This 1 here!!! That was theee most accurate part🤣🤣
YASSSSSS!!!!
For real.
This touched my heart if this doesn't remind 😢of my mama when I was a kid goodness gracious I miss her❤❤❤❤
My mom apologized, and still does; I’m grateful for the self-accountability.
you had a good one!
I felt very fortunate even as a child that both of my parents were willing to apologize when they felt guilty about something. An actual, "I'm sorry." They also would ask to eat food they knew I bought with my own allowance if they wanted it. Of course I would never tell them 'no.' They were accountable for what they did. I am grateful.
@Heart of Yemalla that's amazing!❤
That is wonderful. I wish we all could have had that experience.
That's a blessing to feel grateful for. My mother always reacted this way and still does in her 70s.🤦♀️
Waaayyyy to accurate😂. But, we doing better than our parents now. And apologizing to our child/children when we are wrong 😊👏🏿
Proud of you for realizing the need for improvement! 💜
It still stings a lil bit tho… 😏😂
Yes we do. 💯😁😃
ABSOLUTELY! Gotta love our people! Getting better every day!🙌✊👏👏
Yes yes
We do?!😅
Jay, you nailed it!!! This is so real ❤
Mama will never SAY sorry, but she will SHOW you 💯
Lol right?? Even my mom is white & I’m a lil older and still does that when she’s in the wrong lol I think it’s very universal lol ❤
This is the best short comedy show I ever seen! This guy is hysterical!!!!
Then when she leave the room I tell my brothers, “ Look at her feeling all bad and stuff. I don’t know who she think she is anyways…”😩
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SAME lol
This was my mom growing up. It's why no matter how uncomfortable it may be for me, I apologize to my kids when I'm wrong. It's important for your kids to know you make mistakes too. Once I realized my mom wasn't perfect, it changed my whole perspective.
I do too! I talk to my daughter and apologize as well. I try to be the best i can but once in a blue moon, i lose my cool😢
Let me guess.. you want to be a mom and be a friend with your kids? And you think you are a better parent? Haha..
I am happy that my mom being my Mom and not my friend. (My opinion)..
@@marcvu4379 Not at all. I don't even think the idea of being my kid's friend plays into this at all. I want to be a mom that teaches my kids what accountability for one's self looks like by being a model of that. I want my kids to understand that the rules I put in place for them are to keep them safe and help them become the best people they can possibly be, but sometimes I get it wrong, because I'm human and that's OK. But then as a decent human being who can learn and grow from their mistakes, I should be able to acknowledge when I'm wrong and be accountable. And do better next time. I don't know about you, but that's a lesson I want my kids to learn. As parents, we sometimes make the mistake of thinking we can teach just by speaking, but kids watch what we do and that's more likely what they pick up. So I try to be the person I want my kids to grow up to be. But hey to each his own. 🤷🏾♀️
@@annagarcia1527 We all do. If you're a mom who doesn't lose her cool sometimes I want your secret! Lol. All we can do is our best, sounds like you're an awesome mom. ♥
@@tiffanylawson9551 AMEN and I fully support this message! I apologise to my children too - they respect you more and learn humility, how to apologize themselves and that no one is without fault. It also teaches them to know they are valuable and their feelings count so they are then able to empathize with others. You are doing it well Mama👈🏽💯💜
I just straight up tell my kids “I’m sorry.” I want them to know parents make mistakes too and I own up to them.
On point!!😂🎉
"Phone back, a movie AND your choice of Burger King or McDonald's"...mama was feeling real generous and empathetic in her apology!! 😂😂😂
That tax check must of hit her account 😂😂
I start hollerin when I saw your post ❤ too accurate
she must have messed up big earlier lol XD
How bout Chik FIL A? MAC Donald's lol
My heart is smiling, it's hard being a Mom and a Child, talking is everything. Lets roll🎉🎉
This made me laugh and cry at the same time. So true….I’ve learned to break this cycle and apologize verbally and physically with hugs and kisses.
makes me laugh and cry too
I’m still working on this one! 😅😂
We love to hear it!
I love this. ❤️
The Only Bad Thing About That Is It Makes Them Soft So The Next Time They Get Yelled At It'll Hurt Worse, When Apologizing Like In The Video It Keeps A Balance Toughing Them Up But Disciplining Too
He is a genius. He manages to grasp the essence of what went on daily in many of our households as kids. The good and the bad. Looking back as an adult, I have realized we got use to a lot of negative toxic behaviors from our family as kids.
Yes
Yep
I lived in an Hispanic household. My stepdad was cuban mom Dominican, Iykyk smh. But i was always in trouble for some reason and we had real punishments no tv and in your room. Well i used to grab a book and go sit on the hallway stairs and sometimes they would just walk right pass me but their forgiveness was go watch tv. I used to hop up so fast. Worked every time lol
Awww❤
The walk and the sound of the slippers..😂😂
As A Black Mother when I was wrong I sincerely apologized to my children, and then did what I could to make it right. Being human, I understood that I could be wrong and or mistaken.
I apologize to my 4 year old. How can expect them to learn when and how to apologize if you don't show them.
@@vsuleelee804 🎤 drop. They go! Be the mama yo child deserves!
Exactly.
Wow... I wish. Matter of fact, I don't think I EVER heard I'm sorry my whole life...🤔
Same any color love 🎉
I apologize to my son, because i needed to hear it back then. My mom apologizes now, she’s truly grown in Christ and it helps me be a better believer and person every day.
Why this comment make me cry 😭
That makes me so happy to hear! ❤
That’s beautiful! ❤
In Christ??? I hope you are being sarcastic
@@tiffanymoore1795 your disbelief doesn't change Our mighty God. ( I will not engage any further)
Hahahahaha so accurate. “Better hush up before I change my mind”
the anxiety spiked in me when the mom got irritated while trying to make things good 😂😂😂😂
Omg! He is so talented. His depiction of black moms is always on point. He deserve to be at 1mil subs.
I love the one where the grandma give the money all balled up
He's really good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍
And it's to our shame really. The accuracy of the lack of kindness and grace shown to black children is disturbing.
Same pattern of apology for my Nigerian mom🤣🤣🤣🤣 So accurate. Till date, I've learned a person's actions matter more than their words.
Very well said. It’s their actions and not necessarily their words. This is so a copy of my mom 🥹🥹… this made my day 😂
Yep
Same as South African mums 🤣🤣🤣 here's that thing I saw at the mall it was on sale.....we goin to get groceries are u staying behind all bored come with us..... absolutely no " Im sorry" 😂😂😂😂😂
Facts 💯
Don't be calling us out!
My Kenyan mom apologizes in the same pattern. She couldn't work out a proper apology to save her life😊. But her way of saying sorry was to cook your favorite food or buy you something. We learnt her emotional cues like computer codes.
Same here! I think it's an African thing. Usually it's food. The apology can last for a day or two. Like food and maybe asking what you want and being nice to you but you're still careful what you say and do so you don't make them mad.😂
My mom is also Kenyan and we experienced the same thing with my brother lol 😅
What....she picks up something from the dollar store 😂
probably true about our moms, no matter where in the diaspora our family lines landed.😄 & yours is one of the best replies ever! got u a thumbs up from me! 🤗🧚🏾♀️
@@SUGAR_XYLER Only Americans like cheap junk.
Broooo, the sound of the slippers on the ground gave me some much stress and anxiety 🤣🤣
This is my Italian Mum. Apologising by not really apologising but offering to feed you your favourite by way of apology. The dialogue on this clip is scarily accurate, as is the passive-agressive slip-slap of the slippers.
YES, Old School.
This is Universal. Lol
My arab mom too.
What on Earth, does European mothers have to do with the topic of this video? This is not about your experience as a non-black person.
@@deamorebeaute2412 Abeg, chill. Let people be. Black people don't have sole ownership of this experience. Oh, and this is coming from a black person who DID NOT experience this kind of behaviour from my parents.
My mom would just walk into my room and go "...you want a sandwich?"
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😂😂😂 LOL yes both are truly black moms way to say I'm sorry just beat your ass you just stopped crying now she walk upstairs talking about "You hungry you ready to eat..." 😂
😂🤣hilarious!
@@BendyLilZebraBabe 😅 They keep it moving
I was like I bet she gonna ask if she wants food 🤣😂
The greatest olive branch. ❤
How can you even know this??? You have the gift of insight man!! Spot On
I want to win the lottery and get this baby to write an entire movie so I can sponsor him . He is on point every time. ❤❤❤❤
He's on point every time, after making 30 takes
@@bartbullock9742 because actual movies don't have a bunch of takes?
guess those Hollywood movies be getting it right everytime on the very first take eh...
His acting skills are impressive. Someone should cast him in something.
@Donna Thedead That's right! If I had movie producer money, I would too. This guy is talented AND has got some range, yes? (I was in Theater Club in high school, back in the early 80's - went they spent $ on that stuff. Hope most public high schools still have it! That's how I knew that phrase "range" - Now I wish I took Computer classes/club!
Whoops, WHEN they spent $ on that stuff. Little typo there!
Parents apologizing to us:”Come eat.”😂
lol
Basically 🤷🏾♂️
I felt that 😂
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 my house.
Omgggg this really is true, as a black mom I must say you have to make it normal to Apologize to your child when you are wrong or over reacted. 🥰🥰🥰💝💝💝💖
Yes, exactly. I made sure to apologize to my daughter and tell her when I was wrong/overreacted.
Their is no such thing as normal ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This!!!!
You are so good at this. Comedians create such an accurate depiction of people and you have black women down.
'Let's get Mcdonalds' is the universal Parent language for 'i'm sorry' no matter what race or gender you are.
My mum would take me to the local bakery and get me whatever I wanted. But her entire demeanor was very similar to what he shows in this video 😂😢😭
I did appreciate the gesture tho… a lot. My best memories with her are our bakery breakfasts. We would just stay quiet and eat, and you could see that it made her feel better to see me really enjoy the food and the moment.
@@WhoWho569 Awww
Yelp😂💯
LMAOOOO
@@WhoWho569 yes lol
As mom of a now 17 year old and 11 year old learning to apologize to my kids when I mess up has helped heal my inner child in ways I never thought possible. And it also helps them to know that no matter how old you are no one’s perfect we all make mistakes and admitting that helps you grow. It starts with the example we set as parents. Love these skits
That's so beautiful ❤️
Reaching hew levels of enlightenment ❤ I fully agree. I too have a 17 year old son and 11 year old daughter, an I'm not afraid to get my knees a little dusty when I do something wrong.
Good for you He's showing us how we lived it.
OMGOSH the sheer ACCURACY of it all!! And sometimes my mama would give me a little "mama sorry" 😂😂
😂😂😂 Right! 🎯 In 3rd person so still not taking full accountability but you'd better take what you can get. 🤣
OHHHH...YA GOT ME!! WITH THAT...Mums sorry...But don't make me mad at you again!! 😂😂😂
I had a white mom growing up, but I also had a black step mom growing up, I was a sensitive child and didn't understand why my step mom was the way she was, but as an adult, I now know that it wasn't nothing against me, it is just the way she was and I was like her own! God bless my dad's widow.
So many times now, I wish😢 that I could hear my Mom's voice once again. You all enjoy your Mothers now while she's still here with you.
❤condolences ❤
I will try to be kinder to my mom...thanks for the muxh needee reminder😢
@1god2savem3 : Have a Happy Mother's Day. 💞
hugs, she's still with you, just in different form
@ashleyen3 : In spirit ✨️ Yes, she's in the spiritual realm now. A mother's love ❤️ will last you a lifetime. I works with Geriatrics. And there are many who can remember their Mother's, if nothing else
Stay sweet. Love you.
There is a sweet tenderness to this that made me think I was watching an Oscar nominated film. I'm calling it "My Sweet Sugar Baby".
Right, I was invested! Thinking it was real for a minute lol
360* spot on 100% spot on😂
It was a whole mood, too short tho 😂😊😂
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Love it , the aggressive apology but the love is there 😂😂😂
My mother passed in a car accident and my young nana raised me, these skits are so friggin good, the "life alert" one was absolutely a riot, they're all good. My nana was from Riverton Park in Portland Maine, poor, most of her younger DayZ and she had that attitude- her way or the highway, she tell you to jump, you say, "how high??" Now a DayZ the whole family has emotional intelligence because of tradejeds bringius together and DBT classes and she's still badass at 76, but last week she came out with, "Davie can't fight his way out of a wet paper bag" lmao. I've always enjoyed light funnies about black culture and the makers of this content are brilliant. Well done. Very well done. Creative & classy.
This is beyond accurate lmfao. I grew up with a Dominican mother and it was just like this. Miss her dearly. 🥹🤣🤍
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may she Rest In Peace! God Bless!
I give you both a virtual Oscar for your roles.
Never
This is so true. Black parents apologise with actions, not words 😂😂
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That robe is everything!!!😂❤
I went straight to the comments! 😂We were all raised the same and being intentional with our children to change the cycle 😅 ❤
I feel this 💝
❤❤❤ yes lord🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's Not that serious we knew they humbled themselves and were being extra nice because they were Sorry. _That was a whole other Generation_ that raised kids with Manners & God. *Too bad Today's Generation is being raised by their Soft-Azz Best Friends* who they talk back to. Parents shouldn't be as tough as the previous Generation but my Goodness. They are messing up Big time Today. *It shouldn't go from one extreme to the next.*
@@TheBrownIslandit’s honestly yall that’s mentally sick and choose not to get help and hurt your children now move
@@TheBrownIsland Not all parents I have a little old school mixed with the new school you can't fully be old school because you can't lie to these kids now of days with all this technology and kids that isn't been raised right so you have to do 50/50 to get better results and my child has had God in her life since the womb I got Baptist all over again
This has passed through many generations 😭🤣🤣🤣
I broke that with my kids. I apologized all the time I messed up with them.
I broke the pattern, too.
So damn accurate I grew up with my step mom is black she ain’t play not one bit but she has a heart of gold . This reminded of her 🥹
You gotta live to understand this type of love.
💯 seen some things...over generations.
All the new generation just goes to the therapy
Not the love for me
@@tahirahshabazz50 as you get older and grow, we know better than our parents, and it is up to us to eventually teach them as well by demonstrating
Nope. I have lived and I have no issue saying sorry, I apologize, mommy loves you, etc. I explain to them why I do certain things. They're not dumb.
I'm surprised she didn't find something for you to clean up cuz she was lookin around🤣🤣
After you get back from eating then she will say something about it
@@marthajackson6340 😂😂😂
*This is so freaking Accurate!* Being all nice with a soft voice and allowing you to do things & go places you were told NO you can't go and the ride along to get you something to eat.
Moms period😅
I’m kinda glad he didn’t show up to share the explosion before that.. that we’re apologizing for!🤣 filipina/white Mom of 5… living that life!😘 ~Sheeara, Alaska
Utterly amazing. Accurate asf
@Shii Wak I think Mum's in Britain need to go back to a little more of this. Family parenting ❤️. Fascinating cultural history you must have. Mum's know it's tough
Mum's know it's important to keep respect. You better hush up ... mum tired. I love it.
Mom cant just say "Im sorry" They have to say "Yuh Hungry?" thats when u know
“I’m TIRED!”, is a truly understandable statement, as a Mom myself. It encompasses so much…
.. not just in black families but this right here is grade A narcissism and most of us in black families don’t even realize this is dead wrong to do to your kids. Smh.. never will treat my kids this way. This reenactment was so spot on that it hurt lol
First of all she punished him because he did something he shouldn't have done. She's giving him privileges back early because she felt bad.
Now, that's a mistake because parents should stick to the punishment. But to call her a narcissist is absolutely wrong. A narcissist doesn't feel bad about anything, doesn't have remorse, and does not feel empathy. Your judgment is harsh and wrong.
So true then as the kids get older they get mad about how they are. I wonder where it came from. That was not an apology. Messed up adults can raise messeds up kids and sometimes turn into messed up adults. Break the cycle.
@@karmakat7710
We don’t know the backstory of the skit, but not all narcissists are so cut and dry like that … Some have narcissistic tendencies, but aren’t full blown “narcissists”. My white mother was extremely narcissistic in her parenting, but possessed certain qualities outside that textbook description … The point here is that a parent should lead by example, which means humbling themself to apologize, without passive aggression and ego.
You know they feel bad when they b knocking on your door, waiting for you to say come in, and the classic phrase “you hungry baby?” 😂
bruh I swear I almost started crying
My mom did that al.the time
Thank you 4 bringing me bitter sweet memories🙄🤗🤗🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The slippers clunking OMG ❤ nailed it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣