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@CassandraBankson can u tell me where u got that little gold 🦋 butterfly necklace ❤️ I think that is gorgeous. Butterfly r the symbol of transformation, if u didn't know that look it up.. 🙀 I hope I taught u something bc u teach me knew things every day 🤟❤️
Have you ever thought about using Acutane? That medicine works wonders and you would be a perfect candidate for it. Talk to your dermatologist if you haven’t used it.
Don't take this wrong, but you could play the part of Ruby Franke when they make a movie about that whole story. There's quite a resemblance.
I can't listen to vocal fry. Sorry. It's a choice. You can choose not to do it.
My grandmother used to say "aging is a privilege denied to many." And boy was she right.
Ya but alot of us don't like or want the reality - it's painful and terrifying.
Oof, it's definitely true. Those who don't have the privilage to grow old want it and those who do hate it
@@codewick8985can’t escape reality.
@@misakiaobathehedgehog Decline is not enjoyable - losing beauty is not enjoyable, skin/crepe hanging is not enjoyable. But yes I thank God every morning I wake up that I'm still here.
Bitter. Sweet
@@Sarafara7 😥
I have had body dysmorphia my whole life. I feel like these filters are giving EVERYONE body dysmorphia and it is awful.
Maybe y'all should get more confident and stop blaming them for your insecurtiesif
@@jcbrad4709If there aren’t people judging and bringing people down for their appearance then nobody would feel insecure in the first place.
@@jcbrad4709 you completely missed the point
*DO YOU NOT NOTICE CASSANDRA HAS THE CERULEAN BUTTERFLY EVERYWHERE. THERE IS ONE AROUND HER NECK!!!* COME ON!
As I always say...perfection is overrated. You are a gorgeous human. It is very sad that being human is no longer good enough.
I’m 53 years old and suffered from horrible big cysts that would disfigure my face sometimes… I would look in the mirror and break out in tears. Back then the only advice you got was to dry out your skin with alcohol or benzoyl peroxide, oily skin was taboo!! Or so I thought… Thanks to you Cassandra I have learned about double cleansing and products that can irritate the skin and learning that I have sensitive skin… my skin is now happy and healthy 🙌 you are the face of beauty Cassandra ❤ and I thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏🏻🦋🦋
As a teenager in the 90's I used to cut out photos from magazines of the beautiful features of models and celebrities I wanted to look like. Mine wasn't to do with facial beauty but their bodies. I suffered with eating disorders and body dysmorphia right through to my mid 20's
hope you have self esteem now, and don't have to worship another human for no reason.
You are stunning! So happy you don’t use filters. I wish there were more influencers not using filters, and changing every single aspect of their bodies. We are not plastic dolls frozen in time, we are human.
Love and respect you girl! ❤❤❤
I’m 30 and still have a hard time comparing myself to others . Especially comparing me to the older more mature skin women I love to watch who have experience and usually were or still are professional makeup artists . Their skin has no wrinkle insight while im starting to get lined under my eyes. I always have to reassure myself that in RUclips videos the influencer usually is farther away from the camera as well. Which is ironic bc I think I look way better from afar then up
Close. Sometimes I’m too scared to get to close to the mirror so I stand back further so at least the illusion makes me feel pretty and good about myself. I’m terrified for my now 8 year old
Daughter to grow up in this world of fake filters and unhealthy beauty standards. That’s why I love watching you so much bc your authentic and make me n others feel okay and normal to have flaws . So thank you Cass for being YOU and no one else ❤❤
I get it. But when you're 40, you'll think, "I was so silly when I was 30." And when you're 50, you'll think, "I was so silly when I was 40." It's an endless cycle. Just be happy in the skin that you're in. Easier said than done, I know, but faces have wrinkles and that's totally normal. It doesn't even mean that you're "old." I started going gray at 18. So did my brother. It's just genetic.
If you're interested in advice, my number one thing to tell you is DON'T TAN. You watch Cassandra, so you probably already know this, but I can't stress it enough. I didn't tan when I was younger because I couldn't. My two skin color options are either ghost or lobster...There is no in between. So I've been using 100 SPF my whole life. (No joke, I really use 100. LOL) But it was a blessing in disguise because I don't have a lot of wrinkles and I'm going to be 45 this year. But I have some and I get new ones every day and I'm OK with that. I'm supposed to have them. I started taking tretinoin to try to fight the "signs of aging" and my skin still looks pretty good, but one day it won't and that's OK. I was just hanging out with my 86 year old aunt last weekend and do you think she gives a F about wrinkles?! No way! 🤣 She's just living her life enjoying her time with her daughter and her granddaughter while she still has it. She would tell you that worrying about wrinkles is a total waste of time, and I agree.
Hey I got wrinkle at 22/23 as my mother loved to point out! It's partly genetic (I'm also getting whiter by the minute). It shows we have emotions, like Cass said ❤
I've never really had a problem with feeling bad because of celebrities, but I often feel bad, because my dad sees such photos and tells me I have acne (And I don't have a lot, only a few pimples here and there) because I don't wash my face enough or properly. Only now I found out it's natural to have some (especially during the menstrual cycle)! I was born with light yellow teeth, but to him I have yellow teeth because I don't know how to brush them. He also didn't allow me to use antiperspirant in summer, because I was sweating only because I didn't wash myself enough and I was using it to cover the smell. But he was using one! And I found out everybody sweats + I actually sweat more because of my dysautonomia, can't influence it no matter what I do. Washing myself twice or even once a day should be enough, unless I'm sporting, which I can't do anyway. Or that I don't wash my hair enough because it gets greasy quite soon after I wash it (my hair is almost above the knees, it's -again- normal for hair to do that. He didn't know it was harmful, but I felt so bad during puberty because of it. :// Never told anyone before today actually 🙈
That sounds kind of abusive. My mom did very similar things and she's a sociopath.
@@amberblack6908 I'm sorry to hear about your mum :c He always says he means well and now when I explained to him how it makes me feel, he does it way less often (and says that he's trying not to do it at all), but it still feels hurtful to me tbh :// He just strives for perfection all the time (I think it might be, because our lives are far from perfect, my mum (and I) is sick all the time and nothing we do goes as planned - and we're very likely both autistic, (I'm getting tested in August, my dad doesn't want to) planning is very important to him)... but yeah.. I'd be so much more comfortable and confident if he complimented me instead, at least half the time 🙈 He's quite negative about everything:c
Everything u described is perfectly normal for the human body! The talk u describe from your dad unfortunately sounds like emotional and verbal abuse. U sound like a lovely spirited person thou. U defend him even thou he doesn’t sound particularly kind to u. Just know that u r a beautiful person inside. Your worthy. I hope that someday your know just how worthy u r.
@@Allthingscrafty-u8n Aww thank you so much, you seem very sweet 💗 I think my dad really means well, but yeah, it's usually difficult to cope with ://
I’ve never used a filter, not because I’m against people using them. I just don’t see what you gain from using them. Yes you look “perfect” in the photo but you are still you when you look into a mirror 10 sec later. I truly believe that it’s our little imperfections that make us beautiful. 💕
2:08 Cassie you look breathtaking. Your hair looks stunning
This was such a real and honest discussion here Cassandra. As an esthetician my self I always aim for my clients and myself to have the most healthiest skin as possible not PERFECT skin but healthy skin. I saw the unfiltered photo of beyonce and felt if her fans saw that they would immediately go in defense mode claiming she is perfect and that the non filtered photo was some how photo shopped. Unfortunately people’s minds have because warped over celebrities and the defensiveness when someone shows how we are all imperfectly perfect.
Don't engage with it-- that's the solution. Watch a few videos to see how fake it is, then quit it. You'll feel tons better, and have extra time to do something worthwhile.
There is also a world of difference between beautiful in photos and in person. The makeup must be completely different.
I feel the same. I know they don't look like this, but I do compare myself all the time and start spiraling. I get myself out of it quite fast, but I'm almost 40 years old. I know that I would have not done this in my twenties. I also started wearing less make up to stop hiding my natural self.
I am fascinated by the amount of makeup women use today. Maybe if they stopped wearing foundation, their acne would clear up. I found this worked for me.
I find peace that I'm already at that stage where filtered photos simply not look attractive to me, at all, no matter how "perfect" they look. Blurred out pores look so unreal to me, i get intimidated by such pictures. I love tiny details that makes us all humans ❤
Everyone looks like a duplicate of each other. It's like everyone wants a mirror image of someone else and being unique has gone out of fashion.
Thank you for your comment!! I couldn't agree with you more, unique is lost but let's bring it back, you look uniquely lovely!! Have a great day!!
THIS should be shown in every health class in every school, from grade 4-12, everywhere!
I’ve seen a couple of your videos and truthfully, you look like your filter! Your filters just look like you have a lot of make up on! You’re stunningly beautiful. ❤
I can not tell the difference between filter you and other you tbh! Beautiful person u are!
I just try to look the best I can for me, at this time in my life. That's good enough for me. People see me in real life, not just on social media. I can't wear a filter on my face when I'm out with husband, family, and friends. In addition, I don't feel the need to talk badly about what others feel they need to do to feel presentable in public. That's their prerogative, and more power to them.💪 Comparison/external validation is the kiss of death to insecure women. I say stop comparing and be thankful for what you've got whether someone says you look good or not. 😊❤😊❤
I am honestly much happier since I reached my late 30's, I never had this level of contentment in my younger years. Aging is nothing to worry about ❤
I’m blessed with nice skin *most* days, and get compliments all the time… But I have raging dermatitis that flares up all the time. I always show off pictures of my worst skin days and tell them “go see a dermatologist” for the best recommendation for your skin.
Cassandra, I love your whole outfit btw! Hair, dress, lashes, necklace, etc. All of it! 😍
I’ve been watching you since you were sitting on the floor in front of your flower print sofa… loved and respected you back then, and I love and respect you now more than ever. Not that it’s all about the feels, but I do feel a little bit better about myself after watching your videos. You can be so goofy and realistic, and you don’t care if others might say negative things about you, you just come out grinning and say what’s on your heart. Thank you, from one beautiful butterfly to another. 🦋
This is an eye opener, very important to discuss and spread the awareness not to trust what we see in media nowadays and to embrace our raw/natural human beauty not AI beauty because that is artificial not real.
you do Not need filters! thank you for being you and being honest
God what a breath of fresh air you are!!! Telling it straight. Bravo sister 👏
You’ve probably saved lives with theses videos! Keep it up!
Thank you for your honesty! More females NEED to see this!
Thank u love, not only me but u saved all the girls who watched this. Thank u :)
I'm getting closer of getting rid of acne, and my rosacea is pretty undercontrol. I STRUGGLE being out and when I notice people look at me. I'm ok looking, in my opinion but it makes me freak TF out. I do NOT use social media because I know how I can spiral. It is refreshing to see and to also remember that everyone has skin texture. And that filters are there. Thanks for the video
I am 15 and buried behind a book literally 24/7 , i dont have a phone or a social media account. I really have no idea what this trend is and i am glad i don't have friends to measure up to or any role models to aspire or imitate
This was so helpful, thank you so much for taking the time to make this video.
I'm honestly starting to develop trust issues solely based on the fact that so many people with an online presence uses these filters. It is absolutely insane that we can now filter in real time in a video! 😮
I forgot that I used to do that as well. I would just stay up at night on weekends and just stare at women and places and save beautiful images.
this video is the mental therapy on so many levels for all the girls crazy about having flawless skin.
Beauty is objective. It has always been. You have your tastes, sure. But beauty is not in the eyes of the beholder. It is mathematical, timeless and universal.
No, you are totally normal. I grew up feeling the same way and still do some days.
In the 80's and 90's, I'd cut out pictures of beautiful faces, bodies, even body parts from magazines like Seventeen, 16, TeenBeat, Glamour, Mademoiselle, and glue them inside of my main notebook for school. I was a huge daydreamer so whenever a lesson bored me, I'd open up the pages and dream away - dream that I was going to be like that one day. So I exercised like crazy, counting calories, always 'on a diet' as a teen ager, and not understanding 'why am I not like that? Even if (maybe) photoshop didn't fully exist back then, it never occurred to me that these girls are 1 in a thousand, that they have tons of make up on, special lighting, professional photographers etc. Even today, my relationship with food and exercise is not healthy.
It might not have been photoshop exactly but there have been ways to manipulate photos since the camera was invented. My dad showed me a photo of a guy in his 1950's yearbook. In the yearbook he had perfect teeth but my dad had the same photo with him missing a front tooth. Photos have always been edited so we should never compare ourselves to them.
I am 55 , using social media only for the past 15yrs but Ive posted 100s of profile photos & videos etc & I have never , not even once, used a filter. I dont even know how to do it, I have not ever felt the need to look into how my phone can fake my appearance, no matter how ill I became, how much weight Ive gained or older Ive begun to look. Its life!
Personally I would feel mortified to post myself looking fit & gorgeous & then bump into my friends looking my usual self.& know they are snickering. I just dont get why people who are not making money from their appearance would bother to filter their photos as a routine habit ... its a strange pre-occupation to me & Id rather just pick a photo that I believe I look good in to post. Sometimes Ive had to take a few before im happy to post a pic, but Id never think of faking it all together.
I know exactly what you're talking about. I never realized how it can make you look younger. I've been watching this lady on RUclips called Twisted Gypsy. She does Temu and Dollar tree hauls. She's 50 plus years old and I was amazed how young she looks until I saw her thumb nail photos her face and skin looked so different. I don't see anything wrong with showing who we are . If we all started embracing that I think our insecurities will decrease tremendously.
Haha! I know! It’s sad when we are sitting there being jealous about our own picture with filters!
Is that Haley Kalil on the thumbnail?! Girl is everywhere!
You are such a sweet and earnest person, and I love it so much. ❤
Honestly I don’t remember knowing about pores when I was a teenager and 20s…. Knew about clogging pores and hair follicles but no one ever talked about or thought about their pore size. 😳 why’d they have to create a whole new face problem that most of us can’t change. 😢
so i was never gonna take a good selfie lol
You have my mind 😭😂 I swear people always think I look younger than I am but yet I still feel like my skin needs to be tighter better ect
Sweetheart, u r gorgeous. U DO NOT need filters. Ur real. Thats why we luv u. U have it all going for u. Ur heart is true, ur kind and generous with ur time. U r wonderful just the way u are. Ur skin is amazing, u make us laugh, ur just purrfect the way u r. Honestly u r beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That girl in 8:42 is an amazing girl... Yes she uses filters because she make fun about those influencers who claim that they never use filters... but she is like you very honest with everything, even with the plastic surgery she had
Hi there and thank you so much for your comment. I agree, she's adorable!!
@@CassandraBankson hi Cassandra! Thank you for the reply... Just wanna tell you thank you so much for everything you do for us... I learned and still learning a lot from you. I always suffered from body dysmorphia and social media made it really worse. Because of you, I started to understand not everything we see isn't true. No one is flawless. We all have some issues on our bodies and it's totally normal. I started feel better about myself, and that helped me mentally. Now I'm focusing improving my health in general, and take care of skin and hair by eating healthy, working out, and using products that would help with some issues I have. I see improvements in my health and that makes me very happy. Thank you so much again.
Crazy how every time you speak the truth, it makes sense to me but as soon as I start scrolling, I forget and think "Why don't I look like them?"
really need to set my mind straight.
Wow I never actually realised that most people use filters - I’ve just REALLY focused on the health of my skin for years now (thinking it was all normal😂)
Be real . I'm gonna validate you do not be terrified.
We don't hate you.❤
Really nice to meet you, I -and surely many others- appreciate your video.
Not being good enough doesnt get better if everyone else looks perfect and youre the only different one
You are so beautiful the way you are. I think you look better natural than the filtered picture. ❤
I remember feeling awful and developing eating disorders when I was a teen and into my early twenties because my body (petite and very hourglass) looked nothing like any of the models in any magazine. They were all tall, with smaller breasted, no butt, no hips, no thighs, all visible ribs, etc. All the heroine chic and androgynous models were the beauty standard. Plus, I had vitiligo so good luck feeling good about my skin. Seeing more athletic looking and/or more voluptuous looking women in magazines made quite a difference
Happened upon you by mistake.., (I was looking at hjow to make marzipan!) enamored of your attitudes towards beauty and filters . New subscriber.
They’re not lying. They know we know they’re human.
There is way too much emphasis on vanity rather than character nowadays. The worst part is that it isn’t men pushing us to use filters and get facelifts. It’s other women. Gotta let that stuff go and enjoy life!
Ding, ding, DING.
Aloha, ty for this great video. These crazy, almost sick beauty trends have got to tone down a bit. Even as a teenager in the 1960’s, big breasts were sooooo important and breast augmentation was not very common. I too wish that things would get more real.
You're looking beautiful today! Thanks for your honesty yayyy🎉
I think it would be so nice if big companies who do ads, and newspapers and magazines were forbidden to filter/edit pictures.
You are great! A fantastic message so many, especially young people need to watch! Agree 100% with all yousaid.
In my 20s I felt the pressure to look perfect, this was the 90s world of magazine print beauty but luckily it wasn't everywhere and I chose to honour my natural look vs editing how I looked. Fast forward 15 yrs and internet and social platforms are bombarding the public with perfect images... it's a lot. But anything that makes you feel bad about yourself, is 🚩🚩🚩. Great video discussion 🙌🏼❤
i used to compare myself to media content when i was younger because i just didn’t know about editing, filters, lighting etc. i compare myself a lot less now due to the rise in knowledge about these things, as well as about AI edits and cosmetic treatments and surgeries. but for those who don’t know these things are manipulated to their fullest extent to make photo and video content as “flawless” as possible, it can be super demoralising thinking that they’ll never be able to look that way.
also didn’t know wounds were stitched up in a jagged fashion to make the scar look more natural 🤯 that’s super interesting.
I worked in the beauty industry and dealt directly with models and international beauty queens. 90% of them have terrrible skin. In fact I was shocked just how bad. In one way it boosted my self-confidence because i realized that i look better but on the other hand it was upsetting cause it meant that real-life girls outside runways and fashion magazines glorified someone who wasn't real.
Bravo thank you for this like Krendric Lamar sings “I’m so sick and tired of the photoshop..
Just also the fact that selfies are mirrored, normally...most people are asymmetrical to varying degrees. So when you see a selfie taken with the front camera, meeting the person in person, there is a chance they would look a bit different. Comparison, especially on things we can't confirm are even real can be dangerous and even misleading. Beauty is present in all of us, even though we may struggle to see it.
For those of you wanting to fight acne nutritionally , you need to seriously consider eating beans . Yes , beans . (Except for those with kidney disease or compromised kidneys, in that case , opt for organic psyllium husk).
You need to make it a part of your daily life. The soluble fiber in beans will help to clear excess hormones over time. Of course in addition, do all the other conventional advice as well : plenty of water , sleep , refraining from sugar and caffeine , (even fruit , or at least drastically reduced) don’t use perfumes or scented products both personal and home , etc.
your hair is so cute
Glasses off- natural filter on
I have astigmatism 😅
Thank you very much for this! I needed the reminder. Also, I love your hair! It looks so cute on you! I'm going to have to put my curls up like that now! 😍🥰💖💖💖
Your such a beautiful soul I love your energy so much
Your content was so real, blessings, you spoke facts.
you are beautiful sis.
Disappointed the offered solution is to gain likes even when unfiltered. Good god. How ‘bout not posting your selfies?
Haley Kalil makes fun of these kinds of things. That’s her point in so many of her videos. She makes fun of her gorgeous self. She’s awesome.
Entertainment is not supposed to be ‘real’. That’s why it’s entertainment
Cassandra! You look like a princess! So beautiful!
Omg! I used to model and it's All Professional MUA, Lighting and shading, Hair Stylist, To the point of Fashion wear fitted to your Body and of course A Very Amazing Photographer.
(However, If you have all of these, your photos won't need much touching up) filers are being used way out of hand. Touch ups help out A lot. Especially, if someone wants to hire you but not your exposed tattoos, this helps. Even make up helps with that too.
When it goes to just a photo and then straight to the extreme filter; No One is Going to "Really take you seriously and Hire you for Real Work"
Now for Runway and TV & Movies and just on Stage/ Broadway.
You have to have very Heavy Make up done. It's called Stage Make up.
Anyway, filters are getting out of Hand.
Absolutely love this video
I feel like such a dummy. I didn't know about the filters except for the magazines.
Great video. So glad I'm not on social media.
Definitely collected pretty things when I was small. ♪
Well, some people are naturally stunning without the filters but makeup does help some of them A LOT! I don’t ever focus my attention on pores on people’s faces. Just the smooth, spotless face surfaces, the facial features, and so on. Men who salivate over insta models who would throw down any money to get these girls to pay them attention, do not want some gremlin to show up to a date with them. Filters won’t help in situations where it gets real. Yet, those models don’t get dumped as soon as the men see them in person. That means the majority of them really do look like that. Flawless skin, toned body and all that. I don’t compare myself to them, because those ladies are infinitely hotter than me. I know how I rank realistically, with makeup and without makeup. That’s all that’s important is that you’re real with yourself. I know I can still meet a man who’ll be crazy about me looking the way I do. He’s just gonna have to be super old (one foot in the grave) and have a real bad eyesight.
wish i had this at 13 years old
Where we live it's mostly farmers and artists etc so don't see it much at all - but just a few weeks ago saw a woman when we were shopping and could NOT stop staring - not in a good way! She had obviously had a face life, fillers, botox etc and it was like seeing Big Foot to us. It just looked SO un-natural and to be honest - freakish. I have NEVER used filter etc of ANY of my photos. I consider it a lie.
❤❤❤❤❤ if only more people were like you
So you can see what you'd look like if you were perfect. I don't even want to try. My self esteem was destroyed by my family (narcissism, anorexia, abuse and alcoholism was the menu) before I was old enough to consume media. I don't think I'll ever feel normal, despite all the work I've done on myself and therapy
How many times did she use the word "filter"??!😮
thank you! the best video!
It’s not that I don’t want to age I just don’t want to age badly.
Todays kids are literally striving for that look though. The crazy thing is a lot of them are achieving it with products and makeup. It's gotten sooo much worse over the last 2 decades.
The new Charlotte Tilbury x Disney campaign is seriously dangerous. You won’t ever look like a Disney Princess.
I have a very old digicam and I love to not use a filter ...WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET ...that is what I believe in...that does not mean that you shouldn t be your best when you dress and put make up on. I have Photos of myself that look so good that some people would not believe me that I didn t do anything to them...However I want people to see the real me, therefor you can allways see that my skin is not perfect on photos ...I do not want to apear fake...having plastic surgery is not real also but when you take a photo it is what you see, regardless if operated or not ....I do not like to ad or take things away that aren t there in Photos...I hate it when I see commercials wher you can erase people and things such as trees ect ...this is not a photo afterwords..it is a fake
I have been trained too. Classically, Professionally for Modeling.
I want to know the facial thing you are using in this video. I've been looking for one of those.
I honestly need to see aging normalized. It’s such a taboo. Everything is anti-aging like it’s a horrible crime. I’m 53 and struggle with this concept all the time.
Ageism is the last publicly unaddressed/challenged discrimination. Only one of a few recent personal examples is I was told I shouldn't foster anymore kids because I'm "getting on". I retaliated with "that's funny considering I'm good enough when just about everyone wants to dump their kids onto me so that they can go have fun"..they quickly shut-up...😠. All those kinda things in addition to this "in your face" issue (pardon the pun).
Well you look stunning though ❤
I see old people everyday. In REAL LIFE.
Get your mind away from Social Media.
@@CordeliaWagner I couldn’t agree more. I was thinking “I see natural aging everyday”… especially when I look in the mirror 😂 I don’t even KNOW anyone who’s had any procedures! Irl, natural aging is all around us! 💕
Stop struggling do more think less. You are more than your looks. Have fun w filters. I have to wear makeup because I want to look happy. Age makes us look stern
I feel sorry for the younger generation. Now everyone thinks they gotta look like a movie star 24/7 😢
Right?! I feel like I’d have clinical depression if I were a teenager nowadays. Even in my later teens, I didn’t even think that much about my appearance. I just wanted to be outside playing sports or whatever. I just straightened my hair and applied black eyeliner and was good to go. I wore a tshirt and jeans pretty much everyday, and somehow, I never got bullied either. It was just a pretty good time.
Right, it was bad enough with just magazines. I’ve had body image issues since I was 10 and that’s just from the three times a year I’d watch the Disney channel at my grandmas
every other girl is walking around with lip fillers, young girls are so insecure these days it’s sad
@@vareeshabukhari8276 it’s absolutely disgusting.
Even before the internet we had Teen Mag, Vogue, Cosmo and their airbrushed photos to promote consumerism.
I modeled for years! It still messes me up when I see photos of myself (knowing full well I had a hair stylist, nutritionist, personal trainer, medical grade skincare as well as photoshop and editing) and feeling like I don’t look like that anymore. When in reality I never did!!!!
Remember humans look human once you involve yourself in reality!
I had and have the same experience as you ! I remember when I first saw myself in print all photoshopped and realized then even then I didn’t look like me let alone now, many years later!
Same
@@shaynalee exactly
@@KrishanKumar-ec1ch black widow
@@KrishanKumar-ec1chYours?